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tempo09876/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:09 AM
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tempo09876/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:01 PM
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If hot picture, then match and reply. If not hot picture, then not match. So if match, then reply.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 12:31 AM
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Usually you're so on target, but your replies aren't making any sense here. They match you (or don't). You send a message, then they reply (or don't).
/r/askTRP23/02/15 12:21 AM
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So you have a fetish. We all have something. So long as you don't start expecting other people to have that fetish (as feminism does), you're fine.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 10:17 PM
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You'll start to value emotional connection less when you start getting it more often. When you see how easy it is to go out, date women, and get your hand held, and cuddled, and a hand job, you'll lose your enjoyment for them. That stuff is good, and you can absolutely do them in relationships. You can use sex to get those, but you can't use those to get sex.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 10:06 PM
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Avoid, avoid, avoid. Apathy. Don't engage with her; you're not pursuing her, you work with her. Don't even approach them as shit tests.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 09:55 PM
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They match based on picture but don't reply based on picture.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 09:51 PM
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She wants to please you because she likes you. She gets off really hard when you dominate her, so she (solipsism) thinks it works the same way for you. She doesn't know she'll feel pity and disgust if you actually do enjoy it and disappointment if you don't. Of course, there's always the chance that you're awesome enough to take that hit, but why risk it. Take that hit later when she needs some beta
/r/askTRP22/02/15 09:18 PM
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Ah, yeah. I suppose: a higher population means girls get more orbiters and are more choosy about their alphas. Which also means our lay/match ratios decrease. I never thought of living in a medium-pop city as a blessing.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 06:31 PM
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Why would they match then?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 06:20 PM
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Just a thought. Is this what it feels like to meet someone nearer to dark triad than yourself? I would be fascinated to meet such a person. I think.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 08:26 AM
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Lay Rate For Matches: 1.7% (1.7 matches out of a hundred were lays) Isn't 2% of MATCHES really low? Especially considering he's screening so many with a hyper sexual profile?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 08:16 AM
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Where would we be if we walked away every time we were called a nasty name?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 08:07 AM
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If they decide purely based on the picture, then they would reply to any message. They don't always reply to the first message. Best I've gotten is 80% response rate from the first message.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 07:44 AM
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I get a fair number of my Tinder FWBs through text escalation. I can't in good conscience take that advice. Of course I escalate in person too (I wouldn't have done any of this without starting kino--before the number-- and receiving IoIs). Thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 07:39 AM
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yeah ive been on tinder ymmv
/r/askTRP22/02/15 05:15 AM
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Get out, get away. You're lucky she aborted. Your friend will not see the light so long as she is still talking to him. Don't pay, just leave. Save the text convo somehow. I wouldn't e-mail it to him, but maybe you should someday.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:37 AM
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You don't party, you just go somewhere to practice your game. Up your GPA now while the classes are easy so you can afford Cs when they get hard. You're 18, you won't be fucking many 21-22-year-olds anyway. Date younger women. There's no advantage to going to college parties when you're 18 unless it's to rush a fraternity.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:27 AM
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Not arrogant enough, too talkative. Did you send 3 messages between her sending one, or are those drafts?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:13 AM
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Yeah. Not insane enough to risk prison though.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 04:10 AM
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Go read the side bar. "rejection is not a shit test". Rejection is THE shit test. "Asshole, creep, player, are you fucking other women"... What shit test is NOT based on a woman faking rejection and seeing whether the man tries to backpedal? You've heard of playing hard to get, to inflate SMV. I'm worried about your assuming the sale and outcome independence, if you're not sharing those delusions.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:58 AM
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She doesn't know it, but she'll lose attraction if you let her. IMO. Girls don't get off on dominating attractive men, and girls who do are not the ones you want to LTR. dominance emotion variety immersion Dominance gets boring, that's why we have variety. Try some emotion. Missionary, shower sex, there are a bunch of tame, romantic choices.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:52 AM
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Can't build attraction over the phone is questionable. If so, then the girls I pull on Tinder (33%) have already decided to fuck me and game is unnecessary. I know that about texting, maybe I thought for some reason this was an exception. An aside: I've been avoiding "when are you free" since I started on TRP because it's open-ended and we don't ask girls to make decisions. Confirm/deny?
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:32 AM
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Right, that was the goal. Love me or hate me. So she hates me for now. Correct, we never had an exchange of pleasantries. Just (my) talk about meeting and (her) shit tests. (Which were aced and then followed by cold. That must be cognitive dissonance of IHAB but not having a boyfriend.) Thanks for your elaboration.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:27 AM
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Boyfriend, supposedly. Unconfirmed. Words, not actions. Didn't get involved, flirted. I may have been male attention. I was prepared for that. I escalated, steered clear of orbiter territory. Correct, she would choose to win him back if he exists (and wasn't just an attention grab; he was only mentioned once and not during the flirting, so it wasn't IHAB LJBF). I never really had a shot if so. I gamed as usual, to see how things went. So you're saying the hot was to attract me and the cold was b…
/r/askTRP22/02/15 03:21 AM
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I'm familiar with the sidebar. Post edited for clarity.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 01:03 AM
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Care to elaborate on "try too hard"? I'm not asking what to do here, I'm asking how to not make the same mistake again.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 01:02 AM
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No. Always 2/3. This is used to communicate your value. If you get on your knees beg and plead for her attention, it's not gonna help. Neither is texting too much, for the same reason. To clarify it's needy to overtext and shower in unearned attention. When you become of sufficient value 2/3 rule will happen automatically because she'll be blowing you up. As you work to get there, consciously use the 2/3 rule with discipline. It's not unearned. She flirted first. She sent IoIs. I ignore her >60%…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:43 PM
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That doesn't answer any of the questions. I'm asking how.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:39 PM
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I'm a transfer student, working on building my network out. She knows I'm a transfer student, but that's a logical reason. I did sacrifice illusion of abundance there. Thanks for helping me notice. She continued texting back when I played it as a shit test. When she stopped responding, so did I. 2/3 ratio is for existing plates, not making new ones, no? You have to build attraction, and you don't build attraction by being quiet just because her responses are meaningless. You're right, I should h…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:27 PM
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