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That’s not a solution, that’s giving up. The solution is to go to the gym, improve your skills, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:24 AM
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It’s irrelevant is what I’m saying. If you know the truth, you don’t have to make someone else repeat it. You’ll gain nothing from it. You just want to make someone else do something to make YOU feel better or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:03 PM
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1) the guys can't see her. There's a big curtain blocking them because it's supposed to be done blind. 2) Riley is no different than any other bimbo. All she did was talk about her wants, which unironically were just partying and travel(so quirky!)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:04 PM
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Women don’t need to tell you anything. We already know the truth, so use that to make informed decisions. No one is going to be part of your public revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:43 PM
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I feel like a lot of these people think that empathy has to include some sort of action a long with it, which is just untrue. They don't understand that you can have empathy for someone have absolutely zero ability or desire to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:21 AM
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The ultimate problem with many guys on this sub is that they complain at all. They are unsuccessful because instead of using their knowledge of reality to make better informed decisions, they complain and try to change things that won't change. Essentially, they are acting like women, without any of the benefits of being a woman. So yes, women generally won't ever have empathy for the average man's struggles because they don't gain any benefit from it. They want men who can figure out how to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:58 AM
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Doing so is only a possibility because of what I stated in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:31 PM
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That’s not how bell curves work. In a room of 1000 people only about 15% would be 1-3, and of those 150, 136 would be 3s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:25 AM
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People thinking the blue pill is true has basically given us Wall-E irl, and is not what my country, the US, was founded on. So why the hell would I want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:47 AM
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It stopped being about just "rights" a long time ago. I'm fine with taxes as long as they are spent on things that are reasonable and benefit everyone. Anyone on aid should be required to work community jobs unless they are physically incapable. Even though some women pay alimony, it's still only ~10% of all alimony paid. All that being said, that has nothing to do with what I posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:14 AM
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It’s the end-state of evolutionary mismatch and the rise of feminism, with men just now starting to catch up. Technology has far outpaced evolution so a lot of the necessities for survival have been trivialized. It kind of balanced out most of the time because men would just die in day to day fights or war. Nowadays, there is far less crime and war, so instead of just dying and never seeing the end result, you get to live and be a slave whether it be through divorce or taxes paying for other peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:58 AM
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Nice guys don’t finish last. They don’t finish at all. I think I figured out by like 16 that being up front about your intentions gets you there more often than being a little bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:31 PM
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At some point you have to judge based on reality though. Bonnie blue can fuck 1000 dudes in a day while basically no man ever will fuck 1000 women in his lifetime. It’s not hypocritical to judge something based on how much effort had to go into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:48 AM
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Awareness of something allows you to handle it better. It’s only a drag if you let it get to you. Also, women had slightly more tact 20 years ago than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:56 PM
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Don’t use dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:49 PM
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Those men let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:05 PM
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To elucidate on the fact, when you remove nearly all danger from society, you remove the ability for women to feel "safe". In turn, they will seek out danger to try to gain that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:48 AM
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the difference between feeling SOMETHING and nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:43 AM
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You literally just explained my post while trying to negate it. Truly majestic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:39 AM
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Tbh, I can't deny that fact because much of my sexual success may have been attributed to beating the shit out of dudes or the stories told about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:37 AM
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You essentially have no idea what they have. It's full blown halo effect. You have no idea what they are capable of except for arousal and acting. Brad Pitt has married and divorced the same 2 women like 5 times lmao. Most celebrity men would be brutally murdered in short order in any kind of conflict that involved them. They are theatre kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 06:28 AM
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Waiting or expecting women to change after 200,000 years of evolution is a fool's errand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:47 AM
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1) Most people don't 2) Most regular guys take care of their shit, that's a you decision. Actually it's just a people thing and not guaranteed with roommates. 3) So you have a 45% chance of getting fired from a job but a 27% chance of your husband leaving you? You are highly likely to leave someone that cares about you but a <5% chance of leaving someone who gives zero fucks about you? Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:18 AM
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In what instance are you speaking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:07 AM
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I'm saying that OP is wrong about men's violence. Women are directing men to enact violence only for their gain. The solution is to only use male violence when it is a net benefit for both men and women in your community, and men have to make that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:06 AM
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ya but you gotta spell it out for people here. The caveat is that the secondary characteristics are inversely proportional for men compared to how hot they are. For women, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 05:01 AM
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Then don't be settled for. Marriage doesn't equate to being settled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:53 AM
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Social dominance is the end state of confidence. Social experiments will show you that being "correct" doesn't equate to social influence. Up until a certain point you are as correct as what you project.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:52 AM
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but I think if humans in general had more honesty and awareness re: who they were and what they were dealing with, "Would you date yourself" wouldn't be such an easy question to answer. It would be because you're not pedestalizing other people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:44 AM
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It's not that bad man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:42 AM
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It's more that it was regardless that he was a dangerous criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:41 AM
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this isn't victim olympics man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:38 AM
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It's about making a distinction between the terms. Arousal is just a primal physical attraction that opens the door. After that, other factors come in to play to make things happen. The level of primal arousal dictates how many additional factors are required to cross the threshold. For men, the arousal is a much more significant factor, it doesn't negate the attraction factors in the long term. Again, this is largely about ending the use of "attraction" as a catch all term.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:28 AM
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1) I mean, sedentary lifestyles are probably the leading cause of health issues compared to children. 2) Once again, a roommate generally doesn't have to have any sense of loyalty of compatibility with you if they don't want to. 3) Less secure and less risky is an oxymoron, and that chance of divorce is largely driven by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:12 AM
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Maybe you're too hard on yourself. A majority of people are a shit show and just barely making it in life. Thinking the fake perfection presented to us is reality is what is keeping people apart. Men and women, as well as communities are generally better together than apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:01 AM
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Damn. You friendzoned yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:57 AM
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Eh. While bears and twinks exist, gay men are on average way more fit than general society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:55 AM
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Also, allow me to refine your statement. "Inviting a man to explain his 40K foreign policy views to you, and having retorts, is a form of seduction."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:50 AM
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Flair does not check out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:27 AM
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I mean, you ARE confident, if you'd date yourself. You just need to reframe the end state rejection as THEIR loss and not your own. Then you're unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:26 AM
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Are you coming on to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:24 AM
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Ya but I wasn't born married...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:23 AM
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The amount of work an employer requires of you is significantly higher than a husband for one. Second, the chances of a single person having the same lifestyle as a couple is significantly low. If you can do it, then by all means do it, but it's highly unlikely. On top of that, the relationship between employer/employee is far less secure than between husband/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:23 AM
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I believe this is called confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:15 AM
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Men have more drive than women in a general sense? Gay men also top the charts in earnings on average too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:14 AM
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They do know it's worth their time, but when you are generally programmed to be the approached sex, you get stuck in a deadlock because now you are put in the position of being the pursuer/approached at the same time. On top of that, a lot of lesbian try to adopt masculine traits which kind of cancels out the whole attracted to women thing, and there are very few lipstick lesbians. On the opposite side, most gay men don't try to present as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:09 AM
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explain how it's not laziness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:00 AM
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That's a lot of words to mask laziness. It's ok to say it. The innate state of animals is laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:58 AM
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It's what happens when you set your goals too low. Get some minor achievement and then hit cruise control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:56 AM
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Lesbians also have the highest divorce rate which further proves the point. There aren't many hot lesbians walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:55 AM
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Both value looks as top priority, but men view sex differently and especially gay men. Two gay men fucking each other are just trying to get a nut, and will maximize their chances of doing that with little to no risk. Women want far more and aren't willing to put in the work to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:52 AM
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Except in "most" situations, your employer doesn't give a shit about you vs your husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:47 AM
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This more about desire for sex. Men want to have lots of sex so they prioritize things that get them that. Women don't prioritize that which is why lesbian bed death is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:45 AM
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It's because social media has caused a major shift in what is respected. Brand management is now king over aptitude and skill. It doesn't matter if you are the most skilled woodworker in the world if you can't make a brand out of it. Are you even the best woodworker in the world if you don't have an Instagram/Youtube about it with 200k followers? That's why new money is so flashy and temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:37 AM
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Women either commit violence in more subversive/subterfuge ways or just get men to enact violence on their behalf. They are just as violent if not more and history proves this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:21 AM
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Getting a woman who wants to have sex on a consistent basis without getting married might as well be an Olympic sport eh. never had problems in that department
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:14 AM
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Every day is another psy-op
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:12 AM
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Answer to as far as providing the services you agreed to, which you defined yourself. That's much less answering as to being accountable for...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 02:10 AM
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They are a customer of your services. You are the employer defining your terms of service.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:57 AM
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1099 is an independent contractor. It's self employment. You don't answer to anyone but yourself because you define the terms of your contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:43 AM
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Can be good depending on the type of business and its structure. I’d say 1099 contractor is probably the best middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:36 AM
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If you ask most men, they will say they want XYZ and know that some sacrifices will have to be made to get it. Whereas if you ask most women, they want XYZ and will do as little as possible to get it, and then after getting it, move the goalposts for even higher XYZ. It's as if they don't think barriers to entry aren't real and that there's some secret cabal keeping them down like there are monthly meetings of the Order for the Oppression of Women or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:34 AM
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Because most men have a more grounded reality of what a comfortable level of freedom is compared to most women? Men also have more consequences for non-conformity because no one is coming to save them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:23 AM
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Let's look at it for a different perspective. Women spent 100 years basically going "we can do that! it would be the same or better if we were allowed to do it!". Then after having basically every barrier removed, and every crutch possible, they went, "oh shit...this is hard". But instead of being reasonable, they doubled down and raised their list of demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:00 AM
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Employers have control over almost everything you listed lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:51 PM
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I think you're not understanding the whole point OP was making...Women buy 50 shades of gray because they WANT a sexy billionaire man etc. Men buy Tomb Raider because they want a fit chick with big tits. Not because they want to BE those people...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:48 PM
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Tomb Raider is a fit chick with big ass tits...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:43 PM
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All you did was switch who has power over you. You’re still in the same situation. Also, it’s not exactly simple to just randomly change jobs nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 10:18 PM
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Men have generally always had less friends than women. Not only do both men and women have less friends now, the type of women’s friendships have changed. Seems like most women just want to drag each other down and see how degenerate/abrasive they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:46 PM
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That doesn’t stop you from being at the mercy of your employer…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:42 PM
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Any dude worth his salt is never going to give up the game irl, especially to female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:41 PM
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Sure but those are modern problems caused by the massive increase in the workforce size allowing wages to stagnate and not keep up with inflation. This compared to when marriage and single income households were the standard. Affording a 1 bed apartment rental and drowning in debt is not taking care of yourself, and that’s where most people are at now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:40 PM
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Except most people can’t or barely provide for themselves. Most people can’t or don’t protect themselves, and police generally aren’t going to save you. For the last one, I don’t think it was about being normal so much as social status, and nowadays people have less and less friends. Turns out women couldn’t have their cake and eat it too, but the communist leaders of feminism certainly may succeeded in destroying the nuclear family. Congrats, now get to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:32 PM
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TRP has been around in some form for over 20 years. On top of that you would never know what they do or do not know because they wouldn’t tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:21 PM
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Marriage rates are down because all the benefits of it went away
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:13 PM
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All while literally being at the mercy of their employer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:11 PM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:11 PM
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I’m not talking about the general use ones because those are trash trained mostly on reddit and shit. I’m talking about specific ones trained on internal corporate data or just specific tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:04 PM
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The scale is tremendous to create and maintain everything necessary to deliver a weapon to a target
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:45 AM
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You know zero about the operations and maintenance of WMDs lol. The Manhattan project alone took over 100,000 people. It takes a massive amount of manpower to deliver a weapon let alone a functional and effective one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:27 AM
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A combination of the economy stagnating due to trade skills becoming ever more rare and AI(as shitty as it is) being able to take over soft skill jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:50 AM
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If that's your take, then have at it, but there are broad economic and societal impacts and I don't think recognizing that is necessarily a threat. It's no more a threat than recognizing the existence of gravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:30 AM
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There's a lot to unpack here but it's irrelevant to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:22 AM
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4 billion men on Earth and you chose "daddy issues"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:15 AM
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Evolution isn't a precursor to something, it is the result of something. Evolution is the result of the constant duress of existence in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:05 AM
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lol. That ain't me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:57 AM
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who's us?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:53 AM
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We've been in 4th wave feminism for quite some time now, for one. Second, yeah we'll never be Afghanistan because we never were and the tenets of feminism can never be undone without mass death because we were all raised in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:52 AM
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From evolutionary point of view rape is very efficient strategy. That very much depends on who is doing it and if they are capable of ensuring the safety of their offspring. There's QUITE a bit of nuance to that. Example: If someone with a nut allergy passes it on to 100 children through grape, those kids are generally fucked from an evolutionary standpoint. Additionally, women already select for certain types of men specifically because they don't want to be graped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:49 AM
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Natural selection doesn't care about systems of government or rights lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:41 AM
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Tbh, it'll happen far sooner than that imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:36 AM
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It's funny that you think "pay" has anything to do with it. It's about having enough people with the ability and skill to do things that maintain society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:35 AM
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Everything always reverts to the mean. Extremism in either direction always ends up failing. Very few people ever end up "winning" in extremist environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:33 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:16 AM
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People ARE concerned and studies have been done. Ironically it’s not the defund science crowd that’s suppressing it but the other side…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:44 PM
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“The only thing worse than hate is indifference”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:31 PM
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Low testosterone from environmental factors exacerbated by increasingly sedentary lifestyles probably has a lot to do with it also
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:30 PM
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Least delusional PPD take
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:27 PM
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Come on man, nobody likes French Canadians 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:22 PM
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Insane levels of inbreeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:20 PM
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It has nothing to do with masturbation. There is just less thrill or motivation to chase it because you may have seen 10,000 naked men/women by the time you are 18. Things that are ubiquitous get taken for granted. Just like cell phones. GenZ doesn’t give a shit about how amazing cell phones are because they don’t know a life where that didn’t exist, and then they get pissed when it takes more than 25ms for something to load. Now replace cell phones with women and loading with sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:16 PM
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Walmart, Hobby Stores, Anime Cons, The kitchen of Little Caesars, outside your window at 3am, their mom’s basement, Notre Dame clock tower, Somalia, Niceville FL, prison, to name a few. Mostly they are all around you, they are just invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:50 PM
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First, we’d need to bring back Ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:32 PM
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I don’t think it’s that Gen Z men have opted out because of past struggles. Women have just run a terrible marketing campaign since the internet came about. Whereas previous generations had homely moms or gaggles of hot women wanting to party with guys, the iconic women of today are Karens and vapid influencers. Who wants to get saddled with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:29 PM
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Probably the ease of access to sexual material has killed the allure of it for younger generations. We used to have to sneak into R movies, find porn in the woods, or watch scrambled TV just to see a titty. Now you can have it in a second at your fingertips. It also might explain why they are so flabbergasted when they eventually do want sex, how hard it is to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:09 PM
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You work with what you got and improve the things you can. Most people get what they get through earning it and taking risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:32 PM
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Women care about other women’s problems to the extent that it affects themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:27 PM
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They don’t want to fuck dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:23 PM
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This is what happens when you remove any kind of shame or criticism from society. People just think they are entitled to everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:50 PM
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In the general sense, yes. More resources or defense against existential threats are beneficial. We are just lucky to live in a time where that doesn’t apply to us in any meaningful way on a day to day basis. Women rulers have started more wars on a per capita basis than men rulers…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:22 PM
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Eh. It’s basically her limit before she gets too sensitive. The downvotes are hilarious though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:46 PM
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No woman that is sexually satisfied is bothered by being a trad wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:11 AM
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I make 5x the money that my wife does and she has a 3 to 1 cum ratio at minimum 5-6 times a week. She doesn't need drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:08 AM
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You also aren't going to fuck. That being said, I've never had to do anything except exist for most of my relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:58 AM
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"fancy" is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:35 AM
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depends on the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:33 AM
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I'm just talking about thing aren't common: -fancy dates -the pro-life w/e? I dunno, im drunk just seems weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:20 AM
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man...this is all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:09 AM
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Some women have a cum limit. They become so sensitive it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:50 AM
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Ya, that's basically how it went.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 AM
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the gooberest of dudes are professional fighters and way better than I was 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:39 AM
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both are achievable by anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:33 AM
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Quite a bit taller than most women in the world, but still fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:32 AM
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So what do you imagine made me not average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:29 AM
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So, we're just going to pretend? How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:27 AM
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That's fine. It's still above average in the US and well above average for most of the world. I don't give a shit because I'm Mr. Fuck Yo Girl but let's live in reality for a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:17 AM
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While I agree with about 60% of this, it doesn't negate the fact that women will do what it takes to both try to get "mr.right" and "mr.right now".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:15 AM
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Am I? I fucked all the 7-8s that everyone wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:05 AM
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5' 10" is literally above average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:56 AM
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I fucked a heavy chick one time and she literally gave up. Worst fuck of my life. And it's not like she was obese, maybe like 25lbs overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:51 AM
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I'm 5'7" and ran through a plethora of women. Sure most of the women may have wanted to get with a 6'+ guy but I absolutely laid pipe and had other features to back it up. I was a professional fighter and professional chef at the time, so that may have had something to do with it...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:50 AM
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I got 10x more girls when I'd go to the club in my chef's clothes (I worked next door) than when I went home and showered and got dressed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:10 AM
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No. He's an idiot that let his "stream chat" hype him up to commit attempted murder after him and Stu had already cleared up the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:06 AM
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Because that’s not going to work out relationship wise for 99% of dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:17 PM
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The Good Dinosaur was a great movie. My kids loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:50 PM
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I mean, Gloria Steinem was funded by the CIA...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:19 AM
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Nobody has force fed you the need to procreate; it's natural. What has been force fed is the need to be a good little consumer and worker bee, which gets in the way of anything actually fulfilling in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:48 AM
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Sugar substitutes exist in droves, but they do not stop the craving for real sugar and in some cases increase it, because the brain expects more caloric intake from it than what it's actually getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:36 AM
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The term incel was created by a woman who couldn’t get sex herself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:55 AM
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There are very few actual RP guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:11 AM
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Their post history is like they’re collecting intersectionality Pokémon cards to become victim Voltron
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:20 AM
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It’s her saying that though, not TRP. Or it’s specific people saying that and not TRP itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:21 PM
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You’re the one putting the inferior label on it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:09 PM
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None of those things are misogynistic. Just because you find something offensive doesn’t mean there’s contempt or hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:55 PM
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Ya she’s thrilled about those too lol /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:40 PM
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My wife absolutely LOVES my massive Warhammer collection /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:30 PM
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Ya it was the same. Trying to pretend all the time sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:29 PM
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Competence is the ability to do something successfully. Cooperation is only superior in certain situations and is only borne out of necessity from competition, whether it be from other people or nature itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:46 AM
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You can’t step over someone if they are on the same level as you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:39 AM
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Really? Any male-only organization has been systematically dismantled to allow women, but women only organizations are basically unscathed and have extreme protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:15 AM
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Aight you're purple lol. Biological hormonal differences make the sexes vastly different. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:02 AM
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Female rulers, per capita, have started more wars and caused more men to die, than male rulers. Communism( a female style of government) is responsible for more suffering and death than anything ever invented by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 06:00 AM
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you sure you're purple?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:54 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:48 AM
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You're reading too much into it. Narcissism: A core feature is grandiosity and a pervasive sense of entitlement, combined with a need for excessive admiration and a profound lack of empathy for others. Machiavellianism: Named after Niccolò Machiavelli, this trait involves a strategic and cynical approach to life, with a focus on manipulating others for personal gain and a disregard for conventional morality. Psychopathy: Characterized by a profound lack of empathy and remorse, impulsivity, selfi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:43 AM
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Are you actually competent if you lose in competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:39 AM
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Ya, when it comes to things like chores, as long as both people are participating, it's up to the person with the higher standard to ultimately take care of it. I do significantly more than my wife because I have a higher standard on certain things, and over time she has learned why I do things a certain way for efficiency and not because of some weird tick. I have also never required my wife to work, I just ask that she do SOMETHING. What that something is has gone through phases of being stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:30 AM
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Melting isn't necessary because of dilution and chemical reactions...That being said, I think she has an ovoposition kink...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:23 AM
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The most common thing I've heard is "he expects me to work, clean, cook, and be ready for sex whenever, but he only has to work" and they feel as if they have to do more to earn love than their partner does The problem with this is lifestyle expectations. The guy most likely doesn't WANT her to have a job, but might expect the other things. He also might expect that she wants a certain lifestyle, and he's most likely right, but can't provide that without dual income. So in essence, he has a pseu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:16 AM
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I mean, it's a food so I hope nowhere with strict pH and bacterial balances...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:07 AM
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eh, to a degree. There's always someone willing to do the work. The problem is instead of women asking other middle to lower class women that are successful and content in relationships what it takes to make it work, they idealize the ultra upper class women and gas light each other into making that the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:05 AM
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I mean, we got married after...4ish months? Was it retarded? Absolutely. Was it a risk I was willing to take? Yes, because I knew what I was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:54 AM
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works as long as you’re not old or sick Obviously there is the asterisk of being able to. Age isn't necessarily always an excuse though to a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:50 AM
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Based as always Eulen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:45 AM
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All the answers are going to be what they want from men. 40 Minutes in and none of the answers have been "stay fit, be sexually available, don't be annoying" 🤣. Y'all dudes never learn asking these stupid ass questions for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:38 AM
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https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/mother_hen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:23 AM
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We would have to agree on what companionship means first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:33 AM
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Right, but refer back to the original response of this thread...The base point we are arguing is that attraction has a finite end point and then just disappears...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:13 AM
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I guess if trapping 3+ cats indoors that can't hunt and have to beg you for food constitutes as love
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:07 AM
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The honeymoon period is just ignorance of the bad. That period ending doesn't equate to attraction ending. While you can do things that negate attraction over time, the honeymoon phase ending isn't the sudden death of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:05 AM
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Drank your kool-aid and a few other people's it seems. Taking an aberrant and incredibly minority subset of the population and saying they are somehow superior always works out well...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:00 AM
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If society is built on the idea that every generation needs to be bigger to support the last Birthrates are for replacement, not growing populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:54 AM
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Considering in the US you pay taxes for just owning 1 property, this already doesn't make sense. Additionally, you pay higher taxes on any property that isn't your primary residence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:46 AM
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Population started declining since 1960 On what grounds you are saying we are still living from previously birthrates? Why are ou so sure it'll happen quick and painfully? what are your sources? 1) You mean birthrates 2) They are just now starting to retire. The pain has yet to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:38 AM
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My wife started as just a random roomate in college so we began as 24/7 already lol. 16 years and I haven't grown tired of her yet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:19 AM
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Understandable, but it's generally a net-positive and risk-free venture for women and the opposite for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:08 AM
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I tried searching the court records for the district we were in but nothing came up so their case might have been elsewhere. I'll look in 1 other possible place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:02 AM
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The people warning men not to get married are people who have been dragged through the ringer(a large portion of men) or men that have witnessed other men (fathers, family members, friends) get dragged through the ringer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:56 AM
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I also will say this is in the military and you have to provide any judgements against you so it's not like he could lie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:52 AM
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I mean this was like 10 years ago? and I'd rather not bring up his bitch ex when he's happily remarried now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:50 AM
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Damn. That court judgement we saw was a carefully crafted fake....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:43 AM
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I said they are unenforceable as are many verbal contracts. Verbal CONTRACTS are still contracts but are legally dubious due to potential fraud or injury. With regards to the current state of marriage law, marriage is an unconscionable contract...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:37 AM
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It’s pretty well known that men are under diagnosed and underrepresented when it comes to mental health. Men: I'm upset because my life is filled with non-stop social double standards that are impossible to keep up with. Women(the majority of soft science psychology professionals): No, you're just crazy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:32 AM
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The mother hen, bane to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:27 AM
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That's not being a friend. That's being an emotional tampon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:25 AM
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Don't worry. We were all flabbergasted but not as much as him....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:24 AM
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If you want contract law in marriage - get a prenup. Bo that’s what generally applies (less legislation specific to prenups) I agree with this statement, but it doesn't mean marriage isn't a contract. In most cases, marriage includes a verbal contract, aka vows, it's just that it is an unenforceable contract, but one nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:24 AM
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1) Caring about men suffering I sleep 2) Caring about making men suffer real shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:52 AM
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Well, step 1 should be assuming the answers given by women to these questions are always a lie. Women are not just going to give you the keys to the kingdom because then their filters wouldn't work anymore. "Question for women" is basically the most useless post category in this sub unless you go into it with the explicit attitude of "do the opposite of everything they say."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:49 AM
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No it’s not just because of “endless growth”. The replacement rate is just simple maintenance. The problem is exacerbated in Western service based economies because less and less people are born, and of those, less and less people have practical skills needed to maintain infrastructure. You may not care now but you might when your AC goes out and the soonest someone can come is a month. Or a safety inspection is way past due and a building collapses on top of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:39 AM
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It costs nothing to be nice and friendly. A woman is way more receptive to letting you buy her and her friend a round "It costs nothing."...immediately states a cost lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:03 AM
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It's more of a filter. The men who agree get thrown into the resource category and the one's who won't put up with their crap get to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:01 AM
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That'll get ya every time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:58 PM
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My friend has to pay alimony to his cheating ex-wife that made more money than him...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:55 PM
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Marriage is definitely a contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:37 PM
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Yes. That’s the goal 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:15 PM
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Show me a standard deviation where 90% falls in the statistical mean across a large sample pool. Only being safe and secure is boring. If every day and every meal is the exact same safe choice, eventually you’re going to want something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:24 PM
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Women supported that because it was beneficial to them. Just like women’s suffrage was largely opposed by…women. Or that women today largely don’t like being wage slaves their whole lives because there’s no fulfillment in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:17 PM
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lol no they wouldn’t. If they wanted to or could do that as a whole they would have done it already
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:08 PM
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Your theory unfortunately doesn’t line up with reality. First of all, you can’t have a middle that is 90%. Second, if treating women well was the metric success was based off of, there wouldn’t be 50% divorce rates because I doubt 50% of the middle are treating their wives poorly. In reality it’s about maintaining attraction and preventing boredom by providing the emotional rollercoaster. Most men and women fuck up by thinking they can just coast once they secure the relationship. Don’t get fat.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:06 PM
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While some may come out unscathed, most sex work is debasing and mentally taxing whether it includes another physical person or not, and no, barely any of them are getting paid well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:35 PM
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She has just replaced the word "money" with "safety"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:25 PM
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Schrodinger's equality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:19 PM
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Women have to provide things money can't buy, enthusiastically. Be an asset, not a burden. You're asking to raise the price of something that can be had cheaper, or not at all. That's a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:15 PM
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After thinking about it some more, this really comes down to currency and eventually fiat, replacing bartering. The fiat currency system has led to the concept of "value" being distorted and manipulated. If in a gender swap of your argument, men decided they would only accept sex as payment for the services they provide(the entire worlds infrastructure, farming, and mutual defense systems), women would gladly start having sex like their lives depended on it, because it would. Having to have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:12 PM
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They are angels. How dare you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:54 PM
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they're unable to answer the question It's not that they are unable...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:51 PM
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It's basically the basis of a classic scam. "Send the money and then I'll go get your stuff". I don't know about anyone else, but I test drive my cars before I buy for one. Second, if they don't have trim package I wanted on the lot, I ain't paying until they have it on hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:49 PM
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i think you mean contra-dick-tion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:39 PM
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I forgot the woman that said it but, "If you ain't suckin yo man's dick, there's a ho out there that will!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:37 PM
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You have to provide a GOOD product at a FAIR price or you eventually go out of business...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:31 PM
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We're all prostitutes at the end of the day. We all trade our bodies for money, just that everyone has a different price. Also, a counterpoint to your post would be the existence of OnlyFans and how much it has brought down the "cost of a woman's body and mind". Apparently the cost of a woman destroying her own asshole with a 10in dragon dildo is about $5/mo...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:30 PM
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They do well with teenage girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:05 PM
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Space communism is for Xenos scum, heretic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:04 PM
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With the amount of tail serial killers get, I think they can tell and they like it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:02 PM
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It takes time to get to know someone. It takes EFFORT, but we can’t have that in today’s world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:01 PM
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No, I just accept reality for what it is and don’t have to change the definition of things to fit my own version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:18 PM
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The industrial revolution and its consequences strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:14 PM
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It seems more like the people throwing around these labels are the ones pretending it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:08 PM
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Because fascism requires that state to be the most important thing, over the individual…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:32 PM
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It’ll become more apparent as you age and your friends start choosing their relationships over you. You say you can get all those things from a friendship but most people progress in life and have less bandwidth to provide those things to people who aren’t their intimate partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:57 PM
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Let’s look at this from the perspective of women being the opportunistic mate selectors… You grow up with the constant blast of female empowerment and men being toxic losers your whole life. Women are hand held to the point where they get a majority of scholarships, a majority of college acceptance, a majority of degrees, and a majority of internships. Media is blasting that “women are the future”. Etc,etc. Women start looking like much better mate choices than men, at least on paper because soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:20 AM
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RP is hyper individualistic which makes it, well…not fascist at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:28 PM
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A Ponzi scheme of lies fed to people for the last 70yrs and we’re finally seeing the scheme break down. While it may not be the purpose on paper, a general improvement on mental health may be a side effect for those who get out of the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:45 PM
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6' 162lbs...not surprising
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:28 AM
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based and that movie scared the shit out of me when it came out pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:27 AM
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My brain is reading deeper into this than it needs to so I'm just gonna default to "doesn't matter, had sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:32 AM
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Dude, what? Years? Every woman I've ever had sex with couldn't wait to show me her tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:21 AM
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I understand the drawbacks, but it's also a benefit in that even a gold ring that you buy at a jeweler isn't unique, and can be easily replaced, although at a more expensive cost. It's more practical to have an heirloom passed down that isn't easily lost. In the practical sense, it's better to not spend a bunch of money on something with a 50% failure rate, and something that has a higher failure rate the more you spend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:32 AM
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Being "precious" does not make it everlasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:26 AM
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Many people have to get their wedding rings resized Therein lies the problem. There's probably a correlation between needing your ring resized and not needing it at all anymore. I've been married for 16 years and my wedding band still fits the same as the day I got it. Even then, we both still wear silicone rings because of our jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:07 AM
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WOAH! A jewelry store writing an article shitting on cheaper alternatives? No way! Good thing we have the Mohs hardness scale where Tungsten is 8.5 and gold is only 2.5
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:52 AM
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https://www.amazon.com/Tungsten-Carbide-Polished-Classic-Wedding/dp/B07NW91CYJ
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:36 AM
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you can buy a tungsten ring for ~$50 and it is more durable than any gold,platinum, or diamond ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:19 AM
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OP's title claim is still BS though. Not really. Making a purchase isn't a symbol of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:16 AM
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The marriage is null and void because obviously marriages only count on the existence of the inanimate object. What if she has a $25k wedding ring and loses it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:13 AM
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a ring she will enjoy wearing for the rest of her life? That's not a guarantee and research shows that the more expensive and wedding ring is, the shorter the marriage. Get her a nicer one after 20 years or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:10 AM
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More expensive ring can last longer nah, that's not how physics and chemistry work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:06 AM
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The price of an engagement ring has a negative correlation with length of marriage. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202402/the-bigger-the-bling-the-shorter-the-marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:05 AM
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OP, you're free to feel this way, but you should likewise have the expectation that your wife will reflect your level of commitment to her in other areas of your lives. It should be a negative correlation to how desired the guy is. A woman settling for a 3 might want to require a crazy expensive ring but a woman marrying 3 levels above her should be fine with a piece of string.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:02 AM
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My wife has a ~$900 wedding ring set and our wedding was $25 at the courthouse. 16yrs married so far and we wear Enso silicone rings every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:58 AM
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No. Diamond wedding rings was literally a marketing campaign by DeBeers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:56 AM
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It's obviously subjective, but generally yes, because they receive less consequences due to their beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:54 AM
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I live in the skinniest state
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:03 PM
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my red pilled ex husband made money in bitcoin He gave up on dating new money idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:41 AM
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Yes. Being attractive when young is a benefit. It gets your foot in the door. 18 yr old me was chad-lite. I gained most of my relationships and ONS through not only being attractive but useful. Even at 18 I could do more than 90% of men because my dad taught me how to do shit. You can't escape the women that will leave you at the sniff of a perceived upgrade but almost all of them end up in shit situations. By your description you should be good, just don't be a fuckin retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:38 AM
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literally nothing I mentioned is subjective. You can measure all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:18 AM
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....wat?...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:06 AM
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height, IQ, dick size(not really important to most unless it's astronomically low), race
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:59 AM
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The entirety of society has lied to them. Being a "good" person is entirely subjective and is superseded by a bunch of immutable traits. I say this as someone at the proverbial top.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:56 AM
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Absolutely. Being part of the system has superseded gaming the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:50 AM
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I think you're safe. This is basically my wife https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQNtGoM3FVU&list=RDSQNtGoM3FVU&start_radio=1 and I think you know that. Wouldn't give her up for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:41 AM
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I think it stops being lovely when you get ticks everywhere. Good thing I have you to take care of them for me. Remember, this is your fantasy not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:33 AM
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That sounds lovely Stop imagining me in your dirty mind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:24 AM
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lol no. Come on, you know me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:22 AM
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My balls see more outside air than at least 75% of people here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:05 AM
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"Past performance does not indicate future results."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:40 AM
1

being in the military is fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:37 AM
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I not only strangle my pillow but also clench my fists so hard I have to consciously relax them to sleep. I think I may be too stressed...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:30 AM
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Your argument only holds ground if everyone agrees that trans women are women. Dude thought he was consenting to have sex with a woman, but he didn't. In no other legal sense would this be ok and would be considered fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:28 AM
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ok. What did I miss?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:14 AM
2

maybe it's not your shoulders? I don't know you or what you look like but it's just my first thought
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:10 AM
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I thought I had to be generous to prevent all the comments in the opposite direction but I misjudged...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:09 AM
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I mean, its an appeal to the extreme on your part. Obviously there is always the chance that something extreme can happen, but it's something that all living beings have to contend with. Arguments like these make it seem antagonizing on your part when someone expresses their boundaries as if you can cross them without recourse. The first option is always to remove yourself from an unwanted interaction, but if you constantly find yourself in unwanted interactions it might be time for some self-re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:45 AM
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Social awareness is not a gender specific problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:37 AM
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You can categorize anything into a group, but the only group that matters in this case is "people someone is sexually attracted to". I can be sexually attracted to some but not all women. You can be attracted to some but not all men. We can divide them into groups on whatever trait you want to define, but at the end of the day you are attracted to people you are attracted to, despite whatever box you choose to put yourself in. People have been fucking people from "groups of people" they don't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:33 AM
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You're changing your argument too. Originally you said disgust from a "group of people" and now you're saying a "person". Horniness transcends racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:25 AM
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Primal sexual attraction almost always transcends any racism. If someone was truly racist the only barrier would be how much they could hide or downplay it. Nature doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:21 AM
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how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:18 AM
2

tbf, homophobia is prevalent in black culture. That aside, it's kind of a meme that the most racist people ironically have mates that aren't their race lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 06:08 AM
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"in most cases"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:59 AM
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lmao Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:58 AM
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That's definitely at least 50% of it. The other 50% of rejection is not taking it as a personal failure. You have no control over what other people think is the correct course of action to take in their lives. A majority of people are shit shows in one way or another. Most long term relationships, while they may start with attraction, are based on a mutual agreement that their combined problems are manageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:56 AM
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The cultural zeitgeist of "validity" is funny. Subjective preference is always valid because it is created internally. That doesn't mean it is realistically attainable and void of criticism. It also doesn't mean it comes from a place of having substantial information to make a reasonable decision. Analogous Example: Someone can believe the earth is flat all they want. Their opinion is valid because it applies to them and them alone, and will only affect them. On the other hand, I can also think …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:51 AM
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This is the correct approach. Women's incredulity about icks should be met with a pat on the head and a "that's cute". It's basically a shit test that most dudes fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:39 AM
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With regards to alimony, "cheaper to keep her" is generally a lie. Your lifestyle won't be downgraded unless you consider having a smaller house a downgrade in lifestyle. "Men will live like this and thin it's OK" is a meme for a reason. I have a fuck ton of costs that I wouldn't have if I weren't married that far outweigh the costs of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:35 AM
1

If I were forced to choose, Graceley, but these both seem kinda shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:32 AM
3

My tiktok advice is don't use tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:30 AM
1

On top of "more", "what other women want".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:26 AM
2

I don't care who gets trashed or what gender they are. The hero's journey applies to both genders just the same that a Mary Sue does. Nobody likes a story where someone is exceptional without earning it in some manner and it's used to push a message rather than being a plot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:25 AM
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It doesn't but personally reported reasons should be taken with a grain of salt. A lot of them boil down to "I'm not getting paid enough for this shit"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:25 AM
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The point being that people can lie when asked about the reason for divorce, but the numbers don't lie. Income level doesn't necessarily make someone a less abusive, cheating, rude, or w/e spouse, but it certainly leads to less divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:15 AM
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Benevolent sexism is 100% valid. The only people that complain about it are the people not getting the full benefits of it, and unfortunately, they are very loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:10 AM
2

Yep. Almost nothing genuine is left. It's all about personal brand management nowadays. My friend and I made a short film in college for a class back in '05 about Facebook ruining the world and it sadly came true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:05 AM
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https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/60/1/147/342803/Wealth-and-Divorce Here is the study with the correlation of wealth and divorce. This is more neutral because the verifiable numbers don't lie compared to a questionnaire with social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:02 AM
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https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/60/1/147/342803/Wealth-and-Divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:00 AM
2

based. If only all the people here were newly minted adults and not a sad amalgamation of age ranges...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:59 AM
2

Building a ton of muscle isn't the solution. It's the by product of the solution which is EXERCISING. Even then, physique starts with diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:58 AM
2

tell me more about this schizo post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:53 AM
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Honestly I’m not sure what was major about it previously. Obesity is an overwhelming epidemic. 73% of women are overweight or obese, and close to as many men. It was going to take a lot of effort to solve that issue and wasn't necessarily economically advantageous. Then GLP-1 became broadly available and it's both no effort and something that can be sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:52 AM
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I think that's a generational thing tbh. My parents would have wanted to make sure they got to beat my ass before the cops got their turn. (My dad was born in '47 for reference.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:44 AM
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Meanwhile younger women are still expanding their 12,000 bullet point list of "icks" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:42 AM
3

My wife of 16 years has broad shoulders. Dudes just call it the softball build
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:40 AM
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She can't muster the energy to do anything else. You think she's gonna come get YOUR ass instead of praying for the death benefits? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:35 AM
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You seen anything major about it in the last year or so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:34 AM
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That's the reason I said "in most cases". Finances are the #1 reason for divorce. Income level has a direct correlation with divorce rates up to about $300k/yr. Men are generally on a short fuse if they aren't working for too long. I even gave an example where that wasn't the case for me one time, but it's definitely not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:33 AM
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"big is beautiful" and "healthy at all weights" eerily ended abruptly as soon as GLP-1, the effortless option, came out...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:29 AM
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Any sources on this? "Trust me bro". Literally all statistics negate OP. Just a female psy-op to guilt dudes into accepting this shit enthusiastically lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:24 AM
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eh. I had a gf back in the day that kept me around for quite some time while I didn't have a job. She was loyal to a fault. All around good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:21 AM
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ah, I see. People generally don't like Mary Sue stories but I wouldn't consider trying to jam them down your throat as misandry. His brand is calling out the absurdism of things being made. Example: Hunger Games(which I'm fairly "meh" on) while having a female protagonist, still goes through The Hero's Journey. On the opposite end, most of the new Star Wars and Marvel movies are incredibly Mary Sue or just pushing absurd premises. Thinking they are absurd or poorly written isn't misandry just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:14 AM
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A fat, jobless , sexless, nagging wife is probably not a great choice for an emergency contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:04 AM
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Also, we're going to pretend that women don't end a vast majority of relationships. The hierarchy of who receives the most love from lowest to highest is Men->Women->Children. It never flows the opposite direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:02 AM
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I mean, all love is conditional except for children. Even then there are exceptions...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:58 AM
15

That's a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:54 AM
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💯. If a guy loses his job he's basically got a 6mo timer until he's single in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:53 AM
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Turns out people like equivalent exchange. A good product at a fair price. This post seems to explain why women ask "would you still love me if I were a worm?". Testing the waters to see how useless they can be before they cross the point of no return.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:47 AM
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An example of this happening? I’m not sure what you are referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:45 AM
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Instinct will always win in the long run over cognitively crafted behavior. Evolution doesn't have morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:31 AM
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Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:18 AM
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male men There's another kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:00 PM
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I feel bad that they were lied to their entire lives and people lambasting them for believing people they were supposed to trust. On the other hand, whining about it on the internet isn't going to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:51 PM
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Like I was explaining to someone yesterday, you get the most dopamine/endorphins just BEFORE you actually complete something. Once you achieve the goal it goes back to normal level. Both people need to keep it interesting but guys have to more because women like to ride the emotional rollercoaster. The worst thing that can happen in a relationship is a woman getting bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:49 PM
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Rollo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:42 PM
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That seems a bit extreme but not being together 24/7 is usually good for most relationships. Everyone needs time to be an individual. Money is usually the greatest factor in chance for divorce. Jobs where you might be gone for longer periods of time working probably correlates with making more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:42 PM
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"The fastest way to make a woman unhappy is to give her everything she wants."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:37 PM
1

There was never some "plot" among men to have dominion over women. Damn. You missed this week's meeting of the Fraternal Order of Oppressing Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:34 PM
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Weird to use Israel and Palestine for examples when Israel is a Jewish state that uses matriarchal lineage and Palestine is fundamental Islamic, a highly oppressive and patriarchal religion lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:32 PM
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Gonna be pretty difficult if women keep labeling everything as misogyny. The word has lost it's mean just like every other term that takes off in pop culture: "Nazi, depressed, gaslighting, OCD, etc"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:28 PM
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A large part of it is social status. There wouldn't be complaints about the "orgasm gap" if women weren't all trying to date 8+'s that can't fuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:21 PM
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It’s an evolutionary trait for long term success of offspring and survival. The only thing related to social norms in this topic is that murder is illegal and can be easily solved nowadays whereas in the past it would have been likely to get you killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:10 PM
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In the past, women provided the baby, and men provided for the baby and mom. From the dawn of man up until about the mid-1950s, women did a LOT of work. The post WW2 economy and technology eliminated a huge portion of traditionally female workload.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:09 PM
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yes. how else am I supposed to feel important?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:04 PM
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This is more a social status thing because you are leaving out other factors. Would you be more content with a 6 that makes you cum 5 times every time or a 9 that jackhammers you for 30s then walks away?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:51 PM
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What I tend to notice is that women generally have a different perspective of what they find attractive in women than men do, and will overrate tf out of each other. Women can see the most chopped of their gender and be like "she's so prettyyyy". Idk if it's just to be nice or what. They do this to artificially raise their own looks. It's gaslighting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:44 PM
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I went to a large concert the other day, maybe 12,000 people. I was up on the VIP balcony overlooking the crowd and thought to myself "holy crap all these women are fat as fuck". It's actually something my wife and I talk about often at public events.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:41 PM
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I find it amusing to be honest. People are really down bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:28 PM
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Men never wanted to or asked to be, at least not until the last 8 years or so lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:27 PM
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A man/woman can know what they want, obviously. What I'm saying is, WANTING something doesn't mean it's realistically going to happen, or achieve the desired result. From a biological standpoint, the hormones that create the feeling of happiness are highest JUST BEFORE you attain/achieve something. They are motivators not results. The moment you get what you want, the hormones return to a normal level and you are left with contentment and have to chase something new. So the standard should be "t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:23 PM
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A standard is the base level of satisfaction or contentment. You can't be happy 24/7. Part of the issue is the western cultural zeitgeist of what makes you "happy" and that it can be a long term achievable state. I can WANT a lambo but am also content with having my truck. It reminds of the quote "no matter how hot a woman is, there's someone who's sick of her shit". Everything comes with a new set of problems, making it impossible to be happy ALL the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:17 PM
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The problem is that many people don't know what "average" actually is because they think media is real life. This causes them to believe that their desires/standards are realistic when they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:10 PM
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I agree with you that women shouldn't lower their standards to the point of having LOW standards but I also agree with people saying that many women have UNREALISTIC standards. Aiming for the top of the first standard deviation puts you in the "wow! this is great" category if you get it but doesn't leave you disappointed if you end up with someone slightly below that. Shooting for the stars will leave you disappointed like 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:07 PM
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big “women became the men they wanted to marry” energy here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:41 PM
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mine was $25 at the courthouse. 16 years and counting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:38 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:10 AM
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It’s anyone’s job to protect things they like, especially the more irreplaceable they are, of which I’d put loved ones at the top of the list. Or you can throw a tantrum like a little child just because a girl hurt your fee-fees. You do you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:09 AM
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It benefits the children. All other barriers have essentially been removed for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:30 PM
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They are using their “prime” years on someone not interested in being a long term relationship. That would be “wasting”. It’s not a secret that most women’s ability to attract their most desirable man declines as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:27 PM
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The numbers don’t really support that. It’s more so removing themselves from having to compete before the proverbial clock runs out. There are essentially no women that aren’t going to ask “what are we?” after like 2-3 mos because marriage is the desired end state regardless of children, and they don’t want to waste what little time they have getting to that state.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:19 PM
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It would be shallow if all they cared about was looks but they also want a myriad of other traits, just like men. The difference is that barrier for entry into consideration is substantially higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:12 PM
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Bullshit. Since the pill was invented marriages have plummeted and out of wedlock babies have skyrocketed. https://www.brookings.edu/articles/an-analysis-of-out-of-wedlock-births-in-the-united-states/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:01 PM
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This is very dancing monkey. It is the woman’s job to keep the relationship together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:51 PM
4

It’s not less shallow so much as a lower threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:28 PM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:25 PM
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This is very much feelings vs fact, or religion vs science. Women aren’t heard like the pre-Reformation Catholic Church. If you go against the dogma the inquisition will come after you. Much like how the Church said that Earth was the center of the universe but Galileo disproved them. It was an observable fact but the inquisition imprisoned him for life. Whether consciously or subconsciously, the reason women argue against these observable facts is because it makes their selection harder. They n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:23 PM
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None of this really matters because autism should be statistically constant throughout populations over time but this dating issue is a recent phenomenon. That is to say, in previous generations the autists were fuckin far more than they are now, so you have to attribute the problem to other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:04 PM
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Pretty sure procreation came about at least a few hundred million years before corporations
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:13 AM
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Sent from iPhone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:32 AM
4

“Don’t believe your lying eyes.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:29 AM
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I think Chad exists way more in women's minds than men's and is worth comparing themselves to. Compared to Chad they are basically invisible, so they need to figure out what Chad has that they don't and work on attaining it as much as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:15 AM
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“I would like $1M, but if you’re gonna give me $10 for free, I’m not gonna say no…”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:21 PM
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What you are seeing is a fad or bubble. You’re comfortable because that might be working for you inside the bubble, but the moment the bubble bursts, and it always does, we go straight back to ol reliable. Violence and practical skills. Look at the divorce rates during every crash the last 30 years. Healthcare and masculine public servicemen/tradesmen never go out of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:06 PM
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He said they struggle to even get with women casually. So if they are getting married at the highest rate and then cheating, that disproves it even more…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:46 PM
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They took PUMs census data, analyzed 479 career fields and looked at prime marriage age (30-45) and determined the percentage that were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:09 PM
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Firefighters and military are in the top 5 for marriage rates, and I’m sure cops aren’t TOO far behind. So “seems” doesn’t line up with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:51 PM
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People marrying fat unattractive women is a general trope. He’ll probably be divorced soon,statistically, and it won’t even be him initiating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:10 PM
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I think it can seem like they are more “mature” due to female risk aversion. You can take a male and female of the same age and they will be more than likely as mature as each other, but the male is significantly more likely to take risks making him seem immature in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 07:27 PM
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I don't think children are "relaxing" at all. I just don't have anxiety about everything needing to be perfect. Life is about making mistakes and learning from them. Wild of you to make assumptions about me or my children though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:21 AM
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As a parent of 3, this is really all on you, as my wife had to figure out. You have to learn to be ok with mistakes being made. As long as you teach them beforehand, you gotta be ok with letting them be individuals and make mistakes. There’s nothing preventing you from being more relaxed except your own anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:37 PM
-1

Esther Vilar wrote a whole book about it in 1971…The Manipulated Man…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:54 PM
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My dude spitting facts. (I have 3 kids. Oldest is a teenager)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:12 PM
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https://youtu.be/0TM2o0lYBuE?si=zMDC_vvooDbILErt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:52 PM
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Is this like the text equivalent of not being able to fit through doors?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:24 AM
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an argument could be made that a woman with low standards could potentially cheat more because a bunch of men are in the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:19 AM
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It's difficult to narrow it down to low/high standards. Ideally you'd want someone you don't have to "fake it" for and are capable of mutually maintaining/exceeding standards. Contentment is what you want because happiness is unsustainable for any measurable period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:18 AM
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Victim mentality is a common thread because many men are too feminized nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:55 PM
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I’m not sure of the line of questioning but yes I have a lot of other things to do. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:29 PM
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You will absolutely know when a woman has an orgasm, even the "silent ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:24 PM
1

What is the multiple of oxytocin related to orgasm vs sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:21 PM
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If you are having sex with a woman and can't tell that she's enjoying it, I don't know what to tell you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:18 PM
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what is the multiple related to orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:09 PM
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This is an entirely egocentric explanation. I love you Jan, but you're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:08 PM
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Men are never mind readers, but most of the same things work the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:07 PM
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I only meant that generally, erogenous zones are the same amongst all women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:06 PM
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Opportunity is not mutually exclusive to chance. Most men don't know how to talk to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:04 PM
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They do "communicate"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:02 PM
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That's exactly what I was trying to say without shitting on men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:57 PM
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A majority of porn is pretty vanilla
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:55 PM
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this is a self-defeating trope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:44 PM
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if you can't get her to orgasm the oxytocin never exists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:43 PM
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You seem to have a problem with respect and being a little bitch, as well as having boxing as a hobby, so you can come down to any gym in CO Springs and put up. You'll still be unsuccessful in relationships but you'll at least have a chance to prove yourself against a near 40 yr old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:38 PM
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when someone else existing is a perceived flex, maybe you should re-examine your life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:32 PM
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Watching the right kinds of porn That is so specific it's not even worth mentioning
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:31 PM
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what were the differences between those who didn't and the one who did?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:30 PM
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So dumb, I had to reply a second time. You fucking retards couldn't lead a woman out of a paper bag. Keep crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:29 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:27 PM
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or maybe 1) they get off on the taboo and 2) they can angle themselves to get G-spot/A-spot orgasms. This isn't the flex you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:26 PM
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Which isn't necessarily sexually related.. No. That's exactly how oxytocin works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:23 PM
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I'm at a position of no fucks to give where I can mentor, potentially evading the fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:22 PM
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Do you think it's effective to be the the "draw an owl" meme or do something better?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:20 PM
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I won't argue that you fell victim to the societal lie that an "experienced" man didn't just pump and dump his way through a bunch of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:18 PM
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If you were to take this to the logical conclusion, one person started with a mile head start. It's asinine to think they are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:12 PM
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I acknowledged this in another reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:10 PM
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dumbass take
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:06 PM
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While I did fuck all my female friends and their friends in college, my current older female friends are fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:59 AM
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What's hotter? A guy who doesn't need to be told, or one who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:55 AM
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This is so fucking stupid. I collected women friends like stamps. Do you know why? They have value. Women friends are awesome. They do shit for you. As long as you don't treat them like shit they will open you up to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:53 AM
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They want the average between virgin and porn brain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:49 AM
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realize im speaking as a 37yr old and congruent with my times, not the fat fuck zeitgeist of today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:47 AM
2

You can't alpha widow a chick without making her cum the hardest she ever has.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:46 AM
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I'm not going to skirt around the bush and say I wasn't chad 20 years ago. But I will say that amongst the chads, you can re-define it. Fuckboi Chad who gets his nut and runs off is nothing compared to whatever who makes a women cum buckets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:42 AM
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Well your boy was playing a shit game. Never think the gravy train is going to last forever. I'd rather old flings be hitting me up right now for dick even though I've been married forever, rather than being some hoe's worst war story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:39 AM
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God I hate explaining this to people on this sub, especially to someone with a "red pill" flair. She is the ying to my yang so to speak. She's my sexual muse as well as the mother of my children. She shares maybe 35% interests with me but we each support each other's hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:35 AM
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Things either party doesn't like once seeing each other naked. It's not necessarily a problem, just the final preference check.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:28 AM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:26 AM
1

This is entirely dependent on having a high looks rating as a man. It doesn't apply to a vast majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:26 AM
0

This scenario is very far down the road
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:24 AM
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If by hotness you mean physical attractiveness alone, no. It'll never work forever if you aren't dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:23 AM
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I don't think most guys care beyond that though Of course we care. The amount of effort expended certainly pertains to the return.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:21 AM
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That's a completely based take. It's a moment of full unadulterated judgement. There can be discrepancies between the parties though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:19 AM
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It's not that difficult to give a woman an orgasm. Almost all men could easily figure out how, but they are obsessed with just putting their penises into a woman's vagina, and many women either have trouble orgasming this way or can't even do it at all. Agreed. Most men who are bad in bed don't actually want to make women orgasm. They want to make themselves orgasm and, if she does too, then that's a bonus. Disagree. They are uneducated or have hubris.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:17 AM
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You wouldn’t knew none of that if you never had sex before, yes? I’m pretty sure your partner either told you or signaled that she likes it, yes? Few times they did, most times they didn't. I went through enough women to figure out the generalities and how to spot the specificities. Again it’s not that deep, had the gender war gone so far that we can’t even talk to people we’re planning to fuck what we like? Enough information is out there to not even have to ask this question. It's not even rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:15 AM
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no arguments here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:12 AM
2

Men have to make women more comfortable about their bodies during sex and women have to accept that comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:11 AM
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This is some shit logic, especially when viewed from a man's perspective. Satisfaction of the woman is directly tied to returning. Do you think having to work for new prospects all the time is better than having a bunch of return customers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:09 AM
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This is some stupid shit. First and foremost, an overwhelming majority of women enjoy clitoral stimulation. After that, it's a clown surprise. You're more likely to be successful after the clit by getting inside her head. If you're in her head the sexuality opens up like an oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:07 AM
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That's even crazier. If you have people hitting on you as a man that's so far out of the norm...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:03 AM
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This one isn't for you babe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:01 AM
1

You're not wrong, yet here we are...smh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:00 AM
1

Focusing on a woman's pleasure center is a PowerPoint dissertation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:59 AM
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absolutely not, but if she wasn't sexually satisfied I'd be fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:56 AM
2

Seems like you agree but are trying to apply 500 level courses to people that are in 100 level status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:55 AM
1

Seems like you are trying to be formulaic...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:53 AM
4

If you think there aren't clues, you aren't very attentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:53 AM
1

Well, they want something to fall into their lap for minimal effort. They don't realize that the women will complete this goal while the men will be sad and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:51 AM
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It's not about knowing, at least for young folks. It's about being attentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:44 AM
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Did you ignore my flair? Of course I know. It was like 70% of my game when I was young lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:43 AM
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I won't engage with this sort of doomerism because this post doesn't really apply. If you are struggling with even creating romantic attraction, a post about sex is useless for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:41 AM
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You can never truly know these things without experience, but you can be aware and be attentive to her reactions while you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:39 AM
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This is akin to trying to change someone. Sure, you can do that, but the person who did it "naturally" is going to blow away the person that had to be read the instruction manual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:37 AM
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Seems like you are talking about delayed ejaculation, and while semi relevant to the conversation, it's at best tertiary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:35 AM
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Solve step 1 then. Maybe this isn't the discussion for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:33 AM
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Sex is what separates friendships from romantic love. You know you can snuggle with female friends as much as you want if you never make it sexual right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:32 AM
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I see you but this ain’t it. ...are you hitting on me right now? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:29 AM
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No, it's not retarded. They wouldn't be able to succeed if they all came with a manual taped to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:28 AM
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For this reason I think younger less experienced men would be much better off with older women. Both parties need to be willing to experiment more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:27 AM
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She may tell you, but you're more likely to be replaced by the guy that didn't have to be told.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:25 AM
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From a male perspective, what gets you off is a lot more simple. That being said, you can have fundamentals for women that will get you let's say 80% of the way there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:24 AM
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That’s what I’ve spent this thread trying to explain to you what is meant by it fam! 😌 Lol, you've spent this thread trying to tell me what I already know? I see you but this aint it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:19 AM
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This seems like an inability to separate sex from commitment. While sex is great, it's also a tool women will use to extract from you. This is why spinning plates is key to optimizing YOUR OWN best outcome. Tons of women are great, but you are in no way required to tie yourself to one until they have passed whatever threshold you define.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:16 AM
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Nah. They don't really like giving up the keys to the kingdom just because you asked them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:12 AM
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Lil B will pay for his crimes for popularizing based outside of the community ✊🏾 I'm 37. I was there when the spells were created. Back to his point! Yeah that’s my point. Many women interact with men with the same easy breeziness she interacts with women. She treats male friends and female friends the same until life teaches her that she shouldn’t. So when she says “treat her like a human,” she means treat her with the same ease you would treat a friend. She’s not an alien or a goddess. Perhaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:10 AM
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It was based until the last 2 sentences. Intra vs inter sexual interactions are quite different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:00 AM
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you act as if it was 5hrs of surgery for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:57 AM
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Your formatting is confusing. Are you a man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:54 AM
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how dare she go against the hive mind!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:48 AM
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bad troll is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:47 AM
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...are you fucking kidding me...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:44 AM
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Every time I've been with a woman my concentration has been on maximizing the amount of enjoyment she's getting out of the experience. I focus entirely on her and never on myself. Is this prior to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:39 AM
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Fantastic. The overwhelming majority of Western society is incredibly puritanical. Despite what a lot of women SAY, their fantasies are purely primal. That being said, most men don't know how to work a woman up to being ready for the primal physicality, and that's where the disconnect happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:35 AM
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You forgot the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:26 AM
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The projection of solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:17 AM
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I tried to make it a discussion post but the mods made me make it a debate post. So I decided to come at it from the angle of sexual satisfaction which women overwhelmingly complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:13 AM
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ah, so the 4th option of going back to work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:11 AM
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I made it as a discussion post but the mods made me make it a debate post...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:09 AM
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meh. My oldest just uses "father" when she's trying to be pompous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:02 AM
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getting married, going to prison, or joining the military?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:57 AM
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that shit will end the first time they drop the "da-da"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:56 AM
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To an extent, everyone is miserable. Catering to a certain sect of miserable people doesn't help anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:49 AM
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or calling me mean is the excuse you're using to validate your lack of success Edit: my wife likes to call anything she doesn't like mean too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:46 AM
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because the rest of the world is virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:43 AM
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It's certainly a product of the last 30 years of the 24/7 news cycle, where you are told what is happening and how to feel about it, exacerbated by social media. Resistance to the natural order has been the soup of the day for 2 decades now, while the solution is right in front of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:42 AM
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I'm not surprised, just dropping harsh criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:40 AM
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If you are arguing against the OP...be more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:33 AM
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Oh, and of course, collect bad takes so I can then use as examples during the sessions with my mentees. In that department this sub has no shortage, lol. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:51 AM
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Josh: 6ft, masculine face, above average social skills, above average income, outdoorsy Paul: 12% body fat but "fairly fit" lmao, musician, sportsman Adam: 5'11", chad body, fucks like a champ, extroverted, outdoorsy, extroverted Jake: Absolute shit show except for income lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:41 AM
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Ok I see it now. The difference is that most of these guys are above average in almost every regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:31 AM
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I'm not even worried about the victim olympics tbh. You either win or lose. At best 10% of the people here stop being morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:27 AM
0

you mean the SuperMarriage thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:20 AM
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I didn't see the male version. Got a link so I can respond correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:15 AM
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In that case, it's an unconscionable contract and would be thrown out in court. The standard marriage vow already designates forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:42 AM
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Your first SuperMarriage post was only detrimental to men. This post only mentions Fiances, aka men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:37 AM
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If that were true you'd think males would be championing my ideas. That has NOT been the case Both of your options are about men waiving their right to divorce. Men generally don't inherently want to get married. You have to incentivize men to be ok with marriage which you haven't done.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:24 AM
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Regular marriage vows are pretty explicit and your posts seem to be looking for protection from consequence of all too common shitty behavior from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:19 AM
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Rian Stone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:01 AM
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Well before I say that those women are wrong let me take a look at who the most viewed leaders are in the manosphere. Unfortunately, Andrew Tate isn’t just the most popular he is the most googled name on the internet worldwide. And he is the worst example in that space out of them all. He also discourages female friendships. Another popular influencer mentioned on this forum is the whatever podcast, and a quick google search reveals Brian is also against female friendships. Therein lies the prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:59 AM
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4/5 of those are solvable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:55 AM
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There's a few of us that do, but then we get flamed by angry women claiming No True Scotsman fallacy. The problem here is that flairs don't need to be earned. Any random schmuck can just slap a label on themselves because they watched 3 Fresh and Fit videos or some bullshit. It's one of the main problems here. It is usually the blue pillers that encourage female friendships for social proofing, and in general just valuing women for more than sex. The angry so called "red pillers" here are just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:36 AM
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A lot of the "red pill" guys here are not red pill at all. Having female friends for social proof and access to women outside your circle is core to red pill. "Don't simp for your female friends" is more the RP stance than not having female friends at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:25 AM
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It's still really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:55 AM
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I'm not looking for reasons to attack YOU. I'm looking for if your words line up with your actions, with regards to attacking your argument. I can tell you this though, as someone who has gone through a slew of women, relationships, and an ongoing 15yr marriage...your outlook in the OP is going to get you in a lot of trouble/heartbreak. Some people don't listen to wisdom though and have to learn the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:54 AM
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So why did your relationship fail? I assume its the first one that has even got to the point of moving in together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:32 AM
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And you're here giving advice. Fucking amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:13 AM
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5 months ago you were on r/relationship_advice asking about what to do when moving in with your gf and now you're here giving advice? You're 24. You don't know shit lmao. Let us know how it goes when it blows up in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:11 AM
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Didn't even make any of the super lame ones hot to make up for the shortcomings. Just bottom of the barrel shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:19 AM
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What an absolute dog shit selection. Edit: Adding that this entirely boils down to "pick your poison of which set of red flags you would deal with"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:12 AM
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I don't make any assumptions about any of you all, but there are some commonalities when you take a look at the post history of some of the fringe posters...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:43 AM
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Red pill makes sure to tell women Red pill doesn't tell women anything...because it's not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:56 AM
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Your post history is a warzone and a debate sub is not the place to get affirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:53 AM
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Men and women aren’t the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:19 AM
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Blue pill is the overwhelming majority, like 95%. Most people don't care until reality fucks them in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:59 AM
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By your logic slavery should be ok as long as you give them food, clothing, and shelter. What you are describing is slavery to emotion regardless of your own best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:38 AM
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Love and relationships are mutually exclusive. Love is a biochemical feeling whereas a relationship is a conscious contract between two entities. You can have either singularly, or both at the same time. While love can be unrequited, all relationships are transactional. No one wants to get the shit end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:33 AM
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Cool. Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:30 AM
1

Besides the gym, the biggest self improvement most guys need is learning not to step on your own dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:16 AM
2

Anyone mentioning “where are all the good men” is usually the common denominator in all their stories…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:13 PM
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There’s nothing immoral about fucking multiple women you haven’t agreed to be exclusive with. Nice flex though bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:07 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:45 PM
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Most people can't one shot a marriage. It's better to have a failed relationship(or multiple) that didn't end in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:16 PM
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So theoretically Larry has managed to be in 5 relationships and you’ve had zero but he’s the failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:04 PM
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It's certainly a dance, but you'll never know until you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:59 PM
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It's been proven cross culturally that men and women have general preferences, but go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:57 PM
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Larry was busy fucking while you just had your dick in your hand. Or maybe not u/nofaplove-it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:55 PM
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I see men in here Most "men" in here couldn't find their way out of a paper bag either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:23 PM
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Men form groups just fine. We just gatekeep way harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:21 PM
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I have plenty of a handle on women's standards. Thank you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:17 PM
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Tbh it's just a numbers game, but in my experience, yes, being willing and able to approach hot women netted me far more success because there was less competition. You've gotta be willing to take every chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:10 PM
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I've been in the military for 15 years...so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:03 PM
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A lot of red pillers seem to say that you must ignore women to not lower oneself, to treat them with indifference. But I don't see how to not talk to girls make them interested in you :) You're conflating two different things. Being indifferent means shooting your shot regardless of what women SAY. You'll find that their standards crumble far more often than they would have you believe. This happens even more so with hot women because most guys are afraid to approach them so you get a leg up jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:01 PM
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Maybe stop expecting women to not behave like women and start being someone women would want?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:25 PM
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OP’s username checks out. Instead of playing the game he wants to change the rules. Too fucking bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:19 PM
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Because men’s sense of duty is engrained in us far more than modern women’s. I don’t expect my wife to fight in war let alone fight in anything, because she’s not built for it. Face it, you all aren’t even close to oppressed anymore. If anything you are heavily advantaged, but when you go against the norm you are going to get some pushback.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:58 PM
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Neither Archwinger or Rollo has EVER said that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:40 PM
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Absolutely based. Tbh, most women would have absolutely zero problems with OG TRP stuff but the young kids/incels have co-opted it and made it a zero work doomer woman hating trope. The people who don’t put in the work are honestly making the Pareto principle a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:38 PM
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Preferences are entirely biologically driven through evolution, so it’s not fair to blame anything on either sex. Try as you may to be a non-conformist to your gender role and you are setting yourself up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:30 PM
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I have what most would consider to be a traditional marriage. The problem is that if you want that, you have to have the knowledge and skill to BE a “traditional” man, as well as be able to do the things that women traditionally did. If you want a woman that will cook and clean for you, you as a man need to cook and clean for yourself. She has to want to do it out of her own desire to please you, not because you are a man-child that NEEDS it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:35 PM
2

Dude seriously needs to read No More Mr Nice Guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:27 PM
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Nice set of covert contracts you’ve got going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:26 PM
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37 here and married for 15 years. The worst it's ever got to was 4x per week. These other guys are seriously fucking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:28 AM
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joined the marines broke up with a woman because she asked if he was interested in a threesome with her much hotter friend I'm seeing some correlation here...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:59 AM
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That is exactly what lack of abundance mindset will get you though. Just a string of oneitis cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:52 AM
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"She doesn't own your libido, she just gets first crack at it." Men without abundance mentality will trap themselves in a prison at the first crumb of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:16 AM
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Boy that first one...RIP to my dude sharing his bedroom with all the kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:30 AM
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He’s not going to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:02 AM
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Have strong enough boundaries that you don't let yourself simp a girl into a fantasy...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:21 AM
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That's why they are all in debt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:17 PM
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Brooding is a little different than doomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:47 PM
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I would say willful ignorance or naivete. "He does that but he wouldn't do it to ME." There's also the emotional rollercoaster it puts them on, which is like a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:46 PM
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that's not a tremendous amount of effort You're right, it's not. Yet here we are...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:00 PM
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All the doomcels here need to realize that their attitude isn't trapped in their head. They ooze it and women can tell, and find it unattractive. Negative feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:58 PM
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Well, they probably put a multi-faceted effort into it...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:53 PM
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How is that bad faith? One yields results and one doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:52 PM
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How many women have you approached with sexual intent? Or do you just sit around waiting for it to materialize out of thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:48 PM
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He's just swaddling it with this hand...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:34 PM
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Most men don't have much to offer before 25 except for some dick and maybe a prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:30 PM
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Men should have internal validation. Looking for external validation leads to unattractive behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:27 PM
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Most marriages fail for a few simple reasons. Many women marry to have their #BigDAY and many men marry to lock down a pussy. The problem is, one or both parties begins to coast thinking they reached the ultimate goal. Both parties need to 1) be responsible as it is a group unit now 2) maintain attraction whether it be physical or behavioral. When one or both of those things fall to the wayside, the marriage fails. You're misrepresenting your argument because your starting point of the purpose o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:25 PM
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8=model, 9=supermodel, 10=doesn’t exist because no one is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:19 AM
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An 8 is basically magazine cover model hot you realize?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:54 AM
2

Ah. The Promisekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:21 PM
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Then that is a personal choice and you will get the outcome that comes along with it. The worst thing a woman can be is bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:36 PM
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Ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:34 PM
10

A vast majority of people are able to do those things without getting addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:31 PM
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You left out smoking and drinking, but I digress. When I was younger they were called straight edge and they sucked. As I stated before, those things have existed as social lubricants for a long time, because they brought people together. If you don't do things that bring people together, you're going to meet far less people. Another issue is that people use these nebulous qualities as an identity instead of actually having anything interesting about them. "oh, I'm a vegan". "oh, I'm an activist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:23 PM
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Because they are all boring. Saying you don't do any of the things that have been social lubricants for millennia while simultaneously complaining that you can't find anybody is irritating to watch. There is exactly zero self-awareness in this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:09 PM
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they need to WANT to change Exactly. Most of the guys here are just whining instead of using what they know to offer women a BETTER alternative, not berate them for being better at the current game than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:00 PM
2

nor easy That's the problem. It's not easy, and the instant gratification generation won't do anything unless it's easy so now they are whiny blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:09 PM
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Red pill didn't change. It's just a collection of information. The people co-opting it changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:01 PM
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This guy is actually making me feel sympathy for young women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:38 PM
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Especially penetration which is the most important aspect of sex hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...deep breath...HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. The women here are about to destroy you for this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:31 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EqG2t-LIb9M
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:28 PM
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No you’re spot on. Height doesn’t matter as long as you’re the same or taller than the girl in my experience. He’s just failing to recognize his other pitfalls and using scapegoats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:04 PM
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No. It's a reflection of the instant gratification generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:52 PM
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There's still a few of us around but it's rough not being able to lay into people here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:51 PM
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You pay taxes to be a part of society—roads, infrastructure, the military, schools, all kinds of shit yet you wanna cherry pick welfare It's not cherry picking welfare when it's 50% of the budget. lmao which men also get It's irrelevant when 90% of the recipients are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:42 PM
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Labor is not voluntary, because you can’t survive without working. You labor is taxed, and if you don’t pay, you go to prison. 50% of the US federal budget is welfare, 90% of which goes to women. If you can’t connect the dots, you’re not very much of a critical thinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:46 PM
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Well, I was already fairly red-pilled going into marriage. Was having sex 4-5x per week. What changed for me was learning how to navigate disagreements and maintain frame. I initially joined this space to have an insight into the world that my children were joining, but ended up improving my marriage. So I guess the positives were that I get sex whenever I want and have a framework to help my children be successful. I can't remember the last time my wife and I had an argument tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:16 AM
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They generally have less skills able to pay for themselves. Do you think you're being cute with the 20 questions or can you think for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 11:02 AM
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The grifters have brand recognition nowadays. RP was never about branding. Men can save themselves or not. It's not anyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:58 AM
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Maybe? It's probably more so wanting to attach themselves to an identity instead of actually doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:39 AM
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makes it about himself, so instantly wants to shut down or dismiss anything that he doesn’t like Exactly. I have no requirement to acquiesce to the needs of people outside my personal circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:36 AM
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I'm also almost twice the age of most of the people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:34 AM
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Women are overwhelmingly impoverished vs men after divorce as well as men finding another wife vs women finding another husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:30 AM
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Women generally tend to come out worse in divorce. "Cheaper to keep her" is a myth perpetuated by the female threat point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:43 AM
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Trp has always been about controlling woman, and adapting to whatever new manipulation tactic needed to try and keep doing it. If having boundaries is control, then sure. Only women can have boundaries and men are supposed to be doormats I guess? Guess what dipshit? When men have boundaries, many women may lose because they decide to be twats but that is their choice, and they can deal with what comes from that. Not my problem. I choose not to live a life of quiet desperation, clinging to some w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:41 AM
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95% of the people with the "Red Pill" label on here are black pill doomer pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:30 AM
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have fun 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:14 AM
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You think women don't have sexual needs? If you're ok being a wallet and thinking she isn't going to go fulfill her needs, that's your prerogative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:13 AM
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You don't have the desire to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:03 AM
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I obviously love and care about her, but I'm not naïve enough to think she wouldn't move on should she feel so inclined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:55 AM
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We've been married for 15 years. We got married when I was making 32k/yr. Not sure what I was offering then, because it certainly wasn't an extravagant lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:54 AM
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you lost your dick, you'd put your wife on the same level as "just one of your friends"? Lmao, SHE would do that. What kind of stupid ass hypothetical is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:48 AM
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Fat married men signal that they have something to offer as well as having something to lose because they have someone dependent on them, and are more likely to toe the line. The fat single guy is a train wreck that is easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:46 AM
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An insecurity would be allowing her to do whatever she wants regardless of your boundaries because you fear her leaving you. Telling her that you don't like her doing something is stating the boundary, and kicking her out the door is enforcing the boundary should she cross it. She has the freedom to choose whether or not she's going to respect it, granted she willing to accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:43 AM
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not gay if it's your homeboy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:33 AM
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Are you committed to all your friends? Yes Do you share finances? We have each other's backs as long as it's paid back. Life decisions? We certainly talk about them. Show non-sexual intimacy? Ya, I hug my friends. Hold hands? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:32 AM
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ok 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:26 AM
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When you really like someone, you like them even when you're not having sex. That's just a friend though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:19 AM
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The same thing he gets when hanging out with a guy who's a good, mutual friend and roommate. Companionship, someone to joke around with, talk about shared interests, go places together, have fun doing hobbies with one another, split the bills to make affording things easier for both. My friends may do all that but I don't want them to blow me on top of it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:16 AM
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Really? men want children? Yes. That's why we have a biological imperative to fuck as many women as possible. It's subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:14 AM
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A boundary would be something you have once any kind of relationship is created whether it be friendly, romantic, or work related. The preference is a sorting filter for who gets to enter into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:12 AM
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Pro-social behavior begets pro-social behavior. There's plenty of married fat dudes, so it has nothing to do with physical health in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:09 AM
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Just to get laid? How does that justify the ridiculous effort into finding and maintaining a relationship? Why not just stay single? My life takes less effort having my wife around. Do you think there are less tasks to do just because a woman isn't around? We have beautiful smart children. I get pussy every day. It's effortless because she wants to be around ME. Your life is something a woman wants to join, not the purpose of your life. If your life is shitty, it's not going to be made better by…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:02 AM
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Well, they are being petty which might point to why they are getting divorced in the first place...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:53 AM
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I mean, finances are cited as the number one reason for divorce. While I don't think that's the case, I completely understand how it can be heavily influential.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:40 AM
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incels who demand virgins That's more of a preference than a boundary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:23 AM
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Tons of shit comes up here daily that is objectively untrue. It's irritating as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:22 AM
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It was in any given year if you look at my comment below.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:11 AM
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Ironically, people with negative net worth divorce significantly less(but not the lowest), with the peak divorce rate happening at a net worth of zero, and then slowly falling off as net worth increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:08 AM
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Be aware that the statistic is within any single year I believe. It's not lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:01 AM
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I think the peak is like 300K. After that it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:57 AM
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Also an educated woman is more likely to stay with you… This is probably correlated to the fact that once you have a household income of 200K you have like a 3% chance of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:54 AM
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James Sexton
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:53 AM
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Where exactly do you get your info about the red pill from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:59 AM
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not necessarily saying its rp itself, but there are individuals that call themselves rp and shame women And there are sneaky fuckers who call themselves feminist just to do vile shit to women. As I have to state in a bunch of threads, I think people should actually read the original RP stuff before they come here and debate, because anything else is just strawmanning. It's especially a problem over the last 5 years with the rise of all the grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:42 AM
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unfathomably based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:36 AM
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sucks they took down the other post with my Lord Farquad quote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:35 AM
2

MRP is just red pill on hard mode
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:17 AM
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But walking by a man in the middle of Walmart is a lot different than walking by one in a parking garage. Nuance. That's basically what AWALT means. Not all women WILL but all women CAN. I'm not worried about every woman fucking me over, but I'm aware that a woman I'm in a relationship with, can. Women aren't all sunshine and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:14 AM
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Hypergamy is women's biological strategy to mate with the best man she can.(not necessarily the best man there is) As long as you remain the best man in her eyes, you're good. If you slip up for too long, that's usually a wrap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:57 AM
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not sure if it works for long term relationships It definitely does
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:53 AM
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Thank you, thank you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:37 AM
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Some of you may die, but it’s a risk I’m willing to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:54 AM
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Not going down on women is not RP lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:54 AM
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Red pill doesn’t say that. It acknowledges there are woman who are willing to gamble on you being successful, which is what most do. You just can’t coast once you get the girl, which is where a bunch of guys fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:45 AM
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Red pill has been around since like 2002 but I don’t think it was called red pill until 2012ish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:42 AM
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The entire thing is about eliminating covert contracts, because they are like ingesting poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:01 AM
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Once again, it’s not for women. So how you feel it should be is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:56 PM
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Because your making up a caricature of what red pill is and then arguing against it. The literal definition of a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:37 PM
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Red pill is about maximizing sexual access for men. In you hypothetical scenario, that couple may remain together, but the sex frequency may drop off a cliff. That's usually when the guy gets on google and searches "why won't my wife fuck me?" and boom, ends up in the red pill. If he actually puts in the work, they'll usually get to have frequent sex again if their wife hasn't monkey-branched already. There's a lot more to red pill than just getting jacked and making money or fucking hordes of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:36 PM
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Harsh language is used to filter out time wasters and women. If you can't put up with it, then you don't need be there, or aren't ready to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:31 PM
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go on r/feminism or r/askfeminists and search "internalized misogyny" and then come tell us about how it "never happens".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:23 PM
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This. Weak people try to pathologize everything to try and crush your boundaries and gain control. They really don't like it when their manipulation doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:21 PM
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You're just making a strawman because you don't know much about red pill except maybe what you've seen on TikTok or some clown here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:18 PM
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TRP isn't about insecurities. It's about living in reality and improving all aspects of your life, enforcing boundaries, and not succumbing to death by 1000 concessions. People try to use "insecurity" to break through boundaries; it is a manipulation tactic. If someone is worried about others, that's their own problem, not TRP, because it is not outcome independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:05 PM
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You might be surprised how much actual respect having boundaries gets you vs being a pushover simp. You’re the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:40 PM
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I wasn’t aware “wondering if other men fucked her better” was a redpill talking point. Are you making shit up or taking points from a grifter wearing RP as a skin suit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:34 PM
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Most redpill concerns come from experience of oneself or others. Having dated a bunch of women and being married for 15+ years I’ve seen almost every situation play out. Apparently not being a pushover and carving out a fulfilling life for yourself is insecurity though. Could it be that people who viscerally hate the redpill are insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:36 PM
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We should all just be amorphous blobs that reproduce by cellular mitosis and live out our days consuming ground slime so that no one has to do any work…or you can live in and accept reality and get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:14 PM
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😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:08 PM
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It was MySpace/Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:45 AM
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You have an RP flair and have never heard "Women would rather share an alpha than be saddled by a faithful beta." - Book of Pook
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:25 AM
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He’s one of the most RP people here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:22 AM
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FDS women are absolute bottom of the barrel. Don't placate to this internet bullshit. It's ok if toxic women don't want you. It's a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:51 AM
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You're basically a 1% dude. Fucking act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:12 AM
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pretty fucking high
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:01 AM
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Being fit for both genders puts you in the top 25%. From that point you just have to not be a fucking regard. Understand what you are dealing with and move from there. It's not rocket science but placating will end up in you getting shitcanned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:42 AM
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It's the most apt comparison that dudes will understand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:33 AM
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All relationships are transactional. Never show your power level up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:06 AM
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95% of the "RP" men here have done exactly ZERO work. It will always be that way and you can't proselytize men to become better. They have to suffer. No one has read anything, they've only consumed Youtube. None of them have been to the gym. This sub is a circlejerk that I can only withstand for 2 weeks at a time every 6mos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:06 AM
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It's ridiculous that you even have to stress that it's not all and it's just most It's ridiculous that you have to live as a human being in this world and that you have to protect yourself with boundaries instead of being a desperate simp? This exact attitude is exactly why women behave like this. Life will not be handed to you on a silver platter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:17 AM
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Female power is the foundation of all other power structures. Social power systems that do not rest directly on instinct can never be more than superstructures. Their leaders can rule only in areas of no special value to sex partners and proteges. A system that disregards the power of the really powerful sex is doomed from the outset: it cannot gain adherents. It is by the power of the dominant sex that all systems function at all. Without the consent of women, there could have been no fascism, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:34 AM
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Because it's beneficial to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:32 AM
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It doesn't happen to guys though! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 11:50 PM
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She was in our friend group and was horny and feeling me up, stroking the shaft and everything. Didn't really care, but the moment she tried to get on top of me and stick it in I noped out because I wasn't attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:05 PM
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Millennial fathers are the most active in history and the birthrate is steadily falling. You can't just keep blaming us for everything even though I know you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:39 PM
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Because they thought they could have it all, but that's not possible. Sacrifices have to be made somewhere. You can't have the wealthy husband you want that suddenly becomes a SAHD, for you too follow your career, because you no longer have a wealthy husband. You can't ask for free childcare, because nothing is free. Somebody has to do the work and somebody has to pay those people. You can't have older people raising your kids, because they already raised you and deserve to live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:30 PM
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bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:18 PM
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You mean have your cake and eat it too? I think a group already tried that and women are more discontent than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:12 PM
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Wear less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:09 PM
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Each gender behaves in the most optimal manner that they can get away with. Men would have to unilaterally stop dating single moms and fat chicks for women’s behavior to change. At this point that’s not going to happen, especially not overnight. It’s going to take generations to change the dating zeitgeist and unfortunately some of you may lose in the mean time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:40 PM
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I do what I want!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:51 PM
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Dale!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:12 PM
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It’s much easier to just respect your wife and treat her like a human being than going to such places. You think my wife thinks I don't like tits and ass? She knows just because I like hers, doesn't make it impossible for me to like others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:49 PM
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What are you waffling about? Of course someone who only has money to offer is going to have fewer and worse options. What does this have to do with RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:41 PM
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Rough out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:38 PM
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Most marriages are lopsided in earning favoring the men. Even if a woman made the same as a man, the man is more likely to have spent his money on tangible assets than the woman. The woman is more likely to have accrued debt and spent her earnings on vapor. So no, you don't get half of her stuff, because she doesn't have "stuff" to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:33 PM
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Not having a golden parachute is slavery?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:29 PM
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It's not punishment, it's consequential. Leaving a relationship is more of a punishment for the other party's supposed wrongdoing. Expecting recompense is just additional punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:28 PM
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Dating in Scandinavia must have been awesome. A majority have big ass tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:53 PM
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Fault divorce means some is at fault. Tf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:52 PM
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Having something to lose is not a trap. That’s just life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:49 PM
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You think incredibly generous husbands don’t get divorced? Ultimate blue pill thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:48 PM
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That sounds like a transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:47 PM
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I think in a world with perceived equality for women, no fault divorce is fine as long as each party walks away with whatever they monetarily put in. If a woman puts in whatever amount of work in exchange for a man taking care of her, exiting the agreement should entail the loss of said care. I do know multiple men that have been absolutely fucked by no-fault because their spouse cheated on them and somehow got alimony. They must have had shitty lawyers or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:39 PM
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What? They end up far worse off than men. The baby trapper that gets a NBA player is the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:09 AM
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What's it like to have an extra chromosome?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:49 AM
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Men rarely have the option to cheat and are way worse at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:00 AM
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Imagine being a person your spouse doesn't want to cheat on as well as protecting yourself against it. Divorce is usually far worse for women, so why the fuck should I really care if she decides to be a dumbass? Oh, you're someone that would be crushed by divorce and unable to recover...You're kneeling before the the false god of female threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:57 AM
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Wait, I'm pretty sure Jews are oppression incarnate in the leftist hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:48 AM
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As an elder millennial, yes millennials are stupid. Millennials were made stupid by GenX though. GenX was made stupid by boomers. All you can do is break the cycle in your small niche environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:45 AM
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You all lambasted us for a decade for calling you basic bitches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:21 AM
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She painted over a pristine hard wood floor. This is DV worthy (I'm kidding, but not by much)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:15 AM
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http://www.isamurats.co.uk/rats-interacting-with-other-rats.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:10 AM
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Studies that are replicable matter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:08 AM
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Your lines of thought are spot on. It's basically a FSM filter to take the work out of mate choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:06 AM
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I am not saying that getting jacked won't work. i'm saying actual studies are only going to prove if it does work. Good thing David Buss did a worldwide study showing that all men and women converge on the same attraction triggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:01 AM
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You think that 1)male rats aren't on top and 2)female rats give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:57 AM
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sent to draiyiyaaiiin
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:55 AM
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As a former chef, the wage servers get is about on par for the work they do. ,,|,,
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:48 AM
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Don't pedestalize yourself for one by trying to claim you are the authority by saying "you guys" because you have no idea what I or anyone else knows, is, or does. The scientific method is an empirical method for acquiring knowledge that has characterized the development of science since at least the 17th century. The scientific method involves careful observation coupled with rigorous scepticism, because cognitive assumptions can distort the interpretation of the observation. Scientific inquiry…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:34 AM
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Evo psych doesn't require you to prove what you are saying, it just requires you to disprove the other possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:15 AM
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The criticisms of the rat experiment were entirely coping thinking that it wasn't possible. The criticisms also don't even account for things like feminism that go against the natural order because rats don't have feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:13 AM
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They are pro social as a survival mechanism. A woman outcast from a tribe would die as violence isn't an option for them. A woman who can't immediately switch to fucking the winners of a tribe war would also die. Pro-social behavior is a survival mechanism for women because they don't have another option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:08 AM
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not OP but I'll bite. The problem with feminism is an inherent utopian ideal flimsily backed by cognitive dissonance. Their words sound nice to anyone that desires power but is inherently unfeasible because of biology. Their actions speak louder than their words. Today, with all the freedom in the world, having perhaps even more rights and privileges than men, their desires and choices have aligned more so with exactly what we always thought. Women almost universally choose men who are smarter, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:05 AM
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Ya, I don't really see how this thought experiment is useful at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:49 AM
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Red pill actually handled "divorce rape" a long time ago with Dalrock's "Threatpoint". MRAs are unknowingly feminists in disguise, succumbing to the threats made by women. It's actually not cheaper to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:35 AM
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60% of the time, every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:27 AM
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Disney Solid Snake
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:26 AM
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test
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:18 AM
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Exactly this. If women were so good at everything and able to be paid less, we would be installing them to every job on the planet and men would hang back and chill. The cold hard truth is that men in general are far more pragmatically better at MOST/not all things, and our little section of the animal kingdom is organized that way. The problem with these unsuccessful men is that they either don't think they are better than women, or they do and don't want to prove it. I'll probably get lambaste…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:15 AM
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Oh they are definitely coming especially if those conversations are being had. You passed level 1 and now level 2 is coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:04 AM
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Tbh, it sounds like you learned from the ex and passed the current gf's shit tests without knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:01 AM
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I mean, your flair says psycho woman enjoyer which means you like that chaos, and from what you said about your family, that's not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:59 AM
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Sure, but in the west both sides are dumb. The woman for thinking she's capable enough, and the man for deferring to her thinking she won't blame you when shit goes sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:58 AM
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Nah. Covert contracts are basically "if I do X, they will do Y" but the other person has no idea that they were supposed to do Y. Then you get mad you didn't get the expected result. It's the essence of nice guy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:56 AM
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Now you're getting it. Just need to learn to pass them with flying colors. They become less frequent the more you pass them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:53 AM
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Unfortunately women DO expect everything, and the worst thing you can do is give them what they want all the time. If they have everything they will just create chaos to ride the emotional roller coaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:51 AM
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You obviously build a worldview from your experiences, but most people build it based on covert contracts instead of outcome independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:48 AM
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I mean there's still Russian influence but let's go with the Asian background. Asians are instilled with far more of a sense of duty than modern westerners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:47 AM
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I mean, this is why some of these mfs need to truly build frame. Exist within your own worldview and everything else is funny, not angering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:43 AM
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because they are screaming for structure that the hapless doofy guys aren't providing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:40 AM
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I think this is a commonplace trope with Russian/EE women though. At the same time the trope for Russian/EE men is being drunk idiots. I think it's kind of adaptive to the environment but also not the optimal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:38 AM
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That fixes the woman problem but not the man problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:32 AM
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Tbf, anyone mentioning height with a RP flair is really just blackpill. I'm 5'7" and did better than all my friends who were all taller than me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:26 AM
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It is far more related to economics than you hope
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:09 AM
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go forth and conquer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:05 AM
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Men say “why didn’t you tell me XYZ?” all the time. There’s a whole common complaint of men that they would have done the dishes, if only the woman had told them to, they just didn’t have the ability to see they needed doing on their own. Those guys are fucking idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 04:02 AM
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When you're an adult, you realize that people have all kinds of schedules and will be out doing things on different days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:54 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:53 AM
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leader(definition):the person who leads or commands a group, organization, or country. There can only be one leader. It's the person that gets deferred to for final decision. If you have ultimate responsibility(men) then you need ultimate authority. With that said, what you're talking about is individual strengths, which are DELEGATED by the leader. Whenever a woman makes a mistake, the fault is ultimately going to come back to the man with something like "why did you let me do that?" or "why di…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:53 AM
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no. go out in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:45 AM
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Dude is gagging on the Red Pill. Wants to swallow it but it won't go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:45 AM
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I've got a few friends scattered throughout Scandinavia, all divorced by like 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:42 AM
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Ya, it does feel awkward until you get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:30 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/aug/25/nordic-countries-happy-reputation-masks-sadness-of-young-says-report
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:29 AM
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"nooooo. That never happens. Women would never do that!" - PPD Women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:22 AM
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There are situations where divorce is the best outcome. Ultimately though, it's a sign that the women aren't getting what they wanted. The cognitive dissonance by feminist/egalitarian(not real) is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:18 AM
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Am I in the Twilight Zone? Your flair says blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:12 AM
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Scandinavian women are even more likely to divorce than in the US though, so they seem to be upholding the patriarchy even more since they don't like their progressive situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:10 AM
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If it were most of you would die alone because most of you are broke. Most PEOPLE are broke. If resources didn't matter so much, women wouldn't have campaigned so hard for the already proven false "gender pay gap".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:59 AM
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Women today aren't biologically any different today than they were in 1300. The same operating system is still running. While most men aren't deadbeat dads, I'll bite. The reason a "deadbeat dad" is even a thing, is because women want the resources, and when she doesn't get them, the guy gets a label. The fact of the matter is, women are FAR more likely to stay with a cheating spouse than men are, and as the man's income goes up, the more openly he can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:42 AM
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Yup. Even from an early age my mother always told me "it doesn't matter how good you are at something, as long as you look good doing it." While not 100% true, it's certainly a lot better than the drivel people are told today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:33 AM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/husbands-with-much-higher-incomes-than-their-wives-have-a-lower-chance-of-divorce- It seems that the traditional male breadwinner family is still very much a reality in the U.S., and those couples where the wife has a higher income than the husband still have a greater chance of divorce than couples where the husband has a substantially higher income. This is not only true in the United States. In highly egalitarian Sweden, a higher share of income earned by the wife c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:29 AM
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Did you ever stop to think WHY you have an emotion about a guy having sex with another woman? You have an emotional reaction to it because your evolved biology sees it as a potential loss of resources for yourself or your child if the man starts giving resources to another woman. AKA Selfishness. Women cheating is a risk for a man giving up his resources raising a child that isn't his. That's why a woman always asks "do you love her?" and a man always asks "did you fuck him?". Either way it's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:22 AM
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He been in bands since the late 80s. He was most certainly swimming in pussy. Most of his ideas spawned from watching interactions in the nightlife/alcohol industry. If you were to talk to any bartender(people who watch male/female sexual interactions every day) they'll tell you the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:13 AM
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The fact that women do worse after marriage does not negate a guy not wanting to lose half his assets. If the man made less money, he'd be entitled to the alimony payments If the man makes less money, he's more than likely not getting married in the first place. On top of that, a woman suddenly making more money than her husband is one of the highest predicators of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:10 AM
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Women have evolutionary self preservation as eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. So while both men and women can be selfish, women will be far more likely to act in their own self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:01 AM
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You mean how Rollo wrote about it in...2011? https://therationalmale.com/2011/11/15/rejection-revenge/ I use men exclusively in this context because, as a Man, based on gender alone, you will experience rejection far more than any woman ever will. If that sounds like a bold statement let me clarify that, you should experience rejection more than any woman. In sports, in career, in education, in personal relations, and with the opposite sex, you will statistically experience more rejection than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:36 AM
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That's the etc part lol. But yes, a book written by a feminist telling dudes they were fucking idiots for believing what women say lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:15 AM
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Dude is struggling. Consistently making "I hope she sees this bro" type posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:06 AM
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TRP started on forums 20+ years ago of guys sharing personal experiences and conducting experiments to see what the reactions would be. They then coalesced the information and formed a hypothesis. They repeated that over and over, you know, the scientific method. Then they started to add information from other behavioral books like No More Mr. Nice Guy, Practical Female Psychology, Evolution of Desire, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:00 AM
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I've dated a lot of women, and been married for 15years. There is absolutely nothing you could show me that would contradict my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:55 AM
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Check out Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. It's available free online. It can be awkward trying new stuff and being that forthright/dominant, but once she is mentally convinced that's the real you, she starts to unlock more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:00 AM
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Cuz those men are pussies. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:40 PM
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The ones they created for themselves because they wanted to be "equal"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:42 PM
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You also need to eat more protein rich food to keep you fuller longer. Things like a handful of nuts will keep you full for a long time, while not being calorically dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:39 PM
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If you have a 200k net worth, losing half of that is far more devastating and difficult to recover from than if you had a 10M net worth and lose half of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:47 AM
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I've said this multiple times here but it falls on deaf ears. They recognize there's a problem but don't want to give up their power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:38 AM
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Rian Stone is probably the best example of one of the old guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:54 PM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:20 PM
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Glad for you, but it's the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:33 AM
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Do you ever feel sad being the man in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:17 AM
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How to be alone 101
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:15 AM
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cardio is good but lifting is more important. You'll burn more calories lifting than doing cardio. It also makes you look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:51 AM
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My wife and I got married at the courthouse for $25 and went to a mexican restaurant afterwards. Been married for 15 years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:49 AM
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I mean, I shared my pic a little while ago and I drink a lot. I just have to tailor my diet and exercise to that. I usually get 250+ min of intensive exercise per week so it's not really an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:47 AM
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sure, but that's a food diet problem at the point more so than the alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:38 AM
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everyone is accountable Holding women accountable is a futile endeavor. It doesn't matter what you or I think, in the moment, she's living her best life. You'll never convince her she's borrowing against her future. It's also not our job to try and convince them they are fucking up their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:06 AM
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Nice. She had great facial features and a ridiculous singing voice. Sucks she never reached her full potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:02 AM
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Except they ARE living a good life until their currency runs out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:00 AM
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That girl is like 135 in the photo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:57 AM
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They don't "need" to figure out anything. They are constantly rewarded for their behavior. Only when it's too late does it become a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:57 AM
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eh. Alcohol has so many calories it's ridiculous among other effects. Just quitting alcohol for 10 days shaved 2min off my 1.5 mi run time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:56 AM
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She doesn't look like that anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:51 AM
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they need to do something about it They don't need to do anything about it except find a new place to live
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:50 AM
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Also another issue with society today. Children don't recognize that their parents were fucking them over by rewarding them for every single little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:47 AM
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at least you have a gf to even be able to notice the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:39 AM
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That he does lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:37 AM
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You're a man. Get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:37 AM
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lol. The regs fucking suck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:36 AM
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fuck that. I can get it for free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:35 AM
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37yo 5' 7". 10+ body count. Married 15 years. 3 Kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:34 AM
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a cake cutting every month for small reasons That's probably more detrimental than positive. A huge issue for the last 20 years has been the celebration of mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:32 AM
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5'7" and used to get it. Get rekt nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:31 AM
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lol I know. Everyone always mentions the glasses, plus I was drunk when I took that so it makes my face look way shittier. I'm in the military so I have hair standards, but I've switched from a mid fade to a high fade since then and it's way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:26 AM
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I did it to myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:15 AM
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Thanks 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:02 AM
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No idea. That was almost 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:59 AM
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If you're talking about the first pic, that chick is like 300lbs now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:57 AM
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lol I've got 3 kids, oldest is 13 and youngest is 6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:55 AM
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works fine for me. Shouldn't have any problems
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:54 AM
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Then(college) and now of me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:50 AM
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Should I do a face reveal for those who haven't seen before? It seems like BP people always are the ones doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:43 AM
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Mr. You Can Keep Yo Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:28 AM
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I'd do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:26 AM
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Definitely on rule 1. I generally have final say on rule 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:12 AM
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Kneel before General Zod!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:49 AM
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because you put milk, butter, and salt in it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:28 AM
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Just got a $3500 refund from my escrow account. Suck it nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:25 AM
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Hardest job on the planet /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:59 PM
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I think you fail to realize how fleeting emotions are for men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:54 PM
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offered solutions and advice That's literally against the rules of therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:50 PM
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You can't "fix" sadness, especially with the death of a loved one. All you can do is accept it and that's a personal choice. Paying some schmuck $200 an hour for months on end isn't going to fix that, you just have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:50 PM
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The Descent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:46 AM
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Get some bulgogi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:37 AM
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You can only fake it for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:32 AM
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Depends on what the support group is for, but the effective part of support groups is peer support/community, whereas clinical therapy is 1 on 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:59 AM
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Support groups don't have the constraint of not being able to give actionable advice that clinical therapists do. On top of that, you are usually in a group of your peers who have the same problem, with a person that may have insight on how to solve that problem, instead of some damaged person cherry picking studies at their own person al whim. (most therapists are super mentally unwell themselves)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:51 AM
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I shit on therapy. What do you think my life looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:44 AM
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squash squash squash
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:02 AM
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squash is delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:38 AM
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yes, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:37 AM
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Most men know why the fuck they are lashing out: because they have too many problems that aren't solved. They need solutions to their problems. The hard part is actually DOING the fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:30 AM
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👀 gyat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:15 AM
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I didn't say it was gay for one. Men need actionable advice, not to "talk it out." Our problems aren't with feelings, they are tangible. If my engine breaks, and I get angry, I don't need to discuss why I think it makes me angry. I need to know how to fix my engine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:12 AM
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a literal bum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:07 AM
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ya, you right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:06 AM
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worst wingwoman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:04 AM
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You're a beta orbiter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:58 AM
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That's a man, baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:57 AM
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The thread is about romance novels. A random actor chosen to attempt to portray a written character is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:51 AM
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Not entirely untrue but also it’s kids. Sex drops off after kids cuz women are just exhausted That's entirely up to the people involved and not a great idea to do. I've got 3 kids and we still fuck almost every day at least
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:48 AM
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roll for initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:45 AM
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I'm not going to be 110 lbs with DD breasts I mean, you could be...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:43 AM
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The book sold over 100 million copies and is the #5 best selling book of ALL TIME. The movie means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:37 AM
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50 Shades of Grey is the #5 best selling book of ALL TIME
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:30 AM
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No. I'm talking about the switch to fiat currency as well as women being allowed to have credit. Since that point, the middle class has slowly eroded, and with less and less men having a desirable amount of money, less and less women have wanted to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:03 AM
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Marriage rates have been steadily falling since 1970. Wonder what happened around then...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:58 AM
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How the deteriorating middle class is affecting relationships and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:51 AM
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I actually had a conversation with some people about this earlier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:49 AM
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Therapy doesn't really help men at all. We are solutions based and therapists can't give you solutions. Women process things by talking about their feelings, which is why they enjoy therapy so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:43 AM
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Black Americans have a horrible maternal death rate because they are the highest cohort of obesity which comes with heart conditions. Do you know what causes most maternal deaths? Cardiovascular conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:54 PM
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50% of government spending in the US is welfare benefits, so, no, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:34 AM
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There are plenty of things. It's just that it's much simpler. you can check out r/redpillwomen and r/redpillwives. You can also look at Laura Doyle's books and website as well as read The Alpha Female's Guide to Men and Marriage: How Love Works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:28 AM
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There is a turning point where they crave it so bad that you give it to them to stop them from acting crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:40 AM
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used to be crossfaded. Can't keep up with you kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:14 AM
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Spergs will think typing some shit on reddit to a girl is game
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:13 AM
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I think they secretly want to be on these dumbass shows because they think they can "win".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:58 AM
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Ironically, when you're "that dude", you become the one giving duty sex to keep her from getting neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:54 AM
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Either something I specifically asked for or money. I get anything I want for myself most of the time already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:34 AM
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And most people can’t handle that cost alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:17 AM
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The people you are talking about are most certainly not intentionally becoming single moms. Intentional single moms would be people that fuck pro athletes with broken condoms, or some rich chick getting in vetro from a sperm bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:13 AM
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In most cases, they probably thought the grass was greener on the other side. Reality is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:11 AM
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what would you do if that was your wife? I think you know the answer to that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:09 AM
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Possible does not mean optimal. I'm pretty sure a majority of single moms don't want to be single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:08 AM
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They aren't heroes. A person can be separated from their works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:07 AM
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95%+ of women don't have the means to go out and intentionally become a single mom lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:04 AM
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If you want to see one of the worst declines ever, look at Ursula Andress from Dr.No and the original Casino Royale
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:01 AM
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A lot of guys here would be so much better off if they read Dalrock's "Threat Point"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:57 AM
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Dr. Quinn was the shit. She's still pretty in the face. Kylie Minogue and Christie Brinkley are 2 other favorites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:54 AM
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If I have an axe, I can cut down a tree and build something, but I can also cut someone's head off with it. The axe is an amoral tool, and it isn't the axe's fault for being sharp. It's the person using the axe that is accountable for what is done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:50 AM
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No. It hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:45 AM
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lol that response is all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:38 AM
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what does your post nut clarity tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:28 AM
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Celebrities also take massive amounts of steroids then dehydrate themselves for scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:19 AM
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r/hydrohomies in shambles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:18 AM
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Gatekeeping is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:13 AM
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Also modeling agencies care more about how clothes fit for advertising, not necessarily for picking up women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:07 AM
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Most guys lift for practical strength, not aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:05 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/MkHpWXL
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:53 AM
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I've been around for a long time lol. just not in this sperg sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:44 AM
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God, I feel so embarrassed sharing this You should listen to your instincts sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:43 AM
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I understand that a lot of dudes have no clue what they are doing. All I said was that a huge portion of women being on meds isn’t helping. As for being defensive, you could have scrolled by and said absolutely nothing. Y’all really tell on yourselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:21 AM
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She's got absolutely insane takes in her post history lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:17 AM
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I know how female genitalia work, so you can get off your soapbox. That has nothing to do with the way that psychiatric meds affect orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:16 AM
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You don’t have to be a 6ft rich giga Chad nor does a woman have to be a 22 year old Stacey to date, have sex, marry, have a family etc… the RP needs to stop promoting this all or nothing mentality. The RedPill doesn't say any of this. People wearing RP as a skin suit say this. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:02 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:59 AM
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The wall doesn't even necessarily have a specific age range, just a general area where it happens. The wall is just a mental thing where a woman realizes she is no longer as attractive as she used to be and she goes into ultra settle mode. Could happen at 30, could happen at 50. But no one here is going to know that because they don't actually read, they just want to grasp onto the last hopes of ignorance that they have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:55 AM
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You may perceive it as intellectual be he might not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:50 AM
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maybe they should learn to jump higher and have better hand eye coordination. we're all the same right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:58 AM
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Well, that'll certainly get some attention that she so desperately desires
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:13 AM
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So true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:05 AM
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She's been forcefully institutionalized 5 times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:59 PM
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She is clinically crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:56 PM
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He's a super nice guy. I feel bad for him that he ever married my SIL lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:55 PM
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My ex-BIL was Russian and that's exactly what he looks like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 11:28 PM
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The notable exceptions were on medications that interfered with their ability to orgasm That is a significant amount of women nowadays. Probably a huge portion of why so many complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:36 PM
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The Waffle Zone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:32 PM
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This should just be called "women have it harder settling".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:59 PM
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TRP places higher value on women that put out quicker. It also puts higher value on lower n count women. Neither of these things are a requirement though. If a guy is dating multiple women, obviously he's going to value the one that's fucking him, higher than the others. Stop thinking TRP is prescriptive and telling guys WHAT to do. It's just a set of tools and it's up to the guy to make his own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:57 PM
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No. I wouldn’t let that happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:35 PM
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Orbiters are like tools in a toolbox. Not every orbiter may provide the same things. It’s really up to the woman why she’s letting you be an orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:19 PM
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They get upset because orbiters provide things with minimal investment from the woman. Confessing your feelings is like handing her the check for the tab, and now she feels like she has to pay up or lose the resource. Instead of paying, she tries to guilt you into sticking around for even bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:14 PM
2

You gonna change your strategy or keep whining about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:12 AM
1

stop trying to meet people online and get out in the world. You'll know who people are much more quickly. If you're going to stay online, send no more than 8 messages back and forth before moving to a video chat. If they don't want to then next them because they are a manipulative time waster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:03 AM
1

Well you can vet by getting to know them in person before going on a date, feeling them out during online dating... No one has ever lied online
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:59 AM
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Looks like I gotta pass this off as an issue of vetting my dates. The date IS the vetting. You can try to lead the conversation as much as possible, but some people will just be boring. Is what it is and move on. A lot of guys will also have a problem leading conversations which is why you have to practice on everyone you can, not just dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:17 AM
2

so speak for yourself I will, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:14 AM
2

You can always be sexual but don't expect it to work instantly like turning a faucet on. "Don't care about sex" means stop using it as validation of what you are doing. You are changing things for you, not so she'll give you a crumb of pussy. Don't try to fuck, become fuckable.
/r/askMRP13/06/24 03:56 AM
1

My depravity knows no bounds
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:51 AM
0

Option 1: Her period just ended and she's looking for comfort again. Option 2: She just got pumped and dumped by someone below her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:29 AM
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Not only that but women just give terrible advice in general. Any guy here having trouble probably listened to their mom and female friends too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:09 AM
2

Crabs in a bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:07 AM
3

Long term shared space with the same woman actually does lower testosterone funny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:26 AM
3

Being the queen at your job is not the same as having God given monarchal power over a nation-state. Let's use our heads here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:05 AM
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If you're the Queen, you're literally above everyone. There's nothing to compensate for. Look at how a 9/10 gigastacy treats the average person around them. Now give that woman supreme power and an army...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:03 PM
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you mean suffragists who gave women the right to vote? Men gave women the right to vote, you know, because women couldn't vote on that change... they're terrorists now? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suffragette_bombing_and_arson_campaign
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:59 PM
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If my wife wants to drink and twerk with her friends, she can invite them over and do it for me. If the goal is to dance and drink with her friends, the location should be unimportant right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:03 PM
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Yes and when they do they’re called controlling or insecure. “Hey babe I’m not really comfortable with you wanting to go out dancing at this nightclub at 1 am” “Wow what a controlling dickbag I just want to dance and you’re just acting insecure” Then throw her shit outside for her to collect when she gets home. Don't put up with this bullshit. Have some self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:52 PM
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It seems the concept of holding your partner to the same standards as you hold yourself is lost on you Why would I hold my wife to the same standards as me? She's a woman and I'm a man. We are different. If you want a partner to rise the same standards as you, go fuck men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:43 PM
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Men are the prize, so of course you should compete. The higher you are on the podium, the more options in women you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:41 PM
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A communist hellhole that eventually ends with violent rebellion and women no longer in power. Don't worry, we're already well on the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:27 PM
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Does she speak for everybody? Gloria Steinem, one of the icons of modern feminism was a Stalinist. Feminism is rooted in communism, so whether you like it or not, you're espousing communist ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:11 PM
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First wave feminists were actual terrorists, and second wave feminists were communists. It's people's fault for not seeing the writing on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:46 PM
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unrealistic views about how fulfilling office jobs are? We're putting you on PIP for being on your phone/instagram too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:42 PM
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SAHMs Childcare costs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:39 PM
1

Weird 2 of my kids are over 10 and nobody gives a shit that they don’t have social media
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:18 PM
6

Damn, we’ll just ignore the entire MarriedRedPill subreddit which has arguably done the most work for RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:03 PM
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The truth hurts. Many people would rather live in the bliss of ignorance than accept biological reality because that means a large majority of success becomes individual. Having external forces being an excuse is much easier in the temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:34 AM
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It affects marriage too, it's not just dating. The ideas of the dumbest minority are broadcast loud and clear through social media, permeating society. Make sure your kids never have social media folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:35 AM
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You're proving my point. There is no reality where a peer's opinions should matter more than their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:36 AM
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Be reasonable here and think about how much girls actually weigh they are heavier than you think That's because 72% are overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:32 AM
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I've got 3 children myself. Having children we also know many other couples with children. When what I'm speaking about occurs, it is completely independent of what the man does. She can have all the time in the world to be a wife, but the draw of social credit through the image of the "super mom" is much more tantalizing than being a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:18 AM
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Go read about twin studies then come back to us when you've brushed up a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:58 AM
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Human beings are 85% nurture and 15% nature oh boy...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:35 AM
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Just going to repost my response from another thread: Here's a long form explanation for the average PPD'r: First things first, hierarchy of unconditional love always flows downward as so: man->woman->children. Your wife would much rather sacrifice you than your children. That being said, it doesn't negate her role as a wife when children are present. It seems today that people can only hold and conform to one identity. Most women think when they become a mother their identity changes from wife-…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:31 AM
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🤣 the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:50 AM
2

try caring less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:46 AM
3

some people have a sense of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:37 AM
1

not everyone is a doomer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:30 AM
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Every woman is sex positive for the right guy. That's kind of how the whole thing works. TRP is about becoming the guy that most women are sex positive for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:20 AM
3

If they want to cheat, they can cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:48 PM
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For one, Ashley Madison was a decade+ ago, where app dating was less of a norm. If a woman wanted to cheat, she would have already been doing it because there is nothing else to do other than say yes. An app is going to be more discreet for a guy, because he would still have to at least pseudo-date a woman and somehow keep it a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:16 PM
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If women want to cheat, they don't need an app to do it. They can go tell a man they want sex and it happens. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:06 PM
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Name a single remaining male space that hasn't been infiltrated and destroyed by women. The literal subreddit you're typing on exists because men created a space for each other to solve their problems, and instead of leaving it alone, they had a problem with it and need to "debate".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:25 PM
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95+% of women would see absolutely no problem with men’s support groups. As long as the advice coming out of these groups follows a female agenda...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:17 PM
1

Sounds like she should eat less
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:10 AM
0

Reality exists despite your feelings about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:05 AM
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yes, men are fat too, but they need a hell of a lot more to be marriageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:59 AM
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Not being overweight instantly puts you in the top 25% of women. Other than that, don't be annoying, be approachable, and be helpful. Boom, marriageable. The bar is so fucking low for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:43 AM
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Female value is intrinsic and fades over time. If you fuck up having your best options by getting fat, that's your own fault. A woman can coast through life doing absolutely nothing and still end up as a wife. That reality does not exist for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:36 AM
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Is someone force feeding you bullshit food or do you have to make an effort to eat it? Is someone chaining these women to the radiator and not allowing them to go for a walk every now and then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:13 AM
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Well, they'll complain about how they can't afford a home, how healthcare for their fat ass is too expensive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:04 AM
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Well 74% of them are overweight. It's pretty fucking hard to find a chick that ISN'T fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:39 AM
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In that case it may be because AC pulls humidity out of the air and you need more. Try getting a humidifier and drinking a lot more water.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:37 AM
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Well, either the AC system is dirty as fuck, or the real reason: it's allergy season dude. Claritin is OTC now. Go get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:31 AM
4

it happens far more often than you would hope
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:14 AM
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lmao, most dudes are simps that would crawl through broken glass for a crumb of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:08 AM
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And the hoes will be lined up when you get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:03 AM
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Relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:58 AM
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To be fair, it takes effort to get fat. Women are generally born with a level of attractiveness and ruin it by getting fat. All they had to do was maintain. Men actually have to put in effort to get to the point where women find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:53 AM
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That's just sneaky fucker game. Desperate men, making desperate moves that will get them fucked over in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:50 AM
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There are plenty of attractive women here. Sure they can have time to be here because they may have poor ideals or an attitude that gives them dating trouble. "No matter how hot a woman, there someone, somewhere, that is sick of her shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:49 AM
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A woman will only push you as far as you let her. That statement is timeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:46 AM
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Just because they aren't successful doesn't mean that isn't their general strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:45 AM
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All women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:32 AM
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I agree. But you have to consider that men are more willing to put themselves in a position to get with a woman who already has them. Rather than the other way around. It shows she's had past desirability for the fact that she was chosen. Inversely, you can argue the same with the father. Man's natural inclination is to want to start a family so they'd be willing to do it with anyone, whether they have kids or not. Actually women are far more willing to be with a single dad than men are to be wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:30 AM
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Sure. People can read When I say No I Feel Guilty and Mode One. Boundary enforcement is important in all facets of life, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:24 AM
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Most men laugh at Captain Save-a-Ho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:20 AM
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"Women wait at the finish line and fuck the winners."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:19 AM
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Hey. Nobody ever told you not to speak with your mouth full?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:18 AM
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Having children is tiresome, expensive, and complicates relationships and courting. This is the case for most worthwhile things in life. Fortunately for them, most people want kids. So there's an argument to be made that they have a higher threshold for an opportunity to find someone as opposed to childfree people. Most people want their own kids, not other people's kids. I wonder if we'll have more childfree people in the future due to realizing the financial incentives to have children just ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:16 AM
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It's called having boundaries and enforcing them. You can also use a lot of words to say that though if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:11 AM
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but it's teethy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:24 AM
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Would you want a women to resent men if she put in a bunch of work to get you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:17 AM
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Because people don't know wtf they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:04 AM
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What in the fuck did I just read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:34 AM
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Why would you treat someone who has given you absolutely nothing, better than someone else? That shit has to be earned, otherwise, simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:18 AM
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If I’m attracted to a women, I will try to win her over and that involves better treatment than a man gets. For women im not attracted to, I try very hard to not treat them better than random men. That's a lot of words to say simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:14 AM
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I mess with my women friends all the time. Just in a nicer way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:12 AM
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one of main subs had a mass face reveal a couple years ago and everyone was 2x more attractive than you would have expected. It was mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:11 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:06 AM
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I never really bothered with women that didn't want to have sex almost immediately. There's no confusion about genuine desire at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:01 AM
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I know you aren't stupid. The most passive aggressive way to call someone stupid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:57 PM
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This is basically /thread. The only thing I'd add is that one of the problems is that there's a subset of women who view sex workers as aspirational.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:52 PM
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Here's a long form explanation for the average PPD'r: First things first, hierarchy of unconditional love always flows downward as so: man->woman->children. Your wife would much rather sacrifice you than your children. That being said, it doesn't negate her role as a wife when children are present. It seems today that people can only hold and conform to one identity. Most women think when they become a mother their identity changes from wife->mom, when in reality its wife->wife+mom. You'll often…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:40 PM
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That would be a goon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:21 PM
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Yes I know what TRP was about. You can’t drop an f-slur on Reddit anymore which used to be one of the many ways to filter out people who weren’t ready yet. That’s beside the point though. This comment thread was talking about tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:19 PM
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You have to put your own mask on before you can put the mask on others. The last 40 years of “won’t somebody think of the children!” has been disastrous. Bunch of coddled adult children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:04 PM
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You expect any of these people to actually read something? They get their information 4 filters down the pipeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:46 PM
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The Evolution of Desire, Dr. David Buss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:45 PM
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kernel panic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:40 PM
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The dating market can remain irrational longer than you can remain solvent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:39 PM
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Step away from the crack pipe there buddy. Almost all relationships start from a disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:15 PM
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OP’s comment whole thing screams “I hope she sees this bro”. He has somehow ascended above us all and human nature. He will eventually get got, and then he’ll be right back on the red pill and wondering wtf happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:47 PM
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If you ever actually RP and did any of the actual reading/work, you would know it’s not an ideology. Like 95% of the people here, you probably haven’t read a damn thing and are in no position to be commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:42 PM
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Tradcons provide a female centric solution to a male issue. Living like it’s a century prior fails to account for the world we live in today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:15 PM
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Not only is it performative, but always requires someone else to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:10 PM
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No. Trad cons are just male feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:07 PM
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Evolution explains the past, not the future. We are at our current state of biological tendencies because those tendencies have been the most advantageous. Those things will continue to exist long after we are dead because evolution takes forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:31 PM
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Most of the guys I talk to my age are not interested in marriage, at least not yet. We're chilling doing hobbies or finding ourselves or building our career or just laying back and enjoying life. If you're 35 and still "finding yourself" you are so far behind the curve it's not even funny. This is a huge part of society today: the ever expanding infantilization of adults and complete lack of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:49 PM
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Why would any dude "fear" me taking out my wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:20 PM
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While this may be true, I think this relies entirely on the caliber of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:05 PM
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To quote another response of mine from the previous post I think it's relevant in so much that it describes the current zeitgeist, most notoriously described in Vox Day's essay Threatpoint. The idea that men COULD do it if they wanted, helps describe the paralyzing fear they have of "threatening" women no matter how harmless it may be. By this I mean that things like the MRA movement are actually more harmful to men than helpful, because they perpetuate fears like divorce grape, cuckolding etc, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:53 PM
2

Envy is a powerful drug
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:51 PM
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is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:56 AM
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I went through a shit ton of women before I got married at 22. I've been fucking my wife nearly daily for 15 years and still aren't tired of it. The effort required to constantly pick up new women is far too great compared to the levels of depravity a woman who loves you is willing to go to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:34 AM
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I admire your naivety. Many relationship are sex and performative date nights. You're a dancing monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:36 AM
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Women have started to have this problem too, as their social circles have started shrinking as well. The find out portion of "these hoes ain't loyal" has been chef's kiss. Insane that we have to teach women how to find real friends but at the same time I'm not surprised at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:34 AM
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They go to the top school in the state. You know what they have? Tons of recess. Digital nothing. Assloads of homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:22 AM
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My dad was born in 1947 and was military and later police. I grew up super old school. My parents cut me off at 17. Turns out being responsible and driven lets you slay pussy. I played video games n shit but didn't make it my whole life. So weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:17 AM
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Self-evident by Blink182, lol. It's gonna be a great show anyways. We're gonna have a good time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:06 AM
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My wife and I got married at 22/20 and we've been married for 15 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:02 AM
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Haha. My wife and I are both metalheads too, but her less so. I'd go to a show with a friend for a band I'm unlikely to enjoy just to find out, but I'm not buying them front row tickets lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:01 AM
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There's friends, and friends you fuck. The friends you fuck are usually called your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:51 AM
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Do you have reading comprehension issues? I said you get to choose how you play the game. Nothing else. Not the hand you're dealt. If you're best argument is using children born with terminal diseases as a monolith you should stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:48 AM
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I know I already responded a lot to this post, but here we go. Blink 182 and Sum 41 are my wife's favorite bands. They are mediocre to me. We're going to see both of them this summer, front row, for astronomical amounts of money for a concert. She fucks me basically every night, so it's not for that. It's because the joy she'll have getting to see her favorite bands, potentially for their last time ever, is worth far more than a night of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:43 AM
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You are a human with choice. You don't get to choose where you are born or what gender you are born as. What you do get to choose is how you play the game. If you have expectations for how your life is going to be, you have to do what it takes to achieve that life, instead of letting life happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:26 AM
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short term flings are just legit relationships that didn't work out. No need to be Captain Hindsight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:21 AM
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There are more women in poverty than men lmao girl, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:18 AM
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There's a disconnect in the conversation between relationships and fucking around here. Women "generally" don't want to fuck outside of a relationship. Men will fuck, but don't want a relationship unless there is a degree of harmony. Modernly, both sexes are executing massive amounts of covert contracts with each other because of any combination of pride, ego, and just world fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:16 AM
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She might? As we've seen nowadays, the paths to "success" become easier and easier every day for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:10 AM
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This is so dramatic. Yes men have to achieve to be successful. Yes, women have to make a good choice early on to be successful. If either of you fail in your regard, you get a shit outcome. Either do something about it or stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:08 AM
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I think people here, especially because of the downvotes, want a codependent instead of a complement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:04 AM
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The ultimate accountability for crime lies on the person who committed it. The factors leading up to that circumstance may or may not be completely in their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:01 AM
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paying for sex is negative social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:58 AM
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My wife is probably one of my best friends, but it's against both our interests to bow to her every emotional whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:57 AM
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There is an evolutionary fear that women have of men that hasn't had nearly enough time to adapt to technology such as guns. Even considering that, women are ever increasingly violent towards men because the law and society is going to defend them for it. Give it 20,000 years of near instant speed ranged weapons existing and the stats will probably be crazy. So yes, in current day hypotheticals, if women were just as physical as men they would be committing far more crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:51 AM
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Biology is more same than it is different. Generalizations benefit vastly more than they harm. Exceptions don't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:42 AM
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I think you missed the point. Women operate in coercion because they don't have the physical force to build/create as well as mandate through violence. A man commits crimes to increase his chances of genetic propagation, because it's an option for him. On top of that, crime is something that is truly socially constructed. So if women, being exactly the same as they are now, had the same physical strength as men, would commit vastly more crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:38 AM
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If women were more physically capable of committing violent crimes, they would be doing it far more often. Prisons are filled with men who couldn't control their emotions. Imagine if women had the same physical capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:25 AM
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Google "bangmaid" and have yourself a ball. Your ignorance to common public tropes is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:22 AM
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You're literally posting in public discourse, where that ideal is praised. I agree that social media and media in general isn't the end all be all, but it becomes the norm more and more every day. Just because you haven't personally experienced it doesn't mean it's not statistically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:15 AM
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Who exactly are these women you’re describing who think it’s bullshit to have to consider their partner’s sexual needs and do chores? Those are basic things. I haven’t met any women who think they don’t have to offer those things because they’re an empowered modern women. gestures broadly at public discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:05 AM
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life is only black and white. You live the princess life or get raped and killed. I know you and you can't be serious with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:53 AM
3

it's really not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:51 AM
-15

I'm sure it wasn't. That doesn't negate the emotional response of adrenaline and endorphin spikes. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is for a woman to be bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:45 AM
3

I don't disagree. Both men and women need to realize that "you have to put your own oxygen mask on before you put one on someone else". The problem lies within the debate of what that oxygen mask is. Everyone can debate until they are blue in the face but biology will dictate outcomes that are better than ideological ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:43 AM
2

I mean, to me it seems like you're already at the acceptance stage, and now all you have is to live your life for you. The cool part is that when you live your life for you, you'll find someone that also wants to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:40 AM
4

I understand. Expecting it the change is the worst plan though. Indifference is far more effective than anger/hate. Just pretend anyone irl who believes those things don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:22 AM
3

Listen. My wife enjoys some things that I enjoy. I was a professional chef so I can cook much better than she can but she still does it, just not all the time. My cleanliness standards are much higher than hers, so I clean more often. With regards to all these things, I expect her to be at minimum to be on board and help out to a reasonable degree. Anything she does above and beyond is icing on the cake. She's not my "bangmaid" and I'd never brag or degrade a woman in that way. If I contain the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:18 AM
4

1) Men: "Hey if you make my life a little easier, I'm willing to do my best to make you happy." 2) his life worth sacrificing time/money/effort for is going to be sex and an easier home life. 3) companionship/personality into it, but that's wrapped up into easier home life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:05 AM
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Yes, so we agree then. Bangmaid is a go So you just leave out the next sentence where I mention companionship/personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:02 AM
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So, more often than not, a desirable man is going to be able to take care of himself on his own, right? In that case, the only addition to his life worth sacrificing time/money/effort for is going to be sex and an easier home life. I know, I know, you're going to bring companionship/personality into it, but that's wrapped up into easier home life. Also, it's mostly your grandmother's saying "Belly full, balls empty, agreeable" because they had it figured out, at least enough to make sure you exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:57 AM
1

According to the men here, what men want is a bangmaid. Men: "Hey if you make my life a little easier, I'm willing to do my best to make you happy." Women: "Who do you think you are? I'm not your slave!" Men: "uh?"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:48 AM
3

This can be summed up as: Men are far better at working together to achieve a common goal. Women are far better at working to maintain the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:44 AM
2

The danger is half the fun 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:37 AM
2

The sexual market can remain irrational longer than you can remain solvent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:34 AM
4

I am a late GenX/X-ennial raised in an abusive, overly antiquated and traditional environment. Nothing worse than a statement that starts off with qualifiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:33 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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