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| 1 | Are romantic comedies just wrong themNot quite sure what you're asking. Are you referring to movies like Crazy Stupid Love where Ryan Gosling character acts like a jerk, using PUA tactics on the girl, yet stills ends up dating her? But the thing girls found appealing about that was he was a "reformed" PUA/bad boy. He still retained that PUA charm but he decided to end his shallow empty PUA lifestyle. And even from the start, the audience saw that he had a sweet personality underneath the bravado, girls like to think their guy is a … | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you always kiss a girl at the end of a first date?I think it highly depends on 2 main things 1 - what are you trying to get out of this person? If you're trying to get a girlfriend, or even a friend with benefits I guess, then a coffee date is a great way to show off your personality, interests, have banter and form an emotional connection. An evening meal (not like a candlelit dinner lol, just a casual pizza place or something) can serve the same purpose. I have a quiet voice and find it difficult talking in loud bars, and it's almost impossib… | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you always kiss a girl at the end of a first date?I personally think you made the right decision! If I agreed to go for a first "date" coffee with a guy, I would not be expecting anything physical especially in the daytime in a public place surrounded by people I know. My impression of a coffee date is it is a way to talk and get to know a guy in a comfortable, quiet, but public, environment without the fear of him grinding on you like you might get if you went to a club or somewhere with him. I always see first kiss as being after a few dates … | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I open a girl, she doesn't seem invested in the interaction at all. What do I do?I feel like all this Game and RP stuff is just targeted at a certain type of girl. The girl who goes to bars and clubs a lot. The adventurous extreme extrovert personality type. I'm more introvert - marginally extrovert, and most of my female friends are the same. I don't know any girls who would respond positively to a stranger asking them out while they're walking to class. It goes against social norms which most people, unless they are extremely extroverted, will follow. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 01:09 AM |
| 1 | "Natural" style of social interactions in partiesJust go up to her and make a funny (it doesnt even need to be funny, just like its meant to be funny) comment on something in the immediate surroundings! Most guys who have approached me at parties resulting in a conversation would just do this e.g. "think that guys had a bit too much to drink" if someone was acting a bit crazy or passed out. Initiating comments don't need to be some amazingly unique thing, it's called small talk for a reason :) please God don't fall for that terrible advice of … | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:59 AM |
| 1 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibeLol well tbh I didn't have much to go on, there are a million different scenarios or explanations for why this chick wants to bring her friend to the cinema with this dude. I can't give a one sentence answer of whether it means she wants this guy's sexy time at this precise moment or any time in the near future, if that's what he was wondering? | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Yeah, I'm done with online dating websites.Online dating is just boring. As if small talk isn't bad enough in real life, but having to literally type out the same old clichéd crappy questions and answers except without the stimulation of 4 out of 5 senses, is just excruciating. I want to have fun when I meet people, project personality and properly experience their personality, have fun with the way I talk and act, even get that nervous energy. I also don't like the forcedness of online dating as it seems unnatural like online shopping. … | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedI think you're right, it's the way you compliment that makes the difference. If you're not a cheesy chat up liney type of guy who is always spouting crappy chat up lines and thoughtless compliments, then saying "you look beautiful/gorgeous" can be a real pleasant surprise and turn on to a girl. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedI don't think girls need that many compliments from men, the fact you are showing interest in her shows you like her which is a compliment in itself. Compliments from other females mean more tbh because we're the ones who mostly buy into all the fashion and beauty crap (although I guess this is changing a bit lately...) Most compliments from men just seem cheesy and chat up liney like "you have beautiful eyes". Obviously if you're dating a girl day in day out then yes shower her with compliments… | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:03 AM |
| 2 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibeFrom a female perspective, the fact that she agreed shows she is most likely interested in you but is perhaps not that comfortable around you yet. She may have talked about it with her friend and decided to bring her friend for moral support and/or to "suss" you out. Or perhaps she really did have plans with her friend anyway. Have you met with this girl before? If you haven't, she may be nervous about being alone with you, I don't know how "experienced" she is with dating though. To be honest, … | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How to stop girls flaking when it's going well (with some advice to beat LMR)Out of interest, not trying to be insulting just curious, do these girls think they are your exclusive "girlfriend"? Tbh the thing that would concern me the most is STDs if you are sleeping with multiple women at once and if you are giving them the impression you are only sleeping with them | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How to stop girls flaking when it's going well (with some advice to beat LMR)Are you going to write a field report on your date with her tommorow? | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 06:31 PM |
| 6 | How to stop girls flaking when it's going well (with some advice to beat LMR)How disturbing. Am equally glad and disappointed that I found out about the PUA community before I turned 20 and started going to clubs and such. I'd have to really be in a bad place to let some calculating stranger, who spends hours online learning how to legally get his penis inside random women, mark me off as yet another conquest. The worst thing is how proud you sound of deliberately emotionally manipulating and lying to women that you don't have ONS, in order to trick them into thinking yo… | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 01:37 AM |
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