tensukexD Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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16	If you have been banned from dating apps or have given up on them this is for you TLDR: Was forced to touch grass. Turns out women exist outside my phone.	/r/seduction	30/06/26 11:22 PM
41	Is approaching hard or easy outside the USA? From easy to hardest in my experience: Southeast Asia: Feminine, loyal, responds well to a man leading. Latin America: Emotional investment is instant if she likes you. Flirting is a social sport. Australia: Socially relaxed, low pressure, she'll approach you first if you're not fast enough. USA/Canadians: Hardest. Most exposed to seduction culture, most inoculated against it. They're probably reading this shit rn...	/r/seduction	30/06/26 12:27 AM
-1	Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M. Uglies get basic politeness, they just don't get the extra warmth. The receptionist detail is the real clue. You won't find this by reviewing your words. It's in the unconscious layer (weird eye contact, unnatural smile, voice shake/tension, eagerness leaking,...). You're auditing words... Women react to emotions. Best move? get filmed, then review it cold together or post it here. Or... right after it happens ask a friend: "Did I hold eye contact too long? Did my voice sound off? Did I smile we…	/r/seduction	29/06/26 05:50 PM
1	Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M. The receptionist detail is the real clue. Forget looks. You won't find this by reviewing your words. It's in the layer you can't consciously monitor (weird eye contact, unnatural smile, voice shake/tension, eagerness leaking through underneath what you're saying). You're auditing words, topic... Women react to emotions, delivery. Best move? get a friend to film you, then review it cold together or post it here. Or... right after it happens ask a friend: "Did I hold eye contact too long? Did my v…	/r/seduction	29/06/26 05:47 PM
3	First time at a club/bar Got it, so for someone actually running solid game, what's a realistic number out of 10 receptive girls?	/r/seduction	28/06/26 01:25 AM
5	First time at a club/bar What's your rate of success? Honestly, how many times you score vs fail?	/r/seduction	28/06/26 01:20 AM
4	Do yall go out to just cold approach or does it just happen? Both. I used to go out just to talk to women. Also "just happened" as I was doing my daily life. I was too shy so I just practiced every single moment I could.	/r/seduction	28/06/26 01:10 AM
6	Confrontation Openers Are Amazing! Tried those back when I was running Mystery's openers, forgot how fun they were. Gonna bring them back, here are a few more: Wait are you illegal !!? ... cuz looking that good’s definitely a crime ;) Did you just spill on me!? ... cuz now I can’t wash you off my thoughts ;) Did you just bump into me??... guess we’re already getting physical ;) Did you just steal in front of me?!??... cuz my attention’s gone and you look guilty ;) Did you just curse??... cuz damn, that smile’s got me under a spel…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 09:12 PM
1	Confrontation Openers Are Amazing! Tried those back when I was running Mystery's openers, forgot how fun they were. Gonna bring them back, here are a few more: Wait are you illegal !!? ... cuz looking that good’s definitely a crime ;) Did you just spill your drink on me!? ... cuz now I can’t wash you off my thoughts ;) Did you just bump into me??... guess we’re already getting physical ;) Did you just steal in front of me?!??... cuz my attention’s gone and you look guilty ;) Did you just curse??... cuz damn, that smile’s got me u…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 09:11 PM
1	I kinda understand know why this subreddit exist. Appreciate it bro. I’ve been too aggressive hitting on random women at clubs, but I’m solid dancing at parties and can grind naturally. Forget choreography, feel the beat. The only one thinking “I suck” is you (or her if she’s shy). Here’s a simple flow I use: 1. Start with a base rhythm + a couple of spins (don’t linger or she’ll lose interest). 2. Hand on waist -> hip -> pull her closer. 3. Guide her hands behind your neck, sway side to side, light legs contact, not a grind yet. 4. Spin her, c…	/r/seduction	03/11/25 08:46 PM
2	My bf doesn’t know what turns him on or what seduces him Hahaha I’ve done my field research, been with all kinds of women except the wild ones you meet in nightclubs. Just started giving it a try, zero wins so far but I'm enjoying the game.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 07:37 PM
1	My bf doesn’t know what turns him on or what seduces him Hahaha, I’ve done my field research, been with all kinds of women except nightclub girls. Recently started giving them a shot. Zero results so far, but I’m enjoying the game.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 07:34 PM
2	I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desert What do you usually say when opening a conversation with women at the nightclub? With all the noise I never thought of starting conversations when opening a set. I'd literally just go for a hand grab right away and fail, as autistic as it sounds.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 08:21 AM
2	I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desert Thanks a lot, I'm quite new in nightclub game. I made many male friends that night to open bigger sets, never thought of starting conversations with women before trying to take them out for a dance. For how long do you dance close to the group before engaging in conversation? Like 30sec or more like 10 mins? Are those groups full of women, mixed or both? What kind of openers do you usually say to those groups?	/r/seduction	03/11/25 08:16 AM
-1	My bf doesn’t know what turns him on or what seduces him She was 1.45cm IIRC, sex was terrible, her hands would hurt my pecs when she ride me, I could always feel her bones. I would get soft mid sex with how uncomfortable I was. Current girl I'm dating is 38kg being 1.50cm (25yo Chinese), she eats normal and doesn't gain weight. Opposite to my ex, this one has a great ass so I'm happy.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 07:54 AM
7	My bf doesn’t know what turns him on or what seduces him I've had 2 shy bros that took so many years to open up about their kinks... One was into fat women (trauma with skinny girls), the other into schoolgirls. I'm into slimthick women, and I didn't have the balls to tell my very skinny exgf (35kg) that her body wasn't hot to me.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 03:33 AM
9	Hard time escalating with specific girl Trad girls test safety, not smooth talk. You build tension slowly. Build trust while micro-flirting. They love "good men". Drop the “when will it happen?” mindset, she’ll sense it. Instead enjoy her, touch naturally, then back off first. Let her miss that energy. If it doesn’t move after a few more meetups, go for other women. Either she melts when she feels safe, or she’s not open right now.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 03:26 AM
1	I kinda understand know why this subreddit exist. "you have to be very patient with these things" Gave me a new perspective. I danced quite close to the sets, for a very short period of time, and invited them right away without building any trust nor sexual tension. I didn't escalate between strangers to friendly as I don't mind, but women are more wary of strangers. Thank you.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 02:28 AM
11	When she says " I just want to be alone" Raw truth. No one walks away from what excites them, they walk when the spark’s gone or someone else’s spark looks brighter. Lessons for OP: 1. Alone time = PR way of breaking up when the guy wasn't a "bad guy". Keep your frame, vanish. Don’t chase closure, you can’t negotiate desire. Next time read momentum, not words. When energy fades, pull first.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 02:16 AM
9	I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desert Any methods, books, or advice you’d recommend for getting girls in nightclubs? I went out on Halloween, approached several 7/10 girls, got rejected every time. Felt like a total noob haha. Ended up grinding with my bestie and her friends, but I want tips for random girls.	/r/seduction	01/11/25 07:09 PM
5	I kinda understand know why this subreddit exist. I fucked up this halloween too! Went clubbing with a newbie wing. I approached 5 sets of ~7/10 girls and got rejected every time. I ended up grinding with my bestie and her friends, but idk why the random girls didn't bite, I felt like a loser hahahah.	/r/seduction	01/11/25 06:46 PM
1	I easily get 8s and above in nightclubs/partys but tinder/bumble is a desert I need help: Went to a nightclub on Halloween with a buddy. Well dressed, groomed, and I approached around some 7/10 sets to dance, got rejected 5 times. My friend was too shy so I did all the work. I'm ~25% body fat but I lift. Why did I flop so hard? I ended up grinding with my 6/10 bestie who was clearly into me and dancing with her 6/10 friends, so confidence recovered but still wondering why the strangers didn’t bite.	/r/seduction	01/11/25 06:43 PM
1	I’m giving up on flirting and being seductive "I wanna earn money, but I don’t wanna work". "I want muscles, but I don’t wanna lift". That’s evolution talking. We’re built to conserve energy, not chase dreams. Our biology cares about surviving, not thriving. Modern life is so damn easy it’s embarrassing. We don’t fight tigers, just our own laziness. Everyone’s sitting on their asses, mentally masturbating while scrolling through people who actually moved. The bar is not high, it's on the fucking floor. All you gotta do is show up while othe…	/r/seduction	29/10/25 03:54 PM
1	I’m giving up on flirting and being seductive "I wanna earn money, but I don’t wanna work". "I want muscles, but I don’t wanna lift". Yes, that’s evolution talking. We’re built to conserve energy, not chase dreams. Our biology cares about surviving, not thriving. That's why modern life is so damn easy it’s embarrassing. We don’t fight tigers, just your own laziness. Everyone’s sitting on their ass, mentally masturbating while scrolling through people who actually moved. The bar is on the fucking floor. All you gotta do is show up while othe…	/r/seduction	29/10/25 03:51 PM