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| 0 | Advice for men who feel threatened by confident womenshe really doesn't speak for all women. And you gotta get used to be challenged in your manhood. I mean, that's a really toxic statement paired with they want you to outsmart her. because it somehow expects the guy to be smarter than her to be her equal. And that's before we touch that notion that intelligent women are mainly out for men more (or "equally" as) intelligent as her as if (1) the parameters for intelligence weren't a broad spectrum of which two people can display entirely uncompleme… | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceNo, I get it, it's much more convenient to listen to people that you're doing great, did nothing wrong and that self-critique would only ruin a perfectly good day. But maybe think about it the next time your "social awkwardness" will cause you to have a negative interaction. Because it's definitely on you if you prioritise talking to people over empathising with them and if you make interactions all about you and your needs. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 02:00 PM |
| – | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceYeah, but from her perspective that doesn't make it better because she doesn't know that. She still doesn't get the choice to turn down your interaction, and you're still using her professional requirement to interact with you to "build a habit". Being a customers social training dummy is not in their job description, especially when they don't know that's what you're doing. A basic exercises to improve social skills is putting yourself in someone elses shoes. If you want to built a habit of tal… | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 01:36 PM |
| – | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceYou're getting a lot of encouragement in this thread but you're basically cheating with someone who can't tell you to get lost. You're not going to improve your social skills if you don't realise that hitting on people at work is considered inherently in bad taste outside the narrow constraints of this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 12:46 PM |
| – | One small step for me...one giant leap for my confidenceUhm is anyone going to point out to OP that he was flirting with an employee? We rely on OP that he was charming and that she laughed encouragingly but the facts in this story are that he went to target, made "subtle" advances on someone who works there who smiled as they're paid to and was ultimately served with the standard excuse to get out of unwelcome flirtation. I know this is a hurtful thing to hear but you shouldn't use service staff to practice your small talk/flirting and we shouldn't … | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 12:23 PM |
| – | Advice for men who feel threatened by confident womenthey want you to outsmart her. You do realise the contradiction in saying a woman wants to be outsmarted while advocating to treat her as an equal that isn't just a bag of shallow stereotypes? That opinion is basically what will always keep one from genuinely interacting with and respecting the other person on equal terms. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 12:11 PM |
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