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| 0 | My looks = your pockets. | CMV | tequila-shot-no-lime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:04 AM |
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| 6 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Same. I’ve stopped dating men because of how they describe women they aren’t attracted too. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:25 AM |
| 7 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)You’re also shallow af and based on your post my guess is it’s pretty obvious to those around you. Shallow hot girls will be interested in someone hotter than you and deeper hot girls will hate that you are shallow. You should get used to dating 5-7s. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:24 AM |
| 12 | I f***king love rejection.Please know as a woman who has responded this way we wish you nothing but the best in life. 😘 | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:06 PM |
| 0 | In what ways has Redpill ruined your life?Honestly redpill hasn’t ruined my life. At most the mentality has wasted my time and according to one of my ex’es ruined his life when I broke up with him. However women claiming that they don’t date because of redpill guys are pointing the finger at the wrong person. Low self worth is what will cause you to waste your time with rp men. And self worth can ultimately only be found internally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?Because a woman like that has no need for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 11:44 PM |
| – | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Sounds so dumb 🤣. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?The way he acts and the traits he finds attractive in you. Also a lot of red pillers are looking for what you contribute to their life and not vice versa. And there’s a subtle or not so subtle expectation that you should be honored by their attention. Also if he calls women “females”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | what's your advice for a below-average male who has tried self-improvement but found little success?As a younger women who likes older men and knowing many women who like men that age I’ll say this if he never can get a woman he’s probably got some inner stuff that needs working on and he should go to therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 03:20 AM |
| -1 | It’s a myth that women are better looking than menNahhhh. Women have feminine beauty. We have curves, boobs, butts, and marshmallows that can orgasm 7 different ways. For the most part we are caregivers, have seductive qualities that men don’t know how to replicate and we grow life. We are beautiful at many different sizes. Men come in two shapes. Apple or cheese stick. They have a dangly piece that pees or shoots cum. Don’t get me wrong they have other qualities that make them attractive(none of them are video taping random women in the club b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Simps have ruined the dating market.I’m curious what your definition of simp is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?please don’t read FDS especially as a man. Besides the physical harm aspect they are the same side of the coin as red pill men. No. Penis size has nothing to do with being a HVM. Maybe to some women but to most even if size matters there is plenty of toys and positions in the bedroom that make up for it. Generally men care much more about penis size then women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.She’s not obligated to have sex with you until she’s ready regardless of the reasons. Just like you aren’t obligated to keep going out on dates. A casual date means a date without expectations one way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPActually his point on where consent does and does not come in is spot on. Your privilege in being a man is being able to say what seems like a meaningful argument or not for rape. After all, it’s not your safety on the line. I guarantee you though, you talk to any woman and she will tell you the point of consent (presented in TRP) is a very valid point. and since us women are generally the ones being raped, a woman’s viewpoint is the one more likely to be accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | FDS v. TRPI learned more about TRP last year through this paper. Page 6 is specifically talks about rape but it’s sprinkled throughout. It’s written by a guy. https://stars.library.ucf.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1301&context=etd2020 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag.Agreed. It’s ultimately selfish and rude to the poor soul that got suckered into a date. It’s “what can I get” all the time and never “what can I give”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Single women are out earning single men because more single women are working their asses off. Not because their pay rate is better. They’re working their asses off so that they can live a good life by themselves. Why would a woman like that need to go out on a date with a man who works less and brings less to the table and on top of it expects that she’ll pay? Besides penis, what could he bring to her life that she doesn’t have otherwise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:31 PM |
| 5 | FDS v. TRPI feel like it is. I don’t think FDS is as dangerous because it’s not encouraging rapey behavior but it’s still pretty toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.That’s because our pussys are magic. You have a dildo with blood flowing through it. Kinda kidding. But as a more serious point society puts value on a woman being the wife and society says men who are casually fucked are being given a prize. Society generalizes and paints men and women as black and white creatures when the truth is everyone has different wants, needs and likes regardless of pronoun. Also, as an attractive female who generally has their choice of men, if you’re a male I only wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 12:49 AM |
| – | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Waittttt whos complaining about a man being to dorky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.The men? Judging by the comments absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.I never said superficiality did or didn’t bother me. I’m just saying if men flock to date me and it’s initially for my looks me going for a man initially for his wallet is no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:34 AM |
| 0 | My looks = your pockets.What’s funny is how you’re criticizing me when your fellow male is the one WANTING to fork over his hard earned money to me…for my looks…willingly and lovingly…over and over again. And no. I was simply saying that a mans financial status is attractive to me the way a woman’s hot body and face is to men and if looks is the baseline for men it is no different if finances is the baseline for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.I’ve dated this way for awhile and have yet to date a rich man I’m NOT attracted too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | My looks = your pockets.Look at that list of requirements. And all I said was a man should be financially able to provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.By that logic when you go for the hottest woman you can you are automatically the client. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.Absolutely. I care deeply about personality. I just don’t care about looks much and yet when I tell men I care more about a mans financial standing I’m told I’m shallow. My point was that it’s no more shallow than choosing a woman for her looks first. You make a great point though. you are right, relationship built on superficial things are most likely doomed to fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 0 | My looks = your pockets.Well I’m a woman and I’m telling you you’re wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.And yet, they still have yet to find that better deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.You made valid points. My only comment is that I do work as much as men and because I can provide for myself have a great life and take care of myself. If I’m letting a man into my life then what does he bring to the table that I couldn’t bring myself? And the problem is men with the “everything needs to be equal” mentality are almost always doing less in the relationship. If I bring bells and whistles that he’ll have a hard time finding elsewhere I’m a hot commodity and the price is higher . I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.Also I beg to differ. Physically attraction is negotiable. The only way it wouldn’t be is if the outward appearance is all that matters to you. Other things influence how physically attractive someone is. You are looking at things in terms of black and white. Yes a man needs to be able to provide for me but if I had the choice between broke and incredibly handsome, rich with a great personality, and richer with a bad personality, I’m picking rich every time. So yes I have a threshold that may se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.Hence why it attracted me 🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Meanwhile the rest of the men in Hollywood are doing it as well. I’m not sure I’m the one being selective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.They don’t have to be mirrored. I agree. A lot of men these days though are single and constantly complain that they can’t get a girlfriend and yet the women they go after are always the hottest one they think they can get. Everything after that, personality included is negotiable. I’m just saying that is no different then me dating with a mans finances being the most important. If I was currently dating to find a life partner there would be things that are more important because I understand th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.Is this a rant? I wasn’t trying to be. Should I edit it somehow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.A supporter 😍🙏🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.You’re absolutely correct. He would have to have a heart of gold and pockets of gold as well. after that let the wild sex begin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 0 | My looks = your pockets.In most cases physical attractiveness is much less important to woman then it is to men. That’s why men don’t spend as much time on their physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.Reading this comment and you sound great. This post probably doesn’t even apply to you. You aren’t looking for the hottest woman you can get. It’s different if a man is basing his decisions on looks. Because that’s when a woman should be basing her decisions on his pockets. Superficial meets superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:56 AM |
| 3 | My looks = your pockets.You’re assuming that bc they aren’t physically attractive by society’s standards that someone wouldn’t be genuinely and sexually attracted to them. Personally I’m genuinely and sexually attracted to hard work, humor, and good financial standing. Everyone has their physical boundaries for dating that are deal breakers for sure but that 2 might be a 4 to someone else and if that 4 has a great personality and financial stability then they quickly turn to an 8. I would have babies with that 8 any da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | My looks = your pockets.Plus the never ending options 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:41 AM |
| 2 | My looks = your pockets.Agreed! They want to elevate their dating pool. Screw the chads. Find a nice man with a great personality and money that he wants to spend on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:40 AM |
| 2 | My looks = your pockets.Well said. The user name is v appropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:38 AM |
| 5 | My looks = your pockets.Personality has a way of making someone more physically attractive. Add a few zeros and he’s basically GQ material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:37 AM |
| 4 | My looks = your pockets.Absolutely. If all you have in the relationship is her looks and his money you’re doomed to fail. Relationships require things that are much more substantial to last. That being said, they are equally shallow and it’s not fair if I’m to be judged for my requirements for dating when men don’t get judged for only dating women that meet the physical requirements. If I’m attracted to personality and financial security I shouldn’t be judged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:35 AM |
| 3 | My looks = your pockets.You got me there lol. Online dating sites like tinder are really cruel to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:27 AM |
| 2 | My looks = your pockets.Exactly! It’s all what we put importance on and if being financially secure is more important to me than if you’re my physical type or not, is it any different than you not caring if I’m broke but putting importance on how hot I am? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:25 AM |
| 2 | My looks = your pockets.What about? eating right, skincare, exercise, and an overall knowledge for how to carry yourself in a way attractive to men takes work and time. Please correct me if I’m wrong but in my experience men don’t have to do as much looks wise to keep themselves “attractive” to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | My looks = your pockets.All true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.if you look at rich men across the world and their gorgeous wives/girlfriends which would you hear more of? “He’s so shallow. Only dating the model because she’s hot” or “she’s definitely a gold digger” because I’ve personally heard the second one many more times. It’s an exchange of goods. Her looks for his pockets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Eh, if men are allowed to be shallow about women’s looks then we get to be shallow about their pockets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Sex is higher pressure for menMen put this pressure on themselves or other men. You would be hard pressed to find a high quality female that would judge a man based on those things or not be understanding. Secondly you think the pressure is high for men because you have the pressure? Imagine if your whole worth in society had everything to do with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:49 AM |
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