tendervittles903 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	I just need to vent	RANT	tendervittles903	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 05:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Shut down an LVM at work who tried to treat me like his personal secretary Amazing. I was recently promoted, and the number of men that come to me demanding I go outside of our processes to help them is outstanding. I have always tried to be a team player and helpful, but I am working on putting my foot down when I need. My new boss has been instrumental in this. She, with the support of her male boss, always back me up and stick up for me. They have sent emails on my behalf letting aggressors know their behavior is unacceptable and suggesting apologies are needed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 06:44 PM
2	Need some HVW songs for my playlist Sit Still, Look Pretty - Daya	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 03:23 AM
4	Painfully accurate Lmao back when an ex and I broke up, I was texting this guy from work for a while. He will STILL ping me shit like this now during work, despite having a live in girlfriend. When I don’t respond for 5 minutes “sorry. Wow embarrassed”. Go do your work.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/08/20 11:48 AM
33	“He called me Mom during sex” The biggest pickmeisha/cockholm syndrome sub is FULL of that kind of stuff. I always feel so weird when sex-based posts go Into weird detail like “he sped up and squeezed me tighter”. It always reads like they’re just trying to get male attention in the post.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 01:28 PM
11	how do you find self-love? you dig. you isolate and you ache - ache from being lonely and ache from not feeling enough. you heal. you accept, you look in the mirror and see the woman you always knew you could be if you'd just tried a little harder. Being alone has really made me focus on my own mental health. I can articulate specific feelings, that have lead to a diagnosis and treatment plan for my mental health. In previous relationships, I was controlling. Turns out, it was my clinical anxiety. Now I have tools under my belt to help me face my anxious thoughts and how I can vocalize that in relationships so I’m not the asshole. I’ve also been given the tools to find behaviors that trigger this in me and why so I know when to bounce when…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 02:21 AM
3	So the only thing he has going for himself is a shelter over his head 🤮 I always get so confused when grown ass men are saying “have a job and a car” like okay???? We’re bragging about the basics of adulthood, why? Then I see one like this now and then.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/20 04:57 PM
28	Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below! I’m getting my masters in Organizational Leadership!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 08:51 PM
6	They really do think we're that stupid Hahaha we must be close to the same area, because I recognize Mr. Downingtown. I think 6’1” is close to true. Both of those men are tall athletes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 09:14 PM
7	Even during lonely times. I actually just went out to see if my trash had been picked up yet. 🤦🏻‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 12:49 PM
8	PSA: BPD men are perpetually the victim, and they will never change. Oh fun, mine was currently looking for a police position. Bunch of little wieners.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 01:30 PM
57	PSA: BPD men are perpetually the victim, and they will never change. Omg this is my ex. Every time I would get angry about something, it ended up being a pity party until I ended up comforting and feeling like I was in trouble.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 03:32 AM
10	In other news... online dating continues to be trash I find in my area, it’s a ton of bad looking short dudes that like anime. TF?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 06:43 PM
2	Would you stay as friends with a guy after you slept together ? In your situation I would say no. I would lean on anyone I had sex with for emotional support I bought my house about 3 years ago, and my neighbor was moving into his at the same time. They’re townhouses and we’re connected. A few months after moving in we got super drunk and had sex. The next day, things started getting weird. He immediately thought I wanted a relationship and we had to take a break from being friends. Unfortunately, we lived next to each other. Slowly, we said hi in the drivew…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 06:55 PM
11	Man completely flakes on date, so woman blocks him. He calls two hours later and leaves a psychotic voicemail. He’s big mad she didn’t wait two hours for him apparently. His number is there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/20 05:03 PM
3	[Discussion] What are your deal breakers, and why? Must live alone. This is a huge tell for me about how our financial situations align. I bought my house when I was 27. My area, while wealthy, has many affordable 1-2 bedroom apartments for about 700-900/month. I feel our financial situations are too different if you are unable to build savings while living alone. Non-religious. I just don’t understand the concept of religion and can’t be with someone who does believe that. No military. I can’t be with someone who makes a career of killing peopl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 03:17 AM
17	Short pickmeishas who shame taller women who want taller men If a guy doesn’t post his height, I take it to mean he’s short. I added a filter for height. 5’10”+ only please	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 12:17 AM
20	Next up on “Why I treat everyone like shit and make poor life decisions...fatherless men” Exactly. My cousin went to court and paid money he didn’t have to fight for right to a child that isn’t biologically his when he and his fiancé split. They had two other children together, which may have helped his case. But the moment she threatened his ability to see the daughter that “wasn’t his” he lost it and did what he needed to. He did his research for months, went in prepared and he came out with 50/50 custody for all of his children.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/19 12:21 AM
119	Whenever a man talks about “carrying on his family name” to promote sexism, homophobia and his own delusions of grandeur put that brokeass nobody in his place! So ridiculous. My mother was one of four daughters, and people used to ask my grandfather if he was trying for a boy. In the 60s, his response was that he wanted one with red hair. His last daughter had red hair. I’m an only child, people used to try to commiserate with my dad about how bad he will have it in my teen years. He just pulled the confused game “oh why?”, until they had to show their misogyny.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/19 12:47 PM
33	Self Dates = Self Love whether single or partnered The best thing I’ve ever done in my life is my first solo vacation. I always wanted to go to London, and my ex couldn’t afford it. Three weeks after we broke up I had a trip to London booked. I stayed in a bougie, expensive hotel and did whatever the hell I wanted when I wanted. If I wanted to do something and it didn’t work out (I kept messing up Westminster hours) I would just walk and find something else to do. I spent so much time in parks just watching fat little birds hop around. It was am…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 01:45 PM
46	I work in customer service and I’m tired of dealing with gross men I was 14 and worked at a grocery store bagging groceries for customers. The same man came down my row week after week to compliment my beautiful eyes, and ask if I knew how beautiful I was. A manager moved me to bakery stocking to get me away from him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/19 03:54 AM
4	Tell Her What You Want to Do As a woman, your second two examples are more appealing than your first. Asking about our interest, then directing is a turn on. I’ve had men just say “I’m taking you out,” and it just felt presumptuous and bossy. However when it’s framed as a question “hey, how about we go out sometime? Cool, what’s your number. I want to take you to x, y, z”. I dated a guy briefly that the ONLY reason I kept seeing him is because he was decisive (more important than “dominant”) and he’d ask if I was free on a …	/r/seduction	13/12/19 12:22 PM
19	What happens when you marry a MGTOW “I’m not MGTOW but I certainly intend to be someday” ... is he planning on killing his wife? That’s worded so strangely.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 03:54 AM
17	May I suggest a different kind of HVM? My HVM has changed my life. She is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I wake up in the morning, and have some eye contact and snuggle time before going to work. I don’t know where I would be if I didn’t have her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/19 01:41 AM
51	Really? Does this work? That made me gag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 03:07 AM
11	Should a woman date a man that earns less than she does? I prefer to have a man that makes within 5K of what I do. Anything bigger just leads to a myriad of issues. I dated someone for 4 years who constantly talked about marriage, then while drunkenly arguing one night he said “how can you expect me to marry you when you make so much more than I do”. I did not want any future children to grow up hearing sentiments like that, so I ended it. 3 years later, I’m still single, but better off being that situation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/19 11:02 PM
15	Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure. I literally don’t care if his orgasm is “mundane” because of a condom.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/19 03:23 AM