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ER wasn't good looking at all, he was a framecel. Head way too big for his body. Looked like an overgrown baby.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 05:23 PM
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You may just be the delusional one if you consider YouTube videos to be objective reality.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:36 AM
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The whole point of dating is to test for compatibility. The reason it is redundant for those in college years is because at that age compatibility is almost entirely predicated on SEXUAL attraction on both ends - two people who are mutually sexually attracted can tell so within maybe just a few minutes of interaction - so why even bother with such an extensive, awkward, costly process such as dating? The reason dating will remain commonplace (even though both genders generally hate it) is that w…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 07:15 AM
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The number one cause of postpartum psychosis is ugly babies.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 01:04 AM
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It's not an "outlying exception" it's JBW in action, you see plenty of mediocre white guys dating up when the girl is a different race.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 09:23 AM
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Not availability, proximity. Before the advent of mass media, proximity referred to a specific physical locale, but now with the proliferation of the internet, women subconsciously consider virtually all men in existence within their proximity.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 07:22 PM
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Methylphenidate (Ritalin) works wonders for me socially. Without it I feel exhausted within a few minutes in any social situation but on it I can go for hours. I'm also more confident in general, wittier, and can remember small details people say.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 12:37 AM
2

Honestly I think traveling is the worst cope of all unless you can work remotely. You want to know what it truly feels like to be "free"? Having fuck you money. I've worked continuously since graduating college and make good money. All the normies I know who spent much of their 20s traveling do nothing but talk about it but have nothing to really show for it, experiences are fleeting and what are they really worth when everyone and their grandma has done the exact same thing? It's not like you'r…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 08:21 PM
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So Asians are shorter than whites on average yet need to be 4 inches taller to perform comparatively with an average white guy, how is that not evidence of the racepill/ethnic tax?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 07:48 AM
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Injecting testosterone will deepen your voice, you can "cheat" your genetics in this way.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:38 PM
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You can't change your genetics but you can change your hormones and brain chemistry. Inject testosterone if you are weak and scrawny, use ozempic to lose weight if you are fat, take ADHD meds to gain mental clarity and focus, SSRIs to reduce anxiety and depression, party drugs to socialize better, psychedelics to reset your outlook on life. Drugmaxxing is seriously underrated.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:32 PM
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I live in one of the most liberal areas in the US and have never seen "no whites" on a dating profile. I have seen plenty of minority women only looking for whites though
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 04:06 PM
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"NO Whites" Show me one profile that says this The opposite seems to be way more common, here is a JBW profile I saw the other day
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 03:36 PM
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Where did you get 2:1 from? I recall reading a study that found it was closer to 3:1, but that was from about a decade ago, anecdotally I don't think it's changed much since then
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 07:39 PM
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if you think you mog the 9.5 guys (literal male models that get paid millions for their looks) then you might just be the one coping
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 06:05 PM
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Yes, but in my experience as an Asian you don't really get considered for casual/hookups, just serious dating.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 05:47 PM
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Women generally are better looking than men. The evolutionary purpose of this mechanism (and arguably of women in general) is to motivate/force men to do more than rely just on their appearance to reproduce. This is why women are okay with dating and having children with men they don't necessarily find as attractive as themselves, because they can exploit the attractiveness differential to their favor, and in doing so, possibly advance human civilization by a little (though I would argue that th…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:56 PM
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IMO, the only group that is abjectly screwed over by the racepill are South Asians. East Asians are seen as good providers, this is of course useless for the under 35 cohort and means they are largely seen as betabuxxers, but that gives them a bit of an advantage later in life when women are looking to settle down. Blacks are in vogue these days, while some women will outright refuse to date black guys there is a sizeable minority that REALLY prefers black guys, usually for sexual as opposed to …
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:54 AM
1

Is going to the park to feed the birds an age appropriate activity for you? Because if not, I fail to see why you would expect to do this and make "age-appropriate" friends that way.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 01:04 AM
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Any time you suggest people to leave the house here you get downvoted. The simple fact is that being unsocial is going to fuck you over harder than anything else. if you don't have friends that has literally nothing to do with women being hypergamous or chad-chasers that's entirely a separate issue.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:22 PM
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This is the direct result of ADHD culture. Nobody wants to be or is impressed by someone who actually puts in the work, because that's for peasants. All the respect goes to those with a resume 10 miles long and only 1 inch deep.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 09:42 PM
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This only emphasizes my point. She has a committed boyfriend while not even having sex with him. Wouldn't be surprised if she gets action from somewhere else.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 07:02 PM
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The racepill doesn't mean that being white is the end all be all. It simply means that you are anchored to the stereotype of your race. Black = high SMV, low RMV Asian = low SMV, high RMV Other races are in between. Whites are about the midpoint. This explains JBW as the midpoint is considered the "sweet spot" by most. Your coworker might be dating a Vietnamese guy, but she wouldn't hook up with him, he needs to commit to her to get any action.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 06:51 PM
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white f***s instinctively want all short Asian guys dead Brutal racepill and heightpill
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 02:51 AM
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Dating apps are literally engineered to keep you on there as long as possible and shame you into forking over money to get your profile more visibility The only actual way to gauge your attractiveness is to leave the house (I know, novel fucking concept), go to the bar/club, and see how many girls (and what caliber of girls) are willing to give you the time of day.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 11:37 PM
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Wrong You are ALWAYS anchored to the stereotypes of your race, no matter how you look. That is the racepill. Black men get the easiest sex with lowest expectations of relationship commitment, Asian men get the most difficult sex with highest expectations of relationship commitment (literally the worst case scenario), Whites are in between.
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:44 AM
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Because there is actually some accomplishment in dating "hot white women" as an ethnic man, while any 3/10 ethnic girl can date (i.e. get pumped and dumped or FWB-zoned) by a white chad and feel like she's some kind of racial hero for it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 11:12 AM
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different people respond differently to different drugs. if coke doesnt do it for you try ketamine.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 01:30 AM
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It's the only place where it really matters.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:15 AM
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There's no way you're seeing more BM/WF couples than WM/AF couples in NYC, especially in Manhattan and Brooklyn. I spend basically every weekend in either Manhattan or Brooklyn and that's my observation. However, I'm primarily into nightlife so I am admittedly only seeing a limited picture. Black guys do very well in that area.
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 12:05 AM
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Bro If you have a hard time dating or hooking up as a black guy, come to NYC and go to any nightclub past midnight. Mid+ black guys get all the hottest chicks of any race, I see girls coming up to them to give them their contact info and twerk on them, he doesn't even need rizz he can just stand around autistically. BMWF is BY FAR the most common interracial coupling I see here, probably more common than any other coupling combined. I'm not biased on this subject btw, I'm Asian and have noticed …
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 11:01 PM
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Drugmaxxing I've been playing around with stimmies (adderall, coke) when I go out, holy shit feels good even if I can't pull any bitches
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:58 PM
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Black people are not considered ethnic (in the USA). They are as American as apple pie. Asians, middle easterners, etc generally are seen as weird perpetual foreigners no matter where they were born.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:48 PM
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Therefore, women will invent socially acceptable reasons why they associate with white chads. More recently there seems to be a trend wherein ethnic women proclaim that by dating white men, they are somehow getting back at them, "colonizing the colonizer" or whatever such bullshit. Yeah, because there's no better way to enact revenge on YTs colonial ancestors than by rewarding their descendants with easy sex. It's just hedonism disguised as activism.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 09:35 PM
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If you are on a dating app and do not explicitly state you are only looking for friends, people will assume you are looking to date. Dating by definition is not platonic. If your intention to to mislead others into "dating" you platonically, you are a nefarious individual. I don't see how you can twist it any other way.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:43 PM
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Non-committal sex is very appealing to the vast majority of men.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 05:08 PM
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Statistically speaking you are probably in the normie range. Despite what most blackpillers say, if you are an average-ish white guy, as long as you are socially well adjusted you should do okay with dating which it sounds like you are.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 12:11 AM
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Men are generally straightforward with their motives. Women in general will manipulate and gaslight men in perpetuity for their own benefit.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:34 PM
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just trust him bro
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 03:48 PM
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this is /r/allpilldebate, where all the men are chads who get plenty of sex and dates with stacy, yet they schizopost and argue with "3s and 4s" all day like their life depends on it.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 03:26 PM
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If you are fit with broad shoulders at average height you should have no trouble at all, if you are then the problem is software related or above the neckline. I fit that description and get enough attention that I definitely wouldn't risk any major surgeries, and this is in NYC. If you want to PM me pics I can let you know what I think.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 07:42 PM
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Limb lengthening is only worth taking on the risk for those around 5'4-5'7" to get up to around average. Starting at average height you might actually want to explore clavicle lengthening surgery. Or better yet, don't even risk fucking up your skeletal structure just to get coochie.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 07:27 PM
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It's not that difficult to wrap your head around. In the minds of most Americans, White = normal, Black = normal (albeit a different "brand" of normal), while Asians, Indians, Arabs, indigenous South/Central Americans, are weird foreigners.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:18 AM
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Blackpill is fundamentally about determinism. It's true that on an individual level you have the power to act however you want and subvert the stereotypes of your group, but people will still prejudge you based on those stereotypes no matter what, and you are entirely powerless against that. For example - if an Asian man acts assertively or aggressively, people may think "oh well he's just compensating for having a small peepee", you can't win no matter win. Asians, Indians and Arabs are general…
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:10 AM
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The vast majority of self-identified incels are teens and early 20s, people at this age ARE extremely superficial, the study doesn't control for age.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:16 PM
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There's a reason I said "MAYBE" on Latinos. Some Latinos like AOC or Ted Cruz are white passing, obviously this is not the case for some indigenous Guatemalan immigrant who can't speak English.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 03:22 PM
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You're only talking about the looks aspect. Take the most stereotypical looking and acting black person from the US and he would be considered very American by just about everyone, obviously not in the same vein as some WASP but each of their archetypes are well cemented within American society. Ebonics isn't considered some foreign accent but a dialect of American English. Arabs, Asians, and Indians are still largely considered foreigners outside of a few coastal hotspots.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 03:19 PM
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You're posting on this subreddit r*tard, we all have autism.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 07:11 AM
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In highschool it was mostly white kids and about a couple dozen Asian kids (me included), all the Asian girls dated regularly and always had white boyfriends, none of the Asian boys dated at all, two were elected class president and quite popular but never dated. I had a young female Asian teacher one year, and she completely simped for this one white student who was struggling, he was tall and good looking but extremely quiet and weird yet she put in so much time and effort to make sure he succ…
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 07:00 AM
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Black people aren't really considered ethnic in the US the same way Asians, Indians, Arabs, and maybe even Latinos are. most have roots spanning over 150 years back (preceding even many White Americans whose ancestors immigrated in the 20th century) and have significant white admixture. Maybe it's different in Europe though, or for recent African immigrants.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 06:31 AM
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black isn't ethnic.
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 06:14 AM
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Things Chad has never said: "I'm a chad"
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 08:29 PM
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No one thinks it's offensive lmao, it just outs you as an aspie when you refer to them that way
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 07:16 PM
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mf needs to be a contrarian even when incels just trying to videogamecope lmao
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 08:38 PM
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As in all human history, men are obsolete by default and need to prove otherwise. The majority of men who have ever existed have failed the cut, but certainly many have and propagated their DNA and that is the only way we have evolved as a species. Men will never become fully obsolete, that would imply obsolescence of the entire species. In the modern era, men who are good looking have kind of cheated the system because their genetic value is literally written on their face so have to do the lea…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:39 PM
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edited my comment to make it more clear.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:57 PM
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Obviously it'd be better to be a chad that immediately gives women the tingles, but if you're dealt a bad hand this is really the only approach that I see working aside from moneymaxxing. its true any relationship you could get into as an incel-tier male would be tenuous and require a lot of effort to maintain, but what other options do you have really other than giving up and rotting on incel forums?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 08:47 PM
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Unconditional love only exists between mothers and children Even this isn't the case, postpartum psychosis is caused by the mother sensing something is "off" with her newborn child causing her to want to murder or abandon it
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 02:46 PM
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Redpillers approach everyone even unattractive women, get rejected every time as expected, then become blackpilled and rant that all women have inflated self esteem due to receiving constant attention. Truly a tragedy of the commons.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 03:23 AM
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very true. looksmaxxers kind of ignore or downplay frame but that's a cope because there's really not much you can do about it since it's basically your entire skeletal structure, unlike jaw surgery or leg lengthening which is just the femur/tibia. I met someone last weekend, about 6'1" and built. he was telling me about all his workouts, has 3 gym memberships, was on juice for a while. His biceps were massive and he looked great, but standing next to him my upper body was still noticeably broad…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 08:12 PM
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frame is pretty much the only reason i'm not an incel. Meh face, average height, non-NT, Asian. But I'm really wide at the shoulders, have generally large bones and am lean so I look great in a fitted tshirt and get a decent amount of female attention
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 07:46 PM
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Women do approach but are usually sly or indirect about it, like in your anecdote. Women will go out to a bar club or whatever, identify the most attractive man and then spend hours hyping themselves up or finding some way to talk to him in a way that cushions themselves from direct rejection. I was at a rooftop bar recently with a buddy and they closed off the outdoor section because it was drizzling. We went out anyway and were just chilling, then some girl comes out and asks me if she's allow…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 04:48 PM
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The problem is just about every man thinks he is way better looking than he actually is. An average man's "looksmatch" in his eyes is a 7 or 8 and he probably truly believes it.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 03:52 PM
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only old or obscure incel games mentioned so far, no surprise
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 11:54 PM
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Imagine living your life with this kind of validation 24/7 just for your race
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 03:05 AM
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there are rich guys out there who marry strippers and literal hookers. They don't gaf about body count if she's good looking.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 07:15 PM
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Logan Paul is rich but Agdal could easily be some billionaire's trophy wife if she was just out for money
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 05:15 PM
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Body quality matters way more than quantity. I don't understand why anyone, even Logal Paul, would be bothered that their GF was in a relationship with Leonardo fucking DiCaprio before them or that it is being made publicly known. That she would go from an A-list celeb who fame-mogs and money-mogs virtually everybody alive, to you is nothing but a flex. Obviously these people live in different world than us but the same applies. Everyone wants someone desirable, but just as important someone who…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 04:36 PM
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Your analysis makes very little sense... You glaze over cheekbones (her strongest feature) because she's making an expression but then you rate midface, philtrum/chin in his favor even though these ratios would also be affected. I'm not even sure how you calculated that midface ratio. she's at an angle so it's impossible to measure for sure, but just by looking at them without pulling out any rulers you can tell hers is much more compact, mainly due to the broad cheekbones and higher IPD. Also, …
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 03:31 PM
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Yep. As a general rule, if you ever stress out about texting someone over whether you'll get a response or get left on read, then it's over between you two, SOMETHING you did turned her off, maybe it was your ugly face or your short stature or your social weirdness. Either way you're stressing yourself over nothing, just move on.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 06:43 AM
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Sorry, this is bad advice. Your physical appearance dictates what you are and are not allowed to do in real life, in VR of course anybody can make themselves look however they want so it's a massively confounding factor. Also, most women on VR are men using voice changers, so any practice you gain from talking to them cannot be translated to talking to women IRL.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 08:06 PM
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You can't tell anything from a "look" anymore. Nowadays a lot of people are hyperaware of their own body language and obfuscate their natural instinct either to be nice/politically correct or pretend to be uninterested. You can't say for certain whether it's genuine or an act.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 07:52 PM
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There are people who unironically think their HPV doesn't count as an STD and isn't worth bringing up with a sex partner. Psychopaths
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 03:33 PM
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Imagine being a white male and whitesplaining to others that you aren't privileged and demanding they provide endless "sources" to prove that you are. Amazing gaslighting.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 12:59 AM
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I already cited my source, you're just moving goalposts. I'm not going to do any more research into a phenomenon that you and I can see with our own two eyes, don't be purposefully daft.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 09:20 PM
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Dude, you don't need to go to Africa to see that most black women are with black men worldwide. Western reference or not. Why would I, a person living in the USA, care about dating trends on a completely different continent that I would never visit? The only thing that matters to me is the trends specific to my locale. Your "but look at the big picture!" argument is nonsense, because if you want to look at things that way, a lot of localized social issues become insignificantly small or irreleva…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 08:46 PM
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Yeah, this is like going to some black guy in the US and telling him racism isn't a problem because there are more black people in Africa than in the US, and there's no racism against blacks there. OBVIOUSLY we are using a western frame of reference only because there are very few non-westerners here. Whether its in the West or outside of it. Most women prefer men of their own race. Not Asian women.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 08:10 PM
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Pointing out that white men are privileged in dating (which is objectively true) is NOT white worship, it's literally calling it out.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 08:01 PM
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This is so 2020. Mostly on point today, but modern blackpill theory adds the neurotypicality corollary: being autistic or socially weird fucks you over nearly if not as much as being ugly, and rizz CAN somewhat compensate for lack of looks.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 07:40 PM
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Probably wasn't any one thing, just the admin's don't like the content.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:28 PM
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if PPD is banned then this sub has no chance unfortunately. Probably will be gone by tomorrow.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:26 PM
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Black men have always had high SMV with certain women irrespective of race. It's just that these women are the least likely to use dating apps which is what most dating statistics are based off of. which falsely makes it seem like black men have low SMV.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:03 PM
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Bro if you are "well above average looking" then average girls will treat you well, this is hypergamy 101. if attractive girls treat you well it doesn't mean shit unless they are also hooking up with you (otherwise it could just be confirmation bias, or they're just being friendly), and in that case why would you care what less attractive women think? That's like getting accepted to Harvard and being salty that some random state schools rejected you, makes no sense and would be funnier more than…
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 09:53 PM
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If even mediocre chicks don't give you positive treatment then I have some bad news...
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 09:01 PM
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I don't know exactly what it is, but women especially younger ones are attracted to moving here, more so than men. I've met many women from random places in the US who come here to try it make it big in fashion/acting/modeling/whatever, meanwhile their brothers and male friends stay back home in flyover country. I also think it has a lot to do with pragmatism or lack thereof. I'd say close to half of women who move here don't really have what it takes to survive longterm in this environment, and…
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:35 PM
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Can you PM it to me? I'm curious since you're saying she's pretty and others are saying mid
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:00 PM
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Come to NYC, there are way more women than men here and half the men are gay
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 07:56 PM
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I've been in this situation. This is a subject I think frequently about because it messes me up. I haven't had sex in 5 years despite having plenty of opportunities which I all passed up on. and I realized it was just because I wasn't attracted enough to these people. I tried the Madison Beer trick (not Madison Beer per se for me but a oneitis I had) for each one. If it was that person in the imagined scenario, I would have gone for it.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:27 PM
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All you know is that you felt anxious. You can't say for certain WHY you felt anxious. It's only your theory that it is was over performance. More realistically it's because you just weren't attracted enough to her to have sex with her, and you basically had cold feet.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:10 PM
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If this happens, it's because he just really isn't interested enough in her. Since you are obviously posting this because it happened to you, imagine if the woman was replaced with say Madison Beer or whichever other celebrity you find insanely hot. She shows all signs that she would be receptive to your sexual advances. You would have gone for it 100%, and without hesitation, there would be no anxiety, no feeling as you "aren't ready for it yet."
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:58 PM
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Black guys are highly desirable with HQPs and LQPs. This is the opposite for HQNPs and LQPs who vastly prefer white guys, and E Asian guys to a lesser extent, probably with blacks in last place. This is why generalized conclusions based on online dating are dumb. Naturally, HQPs and LQPs are less likely to do online dating than HQNPs and LQNPs so these studies aren't representative.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:22 PM
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This is basically exactly philosopher Schopenhauer's thoughts on women. The fundamental defect of the female character is a lack of a sense of justice. This originates first and foremost in their want of rationality and capacity for reflexion but it is strengthened by the fact that, as the weaker sex, they are driven to rely not on force but on cunning: hence their instinctive subtlety and their ineradicable tendency to tell lies: for, as nature has equipped the lion with claws and teeth, the el…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:40 AM
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Based on her description she is almost definitely South Asian.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 02:06 AM
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If she's in grad school for STEM there's guaranteed to be plenty of ethnic men probably even in the same classes as her. Of course she's only laser focused on muh white guys though, all others might as well not exist to her.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 02:01 AM
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It's because there are a lot of deluded borderline manlets (5'7") who think they are 5'10". So anyone who is actually 5'10" is 6'+ to them. I'm an actual 5'10" as measured by a doctor barefoot, even compared to the younger cohort I am pretty bang on average maybe even on the taller side. And this is in a major city.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 01:43 AM
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Same firefighters without the forced perspective: https://i.imgur.com/1Ro4wQO.jpeg Basically the same height lmao. Stop falling for JBW propaganda
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 08:15 PM
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They may have lower standards for your looks, but will then have higher standards in other areas. If you're in your early-mid 20s a similarly aged woman may not mind if you don't have your shit together yet, but someone in her 30s definitely would. No woman wants to support and play mother to some average guy. This goes out the window if you are insanely good looking though ofc
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 10:09 PM
1

When people say non-NT they just mean autistic or on the spectrum. Psychopaths are non-NT as well but you have the muh "dark triad" copers convinced then women only go for these types. I would go even further and suggest that many self professed non-NT incels aren't technically autistic or even aspie but just have garbage social skills from never interacting with people not through a screen.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 09:45 PM
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I exclusively date older these days. I'm early 30s and date 40+, oldest 50 so far. I could date women my age but I don't really care to. Older women try way harder, don't play dumb games, are down to earth, have way more interesting things to talk about, and are much more pleasant in general. I would consider myself selective and don't date just anyone just because they are older, all are fit and look easily 10 years younger due to taking care of themselves and good aging genetics. They are also…
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 08:03 PM
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Braindead take.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 07:42 PM
0

Elon Musk and you are both human beings. The reason he is the richest man in the world and you aren't is not because he is white or inherited massive privilege from his parents. He's just a better human than you.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 04:19 PM
2

Refusing or failing to acknowledge racism does not mean racism does not exist. Racism is prevalent and even possibly worse in Europe, yet Europeans are the ones rolling their eyes at Americans and saying "why do you talk about race so much! we just don't see race here at all!" as if their own shit doesn't stink.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 02:57 PM
2

Interracial dating is a zero sum game as long as there are a finite number of people. Some races win, others lose, and so it's worth analyzing.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 02:55 PM
20

They all are.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 08:09 PM
1

How do the local men in LatAm feel about white foreigners having sex with and openly dating the local women? Serious question. I know in SEA they seemingly never put up any issue with it which I imagine is a major reason it's such a popular destination for western sexpats.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 05:59 PM
3

Curvy (as in, an hourglass figure with small waist), because this figure serves as definitive proof she has ideal genetics for fat distribution. She could lose weight and look good, and gain the weight back and still look good. With a slim woman, it's a crapshoot because you can't really tell for sure how she would look if she gained weight, and she probably will at some point.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 07:16 AM
0

Why do you find it so surprising that people want to know how their appearance rates compared to others in this ever increasingly lookist world?
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 09:40 PM
3

I am fully straight and would not appreciate it, because in the lack of her interest in me, this act could only mean she considers me as someone who can be manipulated into doing her bidding, whether that is giving her attention or money, which I find disrespectful.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 09:29 PM
7

I would go even further and posit that prejudice in general (based on race, gender, or any other criteria) is inherently a feminine quality. Being prejudiced is basically "playing it safe". Stark contrast to the masculine quality of risk taking.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 07:33 PM
1

You realize this is the exact rationalization used by racists since the beginning of time. "It's not about race. We don't see race. It's just that [ENTER RACE HERE] people tend to be more X and/or less Y, and this explains why they are treated differently, again nothing to do with race we pinky swear!!!!!"
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 04:10 AM
3

She's a decent looking, slim Asian woman. let's be real, it was always going to work out for her, there is no shortage of rich guys who would lock her down in an instant even into her 40s. Extremely rare WMAF win though, usually the couples are totally lopsided in attractiveness
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 04:15 PM
2

If you surveyed 100 racists, 100 of them would say they are not racist, and 90 would truly believe it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:32 PM
2

When a woman sees a man on the internet asking for dating advice, she immediately assumes he is undesirable for dating (as in ugly and or socially weird). Because if the man was even remotely desirable, he wouldn't need advice, much less go to the internet for it. And because women generally can only empathize with children and other women, her instinct therefore is to be protective of any women the man may be interested in, specifically with the intention of allowing them to let him down easy s…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:24 PM
2

I don't buy this argument, it's basically the Just-world fallacy. White men marry non-white women at far higher rates than vice versa leaving non-white men far more likely to be uncoupled. even if it is a matter of people "just falling in love" there are clear racial factors privileging white men at play here. Of course you can't say anything about it in open discourse because then you'd not only be pointing out white male privilege but also be implicitly criticizing the POC women who pick these…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 04:53 PM
8

I won't speak of race mixing, but I think interracial dating is an institution that ultimately benefits White men at the expense of everyone else, yet people think it's progressive for some reason.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 12:27 AM
3

A society comprised of blue pilled men will be more peaceful, cooperative, and productive than one consumed with red pill (constant strife, heavy inter- and intra-sexual competition) or black pill (people not doing anything out of defeatism) type thinking. You can see that countries which are the most blue pilled are the most successful in many objective metrics. Then, look at parts of the Middle East, South America, Africa, and even Europe. Constant warfare, illegal drug trading, gang activity,…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:08 PM
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You realize you just immediately assumed OP was in a "foreign" country, probably because Peru is foreign to you and so that must be the case for everyone else. Maybe consider what this says about your ability to empathize.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:22 PM
-6

I feel like most people these days aren't going to be mentally adults until mid or even late 20s. There's still time.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 12:32 AM
0

Cold approach is retarded and wouldn't work for the chaddest chad most of the time. Women, to be comfortable in receiving a man's advances need to be in an environment where they can reasonably expect to be approached (like bar or night club), and if not, at least have seen the man multiple times, enough to become comfortable with him and recognize that he's not some kind of social weirdo or pervert. For example: if you see a hot cashier, don't ask her out immediately the first time you see her …
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 02:03 PM
0

Online dating is dead. I still think it's easily possible to meet people in real life, the problem with most incels is they have 0 hobby overlap with women and don't go to bars/clubs so there's no opportunities for them.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 01:50 PM
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I don't think it's hypocritical for white women to date white men while still acknowledging that blacks face systematic racism from whites. They aren't exactly sending any sort of message by dating within the same race, it's just expected. It def is hypocritical when non-White women do it though and they know it. That's why they do all sorts of mental gymnastics to rationalize it as being empowering, like they are "colonizing the colonizer" or helping to dilute the white race lmao. It's just hyp…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:21 PM
18

The thing these socially and sexually successful men have in common is that they are neurotypical and attractive enough that they get automatic positive or neutral attention/treatment, but not so attractive that they can get by on looks alone and so have to develop their personality. They probably have basic interests, watch football, go out for happy hour with the boys and complain about the weather and politics. They 100% are not spending any time on incel or pill discussion spaces and probabl…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 12:37 AM
-3

I was "approached" no fewer than a half dozen times at the dance club I was at this weekend. Girl A pulled the classic "oopsie dropped my jacket please pick that up for me" routine as we were at the bar ordering drinks. Girl B and her friend were hovering very near me at some point, so I took that as an opening to talk with her, but she got pulled away by her friend. I didn't follow her and lost sight of her in the crowd. As she walked by later to go upstairs she playfully grabbed onto my should…
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:38 PM
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That's a good point, it seems like a projection and could also partially explain why women are so hesitant to shoot their shot. If the man rejects her, she thinks he must feel of her the same way as she does when she rejects an ugly male. Hopefully there is a good takeaway for any women here. If a man rejects you that just means you aren't his type. Unless you are behaving REALLY aggressively or creepily he probably won't be physically disgusted or think any less of you for it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:16 PM
3

Almost every gender based double standard stems from the fact that having children (as in, keeping the species alive) is infinitely riskier and more demanding on the female body than the male body.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 02:35 AM
2

I do think women genuinely are attracted to niceness. But the key factor is what drives this behavior. Take a look at "niceguys" for example. These people are clearly not actually nice, they just act this way in an attempt to attract women and the niceness masks an attitude that is usually entitled or toxic. Then, there's people who outwardly seem nice just because they are pushovers or weak. Women can pick up on these and don't consider the niceness stemming from them to be genuine, but rather …
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 02:14 AM
13

Don't listen to the shortcels who say going to the gym is cope or pointless Being fit with muscularity is always a halo as long as you don't overdo it (which would be impossible without juicing anyway)
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 07:28 PM
3

They are not average faces, they are averaged, or composite faces generated by blending together pics over a large sample size, big difference.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:00 AM
2

Left is good looking right fits the stereotype.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 10:10 PM
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The height topic as it relates to lookism is so misunderstood because generally people conflate height with overall body shape/composition. Women may reject a 6ft guy for being "too short" but then date another guy exactly the same height or even shorter if his body is better. When women go "tee hee he's so tall" they really mean is he meets some kind of baseline height which probably isn't actually so high, and find the rest of the body to be attractive. For example, I am 5'10" barefoot which i…
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 10:04 PM
6

trying to drive r***cels to suicide
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 08:47 PM
4

Firstly I think it's important to distinguish between looks (aesthetics) vs sex appeal (SMV). Too many people in the lookism sphere conflate these two when they are entirely separate (although oftentimes correlated) concepts. All women, even ugly ones have at least a moderate level of sex appeal while the majority of men have little to no sex appeal. So objectively speaking, women do have higher sex appeal. But this may not be the question you are asking. From an aesthetic POV, it is of course g…
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 05:25 PM
2

Have you actually been there or do you just assume it's nice just from the tourist-trap photos? Ukraine is one of the most corrupt countries in europe with a very undeveloped economy and would absolutely be described as a shithole by racists if it wasnt mostly white, its GDP per capita even prewar is lower than most of South America with almost comparably high crime rates. Because of the poor economy the purchasing power is terrible and Ukrainians cannot afford things that people in the west tak…
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 04:28 PM
5

You are lying to her by omission unless you tell her exactly what you said in your first post.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 11:17 PM
2

You say that now because conditions are more favorable to women due to the west being in in a comfortable position. But with the impending economic collapse / other massively destabilizing event, I think most parents who had preferences for daughters will be eating their words and wishing they had boys instead.
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 03:46 PM
2

It's quite clear throughout history that boys are preferred during times of hardship, such as famines or total war. When conditions are good, this reverses. This trend also tracks very closely with preferences/tolerance for female leaders. It's the same with companies. If a company is tanking or in its early stages, you want a male CEO to make the tough decisions. If things are fine and dandy, hire/elect a woman as she would be trusted to maintain status quo.
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 03:36 PM
3

redpillers by definition do all the chasing, to compensate for lack of looks or natural charisma. men who are naturally attractive to women don't have to use PUA tactics and rarely chase due to abundance mentality. Redpillers are basically very aggressive salespeople. Nobody WANTS to buy whatever bullshit they are trying to sell, and many despise them outright, but they will make a sale once in a while after great efforts and consider that a victory. Usually the girl regrets it after the fact. B…
/r/AllPillDebate16/05/23 02:23 PM
1

This is very true. Non-white women who can ingratiate themselves with white people will do just that, and typically in doing so will ditch all ethnic pride and allegiance, or only put up a weak virtue signalling facade. This trend is reflected on reddit itself. Just compare the subreddits for black women vs Asian women (/r/blackladies and /r/asiantwox). Certainly black women are not over-represented on reddit compared with Asian women, yet the former subreddit is extremely active while the latte…
/r/AllPillDebate15/05/23 05:06 PM
1

I think you're a larping instigator but you are correct that there is a lot of hypocrisy in the Asian manosphere as it pertains to white worship and WMAF vs AMWF dating. The colorism/racism accusations are dumb though because ALL cultures are colorist so its not unique to Asians at all.
/r/AllPillDebate14/05/23 06:11 PM
3

From the Wikipedia article on PPD: The cause of PPD is unknown. Hormonal and physical changes, personal and family history of depression, and the stress of caring for a new baby all may contribute to the development of postpartum depression. From the Wikipedia article on PPP: Despite significant hormone changes that occur around pregnancy and childbirth, there is little evidence supporting hormonal causes behind PPP.
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:28 AM
1

Totally untrue. Scientists are unsure of what causes PPD and PPP, full stop. All existing theories are lacking in evidence. OP's theory is not any less valid.
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:19 AM
9

All sorts of mammalian species have been observed in the wild to deliberately abandon, kill, or even eat their own offspring. The prevailing theory is that the mother detects it is unhealthy or otherwise defective in some way and therefore not worth spending the time and resources to raise it. I don't think humans are so different, but it is very taboo to even suggest that there is any actual motive for maternal infanticide and so it is commonly written off as if the woman was just experiencing …
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 11:49 PM
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It's lookism as per usual. They are small and cute so they must be innocent and pure. the truth is completely different of course
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 04:00 PM
3

Game is heavily misunderstood, because the only people intensely thinking about it and discussing it on the internet are literally autistic. What we call Game is innate to neurotypical men. It's not something they have to think about consciously. And it absolutely does work. If you ever go out to social outings like bars and such you would see this to be the case. Basic guys, not particularly tall or attractive, maybe even shorter and out of shape, managing to chat up decent looking women, get t…
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 07:05 PM
4

One of the most blackpilling things I've ever experienced firsthand was with a coworker who was a married woman with children. It was common knowledge around the office that she had relationship troubles since she took her personal problems to work. However, the exact status of her relationship was different depending on who she was talking to. With other women and men she wasn't interested in, he was her husband, and they were trying to work through things. But when I would talk to her, he was …
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 02:59 PM
1

I think your hair looks good longer as well. The beard is what makes the bigger difference
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 10:27 PM
0

By your definition it is not possible to not simp unless you are asexual or simply don't interact with women at all. All PEOPLE will always give preferential treatment to those they want to have sex with. For straight men, that is virtually all women. Blackpillers are in fact hypocritical and will simp when the opportunity presents itself (as in, they won't go out of their way to do so but will if for example a girl joins their group chat). However the blackpill itself is a very flawed ideology …
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 09:55 PM
4

What means simping? Does talking to women at all make you a simp? Do you basically have to be this guy to not be a simp?
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 09:11 PM
1

Everybody can tell. But the truth is 99% of men of any age would rather date a lean and pretty 30 year old woman than a meh looking 20 year old, and probably the same percentage would rather date a modelesque 40 year old than an obese, ugly 20 year old. PUA and redpillers are purposefully obtuse on this as a gaslighting mechanism to try and shame older women into thinking their dating value is less simply for their age. It's basically just a form of negging.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 06:55 PM
3

Because men can impregnate women and women cannot. It's literally this simple. All men (even Chads) are inherently at least a little disgusting to women because their proximity is an impregnation risk to them.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 06:25 PM
2

Aside from the eyes I don't think she looks very stereo-typically Asian.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:22 PM
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Being tall, having at least an average size dick, being White, having hair, and being muscular is what’s widely desired by most women Interesting, this is the first time I've seen any woman openly admit to having blanket racial preferences, usually it's just things like height or fitness. Is this one of the things that you discuss with each other?
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 08:51 PM
1

This particular story is proof that aesthetics transcend femininity or masculinity. The trans is far more masculine looking than the cis and still gets more attention because she's just better looking. The racial aspect is a red herring.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 08:01 PM
2

0 line breaks, did not read. jfc not trying to go blind just to read some schizo musings
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 04:42 PM
2

Sex isn't a big deal. But it's not just about sex. Any idiot can save a few hundred dollars and go to a prostitute and lose his virginity. The truth is that sex is a proxy for desire. What both men and women yearn for is to be DESIRED. When people say "sex isn't a big deal", they are being purposefully daft because they don't want to say "Being desirable isn't a big deal" which is far more dismissive and unreasonable.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 03:58 PM
2

If he's able to make significant money off of travel vlogs there definitely is something to him, probably interesting/charismatic. This is especially attractive to women who can support themselves financially. He may not be very good looking but probably presents as non-threatening which is why they let him stay at their place. This is actually interesting because I have something somewhat similar going on. I recently moved to a major city which I'm unfamiliar with and where I don't know anyone,…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 03:07 PM
1

It used to be that women would go on dates with men they aren't attracted to just for the free food/drinks. Nowadays, just being a meal ticket is not enough, you must bring some other things to the table as well whether good looks, subservience, or outright cash/gifts. It's madness.
/r/AllPillDebate01/05/23 11:40 PM
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I saw a protip that if this happens, tell the scammer you're underage and will report them to the FBI if they share the images, good chance you never hear from them again
/r/AllPillDebate29/04/23 06:06 PM
9

This is pure projection, she's probably a self-hating JBW who automatically associates attractiveness with whiteness. Kpop stars look Asian, not white. White people don't have some kind of monopoly on light skin. On average, E Asians are just as pale (only difference is yellow undertones instead of red), and paleness has been considered attractive in E Asia for much longer than they have been exposed to western beauty standards. Lightening your skin isn't trying to make yourself look white any m…
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 09:35 PM
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LARP post
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 05:42 PM
14

In a decade the majority of men will have dropped out of the dating market entirely in favor of virtual gfs. Poly relationships with 1 man and multiple women will become commonplace and accepted. Sugar dating will become mainstream.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 05:36 PM
1

I think you are conflating media representation with real life. Most men are tribalistic and see dating as a zero sum game. WMAF outnumbers AMWF by a huge margin. As long as this remains the case most white males aren't going to take issue with it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 02:43 PM
3

It is not at all common for white men who fetishize/date Asian women to hate Asian men. You see this claim made on the internet a lot but it's largely perpetuated by bad faith actors within the Asian manosphere to create racial tension. I'm not saying it doesn't happen and maybe it's more prevalent among the boomers but the vast majority are ambivalent about Asian males. I would say it's far more common for the women in these relationships to openly dislike Asian males.
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 01:26 AM
14

Very closely tracks the 5 stages of grief Blue pill is denial Red pill is anger/bargaining Black pill is depression White pill is acceptance
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 12:35 AM
1

This is a meme from the Asian manosphere that I suspect is being perpetuated by some bad faith larpers within the community to create racial tension. In reality, White men in general have nothing against AMWF, not because they're open minded or supportive but because it happens so rarely that it's more a novelty than anything else. Seriously, go outside in any diverse city like SF or NYC and you may see like 1 or 2 of these couples on a BUSY day, meanwhile over the weekend I saw at least a dozen…
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 08:07 PM
1

Nobody can accurately assess their own attractiveness. If multiple women have approached you and given you their number unprompted then you are definitely GL. PM me a pic and I can let you know my unbiased opinion
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 05:41 PM
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It's because of the first one giving herself a 10. That anchors the rest of them to her, if they rate themselves any lower that would be to directly acknowledge that they are less attractive which no one wants to do. If each rated herself in isolation there would more be variation.
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 05:26 PM
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B1ackpill is about LOOKS. Your anecdote isn't compelling because we don't know what you look like. You have left out the most important piece of information. This is like if I went to /r/weightloss and posted that dieting may not work because I tried it and didn't lose weight, without saying what the diet was. Based on your experience I would bet good money that you are both good looking and present as mostly neurotypical.
/r/AllPillDebate24/04/23 05:02 PM
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We are all NPCs. Some just had better luck with the RNG.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 05:10 PM
1

The cope goes both ways tbh
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 04:06 PM
2

Similarly attractive couples where the man otherwise brings more to the table. In such a couple where the man does not outearn the woman, do at least half the housework for example, she would be unhappy and looking for an upgrade.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:11 PM
1

There's basically 2 kinds of stinginess. One is based on practicality, a man may be stingy because he actually needs or wants to save money. The other is as a redpill dating strategy, a man with a lot of money may make his date pay for herself because he doesn't want to be made a meal ticket, or as a form of negging, basically suggesting she isn't attractive enough for him to want to pay for her. This of course contrasts with the bluepill strategy of simping for OnlyFans girls.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 07:26 PM
3

in the club for sure, Tinder doubtful though. Online dating in general is mostly about the face
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 11:54 PM
1

You should always pay on the first date, if you picked the place. The key is to specifically pick a place that isn't very expensive. If she's actually interested in you, this won't matter and she'll go enthusiastically, have a good time on the date, and you look good for paying for her even if it's not much money. If she refuses the date or complains because it's not upscale enough or whatever for her, then obviously she is a gold digger and you have saved yourself time, money, and future embarr…
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 07:13 AM
1

Mope
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:41 PM
3

You have a narrow upper body relative to your waist/hips. Un-ideal but it's mostly down to bone structure so not much can be done about it. Recommend doing weight training to gain muscle and get bigger shoulders to help your proportions.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 07:21 PM
1

How tall?
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 07:19 PM
0

Exception that proves the rule. Same with Verne Troyer, if they weren't so abjectly rich and/or famous they'd have no shot.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 06:48 PM
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Lookism is real, but blackpill only applies to the extreme ends. If you are a male 9 or a 10 (model tier), women will trip over themselves to have sex with you no matter what. If you are a 1 or 2 (legit deformed, not just ugly), it is over for you no matter what. If you are anywhere in between, it's what you make of it. You will have to employ both red and blue pill techniques to get sex and relationships. This is what most incels fundamentally don't understand. Nothing is handed to you on a pla…
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 12:12 PM
3

I assume everybody from group 1 is in their teens and everyone from group 2 is in their 20s. At least I'd hope so. Group 1 gets a bit of a pass for their idiocy because their brains are not fully developed and are lacking in experience, plus might still be entitled due to living with and being supported by parents. But for any grown ass self sufficient adult who hasn't mentally matured beyond that, virginity is definitely the least of their issues
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 08:46 PM
4

Getting sex becomes exponentially easier with each subsequent partner. An unattractive male virgin can't afford to be picky at all and should be seeking to lose his virginity as soon as possible
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 07:44 PM
6

PSL and blackpill autists try to boil attractiveness down to a few key physical features like height or jaw when in reality it is holistic and does include personality traits like confidence Whether Andrew Tate is actually attractive to women is questionable. He certainly acts like it because this is what makes him money. Most women would actually say they find him reprehensible
/r/AllPillDebate26/03/23 01:29 PM
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No, it's looks. Face = body in terms of overall importance (not just height, but also frame, shape, muscularity, body composition etc.) So the face does carry massively disproportionate weight, but is possible to overcome a meh or even ugly face if the rest of the body is attractive This is why people like Adam Driver are considered good looking despite his weird face, he is tall, lean, and broad which gives him a massive edge because most tall guys are either narrow ectomorphs or fat as fuck.
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 09:12 PM
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