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7	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction...	Fundamentals	tehverdikt	/r/seduction	19/01/22 09:31 AM

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1	What are some of the best books for a man to learn about dating and flirting? This is a great response and one that should be pinned on the Wiki for beginners on what to expect from this subreddit. Might I add to your response that it's perfectly okay to fail - failure is expected, but know that when you fail, you will also know how to succeed the next time.	/r/seduction	23/01/22 05:55 AM
2	F4A Can someone teach me how to flirt? Just curious to know from a male's perspective. It's often hard engaging when a woman really wants to open up to you and respond to your flirting cues as I have ruined one too many dates jumping forward. What are some of the responses I should be looking out for a woman who might be shy or introverted to show these cues? How do guys truly know women are responding well to kino?	/r/seduction	23/01/22 05:48 AM
2	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction... Just came out of another first date. I let my guard down and even though the conversations went well, I realised that the girl was a bit more introverted than expected. I didn't seem to receive any kino back despite conversing well and making her laugh, therefore didn't end up K-closing. But I did end up using several kino clues to see if she reciprocated (slight shoulder touch if it was a joke that was unbelievable, complimenting her earrings by touching her ears) and all I saw was that she was…	/r/seduction	20/01/22 11:50 AM
2	[Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits. Great work on owning your interests! I love dancing and even though it's not a masculine interest, I get great feedback about it and then add something corny or sexual like "God gave me great hips, I've just got to flaunt it now"	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:53 AM
1	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction... When you mentioned "attractive" I assume you meant physically?	/r/seduction	20/01/22 04:43 AM
2	Good online dating openers I like to think of it as probability. You'll still get responses, the frequency of responses from something you can cold read as opposed to a blunt hi would definitely be higher.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 09:43 PM
2	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction... Thank you, exactly the kind of feedback I needed. Reading these overviews of escalation ladders seems to be detrimental because you think it's a cookie-cutter process you need to do as a minimum by the first date. Glad to know its much easier and more relaxed than I thought it to be.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 09:42 PM
2	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction... Thank you. I've definitely been overthinking this after reading too many Seddit posts. I'll tone it down accordingly :)	/r/seduction	19/01/22 09:39 PM
1	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction... Thanks. I think I've been jumping three steps ahead without understanding the fundamentals, glad to know how I can tone it down.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 09:35 PM
2	Good online dating openers Look at their pictures (Tinder) or on their prompts (Hinge) and see how you can become witty with using them as an opener. If you feel like you're >2 sentences, shorten it down because it will sound wordy and lose its punch. Using "whats up" or "hey" puts you as the rest of the guys out there - it feels like effort, but its easier building conversation on something you've become witty over than a simple figuring out their day.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 11:40 AM
2	Does kino in first dates actually work? I've had a negative kino reaction... Could you elaborate on that? Looking forward to ideas and examples where I can integrate it being subtle as opposed to being more forward. Thank you!	/r/seduction	19/01/22 10:55 AM