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| 58 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorUgghhh this was me. Got harassed so much (and once, date raped) by Black men and just smiled and told myself to stop complaining because white privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:54 PM |
| 147 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorI can think of 3 white men off the top of my head who are married to Black women and adore them inside and out. Not saying some fetishization doesn’t occur, but I do think the white man/Black woman dynamic can be a healthy fit. Alexis Ohanian and Serena Williams come to mind. I’m white so if any Black women see this differently I’m open to hearing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle men in your professional life who think they’re in love with you?That last sentence is chilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:11 PM |
| 19 | Stop giving the benefit of the doubt to rotten-minded men. They will never change their default worldview.So much truth here. The men who treated me the worst were the men who loudly proclaimed to be feminists, then stabbed me in the back with misogynist actions (including sexual violations) once I trusted them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:44 AM |
| 98 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmThe saddest part is that a lot of 18 year olds have plenty of brains...just not toward male behavior, because no has bothered to teach them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:22 PM |
| 135 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?Silence is powerful. Throws insecure people off balance. Talking, in many contexts, can be a form of validation seeking. The less you speak, the less validation it appears you need, which HVM/HVW appreciate but LVM/LVW can’t bear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 35 | I don't think men are capable of seeing us as humans, everIn my experience, being father to a daughter has zero correlation to sexism. The sexists remain sexists when they have daughters, they just alter their reasoning a little. The true HVM have never needed daughters to understand that women are people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:42 PM |
| 25 | The hypocrisy regarding WAPTo me, her manner of speaking is part of her charm. Her unique elocution is a breath of fresh air. In today’s version of capitalistic society, charisma and guts (both of which Cardi has an extraordinary amount of) are of higher value than education or “intellect.” I’m educated but I’m much, much poorer than she is. Who is smarter by capitalistic standards? Definitely Cardi. That said, I do see your point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 372 | For all the male redditors asking why women don’t approach first 😂😂Aren’t we all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 11 | They're working overtime to take our rights. Please keep yourself aware and fight this shit! My heart goes out to the women in Arkansas.I find most interpretations of the story to be very limited. The whole story is just a metaphor for the dawn of human consciousness, that moment where the human mind transcended that of animals. Which is why it was a woman who ate the fruit: women attained morality first thanks to their superior capacity for consciousness, which itself was linked to a woman’s ability to call forth life from herself. This made the men mad, so they twisted it and called the woman disobedient. They said giving birt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 21 | They're working overtime to take our rights. Please keep yourself aware and fight this shit! My heart goes out to the women in Arkansas.I don’t understand the hate for Eve. Eating the fruit of Knowledge of Good and Evil was a metaphor for the birth of morality itself. Isn’t morality a good thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 93 | In case you're still wondering if men view us as actual humans. They do not.I bet simulated non-consent can/will be programmed into the robots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | We all promiseBo Burnham. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 4 | We all promiseHe writes funny songs as part of his stand up comedy. This is one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...When I was younger I worked retail during a holiday season and it was 99% women doing all the Christmas shopping. If a man was in there buying something, it was one gift for his wife, or one random item he was buying for himself. When I relayed this story to my parents, my father scowled and said it wasn’t true...like, yeah Dad, when have you EVER helped with holiday preparations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:03 PM |
| 14 | Imagine trying to find a gynecologist in network and these are the only options 😭😭🥺I’ve been working with a female therapist for about a year now. She’s okay. She’s quick to judge me about the issues I most need to talk about, which makes me feel very alone. I don’t have the means at present to shop around for a better one. I know they exist, because I had a fantastic one for a few sessions a few years back. But she was crisis/emergency-only and couldn’t see patients long term. I’ve done a ton of journaling and reading about trauma. This has healed me far more than any therapi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:29 AM |
| 132 | Imagine trying to find a gynecologist in network and these are the only options 😭😭🥺Yes! I went to a male therapist after a long period of insisting on female-only doctors. Told myself that perhaps I should expand my horizons and give male practitioners a chance. What happened was that in every session he talked more about his life than I talked about mine. I played the role of therapist to him even though he was the one getting paid. He told me my suicidal ideations could not have been serious because the methods I planned to use were “boy methods” not “girl methods.” Uhhh yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 47 | Imagine trying to find a gynecologist in network and these are the only options 😭😭🥺But when they (OB’s) do deal with death, it’s a baby or young woman :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 11 | “I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their OwnYet when they find out their ancestors were slaveholders, as in Ben Affleck’s case, suddenly they decide their 3-generations back grandparent has nothing to do with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InDon’t be afraid to ghost. Walk away without a word, and if they protest walk faster. Wait for the next elevator or cross to the opposite side of the street. Maintain as much physical distance from male strangers as possible in all situations. Wear sturdy shoes you can run in. Walk like you’re going somewhere important. Walk like someone is expecting you. Walk like you dare anyone to fuck with you. Never show nervousness. Speak loudly, clearly, and calmly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYes, 2nd wave needs a comeback. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:54 PM |
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