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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Why don't we change things		techfreedom93	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/22 03:00 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Can't Take the Plunge 31 years is a long time together. Especially in old age with diseases increasing, it's better to have a helper. Please think thrice about divorce after such a long time together and no serious issues like affairs, etc.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/22 02:12 PM
3	Mens Divorce Forum that doesnt totally suck! I'll join your group. We need to band together and change the system.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 08:31 PM
27	Just sick of her and my life. I feel bad for you, but appreciate your sharing your story to guide us unmarried ones.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 08:29 PM
5	Do I have to pay alimony? I make similar amount but still come here to remind to never marry....	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/22 10:38 PM
3	the system creates "deadbeat" dads How will these things change? We men are living miserable lives. I'm single and will never marry in US, but it pisses me to no end why men have no balls anymore? What's the point of modernity if you still can't be fulfilled and have to live a miserable life like this.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/22 06:26 PM
0	I don't know what to do. We went from fathers paying dowry to get rid of their daughters to this. Mankind really went wrong somewhere.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/22 09:25 PM
1	Why don't we change things Brings me comfort. I just believe. It's instinctual for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/22 10:24 PM
1	Looking to Avoid Mistakes in Marriage U can't marry in US. I'm a believing Muslim and really frustrated because of western laws. I'm trying to start am online business and gtfo the west and then marry.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/05/22 02:59 AM
3	STBX finally requesting temporary support (and is crazy) All I can say is I'm grateful to know your story. I make 250k at 28 and I'm glad to say I won't be marrying in this country. I'll make even more one day and I don't want to be in your position.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/22 07:56 PM
0	Think about it a lot I'm not judging but personally I could never tolerate cheating. My self-respect wouldn't allow it. I don't know what to advise you because what's reasonable for me won't be for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 05:29 PM
2	Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you? 15 years. There must've been times when she was vulnerable, affectionate, doting, etc. Human nature is scary.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/22 06:42 AM
1	Whose paying the most alimony in this sub ! Let’s start naming figures boys Please bump here once it's posted. What's your total compensation for 5200 a month?	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/22 06:37 AM
2	I am writing to men that are post divorce because I am humbly asking as a woman for insight. I did not ask for my marriage to end. I am not attempting to take from my stbxh a pound of flesh or parental time. It’s best that you read my post history to see where I am coming from. I am not an enemy. What kind of a wife were you? This is something only he can answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 07:56 PM
5	I am writing to men that are post divorce because I am humbly asking as a woman for insight. I did not ask for my marriage to end. I am not attempting to take from my stbxh a pound of flesh or parental time. It’s best that you read my post history to see where I am coming from. I am not an enemy. We usually hear one side of view in these posts. Curious what your husband to say for himself.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/22 06:25 AM
0	Amazing how much women have changed since I was a teen Men to their detriment gave women rights in every society. If economic hardship comes again, men will collectively take those rights away. In this new world Sodom and Gomorrah, saying truth is rebellious.	/r/MensRights	05/02/22 03:57 PM
-1	I’m (29M) considering divorcing my wife (28F) due to her failure to contribute anything to our marriage financially. Yes, I can support her and I make a pretty good living. My problem is that I should not need to support her at the level that I am, due to the context of our marriage currently. If she's a good wife then money shouldn't be basis for divorce dude.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/22 07:10 PM
7	Experiencing both sexual assault allegations and sexual assault in college Doing drugs was your first mistake. How can you tell if you assaulted or not if you don't remember? Men also have to be accountable.	/r/MensRights	16/01/22 11:21 PM
11	My friend cussed out my ex for cheating and not working to save our marriage. As a result she defriended everyone she was friends with on FB that knew me. She says she didn't cheat. But sounds like an admission of guilt to me. She is running away from her old life for a guy she has known under a yr. If it helps, your story may end up saving some sucker.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/22 07:37 PM
1	Possibility of divorce with spouse who doesn’t earn much income, worried about financial future. No. Fix current society vs taking backwards ideas to other places.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/22 12:51 AM
7	A high school football star had a rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was moved to be dismissed. Where's the outrage over this? Why doesn't media cover this?!	/r/MensRights	11/01/22 04:07 PM
6	A high school football star had a rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was moved to be dismissed. It is Sodom and Gommorah 2.0. I fear a reckoning is coming soon. Wish I knew ahead of time, as I in no part support this evil.	/r/MensRights	11/01/22 04:04 PM
2	Divorce laws Respectfully disagree. Incentivized divorces where dependent spouse gets rewards for breaking the contract makes the whole affair imbalanced. If roommates decided to live together and then go their own ways, why should one roommate have to pay the other what one has earned? It can be said the spouse staying at home, freeloading, getting paid amenities, shelter, food, etc. is already benefitting and deserves nada after divorce because they have already benefitted. If you agree with these absurd w…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/22 03:04 AM
19	Serenity now As the higher earner she should pay your lawyer' fees. You need to show yourself as the dependent. The salary differential is great for you. You should get a competent lawyer and make sure you get ALL of what you're owed as the dependent.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/22 02:33 AM
3	Divorce laws Agreed. Why did we let these absurd laws pass?	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/22 08:14 PM
5	Divorce laws The spouse staying home is benefitting from not having to work and getting free shelter, foods, etc. The sah spouse doesn't deserve anything after divorce since the spouse is already getting benefits of not having to go out and struggle and earn. It's to protect government from welfare we have alimony and asset split laws.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/22 08:13 PM
3	Divorce in NY Don't give her anything not stipulated by a lawyer. Don't give in to her pressure. Don't think of her as your wife now. She is an enemy out to destroy you.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/22 03:24 PM
1	A Brief Analysis of Male Loneliness This exactly. What use is this society if it enslaves the modern man from achieving fulfillment.	/r/MensRights	09/01/22 01:29 PM
17	Sending Love! It doesn't matter what any woman says as long as the laws remain the same. End alimony, default 5050 asset split and no-fault divorce and then maybe marriage will be worth it.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/22 09:11 PM
1	What am I supposed to do? Can you get a job that pays in cash? My pt asks for cash and now it makes sense since he's divorced.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/22 10:15 PM
2	How do you all deal with the financial aspect of starting down the process? I can add to the second part. In most Islamic countries, the law is that the woman decides on a dowry called mahr that she can ask for as condition for marriage. It can be any reasonable amount 100-20k, etc and is for woman's safety. She can ask to immediately get it or request it over the course of marriage. If she initiates divorce, she has to return the mahr. If the husband initiates divorce, she gets to keep the mahr. Aside from this, there is no other separation of money or assets. Whoever …	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/22 10:10 PM
4	Fight for 50/50 or accept 12 days a month? Please for your child's and your own sake, take her to the cleaners!!! You deserve alimony, at least 50 percent of assets and child support. You can use this money to build yourself up--get more education, etc. If the shoe was on the other side, she wouldn't hesitate to go for the throat! Please be smart and not emotional!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/22 08:38 PM
21	Just was told by my wife of 30 years that she has fallen out of love with me I'm so sorry my man. 30 years and they can still do that to you. No loyalty.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/22 05:47 PM
1	How much did you end up paying in child support? After what majority of men go through you better take her to the cleaners for mankind at least. If more women faced these issues, faster these absurd laws would change. Please make sure you get everything and more of what you deserve. No mercy!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/22 07:59 AM