tempbreak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	A way to fight the friendzone A lot of blind leading the blind going on around here.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 03:34 AM
7	How does a woman get attracted to you from conversation? And how to escalate if she is? By seeing you as a high value person. A lot of factors in this, body language, physical attractiveness, social proof, confidence, passing shit tests, etc. Whatever it is, your interaction with her should imply that you have a lot of value in yourself, and thus are desirable. You don't have to be super witty/clever/funny, though I'm sure it doesn't hurt. Yes, there are indeed a lot of guys who can have this conversation. Believe it or not, girls can be attracted to more than one person during the…	/r/seduction	30/08/13 03:31 AM
1	Tried the direct approach... Not sure where to go from here? Gonna have to agree with kingcal here. You need to get in person faster. I would have said maybe like one or two sentences at most, then told her we should catch up in person because I know this great place in town. Your intentions are clear enough when you ask for the number. You've already asked her out twice without her even suggesting a date so this one is a lost cause. Also, small thing but "Jeez you're busy!" shows that you're affected.	/r/seduction	30/08/13 03:13 AM
1	Need advice on transitioning from C1 to C2 in the mystery routine. Should I delay time warp techniques after this step or precede? How to balance c&f with rapport and what feedback mechanisms to use to aid with that? You don't need to be slinging jokes during comfort. I also have no idea what time warp is. Seriously, just talk like you're catching up with an old friend you haven't seen in a long time. At first, you can talk about common interests, maybe just get to know what hobbies you guys like, jobs and shit. From any of those jumping off points you can talk about life goals, family, whatever. Start thinking about conversation as building a connection with someone. You talk about whatever as first just to…	/r/seduction	29/08/13 11:20 PM
2	There's no formula to getting women. It's not practical advice. It's like that book "The Secret". Just because you're positive doesn't mean anything. It's incredibly vague. You might as well just say things like "Be attractive. Be awesome. Just go show the girls the real you and everything will be fine." You need experience to feel confident. You can't have great Inner Game without actually getting your feet wet and just trying everything out first.	/r/seduction	29/08/13 08:32 PM
6	There's no formula to getting women. You're not bringing anything to the table. Just feel good bullshit that will disappear once the emotional high is gone. The mystery method model and the escalation ladder are as good as a formula as you can use when it comes to seduction. Yeah, you obviously can't run every women like a equation, but that doesn't mean conversations and touch don't follow a path of momentum. People need steps to follow first. You think basketball players go out and the coach just tells them to play with a positiv…	/r/seduction	29/08/13 08:19 PM
2	I'm having trouble using direct game without coming off as needy, or that I'm more invested than she is. Breaking rapport means anything that could be taken as creating tension, or "pushing" the other person away. It can be verbal, like giving you shit tests, not complying with your questions, some sort of resistance. It can be physical, closed body language, turning away, avoiding eye contact, etc. Comfort building is a lot easier if you're genuinely interested in the other person. Just bring up things that evoke or generate feelings. Family, Goals, Weaknesses, etc. Some people are more open with …	/r/seduction	29/08/13 08:01 PM
3	Seddit, I need your help in asking my girlfriend to talk about what frustrates me without making her feel bad. You're taking it too personally. You have insecurities about your sexual performance and you're letting yourself overanalyze things. In a more crude phrasing, you're getting way too butthurt and you're killing your own mood. I would have laughed at how silly she's being and then turned off the tv and just went right back at it. Just lead. Don't ask to give her oral...cmon now. Just do it and if she doesn't like it she'll stop you.	/r/seduction	29/08/13 08:32 AM
3	I'm having trouble using direct game without coming off as needy, or that I'm more invested than she is. Well if she was receptive to your conversation and allowed you to kiss her, then you must have been doing semi decently. By more details, you need to have like an actual field report status if you want specific help. From what you've put, I'm going to guess that in your interaction with this girl, you showed neediness somehow. Maybe there was a moment where she broke rapport and you hurried to fill it in. Maybe you're escalating way too fast and pushing way too hard without properly taking the s…	/r/seduction	29/08/13 08:17 AM
4	I'm having trouble using direct game without coming off as needy, or that I'm more invested than she is. What do you deem sexual conversation? How far did your kino escalate? Why do you feel like you weren't the prize anymore? Need more details. That being said, if you were planning something while in her room, your logistics are off. Can't be in a place where you are subject to interruptions.	/r/seduction	29/08/13 07:59 AM
2	Confidence is the mask of value. This just sounds like some inner game hand waving. When it comes to social interactions, confidence comes from experience. You know what works and what doesn't because you've gotten feedback many times over. You're able to successfully calibrate yourself to different situations because you've seen it all before. Inner beliefs and self-philosophy are fine and dandy, but nothing beats pure hard work.	/r/seduction	21/08/13 08:42 PM