tenheo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Initial resistance is a test	Fundamentals	tenheo	/r/seduction	30/06/24 12:05 PM

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1	AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier? Maybe it is time to for me to move	/r/seduction	13/07/26 05:42 PM
1	AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier? Try being and attractive guy, amazing physique, highly educated, read philosophy, have healthy levels of self confidence, no insecurities, self respect, respect boundries and super chill. Have not been on a date since more than a year ago. Hell maybe 2. I also don't actively approach so I know it's my fault but still... What I experience is that people hold me to a much higher standard while if I'd be less attractive things would have been much easier.	/r/seduction	13/07/26 02:17 PM
5	This is how you cure nice guy syndrome May I add that sometimes, especially in the beginning, you will tilt your scale a bit too much towards the pther extreme if you are a recovering nice guy. It is part of the process. Then you calibrate to find your true essence.	/r/seduction	10/04/26 08:40 AM
1	why she walks past like you don’t exist That's ok. She wasn't your match then. What this does is make sure that your match gets the right energy. Don't worry about the ones that are not interested, let them be and move on. Focus on the ones that want you.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 05:43 PM
6	Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired? She said I make her feel really sexy	/r/seduction	27/09/25 05:43 PM
3	i went to 3 bars for a total of 2 hours and couldn’t make a single approach Go with the intent of being rejected	/r/seduction	06/09/25 09:42 AM
2	Why men obsessed with analysing women's signals keep failing with them and why men just need to follow their desires Indicators of interest are real, and even women in relationships can give them to you. Now that doesn't matter she is sold to you right off like a man, for example, would be. IOs are real invitations for you to approach, but your approach still matters. IOs just select girls that would be potentially really into you, so discarding them as this post suggests is just stupid. That being said, I think a man should approach any woman he finds attractive despite IOs. I'm gone, bye.	/r/seduction	16/08/25 12:35 PM
1	Is there any truth to the idea that too many consecutive rejections will damage your psyche and ultimately hurt you? Man, you have no idea how inspiring your testimony is. From the whole seduction community, big fucking thank you!	/r/seduction	15/08/25 06:27 AM
3	Help me with this mess of a situation Bro what do you really want? The advice is always the same, go out and talk to more girls. You clearly didn't want this girl as you dragged her for 6 months. I would also go to therapy and figure out what is holding you back and understand the root of your anxiety. It's going to be messy but you have to do the inner work/inner game. There is no way around it.	/r/seduction	12/08/25 11:16 PM
3	Threesomes: Best way to find a girl from a dating app? They take tests very often and do not fuck around with other strangers like horny sluts.	/r/seduction	11/08/25 09:31 AM
3	The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked? This	/r/seduction	11/08/25 08:58 AM
30	I keep on psyching myself out of talking to normal pretty girls I was in a similar situation before. Basically, what I found out is that I didn't believe I was worthy or good enough for these girls, and as so you are rejecting yourself. You need to just walk up to them without thinking. That's how you brake this loop. Do it for yourself because you respect yourself enough to actually get what you need and want. Do not consern yourself with what the girls might think, that's irrelevant for you as a man. I repeat, do not. Repeat in front of a mirror every morn…	/r/seduction	03/08/25 05:41 PM
1	Can anyone become good at the game? This I agree is the most important factor. Any tips as to how one develops a good vibe? Also, how does one even get awareness as to what vibe one is projecting?	/r/seduction	02/08/25 09:26 PM
-2	The biggest factor for attracting women is having a relative Status Thia year... so far	/r/seduction	02/08/25 10:39 AM
1	GUYs - I need help This my man. You put it so brilliantly 👏🏻	/r/seduction	29/07/25 05:41 PM
1	How to approach myself to women? Leaving a tough period I don't know man, sounds like you're justifying yourself too much. Asked chatgpt to make it shorter and more masculine, chat gpt replied that he trimmed hesitancy and over-explaining to produce this: "Hey, I know you're in the middle of something, so I’ll be quick. I saw your friend and just thought—she’s exactly my type. I'd regret not saying hi." Sounds much better.	/r/seduction	16/07/25 05:05 PM
5	How To Learn, And How It Gets You Girls When you climb a tree, you can pick your apple. For every example you gave, there are hundreds of guys for whom apple Tree didn't drop any apple. Plus, climbing a tree forges your character and develops you as a man and a human being. What could be better than that? There is no woman in the whole world worth trading that for her. A man doesn't wait for the mercy of the apple tree. A man learns, adapts, and most of all goes out of his way and gets what he wants. Guys reading the comment above: st…	/r/seduction	13/07/25 11:36 PM
2	Field report from a 5 day festival To answer your last questions is a bit tricky because it is basically female nature. You took her first rejection like a champ: stoic, and it wasn't a big deal plus you kept enjoying the vibe. So She felt safe and good around you. Then Got her space and time to think and fantasize about you and got turned so much on that went to find you. Basically, she chased you (female chasing is very different from us males). Then she expects a close that happens naturally in her head but is meticulously bui…	/r/seduction	13/07/25 10:03 PM
2	Field report from a 5 day festival Ohh you did well man! Not every interaction has to end with a hookup and maybe by you trying it a bit too hard to make the close ruined your chances. At some point you should have left and came back to signal independance and indifference to the outcome. Like you don't care if you lose her or not in the crowd and then woow faith has brought us together. Second point would be that maybe you are faking indifference a bit too much and becoming too passive where you should be more assertive and domi…	/r/seduction	13/07/25 09:37 PM
2	You can't get girls if you need to get girls to feel good about yourself. You are into something. The answer lies in approaching, getting rejected, seeing that you survived, and that you can handle anything that may come your way. After many rejections, you don't care anymore but you are a persistent motherfucker so you try and improve until you succeed because that's our purpose in life. Then after you succeed once, you go and succeed twice, and as many times as you feel like you need until you find a partner to.have kids with if that is your goal. Enjoy life and the…	/r/seduction	10/07/25 12:57 AM
26	How do I get over my fear of creep shaming? No one cares that much about you budy. Everyone is just thinking about themselves so relax, go in with a swing and shoot your shot.	/r/seduction	09/07/25 09:06 AM
3	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men I see ugly dudes with bombshells all the time. At the mal, at the beach (jesus that drives me crazy), walking on the street... it's insane to think only very good looking dudes get the hot girls. Your masculine frame matters as well... and also luck with money in the mixture. But either way with just looks, or just money you will never experience the raw womans desire like you would with masculine frame.	/r/seduction	08/07/25 10:34 PM
0	'no game, game' - is it taking over? In my understanding, it's different because it is (although sometimes dishonest) expression of desire. Different from ruining other persons self esteem before making a move.	/r/seduction	07/07/25 09:25 AM
2	'no game, game' - is it taking over? It is only true if you believe all that. Now let me tell you this, who gives a fuck? Who gives a fuck she got disapointed? Who gives a fuck what she thinks? She thought you're a wierdo? Good, let her fuck off. She rejected you... so what? You have not all these things you say and apparently it matters to you so much, then go and fucking get them. Stop crying being a victim and start acting and getting what you want. And a bonus tip, do not concern yourself with what matters to other people, conc…	/r/seduction	06/07/25 02:56 PM
1	'no game, game' - is it taking over? Good point. Shit like negging, emotional unavailability is just pure preying on the vulnerable.	/r/seduction	06/07/25 02:46 PM
1	'no game, game' - is it taking over? There is no point, this is a game. We just play and level up. Approach not only girls but also guys who could become your friends. This way you level up romantically and socially. Then you have 2 options, you either make your whole life about learning how to bang as many chics as possible and have fun in the process OR you go on a self-discovery journey where you'll find your purpose and your mission here on planet earth. You are at the start of an exciting journey if you choose to play, go out …	/r/seduction	06/07/25 11:55 AM
1	'no game, game' - is it taking over? Good PUA works but for the wrong reasons. When you do PUA you’re an entertainer, and chikcs like to be entertained. Simple as that. When you see a guy dodging all the bullets, and pulling all sorts of social tricks wouldn't you be impressed? That being said good PUA is rare and most of the times guys who try it remain in the cringy valey of death as it requires years of practice. Natural game is just easier and has more appeal to a broader audience, being "yourself" and naturally atract women is…	/r/seduction	06/07/25 10:57 AM
1	I've been doing daygame in a few countries in Europe and... Sure man!	/r/seduction	03/07/25 10:02 PM
28	How to be untouchable to be more charismatic and attract more women than before This touches on a similar point that I carry as a man wich is "walk in and out of any situation with your head up and proud because you are a man!" So to say nerver shy out being yourself with your flaws and everything.	/r/seduction	01/07/25 10:46 PM
67	Before I even had sex with my FWB these were the indications & signs that i definitely was gonna get laid! Bro was the one picked and gamed	/r/seduction	30/06/25 11:25 PM
2	I have a high body count but I suck at cold approach with regular pretty women This is insanely good.	/r/seduction	29/06/25 10:52 PM
1	Need help in the next step. This hit deep. How would you suggest improving on the self belief?	/r/seduction	27/06/25 11:19 AM
6	Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not? Fuck you... and well done! I guess I'll never get there, but it's good to know some people made it happen.	/r/seduction	21/06/25 06:40 AM
2	What goes through girls minds It's good for newcomers to understand and learn failing points.	/r/seduction	24/05/25 11:55 AM
3	After Action report Don't put so much of your pride into the outcome. Just try again one more time, it will not hurt. Chicks have their phones bombarded with messages from dudes, yours might have slipped her attention.	/r/seduction	24/04/25 12:39 AM
3	Tired of being horny all the time...what should I do....I need some help This is the way	/r/seduction	24/04/25 12:27 AM
2	I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in others Ohh these plays where you have to be bold aa fuck are the best. I have to try this one. Thanks!	/r/seduction	22/04/25 05:46 AM
12	I am tired of motivational jerk off posts around here and the lack of practical examples in others Hard agree with you x2 So tired of the same old "just approach", "build confidence" etc nooby crap. I am talking with two hot girls at a bar who are into me, how do I make it a threesome, what's the play? That's what I want to know. Like you say there's almost zero technical stuff here.	/r/seduction	22/04/25 12:06 AM
8	Just go outside bro… its that simple. Bro keep it going. You are almost there. Keep it going long enough up to the point you don't care anymore if you get rejected or not. It's about you taking action, that's the success and the trick is when you dgaf anymore. Push through, make it happen.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 10:01 PM
1	I've been doing daygame in a few countries in Europe and... I am from nearby, if you want to meet up to do game in Lisbon, hit me up	/r/seduction	18/04/25 07:07 PM
6	The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by another I feel you man. Same in my house. Now that I grew up I see how fucking insane was the environment. We need to break the wheel my friend.	/r/seduction	18/04/25 06:43 PM
1	I've been doing daygame in a few countries in Europe and... Also try Lisbon	/r/seduction	18/04/25 05:07 PM
8	Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this? No. Big cities are easier for everyone. Masculine men have more success in both small towns and big cities.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 02:27 PM
0	Initial resistance is a test Listen up, why do you care? If she's still there and has not explicitly rejected you then keep going, you might get surprised.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 08:25 PM
1	Initial resistance is a test Keep talking. Have a speech ready if you need to about a wide range of topics	/r/seduction	30/06/24 08:23 PM
1	Initial resistance is a test You don't. If she doesn't ask you to leave, doesn't leave herself or explicitly straightforwardly let's you know she's not interested, then it's game on!	/r/seduction	30/06/24 04:50 PM
1	Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? I am struggling with approaching. I don't know how to escalate things.	/r/seduction	30/06/24 10:53 AM
1	guys i need help ...... she's too beautiful and high status Dude get real. No human being wants to spends time with people pleasers ans simps. Get a backbone a value yourself first and foremost.	/r/seduction	11/04/24 08:42 AM
4	How do you know if you’re being a “nice guy”? Stop trying to controll the outcome. That's the real trick that did it for me. Dr. Glover goes in depth in his book but try not being menipulative to get what you want.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 11:14 AM
3	I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub. Ohh that was very romantic. You did well in that situation.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 09:58 AM
2	I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub. Congrats ma man! Just one question, why did you ask if you could kiss? Wouldn't it be better to just kiss? Everything else very well done. The activity to take off pressure isnsure something I'll be incorporating.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 01:31 AM
4	Improving your conversational skills and awareness. Absolutely well put. To add a tiny bit from Models, don't try to impress but see for yourself if the other person impresses you. Don't struggle with the thought if you're good enough, but ask yourself if the other person is good enough for you.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 06:38 PM
16	Have I shifted the power with my fwb? "the one who isnt trying to smash, gets to smash the most." I understand the moto behind it but I must disagree. Bold men of action get laid. The only exception is for these who are either famous or really, and I mean really really, atractive guys. For the average folk: if you’re not trying to smash, you’re not going to smash. Try but don't be desperate, you are very well as you are even without smashing. So act accordingly with dignity and self-respect, and I guarantee you will eventually smash…	/r/seduction	16/02/24 10:10 PM
2	How do I improve my nightclub skills? Can you translate to English?	/r/seduction	06/02/24 07:51 AM
2	Eye contact, relaxed and expansive body language are key to projecting masculinity. Despite what modern society says, women respond respect dominant, masculine behavior Not just women, it is how we human being are as social creatures. Be relaxed, look at the person without looking like you trying to hide anything and you are likely to make a positive relationship	/r/seduction	14/06/21 08:25 AM