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Okay Dwight
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 08:42 PM
13

I was gonna say, who actually asks that? I've never asked unless someone asked me first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 08:39 PM
30

I still didn't receive the donation yet Yeah, sure, I bet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 03:30 PM
4

Oh boy, BPD and drugs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/21 02:20 PM
7

There's a distributing amount of commenters in that thread who aren't sure if this is a joke or not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 04:34 AM
21

...I certainly didn't
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/21 04:30 AM
3

Yeah, I have no idea what she wants either. Like, does she just want to be a fleshlight, or what?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 11:49 PM
-1

You would? That's super weird.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 03:24 AM
1

I suspect this is a comedy piece.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/20 12:06 AM
2

This cannot be real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 02:42 AM
43

I listened to an interview with the guy who wrote the song. He said (I don't remember his exact words) that Scott Pilgrim was just kind of a symbolic example and he's not literally saying that Scott Pilgrim is responsible for problematic women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/20 06:00 PM
18

I didn't mind dealing with mine. But I will note - everything with my best man and groomsmen was perfectly fine the whole time. No drama, no bullshit, no real problems to speak of. The bridesmaids, though? Nothing but drama, petty fighting, hatred, crying, and selfishness the entire time up to the wedding day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/20 04:03 PM
1

I mean, I wouldn't do either one, but...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 03:24 PM
1

I bet it was something something like "never mind".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 12:28 PM
3

When people do that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 12:26 PM
3

I really hate it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 12:26 PM
3

Yeah
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 12:26 PM
15

Why does your gf want you to have an annoying female friend? That's weird.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/20 12:19 PM
4

The cat isn't supposed to talk!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/19 10:30 PM
11

I know that's what she meant, but she needed to say "not just my opinion". As it stands, she is technically saying that it is not her opinion that the guy is attractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 05:04 AM
14

he is good looking, not my opinion Did she accidentally a word, or accidentally the truth?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 03:17 AM
6

Yep, I was going to mention this if no one else had.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/19 08:31 PM
4

She's really not hot enough to be that picky.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/19 02:51 PM
4

You cannot visit a floor more than once other than to leave the building.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/19 02:11 PM
4

She also doesn't say anything about having kids, so I don't know why we're all assuming that. Edit: derp, never mind, just saw it. I guess I can't read
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/19 04:34 PM
4

"thanks I wasn't sure which number came after 17"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/19 06:32 PM
2

I think this is cuckold erotica.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/19 12:26 PM
3

/r/choosingbeggars
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/19 05:18 AM
9

They were probably fucking her too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/19 02:48 PM
5

Wtf, does dating come with terms of service now? Who cares if they were up front about something, a relationship isn't a binding contract. There aren't rules. You can break up with someone for any reason you want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/19 09:40 PM
14

If it really didn't matter she would have answered the first time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 06:42 PM
7

If they're so amazing why are they still single?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 06:29 PM
2

Ah okay. Man. That's a super weird situation to be in.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:02 AM
1

I guess that might happen, but you'll never know if you don't try. And if it does happen, then...so what?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 11:11 PM
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On one hand, it might be a waste of time in terms of actual results. On the other hand, if you can get comfortable approaching while you're fat, think of how much better you'll be at it when you're fit. So I'd say give it a shot if you can avoid being too outcome dependent and not let rejection get to your head.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 10:15 PM
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I have some super secret KFC rewards card Could you get one of these for me? Or will it not work if the cashier can clearly see that I'm not black?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:08 PM
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Thanks, this is exactly the kind of shit I said I didn't need. I know I shouldn't give a fuck, okay? I know I let myself be used. I said as much, several times. I FUCKING KNOW. But knowing that isn't helping right now.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:43 PM
1

What does the rest of your family think about this? I mean, if my brother stole my girlfriend I cannot imagine my parents wouldn't have something to say about it.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:08 PM
3

That is some serious fucking bullshit. If my brother did that to me I would have some very hard to ignore thoughts about murdering him.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:06 PM
1

open a lot but not approach ...what's the difference? I don't understand what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 06:53 PM
5

Maybe she gives really good head?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:17 PM
21

She actually texted again a few minutes after I posted that. Apparently she didn't get my text telling her to send nudes, so I told her again. She said "I'm sure there's plenty of other single girls you can ask nudes for :) I was just wishing you a happy belated birthday." I said "k"
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:31 AM
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My ex texted me today to say happy birthday (although my birthday was yesterday). I answered her, told her to send nudes. No answer. Maybe that'll finally get her to leave me alone.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 01:35 AM
2

Does any girl not have an "abusive ex"?
/r/askTRP03/01/17 06:14 PM
7

She's free to leave if she doesn't like it. Notice the OP doesn't say he'll beat her if she disobeys.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:55 AM
10

You should probably tell your friend that his gf is a cheating hoe.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 04:29 PM
9

5 years of a relationship and she goes and sits on another guy's lap right in front of him. Look at it that way.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:41 PM
7

Or, you know, accuse you of rape or abuse, but yeah, no biggie.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:42 PM
2

You understand that BPD means borderline personality disorder, not bi-polar disorder, right? They're pretty different.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 10:02 PM
3

Does her openness about her attachment issues and other psychological issues not count in her favour? No. People with BPD use this "openness" in the beginning of a relationship to make you feel like they are honest and trustworthy and to make you feel like you are special because they're telling you these things about themselves.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 04:38 PM
2

Run run run run run run run run This is not a drill. Get out. Go. Leave.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 04:36 PM
2

wow
/r/askTRP24/12/16 03:53 PM
3

Even most feminists aren't claiming it's all men committing these crimes. Many do exactly that.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 03:51 PM
1

What you're doing makes you look like a white knight, which of course makes you look like a bitch. So this is really just bitching all the way down.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:43 AM
1

I wonder if that study caused any relationships to end. Seems kind of unethical.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 06:22 PM
1

I'm talking about terms, not the philosophies themselves.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:49 PM
5

Would you really be surprised if Congress somehow found a way to make it happen though? They'll just say their old pal the Commerce Clause makes it Constitutional.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 03:05 PM
8

I wish people would stop playing semantic games with this. I'm sorry, but the crazy progressive feminists own the word "liberal" now, much as libertarians used to be called liberals. You're going to have to find a new label.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 03:01 PM
1

I don't know. Hotel room maybe? I'm not sure waiting two weeks is a great idea.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 08:05 PM
1

to which she replied "Mmmmh maybe ahah ah". Made me lol. Anyway. Sounds to me like you're on decent footing here...set up the logistics and go for it. I'm betting if you make a real strong move she'll forget about "taking it slow".
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:56 PM
1

Women don't waste all this time thinking and daydreaming and writing about guys they aren't attracted to Crazy women do, and this one definitely seems pretty damn nutty.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:37 PM
1

Yeah, you should probably bail.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:32 PM
1

Because she specifically said he's not attractive. I mean, it's right there. She wrote it.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 07:29 PM
1

Yeah, she's batshit crazy. And she might be "horny as hell", but not for OP.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:51 PM
2

and how I like looking at your face even though I don't even find you that attractive."
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:18 PM
1

The one she really wants is yours. Nope.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:18 PM
3

But then again, rollercoaster ride is amazing I also think this girl is probably BPD (or at least some kind of cluster-B) but I disagree that the roller coaster ride is amazing. NOTHING about dating someone with BPD is amazing. It's absolutely awful and not worth it in the slightest.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 03:16 PM
5

Yeah, I really expected something different than what I got.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 11:14 PM
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Now that I think about it, that's happened to me too.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:31 AM
3

You're hitting a blunt right now, aren't you
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 06:24 PM
2

No it won't, she has several people lined up to take hubby's spot if he leaves, guaranteed.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 12:28 AM
5

I'd say it depends on your definition of "celebrity".
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:02 PM
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Call me crazy, I know this is weird, but...I suspect that's the case with like 95% of celebrities.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 04:34 PM
1

Don't nag at her to do it. Set a good example and see if she follows.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 05:00 PM
0

Hi, alcoholic here. Don't project your issues on to me.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 04:23 PM
1

But you're paying a hooker. She's not going to be honest about your performance.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:46 PM
3

Agreed. His technique is impressive but his presentation and showmanship are boring as shit. He comes across as a weird monotone magic robot or something.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:42 PM
1

I've never even heard of a guy being judged for not following sports. Seriously?
/r/askTRP26/11/16 03:36 PM
1

Was this face-to-face? If so, that's super weird and not worth your time, IMO.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 10:59 PM
1

You asked someone what her name is, and her response was "why do you want to know?"?
/r/askTRP25/11/16 10:55 PM
1

Let us know what happens!
/r/askTRP25/11/16 08:26 PM
3

No, end it and move on. The two of you are over.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 03:46 PM
7

By being a huge pussy and never making a move. Eventually she thought I might be gay.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:02 PM
1

Where I disagreed with OP is that he says that a nerd or ugly guy trying to improve his appearance is going to be met with hate. That does happen sometimes. Usually because of jealousy and resentment, I would think. Think about it like the smoker who decides to quit and some of his smoker friends try to sabotage him because his decision to quit makes them feel bad about the fact that they need to quit. Or the fat girl who decides to lose weight and her fat friends try to sabotage it. It's the cr…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 04:38 PM
1

How much "few"? Like, half? I dunno, more than half, less than 100%. Maybe telling girls I ended a six years relationship in August turns down the switches for acting teasing and sex positive? Maybe. I have no idea.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:34 PM
1

A few times from girls I went on a date or two with as well. Frequently enough that I think yeah, that question is going to come up at some point in any dealings beyond friendship with a girl.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:17 PM
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I was a miserable Beta-Orbiter to a girl whilst at university. We were "friends" in that I did all the usual orbiter stuff and pined for and pedestalised her. Me too, and the sadder thing is, she was attracted to me at first, and I knew it, and I still friendzoned myself. I was a fucking idiot.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:58 PM
4

Call it the Party Wagon.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 03:56 PM
2

I'm pretty sure every girl I've been in a relationship with has asked me that.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 03:55 PM
17

You probably have Nice Guy/codependent issues. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy if you haven't already.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:52 PM
24

Yep. Every guy needs to study BPD so they can recognize it in women, and know when to fucking RUN.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:49 PM
3

I'm sure there's plenty. The question is whether their bragging was actually lying.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:27 PM
17

I mean, personally I'd rather have a life that's 95% full than a life that's cut prematurely short (or ruined...an accident could leave you alive but paralyzed, you know?). But to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 11:23 PM
1

At first, sure. I'm positive she didn't give a shit after a few weeks. She was irritated when I told her I was coming home because she had planned to go camping or something that day.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 10:37 PM
1

Insecurity, oneitis, codependence, you name it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:36 PM
1

Very true.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 07:18 PM
2

I have seen plenty of examples of guys in my life who made changes to improve their appearance, lose weight and they got tons of praise. They got praise for doing it, not talking about it, which I think is the point OP is trying to make, and that applies to pretty much anything. You want to write a novel? Great, do it. No one cares if you talk about it, they care if you do it. We all know someone who has some lofty goal. They're going to make an album, or they're going to fix up that old car in …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:00 PM
1

Without more information about your vetting process Honestly there really wasn't one. I was overall beta at the time, but I was alpha in the relationship without even knowing it. It just happened to work for a long time. Were there red flags I missed? Maybe. I don't remember. But nothing up to the hospital thing indicated that something like that would happen, as far as I can recall. Should I have been more careful about entering an LTR with her? Absolutely, but I didn't know it at the time. But…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:35 PM
1

I just got out of a horrible relationship with a bpd girl (different girl than this post is about). And I've just recently read No More Mr. Nice Guy, am reading The Rational Male, learning stuff on /r/TheRedPill, started working out, all that stuff. I am not at this point ready for anything at all with a girl. I don't think I would even let myself have a one-night stand right now. I'm quickly getting better, but I'm still very vulnerable. I don't want anyone for the time being.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:31 PM
2

6 months in? I would have kicked her to the curb. I think this is correct. My most recent ex (whom I'm 99% sure is bpd) said similar things to me. I don't think she outright said "I don't see you as a man" but she might as well have. I was beta as fuck and just put up with it, but goddamn, was that an awful relationship. No respect, almost no sex, constant putdowns and gaslighting...I should have ended it long before I did. So yeah...I would think if she says OP isn't a man, well...there's proba…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 05:26 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:17 PM
2

I suppose so. It just seems like such bullshit that a three or four year relationship could be wiped out by a few months of surgery and recovery, you know? Like, I wouldn't have reacted that way. But I'm not a woman, so...
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:13 PM
1

My essential question is, is the situation I described probably fatal for any relationship? What can prevent it?
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:06 PM
1

I don't have anyone right now. Like I said, this was a few years ago, and she's not even my most recent ex (last one was bpd, destroyed my soul and all that and that's what led to me looking into all the red pill stuff - you know, standard story, but I digress). The relationship was great up until the hospital thing. Obviously THAT disqualified her, though I didn't see it that way at the time, but up UNTIL then, nothing had indicated that she wasn't quality. I guess I'm asking this more as a gen…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:05 PM
2

What in your opinion would have been a better response? That's an honest question I'm asking, not an attempt to argue.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:10 PM
9

"behind every great man, there's a great woman giving him a rimjob"
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 11:56 PM
2

Yep, that's what I'm working on now. Figuring out who I am and what I want.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:38 PM
3

Not in my case. I barely got any sex at all, and most of the time it wasn't good.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:39 AM
4

Yep. I just got out of a relationship with one of these. Two fucking years of my life, down the drain. She destroyed my soul. I barely know who I am anymore. And yeah, it's my fault. I saw the red flags the first time I met her, and the second, third, etc. and just ignored every one of them. And then I stayed for TWO YEARS. I need to develop self-respect and learn to stop trying to rescue people.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:36 AM
1

Where are they supposed to go instead?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 01:37 AM
2

Doesn't seem to work. Nothing will extract from the .rar.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:54 PM
3

Well the book says next time a woman gets angry - go up and hug her. Tell her you love her .etc. This may not make sense to the man, but it's a show of courage to "go above logic" and "go above the illogical emotions" being displayed by the woman at the moment. But isn't that just rewarding shitty behavior?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 08:42 PM
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