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| 1 | Story time: need adviceYeah my ego can get me in trouble sometimes. But I’d rather get rejected billions of times at the club rather than use my hard earned money for something I can get for free lol. Different strokes for different folks though | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Story time: need advice26 and I wanted to experiment and see if I can convert her transactional views into being attracted instead. Clearly failed that. I’ll definitely be keeping the cops in mind - sigh | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Story time: need adviceI’m actually being deadass serious lol I have the text to prove it. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Should I grow it out, buzz it shorter, or keep it as is?5'11 210. You have a physique. I'm still in the novice stage unfortunuately. I'm working on it though, finally hit a 225 deadlift. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Should I grow it out, buzz it shorter, or keep it as is?Yeah, I took your idea and a 2 seems good enough for now. I think I need to just hit the gym and get my confidence going without the hair. I shouldn't have made this post tbh | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Should I grow it out, buzz it shorter, or keep it as is?Yeah, I'm still trying to get used to it. I buzzed it down to a 2 and it looks a lot better. I just need to get my v taper going | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching during Corona Season - How Successful?I truly don't know if its because I look indian though because I've never really got to physically increase my smv. I prefer a wait and see approach before I jump to conclusions about how my skin color/race is affecting me. But yeah, thats why I spent 2k on my homegym. I know I need to gain weight and I know that feeling of just feeling like I'm just there lol. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching during Corona Season - How Successful?It is what it is. I've had success on tinder, its just not as much as I'd like it to be | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching during Corona Season - How Successful?It was more to help your mind visualize what I look like. But hey, do what you want. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Good money making careers/purpose?No, I’m going back to finish as I did a year a few years back. Minnesota | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Good money making careers/purpose?I’ll definitely check into those boot camps! Thanks for the information, shirtposder! | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Good money making careers/purpose?I’ll take a look at IT as it seems pretty broad with its career paths. Are there any very big paying specialized careers in IT? Also plumbing and electrician seems to be pretty high paying compared to other trades. Am I right in that assumption? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Good money making careers/purpose?Frankly, I don’t have any marketable skills. I feel bad about saying this but most of my life was half assing, piano, video games, and laziness. My question was geared more towards what careers are lucrative and then I’ll learn the skills required for it. Is this the end all be all? No, I don’t want to be slaving away for the rest of my life but having a bigger paycheck will at least be a step towards the right direction for now. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Good money making careers/purpose?I should have clarified it on my op. I have no remarkable skill set whatsoever. Hell, if I was Mozart level on the piano, I’d do gigs. What would be a good ‘skill’ to learn for a lucrative career then? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Should I buzz it?I just might | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Should I buzz it?My main concern. The small chance of Ed is not worth it for me | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I buzz it?Thanks for the kind words but the thinning in the front wasn’t there a couple years back. Otherwise I woulda said the same thing to be honest | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Should I buzz it?I gotta get jacked first haha | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I respond or at all to this?I know the last few bits. I've had to next quite a few girls lately regarding flakes and I know how valuable my time is, which is why I set everything up so it goes in my favor. But this is more of a curious question regarding a particular situation. 'Keeping it simple' or spewing the same 'texting is for logistics' line is not helpful. Are you trying to say that text game has no place at all? Whats the reasoning behind your words? Like I'm genuinely curious here. Which is why I posted this ques… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Need ASAP adviceI'll have to try this next time. My experience is with 1 on 1 is great and I maneuver quite well. But when it comes to duos or groups of girls, thats where I fall short and lack the xp. My mentality was just to see how far I can take this interaction and to get a feel for the dynamics of a duo. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Need ASAP adviceMaking up stories is my forte bruh. But in all seriousness, I think it was because I was just very good looking for those two particular girls as I have no experience with trying to make a threesome happen. I kind of just went with the flow and did what the fuck I want as I've had previous shit happen 1 on 1 but pussied out and felt bad the next day. I'd also like to note a few things: Dtf girl told me that hot girl thought I was hot. Obviously the dtf girl was into me hot girl kept giving me lm… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Need ASAP adviceI wanted to avoid that. My plug tends to hook me up with free shit so it wasn't a big deal. But the few times I smoked a tinder girl up, she expected everything including a ride back without even a kiss. (which I did not give) Hence, my apprehension... This interaction came out unexpectedly well considering that I was just going with the flow. I coulda smoked them out but I personally wanted to see how far I could take it without them smoking them out. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Need ASAP adviceUpdate #2: So curiously got the best of me and invited them over. The dtf chick brought her hot friend over. Got to talking, the dtf chick instantly felt up on me. Talked to them a bit and lead both of them to my room to chill as they were talking too much. I made my move on the hot girl as she wouldn't shut up. Told her shh and just made out and tried to get her out her panties. Dtf girl gave us alone time but hot girl lmr'd me like a mofo and made an excuse to go to the bathroom. Dtf instantly… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 06:26 AM |
| 4 | Need ASAP adviceUpdate actually. She said 'we' like its already set in stone that her friend is coming. I think I'ma just say nah. If she ain't coming alone, I'm good. Not a big fan of smoking a girl up if she ain't about that dtf life. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Need ASAP adviceThis was my thoughts and why I am more than likely going to straight up say no. But deep down inside I kind of want to weasel my way into their pussy without smoking them up and see how far I can take it lol... | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How to generally respond to text like this...Noted and updated. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How to generally respond to text like this...Yep just update the above. Girl ain't worth my effort. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How to generally respond to text like this...After the comments I've received, I'm thinking this would be the best approach. If she doesn't hit me up, well soft/hard next and move on to better things. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How to generally respond to text like this...That last part yeah. She flaked twice before cuz 'im sick' but came through the couple times as well which is why I gave her another chance. But that text and her flaking put up some huge red flags for me. Its like shes telling me she plans to flake on me but work things so its fine. :/ | /r/askTRP | 07/04/18 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Tinder just sent me a notification showing me how well I'm doing on itI have good success on tinder considering my shitty physique and pics. So with that said, are you able to pm me on what your tinder pics consist of or a guide that you follow generally? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Anxious about my size: What sort of girth is mean't when girls say "pencil dick"?I'm in agreement with the other guys. If she likes you enough, even a small pecker will seem like an andaconda to her. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!From what I've noticed... If the girl is really attracted to me and likes my vibe then they will not be opposed to paying for my drink or coffee. Even if I use the 'I'm saving money/forgot my wallet/forgot my id' card. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!I'll keep this in mind after my lease. Then I'll have more money to do more fun dates and hobbies in general. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!The liberal state of Minnesota. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!Yes this. I've gotten lucky with being good looking in the face, so I've wracked up quite a number from tinder alone. But once I started cold approaching somewhat consistently last summer, I've been getting brutally rejected... I think out of the 150ish+ girls I approached during that time period. I got 1 lay and 4 dates. Crazy thing is I remember one experience that kind of got to me while I was working. Hot latina and her friend, eye fucking me to order pizza. I overhead them talking about me … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 12:26 AM |
| 2 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!The reason why I use that is being I'm just trying to screen for dtf chicks right off the bat. I don't want to go for more than a first date, sometimes I'll consider a second date but only if it felt like she legit had to go and we ended on a good note. But when I think about it, I'm better off just inviting them straight to my place right from tinder when I just want a hook up. You do have a point though... maybe I should go a more spontaneous route and use that phrase instead. It seems more na… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!I'm trying man. I currently weigh 136lbs at 5'8. I'm making gains but I don't think I'll see anything significant until May 2019. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if I'm doing something terribly wrong or if the girls are straight up being weird. Help me!The thing is with set up, I rarely get a text/call back for a 2nd date... But I mean this is what works for me as this isn't my first rodeo with tinder game. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with aggressive Guys?Which is why I said he should deescalate the situation without using it. But if the guy is that deadset on hurting him, its advised to use the pepper spray. Its one bar out of many. It'll teach the guy a life lesson and he'll have saved his skin. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | In one year I become attractiive, confident and successful guy, but I am still extremely bitter after all this years?What matters is that you actually took action and got it done. Be happy that you got it done now and not much later. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with aggressive Guys?The best thing that worked for me was buy PEPPER SPRAY. Obviously you want to deescalate the situation without resorting to it. But if the dude is really harassing and itching to bloody his knuckles. Pull out the can and spray that fucker. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Tinder in North America vs EuropePictures are everything if you want decent results. But you need to pay. If you boost at least once a week. You'll have a steady amount of matches per week as long as your pictures are good enough. Without paying, it was abysmal, even with good pics. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:15 AM |
| 12 | In one year I become attractiive, confident and successful guy, but I am still extremely bitter after all this years?You fixed up all your shit and you're still stuck on the past? Fix your mindset and focus on the present. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Sex questionMy winning strategy, especially if she is really into you and wants to fuck the shit out of you... Make out, bite her neck AND ear, while fingering her. Grab her tits hard, play with her nipples, squeeze, rub her out. Do this for about 10 minutes, then fuck the shit out of her. Pace yourself if you can only go once and I HIGHLY RECOMMEND you dirty talk the fuck out of her. It literally makes them open the floodgates. Also switch positions a lot if you're prone to cum too fast as it forces you to… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do I keep getting LMR?I'm still in the boat of looks is everything. But in this case, you need be physical as hell up to the point that you guys start making out at your/her place. If you can, its better to bring her back to her place than to go to hers despite the comfort factor at her place. It gives you more power and you know the 'lay of the land' so to speak. No nosy roommates and other shit like that. Anyways on to getting touchy/kino: Touch the small of her back, play with her hand, touch her thigh, hold her h… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 11:57 PM |
| 3 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeSo I got my results... And it thankfully it was a false fucking positive. I'm in the clear boys. Time to move on with my life. Oh and practice safe sexy guys! | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Help me with my Tinder pics!All of those pics are bad. My profile is pretty basic but I've fucked a lot of girls off tinder. So it should suffice for any beginner. By the way, I'm not jacked. You just need GOOD ENOUGH pics. You need 2-4 pics. 1st pic: pic of you from waist up. It can be a selfie, it shouldn't be a mirror pic unless you've got some mass. IN GOOD LIGHTING 2nd pic: can be another self but shoulder to the top. You can also include a dog or some other cool pet. 3rd pic: with some friends or family for social pr… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeI explained it down below but I've already retracted my statement because frankly, I don't know. My emotions and stress is clouding my judgement. But yes, that is the game plan. I realize that I WILL need counseling. As the stress alone is fucking with me. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeI am circumcised. I barebacked her once on a drunken night (terrible idea) back in early 2017. I came in her once when the condom broke late november 2017. She showed symptoms before we hooked up that night (I was a rebound.) We were together late 2016-mid 2017. I lost frame cuz oneitis and she was being quite distant and shit didn't work out as you can assume. We stopped seeing each other by June 2017. The night in 2017 nov, I was her rebound because her now-X cheated on her. I used a condom an… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeYou're right. I'm sorry I wasn't specific enough in my post. I'll keep this in mind. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeWith HIV, USUALLY there is flu-like symptoms. I never got any symptoms. I haven't gotten sick since middle school except for the occasional cold. So I'm more than likely asymptomatic. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeI won't ask her if she gave it to me lol. All sorts of shit can go flying if I start pointing fingers. I'm just going to tell her that I have it (if I have it) and that she should get tested. I just have a reason to believe she may have given it to me is all. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 10:42 PM |
| 3 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeAgreed. I'm going to tell them. My biggest fear with telling is the coworker that most likely gave me it. Even though we're on good enough terms, I'm not sure how she'll react... We will see though. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 10:23 PM |
| 2 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeThe sad thing is that I don't remember the majority of the girls I've fucked nor remember their numbers. But I'm making sure to hit up the girls I do remember and have saved. It just doesn't feel right keeping that information to myself. Imagine if I hadn't taken the test, I could have gotten aids and died without really knowing until its too late. Still it is yet to be totally confirmed that I have it. I will know by friday though. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeObviously from unprotected sex, bro. The chances of getting it from the V is very low but it can happen. I'm the few possibly unlucky. It just goes to show that dudes in general should wrap it up and keep close eye on condoms breaking/get custom fit condoms. Its not worth the risk of being in the moment. So check your shit and be mindful. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeIn the range of 80-115. I wasn't too sexually active nor very experienced with getting girls from the majority of 2015 and below. About early/mid 2016 to now I've had extreme success with tinder. I've laid 1 girl from nightgame and two from cold approach. Not gonna lie that some of the girls from tinder were less than stellar but I've had my share of 'unicorns' too. So yeah, I am/was quite promiscuis with tinder alone until now. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 10:09 PM |
| 3 | The talk and My Future Sex LifeYeah, HIV has this big stigma and the way my family handled the last person related to us that had HIV makes me very reluctant to tell my close friends, let alone my closest relatives. I definitely have to tell the girls that I ended up having accidents with. Although, I'm quite scared to be honest. I had an ex/exfuckbuddy that I work with... and I have strong reason to believe she may have passed it to me. But at the end of the day, I truly don't know until I get confirmation. I'm considered at… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 09:05 PM |
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