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Great story and congrats on the progress. Military benefits will come in handy for plenty of things - VA home loan, healthcare, or pursuing a master's or professional degree if that's what you want. Unfortunately, many women also know this - goes without saying but don't even think about getting married until you've done some heavy vetting. And get a prenup regardless. Well worth the 1k or so it will cost you.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/20 09:34 AM
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Good luck and congrats with making those changes. Move past the anger phase though, hating others works against you.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 10:37 AM
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There's no going back, and that's a good thing. I'd bet that two years from now you won't even recognize yourself today on day one. Keep reading, and constantly apply what you learn to your everyday life. It will help you understand so much of what motivates people's behavior. You'll see women's hamsters spinning in real time, you'll see alllll the double standards in messaging, marketing, and media. You'll see history from an entirely new perspective - how the timing of the equality movement ar…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 11:33 AM
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i started tenpointdog.com. TRP and conservative friendly. hybrid of twitter/zeroedge/reddit/barstool/bodybuilding-misc. also planning to host free money fantasy sports contests starting soon: https://tenpointdog.com/channels/
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:10 PM
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alpha widow claims another victim. cant imagine being in that spot, but good for him for leaving, and he's got plenty of good years ahead. timing-wise, the kids are adults so lucky for him, its an easy move there. the reality is that probably 75% of husbands are in a marriage like this, they just never realize it. a grim consequence of the CC.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 07:28 AM
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this is going to come to a shock to you, but... women like to fuck famous guys. as to this story: this chick INITIATED CONTACT with the guy by DM'ing him to 'hang out'. he takes her up on it (obviously thinking she is DTF - and why on earth wouldn't he think that? FFS he's famous, she's a total stranger, and she DMd him). then she turns him down in the shittiest and cunty way possible. she clearly knew he just wanted to fuck (what - you think this guy just thought you look super interesting and …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 08:05 AM
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Wait til all these women learn about groupies and band whores. Their fuckin heads are gonna explode.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 07:54 AM
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guy looks like an instagram husband. she's hot, but that arrangement seems like hell on earth to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 06:33 AM
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Do you not like fucking, bro?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 01:48 PM
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In the short term, shes probably gonna make you work for it if you want to fuck her again. It will probably involve a lot of shit testing, and her demanding exclusivity. If its worth it for you, go for it, if not, just keep chadding and doing your thing. Long term, she'll probably fuck you again NSA once her hamster has forgotten about it and the leverage she feels she has now has dissipated. Steer clear for a few weeks and pop back around to test the waters if that's what you're after. Kind of …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 06:25 AM
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https://i.imgur.com/y7LkIUy.png
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 10:42 AM
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this aint it. dont be a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 08:36 AM
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the black hole is real. recognizing it, changing mood and redirecting is one of the most crucial things you can learn in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 05:57 PM
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thats why talking about stuff like this (and getting it in writing) before getting married is so important. it sounds like you signed on for being the sole financial provider - if so, be sure not to resent her for the fact you'll be financially supporting her (it was not fair for her to resent you for sticking to your guns originally). the situation itself sucks - i guess it depends if this is something you can live with, or not. moral of the story: talk about your finances before saying i do. p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/20 01:57 PM
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am i missing something? i dont understand why its always been assumed that you will pay for this program in full. do you have a prenup? if so, the financial aspect can be solved pretty easily by her taking out loans in her name to cover tuition and living expenses. the distance/intimacy issue will be more difficult.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/20 01:34 PM
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The same old story. These kinds of girls always get angry about how 'girls are slut shamed for sleeping around and guys arent', 'double standard', blah blah 'im strong and liberated', etc. But somehow they can't connect the dots when they catch feelings for every 8+ tinder bro they bang, but the guys all just keep ghosting. Almost as if women and men are different and have different emotional/attachment reactions to sex. Don't tell her that though. Because that's 'sexist'.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 06:00 AM
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never been to japan and dont know anyone from there, but judging by modern media commentary, their culture seems to be in a zoo-panda-esque death spiral, where they have lost all libido and are content to die as lonely, virgin drones. i could be totally wrong on this - its just the impression i've gotten. but if true, i wonder how much the cultural rigidity and extreme conformity you describe contributes to that phenomenon. given that sex is inherently 'dangerous/exciting/naughty', it seems like…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 03:39 PM
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holy shit this was exhausting to read. there's a lot of issues here, but i imagine that the top priority would be to fix the frame at home before pursuing side pieces. keep working out (dread) and be more measured with your words - if i had to guess you're probably talking too much and not showing enough emotional restraint. let your actions speak for themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 08:44 AM
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Unemployment is temporary, hence the favorable outlook of the stock market. temporary as in... what exactly? 1 in 3 people no longer has a job, and the industries many people work in are rekt beyond repair. lots of those jobs will not be coming back for years. you could drop a vaccine from outer space along with 5 billion doses tomorrow, and we'd still be talking about a serious recession. we're staring at a global depression here - there is virtually no way around it. ​ home values have been st…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 06:27 PM
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it will be interesting to see what happens with infinite helicopter money coming. in 2008 they declared that the stock market is only allowed to go up. now they're gonna add real estate to the list. money printer go brrr, everyone's rent/mortgage gets paid with monopoly money, and despite an unemployment north of 25%, the stock market is blasting off and home values are unaffected. lol, ok. i'm hoping to buy some real estate if/when it takes a dump, but i don't even bother trying to predict wher…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 01:05 PM
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The beta spectrum is even bigger.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 09:04 PM
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love a good success story. you're on a positive path - congrats.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 07:56 AM
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honestly, the days of the bullshit-infested IG/feminist lifestyle are about to come to an end. get your ducks in a row - life about to change for all of us. mostly for the bad, though some for the good.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 10:51 AM
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its all inevitable. best solution is and always has been: make money, buy bunker, retire, drink sweet tea on porch.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/20 11:32 AM
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cant believe we are lucky enough to live in a world where this is our competition.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 10:11 AM
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Not trying to sell you shit bro. It's a free site and an alternative to what's out there. And i happen to think it can be a step up. Wouldn't have dropped my own money and time into it otherwise. I mean, I'm even literally giving away my own money in fantasy sports freerolls - is that not the opposite of trying to sell you shit? Not your thing though, and that's cool too. EDIT: I want to put it out there that Im not doing this for money, or to "level up" as you put it. All my income comes from i…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 06:48 PM
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its not wealth im talking about, its fame. being alpha is absolutely determined by groupie chicks. thats AF in its purest form dude.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 07:47 PM
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alpha is in the eye of the observer, and you are seriously underestimating the lure of fame for groupie chicks. as beta as he is in every other regard, once he drops 'im on tv' into a conversation, plenty of chicks will be DTF (or at least open to it) based solely on that.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 07:36 PM
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unpopular opinion: adam is 'alpha'. bear with me... the single biggest alpha trait in humans is not money, or muscles, or height - its fame. listen to dan blizerian tell it - being rich is like 10x the amount of pussy, but being famous is 100x: https://youtu.be/RX5Iw-XsWu4?t=2828 its worth noting fame is a brand new concept, exclusive to human societies - no other primates form large enough interconnected groups for fame to be a social factor that carries 'alpha' status. which is why 'fame' does…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/20 12:21 PM
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You sound like the type of 19yo guy who went to college and majors in philosophy. Overthinking a lot of stuff.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 08:44 AM
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true, although i cant imagine very many would be cut out for it. i'm one of the most solitary people i know, and even i don't like the thought of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 10:10 PM
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I gotta say, if there's any advantage to being a guy, time has gotta be the biggest one. Time to get your shit figured out, time to mature, and time to change your mind. Women don't have that option; if they fuck up, that's all she wrote. Never thought I wanted kids, but flipped in my mid-late 30s. What changed my mind was the realization of how empty my later years would be without that anchor of family. I imagined the soul crushing experience of having to glom onto someone else's family when T…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 10:03 PM
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the truth is on our side, and the men of gen Z are going to be on the frontlines of the coming culture battles. the tide will turn eventually, and red pill understanding will be part of it. the challenge in the future is to differentiate the (neutral) wisdom of subs like these from the toxic fringes of those stuck in 'anger phase.' more positivity in messaging, and restraint on the negative (think dalrock meets jocko).
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 01:44 PM
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its the way libs are wired - in their mind, they're doing a good thing by promoting 'representation, diversity, and inclusion', so that kids from single mom households can see their own home situation represented, and not feel left out or 'marginalized'. of course, what they don't acknowledge is that by doing that, they legitimize an entire dysfunctional system where women just happen to be placed on a pedestal and are never held to any standard of responsibility, while the role of men and fathe…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 01:16 PM
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I just watched the 2018 version of the Grinch the other day, and noticed the same thing. The little girl and her twin brother siblings in the movie have a single mom- no mention is ever made of the dad (actually dadS, but I'll get to that soon). Initially I thought: 'very weird that he was just totally erased, and never even mentioned', especially since it must have occurred very recently, given the ages of the kids. Now as a parent, I'd choose to explain that situation to my kids by suggesting …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 10:04 AM
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are you planning on wifing one of these chicks up OP? pumping/dumping/ghosting is just expected in the post-decline west, but i imagine id have a harder time doing that to girls with a wholesome cultural background. a more delicate technique is in order at least. campsite rule, or whatever you want to call it.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 03:53 PM
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I agree for the most part - you're describing basic bitches, in a nutshell. But I'd take slight issue with your characterization of men as vertically-oriented, inherently independent, and naturally invested in their own frame. A shitload of men will just do whatever they feel will get them laid. So when the herd meanders toward feminism and 'you-go-girl,' those men tag along repeating the same drivel. Like mindless pussy-following drones. IMO that's basically 80% of guys.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 06:31 PM
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who cares. get past the anger phase - not healthy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 05:08 PM
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jesus christ you truly are the stupidest person ive ever come across on reddit. thats quite the accomplishment btw. statistical evidence does not compound across studies? try looking up methodology on meta analysis you fucking imbecile. yes. in this domain, millions of data points of anecdotal evidence >>>>>>>> peer reviewed research. end of fucking story.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 12:22 PM
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you are that special combination of breathtakingly stupid and unbelievably arrogant. somehow you've have managed to fuck up/misinterpret everything i've said. you're the kind of idiot who conducts 14 different tests and only publishes the one with p=0.048. the kind of fuckup who does a t test on non-normal data, or reports a pearson correlation with a n of 9. you refuse to accept anything other than 'pEeR rEviEwEd sCienCe' even as your face is getting ripped off in real time by someone like me, …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 10:56 PM
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i AM a genetics phd holding scientist. you fucking moron. im AGAINST bullshitters (ie YOU) and scient-ism. which I see everyday amongst many of my phd holding colleagues. piss off.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 09:44 PM
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Im not even going to read your fucking scientism drivel. Get fucked, you fuckin IYI.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 09:22 PM
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no offense, but you sound like a fuckin grad school nerd. first off, when you talk about sampling bias, you misunderstand my main point - im talking about a fat tony, real world heuristic. one thats based on behavioral evidence, not on self-reporting. (thats the reason why you can disregard - for example - twoX posters, because their words do not reflect their actual behavior.) in reference to anecdotal evidence collection, i also specifically mention "virtually no counter-evidence presented to …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:04 PM
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TL;DR: red pill replicates. replication good.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 09:10 PM
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sometimes you really dont need a study for shit like this. the gold standard of hypothesis testing is replication. and whats so powerful about red pill communities and field reports is the statistical significance compounds with repeated, small replications. specifically, because each individual anecdote is very statistically weak on its own, some people will (rightly) dismiss it when presented in isolation. but what the rabidly anti-TRP bluetards neglect (when they demand 'cItAtiOnS!'), is that…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 07:38 PM
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I feel like a separate sub with a less serious tone should be in order for the lads like myself, it's certainly not to the point where you should be "sad" about yourself for being a "beta cuck" lmao. i got something coming, lad. launching next month - integrated combo of forum, twitter, and reddit functionality. plus fantasy sports and handicapping freerolls. positive, anger-free red pill message and content, but not solely focused on red pill.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 08:58 AM
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thanks for the insight. apologies for assuming you're from the US.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 11:09 AM
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Yes, I subscribe to Medium newsletter. Yes, I am left leaning ideologically You're a rare species. I'm honestly curious: how you reconcile your political views with being red pilled. It seems... difficult. Are you an old school blue dog Dem or something? I ask as a guy who used to be a Dem and was red pilled during Obamas second term. I actually had high hopes for Jim Webb's candidacy in 2016 too - that guy might as well have two heads in todays Dem party, but he represents what I used to identi…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 10:17 AM
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guy starts drinking. guy becomes alcoholic. one day guy gets behind the wheel drunk and drives his car into oncoming traffic. guy kills someone. guy goes to prison, gets sober. then guy starts advocating for prohibition and ban on alcohol, because it will 'save countless people.' notice that guy has not taken responsibility at all. he still does not understand that the alcohol did not kill anyone - he did. he is externalizing his responsibility in advocating for the banning of alcohol for other …
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 07:30 AM
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cant handle reality? fine. but you just look foolish calling trp 'toxic'. its just a tool, and tools (cars, guns, table saws) can kill you if you mishandle them. that ain't the tools fault - it's yours. there are plenty of gun owners who are fuckups. doesn't mean "guns = bad, ban guns" or that guns are not necessary. likewise, there are plenty of red pilled guys who are fuck ups (apparently OP is one of em). doesn't mean trp is toxic or fraudulent. and yes, this guy is absolutely blaming his mis…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 02:11 PM
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sounds like you just overdosed and couldn't get past the anger/bitterness phase. trp is neutral, it's the allergic reaction that can kill you. that being said, i don't think the answer is running away from it - your mistakes are exactly that - YOUR mistakes. no one else's. own them and move forward, but the world ain't changing to a shade of blue just because you want it to.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 01:30 PM
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quotes are garbage chick crack.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 01:11 PM
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cant imagine this actually working out in practice, but have an upvote for out of the box thinking.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 01:04 PM
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If this passes as “cautious and slow” these days, what the fuck is fast? Jumping on a bus drivers lap and doing anal as he drives you the four blocks to town? Amazing.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:08 AM
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Great observation, this hadn’t even occurred to me.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:04 AM
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A+ analysis. I saw this post today and tried to comment on it- only to find that I’m banned from yet another subreddit. What a wonderful and open minded platform. I predict that in the near future girls will begin to understand that they are getting played by the dating app dynamic. In response, I suspect that there will be rollouts to “user ratings” features, allowing you to rate the guys you fucked (ironically kind of like that IASIP episode). Presumably to trash the top tier who are crushing …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:58 AM
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every reply there is 'this story gives me so much hope'. how can you read shit like this and still not get it? EDIT: also just noticed that i am now shadowbanned from all these relationship subs on reddit. thought that was just a twitter thing - guess its standard practice now.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 12:02 PM
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Maybe its just 4 years of nonstop fake news and 'some men have vaginas' clown-world insanity, but I am having a hard time these days discerning fact from fiction. My first thought is, this has to be a shitpost. Is this 'poly'/cuck-fetish/'open-relationship' idea any more widespread now than it was amongst the loser classes 30 years ago? I'm not sure what to believe...
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 10:29 AM
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I'm married and happy, but I'm also happily rooting for all the guys going full 'ETD'. Fuck it, just keep winning, whatever 'winning' means for you.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 01:19 PM
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choose a high payoff hobby. ex: pick a musical instrument and master it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:56 AM
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this is the correct answer.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 10:30 AM
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Yes and no. Not all the items you mention can be treated the same. If doing something relatively passive like taking a cold shower, eating something disgusting, or enduring something uncomfortable, it helps to focus only on performing the bodily action, whatever it may be. Just FORCE your body to perform the required motions- move your legs, get under the cold water, keep chewing, whatever. Control your physical movements, and treat the discomfort as something external that you cant control, and…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 09:05 AM
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some gems in here. "you should just man up and get the fukk on. what a loser." lol
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 12:42 PM
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Great, so you've got a grip on likelihood and probability. Let's say you're a bookmaker, and some random celebrity couple is headed for a divorce. Your job is to offer me (and every one of your customers) a market on whether the prenup will be thrown out by a judge. A bad line on your part means I rip your face off. You claim it happens 'more frequently' - so put a number on it. What line are you gonna post?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/19 06:21 AM
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Well, anyone living in the real world knows that 99.7% of women wouldn't be open to the indefinite LTR arrangement. It's just not happening. Even requiring a prenup is enough to turn away easily 50% of women - demanding long term cohabitation with no marriage will thin your options by much, much more. And as you admit - there's no additional upside to it relative to marriage with prenup (MWP). Demanding no-marriage nets you nothing other than standing on principle. What it DOES do is decimate yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 04:25 PM
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Assuming your prenup doesn’t get thrown out, it isn’t going to be any more effective at dictating child support/custody terms than any other notarized private contract you draw up outside of a legal marriage. Sure, a judge can do anything he wants. He can throw out a prenup, and he can also throw out your 'private contract'. For that matter, the state can seize your bank account with no explanation, take your land away from you, and toss you in Gitmo for no reason at all. And while you're detain…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 01:44 PM
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Wow, didn't realize that. Sometimes I forget just how bad the rest of the world has it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 08:57 AM
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This might resonate with guys still in the building process, whose only options consist of the refuse washing ashore in western nations (i.e. low class insta-thots and psychotic party girls who are only suitable for spinning). But once you find yourself in a position with leverage, and tons of options, you'll find plenty of good outs -assuming you're a good judge of character. In that position, getting married is not only fine - it's preferable, for several reasons. First, to not do so is to acc…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 08:43 AM
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Guys - it's called a prenuptial agreement. You can still have a healthy marriage, kids, and all the happiness that it brings. All you have to do is dictate the financial terms of separation instead of letting the state do it. This shit is not that complicated.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 07:52 AM
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