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tempusers/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:51 PM
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tempusers/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:08 AM
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This is all on you bud. Nothing the woman did.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:43 PM
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This is a good analysis too.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:17 PM
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Long post ahead: I'm going to throw in my 2cents $5 from growing up in the church. Church women are very much like other women. And can be divided into 2 groups. Low self esteem who also believe the bible and are on the poor financial end of the spectrum who will marry for love, but these are few and far between and not in city churches for the most part. Then there are high self esteem church girls, with good families, who know the game, and follow it with higher expectations because they have …
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:57 PM
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Drinking is shite for introspection. Alcohol is technically a depressant. If you're trying to figure something out, especially personal life stuff, do it fucking sober.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:00 PM
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You focus on your goddamn finals now. You did unfortunately fuck up a little bit by asking "Did I say something that upset you?" and following her to the door. Sometimes it's a lose/lose. I lost a comfort test when I told a gf I was in college with that I flat out didn't want to see her one night, because I had to study. My affairs and my study were more important than her, and when I made that clear to her, she couldn't stand it and started fucking around with someone else. Right now, forget ab…
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:34 PM
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You're gonna hate this, but you failed to keep control and frame. Like, you started logistics, and gave a "night", but you didn't give a specific time. Now it's already Friday afternoon. You should have set in stone the when and the where, and had a reliable phone on you. I see only one way to swing this: Text back when you can at home. "Busy day. Couldn't text. Want to unplug. Come over at X time".
/r/askTRP20/10/17 09:06 PM
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Synonyms associated with INTP: the quiet stoic one, strong minded, honest, zero fucks given, talk softly but carry a big stick. Sure all those can work. You ever heard of the term "command presence"? When you enter the room everyone notices you. 6'0" lift up. There's no reason you can't rock your version of "alpha" with that personality. Some great dudes and presidents have it. lmgtfy
/r/askTRP14/09/17 08:51 PM
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"Deer caught in a headlight" is a colloquialism for when the animal, deer, is known to freeze in front of an oncoming car during night fall, because the headlights of the automobile is foreign and entrancing. OP was the deer, and her boobs are the headlights, and he froze and went dumb & mute.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 07:53 PM
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Didn't next over just that, it's her preference. But when it applied to all other areas, like she's self conscious about her complete body image, or emotional insecurities (especially clingy abandon worried) then I nexted.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 04:48 PM
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Except for that one woman who didn't want me to eat her pussy. She was so fucking self conscious, she told me to stop trying.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:59 PM
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I've noticed this trend too. Furthermore, I suspect some of the women who rail on and on and on Trump, are just trying to lie to trick their hamster, because they want secretly to be accepted and controlled by him as a high value male. "The lady doth protest too much, methinks"
/r/askTRP09/11/16 07:09 PM
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You're not a victim. You caught feelings. It happens. Had a similar story years ago. Chick cried to me to come comfort fuck her after I broke up with her. Problem she was back in another dude's apartment by next morning. So more than likely she left to his immediately after I left her place. I was an emotional tampon. I let myself be an emotional tampon. Just learn from this and move on.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:07 PM
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The fake wealth 30k millionaire culture is probably more alive in Atlanta than anywhere else in the south, if not the entire country. Hey man. Me too. I'm a west Georgia transplant. When I go home, I see the women in my family acting sketchy like they're upset they're still back out in the 'burbs and want that city life too though... The way they treat their men. Yikes.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:12 AM
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Lots of "womyn" around Atlanta (most are from the suburbs) looking for the MRS degree. Lots of focus on outward facing appearances. They "want" to take care of their man and their kids. But REALLY want to have their man take care of them, so they can be a "home maker", and then send their kids off to daycare so they hardly have to do any work. The levels of cognitive dissonance is off the charts. Because just like everywhere they just want a good time and excitement and do not want to be told wh…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:16 AM
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Why not both? I don't trust women to take the pill reliably, nor plan b. I ALWAYS wrap it, even if they are "on their meds". Since you don't use a condom, then look into getting a vasectomy, because it's reversible IF you ever decide to have kids. But whatever, condom is also extra layer against STDs
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:29 PM
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It's a waste of time to try to hurt her. Wasted energy. Go forward to better things for yourself and forget her. Sounds like she broke up with you. So what, is your ego hurt? | I should have never dated a girl who made a choice of dating this guy lol You've got a bad sense of self value. You basically told her that you are shit. Why would you even degrade yourself by her "choice".
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:38 AM
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| I messaged my ex today No. Just. No.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:29 AM
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|I don't get a good night's rest because she snores I feel you though. Last LTR broke up with me over the exact same because I wouldn't let her stay over anymore until she saw an Ear Nose Throat doctor to see if it could be relieved. I was a bit worried she could develop sleep apnea. I tried to tell her I was concerned. She said I was just selfish. It was a bad situation all around because I do sleep really lightly and I need to have quiet to sleep. My discomfort or inability to work and be ment…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 05:17 AM
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Sounds like your pose and frame was just fine because you got her attention to notice. Plus it sounds you have a rapport. She teasing and joking, you got her, so have fun with her and escalate back. Being work, keep it safe enough to keep HR out of the equation and you are just fine bro.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 05:03 AM
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German women are incredibly modernized, feminized, yet not really entitled, (say as much as western US women). They appreciate and respond well to Alpha tendencies, so that's good, but I wouldn't consider them marriage material either. The current gen 22 to 30 are riding the hell out of the CC.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 03:20 AM
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Women can get infatuated and fall "in love". They can hyper focus on a guy too. But most lack the ability to be devoted and "decide to love" with actionable decisions/demonstrations. The prolonged unrequited feelings are more of a longing or lusting seen in girls who have "ugly duckling syndrome", but most will move on quickly. Really quite similar to post break up. If she's made up her mind, then it's over. No attachment. No trying to work it out or figure it out. They want to feel loved and co…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 03:04 PM
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You may need to experience more women. Each I've been with have smelled different, and tasted different. And I'm not just meaning pussy either. Their body scent, and the taste of their tongues and kisses. I've been attracted to all of them, but know which ones I enjoyed more that tasted sweeter and better to me. Body chemistry IS a thing. That being said, don't stress ONLY about pleasing women, they should want to please you too. Look, you're not "wrong" per-se that if you have anxiety about mak…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 07:20 PM
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You may be thinking about the "48 Laws of Power" by Robert Greene?
/r/askTRP06/07/16 09:17 PM
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You know what, I haven't dedicated an entire thread to it, but this complete and abject hate for Trump lately that I've observed too, from women around here is a bit much. In the sense like they're trying TOO hard to hate him. "The lady doth protest too much, methinks". I have a weird strange feeling that they want to hate him, but hell, his money and just shit eating non caring attitude tingles them too. Fuck it, be more like Trump at least with women. *edit = formatting, commas
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 07:33 PM
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Goddamn genius this right here. When I read this, I couldn't think of any more perfect response. When I was young and stupid (over a decade ago), I wish I would have been this cool. As another poster said, it gets easier with age to hold this kind of frame to just fucking walk away.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 07:19 PM
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No. It's not unreasonable (although my sister, wives of my friends may say otherwise). I have a STEM partner at the moment and she's in debt, whereas I'm debt free, having graduated at the same time, from the same school and degree program. I told her she may get a LTR status when she gets out of debt, but I refuse to saddle myself to someone else's debt and bad financial discipline.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:39 PM
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Normal. Flakes are irritating, but really (unfortunately) expected.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 06:38 PM
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I honestly think that's the case but I don't want to make baseless assumptions. Fuck this bitch though, thanks for the help And who the fuck cares. You have better things to do right? Or you have back up plans? Even if you don't, you can make your own backup plans on the fly. Practice outcome independence. You're getting bogged down into the mire of caring too much about her and having something to do with her. You do you man, you do something else fun and happy.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 08:54 PM
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| While masturbating you pump "reward" to your brain without any (substantial) effort. It's a reward for doing jack shit. It also makes your body get used to being lazy. Sit around watching porn and jacking off becomes easier to escape into than going to talk to a woman and live a real damn life.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:28 PM
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It's off topic a bit here, and you would probably get more responses and better answers on /r/nofap but I'll chime in with my personal goals My goal is, continue less and less porn to the point where I cut out all porn use entirely (still working on this). Masturbate when/if I need to in a dry spell, with my imagination of girls I've been with or want to get with. Which also means don't use imagination of previously watched porn. Simpler: The more you grab your dick to porn, the less success you…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:25 PM
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Word.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 12:05 AM
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The first scenario. Wherein actually some words have been exchanged, and when you're talking directly to her, by name and subject aimed at her, she just checks out and walks right past. I've only experienced this once recently. Unfortunately, admittedly, I lost frame and blanked. Like a deer in headlights. I had never seen this happen before, be it male, female, doesn't matter. I was flabbergasted and unprepared for being just flat out disrespected from someone with no social grace (or at least …
/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:53 PM
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Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. Colloquially "when in Rome". Don't publicly express disdain for the courtiers around you.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:15 AM
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http://i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/102/882/nigga-you-gay.jpg
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:54 PM
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Law 39: The section concerning anger addressed this. Learn how to be cool and not be angry. Violation of the law: Napolean lost face and his followers' faith when he ripped into Talleyrand. Talleyrand essentially controlled and manipulated him the rest of his life after that. Like a puppet master. You be Talleyrand, you let her make an ass of herself when she loses face or gets so angry or upset that she blows up on you. Amused mastery at a top level. You can stir her up to catch fish too, but d…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 12:54 AM
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Good. I just finished 48 laws of power, although it's a little bi-polar (some ideas and laws seem to contradict each other in tiny ways, but that just means be flexible with them and use them to your advantage). I'm looking forward to Carnegie's book now, it's on my desk already purchased.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 07:56 PM
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I give up porn, booze, and team fortress 2.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:40 PM
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|2. The modern man never lets other people know when his confidence has sunk. He acts as if everything is going swimmingly until it is. Yet we have the some truth in there. Always maintain a frame of confidence. Anything less will be ripped apart by both women and other men.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 11:47 PM
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Law 10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and the Unlucky This includes self induced luck reduction and self induced happiness reduction. * You've already said something, you've done what you can. You may try one more time for offering help or "intervention" if he's a really really important friend, but otherwise, he's made his choice.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 09:04 PM
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Sidelining question. During new to TRP and monk mode absorbing things, how to deal with loneliness?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:21 PM
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| but reading trp made me paranoid as fuck I am dealing with this too. Trouble determining which women are the more, honest/good/modest ones (as far as possible, everyone has some history), and which are actively engaging in sex every chance they get. Having recently found myself called "platonic" but there are also conflicting flirts and touching, obvious IOIs it's driving me crazy. Do I still try to escalate and fuck my new female room mate, just to get it out of the way?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:57 PM
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Maybe not discouraged, but not encouraged either.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 02:15 PM
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Unfortunately, this is rather common. It is important to be "equally yoked" sexually. Meaning you should have relatively the same amount of partners and types of experiences before setting down into LTR (or even further marriage). What we see here however, a lot in Western society, is that many more women have more experiences than men. As there are just more good guys who actually are kinder, more tender about relationships, sensitive, or just plain traditional, whatever you want to call it. Gi…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:11 PM
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I'm down from 200 to 145 after calorie counting until it became habit, but I still have the "handles" mid line gut. It's smaller and less noticeable, but I can tell it's there. Running helps, I do 30 minutes x3 days a week. and then as others suggested High Intensity Intervals (heavy weight, to run sprints), when you can bounce back between wind sprints, dead lifts, pull ups, and dips. 2 other days a week I do pure strength trains with weights. This last loose skin, skinny fat, is, unfortunately…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:15 AM
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Anytime Feedback Tool is very beta, instead of confronting someone directly, you snitch to their boss anonymously. My company has just decided to create one of these too, directly because of the "success" of Amazon's. It's bullshit. I've been kept from some degrees of promotion for directly confronting fellow employees and supervisors when I saw something wrong or I didn't agree with. Now I have can "use" this "tool" to file complaints behind people's backs... yay! I mean, sometimes I was wrong …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:33 PM
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/r/nofap, /r/theredpill, /r/fitness, /r/loseit, /r/getmotivated, /r/stopdrinking, and then you know, kind of get off reddit and get out there, where ever there is for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:34 PM
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|like when you see a homeless guy, but those emotions are not strong enough to make you actually treat poor people well. My asshole moment for the day: I have started to force myself to ignore these people and also recently keep forcing myself to tell them basically to "fuck off" and quit begging. I got tired of feeling used by homeless people after I moved to the city. It took a little while, but after being bothered more than 50% of the time I go out, the compassion has worn off and has now be…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:41 PM
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Or the other way around - let them assume they can walk all over you and then suddenly call them out on all of their shit. Though you'd probably have difficulty keeping people interested if you started the night like that. I wouldn't even recommend trying this. Doing this "by nature" before knowing better, you can't undo the walking over. It is my experience that once you "stand up" or "talk back", and they get that shock, they will just shut down and stop talking to you entirely, because now yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 10:13 PM
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If he says "no" she gets to play the oppressed victim because he's too controlling and isn't man enough to handle a Strong Independent Woman™ like her. Sickening, really, that she'll actually get the compassion and "you go girl" that she wants. Checking out basically lets us ignore the bullshit. I think it will be a better world when saying no, simply ignoring the bullshit and the drama machine with a next, works just as well. A bigger man should be able to just walk away and ignore her drama. U…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:40 PM
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I get the mentally checking out. What I don't get is whey this man just didn't say no. Girls get away with what we let them. Say no; and if she gets upset or does it anyways, then leave. Mentally checking out after saying yes/ok is completely passive IMO.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:13 PM
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Thesis length emails. Holy shit that's a hit.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 02:09 AM
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The article does a good job of making a point. Searching deeper however, and finding that girl's blog, she appears to be RP herself.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:17 AM
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|"I feel bad because he's constantly trying to be nice but secretly I'm starting to hate him for his niceness" -- Good examples, except this one reads like troll bait shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 12:44 AM
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Level 4: Guilty of being there. Taken too far and then it's detrimental to personal emotional and social well being. I've engaged just enough to get by, basically. Like don't go out to bars and socialize to avoid vapid people and women girls I may bump into. But who really wants to just get by.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 06:43 AM
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I have no doubt I could go out and get laid a bunch if I wanted to, but I don't have a strong desire to do so Can you? Why no desire? If the desire is truly killed by their terribleness then I understand. If it's fear of rejection instead and you hide behind the lack of desire, don't do it. That's the beta cocktail part you mentioned. Don't rationalize it away dude. If you're not doing that then ignore this. Not knocking you down. I'm guilty of it too. This was meant to motivate you just as much…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 06:38 AM
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Had no idea what this show was or who this girl is until today. Googled her. She's overweight and heavily tattooed. Is that what's attractive these days? That's not misogynistic, it's simple, right? The reporter wasn't into her. As far as I'm concerned girls with tattoos are pretty gross anyways. Overweight or normal weight. Hands down, no excuse. I cringed the other day when I heard a friend of another girl I hang with say "I'll get a tattoo someday, as a reward for the weight loss I plan on do…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 10:32 PM
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good on him for taking a risk. bad on him for OVER apologizing (especially in the public forum space of facebook)
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 08:31 PM
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I still partially agree with you, it's nice to have faith and a chance, and see if it was yours in the realm of possibilities, but that gets old and annoying. Giving trust is NOT low investment to me. It takes a lot, and when I do give it, it better be honored. It's not a gift I just give out. I also offer this addendum: |Just because you don't intend to cross a bridge ever again doesn't mean you need to burn it to the ground. Metaphorically I'm a fan of delaying the need to burn the bridge too.…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 09:03 PM
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I like what you're spitting here about being real (non-zero chance) and being the adult to her, because she's still clearly a child herself. (third paragraph). But your benefit of the doubt and implicit trust is foolish. Gonna get a few downvotes, and most likely even stop everyone from reading the rest of what you had to say.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 07:41 PM
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Yup, I want to believe it's the OP's too, because optimism, and it is possible, like Unicorns and NAWALT. However the truth and numbers are there that says the probability is that she cuckolded him. Get mathematically real even. Too bad I'm called a pessimist and misogynist because I lean to the the most plausible outcome.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 07:34 PM
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Add a big dose of honesty, truth and being unapologetic and you get what the redpill should be about. That's what I consider tantamount to being manly too. For me that's what I consider the most simple. Never having to say sorry for small day to day bullshit (not being kept down), and being honest with yourself and everyone else. Edit: Also add in doses of physical and mental self improvement to round out yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 12:56 AM
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I find "hiking" works mostly as a SWPL activity for SWF. A full day hike can be made, or a two hour 3 miler can happen. It's flexible, and most girls will go along on a half day (unless she's one of those who have been ruined by the media and feels like she will be victimized alone in the woods kind of bullshit). Sometimes it can get you a second date during/after a less hobby date "Yeah, this was fun, but I'm honestly a little bored, I'd rather be outdoors with nature, etc. You should go hiking…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 05:09 AM
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You wouldn't believe it, but the recent "The Internship" is a red pill movie for me. It starts out with the two protagonists being blue pilled, one left by his woman, and the other incel. See for you yourself how it ends, and make your own decisions, but I think they both have frame, confidence, and exude a classic manliness that's hard to find in films today.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:13 AM
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He is gay. I have wondered if he's MGTOW gay. What I mean by this is: there are MGTOW, that instead of involcelib actually still want a sexual outlet and become gay, because they are so disgusted with women's bullshit. Not that they started out "grossed out" by sexuality with women, but put off by their airs and pompousness, and then eventually fell into being attracted to men after first GTOW. This opposed to gays who straight up strictly always like other men from the start. Also opposed to th…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 10:30 PM
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People with adhd also tend to have creative and flexible minds sometimes far beyond what other people tend to possess. Yeah. That's the rub for me. Rather than "fix" this "disorder" it'd be great to see it embraced and let the creativity run wild. See what these kids can do, like accomplish something really mind blowing.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:03 PM
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So, basically, it's a disorder to not have enough energy or discipline to be able to be forced to focus on something you're not interested in? That's what this is about. Conformity and being forced into everyone else's education, group, desires, etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 06:44 PM
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As Ludacris said "I want a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed".
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 08:13 PM
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"You can simply find someone else to ride with next time. This is my car, and I am driving it." Say no more, say no less. Do not respond any further to their response either.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 12:22 AM
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First time reply here, and I'm trying to learn what TRP is all about with regards to women. But as far as dad goes. I feel lucky. Dad set rules, dad punished rules broken. Dad was never my friend. Dad worked, and told me to do better in sports. Dad praised me when he could, but only if was worthwhile. I was told when I did something stupid too, even when I considered it "emotional abuse" (I was stupid). Dad pushed me out on my own at 18, and once again when I moved home during college, and I got…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:19 PM
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