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I agree with all the other comments about this being too fast, but even assuming that he’s not “future faking” you, I think it’s concerning that he’s talking about uprooting his life and leaving the island when he has young kids who will need him during this transitional period.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 04:17 AM
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How old are his children? If he’s posting on FB about still missing his wife I think it’s time to pump the breaks on this one
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 01:48 AM
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Treating people with respect encompasses a LOT of different things, so without knowing exactly what areas you need work on I’ll try to answer broadly. I think at its barest form respect is a feeling of deep admiration. In practice, you can show this feeling through action. A big part of being respectful I think is trying to be kind. Actively listen, don’t interrupt them but ask engaging questions when they’re talking. Try to be present when they’re telling a story. If you love something someone …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 04:24 AM
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Do you know why he said that? Like what was he referencing?
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 04:06 AM
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I’m sure your therapist will touch on this, but working on your communication skills will help you overall, even if he does not want to get back together with you. Since you didn’t initiate the kiss, you probably felt like it wasn’t worth mentioning but that likely felt emasculating to him, especially since he had to hear it second hand. And in turn, flirting with another man in front of him was likely another disrespectful blow. If you just wanted more attention from him, a different way to app…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 03:27 AM
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So you’ve had conversations about this already and he’s not sticking to his word. Getting blackout drunk and doing dangerous things are not the traits of a HVM. You can be the epitome of femininity but if he still wants to drink heavily he will. I don’t know how often he drinks but if he’s frequently binge drinking in the week, this might be outside of your scope of practice. If he doesn’t want to change or get help I think you need to decide what kind of life you want for yourself. Is this some…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:40 PM
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I think akaadam has already expressed a lot of my thoughts about this, but I don’t think being fearful of drinking is necessarily irrational. You don’t need to divulge why you’re fearful of it to us, but if your partner knows why you’re fearful of this and continues to drink to excess and end up in situations where he’s vomiting that’s the bigger issue, especially since it causes you so much distress. It seems like he doesn’t care that it upsets you, and that’s a problem. I think it’s kind that …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:21 PM
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Does he get angry because he’s been drinking, is this behavior very different from when he’s sober? And how long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/22 07:02 PM
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Being a RPW means different things for all of us. The way I saw it described when I first got here, was a toolbox, i.g take what you need and leave what you don’t. I don’t know what percentage of women in here are housewives vs working but I’ve seen posts from both. Being a SAHM is not required at all, that’s a choice within their relationships. It’s not considered bad to want to keep working all, there are women in here who make more than there husbands or run their own businesses. I wouldn’t s…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/22 05:50 AM
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I use an app called sorted
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 02:38 AM
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Have you read the stuff in the wiki? I think it hits on a lot of your questions here
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 08:05 AM
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There’s not really a question here, but I’ll try to answer it anyway. 5 inches the average length of penises in the US, so that’s not necessarily a disqualification. The undercurrent of what you’re asking though is riddled with insecurity. Assuming every woman you would be intimate with would be thinking about their past partners is a mindset based in anxiety and distrust. You really should consider counseling if you aren’t already in it, and I don’t say that lightly. And to address something el…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/22 07:34 PM
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Wait, are you two not officially dating?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 11:46 PM
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So here’s what I’m getting from your post: I think it’s a little odd that he’s waited so long to go public with you, you’ve been together a year. -I think it’s a little strange he’s mentioned his preferences about other women. He’s dating you, not other women so I’m not sure what that has to do with your profile picture? Or even why you need to run it by him. Yes, your profile picture should be age appropriate, but assuming the photo wasn’t showcasing your chest I’m not sure what’s inappropriate…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 09:37 PM
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What did he not like about the photos? And if you don’t mind, what other problems have cropped up around respect?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 09:07 PM
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Well I think that’s her cross to bear. If other people are judging you based on their perception of HER then I don’t think they’re worth interacting with honestly. Also, the rumor mill spins even if things aren’t true. If you still value her as a friend and see a future with her that may be enough of an answer.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 09:23 PM
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Do you still want to be friends with her? Have you talked with her about any of this to get her side of the story? If you no longer want to be friends with her then I think that’s worth a conversation about how your values that don’t seem to align and going your separate ways. If you do still want to be friends with her, I don’t think it necessarily speaks badly on you. You said you don’t want to party anymore, so I think that makes it less of an issue if you aren’t in those settings with her. I…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/22 07:37 PM
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I used to have similar beliefs as you. After becoming Christian a lot of my values changed and most of them are naturally aligned with RP theory. I will say however open marriages and polyamory aren’t required for a RP based relationship, neither is monogamy. The parameters around that are based in whatever the two of you decide, I believe the sidebar describes RP theory as a “toolbox”. I’m not sure the extent of your current relationship but I would like to gently mention that sometimes RP theo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/22 04:54 AM
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In reading your post and replies, I feel like you’re stuck on the fact that he’s “supposed” to take care of you because he’s a man. I’m going to echo some of the other commenters sentiments, you should really read the stuff on the sidebar to get a better understanding of RP theory for one. For two, it sounds like your boyfriend has very clearly said he’s burnt out emotionally from taking care of you. As your significant other yes he should supporting you, but that has to go both ways. In your re…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 09:19 PM
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I’m in a similar stage of life right now — currently reading Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It’s a wealth of reproductive knowledge, really recommend it
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 03:44 AM
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If I’m understanding your post correctly, you want to apologize to your father and brother but your boyfriend would like to be present during? It sounds like you don’t want him to be there, and I think that’s a good idea. It’s nice that he would offer to support you, but really this is just between your family members. There’s no reason for him to be involved at this point. It is kind of him to offer to help you though, so be sure to tell him that if that’s the choice you make. Ultimately this s…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 08:57 AM
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Love Farmhouse on Boone YouTube channel for homemaking / motherhood content. Lots of practical stuff there
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 12:46 AM
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I think marriage counselor? And IC is maybe individual counselor
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 12:09 AM
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I was in a similar situation from 13 to 18. The best thing for me was to go to therapy and work through it, allowing it to fester won’t help. So good on you for seeking therapy. It gets better with time. Which is not an exciting answer but it’s true. You control the narrative of your life, not him. Your life isn’t ruined, you sound young, so you have lots of time to heal. For me, after years of self work, I can say that I don’t even think of him anymore. I’m now in a long term relationship with …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 04:58 PM
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You could have a conversation with him about how you’re concerned about his health. I would frame it moreso around his quality of life rather than the attraction piece of it, and maybe tell him how you’ve been feeling a lot better since you’ve been working out / not vaping. It might help if you ask him what seems daunting about not vaping anymore and ask if there’s any way you can be of support to him. In terms of going to the gym, maybe you could offer to go with him for a while if his hang up …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 05:27 AM
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