tenmileswide Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Beating "the wall"	Discussion	tenmileswide	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/15 04:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	Can we all agree black pill is wrong? totally. blackpillers and being terminally online go hand in hand. it's easy to extrapolate a toxic worldview when you intentionally limit your exposure to said world as much as possible	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/25 09:36 PM
19	Why did you leave the red pill? It simply did not mesh with my in person experience, and online behavior definitionally should take a backseat to what is personally observed. There's nothing people put at stake in online behavior the way they have to do it in person, so it's just worth less. And since red pill is terminally online, it lost by default.	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/25 07:06 PM
2	Purple pill debate sub has been banned That place helped deradicalize me, and I hadn't been there for several years (I don't remember it being nearly as bad 7 years ago when I was there) but it's a shame to hear what it ended up becoming.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/23 05:51 PM
5	Men who like to date significantly younger women creep me out(especially within the 18-23 range) Yeah, this sub is generally pretty reasonable and even handed (certainly infinitely more so than the red pillers) but it still has some kind of strange complex about age gaps. My gut feeling is that it's a wild overcorrection to the toxic beliefs of RP with regard to age.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 05:18 PM
4	Men who like to date significantly younger women creep me out(especially within the 18-23 range) I dated a woman 15 years younger once as she by her own admission had medical issues that were likely to significantly shorten her life expectancy and wanted to be able to have a similar life arc with someone without her own partner potentially significantly outliving her. It happens..Not as frequently as the RPers say it, nor as infrequently as this sub does. I have first hand experience through my job to know it's not really a freak occurrence though, and it's definitely more frequent than the…	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 02:26 PM
12	Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman? Because the RP community finds nuance and balance intolerable, potentially because they find it too difficult or high effort.	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/22 03:40 PM
4	Both a conservative think tank and a progressive college institute discredit major tenets of TRP. So why is TRP still a thing? TRP promises simple solutions to complex problems, a practice that never works but also allows for a lot of salesmanship to wallpaper over that fact.	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/22 11:17 PM
3	What do you think of guys who believe girls are turned on by creepiness and aggression like randomly choking, rape or forcing make out(RSDTyler/Julien fans)? It is a very real fantasy some women have, but the problem is extrapolating it to all women. The biggest flaw that these people have is treating women like a hive mind and presuming that it's some primal immutable desire.	/r/ExRedPill	29/05/22 06:39 PM
2	Your real age matters more than looking a certain age. I think anyone saying it always happens/never happens is trying to sell something or is responding to the people trying to sell something. In my experience, it does happen, and it happens enough to matter. Hell, my best friend is a trans woman and dating a woman like 12 years younger and it seems to be working okay. I've been rejected by someone 5 years younger and propositioned by someone 10 years younger a few weeks later. It's just not a sure fire thing. Your mileage will heavily vary.	/r/ExRedPill	12/05/22 07:54 AM
3	Do women have it easier than men? Thats the thing about makeup in general - when it's applied well, you don't really notice it. Start subtle and work your way up. Also keep in mind to take photos of yourself six feet away because that's how people will see you. What you may see in the mirror may not be what other people see.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/22 12:21 AM
4	Do women have it easier than men? Depends what you want to do. If you want to look more masculine I'd suggest shading to enhance your jaw line, for one. If you look up makeup tutorials aimed at trans men they have a lot of hints aimed at that.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/22 12:14 AM
4	Do women have it easier than men? Idk dude. It works for me too. Never had any complaints. I think you might be putting too much stock into what Twitter bots think. Actually try it and see what happens.	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 08:39 PM
20	Do women have it easier than men? >cant wear makeup to improve face Uhh who's saying this? Literally every single man on TV at any point does. We just had a POTUS that wore a conspicuous spray tan for ever day he was in office. Who is this "they" that's not allowing us to wear makeup because they might be doing a shit job of it	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/22 10:12 PM
5	MGTOW: A Losers Mindset, Or Do They Have A Point? It throws the baby out with the bathwater, as most strict ideologies do.	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/21 09:57 PM
11	Boy thinks opening a door for a woman is being a simp It's the idea that any expended effort in the service of others that does not result in immediate personal gain is wasted time and effort.	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/21 02:03 AM
1	What's "Toxic Masculinity" in your opinion ? Straying from Aristotle's Golden Mean too far rightward. https://aquileana.files.wordpress.com/2014/01/meangolden.png?w=650&h=512	/r/ExRedPill	28/05/21 06:02 PM
3	WHAT IS AN ALTERNATIVE? Ex redpiller here. Best advice is to understand that the asymmetric nature of men and women confers advantages and disadvantages to both that will never be made fully equal (though we can try to get as close as we can) and it's best to understand and support frustrations that women experience while also pushing for fairness for men's issues. Most online activism is unbalanced and focuses on one side or the other. Self-agency should be at the root of any legitimate movement.	/r/ExRedPill	24/03/21 12:07 AM
2	What age gaps actually are alright ? I won't comment on the frequency, but how predatory can it be especially if you're both at least 21? When women do this they're called cougars and its generally seen as empowering, not predatory.	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/21 01:46 AM
43	Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. We are the vanguards of wisdom and winners in the marketplace of ideas. Now hold on whlle I take a soldering iron to my ballsack.	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/20 04:23 AM
25	Red pill lacks empathy. Then he got some statistics showing that men are only 20% heavier so that should have no big affect in a fight. TIL weight classes in wrestling, boxing, etc mean nothing then	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/18 11:46 PM
2	Return Of The King is just full of jealous men Well, yeah, the only women in it were Galadriel, Arwen, Eowyn and Rosie. It's something of a sausagefest. Shelob, too, if you're into that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/18 08:13 AM
2	What it's like being the "fat friend" Discipline will never be unattractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/18 05:06 PM
1	Do you think there are "invisible women" the same way it can be argued "invisible men" exists? [AskTrp] Who tf cares about social acceptability for something you're doing for yourself and not others? Use every tool in your box	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/17 11:44 PM
3	Do you think there are "invisible women" the same way it can be argued "invisible men" exists? [AskTrp] And don't forget makeup. Men gotta live with an ugly face, a lot of women's faces leave ugly territory through makeup. What's stopping you from wearing makeup? Do you honestly think men in movies, advertisements, etc. aren't wearing it too? Hell, I wear it. There isn't as much that applies to male fashion but a little concealer (and by extension, skin care) goes a long way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/17 05:36 PM
3	CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s... Again, not really. 6 figures is nice but in a world where 50% women are doctors, more women are in CS and engineering and college is skewing towards majority women, coupled with the increase pressure from companies to hire women 6 figs is not as leverageable right now or in the future. This also is kind of silly; RP always bangs on this 80/20 rule but being in the top 9% of income somehow "isn't leverageable"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/17 01:35 AM
1	CMV: Contrary to what people say, the peak SMV for men is NOT in their early 30s... It’s about the same, and we see them as weathered too. Considering that men have thicker skin (by about 25%) due to the effect of testosterone.. no, it's not about the same	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/17 01:30 AM
1	Is being short for men comparable to what is being chubby for women in regard of negative impact on one's SMV? But we could also see this the other way: Most small men I know are single. I don't actually know a woman who is single, they can be fat, ugly or too skinny without any curve, they all find someone. This doesn't fly mathematically or logically over the whole SMP though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/17 02:49 AM
1	Why men CAN peak in their 30s. A shit upbringing can put you years to decades behind and theres not a damn thing you can do about that. People don't make the choice to delay their improvements some don't get a chance until college age or even after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/17 01:29 AM
4	Forever Alone Speaking for myself, there is a general baseline: I am generally happy being single. I am not optimally happy, but I am quite happy. I see little incentive to enter into a relationship with someone that reduces my quality of life, merely for the sake of having a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/17 04:25 PM
1	Confidence doesn't make a man more attractive. Masculinity does. If that was an option for me (not the OP but in the same boat) I would. No hair grows there. Just how it goes for me. :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/17 01:53 PM
2	Are there as many types of Stacy/Stacie's as there are Chads? Does every trait for a Chad have a Stacie equivalent? I'll admit, I didn't expect two areas of my interests to come together this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/17 02:30 AM
7	What are some 'romantic delusions' that some people have about dating and love? I'm normally not cynical but "Love is all you need" was written by one of the richest men in the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/17 06:33 PM
2	Why did you quit The Red Pill ideology? Lack of balance. There are some diamonds of knowledge to be found in it, and TRP speaks with enough force to make those points known. But very similar to t-d there is no room for criticism and dissent.	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/17 09:42 PM
2	Women rarely check their Facebook "other inbox". Two stories to explain. Men do. I feel like FB goes out of its way to hide it from you. For that reason I didn't check it until now either. Honestly it's probably got about the same success rate as posting a "missed connections" post on Craigslist (0)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/17 11:12 PM
5	Q4All: How much of a dealbreaker is height? If you think that height alone is a golden ticket, well.. it isn't. I'm 6'3" and struggle just as much. But I think it's safe to say that any woman that "demands" 6 feet to the point of fetishization will easily manage to find some other fault with you, imagined or real, once that criteria is met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/17 04:53 PM
3	what defines "success" in the SMP? It already has in the past.. George Sodini and Elliot Rodger	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/17 10:18 AM
2	If you count things like groping as sexual assault, the 1 in 5 statistic isn't high, it actually looks low Hell, I've been groped a few times and I'm a guy (twice by other guys, once by a girl.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/17 01:16 PM
7	Everybody needs a little love sometimes! It's ours to want. It's theirs to pick and choose. People only believe this because men tend to express their interest directly and overtly and women don't as much. If a woman gives you an IOI and you pass it up, you're rejecting her, just not as loudly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/17 03:55 AM
3	CMV: Society tries to shame men for wanting young fertile women instead of settling for "used up" women with baggage. Must be nice to be able to be able to simply generalize and dismiss everything that doesn't agree with your worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/16 07:13 PM
1	CMV: Genetics is the biggest factor in attractiveness As someone that lacks that same facial masculinity, I call BS I was bullied extremely hard in high school, even early 20s, but over time I learned how to carry myself, be aggressive at the right times (while never being overbearing) and being docile at the right times (while never being a doormat.) It's a balance that only life experience can teach you. Not bullied any longer, not an incel. But I still look like a damn kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/16 10:41 PM
0	[Article discussion] Men do everything they do in order to get laid - Evo Psych Series Best to just accept it and move on. Evo psych provides an adequate explanation for why things were the way they were back in the jungle. Failing to adjust ourselves as time goes on is what will keep us there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/16 04:01 PM
3	CMV: Claiming men don't need to be masculine/muscular while also saying women like hot guys is counter-intuitive and leads men in circles Nice and constructive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/16 08:35 PM
4	CMV: Claiming men don't need to be masculine/muscular while also saying women like hot guys is counter-intuitive and leads men in circles So what do you do if you CAN'T fill that stereotypical masculine niche? If you have lower T, for example, you're going to have an uphill battle filling that masculine niche if your body type and face don't support it. RPers love to just say 'just be more masculine' but that isn't a panacea, nor is it always an option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/16 08:31 PM
1	Calling All Hypergamy Denialists Cadence: It’s sad that it’s so true. To be honest, I don’t understand it. I don’t get it. Sex is sex. Of course, everybody wants it but guys want it more. Pussy power is because we run the show and decide whether you get it or not. While this is true, it's only true because men allow it to be true. Mastering your desire for sex means this power over you disappears. While I don't advocate that men become sexless eunuchs, the less you keep your sexual desire in check beyond a healthy level, the mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/16 04:03 PM
2	Question for straight women: Who do you find more attractive: femboys, or overweight neckbeards. oh god XD	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/16 07:22 PM
5	Question for straight women: Who do you find more attractive: femboys, or overweight neckbeards. I'm a guy but have many extremely feminine traits (smooth skin, big eyes, full lips, total lack of body hair, slim wrists and small hands) I have a few counteracting masculine traits (6'2", deep voice, and I guess 2d:4d ratio if you want to count that) but on average I definitely look far more feminine than not. Upshot is that there are some women that are extremely unattracted to me because of it, and some that are extremely attracted. It's polarizing to be sure; I don't think you're going to g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/16 07:41 AM
1	Online dating: Friend or Foe? "Average" to you is two standard deviations above the national average? Are you in the NBA?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/16 10:42 PM
1	Student at Columbia is reported to Gender Misconduct office for calling himself handsome in class. Exactly what situation is a "Gender-Based Misconduct office" is going to handle? Anything serious like sexual assault should just go straight to the cops.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/16 08:45 PM
1	Two ways to look at "peak SMV" You must have hung out with some genetically gifted folk, then.. or athletes. That's not really the norm. Regardless, that gravy train ends with college, though. Check out the money section of one of PPD's favorite links; without some level of financial success dating seems pretty hopeless. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/16 10:03 AM
4	Two ways to look at "peak SMV" Except that not a lot of men are "very attractive" in their early 20s. In fact, I'd say a small proportion of us are. A lot of us did stupid shit, didn't know how to apply ourselves, didn't have money, life experience, or specialized skills, and if we aren't born into wealth, affording top-tier clothes and grooming just isn't happening. The "very attractive man" that hits every single category: looks, money, strong character and social skills is extremely rare in the early 20s, while very attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 11:00 PM
2	Two ways to look at "peak SMV" I may disagree with a lot of what TRP says but they have never been content to be merely average, so I don't think that applies to any of them except the basement warrior contingent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 10:42 PM
1	CMV In the modern world, men have to deal with just as many, if not more, unrealistic standards as women. I'm a nerd too. I love nerdy things. But liking nerdy things and having a basic level of decorum aren't mutually exclusive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 03:00 AM
1	CMV In the modern world, men have to deal with just as many, if not more, unrealistic standards as women. I'm not opposed to him wearing a stupid shirt, but did it have to be THEN? At that specific point in time when he was being recognized for scientific progress? He couldn't have worn something normal and switched out of it for the bar later? Time and a place, man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/16 02:56 AM
3	CMV In the modern world, men have to deal with just as many, if not more, unrealistic standards as women. Oh, I agree, presentation matters completely; I was just linking it for posterity; and I don't know how anyone could say "that shirt isn't sexist" with a straight face. Even if it wasn't sexist, it's still mindbogglingly stupid to wear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/16 04:48 AM
4	CMV In the modern world, men have to deal with just as many, if not more, unrealistic standards as women. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2834451/Philae-comet-probe-scientist-embroiled-sexism-row-shirt-featuring-scantily-clad-women.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/16 04:24 AM
3	[SPOILERS] Is the new Ghostbusters movie an example of misandry or the hate of it misogyny? The box office was $46m for the weekend. Don't get me wrong, I have no great love for the movie nor the advertising or social justice push behind it, but it's kind of dumb of them to argue with the numbers. It didn't flop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/16 03:09 AM
1	Why are people so sure the only way to have a fullfilling life is to have romantic relationships/marriages? Okay. How old are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/16 03:51 PM
1	CMV: Exceptions to the rule in male attractiveness, such as with short guys or fat guys, are not actually exceptions. Most of the LCS players(professional league players) are ugly or out of shape or already balding at the age of 20 Most? I dunno, only a few are really obviously fat (Steak? Yellowstar?) and there's a few that are balding pretty hard (Lemon, Saintvicious) but I'd say most of these guys are average to above average. http://oce.leagueoflegends.com/sites/default/files/styles/wide_medium/public/upload/fnatic_forlolcom.jpg?itok=tbF8pQiH http://static.mnium.org/images/contenu/actus/LOL/Wallpapers_Leinn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/16 03:46 AM
2	Q4women: what do you think of the rise of male bisexuality? I'm a straight guy, personally - or at least I identify as straight publicly, even though I do like guys - it's just the swath of guys I'm interested in is like 5% or less compared to the number of women I like. Of course, given my interests (I'm a HUGE cosplayer, for example) most people just assume I'm gay off the bat without even looking into it. I will admit that it even having the perception of being gay has made dating very challenging.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 07:45 AM
5	Q4women: what do you think of the rise of male bisexuality? One of the gayest guys I know is a huge bodybuilder, manly deep voice, awesome beard. Assuming your experience alone can fully account for something as varied as human sexuality is a dangerous thought. It's a big world out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 07:38 AM
9	Q4women: what do you think of the rise of male bisexuality? That's totally your right to have that preference, but I want to get out there that masculinity and sexual orientation shouldn't be corralled so closely. There are lots of super manly gay/bi guys, and also very feminine straight guys. Assuming a guy is less manly for being gay is missing the forest for the trees.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/16 07:32 AM
6	Q4RP: Does a woman still want sex if she gives LMR/'soft no's? Do you care? Bruce Lee's philosophy: Learn everything, implement what works. There's stuff that I think RP is plain wrong on, but this isn't one of them. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/16 05:06 PM
5	Q4RP: Does a woman still want sex if she gives LMR/'soft no's? Do you care? Yes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/16 05:34 AM
32	Q4RP: Does a woman still want sex if she gives LMR/'soft no's? Do you care? Honestly, the best way to handle LMR safely is just tell them to split. Or leave, if you're at their place. If they truly didn't want it, you're respecting consent boundaries and putting yourself in a safe position. If they truly want it, they won't let the opportunity slip away and will come around in pretty short order once they see that you're calling their bluff. If they're a headcase and using it as a manipulation tactic, you want none of that, either way, and you maintain your self-respect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/16 04:42 AM
3	CMV: TBP believes women are never like that, WANLT. It has to do with knowing the ways that women and men are wired - knowing that each gender has their own goals in mind when it comes to sex, relationships, etc. This is where "AWALT" or "AMALT" comes in. Having the ability to identify situations where someone has the ability and opportunity to act selfishly in accordance with those goals, and noticing that they refrain from doing so, is important for determining whether you can trust them - and this is where "not all women act like that" comes i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/16 10:02 PM
4	CMV: TBP believes women are never like that, WANLT. All women are like that, however not all women ACT like that. This is a distinction that is incredibly important, but often goes ignored in RP circles. Men and women alike are perfectly capable of acting in a way not conformant with their lizard brain, especially when it comes to treatng other people well - it's called personal integrity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/16 09:09 PM
4	Discussion: Some Thoughts On The Popular SMV Comparison Graph As someone actually in that age range (33) I'd say the chart is more truth than fiction. The last girl I dated was 25 and picking her up was pretty effortless, our first date was a Starbucks date. It didn't exactly take $100 dinners to get her attention. I've had girls as young as 16 express an interest in me too, not that I act on them. Granted I have an extremely young, boy-bandish face (not necessary attractive looking, just young). YMMV though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/16 04:50 PM
3	Why Do Women Hate Men Who Date Younger Women? The thought that men will stop loving us when we get older is a very threatening idea. The real advice is to learn when your windows of opportunity are and then act, and also realize that it's not the same for both genders. Men experience the same dissonance in their teens and early 20s. I didn't experience true success until my late 20s, personally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/16 05:08 PM
1	Are most men bothered by sexual comments from women they don't find attractive? I am. Though it's not from how I feel, it's the knowledge that if I have to reject this girl, she's probably going to take it hard and I'm going to feel bad for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/16 02:46 AM
7	The Wall doesn't imply women's attractiveness falls off a cliff at a certain age. It refers to a point when women's expectations exceed her value, where she can no longer use her beauty to get what she wants. And being attractive to men is inconsequential at best when it comes to having a career. There's 1,001 studies that say otherwise, I'll link a few. It goes for both men and women. http://www.businessinsider.com/beautiful-people-make-more-money-2014-11 http://money.usnews.com/money/personal-finance/articles/2012/08/30/why-it-pays-to-be-attractive http://www.nydailynews.com/news/money/attractive-people-paid-better-work-attention-bosses-report-article-1.466980	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/16 01:33 PM
1	CMV: These pic sums up why beta bucks and divorce rape happens Had a similar problem. Got veneers. Night and day difference. He could also get a lighter shade on his teeth that way which would help tremendously. I don't think they're protruding so much as they appear pointed and uneven, which is easier to fix than alignment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/16 03:38 PM
1	CMV: These pic sums up why beta bucks and divorce rape happens Deformed is going way too damn far, but there is something about the way he looks that I can't attribute to things like bone structure, etc. There's a sort of.. emptiness in his eyes, in his expression. The way he's showing his teeth, especially in the first pic. A more reserved smile would do him way better here. The way he's looking into the camera. His body language looks uncomfortable, the way he's clutching her in the one pic. Like.. there's nothing terribly wrong with the raw materials, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/16 03:22 PM
2	CMV: Heartiste/Roissy is a self loathing beta It was way different back in the day. It was way more relevant to RP years ago, now it's just weird racist diatribes half the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/15 08:31 PM
1	CMV: The "ugly guy" who gets laid left and right with attractive women is a myth http://www.businessinsider.com/2009/1/study-rich-men-give-women-more-orgasms ...“Women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their partner,” said Dr Thomas Pollet, the Newcastle University psychologist behind the research.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/15 09:15 PM
2	Men peak in their 30's because they build themselves up VS beta bucks Skin is the #1 factor I think. Avoiding sun exposure is paramount. Skin care regimens are important. Sleep is important. Hydration, exercise (and not just lifting, cardio flushes things in ways lifting won't). Be prepared to budget for some preventative measures (Botox, Restylane, etc; they're not really that expensive). I haven't gone that route yet but I'm ready when the time comes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/15 05:38 PM
1	Men peak in their 30's because they build themselves up VS beta bucks I think you far overestimate the rate at which men "lose their beauty" - at least for someone well-maintained. Someone in a thread a few days ago said something about present day Mark Wahlberg being blown away by Marky Mark era Mark Wahlberg, but present day Mark Wahlberg is still blowing away 97% of the competition instead of 99.5% of it, so it's a fairly irrelevant point. As for me.. maybe it's just a lack of sun exposure and not going bald, and being tall likely helps, but at 33 I don't look …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/15 05:27 PM
3	At whatever age you do decline relative to the year before despite doing everything right, how will you feel about that? A good trainer isn't that expensive, should you feel you need one, and it isn't that hard to cook your own meals. A good chef provides taste, not nutritional benefits. Nutrition comes from the raw ingredients. A good skincare routine isn't going to break the bank either - check out /r/skincareaddiction. And honestly, if you get to his age and you can't afford a little work, you didn't make great investing and savings decisions in your 20s and 30s. I just don't see how anything you listed is off …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 10:15 PM
2	At whatever age you do decline relative to the year before despite doing everything right, how will you feel about that? I wasn't aware that good physical fitness was limited to celebrities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 10:04 PM
3	At whatever age you do decline relative to the year before despite doing everything right, how will you feel about that? Patrick Stewart just posted a photo at the beach on Facebook and he is looking legitimately fit, probably fitter than the average American male of any age and he's in his 70s. Sure he's probably not attractive to women in their 20s but I doubt he would be wanting for female attention were he single. I don't think this point is something anyone in this sub has to worry about if they really are committed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/15 07:10 PM
3	Today is Xemnas' Birthday Agreed. You have to be careful with the manosphere; it starts getting counterproductive the more time you spend in it. TRP may have a few shreds of truth that explain how men and women may be inclined to act in different situations but if you spend 16 hours a day in it you really will twist it to the extreme and start obsessing that all women are soulless ballbreaking automatons that fulfill their biological imperatives without a shred of remorse when it just isn't anywhere near that crazy and t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/15 08:32 PM
2	Discussion: Importance of Makeup on Attractiveness Nah, 6 plates total, 3 on each side. (315 1RM). Would you put you in the top 10% or so for adult men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/15 08:37 AM
2	Discussion: Importance of Makeup on Attractiveness I've never met someone that I would consider decently strong (6 plate DL at least) that got there through "alpha genes" and no gym work. If they never saw a gym I would pretty much just assume they were juicing. I know a guy with really far above average T - amazing beard and hair, 6 ft 3, early 20s, deep as hell voice and when he started he could only bench the bar. Doesn't matter what your T is, "natural strength" without work is an oxymoron.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 01:42 PM
1	Discussion: Importance of Makeup on Attractiveness I'm a male cosplayer. I play mostly male characters but I have done some crossplay, where I learned how to wear makeup. Once I learned how it worked it got extremely easy to see right through it when a woman was wearing it. I now tend to prefer women that are merely cute without wearing it rather than those that absolutely need it to function.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/15 01:39 PM
3	All other things being equal, what are the differences in ideal dating strategy for the man and woman described below? I'm not so sure that's the case because I am dating someone that might be objectively lower than my SMV - she's thin and has a cute face, so my physical prerequisites are met, even though I've dated 1-2 points objectively higher on the physical scale (if we use that chart that's been floating around.) However, she has demonstrated that she has a tremendous amount of character and loyalty which is why I'm looking for an LTR with her, eventually. I know this goes against my previous statement, but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/15 12:02 AM
1	All other things being equal, what are the differences in ideal dating strategy for the man and woman described below? When it comes time to seek an LTR he should focus on women between 1 to 3 years younger and about 1 point below him in SMV. This statement always mystifies me It's saying "I'm interested in the relationship that offers the most to women so I'm going to aim lower than my market value."	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/15 11:28 PM
12	In what way do men mature after 18 that women do not? As someone that's around both teenage girls and adult women quite a lot, that's the biggest hunk of bullshit I've ever heard. Teenage girls are incredibly impulsive and rarely think things through, especially with boys/men they're attracted to. The women in their 20s and on are far more grounded. They make better decisions. They value different things in partners - and I know RPers are going to scream AF/BB at this, but men can make the same shift as they get older, too, selecting more for chara…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/15 12:04 PM
3	If a woman is a 1-3 on the scale, does she hit the wall? And it makes me think, what does a man have to have to be a 6-7? Merely not being fat wouldn't seem to cut it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/15 05:29 AM
6	Where does the average guy go to get validation? Even average men can do some things really well and work their angles. Being "average" doesn't mean you're doomed to not be a master of anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 09:38 AM
4	Where does the average guy go to get validation? Agreed, as someone that tends to get a decent chunk of likes on his posts (~50+ fairly regularly), it really is pretty meaningless. Not as much as 300 or whatever, sure, but I can't imagine there's a breakpoint where that number suddenly means anything worth a shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 09:31 AM
2	Where does the average guy go to get validation? Treat people well and you'll get treated well in return. Take an interest in them. Develop connections. You'll get help in return. RP nihilism is off the mark here. I'm normally a pretty stoic guy but I turned to Facebook or some help during a really tough last few days with a serious problem, despite my RP instincts telling me to stay away, and I had like 25+ responses offering advice, from both men and women. And a lot of it was really sound. It isn't a hot chick thing. It's a social connectio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 09:20 AM
2	What is your take on this guy's dating strategy? Should no one ever get a tattoo because they might look shite in their 60s and up? Never understood this rationale.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/15 10:56 AM
4	The AF-BB dichotomy is a very flawed concept. This is one of TRP's biggest flaws - it sees everything in absolutes.. much like radical feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/15 08:09 PM
6	Who should pay for dates? "Whoever asks" is disingenuous if men are still expected to be the pursuers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/15 08:33 AM
1	Question for RPers: Why do you put so much emphasis on careers? Rp should advise men to become criminals, musicians, politicians, i-bankers, sports stars, artists, and/or famous. Only something like the top .1% in most of these groups, especially in sports, art, and music get big money and not a lot more get enough money to compete with a STEM career as it stands. This isn't viable for a massive chunk of your audience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/15 07:29 AM
3	Redpillers, Roosh says the wall is softer than you think and that women over 30 still have unlimited choices. Your thoughts? Who is "they?" Just random redpillers on the Internet? Can you share any of these chat logs? If it was on Skype it should all be saved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/15 06:52 AM
5	Redpillers, Roosh says the wall is softer than you think and that women over 30 still have unlimited choices. Your thoughts? No matter how much you wish it wasn't, reality doesn't fare well for you. Women are always more attractive than men, no matter the age or weight. You have precisely one note and you just keep banging on it for all it's worth. Both men AND women are capable of maintaining themselves incredibly well into their 30s and 40s and possibly even beyond but it requires investment, discipline, and vigilance, virtues that are pretty well lacking in both genders these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/15 02:01 AM
2	There is nothing wrong with being Beta Bux (as TRP understands it). the women were smart, sane, caring, but not pretty at all. This goes for women and men equally - I don't really get the idea that all these things need to be mutually exclusive. You can be smart, sane, caring, and still find time to invest in your appearance. But the opposite happens, so many folks just don't give a shit and try to compensate with the smart, sane, and caring and it just doesn't work well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/15 04:08 PM
2	Why is that masculine guys tend to want to be excellent, but not want to be "special, different, unique" ? Why not both? I'm a member of a very non-conformist subculture that I am very public about being in, and yet I can play just as well in a button-down corporate mainstream culture that I've also been performing well in. I have no doubt that you have to gain social points in each circle separately, but IME, being in a nonconformist circle doesn't preclude you from moving up in a mainstream circle, as long as you can play by the rules in each - i.e. face tattoos might make you look like a badass in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/15 03:19 PM
3	Plastic Surgery as a Sexual Strategy http://www.webmd.com/men/features/skin-care-its-not-just-for-women As a result, men's skin is on average 20% to 30% thicker than women's skin, Tung says. And thicker skin does a better job of resisting wrinkles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/15 01:49 AM
3	Plastic Surgery as a Sexual Strategy I disagree, at least in one regard - men's skin is thicker, which means it holds up better against age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/15 12:28 AM
3	How has society been lying to men ? It depends. I think talents and accomplishments are a factor in finding women attractive, but only in specific realms. Personally, my interest is piqued by women that are good artists, or good singers, or good at some craft. Not because it's attractive sexually per se, but because it suggests discipline and effort beyond what's needed to sustain themselves in a career. I think all other things being equal it can add a point or two. It won't help them if they're obese or something, but it's defin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/15 04:29 AM
10	Beating "the wall" I'd say most men have a similar decline, left to their own devices. Men aren't immune simply for being men. Most men get out of shape, their diet sucks, they don't lift, their T drops like a stone. Again, I totally support TRP in that saying great effort bring great results, I'm also just saying that it's not something exclusive to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/15 06:02 PM
12	Beating "the wall" Not for having kids, granted, but she still looks significantly better than the "average" 30 year old. I'm using this as a distaff counterpart to the "attractive older man" that TRP supports.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/15 05:03 PM
15	CMV: The marriage rates are decreasing because men aren't stepping up to the plate (when they should be) Here's a repost of my comment from the other thread: What does a man surrender in marriage? -Sexual variety -Significant control of his assets -Freedom and time -Assumes the risk of losing said assets in divorce What does a man gain from marriage? -A few years of life expectancy (debatable, if you divorce it goes lower than where it'd be if you didn't marry at all) -Healthy environment for raising children, assuming you even want them - the one real benefit of marriage here, if children are in y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/15 10:28 PM
1	There aren't enough marriageable men in America for women Will do <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/15 10:21 PM
3	There aren't enough marriageable men in America for women I agree that there are a lot of bad apples in both genders, but the problem is that there is a huge disparity in what each gender gets out of marriage. When you're essentially shaming folks getting the bum end of a stick into an agreement because it's what "real men do" it strikes me as a little exploitative. And FYI: http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/No_True_Scotsman	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/15 10:12 PM
4	There aren't enough marriageable men in America for women No true Scotsman. Besides, who are you to decide what a "real man" is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/15 10:05 PM
2	There aren't enough marriageable men in America for women Let's make a list. What does a man surrender in marriage? -Sexual variety -Significant control of his assets -Freedom and time -Assumes the risk of losing said assets in divorce What does a man gain from marriage? -A few years of life expectancy (debatable, if you divorce it goes lower than where it'd be if you didn't marry at all) -Healthy environment for raising children, assuming you even want them - the one real benefit of marriage here, if children are in your life plan -Tax benefits - a to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/15 09:19 PM
3	There aren't enough marriageable men in America for women The risk-reward isn't there, sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/15 09:12 AM
9	Xpost from AskTRP after being banned for speaking against the iron law of a mod It's why I chose to take my leave of the sub. I posted quite a bit under a different account when it was around ~2k subs and it was still a growing community. Controversial ideas were debated, not deleted; now they've become as bad as any number of feminist subs that partake in the same kind of censorship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/15 10:42 PM
1	Former Solicitor says: "everything TRP believes about divorce is basically garbage." look at the media, bachelors are seen as weird/sleazy The media is merely pushing the agenda which makes them the most money. It's not because they know what's best for people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/15 05:49 PM
10	Is there such a thing as WGTOW? I'm curious as to why a MGTOW that eschews relationships is seen as in control and secure and smart for avoiding what is he feels is a raw deal for him, but when a woman does the same thing she is a "crazy cat lady" or "spinster".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/15 11:54 PM
4	What do you think about the new dating app, 'The League'? Especially considering having a tenth of that puts you in the top 5%, which should be enough wiggle room, yes? This is the thing I've noticed with extreme schools of thought, and both pills are guilty of it - you get something that might have a grain of truth (80/20) and every time it gets repeated it creeps further and further towards the extreme until you get ludicrous statements like that one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 08:34 AM
7	What do you think about the new dating app, 'The League'? I think you might be hyperbolizing slightly	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/15 06:37 AM
1	For SMV purposes only, which is better: owning a nice home, expensive car, etc, or having $ to travel and experience new things while living in modest quarters? Experiences will make you far more interesting than possessions.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/15 08:42 PM
1	25% of convention goers have been sexually harrassed, a Woozle is born. Male cosplayer, can confirm. If I'm not interested, many women can get the subtle hint, but there are a few that get very grabby if I gently rebuff them. Either that or they just call me gay. :/	/r/MensRights	28/07/14 07:43 PM
1	Red Pill & Blue Pill Attitudes Towards Relationships The problem is, when you ask to kiss someone, this is what you inevitably look like. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DkoejSJ5qm0	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/14 04:32 AM
2	Job interviews reward narcissists, punish applicants from modest cultures So.. having good social skills makes you a narcissist now?	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 08:58 PM
2	Wheaton has finally gone off the deep end I agree. My intention was to hopefully get him here and open a discussion as to why he said what he did, not brigade his karma.	/r/MensRights	29/05/14 01:49 AM
–	Wheaton has finally gone off the deep end /u/wil Stop smearing movements you have not researched, or know nothing about, especially when you're not prepared to back up your statements. To say that Rodgers represented men's rights is the same as me insinuating that you, as a feminist, share the views of the bigots I'm listing below. "Because this is what the Men's Right Movement does. It spreads misogyny." “Probably the only place where a man can feel really secure is in a maximum security prison, except for the imminent threat of releas…	/r/MensRights	28/05/14 03:41 PM
3	What does the blue pill think the wall is and why do they believe it doesn't exist? I actually can't deny this, either. Black people seem to age super well (both men and women)	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/14 07:29 PM
4	So if not PUA, then what should a man do to better his chances with women? "Be yourself" is code for "figure it out". It leads to problems no matter which gender it's spoken to because it's awful advice. It says absolutely nothing, and I'm pretty sure the person was already BEING themselves before someone gave them that useful little gem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/14 07:01 PM
1	What does the blue pill think the wall is and why do they believe it doesn't exist? Everybody's looks fade. Men and women Not disputing this, but also do not assume it happens at the same rate. Even when it comes to things like skin; higher testosterone is related to more resilient skin and a more youthful appearance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/14 06:42 PM
8	MGTOW, do you think anything will be accomplished by being a part of your movement? Incentives drive behavior. If those incentives dry up, it is absolutely not the fault of the disenfranchised for not continuing the raw deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/14 03:01 PM
2	Article: Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore "Physical prime" - two things about that. a.) There are dudes in their 70s deadlifting 400+ pounds and running marathons, unless you have some kind of horrific illness, your age doesn't matter here as much as you think, especially with the proper supplementation (if you even need it) b.) Even if dudes in their 20s can POTENTIALLY achieve greater physical prowess than than someone in their 30s or 40s, and this I don't dispute, it's a very thin edge to exploit. It's a fantasy scenario, and in real…	/r/TheRedPill	23/04/14 05:22 AM
6	Men, do you dislike watching women eat? I'm RP as hell and I'm not sure what the problem is with women eating. You can eat a lot because you have a vigorous exercise routine or a fast metabolism. When it comes down to it, the end result is what matters; the proof is in the pudding, so to speak.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/14 04:20 AM
0	Question for redpillers, how do you explain the fact that so many younger girls aren't attracted to older men? Holy shit, the vote brigading in this thread is insane. ALL BP viewpoints are upvoted. ALL RP viewpoints are downvoted. What the hell?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/14 10:38 PM
322	Last night I saw a somewhat skinny dude with a girl get challenged to "step outside" by a huge wall puncher. This is how he handled it. "Hence to fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting. "	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 11:40 AM
13	Online Dating Profiles: If a girl has long hair in her pictures and shows up to the first date with a haircut, is it a dealbreaker? It's misrepresentation. I can't say it would be an immediate next but it's not really a step in the right direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/14 09:47 PM
0	Get an app that tracks the number of days left in your life. In a better spot than me. :) I wish I had this thought ten years ago, myself.	/r/TheRedPill	05/03/14 09:56 AM
7	Financial Abortion Agreed. God forbid some accountability is asked for when large sums of cash are handed over for a specific purpose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/14 04:26 AM
2	America's jobless men: Decline of the working man. All time low of US men aged 25-54 are in the workforce...20% are not working I got CS from a bottom tier school - not community college but only a step higher on the totem pole - got a 44k/year job almost straight away, and I'll be passing 100k after about my tenth year out of college. Because it was so cheap I skated away with less than 5k of student loan debt so things turned out pretty well. Only reason I even got this far though was between school and work having 60+ hour weeks for years straight in addition to personal projects to compensate for my classes' deficien…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/14 07:03 AM