| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Make it your own | teka7 | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 08:59 AM | |
| 1 | Emotions | teka7 | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 12:08 PM | |
| 1 | Instincts | teka7 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 01:51 PM | |
| 1 | Just be yourself | Red Pill Theory | teka7 | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 12:39 PM |
| 0 | A cat | teka7 | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 09:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 45 | You should bartend at least once in your lifeYes yes and yes again. So fucking true, all of it. Just some of the things i learned/observed (becore i got into TRP).... ...women dont have best friends (from a male definition) - she will stab her "bestie" in the back for nothing ....its all about her emotions in the moment !! (!!!!!!) ...the average male is a pussy (granted, i tended at a student focused club) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/22 06:12 AM |
| 126 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notdear lord please have mercy | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | If I move to college with my girlfriend should I pay the apartment costsI wont comment on the question, but instead point to the quote "i have nothing to lose." Yes you do. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:46 PM |
| 12 | LTR "breaks up" with me multiple times a monththey want attention and test you. in all seriousness, tell her to fuck off for good | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceTrust your gut | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 07:50 PM |
| 2 | HB10 asked me to show my biceps/shoulders…on the right track? (Plating)Thats what i thought.... | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | A guy wanted to beat me, but now he invited me to talkI imagine that that is how the high school musical starts... better start practicing your dance moves | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Urgent advice. Tldr at the bottomevery women is willing to cheat with the right man ... | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 09:28 AM |
| -1 | girl wants me to get more emotional and text moreshe often says i need to be more emotional, use words like miss you ect. in texts. (which i dont do) 'nuff said | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:04 AM |
| 5 | How to hold eye contact?Just look at one eye... if you want "deep" eye contact, try to figure out her eye color | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Interesting podcasts to listing?Around the NFL, The wolfs den, 2 bros 1 shaker cup, :> | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Important to look your best 24/7?i wear old shirts and workout shorts with holes in it in the gym. i much rather let my body/lifts speak for themselves. helps that im prett vascular tho... | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 11:06 AM |
| 2 | I keep hearing “men have to find a purpose, otherwise they’re just drifting”, but I can’t find any other purposes than my current onesI second that. Always remember the 80/20 - (truely) master the basics and you got most of it down | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 16 | Best Redpill movies/videos?Californication | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | The axiomatic frame: You are a Kingthis is stupid | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s your favorite response to “What’s your type?”"pamela anderson" Or some other rather extreme/bizarre looking woman | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 11 | Women ruin my birthday dinner (again)you sound like a bitch | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Rate my Instagram ( dating )Ahm...i couldnt disagree more with the other commenters You look like a lil chubby guy who wants to be tough and your whole profile page just screams "fake" to me (fake as in not-the-real-deal". Oh...and the captions....please.... But then again, im no instagram expert...i prefer the real world Edit: i swear im not that old | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | What does your car say about you?"And I think he knows that I'm good at driving because I watch F1." lol'd | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The more I lift the less women I attract?I have to disagree with some comments / want to give a different perspective. I want to say im rugged, good looking guy, have "a look", 196cm (6'4"), 110kg (whatever that is in retarded units) and single digit bodyfat. I do get attention on the street, no doubt. Things change when im "on" though - not gear, but that confident-im-the-best-thing-since-sliced-bread feeling you sometimes get... I still get attention, but ä) less and b) women hide it WAY better... Im guessing its a fear of rejection … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Are alphas/leaders born or made? Or both?The scientific term for that is "nature vs nurture" btw | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How to get faster at recognising iois?Trust your gut | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Being calm, collected and confidentI read charlie francis book on sprinting recently. He mentioned, that if you try to increase your running speed it doesnt happen immediately. It takes some time and you should think "wait for it". Its the same with behavior change. It doesnt happen overnight, but itll happen if you work on it - just "wait for it" | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you decide which values to hold onto in life, and which ones to drop?This. Adapt. "Only those unchanged by life, are not living it" | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 5 | How to earn more respect and be a leaderlet me ask you.... why should anyone follow you? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever gotten into a slump and lost your groove? How did you bounce back?This. Life happens in waves. Every down follows an up. Just endure the down and down get too pumped up on the down | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Apologizing to a women? Yes, no? My situation ..For the next time: "Exclusive" means nothing to her (and there can be some debate whether ltr=exclusive or not) | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Cant find purpose in lifego read So good they cant ignore you by Cal Newport | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Books that changed your life and how?Chris Bailey - Hyperfocus | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:44 AM |
| 5 | Been in love for more than a year now. Need interesting ideas! Help!You might want to search the mainsub for "genuine desire" and think about her being "lazy and busy" again... | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 3 | How to keep frame in this situation, play cool or shit test?dafuq? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Is the end goal family?the end goal is what you define it to be | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Gut Feeling: Paranoia or I am getting into a rabbit hole here? Too many RP experiences are getting me mistrustfulI would trust your gut feelings agreed. heavily agreed. i rationalized my gut feelings away too often in the past... (imho) your gut is always right.... | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | No true confidence. How to build it?two ways to build confidence: -gain confidence by fulfilling tasks/challenges -gain confidence by tolerating uncertainty | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 08:33 AM |
| 4 | why does this keep happening to me?two options: a) youre grossly underestimating your smv and all people feel threatened by you and test your gut b) youre grossly overestimating your smv (hint: more likely from reading your text) | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 09:20 AM |
| 2 | The 'you are the prize' mindsetdoes nobody read the book of pook anymore? it states "[...] but you have to become the prize" (quoting from mind) | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Should I wish this girl a happy birthday after she explicitly told me not to forget?This. And before anyone comments, its not about the "should i?", Its about even wasting one thought of something like "is this gud or nah?" On topic: do whatever you fancy | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 6 | I see my "turn" is nearly over, what do?Trust your gut, it's always right, don't overthink it. this. took me multiple failures to realize the truth in that... | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Need Guidance and Advice from very experienced RP men.the whole idea behind the book of pook is, that all those "techniques" (passing shit-tests or whatever) becomes natural when you get in the right state of mind. BOOK OF POOK - most underrated lecture on this sub!!! | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How would you respond here?"good" if it was good "Meh" if it was bad | /r/askTRP | 14/11/20 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Why does she refuse to text me but calls instead?She might have a bf? He could sniff around and find text messages, cant find the content of a phone call | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this quote. It’s basically a peacocking quoteAgreed. Im all that, have a shady past and all that stuff...its not about that, its all the experiences that shape you. Its what id call man up.... | /r/askTRP | 10/10/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | TRP response to girl not satisfyingAn alpha wouldn't be asking how to respond and just do what he wants to do about this situation. This is the answer to ANY "did i have the right reaction?" and "how do i properly handle this?¨ question btw. You Sir, got it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Things I can go outside to do by myself for cheapi like motorcycles. i like speed. i like working on my bike. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 5 | How to convince girl to come visit youYou don’t have to “convince” her. Drop that mindset right now, take it or leave it, she either comes or doesn’t don’t chase if she doesn’t was coming here to post just that. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 30 | I'm the luckiest man alivecongratulations. instead of needing a woman, youre dependent on your twin brother. not sure if thats any better. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 12:40 PM |
| 2 | When should you cut off friends?Learn to accept the highs and most especially the lows - it was fun while it lasted. Agreed. In hindsight im, more often than not, tempted to go as far as "even the lows were fun" | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Moving out at 27 years oldget the fuck out of your parents house. What the fuck is wrong with people nowadays. Youll learn more living on your own than by reading stuff on the internet. I was kicked out when i was 19 and i couldnt be more thankfull in hindsight | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 0 | Is this behavior overstepping limits?Sorry, but are you retarded? YOU define what/where the boundaries are.... jesus fucking christ | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Signs of a Cheatercouldnt agree more. been there, done that. annoyed the shit out of me that i didnt act upon it. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | In a dilemma right nowAs a non-us guy, can somebody please explain the stupid "ill go to college, even if its just some stupid ass major nobody (not even me) cares about and which will help me ZERO in my futute life" -philosophy you guys take?!? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I just can’t fucking get it apparently.Reading your post, this is what came to mind first: Its nice that you DO all these things, but it sounds like youre consciously doing them, ie, faking them. Women will smell that. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 08:48 AM |
| 14 | How high does your SMV need to be to attract 8s and 9s?Not more to say. Perceived 1-2 above theirs is the common range | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 08:44 AM |
| 8 | SMV Statistics-Probability Theory?jesus fucking christ. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 12:13 PM |
| 16 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?i second this | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Chick keeps on calling me “B”?Shes either too lazy to type out "bro" or "bitch"...anyway... | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Friends hanging out with cheating ex - dropped themTurned 30 a few days ago, can confirm. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on self controlA lot of people are so convinced of their powerlessness and vulnerability they'll shift the goalposts to try to prove it. brilliant post. i want to add one (for some maybe new) perspective: power is the degree to which you have control over your own life (ie the direction it takes etc) | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Girls who hate you/ disrespect you but seem to pay attention to everything you do?okay maybe my percentage was too dude-like. let me rephrase my point: (imho) women will put up a shield in which the hamster spins and gives her reasons to hate you - she feels emotions yes. my point is, that that hamster can give her that much hatred that she will be swallowed by it and you cant get behind her shield - if you do (the 95%) you can do some very dirty stuff to her, but to get behind that shield can take a while and im not sure its ALWAYS possible (the 100%). does that make sense n… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Girls who hate you/ disrespect you but seem to pay attention to everything you do?I would love to start a discussio on this!! My 2 cents: If she really, truely, 100% hates you, there is not much you can do If she hates you only lets say 95% i feel like it holds true what /u/desiba13 said... Any other commenters? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | LTR of 4 years broke up with me and she immediately regretted that decision and begged for forgiveness. I am not sure about her anymore. Double check before dumping hercouldnt agree more. Some stuff ist just too much to wander back from. Enforce your boundaries. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | What red pilled ideology/ advice was the biggest eye opener for you?This should go without saying. Too bad too many people forget that | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | What red pilled ideology/ advice was the biggest eye opener for you?For women: How important attention (and thus validation) is for her. This coupled with them being emotional creatures in combination with body language. For myself: That nature always wins | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 08:50 AM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between being a gentleman and a simp.or more eloquently: if you dont do it unconditionally (ie demand a return) - youre simping | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Is this her way of trying to get me back?best solution imho | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever soft nexted and it worked? What happened?True. Its funny, was just observing this today (and thus thinking a lil bit about it) Was having an aweful day yesterday and saw an ex, she seemed so happy with everything bla bla - today i got back to normal and saw her again, catched her peaking looks at me etc That intuition is kinda scary... | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 71 | How do you guys fight emotional investment?get busy. like, have a life worth living | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is interested in you but no physical IOIAgreed. She thinks you are interesting (hence the conversation) but she might also find her brother interesting... | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Can a oneitis have a positive effect?No. As soon as you find a new chick youll develop a new oneitis and fall for her | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | What is it about Rollo TomassiI get all the hate for his persona, but isnt that beside the point of his work? Dont really give a fuck about him personally, he wrote a couple of good books and opened my eyes to the theory of the whole topic of intersexual dynamics. He even writes it in the preface of his first book... "im just connecting the dots of my observations, you might disagree with some of my stuff, but go find out for yourself" (im paraphrasing here) - so do exactly that. to the actual topic: The whole "scene" went t… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Virgin here - How much do you really need to practice having sex?Sounds awesome on paper. It isn't. can confirm. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:36 AM |
| 3 | Other than lifting and reading, what are some other hobbies for people with a lot of free time?dont listen to me what type (im into sports bikes). Go figure out the way you like to drive, fast/relaxed/curvy etc and then decide on a type accordingly. but definitely do it, its amazing ... | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl insists on buying her drinks? Shit test or what?this. win-win | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:26 AM |
| 14 | Other than lifting and reading, what are some other hobbies for people with a lot of free time?i like motorcycles. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | how to interact with old oneitis without coming off as butthurtCorrect! Lot of people here dont wanna look butthurt, they compose messages, act cool, mince words so they could act alpha agreed. what happens is youre in someones frame... but not your own | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | how to interact with old oneitis without coming off as butthurtagreed 100% I basically see one of my former ex every day at work (had something before i worked here) and i basically ghost her irl. I couldnt care less if she thinks im butthurt. A lot of people here talk about keeping frame , dgaf attitude etc while also talking about avoiding looking like youre butthurt....get your shit together ppl. Do what you think is right. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 01:16 PM |
| 138 | Should I focus on self improvement instead of girls for a while ?A. The payoff will be bigger in the future comparedto B | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on this?This reads so cringy | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I cut my dad off?Im 29 now. Had a rough relationship with my dad during my teen years. Not talking from 14-19, got kicked out at 19 etc... Never cut off the contact after being booted though - thank god i didnt! I learned so fucking much from him in those years (passive learning) and now hes one of the most important ppl in my life Just a little perspective from someone who might have been in a similiar situaton | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Tips for strong eye contact?Focus on one eye and switch them up during the conversation | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Moving Out later in life?this !!! | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Whats been your most impactful purchase for 100$ or less?lold | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Left on read while handling logisticsflake, dont msg here and dont pick her up. if she answers you last minute, just tell her you got other plans now (and actually go make other plans...) | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 12:45 PM |
| 30 | What are some good ways to reduce emotional investment?do other things. like seriously, not being an asshole here, it does help A LOT / cures it completely | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Aboundance mindsetyes, "abundance mindset" refers to basically everything in your life | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 10:59 AM |
| 18 | What’s your go style dressing style?If there is one thing i learned about fashion, its what Tomassi says... ¨have a look¨ - ie find something that fits your persona/lifestyle/etc and expand upon that! made a hell of a change for me | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:06 AM |
| 5 | How to reactyour option is moving on (and keep face) or run after her (and regret it in a few months) | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Guys i got a problem that's really getting me down (Lowered smv)get busy (hobbies, work, self-improvement, etc...) | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Will women still shit test you even if you become a couple?as the others said: yes, BUT not so much in public, she will test you more privately | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Is this shit fact?Im moving more and more away from this sentiment - more to this: How does he make me feel. And this kinda includes what you said, what can he DO for me (money etc) and how can THAT make me feel.... | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Do girls have such thing as type or everything is determined by SMV and every girl perceives it the same?I want to add: These preferences also change with their prior history! | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Girl denied sex, should I give it one more try or next?She asked her sister if she was hungry and she said yes, so she texted her that she’d be home before 11 for the next time, there is your tipping point | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 10:18 AM |
| 21 | Weird ONSReason: Sex wasnt good / She didnt enjoy the date as much as you thought / You are not what she expected Move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 12:19 PM |
| 6 | Men, who have lost weight in order to become attractive, what difference have you seen in people's interest towards you? Need motivation to continue.i couldnt agree more - with the weight loss and the IF !!!! I went from 350lbs to a ripped 225lbs right now (with veins all over) Its made a world of a difference! So honestly, this happened to me way before i knew about the redpill, but if there is one major eye-opening moment in my life, its the weight loss. People look and treat you completely different. Not only people on the street, but also your friends and even your family... its honestly disgusting! | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Signs you're emotionally invested in a womanI want to add to the other comments: (Imho) you have to fail with a woman to see it better the next time | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | How do I get over my fear of fights?Ive derived a similar conclusion.... There are two kinds of ppl you should really think about twice ruffing...people that got NOTHING to loose and people who got EVERYTHING to loose...both in the truest sense of their words | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Girl only wants to give Instagramthis. not much to add. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Am I beta for wanting to talk to and be affectionate with my LTR?youre ¨beta¨ for asking random strangers on the internet if something is x or y and adapting your behavior according to that | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Group of friends says I make other females feel uneasy and uncomfortable.without knowing the exact context.... making them "uncomfortable and uneasy" sounds like a good thing to me.... making her agitated is always a plus in my book | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Question about guy who calls me a beta maleisnt it obvious? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Only Strong MFs will survive during these timesdafuq is wrong with you | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this is shit test? Am I overreacting? Best choice to move forward?I am confident in my SMV i doubt it... this is ridiculous... | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 10:47 AM |
| 8 | How to continue after The Talkignore proceed as usual | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 7 | KO this dude or not?you decide what crosses the line. for me: i dont hit guys first, i provoke them till they hit me. under the law of my country thats self-defense and i cannot be prosecuted. saved me a couple of times. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 09:36 AM |
| 16 | KO this dude or not?I said I am calling police, he wanted to give me his phone to do it. dude he seriously won the day with that one!!! gonna steal it if the situation allows it | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Gyms ,clubs and other gaming venues closedand read | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 08:11 AM |
| 10 | Can anybody give me examples of when they applied The 48 Laws of Power: Law 25: Recreate Yourself?Yes. lost weight and got in shape (never enough...) in the process of retraining my mind and thus change my persona | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | The Fundamentals of Sexual Communication and AttractionThey're like cats i honestly thought about this a few weeks ago when i visited my parents and it has stayd in the back of my mind ever since.... it is (almost) literally the same.... in case you got a cat - go test this! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 07:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you spice up your sex game with your plates?Like that. Invite her to your office before/after work and do it there OR in an empty lecture hall if you are a student Damn...those were the days... Your turn | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 06:58 PM |
| 7 | How do you spice up your sex game with your plates?secret tipp: the changing room at a clothing store | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 05:38 PM |
| 53 | The Fundamentals of Sexual Communication and Attractionlove it. The facets of attraction are simple. It is human beings, who, in our arrogance, think we know better than nature, complicate things that are simple. sums it up nicely btw. motherfucking nature bitches. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/20 09:31 AM |
| 14 | Girls say I’m attractive until I open my mouthdont be dumb/boring? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 01:36 PM |
| 11 | Girl asked me to put her over my shoulder?some girl said she could lift me because I look small. She lifts me here is the problem btw | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Ever ok to mess with them by saying "you win"depends on how you say it | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | How to Manage Platesive found out that 3-4 plates are max that i can manage and keep without much effort. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | wtf is up with envy character assassination, when you once got along very well?ignore them. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | I've been talking to a girl in college but she has a ring, what to do?just for fun, let me spoil if you were to ask her (DONT DO IT, ignore it) "woots that ring on your ring finger?" "oh thats a ring my grandma used to wear before she passed" "and youre wearing it on your ring finger?" "yeah....what? .... oh that means nothing, hihihihi" | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I cannot let go of being 'too nice'just force yourself, itll become more natural once you started | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 01:17 PM |
| 12 | Did i deal correctly with this shit test?like that answer of yours, gonna steal it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR complains I don't give enough attention or text her enough but when I do she takes forever to answershe gone | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me? Seriously I need some advice/helpi came to the conclusion that women NEED to be TOLD stuff sometimes. i mean, to us its clear theyre both the same, but for some weird reason women react different to being told directly/straight up ... | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Date conversationsthis. if it gets boring and she wont jump ship with you to a more interesting topic, i literally pull my wallet out, put some cash on the table (in case we are drinking something or so.... inb4: beta because im drinking with a woman...) and walk away its your life, do what you want. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 08:49 AM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me? Seriously I need some advice/helpi lold | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | WTF is wrong with me? Seriously I need some advice/helpI left her on read when she asked me if we could be friends on whatsapp. "no" | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Should you assume attraction with all girl you meet, even at first dates, or should you expect initial low interest but you should trust your ability to raise it with time ?assume initial attraction, from there it can go up or down depending on whether you confirm/refute the image she has of you. this is not only valid for first dates btw ... | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 08:43 AM |
| -1 | Should you assume attraction with all girl you meet, even at first dates, or should you expect initial low interest but you should trust your ability to raise it with time ?Somewhere in between | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Sexual frustration?lesson learned: there is a HUGE difference between "abundance mentality" and "abundance" | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Wants to take it slow BSi strictly adhere to the 3-times rule | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | ‘I need you to text me more, it makes me think you aren’t interested’very well said | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Communicationno. give hints, dont tell her anything overtly. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 09:49 AM |
| 56 | Dealing With Insecuritiesi want to add a lil line from some book (forgot which, would love to give credit) regarding confidence.... "confidence is simply tolerating uncertainty" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/20 09:02 AM |
| 3 | How did your life changed since you are jacked?I disagree. Its hell finding proper fitting clothes!!! | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | I'm in an LTR without explicitly stating boundaries beyond common sense... is it bound to fail?Everything's like this. If she decides to cheat or be with another guy, no problems there, I just won't be there when she's back, but I will never tell her what she can or can't do cause I don't own her nor act like a jealous little bitch. if you do this (which i do similiar), then make sure to speak through your actions ! | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Should I have made a move?Thought exactly this when i read the title | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | How do you move on from a previous life?Take responsibility for your choices this. dont explain. this is literally your life, nobody else can live it for you, so why do you let them influence you? on your deathbed, youre the only one that will know if it was worth living or not, so might as well live it on your terms.... | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 06:58 AM |
| 0 | Social ProofShe "liked it" ? I dont even...who the fuck cares, stop interpreting random stuff in other random stuff. Jesus fucking christ | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | FWB gave me drama so I soft nexted her. 2 weeks later she apologized and we meet and fuck. Now she has invited me out to meet her friends.. what to do?She was right with her response btw | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony.Welcome to Solipsism 101 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend shit testing me?[..] she keeps telling me to apologise or she'll leave. (To which I keep responding with "leave them") Any idea how to sort this out? [...] I do think half of the problem is that I'm too beta, and I let her walk all over me. cant make it anymore obvious | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Plate has lot of male friendsI told her comply or goodbye. She said she'd comply BUT started acting bitchy aka she did not comply ... are you seriously asking what to do? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Do Parents Have a Right to Know About Everything?You're 24. major lulz | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Plate has lot of male friendsi always feel that a lot of the guys here fall into black/white thinking... "you care? jeez you here bitch" lets not get carried away. while they (of course) have some valid points, i want to take another direction: you have multiple plates, she can do the same, cant she? show her the consequences and then act on it. period. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:58 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with short guys who overly try to "out-alpha" you?ignore them | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How To Be Aggressivethis. its to the point. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way of looking at my shitty current self in order to improve?Bro you are a ,"student". You are learning. You're not expected to know everything, just have a good attitude and try to internalize all the RP knowledge. Be proud that you're taking steps forward even if you struggle a bit. That's part of the process. this is referred to life in general btw! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Emotions and Womenthe day you get good with women is the day you learn to lead her emotions and thus, her. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 02:02 PM |
| 16 | Plate pulled out the "I want an LTR" cardliterally all three questions can be answered with "do what you want, its your life" but i know you dont want to hear that, so here is my input.... tell her you like her company but you are not ready YET (the "yet" triggers something in women...) told them exactly what i wanted/not wanted. some were not fine with that. you gotta accept that. dont force yourself to do new stuff if you are already living a fulfilled life. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 12:01 PM |
| 13 | LTR pressuring for marriagelooks like I’ll never be getting one of those "well not as long as you keep pressuring me" lol.... | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Best books on social skills/personal development?book of pook | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?not arguing there. but NOT doing it on some special day seems equally forced to me. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?sorry but this is utter bullshit. im not saying "do it" but i would urge everyone to decide for himself!! if YOU wanna do it, do it and get her something. But make sure its you who decides, do it because you genuinely want to make a lil nice gesture and dont expect anything in return. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Started a new job. I am completely happy with how I act and who I am but the majority of people avoid me and give me unsure looks?Another thing is people asking me if I am mad, or tired, or sad or saying "you look sad" when in factual reality I actually feel pretty ok, I just have a resting face that makes me look slightly irritated. Why are you so quiet is another one, as if I need to have a reason? exactly this happens to me too, ALL THE TIME. i honestly just dont care anymore. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 09:07 AM |
| 8 | Is seducing ex-plate’s friend fair game?yes. do it. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Can you become a chad?who cares? you do you. you define if you become a fictional character some people you dont know from the internet made up. kinda sad imho... | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:21 AM |
| 0 | I was told girls get over breakups better than guysoh dont get me wrong. it is a VERY good book, its obviously much more detailed and precise, but you kinda summed up the main message of the book. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 56 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyi did. went from massively fat to ripped. been a few years now that ive changed but i still struggle, not gonna lie. just keep looking back at your past success, itll get better. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 08:16 AM |
| 16 | Is this a form of BPD? Plate acting weirdcan we maybe stop with this BPD bullshit? not every irrationale behavior is BPD. Its getting ridiculous | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 07:54 AM |
| 0 | I was told girls get over breakups better than guysnice summary of tomassis second book! (full srs) | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Difficulties plating ONSsno mistake imho. you did fine. it (probably) just wasnt/isnt there. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR recently told a mutual friend she never loved me.this. in man-speak she said "i feel like i dont love him right now, so i never loved him. period." | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 3 | How bad sex cured my oneitiesyes. and the funny thing is: its always like that.... reality will never live up to the image you drew up in your head. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Did I react correctly? Looking for confirmation that I worked the info from the sidebar properly.Here comes the kicker. She then said “I don’t expect you to forgive me, but I want us to have a healthy relationship.” I took this as her saying “I want us to be friends despite me hurting you so I can get attention while I bang someone else.” you got this right. your decision what to do next. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 02:19 PM |
| 8 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?what i think? dump the apps and go out just read your text chain... shes playing you | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How much do cloths say about a womanagreed. but i would like to add that, once you got a baseline (!), you can somehow determine her mood changes/menstrual cycle state by her daily outfit. now pls dont take this literally, but its a hint and you need to observe other stuff on her, but still... | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Learned Betaness; A reflection on societies failure to produce alpha malesnature vs nurture - one of the most fascinating topics to me | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/20 07:34 AM |
| 10 | Blue Pilled Beta Tries to Shit on Men And Gets Put in His Place By Woman On National Televisioni would do her. she looks like a really nasty b. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | How to accept the world as it is?This. It has always been as it is. Lets say you find out your father killer 20 ppl, would just knowing it change anything? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | The Woman in Redvery nice post. 100% agree All these are just a projection of your own cravings. She becomes the embodiment of your own deep insecurities. this really is making me think.... (literally) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | You are enough. A core of Red Pillno i got your message, its just the words you chose imho. i can already see people reading this as "im good enough, dont need to work on myself"... always work on yourself but dont be hindered by yourself ! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | You are enough. A core of Red Pilldont agree with the title/wording, but i agree with the message to some degree! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of subconscious belief you aren’t good enough?dont. try to improve yourself instead. itll come. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Fellow redpillers, what are your thoughts on this one case?It's not about how HE looks, but about how he makes HER FEEL. this is the most misunderstoof fact in this sub imho. Its never about your looks, your weight or how you treat her that attracts her, its about how those facts/actions make her feel. ALWAYS. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 11:37 AM |
| 3 | You don't care enough: why your life sucks and how to change it.Nice post, i start to like you | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/20 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible that I’m 9.5 % bf?This | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Thinking of getting a gym membership for the fit thottiesget a life | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | friend out of nowhere ghosted his LTR, what's RP intake on that way of breaking up?im with stupid | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | What professions / hobbies do you consider a red flag for an LTR?whoring around? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl confusing af?This | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Best city to move to in USA ? For two 18 year olds looking to game chicks? Preferably a capital city, that cost of living is cheap?Wtf is wrong with you guys?!? | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | how much space should I give a girl we recently met?Okay, i'm glad. I know how having no brain-cells left from overload feels, so feel free to text me anytime you feel like you can breathe again. I'll be here for you dafuq?!? might as well check yourself first. if you find out you still got your balls, then you can text her again... | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to deal with jealous orbitors?i like this | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Fwb asked for more respect.How can I handle this so I can maintain the upper hand or gain even more control/power? you already gave the answer....tell her exactly this She's very cool and nice. I do like hanging out with her, I'm happy with our current relationship. I don't see her as a girlfriend at the moment, not for a while. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Did I fail this shit test? Is it a big deal and can I recover from it?you failed the minute you thought about posting it here | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 12:00 PM |
| 3 | How do you realistically create your own reality for someone to come into and find value in, if you already have a mission and you lift, but outside of that, it's pretty bland?I'm on the way to making a self-improvement website/blog/business are you sure about that?!? | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 11:58 AM |
| 11 | Why do women who are friends act overly excited to see each other virtually every time they ever see each other?i wouldnt go THAT far but yeah.... i basically agree... "women dont have friends, they have friendly enemies" | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test, low self esteem or what?wanna score? go off and hit on the other girl, succeed (!), come back and tell her "would be a downgrade" or something similar.... | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | You Already Know the Answerwholeheartedly agreed. this made the biggest difference in my development! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/20 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Conflicted about clingy gfare you justifying yourself keeping her here? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Prince Harry leaving Royal duties?who the fuck cares?!? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 22 | LTR wants me to turn on the last seen on whatsapp"have to think about it" and dont do it "smile, nod, and then do what you were gonna do anyway" - i dunno who said that | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 08:47 AM |
| 7 | Become quick wittedit starts with being able to laugh about yourself... inb4: dont take shit/disrespect | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 08:38 AM |
| 3 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youi can concurr. been kicked out by my parents, only been homeless for half a year, slept mostly at some friends houses, but still, this shit changes some perspectives you have.... honestly one of the best things ever happen to me .... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 07:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you build social intelligence?watch them. experience and practice. youll notice that the ceo is behaving different than the mechanic, mirror their behavior TO SOME DEGREE ie dont change youself completely but adapt to them to some degree while staying yourself | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I go about no contacting a girl I see at work all the timeYou did the right thing! insists we remain friends after I've told her that I want nothing more to do with her nuff said. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Did I lead this bitch on???ah are you seriously talking like that?!? wow, just wow.... on topic: she took is as that, so you mustve given her that impression (or shes flatout lying) - you decide what to do | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever burn out on this shit?The TRP lifestyle is not just spinning plates. It’s a philosophy that is supposed to be your foundation and pervade everything you do, whether that’s an LTR or spinning plates. yes. trp is merely a guide to the truth, nothing else. its up to you to decide how you use it | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 08:29 AM |
| 5 | How's Mark Mansons Models "Vulnerability" in par with trp?Its not mixing well. Not everything mixes well, test and think for yourself... | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Shit tests can be really confusingnever ever in my whole fucking life have i thought "this is a shit test, i need to do x and y" as a reaction on something a woman has said to me... how do you do that? just follow your instinct and do what springs to mind first | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | About places options in datesi lold | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | My experience last nightignore, proceed as before | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Lonely road of the great leaderHelp me figure out this very tricky and confusing hole in my chest... thats called "finding your purpose", "the question of meaning of live" or what have you.... thats EXACTLY where all the fun is... to quote someone way smarter than me: The zest of life is the rattle of dice in the cup | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:17 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a dominant girlevery woman is submissive at some point. you just need to bring it out in her aka be more dominant than her | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Pussy Won’t Make you Alphaexactly. alpha is as alpha does. five words in the rational male book that say it all - still nobody thinks about them | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Inner game and being natural will ALWAYS beat outer game.true, but a good outer game follows from a good inner game. its automatic | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 08:17 AM |
| 22 | You were not meant to be a beta, but a great mani love you so much for this post (no homo) wrote a very similar post a few weeks back but i didnt have the required postnumber to post it, so thank you for making my point! | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Ghosted my ex - gf and she’s contacting me 4 months later for closurethis answer/guy gets it! | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl Keeps texting meGod damnit. Nothing is forbidden. If you feel like answering, do so,if not, dont. If you feel like asking her something back, do so, if you dont, dont. What the fuck is wrong with the world | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Guy making jokes in my expense to impress a girl in our groupDafuq? Just "no" dude... | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I feel like most of the time i know how i'm supposed to act, yet i still can't bring myself to do it. Why?This is so true and is valid for a lot of guys here.everyone who is saying"i afopted idgaf, abundance etc" is not getting it(imho) | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 3 | How to not be a bitch: 2019 editioncouldnt agree more and i want to add: alpha isnt, alpha is what you do | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/19 07:42 AM |
| 2 | How do you find meaning to your life?this! so much of this! | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 08:59 AM |
| 0 | How do you feel the 'right' to be the Alpha in the room?alpha isnt something you do, alpha is playing by your own rules. "imitation is suicide" -pook this is to say: just do it | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Girl asked if I'm an MMA fighter, said I look aggressive. Good or bad?well who cares? you decide if its good or bad for you, thats the only opinion that should matter | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Frame test or insulted? What's my move RP veterans? Also, New to RP + a little background.Well you made your intentions clear. Wait till the day of the date. If no message returns by then, skip it and move on. Now you wrote you got no real social life, so it might be hard to move on. Just go do what you love and/or invest in yourself (eg gym, reading etc) instead | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 07:36 AM |
| 8 | I have a good one for you boysthis | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Got this excuse, no reply and hard next?"okay, just tell me when you are good to go" and ghost till she messages you | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 02:21 PM |
| -1 | Old plate wont talk to mefirst: "hoe" jeez, you must be a tough dude irl second: it seems as it wasnt as good for her as it was for you.... if you really must do it (oh well...) try to "bump" into her by accident | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Wait for her to contact me ?wait a few days for her to contact you. if she wont and you like her, contact her, otherwise move on. (if she doesnt respond well to your contact just move on) | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Feminist: I wish I was born a man. Men have it so easythis is definitely among the most true statements i've ever read on this subreddit | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Men only respect strengthAt first, I did it only when he provoked me, but then I moved on to do it every now and then just to keep him on the edge. so you did exactly what he did? Now that shows me everything.... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/18 12:08 PM |
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