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Can never have too many female friends. Gives you practice talking to not only girls, but pretty girls. Keep doing that and you'll never get nervous. Ask question. Listen. Have a few seconds of silence before responding. Wait til she's done. Follow up with a question building on that or paraphrase what she said back to her. If you nail it right, you can get a girl to tell you massive amounts about herself to you with minimal effort and still remain mysterious and appear to be a good listener amd…
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:06 AM
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Lol ive played for 15-16 years and have gotten any from it but it certainly makes you much more interesting and mysterious
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:29 AM
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Talk to a girl just as you would any other person. Theyre still a person before they're a girl. Also ask things about them. Open ended questions. Get them to tell you about THEM.
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:32 AM
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Don't care about something trivial like that. One guy I worked with was short af, bit he had mad confidence bit was never arrogant per se. He never thought about it. If you're insecure about it, they'll know. Look better for you.
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:20 AM
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I'm known as a funny person by most people in my life. It's not as much what I say being funny as much as my timing and delivery. Having excellent timing and delivery can make a room break up with laughter. Having good timing does wonders . Also with me, delivering the jokes or comments with a straight face enhances the effect tenfold because it doesn't break the tension. It makes you harder to read. I rarely laugh at my own joke. When you make people laugh, they like to be around you because la…
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:15 AM
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I used to live with my folks. Unless she'd cool with you visiting her place again, it's a boner killer, trust me.
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:14 AM
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Snap tends to be given easier than personal phone number. I say text them whenever you want to. Don't follow some preset routine. Do what you want
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:13 AM
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Run.
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:11 AM
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Yeah say "we should hang out some time" if she implies with a group, she isn't interested. Make it really chill and nonchalant
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:28 AM
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A buff bod can turn an average/below average guy into a looker.
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:21 AM
3

You can't make people like you. If they don't then don't worry about it cuz you have no control over it. If you ask a girl to hang and she says no, don't sweat it. Pay attention to the people who do like you and want to be around you. Don't waste your energy on things you have no control over. Care less what most think and care more about what the ones who matter think.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:09 AM
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Yes. Being able to handle any stressful situation with coolness and control. Being able to keep cool without getting mad or flustered. Being able to have witty responses and funny comments will get you far. People like to be around people who make them laugh.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:06 AM
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Well as a guy who has grown up around females, has had mostly female friends my whole life and works with mainly females, yes and no. A lot of girls, when they're comfortable with you, will touch your shoulder or your arm or something, maybe even lean against you. This doesn't necessarily mean attraction. The touching arm COULD be flirting and interest, but I wouldn't take that as a certain IOI.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:05 AM
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They'll only interact with you when they want flirting.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:03 AM
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I was 23. I met a girl on tinder and lost it. It felt so much better once I lost it and it was off of my chest
/r/seduction08/10/21 07:46 AM
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Yeah, I work with tons of attractive girls at my job, and I. Consodered funny and they all enjoy working with me. I listen to them and try to learn who they are, just like anyone else. Look past attraction, they're just a person. Have no expectations. If it's just a friend, more female friends are great. You'd be amazed how they can be beautiful but not your type.
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:40 AM
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Yes, I lost about 40-50 lbs and I felt so much better about myself.
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:27 AM
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If shes putting that little effort into the convo, then they're not worth ur time
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:05 AM
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I was 23 til I lost mine. Don't lose hope. I felt so much better once I lost it and it was off my chest. People kept saying "it's just sex", people who had had it. Yes it is, but once you've done it, you'll feel better
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:03 AM
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You should add to a person's life not detract.
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:29 AM
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Yes. I work with tons of gorgeous girls and I focus on getting to know them not their looks getting in the way. Ive seen knockouts with ugly guys. If you're gonna swung, swing for the stars.
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:27 AM
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I work with a TON of them and it's mainly women I work with. Don't even focus on their outward appearance. Talk to them and listen to what they say. Ask them about themselves. Expect nothing. They can tell if you're fishing or anchoring towards asking them out. Get to know them like any other human being and you'll be ahead of most guys. Compliment them on things other than their personality. Attractive girls KNOW their attractive. Look past that.
/r/seduction10/09/21 09:21 AM
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Screen her just as she would you. You have a checklist as well.
/r/seduction10/09/21 09:16 AM
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Yeah, get a good vibe on if you're compatible, if you click, and that you aren't Ted Bundy. Then ask to hang out.
/r/seduction17/08/21 03:54 AM
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I ask for snap cuz that seems less risky than a number to give out. If they don't wanna talk to you, they can just ignore or block you. It's not as personal as a number.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:21 AM
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Yes dude, lived with mine til 27, it gave me independence. Itll be so nice being able to have the option of having people over.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:20 AM
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Yeah, talk to them if you're interested but only if you feel they're putting in effort too.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:19 AM
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Yeah, one can get busy but if it's been a day since responding, they've probably seen your message, but just aren't responding. If you can use the toilet, you can reply to a text.
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:43 AM
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Just do what feels natural and communicate. Focus on her pleasure first, make sure she is satisfied before you try just in case it ends quickly. Communicate, ask if she likes what you're doing. Trust me, I was a virgin til 23, and I felt soooo much better once I had done it.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:59 AM
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Ask if she wants to hang with you. If she wants to do as a group, it's just friends.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:47 AM
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Ask for her snapchat. Then if you feel a good vibe, tell her you want to get to know her better anf ask if she wants to hang outside of work. If she says as a group, it's friends. If its just the two of you, then there's potential or she feels comfortable with you.
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:46 AM
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Being comfortable in all situations, remaining witty and confident will make you the man.
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:14 AM
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Just talk to girls with the intent of getting to know them, not even with an end goal. Then see what happens
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:12 AM
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I work with girls and this is true. I perfected being able to talk to any girl about anything and just the more you interact with them especially as friends, the easier it will be to talk to the ones you're attracted to.
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:10 AM
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Theyre a person too. Doesn't matter how hot, they have a personality. A hot girl knows she's hot, so you don't need to tell her. Listen to her, get to know her. I work with a plethora of gorgeous girls and trust me, they know they're pretty. But I listen to them, try to get to know them. They're still people. Come for looks, stay for personality.
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:55 PM
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A hot girl knows she's hot and doesn't need all her pics to have others to split the focus
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:51 PM
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If she cheats WITH you, she will cheat ON you.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:20 AM
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I got older and not only gained experience but got tired of wasting time on people who didn't appreciate my time. If a person doesn't want the same thing cool, but if they can't offer you what you're looking for, move on. Do what you want, anyone who doesn't like it can fuck off. If you act comfortable when doing something then people will rarely question it. Just be confident in everything, evenif you messed up. Have humility too. Know your strengths but be able to acknowledge your weaknesses a…
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:19 AM
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Yeah, I text them when I want, because I WANT to. Do what feels right to you, cuz if you aren't then they'll know and you won't feel genuine.
/r/seduction05/06/21 08:05 AM
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If she wants to talk to you, she will. If she goes a day or more without responding, she saw it and hasn't replied cuz she doesn't want to. I'm bad to think of something else I wanna say and end up sending several texts. But I always tell the person if they dont know me that I'm not texting multiple times cuz they haven't responded, it's cuz I thought of more to say. But you deserve someone who puts in the same amount of effort, who WANTS and makes time to talk to you, and who is genuinely inter…
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:31 AM
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Yes, being able to talk to anyone easily is crazy useful.
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:09 AM
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I find not thinking about what I'm saying makes me smoother
/r/seduction21/05/21 04:32 AM
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I just focus on looking in their eye and staying present and listening to what they say
/r/seduction21/05/21 02:41 AM
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A no is better than a what if or maybe. Youre just finding out if they're compatible with you. Worst case it's a no, then you know that it wouldn't work. Leagues stuff is bull. Go after people YOURE attracted to, not who you THINK you're capable of attracting. Yes it's a numbers game but personality is more important than looks. Go for it.
/r/seduction19/05/21 10:00 PM
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Yes, sometimes they just aren't attracted and there's not really anything you can do to force it. But just be confident in yourself and don't take it personally. They just may not be offering what you're looking for. But lesson I learned is never stay friends if it didn't work out romantically.
/r/seduction14/05/21 10:02 PM
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Yes, failing is just figuring out where you went wrong and improving. You only get better with experience. Plus you getter a better feel for if a girl is worth your time.
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:55 PM
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No amount of effort can fix it if she just isn't feeling it. If she isn't, just let it go. Trust me.
/r/seduction14/05/21 07:34 PM
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Bruh, im a 2 years, today actually.
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:31 AM
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Be a dick but not an asshole
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:29 AM
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They say friends first but if you do that then you'll stay in the friend zone. They'll say their ideal guy is the sweet one but that's not who they date or fuck.
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:24 AM
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My best friend is not only a girl but is attracted to and has dated girls, they can sometimes be a good resource.
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:23 AM
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Youre either seen as a suitor or a friend. Better to risk rejection and be seen as a suitor rather than seen as a friend if you want more than that.
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:20 AM
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Remember, youre not interested in being friends, youre interested in more.
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:19 AM
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I'm considered a very funny guy. I have a very quick wit, excellent timing and am very sarcastic. I can frequently make my friends and coworkers laugh, sometimes to tears. But so far, being funny hadn't gotten me anywhere romantically, but I have no doubt it makes me more fun to be around and talk to. It also makes me more charismatic. People enjoy being around people that make them laugh and feel good. But I think also being too funny can be a negative cuz you won't be taken as seriously if eve…
/r/seduction08/05/21 07:08 AM
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I work with mainly women and this is true. It doesn't always mean they attracted but it means they feel comfortable with you. If they get close to you when talking, or come over and stay near you to have a conversation. I have some of them lean against me when I'm showing them something. It in my mind is a good feeling when a girl feels that comfortable around me, even if its not sexual.
/r/seduction08/05/21 06:58 AM
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Either way, that answer pretty much still says "not interested", so good idea to move on.
/r/seduction07/05/21 01:56 AM
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Just make an observation on something. Like if the music is loud or if the coffee is good. If you're able to try to be sarcastic or funny. Don't used canned lines unless they're good. Just don't think to hard.
/r/seduction30/04/21 08:13 AM
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You don't even know if you're compatible with the person that catches your eye. Go and talk to them and you'll know if you're compatible. Forget Leagues and Number ratings. If you're attracted go for it. Confidence and Personality are more important than looks. The worst case scenario is they say no or they aren't compatible. As a man, if you don't make the first move, you'll end up alone. Go after what you want and ask for it. Very rarely will girls make the first move. If you're attracted, go …
/r/seduction30/04/21 05:17 AM
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Yes, also talking to some Like their just another person helps with approach anxiety. Remember, you dont even know if you two are compatible. They may not be what you're looking for. Forget the league shit or number ratings. If you're attracted then go for it. Confidence and Personality can make up for looks.
/r/seduction30/04/21 04:52 AM
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I lost mine at 23 and I felt so much better after just getting it over with and off my chest. People say "it's just sex", says those who have had it. Trust me once you do it, itll feel so much better not worrying about it
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:42 AM
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Dude same! I can just keep going and going but can't finish unless I get myself there.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:39 AM
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If you dont even have the option of being friends a possibility in your mind its even better. You're not looking for a friend
/r/seduction22/04/21 02:19 AM
1

Usually if they have one, they will mention them, I find.
/r/seduction22/04/21 02:16 AM
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Yeah, usually a girl will mention her bf in conversation, I find. If they don't usually means they don't have one. But that's a subtle way too.
/r/seduction22/04/21 02:12 AM
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Yeah, you dont want a friend. You gotta be ok to accept that if she doesn't want more than that, to walk away.
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:58 AM
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I work with women. The majority of them love me. I'm friends with almost all of them. I can talk easily and effortlessly with them. They feel comfortable with me. I just cant get it to apply to more than friends. I have no hesitation to ask girls out though. It just never seems to transition into more than friends.
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:57 AM
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I'll be 28 this year and everyone pegs me at 23
/r/seduction18/04/21 11:56 AM
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No I value your advice bro. Sometimes it feels like being vague can convey platonic intentions. I totally agree with what you're saying.
/r/seduction17/04/21 09:04 PM
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But if you dont explicitly say it's a date, then it could be interpreted as a platonic hang.
/r/seduction17/04/21 04:17 PM
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Camouflage
/r/seduction17/04/21 11:27 AM
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If all her pics are in a group, it's never the hot one.
/r/seduction17/04/21 06:24 AM
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I meant by saying that instead of invalidating their experience by saying you've been there, you try to let them know that you validate their feelings
/r/seduction17/04/21 05:57 AM
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Youre making them feel validated, when they open up to you, they want to feel like their emotions are valid and not dismissed. Often I paraphrase it. It makes them feel like you understand them. Say things like "I can't imagine how that must feel for you" don't say "oh me too" or "I've been there". Listen, validate. Make them feel like you get them.
/r/seduction17/04/21 01:04 AM
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You don't have to be an Alpha to be dominant in the way you mean. I find they mean more in the sense of taking the lead, making the decisions and plans. Mainly so they don't have to decide, youre more taking charge.
/r/seduction16/04/21 11:53 PM
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Be confident but have humility
/r/seduction16/04/21 11:42 PM
1

If you ask to hang, if she suggests a friend then youre platonic, if its the two of you then its potentially more. You don't wanna come across as a friend. Better to strike out and let her know you don't wanna be friends and move on if she isn't interested in that.
/r/seduction16/04/21 10:15 PM
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Well if you invite them to hang. If they add a friend then its friendzone, if its just the two of you then there's potential. I think something low key is appealing cuz its minimal pressure. I'd say "do you wanna do something the two of us, like a date?"
/r/seduction16/04/21 10:13 PM
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Also make them feel validated emotionally. You'll know it works when they essentially respond with "right!!!???"
/r/seduction16/04/21 10:06 PM
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I've had a lot of girls say that me knowing what I want is very attractive. Although the worst compliment as a guy to hear is that they are "sweet". Girls don't usually end up fucking the guys they think of as sweet.
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:43 AM
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I text them whenever I want because I'm an adult and am not interested in trying to be "alpha". If I wanna text her, I do. We all get busy, forget to respond. If I feel like she's blowing me off then I won't push it. Not gonna try to talk to someone who doesnt wanna talk to me. If they did then they will message. Usually if a day or more goes by then I won't try anymore. There needs to be equal effort on reaching out.
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:37 AM
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Yeah I feel a similar way. The girl can be crazy hot but if we don't click, she's not interesting or hard to talk to, doesn't show any interest in learning about me, then it kills any interest. A moderately attractive girl becomes much more attractive if she has a great personality. But there has to be some amount of physical attraction there for me to be interested at all. Come for looks, stay for personality.
/r/seduction11/04/21 10:32 AM
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Meet at a restaurant.
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:32 AM
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True, the more it happens, the less it will affect you. A no is always better than a maybe. Im not even afraid to talk to beautiful girls or ask em out anymore. It just takes practice doing it more and more. But if they aren't into you, move on. Don't stay friends. Move on.
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:27 AM
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Tip: you can only look at one eye at a time. Keep making eye contact while they talk and don't let extraneous distractions focus on something else. Make them feel like you're in a bubble together, only listening to them. Move between each eye from time to time, itll make your eyes sparkle. If you make a person feel like you're truly dedicated and fascinated by what they're saying, itll leave a great impression. Watch how Bill Clinton talks to people and you'll see what I mean.
/r/seduction11/04/21 01:13 AM
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Ask open ended questions. Listen, remember. Ask follow up questions. Make her laugh. It let's her do most of the talking and makes her feel comfortable talking to you.
/r/seduction10/04/21 02:28 AM
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Make the first move. Ask questions about him. Its so refreshing when a girl makes the first move. You'd be amazed how rarely girls ask me questions about myself. Show interest and make the first move.
/r/seduction09/04/21 05:56 AM
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I think they do pick up on when you're faking confidence and actually confident. Make yourself look how YOU want you to look.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:29 AM
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Just getting them to talk and tell you about themselves, genuinely listen and rember does wonders.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:27 AM
1

Yes, if she is interested then she will make the time time to respond or hang out with you.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:19 AM
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So true. If you're gonna swing, swing for the fences. Go after who you're attracted to. Either they dig you or they don't. They're just people.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:18 AM
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Well it's hard cuz flirting can look almost identical to friendly. And being branded a creep is mortifying for most guys. Everytime I swear it's interest, it's just friendliness.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:17 AM
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Well I mean I don't laugh ONLY when the crowd laughs. I'm just deadpan by nature and sometimes it takes a second for things to hit people. But it's most of the time HOW I deliver something or timing is what comes across as funny. Im also extremely sarcastic and smart assed so it could just be my personality. But if you laugh right after the joke before the punch line lands, it can break the tension.
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:09 AM
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I'll usually laugh once everyone else does.
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:44 AM
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You are correct, ive just found generally it works for most comedians and I find that it's not ad much what I say that people find is funny its how I say it and the timing. But using your natural sense of humor is the best way. Most people are funniest when they aren't trying to be.
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:43 AM
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Yeah I mean just keeping the straight face after the punchline can make it far funnier than what you actually said.
/r/seduction18/03/21 07:17 AM
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When you tell and joke, don't laugh after the punch line. Learn to keep a straight face and be deadpan. It'll come across souch more funnier because it'll not release tension plus you'll be hard to read.
/r/seduction18/03/21 06:45 AM
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I'm smoother and funnier when I'm not thinking at all about what I'm doing.
/r/seduction18/03/21 06:44 AM
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Remember this as well: There is flirting for fun and flirting for results. It can be damn hard to tell the difference.
/r/seduction27/01/21 06:07 PM
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Well not necessarily. They could just like talking to you. I have coworkers who are in relationships who go out of their way to talk to me because they are fond of me.
/r/seduction27/01/21 03:57 AM
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Just talk to them. Make an observation. You can tell in a few seconds if they're interested in talking to you. Talk to everyone. Youll become more outgoing. Just think, what is the worst outcome, you get a cold shoulder or no? Then move on. You get a yes? Then follow through. Talk to everyone, not just attractive girls.
/r/seduction27/01/21 03:51 AM
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