tenjed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Some doubts going into my MAP		tenjed	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/15 02:59 PM

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2	[FR] Who do you think you are talking with? I frequently fail here, but its not quite this simple. In almost all cases, my wife is 10x more reactive to conditions than I am. As such she ends up leading the charge on a lot of kid issues because in my view what she is doing is too much, too soon or without reasonable cause. I don't like to look like a slacker (I really don't think I am), but I also don't want to run around doing ridiculous shit just so I can get to it before she does. Thoughts?	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/12/15 05:57 PM
1	The Husband's Dilemma: When to Withhold Affection and play your "mean card" or What To Do (and When) with a sexually withdrawing wife: Clarifying Dread Level 4 and conditioning your emotional availability with her sexual availability Excellent post - I really wish I'd read this a few months ago as I did exactly what you said too many people do: 0 to 60 over night and was way too transparent about it. Needs to be a lot more subtle. Set me back considerably. Writing tip: Whenever you find yourself using "I think" (or anything else that qualifies what you're writing as limited to your sphere of knowledge or opinion) delete that shit. When writing, your opinion and beliefs are fact and using "I think" just weakens the message.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/10/15 11:12 AM
1	Discovered an anti-Red Pill Sub and had to post I discovered this sub and rp from a post in DB.	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/10/15 11:32 PM
1	Lessons Learned by Roja Good summary. Definitely still figuring this out. I think #9 has been my issue... too much alpha too fast has put her in full on panic mode, thinks I'm an asshole, is waiting for divorce papers and scared to death about it. I'm trying to ease back a bit on the throttle now without undoing what progress I've made. She is dieting, treating me with more respect.	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/10/15 03:38 AM
3	What would you say when a 21F neighbor asks for a ride? She's a neighbor, so I'd have just done it but clearly indicated its a one time favor because she's a neighbor in a jam and she'll owe you one. Basically the exact same response I've have had if she was a dude, assuming she wasn't clearly coming on to you (sounds like she wasn't).	/r/askTRP	23/09/15 05:07 PM
1	How to deal with misbehaving 2-year old & contrary wife in restaurant But how does one achieve this with an irrational toddler? There's your answer. Toddlers are like drunk people and generally can't be reasoned with. Some toddlers will sit through dinner at a restaurant but most won't, so you just don't take them unless you want a scene like this one to inevitably ensue.	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/09/15 09:22 PM
0	Opinion on NMMG "sexual moratorium" If things go on for a time that's more than reasonable, I move on to the Red Pill approach and withdraw affection and start going out to do more shit. As someone who engaged in covert contacts before learning RP, I have difficulty seeing how this strategy is different from a covert contact. Where is the line?	/r/askMRP	06/09/15 09:46 AM
2	Alpha vs Beta Traits It's a govt theory: http://www.cbsnews.com/news/does-vladimir-putin-have-aspergers-syndrome/	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/15 09:08 PM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP Yup, I'm a runner and fit but upper body strength is part of the MAP.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/08/15 11:51 AM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP The goal is to bring some passion back into the relationship. We're living more like roommates now.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/08/15 02:26 AM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP Seems to make more enemies than friends. Doesn't mix well in social situations. Doesn't get along well with most of my friends and has few of her own.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/08/15 02:20 AM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP Fair enough, even if the whole story wasn't relevant to my specific questions. I mentioned this has been going on for several years and I'm just now getting around to doing something about it. So I'm well aware of my own contribution to it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/15 08:17 PM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP Thank you for that clarification. Good to know.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/15 06:08 PM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP Excellent point. She's a fantastic mom, not so much on the wife side.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/15 03:53 PM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP As far as the snip. I've never been a fan of the pseudoscience aspects of TRP... too much armchair biology, and I'd put the vascectomy as really close to that line. Yes, that's a good context to put this in. It did occur to me that it seemed odd that such an enormously common procedure could have such disastrous side effects without it getting a little more attention. But it didn't keep it from causing a wave of fear. I did a fair amount of research before letting a doctor mess with my boys, and…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/15 03:52 PM
1	Some doubts going into my MAP You know why they call them babies, right? Because calling them little cockblockers is impolite. Thanks for that - I needed some humor this morning! I haven't learned dread yet but found and will be studying https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/08/15 03:26 PM