tehhim Archive

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2	When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away. It might not be a bad idea to check out /r/asexuality and see if any of their experiences resonate with you.	/r/seduction	04/05/15 04:06 AM
3	Got my first approach and # close out of the way, couldn't feel better. Nice. Good for you. A great start on a long journey. Try to work on approaching as soon as you see them and decide you want to talk to them, no excuses. Just don't even let yourself get into the habit.	/r/seduction	23/07/14 09:35 AM
1	I realized I am a natural-born troll in real life. But i want to stop! But how? Change the subject? Think what would jesus do?	/r/seduction	23/07/14 09:28 AM
2	I realized I am a natural-born troll in real life. But i want to stop! But how? Two things. One, make a conscious effort to stop. When you start feeling like you're going to be trolly, tell yourself that you don't want to and remind yourself the reasons you want to stop. There's not really any shortcut to making you stop being a troll besides stopping being a troll. Discipline. Two, start giving sincere compliments to people. No seriously, try it. You'll have to mentally adjust yourself to being more positive. People will love you for it. And when you make others feel good,…	/r/seduction	23/07/14 09:03 AM
1	"How to Use Indirect Game to Get Girls" - What are your thoughts on this? Seems about right. Showing an honest attraction in a girl without being more involved than she is leads to her falling for you.	/r/seduction	23/07/14 08:23 AM
3	So you wanna go Greek? A PUAs guide to Fraternities and Sororities Very good writeup. Two comments: It would help to describe your school and prevalence of greek life: eg number of undergrad, number of houses, % involved in greek life, general location (midwest public schools are different from California private schools for example), that sort of thing. How do you find out a frat/sorority's reputation and relative standing?	/r/seduction	23/07/14 08:11 AM
5	Using a spot for daygame too much Doesn't matter. Do it. The opinion of the very very few you might accidentally run into hardly matter - they've already rejected you anyway. And the more times you get so freaking embarrassed you blush, stutter and limp away the better prepared you are for future 'awkward' moments and true not giving a fuck.	/r/seduction	23/07/14 08:05 AM
1	How bad of an idea is it to ask (probably via text) your previous interests what you did wrong? Bad idea for what? What's the worst case scenario? You haven't talked to any of them in more than a year. They might think you're weird, or not respond at all, or they could give you valuable closure and insight to why things ended the way they did. Are you so concerned with saving face that you wouldn't ask them out of embarrassment? Just do it man. Take a risk, get out of your comfort zone. That's how we grow as people.	/r/seduction	23/07/14 08:00 AM
1	suggestion - fixing your texting game The solution to bad texting game is almost unequivocally strengthening your in-person interaction. You don't build attraction through text. It just doesn't happen. Instead texting is a reflection of your attraction when you saw the girl in person, if they were attracted to you then, they'll be attracted to you when you text her for a meetup. If she wasn't, then she's just looking for a way to blow you off, and not texting back is a lot easier than blowing you off in person. Girls don't like blow…	/r/seduction	23/07/14 07:55 AM
1	How Direct Daygame Revolutionised My Dating Life Mark Manson is brilliant	/r/seduction	23/07/14 07:50 AM
2	[FR] Beach day game and valuable lessons learned. Nice. You did good, and you should feel good about yourself because you earned it. Celebrate today. Couple of points I'd like to make: I tell them I need to check my phone Why? Cmon man, you know you want to talk to the pretty girl, and your friends probably do too if they had the guts to approach her. Don't play it off like it's no big deal or you were ashamed to talk to her. I get it, talking to new people is weird. That's not what a normal person does. But when you're in that mindset, your bo…	/r/seduction	23/07/14 07:40 AM