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what are wifey attributes? She seems flakey, for me that's anything but wife material I'd personally would get more forward with my intentions and see how she responds. Obviously stop if she sais no, but continue when she's not stopping you
/r/seduction17/01/25 11:57 PM
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You could also voice your fear: "Hey, I feel nervous coming up to you like this because it feels like you have a jealous boyfriend just around the corner, but I wanted to come up to you anyway"
/r/seduction09/01/25 08:46 AM
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Why does it matter? Shift your mindset to brightening someone's day
/r/seduction09/01/25 08:43 AM
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Dont text because you think you should. Reach out cause you want to or have something interesting to share. That's for the possible clingy part Set yourself up for an area possible for benefits, but make it clear it doesn't need to happen. This takes any pressure off and if you twoo match, you can escalate with touch and more making out
/r/seduction16/12/24 06:05 PM
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Unless he's one of those top5% in men, he might not get approached much or at all. So your chances of a conversation with a weak opener would still be great. Now, what I've learned to do from the male perspective approaching women is to express how I'm feeling: example: hey, I feel nervous doing this because I think you look gorgeous today, but wanted to come and introduce myself anyway... i'm *** (reach out hand)
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:18 AM
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Maybe you need to change regions or something if you live in an area where that statement is true There are a lot of assumptions in there I have to disagree with
/r/seduction28/11/24 11:05 PM
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Man. Your beliefs are quite extreme. Sorry if you are a woman that dislikes autistic men. We will find other women, no problem
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:56 PM
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For a long time I was convinced I was a 2/10 being on tinder. Going out and meeting attractive girls irl has boosted my confidence and I now realise the app is the problem. A below average girl gets thousands of likes a day, the balance is just unreal
/r/seduction22/11/24 07:24 AM
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You don't need instagram, and it's not a good tool for meeting women. It is however a communication platform most women you meet are most comfortable sharing and where you can present yourself with as a fun and safe man to meet up with again Look at it as setting up a dating profile for use in real life
/r/seduction19/11/24 03:21 AM
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Sounds very weird from all the things I could read so far. If this coach said maybe to agressive, I think he could elaborate. Is it possible that you come off as too needy to the men that are engaging you? It is a rare occurance, but if a girl is too clingy over text, I also stay away. I feel like my non-ghosted conversations usually die out because I'm putting in all the effort and not getting much positive interaction. For example: she seems to not put any intrest in me, even when I'm feeding …
/r/seduction12/11/24 04:32 PM
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I know some unattractive girls with hundreds of likes on dating apps and are easily dating men on every available moment so I'll have to assume you're very very very picky and maybe dont have enough to offer to be with the top1% male you aim for
/r/seduction07/11/24 09:24 PM
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I like to reward the behavior of receiving selfies or view-once by complimenting or teasing her about something in the picture
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:31 PM
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I have tried that in the past, it just backfired again. I am better than that now
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:25 AM
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Why would I lower myself to her level? It's been so long, I doubt finding her is going to be helpful
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:50 AM
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I expressed my feelings towards her. Her response: " ieuw no! You are way too ugly. Nobody wants you!" She then went on to tell her friend and was openly mocking me. When I got to school word had spread and was mocked/laughed at and was a bit of an outcast since.
/r/seduction05/11/24 06:29 AM
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After 24 years of wondering why, last year through a workshop I found out how severly I got turned down and mocked at my first ever approach to a woman, which probably is why my body created a flight response in my teen years. It's still a huge effort for me for each approach, but the trick that I find is expressing my feelings in the moment helps. For example: "hey.. I'm feeling quite nervous approaching you and like there's an audiance... but I wanted to come over and introduce myself anyway" …
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:56 PM
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Wait, what? Is there any evidence on that #4? I had a nice conversation with someone who I hadn't taken to whatsapp yet, and was a bit surprised she unmatched me
/r/seduction15/07/24 09:37 AM
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"One indicator is that if she starts playing with her hair, she may be interested in you. If it's a pube, it's a cert" -- jimmy carr
/r/seduction13/07/24 05:26 PM
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I respect that. That's not ghosting, she took the effort to let you know it's not happening
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:01 PM
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Girls give numbers out easily, it's easy to ghost. (Her words) It's probably your conversations that are not sparking enough attraction. You want to leave them longing for your message... In your case, as attractive male, maybe you should see if you can escalate more quickly to be the right guy at the right time. When the night has passed, she may not feel desire anymore
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:49 AM
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Amen. I've already massed some cringe worthy rejections, but on the flip side there are many girls who were praising and telling me to continue approaching, even when they weren't interested or married/happily girlfriended
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:00 PM
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Well it's all I got really. Girl-friends have always said stuff like "just look for eye contact or a nice smile to you" and especially when going out this just does not happen all
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:51 PM
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Talk to everyone. Be the guy that knows everyone. If you then select a girl to ask out on a date she will be flattered. If for some reason she isn't, she or the gym owners cant get mad at you because you're the guy that talks to everyone. Heck, maybe there's another girl that then gets jealous that you didn't ask her instead
/r/seduction19/05/24 07:57 AM
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I think it's a consequence of many needy men that keep chasing with the mindset "as long as she responds she is still interested", which makes women tired and lazy from repeates experience with these types
/r/seduction06/04/24 05:13 PM
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They love to ghost for any reason. Best way to deal with it is to become unphased by it. A girl friend once said: oh yeah it's just so easy. If you aren't really feeling it just ghost and the problem goes away by itself They don't care about logic or why, they prefer to just move on to the next opportunity
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:10 PM
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Approach 20 girls: hey, I'm feeling (describe your anxiety or how you feel) but wanna ask you a question anyway(pause) I would like your honest opinion: I used to have a condition which made me smelly and I still feel it's affecting me today. Do you notice anything on me I should improve? I guarantuee at least 18 of them are surprised by your question and this should reframe your own beliefs
/r/seduction06/03/24 09:46 PM
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You are one up on me, keep it going
/r/seduction02/02/24 06:59 AM
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I'm 3 years older than you and see no harm
/r/seduction14/09/23 07:20 PM
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