teddy12v Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Insanely uncomfortable	Need Support	teddy12v	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 01:03 AM

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1	Post-Divorce Blues Going through a similar situation. I can’t get over the fact of another guy either. I haven’t found any ways to get over that issue. Us men are so misunderstood when it comes to life. The things we do, the burdens we carry, the things we sacrifice, the pain we hold inside, it’s all pretty harsh but we do it for our family. And that in turn may cause us to not be there emotionally for our wives and children and that itself causes more problems. We all go through it in different ways but I know th…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/24 04:43 PM
2	Insanely uncomfortable I’m really struggling with the change of scenery. I’m constantly uncomfortable. The unknown future scares the fuck out of me. And with all this happening I feel like it has ruined me and I’ll forever be scared to sacrifice or fully give myself to another woman. I’m a very dedicated person. I put my mind to something and I achieve it. And when I dedicate myself to someone I’m all in. And I feel like this whole situation just ruined that. And I don’t know when or if I’ll even be ready to look for …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 04:06 PM
1	Insanely uncomfortable Yea I’ve learned I’m not very good at this suffering thing. This is a pain I wouldn’t wish on anyone. And I pray that I can find a way to cope because the damage that has been done is something I’m worried will affect a future relationship. I’m scared I won’t be able to trust again or feel like I’m truly wanted and appreciated. I sacrificed so much for her just to be betrayed in the end. Feel like I haven’t been truly seen. And with all this happening it’s clear I never was. Just sucks realizing…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 04:00 PM
1	Insanely uncomfortable As much as I’d love to I’m still trying to find a way to fall out of love and accept that we are done. Even though she’s done me dirty I still have the version of her I fell in love with in my head. And I need to be able to see her for who she truly is and actually let go.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 03:54 PM
1	Insanely uncomfortable Very true. I keep looking back when things were good and that’s what I’m dying to get back. That’s the version of her I keep seeing and crying about. And what I’m starting to realize is that version of her is gone. Because I’m missing that, not who she is now. No memories of who she is currently or times we’ve had lately even come up. It’s all from a while ago. Just sucks finally realizing that the person that I sacrificed everything for didn’t have enough love for me to truly dig deep and find …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 03:52 PM
1	Insanely uncomfortable Yea I know I’ll probably never get over it. I just hope I can find a way to just get through the day and not let this shit haunt me. And knowing her she’s going to come screaming back to me once she gets a few more coming home to an empty house nights. I just need to prepare myself and find a way to stand my ground and not fall for it anymore. Because words don’t mean anything to me anymore. Actions tell me all I need to know and it took all this happening to realize that.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 03:45 PM
1	Insanely uncomfortable Yea the first time it happened I should’ve just been done. But that was my first time experiencing that and I didn’t want my daughter to grow up in a divorced household seeing I went through 2 myself as a kid. So I set my feelings aside and fought to get her back. But it seems now I was just the easy choice. Especially after she made it clear she has feelings for this other guy and has for a while. Just can’t really wrap my mind around all of it but I’m realizing the girl I fell in love with doe…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 03:41 PM
1	Insanely uncomfortable There is a lot more to the story that would probably crash Reddit if I were to type it all out. But long story short I wasn’t the best person in the beginning. I’ve grown a lot since then but at this point she can’t see me for who I am now, she just has the shitty image of who I used to be and uses that as her excuse for why she’s not happy and goes elsewhere to feel something.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 03:36 PM
2	Insanely uncomfortable Just trying to get a grasp on everything and find a way to live myself again. Cant remember the last time I truly felt happiness or any sort of self love. I’ve hit just about every goal I’ve set out for myself. Mentally if I put my mind to something I know for a fact I will figure it the fuck out and I will achieve it. I only know this because of the things I’ve accomplished and the things I have now that I only dreamed of years ago. I have it all yet I still won’t give myself a pat on the back …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/24 03:34 PM