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| 47 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed? | Question For Women | teknos1s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:47 AM |
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| 1 | Men on dating websites shouldn't have the option to swipe on or like profilesAll the apps where women do the choosing fail lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 03:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most guys don’t fail in dating because of looks or status.. They fail because they don’t understand banter.Definitely making fun of each other insecurities, definitely some ridiculous pranks on each other, even causing pain. Calling each other harsh names. But it was always at the right times. Idk it’s hard to say but we just had a feel for when it was ok or not with one another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 11:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most guys don’t fail in dating because of looks or status.. They fail because they don’t understand banter.Some women hate banter. Some love it. What holds guys back is emotional intelligence. The ability to read or reason what’s appropriate with who. I dated a girl who I was absolutely vicious with. And she was viscous with me. It rolled off our backs like nothing and we laughed at it all. If I had done that with some (most) of the other girls I dated they would have hated me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | People agree that women arent primarily visual like men, yet still fall for the idea that majority of men are unattractive, just because women dont get wet from men's profile pic and ageWhen men use the word attractive: “looks good” When women use the word attractive: “I would like to be with this person” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | "Man or Bear" argument is a striking example of women's tendency towards in-group sensationalism and overdramatizationLol you’re so right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?Eh. A phd would easily marry a bachelors degree woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Putting aside sexuality. I think it has more to do with simply being/having an agreeable disposition. Often times men hate it when women want to nitpick or disagree or make a mountain out of a molehill about tiny life inconveniences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?I feel like you’re the only person to actually address my question in this entire thread. Most others just picked a specific part that induced a feeling in them and went off on a side quest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?I don’t deny that some men neglect their friendships and later feel the consequences. That clearly happens. But the jump from “different maintenance style” to “lower quality relationships.” Is sketch to me. Quality can mean different things. Some relationships prioritize frequent emotional tending. Others prioritize durability, low volatility, and showing up when it truly matters. Good mentally/socially healthy males have this, I feel like I’m one. If a guy has a network that doesn’t send birthd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?I don’t dispute that many men invest less in relationship maintenance as it’s commonly defined. I’m questioning whether the definition itself is neutral. If we define relational competence as frequent check ins, verbal reassurance, and proactive emotional tending, then men will, on average, underperform. But that framework reflects one particular style of bonding. Males often center around shared activity, or the ability to go long stretches without contact while retaining mutual goodwill. Im qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?There’s a lot here but the bolded text could reflect on divorce rates between gay men, lesbians, and heterosexual couples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?If a large subset of men are naturally/psychologically more private, less verbally expressive, or more internally regulated, that’s not necessarily a defect to “fix” just like average height differences aren’t something to fix. Not every distribution difference implies pathology. But where I agree with you is if men want to open up and feel they can’t because of ridicule, loss of respect, or social penalties that’s a social problem worth addressing. But I’m cautious about framing lower verbal em… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:48 AM |
| 6 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?If a man wants to express turmoil but feels he can’t because of social backlash or loss of respect, then yes that’s a problem worth fixing. But there’s another category that gets ignored: sometimes men don’t share not because they’re afraid, but because they genuinely don’t feel the same internal drive to process emotions verbally. For some men, emotional processing is more private, action oriented, or solution focused. The absence of verbal disclosure isn’t always repression or fear of backlash… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Yeah why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:03 AM |
| 10 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?differentiated them because they’re psychologically distinct behaviors. “Emotional expressiveness” usually refers to sharing internal states like fear, sadness, insecurity, etc “Verbal reassurance” is outward directed like affirming your partner, expressing appreciation, etc and they’re not socially reinforced in the same way. A lot of men will say they struggle with the first one, expressing vulnerability about their own internal struggles. But at the same time, the cultural conversation around… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?I think this is often true, but also very class coded. In the coastal upper middle class + circles I find that the men very often cook, Childrear and clean. (N of 1 but I actually do all those things more than my wife. Minus childrearing which is equal. When it comes to cooking that’s solely my role). Which perhaps lends even more credence to the conversations of “women and hypergamy” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:53 AM |
| 18 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?I think when some people say they want men to be “emotionally expressive,” what that often means in practice is: be verbally reassuring, verbally affirming, express appreciation and warmth toward their partner That’s different from a man opening up about his own fears, insecurities, failures, or darker emotions. Which often does turn a lot of women off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:43 AM |
| 11 | Are We Treating Male Psychology as a Problem to Be Fixed?Some have argued that women have in fact reshaped and feminized the workplace versus adapting to male communication styles. https://www.compactmag.com/article/the-great-feminization/ Tldr: Modern cultural change are primarily consequences of women becoming the majority in key institutions (academia, journalism, law, corporate HR). And as female representation tipped past parity in many fields, she argues institutional norms shifted from traditionally masculine traits (adversarial debate, risk-ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find TruthAgain it’s just post hoc rationalization. You can’t assert that women being more likely to be a sahp is proof of sexism and not just an outcome of some other very plausible reasons having nothing meaningful to do with discrimination I wouldn’t say men being more violent criminals through all of history is proof of sexism or discrimination. I’d say it’s an emergent property of very benign or amoral reasons I think a lot of progressives struggle with things being unequal or different for different… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find TruthThat sounds like post-hoc rationalization to me. “Unequal outcome ergo bias and discrimination. Proof is: waves arms vaguely the system” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find TruthYes if you expand the meaning of sexism and bias to also mean “not actively working to make equality of outcome” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find TruthThere’s all sorts of real reasons why women earn less. But again. The messaging was definitely not any of these real reasons and it was strictly “bias” and “sexism” and the messaging, especially early on wasn’t talking about things like risk aversion or taking time away from career. It was very focused on it being due to discrimination and not these other real factors. It reminds me of “abolish the police” which was born out of the far left and meant literally. Then more on the left picked it up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 11:38 PM |
| 7 | Studies against Men Are Often Designed to Confirm a Narrative, Not Find TruthNo because if we’re being honest the take home message, or the gestalt of the messaging was definitely that women were getting paid less for the same job which implies all sorts of things that isn’t born out of the data. The gestalt was never (and especially early on) that women lagged simply due to career choice, motherhood, and other naturally occurring circumstances versus outright gender discrimination. When people say “women earn 77cents to a man” that doesn’t evoke “oh that’s stay at home … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 11:11 PM |
| 4 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.I honestly find I do way more emotional labor than my wife. I’m supposed to be the one who’s tending to her emotional needs and support, while I’m stoic and take everything on the chin strong. Stereotypically women are the ones who find things upsetting and needing someone to lean on or talk to not the other way around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?There’s actually a term for this: mate choice copying and it’s a real phenomenon. Studies in evolutionary psychology show that both women and men are more likely to find a person attractive if they are seen being chosen by others. They even find this in other mammals. The idea is that interest from others signals hidden qualities. Women place relatively high value on social dominance, status, and respect from peers when evaluating long-term partners. Men who are well-liked, respected, or seen as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Millennial males (and older) had it easier.lol this is hilarious. We went off to war at 18. Personal friends have died. Came back or graduated into the financial crises which hit entry levels especially all the while being the most impacted generation to the student debt crises. Then we crawled our way out, but only to enter the housing market lockout. Finally some of us traversed that and hit our prime earning years but oops, Covid. Not sure how this compares with dating is hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t lack empathy women just want to be coddled 24/7Maybe but the proportions are totally different. Men higher in anger. Women higher in anxiety. Etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 02:00 AM |
| – | Gay men love men more than women doGay men: please please please let me suck your dick I’ll do absolutely anything please I don’t want anything in return please. Women: If you clean the room and do all the dishes I’ll think about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless.I’ve struggled with Madonna/whore complex myself. I find it odd when ppl call it a myth when I personally have dealt with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 01:34 PM |
| 0 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tWomen have way more variability in who they find hot than men. But women also find most men not hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?As 30 something guy, I’d kill it in the dating market right now. I’m established and much more socially intelligent. I’m also way more fit and well kept than any guy my age because most of y’all let yourselves go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.They’re saying if you took every woman who’s in a relationship and merged them into one woman. That one woman would be a happier person than if you took all the women who’s not in a relationship and merged them down into a single person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 11:39 AM |
| 10 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.Nothing you said was ground breaking or only applies to women. Yes, ppl rather be single than in a bad relationship. That’s not what ppl are implying when they say “women are happier single” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?They date older men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/23 04:33 PM |
| 8 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveMen are not exempt either - though the variables are different. Women always have options, and men understand this. Its not unique to comment on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:47 PM |
| 9 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveSo if a man cannot be a player a woman is no longer attracted to him, is essentially what the OP saying. If a woman feels a man has options she will be more attracted to him, is essentially what OP is saying. Which is true, and quite banal, actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:45 PM |
| 17 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you haveWhat narrative is that? That nature plays a role in how we behave and feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:07 PM |
| 40 | As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have“Humans eat in order to pass along their genes into the next generation” “I don’t eat in order to pass along my genes. I eat because I am hungry and I think the food tastes good” Can you see how I think you’re kinda speaking past each other? OP isn’t saying anyone purposefully treats a guy a certain way because he can get casual sex. He’s saying on avg women just tend to like guys who are more successful so they treat them differently. Much like how nature created the sensation of “hunger” or “s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.Women’s advice: dont post headless pics on tinder. Me: posts headless pic on tinder. Fucked countless women on tinder. Half of which had some iteration of “not looking for hookups” on their profile Other men: dude wtf not listening to women ever again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:50 PM |
| 18 | Women giving dating advice to men doesn’t work because guys ask for vague advice.That’s what you got out of it? Lol ffs 🤦🏻♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Are men seen as expendable?Men are in fact more expendable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the appeal of younger men (mid 20's) for older women (30's 40's)?Men tend to let themselves go as they age. Everyone saying men hit their peak in their mid to late 20s isn’t really true. Men hit their peak in their 30s in my opinion. but only if they take care of themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:12 PM |
| 7 | Men don’t care about women’s career?Are you autistic or just delusional? The statement translates to “one could feasibly see a male of jayz stature dating a beautiful woman of a lower social status. But one could less feasibly imagine a woman of Beyoncé’s status and beauty dating a male of a lower status who looks like jayz” Every study and living in reality shows women practice hypergamy at higher rates. Billionaires literally date strippers. Male Rock stars will date groupies. The opposite is exceedingly rare/unheard of. Women’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:45 AM |
| 13 | Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version)I hate that OP needs to make those disclaimers. Any half educated idiot shouldn’t even need them. I legitimately want to understand the psychology of someone who hears “men are more violent than women” and respond with “nah my aunt sally was super violent”. Are they literally just regarded? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version)Did you not comprehend disclaimer 1? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version)There’s always one, isn’t there 😂 Jesus dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 10:49 PM |
| 15 | Men don’t care about women’s career?If Beyoncé worked at McDonald’s and jayz pulled up to the window she could date jayz. If jayz worked at McDonald’s and Beyoncé drove up to the window jayz could not date Beyoncé. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose?Younger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose?I’m 36. Hard to say. I’m more physically attracted to a 23 year old but I don’t really know any so I’m unsure of our compatibility maturity wise. If I were to date a 40 year old she’d have to be in good shape and took care of herself and ready/willing to have a baby pretty much soon Ideally I’d find someone younger who is mature enough emotionally/knows what they want and willing to settle down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose?I’m not really part of any pill community. I’d say I’m a normie who is interested in what’s going on in online discourse and lurker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose?Looks are important to me. Also same fertility? What’s the downside? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Guys, you have 2 options, which would you choose?Option a | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | What is really a "10" to men objectively speaking?A 10 for me is a super hot chick who happens to fit my current short term preference at that moment. I might be into blondes at that month or week for example. But brunettes later. Fit this week. Skinny next. Thick the next. Etc. Otherwise they’re a 9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 04:30 AM |
| 4 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?That’s ridiculous. So a lung cancer patient dying on their hospital bed isn’t allowed to say that maybe cigarettes should be illegal cant have that opinion. Got it 😂 Also ppl are different. I have no problem if a woman wants to do that. I just wouldn’t date her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?I don’t have an ig full of thirst traps. I actually don’t even follow any unless you consider the 2-3 fitness (actual fitness not just fitness clothes wearing girls) influencers that. But yeah, I do watch porn and it’s not as though I never see thirst traps. No one I ever been with has made a complaint about my internet usage. So that leads me to believe I never gave the vibe of a guy who unhealthily does that. My fiancee comments on women more than I do. But if I was like that and my fiancée as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:33 AM |
| 4 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?Bro I grew up in major northeast cities. I’m engaged to a sexy chick 5’3 115lbs and dated many other good looking women (none of which posted half naked pictures of themselves online). Not every good looking girl works bottle service. Some of them are going to med school. Some of them work in a professional environment. Some of them are not attention starved because they already get enough. Some of them have good family relationships and wouldn’t embarrass themselves in front of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:12 AM |
| 37 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?I don’t date women who post half naked pictures of themselves online. Problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenYou’re right. But I wouldn’t give women a free pass either. I was once a man slut and lost count of how many women I’ve slept with. And a very large number of them loved all the shit women on Reddit say they’re grossed out by. I literally had multiple women request that I pee on them. Not my idea. Women on Reddit say they don’t like to get slapped choked spit on etc. but so so so so many women also do and it’s so easy to find so men kind of just operate under the premise that maybe the girl they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:35 PM |
| 23 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenDepends on where you are in the US. Dirty little secret is that obesity is a class signifier. If you live in the coastal cities you see few obese people. In my immediate neighborhood I’d say ppl are very fit and generally good looking. I went out to the suburbs for a concert and was shocked to see that everyone was obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?You just have to be her specific type and you just have to meet in the specific right circumstances and you just have to be in the right specific places in life to take advantage of that specific moment. Duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Not only are you dense. You’re also cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Jfc you’re dense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 11:17 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?“When men as a population, not individuals, do not have responsibilities to keep them busy they delve into antisocial behaviors.” Happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 11:11 PM |
| 17 | Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage?Chris rock said it best. If you go to a neighborhood during work hours and none of the women are working, you’re in a nice neighborhood. If you go into a neighborhood during work hours and none of the men are working, you know you’re in the wrong damn neighborhood and better get out quick Nothing more dangerous to a society than men without jobs or families tying them down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manSome women prefer the Hercules archetype. some women prefer the Orpheus archetype | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?Everyone knows fat to mid chicks have the best personalities. I assume absolute chads also have crap personalities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?I’m sure it plays some role. Emphasis on some. Like, I’d def have more confidence if I knew I had a hog.but I’m avg sized and still plenty confident because I have my shit together look good and strong/muscular | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of the bad boy?It’s not bad boys. It’s risk taking behavior. Bad boys just happen to display risk taking behavior. Why risk taking behavior? Evolutionary speaking: no risk it, no biscuit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Question for the women on here & I want you to genuinely think about it rather than impulsively answering.It’s the worst when there’s a chick a lot of guys are obviously interested in at once. All the guys will literally do all they can to get her to notice them and amuse her. As a introverted guy who generally doesn’t have trouble getting with women anyway I just sit back in those situations cause I’m not gonna put in the effort to compete and fight for her attention like a peacock in a sea of peacocks dancing around a peahen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?lawyer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersNo it never got boring but i began to feel odd after each encounter after a while when post nut clarity comes in like “wtf am I doing”. I eventually settled down but I was a very high count guy, felt like it was chasing the high at the time. It also got tiring to come up with excuses to not see them again or feeling bad about cutting someone off or the constant search for the next person. It literally got to a point where I’d be sleeping with someone and forgot their name. Def made me feel like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?Well? What is it? And what about tasteful nude portraits? Defining porn by rules is a fools errand. Just like defining an alpha or a Chad. But at the same time ppl know it when they see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?So the statue of david is porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 05:01 PM |
| -2 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?Some ppl don’t consider certain things porn when others do as well. But you have a sense others would likely view it as porn. And you likely have a sense others would consider x person a Chad or alpha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 04:23 PM |
| -2 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?No one has to explain what a Chad or alpha is. It’s like porn. You can’t really explain it. You just know it when you see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How addictive is the alpha male gaze to women?A chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Men are absolutely attracted to all types of women. Especially sexually. But I also think it’s true there are aesthetic trends that seem to show within different classes of ppl. It’s just no mistake that upper class men tend to settle down with svelte women. That’s their aesthetic preference. And to an extent I think upper class women also prefer slim non muscle bound tattooed up men. Reminds me of a Korean heiress I dated who said “thank god” I didn’t have tattoos and how she found it so unclas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:36 PM |
| 3 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?My spidey senses are telling me my post hit a little too close to home for you. It’s not personal. Also, did they cheat? Even so. It says something Kennedy married jackie and hit Marilyn a couple of times and forgot her. (Nvm Marilyn would be skinny by todays standards) It does seem to be generally noticeable that a certain class of men prefer their wives to be svelte and a certain class of men prefer chubby women. And if we move away from western centric views, in the east almost all men prefer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 4 | What do you consider the ideal body (for the sexes you're attracted to)?Eh I’m a guy who isn’t into the kim k diaper ass look. Don’t get me wrong, I’d still hit it. But i prefer skinny or athletic. I think there’s a class aspect to this too. Old money dudes and upper crust dudes seem to prefer the skinny models and new money and lower class guys tend to like the big booty big breasted and “thick” chubby girls. Notice the British princes gfs? Not exactly rap video type women, and chances are if you see a rich businessman or tycoon their wives would be the Milan runwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps make misogynist menLol ppl are just full of shit, don’t take anyone on dating apps seriously until you meet. Back in the day I posted shirtless faceless pics and banged multiple women a week at times. Even some who said “no face no shirt no match” in their profiles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 0 | Is a women who cheats worse than a man who cheats?Emotional + physical cheating is clearly worse than just physical cheating. That’s sex independent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 9 | Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men?Mhm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?Prior to me settling down I was a man whore, got plenty of casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | High Emotional Intelligence Traits?Not all anyone is anything. Pretty meaningless platitude tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 02:43 PM |
| -1 | High Emotional Intelligence Traits?Also r/misogynisticlife r/misogynygonewild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Who was your best sex? Your spouse? Your ex? Your FWB? Your ONS? And, if you had a one time opportunity, would you have sex with that person again? Do you sometimes fantasize about them?A fuck buddy I had. She loved getting manhandled fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?Yeah that’s a huge part of it. Wtf do I care if a older woman aggressively hits on me or stalks me? I could physically ruin her. OP should have stipulated that we would also be the physically weaker sex. With that said I’d still take the increased risk. Because while my risk is increased im also confident my class status and added sexual status would allow me to off set any added risk easily (marry up and career movement). I don’t have to worry about much cat calling in a McMansion neighborhood.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?Provided I’m in a western nation. Yes. While My risk is increased, it’s within my bounds of risk tolerance. The plus side is I’d unabashedly profit off of my sexual power (dating and career wise). I’d be the sexiest bitch in the office, and I’m sure my road to director would be smoother lol. My economic and class status would likely off set a much or all of any increased risk. Men already face more violence risk anyway lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 7 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?I feel like In these sorts of subs I’m one of the few who hasn’t had trouble dating/getting with girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 14 | I keep seeing we have enormously high standards but like what exactly are they? And why does the dating world not reflect said absurdly Hugh standards most women have?i gotta say, as a guy, these sorts of subs gives me a giant ego boost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?Point still stand though. Can you think of a chubby girl most guys would pick over Emily rajanowski? Not really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?You said poc muscular guy is still a muscular guy. I said K-pop idols are not an example of a muscular POC. (Not that Asians are not poc) And yeah, majority of guys don’t like chubby girls too. Also a niche. Way more guys would go fro Emily rajanowski than lizzo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?K-pop idols are not muscular POC. Also I’ve met plenty of girls into chubby guys. They don’t walk around advertising it though. But yeah I agree if you want to cast the widest net being fit and muscular is probably the move. But there’s a ton of niches out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?Well there you go, theres plenty of different types of guys girls like and your style and interests plays into that. Theres also girls who are specifically into asian guys, black guys, or hispanic guys, or white guys as well. Girls who hate beards, girls who love beards. Girls who are into chubby guys and girls into muscular guys, and girls who are into skinny guys. Ive literally met all of these sorts of girls before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?You think goth chicks are into Timothy or the rock? You think metal chicks are into guys like Timothy? Doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 12:45 PM |
| 2 | There are multiple seducer archetypes who succeed with different types of womenYou know all the women apparently. Definitely not a social cohort situation. Nope. Not that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/22 02:03 AM |
| 7 | There are multiple seducer archetypes who succeed with different types of womenYour projecting your own feelings on trump onto other people. I hate the guy myself as well. But there’s no denying he has gained a cult of personality and has his pick of women among them. The amount of which you could only dream of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 11:52 PM |
| 10 | Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you?Women absolutely do not like all the same sorts of guys. You got chicks who like Timothy chamalet and chicks who are more into the rock/Henry cavil types. Chicks have wayyyyy more types than men do of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentIt’s my story as well lol and I been monogamous with my fiancée. In fact I never cheated on any past gfs. I was just always a single slut before. Haters gonna hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 33 | You can't be the "stability guy" and expect the "casual sex guy" treatmentBe Chad > have tons of casual sex > get sick of it > settle down with nice girl. 👌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Are women more valuable than men?Biologically speaking yes. There’s an underlying reason why women and children are off sinking ships first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | So... with Rowe vs Wade about to be over turned, will men with vasectomies be more desirable to women? Half joking... but kind of not.I wouldn’t get my information from Reddit lol realize it’s a highly self selective group that goes on Reddit (young, liberal, terminally online) and if you go into certain sub reddits a lot it’s even more self selective Being on Reddit or Twitter you’d never know 43%+ of women are pro life, for example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Holy crap I’m arguing with a literal r-word. You constantly miss the point and are literally arguing against yourself. Also, it absolutely is an epidemic in China and no amount of info would satisfy you, that is also only what is verifiable and let out by the government. You can absolutely multiply that by a factor of 5 at least Stick to OF and Reddit and milk it for all it’s worth you’re not going to be an analyst or anything requiring brain power anytime soon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/School_attacks_in_China No, helping angry young men is not going to prevent gun murders if guns aren’t taken away first. Are you slow or something? First of all it would help, but a little. But certainly not as much as removing all guns All together. but also you can help alleviate everything holistically if you do better gun laws and help with better social factors (suicides, graduations, violence in general, etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"I never made the claim that there is equivalence in the number of total kids killed by knives in China to guns in america. I said specifically there is a knife violence epidemic in China. And anyone who follows Chinese social media has lived experience there or in Asia and unofficial sources like WeChat/Weibo understands this. I think you’re arguing against yourself here. I think you think I’m saying that guns aren’t a problem or something. Or that there would be equal deaths by other means if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"You have no idea how things work in China or Asia for that matter. As someone who actually is of Chinese descent and actually from Asia I think I most likely have a bit more context than you there. Gun control is the single most important item in preventing gun deaths. I agree. But it’s also not the single most important thing in preventing young men to commit violence or suicide in general. Touch grass, the world isn’t an either or proposition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"First of all You nor I have any idea of the frequency of knife attacks in China in schools. But I do know for a fact it is high. And that it is a epidemic there. Canada isn’t China. Second of all, you obviously are in some sort of online them vs us either/or bubble. I’ll restate it again: you do realize you can support more gun control and advocate for more socially beneficial things for young men which would lead them to want to commit violence of any sort less, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"China has a very large knifing epidemic in schools. Yes, knives are less effective but if there are no guns ppl will resort to other measures. You do realize you can advocate both for more gun control and better/more socially beneficial things that would cause young men to live healthier more fuller lives and less likely to be driven to murder and be violent all together right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"But you care less about them being knifed versus shot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Sure if you only care about how ppl die vs just dying and what drives ppl to murder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Yes if we had a magic wand and removed all guns there would be no more shootings. Very deep analysis. With that said, there would still be a multitude of violent events due to all the aforementioned social factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Even so: again, males of a certain age engage in mass shooting in this country. Why? As OP stated: multitude of social factors (and I’d add biology) and of course the availability of guns | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"OPs point was that this demo due to a multitude of factors engage in violent behaviors. In this specific instance the behavior exhibited was mass shootings. But mass shootings is under the umbrella of violent behaviors. But it could be any sort of violent behavior. You’re not wrong that mass shootings are unique to this country but that is because guns are uniquely available. Not because young males are treated uniquely different, no one was making that claim. The claim is simply males of a cert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"Right, I’m not sure how that negates my point though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"This demographic does commit more violent crime across all societies though. Guns are unique to America sure, but if you just look at violent crime it’s pretty clear males 16-25 is the danger zone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveLow value women sure, but low value women also get to fuck high value men (just not date). so given the choice online.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 0 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveYeah nothing in my post history screams feminist apologist lol just spitting facts. Most dudes are gross. Just look at guys toes and nails they’re usually crusty or gross as fuck. Hygiene is lacking. Style is lacking. A small % of dudes are high value and those dudes bag/date high value chicks or fuck an obscene amount of low value chicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 4 | This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER haveYeah but speaking as a guy, most men are gross lol and high value men are usually already spoken for or go after high value women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?When I got jacked I got way way more female attention. N of 1 but hey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Do Women Give Their "Sexual Best" To Their Boyfriends or Husbands?As a fella, all my freakiest sex has been ONS’s. Rings true for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Don’t you want to be that guy?When ppl use this to explain why men are more successful or funny it’s “misogynistic” lol. But it definitely plays some role. Ppl respond to incentives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Do men over 30 really get higher in sexual market value?Competition certainly fades away if you can keep up your looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.Yeah I mean there’s literally humans who are attracted to traffic cones too. I can only speak to the meat of the population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 11:09 PM |
| 6 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.The root of this is what I notice in how women and men view attraction. Men have a very standard view of attraction. You could put 100 men in front of some female model and all 100 men would say “yeah she’s hot”. You could put a male model in front of 100 women and 10 would say he’s amazing. 20 would say he’s hot. 30 would say he’s okay. 20 would say he’s ugly. 10 would say he’s ugly. 10 would say hideous Etc. So when a male model looking guy hits on a girl that the general male population would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 02:36 AM |
| 0 | Texas teacher who said she 'didn’t know her sex romps with multiple teen students was illegal’, formally slapped with a 4year jail sentenceShe kinda cute | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Matrix dodgeLmao | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/11/20 03:05 PM |
| 36 | Not Todayhey man | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/05/20 12:53 PM |
| 3 | She got off with one yearThat’s genius. That is also exactly Dave chappelles skit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Pass denied, bitchPretty sure she’s a troll account | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/19 03:00 PM |
| 19 | Dutch girl resists arrest, her and friend pay the consequences.People are fucking retarded. I also don’t understand this at all. If you did nothing wrong and you get arrested you should be licking your chops and smiling while being cuffed because you can file a wrongful arrest lawsuit. Resisting arrest will literally do nothing for you other than get you into more shit. It’s the sunken cost fallacy. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/10/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | A high school psychologist in Orange County, California was arrested for having sex with a boy inside of a classroom, law-enforcement authorities said Tuesday.I’d give her a pussy pass 11/10 times when I was in HS | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/09/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | DeniedGod i love the rule of law | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/07/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Female comedian poses as a man to prove women in comedy would be funny if they weren't discriminated against... completely bombsIt’s crazy but joe rogan is consistently the person who is able to challenge people consistently and in a non asshole way. He’s obviously super popular but I feel the guy doesn’t get far enough credit. He also challenged Ruben recently as well | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/06/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Enjoy watchingSeems like a lovely trio | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/06/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Female comedian poses as a man to prove women in comedy would be funny if they weren't discriminated against... completely bombsHe’s far too partisan. But I enjoy watching him time to time too. His biggest fault isn’t that he’s not factual, he is. But sometimes issues have facts which support both sides of an argument and he chooses only to highlight one side while ignoring the others. Which is typical behavior of people who are partisan. His talk on weed with joe rogan was a small example of that | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/06/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Female comedian poses as a man to prove women in comedy would be funny if they weren't discriminated against... completely bombsLol is this real life? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Fat fuck gets denied by own brotherYou consume less energy than your body expends. Period. Doesn't matter how or why | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/03/17 03:48 PM |
| 19 | Fat fuck gets denied by own brotherOk I didn't even read your post in its entirety. I sort of stopped at "metabolic disease" as some sort of excuse for fat retention or gain. Listen, physics is physics. And the rule of law is if you consume less energy than you expend then you will lose weight. Period. It's physics. It's like gravity, your biology doesn't effect how gravity works. Just like your biology doesn't effect if you consume less energy than you expend then you will get a net negative energy in a system. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/03/17 03:45 PM |
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