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Yeah that’s the thing. On dating apps many women get the impression that they can get any guy they want because they swiped right on them. What they don’t realize is that such men want them for fun only. I have to admit I experienced that even with my sisters and I am trying to talk some sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:37 AM
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I was searching for this comment. I have two close female friends who are on dating apps for 5+ years . They are getting A LOT of matches daily but they don’t realize that the “top 10%”, the desired men on dating apps don’t take them seriously, so after few months when they receive the message “I am not ready for relationship” they go back, trying to find similar guy as they think it’s their level, but they just need one who is ready for relationship. I think many women on dating apps are super …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:06 AM
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Well that depends where. In Europe being healthy weight is not considered above average. It’s more a norm in most EU countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:31 PM
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Well I both agree and disagree on that. It depends what kind of female friends you ask. The ones you aren’t close with or the ones here on Reddit will tell you the typical “be nice, be confident, treat her well,..” but if you have close female friend she can share some useful tips. My best friend (female) was always a serial dater and heart breaker. We met in our early 20s and I believe I am owe her a lot for the dating success I have. Yes it’s true I was watching her and I listened to her stori…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:30 PM
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It’s indeed dead but she claims she is happy and she doesn’t want to end the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:15 AM
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I agree with you. I just mentioned in one of my other comments that I also don’t always want to have sex. As an example when I come home from my travels (sometimes weeks) and my girlfriend is waiting for me with home cooked meal and in nice lingerie, I am not exactly in mood to have sex after spending 12+ hours on plane but I get myself into the mood because she put the effort and I want her to feel desired and wanted. I work on our sex life, it’s quite easy to get out of the “sex routine” and k…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:55 PM
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Well you don’t seem to be expert either. You should have a look to dead bedrooms sub here and see how unhappy people are if they don’t have regular sex. Maybe i should have phrased it differently, it’s more like I don’t have energy and I am not in mood for sex when I come home from travels but I want my partner to feel wanted and desired especially if she buys new lingerie for me, so even though I would rather go to bed, I still pick having sex with her. Anyways every relationship works differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:45 PM
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Well I don’t know about that. I am also not always in mood for sex but if I for example not see my partner for weeks when I travel and I come home to home cooked meal and she is waiting for me in a nice lingerie I just push myself to have sex even if I am tired because I know she wants that and put effort to welcome me like that. This is purple pill debate so I can probably say this openly but most of the men (and in fact many women) need regular sex to be satisfied and happy in relationship so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:08 PM
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Yes of course there are situations like this, I am not saying it’s always 100% women’s fault. A lot of men should also rethink their situation and evaluate whether they provide conditions for their partners to have sex. However, not having sex at all and saying men are entitled to have sex with their partner is also quite selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:02 PM
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I don’t think they will figure this one out. She told him that she was never really that into sex but she was having regular sex with him because she wanted him to commit. She is open about that so I am afraid my brother is stuck in sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:28 PM
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Well there are some women who have lower libido and that’s also fine but it should be communicated before the commitment. My brother and his wife used to have sex every day, they got married, had kids and only then she told him she was having sex with him that often because she wanted him to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:22 PM
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Yes absolutely. My brother is in situation like this, his wife and him were really sexually active before marriage and kids and now when they have two kids they have sex once a three months. When he brought that up his wife started shouting at him that he feels entitled and that she is a woman not a piece of meat and she doesn’t owe him anything. She additionally told her girlfriends who were also all very disgusted by him. So now my brother is stuck in sexless marriage with woman who doesn’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:19 PM
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She told me that she is the prize. Real “prizes” don’t need to mention repeatedly they are prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:13 PM
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Well you are right about the fact that no woman owes you sex, I fully agree with that. However, I see many many cases where couples have regular sex during dating period and women seem to be super into it but after they get into relationship, or even most likely after they get married and have kids suddenly they don’t feel like having sex. When committing to partner everyone should be honest and no one should be using sex just to get into relationship and then neglect the partners needs after th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:11 PM
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This. When I got better in dating and finally attracted women I was dating the best looking girls I could find and it was all that mattered to me. I quickly realized that just beauty won’t make me happy and additionally you are excited at first but then you get used to the beauty and what’s left is the actual person. There you realize that beauty doesn’t matter as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:59 PM
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Well honestly I wish dating was this easy and taking the best looking woman I can get would be enough for me to find a life partner. When I was in early 20s that was the case indeed, I always wanted extremely pretty woman and I was always trying my luck if I can get even prettier one. Now when I am in my 30s being pretty or better to say attractive to me is still important, but that’s just not enough and it doesn’t make me happy. I dated a model for 7 months and I felt miserable. Yes it was nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:57 PM
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Insta model look is standard nowadays? I really disagree with this. Just yesterday me and my mates went to bar and we discussed that topic. Try it for yourself, go to bar and look around, how many “insta models” do you see? The “perfect body”, big ass, tiny waist, flawless skin. Well I can tell you that you won’t see many, because most of the insta models either know their angles very well, use photoshop , face app , alter their photos A LOT. Insta model looks is definitely not a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:03 PM
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Well the anger came from the fact the women just weren’t interested in me. I was young and stupid and I thought that just by changing my appearance and going to the gym I will attract more women. I started going to gym regularly and I saw results I was happy about and still women weren’t interested in me. I was angry, I was putting so much effort to gym and those “ungrateful, picky, entitled women” (my thoughts back then)were still not interested. How did I show my anger? Well I would put women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:05 AM
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Yeah that I can totally believe! Women often don’t realize that subconsciously the “nice, cute guy” isn’t what they are after but they would like to believe it is. I asked because when reading the posts here, 99% of time it reminds me of my old self that was extremely unsuccessful with women and that was angry with whole female population, so I got genuinely interested if some of those angry men are actually successful with women or it’s mostly those who cannot get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:48 PM
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Well that’s good for you! But ok let me rephrase - single men who are currently dating / searching for partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:37 PM
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I am genuinely interested, don’t be modest please. Is there a man in this sub that is successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:28 PM
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That’s good for you man. I’ve been on too many dates where women in their 20s behaved like “I am young and pretty so please entertain me” that I gave up. I get much more engagement and investment from women in late 20s and early 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:08 PM
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Most of my female friends got married only after 30, in big cities women marry usually around 30. I have many female friends who found their partner after 30, and many male friends (me included) who prefer dating women around our age. When it comes to single females around 30 who can’t get men to commit I see one pattern - all of them are searching for the top 5% of men. Dating apps gave them false idea that they can have any man they want because even 5% of men will have Sex with someone they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:06 PM
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Honestly that’s what I hoped for I will find here. People who aren’t sugarcoating stuff and don’t believe bullshit as “looks and many doesn’t matter! You need to be nice and confident person to attract women” but what I see is bunch of men who have no idea how to get women and came here just to put women down so they can feel better about themselves, excusing not being able to get girlfriend by “all women suck” , “all women are like this and that”. It’s sad story, this sub could be useful to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:59 PM
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Well I also don’t want relationship with woman who has kids that’s valid preference. You can’t blame women for being interested in men in their 30s. If I remember myself in my 20s I would also not be interested in dating myself. What’s wrong with women wanting men in their 30s? My female friends matured for sure earlier than us, so makes sense they search for someone slightly older - I am saying slightly older because average gap in US is within 5 years. And yeah, also single dads have hard time…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:53 PM
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Well I have to say I understand where these posts are coming from. Once I was also angry at whole female population for not wanting to date me even if I managed to get ripped at gym. I just wish more men here would realize that this anger and posts like this won’t make women more interested in them. Women in their 30s will still get attention no matter how many posts like this are on this sub and the sooner men here accept that and start doing something to make their chances bigger, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:47 PM
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I am originally European and at least in my country women do care about education and money. High earners have definitely easier time to attract women. Yeah I agree Americans put too much importance on money but if you can get fired from hour to hour or you get homeless when you get seriously sick, there is no wonder. It’s not fault of people it’s fault of system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:43 PM
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I wouldn’t necessarily agree on “less damaged”. From my experience a lot of women in their 30s go to therapy and already identified the issues and trauma they have, while many women in their 20s deal with trauma and issues by picking unavailable men or having daddy issues. I think women in their 30s are more likely to identify their weaknesses and work on them. And when it comes to fertility, at least in big cities you see that most of the women don’t even want to have kids in their 20s so yeah …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:41 PM
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Well yeah if you get seriously sick in US you are fucked so it’s good to have partner that you can count on financially as well. In Australia there is more security indeed. Out of interest - what would you say it’s the most important trait women search for in Australia ? I guess it will be very looks based then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:35 PM
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As I said I am commenting from US perspective, I don’t know enough about Australia so perhaps you are right there. When you are saying people don’t care about money/degree than I can imagine in Australia it’s all based on looks lol. I’ve never seen so many ripped men as I did in Sydney to be honest, that would explain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:32 PM
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Well do whatever works for you. The judgment goes both ways though, men think that if “she is 35+ and single with no kids” there is something wrong with her. Both genders are equally judgmental. Good luck to you though, hope you find what you search for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:30 PM
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Yeah that could be the case honestly. I have to admit I had less luck dating in Australia than I have in US. As MIT grad I often get comments from women saying it’s impressive and I know many of them match me based on that. For my HBS grads friends that applies even more. Once we had conversation with boys where my HBS friend argued his degree didn’t matter and he is just good with girls. We created two profiles - same photos, same bio. One of them was graduate of normal decent UNI, the other wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:27 PM
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Ok mate you are totally changing what I am saying. I also don’t go around searching for woman earning x amount of money, or having fancy degree. It’s not important to me. However what’s important to me is that she is intellectual challenge, and there is a correlation between intelligence, general knowledge and education/career. Also I want woman who has things going on in her life, I don’t want someone who hates their job and goes there just to earn money. Those kind of women tend to get very cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:24 PM
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And btw I am MIT graduate, hanging out mostly with MIT and HBS grads. From my sample set there is not even one couple where he is MIT/HBS grad and she is let’s say high school dropout. I don’t know maybe it’s different in Australia, people there seem more chill and caring way less about status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:18 PM
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I am not saying that though, I don’t really care too much about how much she earns or how many degrees she has, you aren’t wrong that does not impress me. However, there is a strong correlation between education and intelligence/general knowledge whether you like it or not. Looking at stats at Australia I also see that most men pick women from similar economic background and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:16 PM
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This. I used to be introverted tech guy who was all the time blaming women and holding anger inside that I get no attention when I thought I have so much to offer. The years were passing by and I still had no success with women and all I had was that anger and despising women. One day I realized that it won’t help me to get a girlfriend and I decided to make a change and get educated about what women really want. Now I am in my mid 30s and I have no issues attracting women. I don’t believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:12 PM
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In fact you can read here, now in US 25% of men are married to women who are more educated than them. I am not sure where you get your stats from, but I suggest looking one more time. Men absolutely mostly date someone on their level. source
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:04 PM
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I guess it depends also on your background. My circle is limited to highly educated intelligent people only, and all of us have someone matching that and we are the tech bros so 6figures+. I can’t really imagine bringing a girl that cannot hold the conversation to my friends group or family. Not sure how old are you but when I was in my 20s I also didn’t care so much but that changed a lot when I became serious about finding a partner not an eye candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:00 PM
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That’s not necessarily true. If you look at stats the average gap between partners in US is within 5 years max. I personally also didn’t date much during my 20s and now in my mid 30s I of course enjoyed dating women in early 20s but as I am searching for something serious now I realized that women in early 20s cannot offer me the same level of conversation and intellectual challenge as women in their late 20s/early 30s so I changed my preference to 27-35 when it comes to serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:57 PM
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I am male and I agree with you. To me it seems like those men posting here are hoping to convince themselves and at least some other people that women at certain age are not desired anymore because they think it might increase their chances with women. If recent purple pill posts were true in real life that would mean that women in their 30s would have to settle for literally anyone and they wouldn’t be able to find any high quality men who would want them, therefore they would turn to low quali…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:55 PM
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Please don’t take men here as a reference of healthy, confident, intelligent men who don’t suffer from not getting enough attention of women. As a male I can assure you that majority of us don’t share those ideas. Some men here are really extreme but I bet that it there was attractive woman in her 30s who would be interested in them they wouldn’t hesitate for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:34 PM
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Well to be honest in my surroundings (tech people, successful men) I see the age gap usually between 2-5 years. I am personally in mid 30s and my dating preference is 27-35. Of course I’ve been on dates with younger women and it’s nice and confidence boost but I just can’t have the same challenging conversation with women under 27. I tried. I want to come home to someone I can debate with, not only pretty young face. If I wanted just that I would have been already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:31 PM
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My thoughts exactly, I don’t know any men who is successful with women sharing such opinions. In my surroundings - tech people the age gap is normally 2-5 years. OP I would suggest you invest bit more time into working on yourself so women are actually interested in you, rather than posting multiple times a day on here. The hate towards women aren’t going to get you a girlfriend, that’s not how it works. You trying to portrait women after 30 not desirable isn’t going to increase your chances wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:29 PM
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So my sister just turned 32 and she is still searching for the “one”. She barely finished high school, she has debts, she is overweight, doesn’t care about her health at all but she has big breasts that attract some very good looking men on dating apps. Today she was crying how unlucky she is in love and that every guy she dates wants casual relationship only, but then gets into relationship with someone else week after they have sex. I asked her to show me her matches and god, all of the matche…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:14 AM
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