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Honestly reading your comment, i agree. We commented similar things. But i also realized something. OP seems to concentrate on looks alot and that may be pushing the actual genuine people away because they can sense she puts way too much weight on that aspect. “Is it my looks” is a concerning thought process when people arent committing to you
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/25 04:38 PM
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Not everything is about looks. Theres also personality and compatibility. Honestly you might not be what these guys are looking for. Do you give off conservative, seriously dating only vibes? They might be trying to sleep with you without commitment and thats all theyre looking for. Its you in the sense that its the men youre choosing. Also chemistry can build over time. Are you giving these guys chances to get comfortable and get to know you past like 2 dates?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/25 04:35 PM
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I love the resource you shared. Great read
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 11:59 AM
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“You seem very biased….you want to believe that feminism was necessary and perhaps isnt anymore” Im not projecting anything,Im listening to your words. Feminism was necessary theres no question about it. Even the most redpillwoman would advise an abused woman to leave their husband. How do you suppose a woman would be able to do that without the right to her own bank account, property and ability to work?
/r/RedPillWives04/04/23 12:12 PM
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So women voting is not necessary? 2nd wave feminism was all about the right to vote. If youre a woman and upvote this comment, you agree that you shouldnt have a voice and shouldnt have a seat at the table- the very things that,mind you, are part of rpw- just expressing your wants and needs in a more feminine way.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/23 05:22 AM
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Theyre bf gf. I think she may be doing too much and she should not be asking for permission to do her hobbies, as long as theyre not harmful
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/22 04:18 AM
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So does he continue to do it, despite you telling him? Youre not his mother. Youre not supposed to be teaching him right from wrong constantly. Nor is it ever fun to have to fight to have your point of view even considered
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 05:27 AM
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Have you tried to explain how that phrase basically means “i did nothing wrong and everything youre pointing out is a you problem and not a me problem”? Using that phrase is a red flag. After being told or reasoned with, and still denying it is the united nations of red flags. Im sorry youre dealing with this
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 05:20 AM
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“Im sorry you feel that way/Im sorry you see it that way” Thats definitely a narcisistic trait.Just that alone would make me leave
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 12:19 AM
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Thats a reversal. Based on how he has been acting i think its fair to say that thats how you feel about your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 02:24 AM
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Because he thinks that for him, it isnt name calling.When you question his actions, you are out of line and he needs to do what he needs to do to “get back in control” of you. Please know that you arent alone, and that we are here for you
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 12:09 AM
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This is emotional and verbal abuse and Ill point it out based on your post. when we first started dating, everything was gravy. Amazing, actually. People used to comment on how cute and loving we were all the time. We honestly got compliments so much it was really beautiful. This is called lovebombing. Usually abusers start out this way. They understand that you cant catch a fish without good bait. was angrily asking me why I didn’t turn the lamp off, yelling, cussing, etc. I asked if we could j…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 03:38 AM
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Isnt that kinda unprofessional if its got nothing to do with your health? I mean stress affects your health, but we take on stress everyday so….
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/22 11:52 AM
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Im so sorry to hear that. I honestly can relate. Everytime i do something for my mother, she always turns it against me. I honestly dont know what it is , but since its your marriage i would say its a much worse situation for you. I hope he realizes that you shouldnt be punishing your partner for the good things they do. You will end up resenting him in the end if he keeps doing it.
/r/RedPillWives19/09/21 11:18 AM
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Well, examine if its for you. Obviously marriage is viable, but as other people have said, its no walk in the park. You imagine being married with a family and a wife, youre only imagining the good times. Youre looking at this with rose colored glasses on. Realize that its not always going to be good and when those not so good things happen, will you be able to keep to the promises you made your wife? Those are things to think about.
/r/RedPillWives08/09/21 01:03 PM
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Id like to add that JP also said, that power doesnt corrupt, but brings out what is inside people. I feel that this quote fits much better into his belief in hierarchies.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/21 10:58 AM
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Alexandragirlytalk.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 04:29 AM
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Congrats on your pregnancy and i hope you have a safe delivery! I think you made a great point. The student phase can be compared to another phase of her life where she isnt making money and how will he deal with it then ?
/r/RedPillWives07/08/21 07:06 PM
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Wait hold up, he needs to drive back to the same shop to get another bed, for you.... how is it that he didnt realize he was getting the wrong bed? If he was in the physical store....
/r/RedPillWives07/08/21 07:03 PM
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Yeah okay if we assume that, why is the last paragraph worded the way its worded then?
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 12:28 PM
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No. Period. I dont understand how it would be okay, unless youre really okay with open relationships, but thats for other people, not me. With the logic in your last paragraph, i would say that if any woman or man reasoned that way, i would say they need to respect themselves more and know that theyre worth more than that.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 12:27 PM
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To add to all these ladies already great comments, in the most traditional countries, especially in asia, the wives are given all the money to manage and it is seen as the womans job to make the salary of the husband work for the needs of the household. Maybe this fact can help you see that managing finances arent a thing that makes you less feminine or traditional
/r/RedPillWives19/07/21 10:48 AM
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Jesus...the comment thread you replied to was literally addressing comments where men were saying men built the world. “I see replies here about how men were inventors and built societies, and yes it was mostly men who did those things”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 12:09 PM
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Were literally talking about history here. Did you miss the context?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:58 AM
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Oh wow lets look at on average how many women 200 years ago were allowed into college. Please stop clowning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:43 AM
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Yup exactly. I find it so facinating how there can be completely two separate parties working on the exact same thing and not know about each others works at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:59 PM
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Yeah in this very specific situation, i think i would agree. Yet, were finding that bills are being split between partners now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:21 PM
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I think obviously, the answer is no. The op is just a mysogynist who decided he could go into r/purplepilldebate to whine about how horrible women are, without any logic behind his thinking..... at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:35 PM
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If its so simple why cant most men do those simple things?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:31 PM
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Also lets not forget how society literally made it easier for men to achieve those things and what little women who did just the same are erased and forgotten about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:29 PM
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Why is my body actively trying to disable me for 3-4 days a month.....two days ago it was serious abdominal cramps, a day before that horrible migranes. Idk what im willing to do today.
/r/RedPillWives30/05/21 03:15 AM
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Definitely try coffee dates. You can just order tea or juice. Just keep trying. Youll get more comfortable. Dont be afraid to say no if you feel like its not really a match
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 11:30 AM
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Oh try cooking. Its so easy promise. There are tons of vids online. You can start with easy things first like baking savory foods
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 02:07 AM
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I am now following you.Babe you can do it. My advice on dating would be to date alot of men. Like coffee dates, that way, you know what you like and what you dont like. Also it will help with nervousness and desensitizing yourself from the pressure. Try to act like yourself during dates too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 02:04 AM
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Answer to everyones questions lol https://m.independent.ie/style/celebrity/celebrity-features/johnny-depp-dumped-vanessa-paradis-because-she-was-a-bitch-to-his-mother-30969236.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:29 AM
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I have a very very tight circle of friends. I dont do fake friendships and i vet who is in my circle. I dont give people who I dont like the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:18 PM
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Okay you know I was going to say that sometimes bacterial infections do happen when your biology just doesnt match with certain partners, especially if its reoccuring.... but.... i just might not be very sexually exposed to think of anal
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 06:56 AM
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Theres a fun ted talk about the correlation between religion and number of children, where the speaker concludes that the number of children is not greatly affected by religion but more so by social class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 06:46 AM
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Im quite honestly shocked you dont know what he means.... he said hes looking for something casual in black and white. This is a case of hes just not that into you
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 01:43 AM
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The thing is i only heard of the omegaverse because of the author suing other people with similar book styles. NOW I CANT UNSEE THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 02:39 AM
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This straight up made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:36 AM
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Well like i said different philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:28 PM
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Why would you go after women who dont interest you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 01:17 PM
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Were not here to be petty. Were here to help her with her problem
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/21 01:06 PM
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I think you missed the point. Her comment was about genuinely being you and being honest about it. But okay, not your philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:53 PM
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No it doesnt. Hes over reacting and honestly if he thinks he can hold this over your head hes in for some real reality checks. In RPW speak, hes not a deserving captain. How in the world is this even an issue. He needs to re evaluate himself. Youre not his secretary and youre not here to wait on him hand and foot for whatever he needs. Your SAFETY comes first and honestly you shouldnt even be using your phone while driving( i get it we all do it). So even after giving this explaination and hes s…
/r/RedPillWives27/03/21 04:02 AM
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Somehow this guy doesnt get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:55 AM
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:)
/r/RedPillWives23/03/21 02:37 AM
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Yeah of course.no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:50 PM
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Yeah i know it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:49 PM
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"Everyone should wake up to reality" are your personal beliefs. You keep using the word SHOULD.Remember redpill is a choice. There is always going to be a group who thinks different and you cant make them act in a way that conforms to your beliefs. Now you know some of the reasons why women dont say anything about their preferences. Use that information to change your life and stop saying people "should"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:46 PM
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Not everyone is you, and its going to be hard to stop something that you cant control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:39 PM
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If youre talking about style and looking feminine, search for korean idols who wear glasses. I find that their style is very unique and stylish. If its not your style, you can still observe and take something from it
/r/RedPillWives22/03/21 04:15 PM
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Hi i know how hard it is to leave. Let me tell you what a very good friend of mine told me, the relationship does not get better unless both parties are willing to compromise and bend, however they can for one another. You couldnt have known he would act in that way, in relationships, it usually takes a year for partners to reveal their flaws, maybe there were signs, maybe none at all. Dont beat yourself up for not being “strong enough”. I find that Im usually not strong enough for myself, but w…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/21 03:56 PM
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If its a reasonable bias,then i dont see a problem with it. In the same way, its reasonable for women to be paid less because of less hours worked(among other factors)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 07:49 AM
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Im going to chime in and just say something both of you will not want to hear. Just like with the wage gap, the bias towards women in courts can be explained by women being usually, the primary caregiver of the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 03:18 PM
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Actually,Im no statistician or anything but based on how they define "woman" , meaning its probably a female of the age 18 and above or something like that, the average youre looking at has more women at ages 30 and above who are overweight vs the 30 and below (most probably). You dont see much young people being overweight, but you do see more older people overweight which can affect the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 02:40 AM
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Hi im not married or whatever, so i guess take my advice with a grain of salt, I actually agree with u/AnarchoNap about the shed situation. He probably felt like he wasnt being listened to and thats why he got so angry. He however shouldnt be using your kids as a triangulation method or holding over this over you for so long. I agree with you that he needs therapy. Sounds like he has alot of things to deal with, but i dont agree that you think anarcho is being harsh.
/r/RedPillWives14/01/21 06:01 AM
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Recently felt like there was something off about RPW. Ive been going there ever since I got a reddit account and have been listening to TRP stuff before that. Ive definitely noticed how the content has changed. I mean an EC calls someone autist and I’m supposed to be okay with that?
/r/RedPillWives12/01/21 04:08 PM
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Exactly what i think. Just because you support other peoples freedom to be who they are, doesnt mean you have to be like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:50 AM
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Thank you so much for your guidance. Its so appreciated. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 02:07 PM
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Thanks i really dont know if well be able to fix it. I think he and i really just have very different fundamental beliefs. Im still figuring out if we can make it work
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 02:07 PM
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Wow i cant believe this. In a sub where most men would attack the existence of male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:21 PM
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To be honest i know the answer is no. Ive been to his place and we just live very differently and i can see how i would be unhappy if i did live with him
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 09:47 AM
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Op might live in Japan. They have that kind of culture. Not sure about other countries though.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 09:28 AM
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Hmmm i never thought of them to be but ill have to seriously think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 09:26 AM
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At the time i didnt tell him because we were already both angry and I didnt want to make it worse. Ill talk to him later and try to explain it better. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 07:38 AM
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Thank you. I felt like i might have been too demanding or unreasonably angry but im glad so many other women are here to reasure me. Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 07:32 AM
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He actually does have good qualities, its just that when he argues, he has a hard time conceeding that hes wrong, even when he is. This is where i have a hard time bending for him because when i feel that something is wrong, i never allow it. This is actually the first time ive asked them for advice about him, because I was really doubting myself. I dont usually talk about my relationship problems with them because i dont want to triangulate onto anyone. Actually... if it was one of my friends,I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 07:24 AM
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To be honest Ive already thought that far without anyone elses input. I just thought that I might be over reacting or that i might be thinking too much about it from my perspective. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 07:18 AM
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I know. It took so much effort to maintain my composure. To be honest, breaking up has already entered my thoughs, but i feel like its also somehow petty to break up over a bunch of papers
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 04:34 AM
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Hes actually not sheltered by his parents and picks up alot after them which is why I was so caught off guard and expected him to be more responsible. Thanks for the advice. Ill apply it if i decide i want to help him with any other documents, which i think, wont be for awhile. I also noticed im higher on neuroticism in terms of personality so i have a feeling this isnt going to be the only time we clash. Ill try to manage it better
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 04:22 AM
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Thanks. I guess i assumed he had printed documents because was carrying a folder with papers in it. Which i shouldnt have done. I know I cant change his views on responsibility since its something that has to come from him himself and its something thats going to be very difficult to change
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 04:15 AM
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Goccha thanks for the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/21 01:26 AM
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Thank you. Its always nice to see a reasonable comment. Gives me hope that theres worth in reading through mens rights issues in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights06/01/21 03:36 PM
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You know this is the exact logic the feminists you hate so much use....
/r/MensRights06/01/21 03:33 PM
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I love that you have the balls to post this and this needs to be said. This is a reasonable complaint and the fact that mras always complain about not being heard about very reasonable issues, makes the downvotes on this comment ironic
/r/MensRights06/01/21 03:28 PM
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Agreed. How is she not cancelled
/r/MensRights05/01/21 08:39 AM
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From what ive read i think its both. I like your point of view and it seems that your advice is very close to rpw standards.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 12:02 PM
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There are many more fish in the sea. Besides,you dont really know him. Ask yourself what you really know about this man. Are you day dreaming and making up fantasies about what your life could be like with him? If so, stop. What about this man do you actually like? Youre only attracted to his physical appearance, i believe. What actual qualities as a good captain does he have because, from what you typed down, if hes willing to entertain the possibility of a relationship with you while he is dat…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/20 08:03 AM
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Nah im actually underweight. Ive been like that since birth lol. And if youre wondering im probably closest to bottom middle. I actually put “ causally dating” and thought that it didnt mean i was looking to hook up. Thats how either a) how fucked up the dating world is right now or b) how ignorant i am of the dating world and appropriate terminology. I like to think its a mixture of both
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:24 PM
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Ooofff someone doesnt have the maturity to hold a civil conversation. Youre one of those men in the anger phase.grow up a little and come back when you learn to give constructive criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:18 AM
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Everyone has personality. This post just degrades women into caricatures. Same thing can be said about men.only there would be only one type since “all men on dating apps only want one thing, SEX”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:07 AM
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YOU care. Okay youre entitled to that opinion but honesty people come here to talk and share ideas and whatnot.idk adding an ‘ for something that most people understand what you mean is just pointless for most. Stop criticizing someone because theyd rather not take the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:02 AM
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....painful burn right there my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:57 AM
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Thanks! I recommend watching some aerial artists or pole artists on youtube they do amazing work and you can clearly see the art in it and its gorgeous!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 10:26 PM
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Omg i really want to get into pole and aerial silks too! Girl if you want to go for it, GO.FOR.IT. Obviously theres a pandemic and everything and those plans might have to wait because of it, but seriously it will help with feeling more comfortable in your skin and i think its beautiful to do something soley for yourself. Also those people didnt start good. They put in hard work and effort! Plus a really good thing about the community is theyre super encouraging! So just do it!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 12:02 PM
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Omg same here. Ive seen some of my family members go through some really horrible things because of relationships. Its great that youre trying to change your mindset. Wishing you the best!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 01:47 AM
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Just be honest about your answer. If they dont like it then they were never relationship material in the first place. Tbh ive seen too many people make mistakes dating early and i know its hard thinking youre behind everyone else but what you dont see is the mistakes theyve made because of how immature they were at that time. Not to say that you wont make mistakes, thats part of improving, but theres nothing wrong with minimizing them
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 10:30 PM
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Let me tell you, IM EXACTLY THE SAME. Except for the overweight part because ive been underweight all my life. I recently actively started dating and I just say: “I just felt like it wasnt right for me at the time and I wanted to be sure that when I did start dating, I was ready for it. I wanted to be in a place where I was mature enough to handle a relationship.” depression is really hard and if you ever need someone to talk to, im here
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 10:09 PM
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Much love.thank you
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 12:05 PM
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I honestly want to, but I cant. I know my friends and the other well meaning ladies here have given me very good advice and if i wanted to do what was best for myself, id follow it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 08:52 AM
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I know my intuition is often right. Im just having a hard time following it right now. 2 of my closest friends have said exactly that, that he was too immature for me. Im just really sad right now, but i will get over this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 08:50 AM
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Thank you. I know i have to allow myself to feel these things,but i also need to stick to my decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 04:25 AM
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Thats what my friend said as well. That it was just hormones. Im giving myself 2 weeks to really think about it. I know that the change just has to come from him and i cant force it. I also know i have other things i need to work on so im really contemplating everything
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 04:21 AM
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Thank you. I know all of this and if i look at it objectively i know its the right decision. I just need to hear it more.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 04:18 AM
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Thats really powerful imagery. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 11:16 PM
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Thank you. Oh ive seen you around this subreddit alot! I really value your advice. Thank you for telling me it was a valid reason.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 11:10 PM
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Im 24 and hes 26. Im still a student, finishing my degree in architecture this semester. Im religious and very conservative. This was my first relationship since I never really felt ready to date. Ive never been intimate with anyone. Hes running his own company and is self employed. He is very liberal and does not believe in God.Hes been dating since he was 18 and has a very high n count. For me, I felt that he was being irrespobsible with his finances. In one month he blew over $560 on take out…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 11:08 PM
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Thank you. I know all of those reasons make absolute sense. Ill make it clear that i need time alone to think and that he absolutely should not contact me. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 10:28 PM
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Thank you for the advice. Im really unsure and thats why I asked for the time. There are things that I definitely need to improve on so im really just thinking about everything
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 10:24 PM
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Thank you 🌟🌟
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 12:10 PM
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Wow. Thats so amazing for you. I really hope to find my man soon :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 11:45 AM
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Totally unrelated to the post but, im a rock climber whos experienced knee pain and injury, you can totally stretch and do physical therapy stretches to alleviate those pains. Still climb without the pain now because of the daily stretching.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 04:14 AM
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Of course :) hopefully it goes well for all parties, no matter the outcome
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 02:02 PM
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Clearly being open and honest in this relationship is not a priority here, which it should be. If she wants to be a SAHW, this cannot be the man she marries. It seems to me that shes trying to make things work and trying to bend her standards in order to make things work. Thing is if youre not aligned with your financial values and future goals, continuing on with the relationship wont work, especially since both parties arent communicating. The easiest thing to do would be to break up. The hard…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 11:33 AM
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Please no. Value yourself more. You need to be someones first choice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 01:20 PM
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“It was a mistake and YOU should have forgiveness and understanding in your heart” When i hear that, i hear part of my mother’s narcissistic tendencies. Notice how he made a “mistake” (ie minimizing the gravity of what he did) and you( somehow he leaves the solution up to you and not himself) should have forgiveness and understanding (somehow shaming you that if you dont get over it, youre not a good person). What actions has he done to actively prove that hes deserving of your forgiveness and t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 09:54 AM
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I am so happy for you. Youve sorted through that muddled mess and youve got so much support. Good on you and keep striving for what you want
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/20 11:33 AM
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Im a rock climber. Nails and hands are out. I use a peel off base coat for my nails so i can just take the polish off when i climb.chiped nails are no bueno. The good thing is ive gotten compliments about how nice my back looks.Dont forget to workout your back and squats. Basically just love the sport you choose, because workouts can be a drag if you dont like them
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 07:49 AM
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Girls can totally be bitchy. They just dont like you. Period. Thing is we cant make people change the way they percieve us. Best thing to do is just minimize contact with them. Do you absolutely have to talk with them at the parties? Cant you talk with other guests or maybe some of the guys instead? You dont have to deal with them. Dont waste your time on people who cant display common decency or maturity beyond typical highschool clique mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 01:56 AM
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Im very impressed. Keep up the good work.
/r/MGTOW230/07/20 12:43 AM
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I hope you and your family are okay. I will surely pray for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/20 01:06 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I dont exactly think that being a woman is what makes people listen to them more. I think that it might be the promotion of inclusivity so now we hear their opinions more even though the lgbtq+ community make up less than 10% of society as a whole. (I know its even less than that but i cant remember the specific statistic sorry )
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 01:08 PM
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Right it doesnt make them biologically a female but we should respect their right to be called however they want to be called. Of course i mentioned the other aspects because if someone is confused on what to call you and accidentally calls you the wrong pronoun, you shouldnt take it to heart or be offended. Right. As long as theyre not harming anyone with their actions, they should be free to do as they wish with their own lives.and we should respect their decision to live their lives the way t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 12:58 PM
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Language: im not sure im understanding what you said. If there are more transmen in humanities, wouldnt that mean that there should be a prevalence of language that changes mens spaces (or at least attempts to change male spaces?) Pc culture: thats true the competition portion of this stems from biological differences that give transwomen an edge over cis women. Do you mean to say that there are more female therapy groups which transwomen join so accommodating them in the group is more likely to…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 06:37 AM
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Ohhhh you got me thinking.your comment reminded me of personality traits.In general women also happen to be more agreeable in terms of the personality spectrum, maybe that is why more of us who are willing to accommodate to the proposed changes these transwomen are trying to make. In the reverse scenario, a transman would likely be more agreeable (though this might have to be contested because going so far as to transition may be a sign of disagreeableness) and conform to male culture. Though th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 06:20 AM
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Omg i didnt even know that was a thing. Female erasure should never be condoned and theres a certain level of accommodation that can be made for transwomen but i think this is going too far Ps. Why dont men have these problems in terms of language and pc culture when the have transmen too?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 04:10 AM
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Okay i will call a transperson " she" because its the decent thing to do and just shows respect, especially if that person looks like a woman. Because i myself can be very forgetful sometimes, i sometimes also forget to call the lesbians and gay people by their preferred pronouns especially because they still look like normal women and men respectively. So in the sense that,should transwomen who have transitioned be allowed some benefits women are allowed,i think yes. Like for example going to w…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:26 AM
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Her husbad is a cop and i think its valid for her to feel insecure right now with everything going on. Especially when BLM says things like "its either youre fully with us or against us" .i would be scared too
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 01:02 AM
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Youre not going to like this but mr. Aethist has a vid on her and lets just say the things hes said has been pretty damning. https://youtu.be/yKMGXy0qPsk start at 12:00
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:37 AM
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She super is and shes just so open and honest about the things shes been going through!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:35 AM
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Ive felt this way too, but never really had the guts to voice it out in this sub. Apparently she has really bad tweets. I can ignore that while im watching her but i also know that there are aspects of her i woudnt wish to follow
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 12:33 AM
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Im an infp and i find myself doing that for some of my friends as well. Its okay. Just find people you can truly be comfortable around and let your true self shine when youre with them
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/20 11:26 AM
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I KNOW RIGHT! Her videos are so informative and jam packed
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 10:35 AM
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Thank you. This is the wake up call i needed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 05:14 AM
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No of course not. The important thing over the n count is the reason why you slept with that person. N count is a factor people look at because usually,if youve slept with an astronomically large amount of people, that just means you arent valuing yourself or sex in the right way. I tend to think n counts matter for both men and women. Its not about the number,for me anyway, but the reason you slept with these people.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 04:59 AM
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Wow this "journalist" really is just trying to write herself a narrative fiction isnt she? Ive been here for almost a year and i dont really see the comments shes been "quoting". She just glosses over anything that doesnt fit her narrative. While I get that its more of a conservative movement, the women here are not putting each other down and are only here to support one another. Making it out to look like a woman hating sub is just wtf. Im a centrist by the way and while i dont practice or agr…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 04:50 AM
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Hello Im asian! I understand your feelings of wanting to wait. Whats rare is not alot of asians go by the rule of “waiting to be self sufficient” , which i think is very admirable and amazing. I think that you should be going for what you think you feel is best for you. Dont let any outside pressure dictate what you should or shouldnt do. Tbf 10 months is perfectly okay if you want to do it now, but dont do it because “people say you should be doing it now” or because its the “societal average”.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 04:48 AM
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I thought branch swinging was done soley because women wanted better partners. I mean if you guys didnt click, you didnt break up with him because you saw him as lesser. I dont know exactly what happened but id like to think it wasnt.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 09:23 AM
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Well damn that is a rom com! I honestly wouldnt call it branch swinging. It just sounds negative to me. Im sure if your then boyfriend actually treated you right at that time, you wouldnt have broken it off with him
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 08:16 AM
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Woah sounds like a plot for a teen rom com. So what happened? How did you guys eventually end up together?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:36 PM
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Oh shes quite interesting! She seems really sex positive too
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:21 PM
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Omg love with leena is so gorgeous! Thanks for the response.you really put alot of time and effort into it.thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:17 PM
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Im not so sure. She doesnt exactly talk about her faith.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:15 PM
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This is so nice! Right i mean just because you have different political views and stances doesnt mean you should attack or unfriend someone
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 02:15 PM
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Personally as a centrist, i feel its very hard to discuss with people my views because for me, its usually not so black and white and i can see valid points on both sides. Specifically with BLM i feel that they may have gone too far in some aspects like the looting and abolish the whole police and all. This may be controversial but im going to say it anyway. I believe black people have been unjustly hurt and killed by many cops. George Floyd was clearly wrong as well as Breonna Taylor.It is a fa…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 02:09 PM
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Having a wife and kids is his motivator right? If he doesnt think that he has to prepare for a life with you and his future kids with you, he either has very poor planning skills or doesnt see a future with you. I dont say this to be mean. I say this because it feels like , to me anyway, hes not preparing for a future with you because the motivation should be there if he sees you as a future wife. You get what i mean?
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 01:55 PM
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Idk im kind of disappointed that people with different views from the majority are being down voted. Op asked for an opinion...
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 01:12 PM
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I think you misunderstood. This person just replied to OPs question
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 01:06 PM
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Omg good luck with the french maid fantasy! That one made me laugh. I love your goals good luck with them !
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 11:35 PM
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Omg i hope youre okay. If you really feel hes the one for you, just keep reaching out and try to see him. I hope things turn out okay.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 05:43 AM
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If youre in the usa, ok cupid is pretty good. Its got a compatibility rating based on questions it asks you. That way you can vet for people more easily. Also checking out the profiles there its about 50-50 low effort and high value profiles. Depends on your area so check it out
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 08:59 AM
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Absolutely not, what do you mean give up? The whole point of being RP is that you believe you can improve yourself and that improving yourself is one of the main goals you have in order to have a good life. Girl this man? Hes only one guy. There are so many guys out there and that does not mean you should give up. Learn from this experience and remember to stick to what you truly believe next time you get swept up in emotions. Remember that logic and emotion should go hand in hand with one anoth…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 10:22 PM
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Oh honey have you never met chinese men? All the chinese men i know cheat
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:37 AM
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Discuss it when youre talking avout deal breakers or your values with your man
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 06:35 AM
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Im sorry but those men who say those things in those comments are sexist and you shouldnt be listening to their opinions. Think about what these people are actually saying and dont take it to heart. I understand that its not good to be promiscuous and a high n count shows negative qualities in a partner but the main point is, if we demanded virgin males as they do, they would blubber around and make excuses. This is the mentality of “its bad when other people do it, but not when i do it”. Thats …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 07:02 AM
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Sis let me tell ya. I went to the askfeminists sub and got banned for commenting and questioning a mod telling me i cant be a feminist while being someone who subscribes to RPW. The thing is, feminism has evolved to mean a very different and specific mindset thats very different in terms of what you think it means( or what the dictionary says), to what the actual people who practice say it means. You apparently cant be egalitarian when youre feminist. You have to switch your view to ONLY be pro-…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:12 AM
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I can equally say men are nothing but sex predators who will never love you and just use you for their own gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:39 AM
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Hey there i hope youre doing okay. Marriage is a partnership and he has to be open about your wants and give valid reasons as to why he doesnt want to change the table, not just dismiss it. Even if its a small thing, it doesnt matter. If hes going to be so militant about a small thing then you already know how he reacts when its a big issue. He clearly needs to work on his consideration for your needs
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 02:06 AM
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Please dont. Listen medication only suppreses the symptoms of depression. It doesnt solve it. In some cases its extremely essential but in others its not. You need to change your daily habits and see a therapist to talk about unressolved issues youve been carrying around. Someone over here commented about getting enough sun, exercise, talking to friends family, eating right, do things you love, get a routine down, stop thinking and fueling negative thoughts.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 06:37 AM
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Im pointing out the hypocracy of your stance, shifting blame onto men. Yet again you choose to shift the conversation instead of actually addressing the points ive made. I was showing you how any man could use the same talking points youve been making except use it in their perspective. I was hoping you would evolve your stance or statements to be something better. The fact that you cant even refute these statements and that you take what i say out of context shows how illogical and shaky your a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:17 AM
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Okay if you want to make it work, I think its best that you be honest and vunerable. Tell him outright what youre feeling and express to him where youre at. Also hes looking at other women and you have to ask yourself if you can deal with that or not. The jealousy can drive a wedge inbetween you and him.I definitely think theres an issue about him saying one thing and doing the other and being honest about that may or may not solve it, but if it doesnt at least you know hes not the one for you. …
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 03:16 AM
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Yeah okay. Studies point to it but you can choose not to believe those studies. I also think, yes people bear responsibility for their actions, but at a certain point, after its been tested generation after generation, the system is against these poor people and it shows that economic mobility is very slim. Todays world is programmed against your own psychology. Yes you can control your own mind, but its going to take unplugging and actively working against the norm. An example would be unhappin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:10 AM
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https://www.inc.com/amy-nelson/women-drive-majority-of-consumer-purchasing-its-time-to-meet-their-needs.html https://hbr.org/2009/09/the-female-economy https://girlpowermarketing.com/statistics-purchasing-power-women/ First 3 links of a google search.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:10 AM
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You cannot take onlyfans out and put it into a vacuum as if it doesnt exist as a product of society. Like i said, i can completely shift the blame onto women for supplying it. It there was no supply, then onlyfans wouldnt exist. Ive already pointed out this faulty reasoning in my last comment. I can blame women for willing to supply such a disgusting service. It also wouldnt exist if they had higher moral standards. Using your same reasoning,who cares if men buy pornography then? Whos it harming…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:48 PM
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Now think of your argument and how thats also applicable to men, specifically incels. Youre generalizing too much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:58 AM
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The hypocracy is great. Essentially this man is asking women to own up to their behavior yet he fails to recognize that there are men who perpetuate the horrible things done to women and he needs to appologise as a man for their whole demographic for these injustices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:56 AM
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Logic right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:51 AM
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Doesnt exactly make sports or gym essential. Before any of those were invented, men could live without them. Also while were at it, sneakers, luxury cars, porn (as someone mentioned), video games, airsoft guns, anime figures, casinos, alchoholic beverages, cigars and cigarettes,etc. There are many things that men support that are non essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:47 AM
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Entirely false. Women do spend more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:42 AM
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Ever wondered why all laws are intended for transfer of wealth from Men to Women e.g. Alimony, divorce settlements. So in cases where the woman has to give money to the man, is this the so called exception to the rule? If laws were truly sexist then why not just outright place “men need to give their spouses money. Period.” No. The truth of the matter is that law divides the money based on who is in need of it most or equally. This is done by a case to case basis by the enforcers of the law.You …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:40 AM
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From “when did i ever say that it was mens fault” To “ultimately the blame is on the consumer” (ie men) From the get go my original stance was that it was both men and womens fault. You have clearly been commenting that its just the men’s fault throughout this whole interaction. women have a responsibility and fault here as well. This is exactly the illogical reasoning i have said i dont like. If you think men are soley to blame, outright say it and state the reasons why. Dont hide behind statem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:20 AM
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Okay. Its easy to tell someone to “not be a simp bitch”. Its easy to blame people because “theyre the ones letting themselves get fucked over”. But really when marketing and advertising is so subversive and is made to hack the mind based on several psychology studies, theres only so much a person can do. Also when facebook, twitter, instagram, essentially dominate the space in a oligopoly, what choice do people have when these apps are essential to basically modern life. Thats the equivalent of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:42 AM
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Okay. Majority of consumers on onlyfans is male. But acknowledge that the females on there are the reason why it also exists. Its a common saying, it takes two to tango. So if there was a demand but no supply, onlyfans wouldnt exist as well right? Usiny this reasoning, we can shift majority of the blame onto women. Just because a child asks for a cookie doesnt mean you give him one. Do you see how the conversation shifts. Basically any arguments men have on here about women needing to be control…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 05:36 AM
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Ugh... i hate when people get all annoyed about being objectified when they themselves put themselves in those poses and situations. There are so many influencers who post naked and stuff and expect people to respect them.Posing nude with your ass hanging out does not constitute respectable behavior and if you want to be respected, it should be based on your actions. Lol sorry this veered waaaay off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:53 AM
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What.... the whole post was about that men AND women are both at fault for this.... i dont get what youre claiming....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:49 AM
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Hi. Im actually a woman. Hahahahahaha Women are half the problem. I mean come on, you wear a short skirt and attention grabbing clothes and expect men and women not to look? Yeah i get what you mean. Its kinda a weird way to think.Maybe i dont belong in this era. Hahahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:54 PM
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Well like i said she cares but in a way that doesnt satisfy him.I mean i guess she cares enough to engage with men in real life and in here. I read a comment that stated she helped out some guys find and talk to other women. That being said, she also said some other things about her standards that angered some men here....so grain of salt. Also i dont think its the sexual issues, but more specifically, having a hard time getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:50 PM
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Considering drugs are illegal, this is a terrible comparison. No one is blaming the shopkeeper for selling the alcoholic alcohol. No one is blaming the shopkeeper for selling the obese kids chocolate. Men do create the demand, and if men are willingly going to spend thousands on nudes then 🤷‍♀️ Considering your comment here, yes you said it.okay so if you acknowledge that both men and women live in an oversexualized society and create the the society themselves, why are men the only ones to blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:40 PM
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Yes. whats wrong with that. Another way to put it: In my opinion i should be able to steal all your propery but i dont have the right to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:27 AM
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.....going to instagram its basically softcore porn over there. Why do you think some men have to delete instagram. Over sexualization is everywhere. The reason why theres free porn is to lure men into wanting more then buying the paid stuff. Men are more sexual in general compared to women. Thats why porn sites are mostly geared to men. Porn industry literally preys on this. Are you saying that people in porn arent responsible for the content they put out? So any commentator or public figure sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:21 AM
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Thats exactly true. The only reason why only fans floats in the market is because theres demand for it and people are willing to supply it. These underlying problems of society show themselves through symptoms. The specific one being onlyfans in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:12 AM
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So you expect men to rise above and women arent doing anything to contribute to their problem? The problem here is that you explain away womens half of the problem because Its in their nature But really when you dangle a carrot in front of a horse, is it not in its nature to eat the carrot? Yea it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:09 AM
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Hmmmm i guess i disagree in terms of feminism needing to advocate for everyone. The definition strictly limits them to womens issues. However my problem is that they attack mens rights movements. That is because feminism is a specific branch of egalitarianism that advocates for womens rights. So they only advocate for womens rights, fair enough. They dont need to advocate for men, because men can advocate for themselves and will most likely be better voices for themselves. Maybe they cannot unde…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:03 AM
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Hmmmm i have a problem with your “it is what it is”. Im not trying to attack you. The way this comes off to me is, then, an angry feminist should not have to appologise for the vile things she says(and there are alot of examples out there) because shes exposed to truths that are still happening to women as long as she knows shes using hateful speech. In of itself, acknowledging a problem or detestable behavior signals a need to change something about that behavior. Yet we dont see that with both…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:53 AM
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Hmmm okay i see what you mean. There is a difference from how op is caring and how the commentor wants her to care. However can you force someone to care in the manner that you prefer especially if you start demanding it in an angry tone? See expecting women as a general population like he wants is like asking a man to care about womens issues while an angry feminist agrues in his face. Not likely to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:45 AM
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“At the very minimum we want you to acknowledge that its hard for men” Which OP basically said in her post. She said she cares for mens struggles and listens to them. If you disagree with this point kindly expound.She has done the minimum of what this commenter is asking. Yes. To me it sounds like he is.The comment is loaded with italices and emphasis on what women are doing wrong when literally shes essentially extending an olive branch( or virtue signaling whichever way you want to look at it)…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:01 PM
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Disney is at an era where they like to talk about women empowerment. If they fire her, as someone who extremely supports feminism,theyll look like hypocrites so i get why they put up with her. As long as she doesnt go beyond words. Shes probably going to stay. Shell probably argue that theyre anti woman for firing her for supporting feminism. The very definition of feminism is an egalitarian movement that pushes for equality through womens issues.I dont expect them to advocate for men but I at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:51 AM
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Ahhhh okay. Thanks for the clarification!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:45 AM
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Im glad it went well for you! Stay safe during these times love. Congratulations on your new baby on the way!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 06:38 AM
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.... this is disappointing to see Edit: thank you for the links tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:37 AM
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I dont think disney/marvel CAN fire her. Shell likely tweet about it and give them major negative publicity. Also this is why I cant identify as a feminist anymore. Feminism not calling out this woman for her poor behavior (Edit: like many poor unfortunate actions of self proclaimed feminists) Talking about mens concerns isnt seen as feminist.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:32 AM
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I thought you were one because you used language like “us” and “we” therefore identifying yourself with the incel who you were trying to clarify for. Also the “im not one of the angry ones” in your 2nd comment made me think “im not one of the angry incels” so im sorry if I mistakenly assumed you were one. All im saying is,you have incels hating on women now because of the change that only happened 60(ish) years ago. I dont expect these women to calm down about it and respectfully discuss about c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:30 AM
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Thanks Edit: yikes...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 06:13 AM
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Hello there Im so sorry for your loss. Ill Make sure to pray for you and your family. Make sure to keep safe.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 06:11 AM
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Ugh is this another one of those female “comedians”? Tbh i only find ally wong funny. (To be clear idk who that is)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:50 AM
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Oh I thought you were an incel explaining why incels as a movement are so angry. I think feminists in general are going to take awhile before they stop being angry. What is it? About 60 years of equality? I can understand why theyre not past being angry but saying that you are an egalitarian movement then turn your back and just vilify and shame men who havent done anything wrong( most recent johnny depp) is just no. Just call it as it is. Tbh its gonna be awhile before women get over it. Im act…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:23 AM
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Bruh its a joke.lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:12 AM
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.... its a debate sub.... what do you want people to do over here? Literally all anyone ever does here is debate. Also why do you want silence? What issue will that solve...not saying anything? I silently protest this comment and issue by not commenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:05 AM
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Thats why theres red pill women. Its a smaller faction but its there. That being said not all women here engage in good faith. The same for men. Feminism has gone off the deep end and refuses to even acknowledge instances when theyre wrong. That being said, redpill should also acknowledge that there are many men who engage in women hating language. It just creates a vicious cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 05:01 AM
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Damn okay being shorter than 6’2 does not constitute disgusting. Wtf. Did OP really say that. Because if she did, i agree virtue signaling all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:52 AM
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How the hell did they know? I sometimes see comments here getting downvoted the hell out of them. No mod ever comments “downvoting isnt allowed”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:48 AM
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No thanks. No one fucks incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:42 AM
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Well damn. Thanks for all your hard work man!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:35 AM
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I think its helped. Im more aware of male gender issues and things like that. So much so i got banned from a feminist sub because talking about male issues is not feminist. Idk what those mods are up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:30 AM
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Damn...i guess thats why i never see them on here. Can we all just agree that extremist groupa that hate one or the other are just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:27 AM
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Thats why rp tells you to self improve after you get over anger phase Edit: also if you cannot be compassionate to an angry male hating feminist then how can you expect women to feel bad for and admit being an incel sucks. Youre kinda asking someone else to do something you cant/wont. I dunno man.thanks for not being a stereotypical incel (if thats what you identify as)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:13 AM
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So youre mad someone doesnt need you anymore? And that you have less bargaining power over women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:11 AM
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Huh? Okay now im confused Were not asking for material donations or even to change anything about what theyre doing. So what do you want women to do? The only thing i can think of is listen to you and your issues, yet you attack this woman because she chooses to engage with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:08 AM
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Maybe with the women youve been asking, but the general consensus of RPWs here is that if hes a SAHD he should be doing most if not all the work. If both work, it should be split as evenly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:31 AM
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Yes its sad. I was pointing out the....(how do you say this)...the double standard(?) that op has. He was saying that in his mind it would be perfectly acceptable for SAHDs to do half or a little bit more of the house work. In this scenario, the woman would be working full time, meaning he would still expect her to do a little bit less than or 50% of the house work. Being a SAHP should be recognized. Anyway I would like to thank you for helping your wife out with the housework. I think its admir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:25 AM
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Notice how op says “stay at home husbands who do half or More of the house work” when really when women stay at home theyre expected to do all if not most of the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:34 AM
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Thank you for making it easier for everyone. Honesty just makes everything easier. For everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 07:13 AM
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Congrats girl!! Im so happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 10:55 PM
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Oh yeah i was weirded out because even I could find it on mobile😂 Side note: Also he isnt banned yet? Wow id like to say thank you for being such a dedicated mod. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 02:10 PM
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Entittlement at its finest. You dont have a right to reject me! Because what? Give me a better reason. Otherwise,you have to give me all your money by buying all my essential oils because I say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 06:52 AM
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Woah id like to ask why?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 06:30 AM
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I was on ask feminists and these women were downright saying " they didnt care for mens mental health because it affects women more and how do it invalidate an argument about mens mental health" pure disappointment. I commented and it got removed because im active on rpw? Its just so..... disappointing
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:58 AM
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Oh i didnt want to assume but women who call themselves feminists and then criticise women for not subscribing to their idea of a successful woman are absolute hypocrites. Its absolutely disgusting to me that feminism will put down another woman because she chooses to be where she is. And dont get me started on how alot of feminist subs here just downright dehumanize and disregard the problems men are going through.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:52 AM
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Omg thanks for the share this is great! Ive been resding up alot about psychology recently!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:23 AM
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I would like to ask who attacked you? Honestly do what you want with your own life. I would just say " well this is what makes me happy" and if they kep badgering you just say " well its a good thing you get to make decisions for yourself and i get to make decisions for myselfl because we would both be vastly unhappy" then end convo. Not worth the time to futher talk or convince them otherwise
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:07 AM
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You know what this is so true and its so disappointing to see feminism devolve into an absolute shit show
/r/MensRights12/04/20 01:28 AM
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Oh thank you! Its very nice to see like minded people like me. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 12:03 AM
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Ahhh i see thank you for taking the time to explain it!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 01:27 PM
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Thank you! I will try to read that in the future. The yearly book sale that happens in my country strangely doesnt have much on hinduism, but i know some minor things about it like the ramayana.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 10:47 AM
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Could you kindly elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 08:10 AM
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Christian but like i read the torah and the quoran and plan to start reading on about taoism
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 08:09 AM
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If you want me to argue from that stance,literally how did the dad contribute to anything good in the child though? He left. Hes gone. Finito. His absence literally made the childs life worse. Look for those studies. Children need their fathers in their lives in a way that would be extremely hard for a woman to compensate for. The mother is still there so any good she put into that kid thats from her. Her being there isnt enough to compensate for the man not being there. So based on what i said …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:41 AM
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Being poor is the main reason why these kids probably turn out bad. Alot of single mothers (70%) also happen to come from black families who also happen to be one of the poorest demographics in america
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:29 AM
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Yeah i love your logic. Most single parents are ? Ding ding ding! Women. Good luck finding a man willing to raise his own kid, much less a kid that wasnt his own. That statistic that says majority of single parents are mothers also says, men are more likely to bail on their children. Yeah lets just keep saying thats okay because you want to keep blaming all women. Nothing the man does is ever wrong/s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:21 AM
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What do you mean 0 responsibility for their childs behavior? What do you mean arent picking up the slack? Okay lets just drop these kids off to government orphanages. Thats not picking up the slack. Raising a kid alone is picking up the slack. Raising a kid with a partner is picking up the slack. Were not blaming it all on the man. Hes literally 50% of the equation. So in school you automatically get -50% but like lets say the rest of the 50% you only got 34%. That 34 is because of the mother. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:17 AM
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Thank God someone said it. Men who blame single mothers for picking up the slack are trash. Full stop. Thats like saying "oh you made the situation slightly better, its totally your fault that its not the best situation even though its totally out of control." Use your brains. You know what? What if singke mothers just abandoned the kid and left the government take care of it, lets see how much better the kid turns out to be without both parents. And i know someone on here is going to complain "…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:24 PM
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Lol whos missing from the picture? The father. Dont go blaming women for picking up the slack men refuse to do. Instead of criticising single mothers, who by the way make majority of the single parent population, why dont you go tell those men to raise their kids right. Theres only so much you can do when the other party refuses to contribute and do their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:18 PM
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Ohhh specifically what techniques or things did you do to ensure (well as much as you could) that the LDR worked ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 11:36 AM
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Hahahha omg. You channeled all that energy into something actually productive. I just hope i can do that if i ever need to. Oh of course. It was so great learning from you!
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 05:46 AM
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Girl ive got time. Its lockdown!😂 youve lived through hell and back .you are so strong for being able to go through all that. I love the part where you sit him down and just tell him this relationship is just for show. This would be a good drama.just saying. Thats amazing the way it all turned out. Im so happy for you. I literally laughed out loud reading that you found your calling by snooping through his computer. I love that. Hope you guys are doing well. Thank you for sharing so much with me
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 01:54 AM
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What was the process like? The peeling away bit? What did you specifically do? Im really curious because most people say narcissism cant really be...i dunno. Most people just leave. You get what i mean?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 12:53 AM
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Thats good. Wow big move. How was it like for you to adjust to a different country? Wow that sounds amazing. You really lead a super interesting life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 12:51 AM
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Wow you saw what you wanted, set your sights, went after it and put in so much effort to get what you want. And i love how you strategized it too (but i played it cool). Thats definitely a wild ride and it probably took a lot of mental and emotional power to just deal with all of that. Kudos to you girl. Congrats i hope your family is well and safe.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 04:21 PM
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Wow thats amazing. Congrats to you. Hope you and your family is safe right now. I guess this goes to show that you can meet anyone anywhere
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 04:17 PM
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Actually this is true. Theres a guy who has been crushing over me since 4th grade and hes had so many weird women over the years. I think his n count is probably at around 35 or something. He does not go for high value women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:55 AM
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Awww thats sweet! Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 02:48 AM
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Ohh wow thanks for the insight. This is so different from the usual RPW answer. Id like to ask, how long did it take for you guys to officially be in a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 02:47 AM
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Thank you! Yes thats true. Thank you for the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/20 02:45 AM
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Hey girl you can try taking a dance class like ballet or jazz that practices gracefulness. Maybe for now, practice walking lightly, posture, etc. One way i started climbing stairs in alight manner is through using the front part of my foot only, to avoid stomping. Idk just some ideas
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/20 05:17 AM
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Oh congratulations! Yes i know this whole crisis is really affecting everyone. What matters though is that youre together. Congrats on the wonderful news! I hope you have a safe pregnancy and delivery!
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/20 02:44 AM
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Dude needs to swallow the actual red pill and actually start improving himself....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:29 AM
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Um no. There is a difference. If you chose to end the relationship because you knew things wouldnt work out but still slept with her knowing you were going to end it, thats pump and dump. It isnt pump and dump when you sleep with her, spend more time with her then break up with her because you realize you dont match.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:26 AM
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Prevailing rationality. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:23 AM
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Awww thats great for you. Its great that you two saw eye to eye. Hopefully you guys are doing well.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 09:04 AM
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Definitely. Dating is not commitment. Wow gotta love a man who has self control! Ahh okay. That seems pretty typical. Hmmm wow.okay. Ill make sure to let him know what my expectations are. Thanks for the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 01:42 AM
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Awww congrats! Im glad it all worked out for you! Definitely different for everyone. Thanks for the response.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 01:24 AM
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Wow thats nice. Talk about knowing what you want! Haha ill make sure to keep what you said about truly listening in mind
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 12:04 PM
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Aww thats amazing! How did you meet him? Wow what you guys have is just so special. Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 07:59 AM
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No its okay. Id still like to hear your answer!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 04:31 AM
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Well he is your first and last! Id like to ask what religion do you two practice?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:43 AM
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How big of a concern is this for you in your relationships? Also are you a man or a woman?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:42 AM
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Ohhh thank you. This puts me at ease. As a virgin i have no experience whatsoever but ive been told you can learn how to satisfy one another.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:41 AM
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Wow congratulations! I hope that goes well for you! Did you feel like he was moving way too fast talking about marriage by the 2nd date?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:40 AM
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Do you feel that the friendship contributed to what made you want to sleep with him before being a couple?
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:39 AM
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Wow that is so romantic. Congratulations. Im glad you were able to find him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:38 AM
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Hey thanks for the advice! Yeah weve been calling regularly and weve been talking about pretty deep things like family, values, yes also about future. I agree on the several months. It honestly takes time to build a deep relationship and it doesnt happen overnight. Thank you! I will definitely be judging based on how i feel its going and time span this relationship has been going.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:37 AM
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Omg congratulations on your daughter and your marriage! I hope you are all doing well. Your story is a bit different from the rest(so far) that ive read. So bear with me ive got questions (haha) You were a couple after 3 dates, didnt you feel like that was a bit quick? What about him made you think you could be a couple? Were you dating other guys before him? Also for clarification, you slept with him after a month? For millionaire matchmaker, what constitutes sufficient monogamy? As someone com…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:35 AM
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Wow thats really beautiful. Ive admired several women in my life who could accomplish that. Congrats on your long marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:28 AM
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Wow talk about childhood crush! Its true. I dont like those relationships where they dont see your faults and just assume youre this perfect person. Because, what do you really know about me except for your idealized version of me, that will definitely be crushes once you get to know me more. Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:27 AM
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Awww congratulations! I hope you have a beautiful wedding. The second date/3rd date doesnt seem to quick for me personally if youve been best friends with someone for so long. You already know them inside out, without their guard up.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:24 AM
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Wow im so happy for you. Actually for me, ideally i would be best friends with my SO before going to the Bf/Gf phase. Im so glad it worked out for you. Thanks for the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/20 03:21 AM
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Wow im so happy for you! I guess this shows its definitely different for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 11:49 PM
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Wow thats such a sweet love story. Hahaha sounds like he really is the man of your dreams! Thank you so much for the advice and concern! Ive actually been already doing just that. Hes expressed that he wants to build a future and how i fit into that. Ive just been dwelling on patience for our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 10:37 AM
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Wow. You two sound like you have an amazing relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 09:55 AM
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Wow thats absolutely beautiful. Thanks for your response. Good luck with the wedding planning!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 09:52 AM
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Oh congratulations on your upcoming wedding. What about him made you feel that he was the one you wanted to marry?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 09:35 AM
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Wow thats amazing. Congrats on your long marriage! What about him attracted you?
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 09:32 AM
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Are you insane? How are men oppressed because of the reasons you mentioned? What because they die younger? Men often are more willing to do high risk jobs or more taxing jobs which take a toll on their bodies, more men smoke, drink and get into vices. Men are also more aggressive naturally. Men are also more prone to get physical. This is like blaming someone else for your biology and life choices. Same thing with jobs. What barriers are men facing to do more low risk jobs? Desk jobs? Why are yo…
/r/MensRights18/03/20 04:21 AM
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Other men like to snapchat too. Omg looks like these hobbies arent exclusive to either sex but an overwhelming majority of people who enjoy it are men.its just women being called stupid though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:12 AM
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Ive seen yoga done well and let me tell you doing handstands and shit, full body control... its amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:53 AM
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Yes but why is it such a big deal with men that women like snapchat and to women, eh who cares if the guys get together and talk about sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 03:35 AM
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Ohhhh thanks for telling me!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 01:37 AM
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Omg its been so long since shes posted but her vids are so helpful and amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 01:08 AM
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What the actual fuck is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 03:33 AM
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Nicely worded thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:49 PM
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Wow thanks for the quote. Anyway i think the most shocking thing ive seen is that men are really REALLY sexual creatures. Like some men cant even separate themselves from it.it takes up a huge amount of their time and the fact that men are just become “dogs” when they hang out and talk to each other about getting it. Went out once with a couple of guy friends and i ended up being the only girl in the group. The things i found out....the things that they were doing when they were kids is just😨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:29 AM
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Dont worry it was clear
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/20 05:09 AM
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Men cheat too. I suppose we all should be miserable now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:59 PM
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They think they can get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 03:29 AM
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Extreme feminism says, if you open the door for someone that can be counted as sexist, but extreme conservatism says if the man doesnt pay for the whole bill hes not worth the time and isnt serious. Man i feel bad for you guys. Honestly its so hard to weave through all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:53 PM
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Wtf hahhahahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:41 AM
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Hmmm yeah well i mean what statistics or stufies can we really trust at this point if the subjects lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:31 AM
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They cheat but they still love their wives. Thats not oneitis anymore. Because there are literally 3 people in the relationship at that point. Wife,husby and mistress Just because you love faster doesnt mean its real love or that the love is really as deep as its supposed to be. Just google average sexual partners(10 vs 7) for men and women. Men will have more more relationships(6 vs 5) as compared to women. So if it really is oneitis why do they have more partners on average. I cant say i know …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:41 AM
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Hola i know youre having a hard time at school now and have no motivation. Id just like to ask if you have friends who youve talked to in detail about your parents and their separation. I know it seems like its far off base but having a stable family is one of the key things that help you grow confidence and self worth. You mentioned that you have no motivation to do anything. Could it be possible that youre not balancing out your life? There are 5 things you should look out for 1. Family 2. SO …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 03:05 AM
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Okay lets just say that this assumption is true, that as you said, women cheat as much as men cheat. How is it possible that men have more oneitis compared to women if they both equally cheat just as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:28 AM
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The point of this is that the language equates women to things. Now youre just saying its all human beings when clearly used in the context provided,it means women. I dont care why the term exists i care that youve basically called women objects.i dont mind if youre dating around when you dont have an exclusive relationship, theres nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:14 AM
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Dude thats not a small fix. That just means when women cheat they leave 70% of the time. It doesnt say how much more women as compared to men cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:09 AM
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I like how you excuse everything you dont agree with with stuff you cant be sure about but then also excuse male cheating with “they need variety” and women cheat and leave their partner 70% of the time. Where did you even get this statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:10 AM
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Thank you. Im glad i saw this comment. Ive been reading through and so many comments say “ there must be something wrong with you”. Yes there might be some stuff you have to work on but that doesnt mean he gets to cheat on you because you need to improve yourself
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/20 02:55 AM
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Oh hahahah i see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:30 AM
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women dont compare men to things. Thats the point. The fact that its so hard for you to acknowledge.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:22 AM
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Have you ever heard of a girl complain that her man was being too clingy? No. Ive heard of men say women were too clingy. Really men have more onitis? Explain to me why all the married men in my family have cheated on their wives yet none of the women have cheated on their husbands? I know men like to date multiple girlfriends, most women dont do that.if were talking about causal dating then of course everyone casually dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:18 AM
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Spinning plates can just be replaced with juggling women. In that metaphor or whatever the woman isnt the spinning part shes the plate part. Idk why i even need to explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:11 AM
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Im sorry did you miss your history lesson? Dont bring it 500 years back even 100 years ago women didnt have the same kind of rights men had. Oh would you like me to name a few? Cant own shares in the family business, aunt controlled by her father and couldnt get married to the person she wanted to, mother is a single parent who never got treated for depression she was just”lazy”, both grans have to deal with having no say on how they spend their own money. All women in my family have been cheate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:07 AM
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Hmmm okay i can get behind this. Thank you for doing that. But i mean everyone has a position on everything so... maybe im not getting what youre saying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:34 PM
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You yourself agree though that there are several negative things in trp ideology and yet dont care to call them out as someone who clearly is more familiar with the ideology more so than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:58 PM
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My point about the second class thing is that it will take time for women to finally actually be equals to men. Just because a movement is decades old and on paper we have equal rights doesnt mean society is already treating women the same as men. its not even women who are long dead. I still experience it today, my mom does and my gran does too.What do you mean long dead? I still get the “go back to your kitchen” comments. Stop denying that its there. I mean ffs spin plates. By the language you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:52 PM
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“90% of women are never going to be more than a plate” Hmmm i dont think i need say any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:37 PM
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Oh sorry i meant to point out that there are alot of women out there who dont get partners or sex and are viewed as spinsters, yet arent forming bitter groups like men and creating their own ideologies where most of them “circle jerk” each other as some men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:32 PM
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Oh okay. I just dislike that trp generalises women as these things that need to be manipulated nay are meant to be manipulated as they are dangerous snakes that need to handled with care, when in reality both genders have these problematic attitudes. Sorry about that .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:29 PM
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Unfortunately... i honestly think that moderation is best with anything. One should be willing to call out the horrible shit side of anything you support. Not doing so damages it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:21 PM
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Yes a little nuance and filtering goes a long way in any philosophy, ideology, anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:18 PM
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You know its baffling to me that some people dont get the second class citizen thing. Women are just getting over being the second class citizen for literal centuries and here people are complaining about “women power” like its such a problematic thing. Edit: people go crazy pointing out how feminism is so horrible with extremist views but when a woman points out the extremist toxic ideologies of trp its no of course not. There isnt any anti trp group but so many anti feminist groups. Stop telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:13 PM
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So you agree with what OP said. These view points exist in trp and that trp actually promotes these things. You know its not bad to call out the bs any movement has. I dont care if were on the same side, ill call out your bs any day because if i dont, those comments damage the movement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:11 PM
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Probably experienced something horrible happen to her done by a man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:05 PM
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Yeah women are not helpless.women are commenting and calling out the horrible things about trp. Its not just another thread hating trp. As long as these disgusting points of view exist, women get to call them out on their bull
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:04 PM
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Sometimes i view trp as a crutch for low Eq men. Some men are okay tho as long as they take what they agree with and leave behind what they dont. Not just blindly following a philosophy that is littered with so many toxic people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:56 PM
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You know such men exist too? Like the ones who leave their wives for prettier younger women. Thats a common trope and happens all the time. Youre literally complaining about something that exists in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:51 PM
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Omg what the hell....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:42 PM
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Crazy cat lady trope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:38 PM
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..... You do know that women also have that “the one” trope right? Just look at media today, women are always looking for the one. Its not just men. Thank you for explaining the plates part. It makes more sense but the fact that you equate women to mere things is just another part of trp thats just no. You do know women were treated as merely property right or the second class citizen for most of human history right? Even if we do “spin plates” we dont generally equate you to a literal thing. Ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:36 PM
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Yes but those comments happened after you replied those things. Not before. If you reread your comments you were already inserting your personal biases and assuming that she was one of the women who followed the 3 date rule that you first mentioned. She was commenting based on her personal preferences and you were responding with a norm you observed in women, so tbh you were inserting your general idea of what women do into her statements without actually reading and listening to what she was sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:15 AM
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Hmmm i like your comment its made me consider that if OP actually voiced her discomfort maybe then her boyfriend would have defended her if the guy kept making sexual comments
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:13 AM
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Exactly. I feel that OP is more disturbed about the fact that her boyfriend felt no need to say anything even in a subtle way
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:10 AM
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Yes i totally agree with what all of you have said. I think the reason why OP is abit unnerved is because she wanted her man to protect her. Not that she couldnt do it herself or be an adult about it, but because she feels that theres a lack of “ive got your back” from her boyfriend in these types of situations. Its always nice to have someone ready to take action for you and it doesnt make her any less of an adult. She already gave subtle cues. Also i think the fact that her boyfriend didnt do …
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 06:05 AM
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Yeah i got your point. Passion and chemistry are a huge consideration in dating.Im just stating something i noticed. No where in her comments did she state a time limit. She merely stated “ having sex too soon can prove to be a dangerous risk for a woman” because its true. The woman will have to deal with at worst an unwanted pregnancy and a man who skips out. Then you replied with “how does having sex on the 3rd date only deter unwanted risks” So you already inserted your own ideas into her bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:42 AM
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Burn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:29 AM
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The appreciation is warranted. Thats fine tho. This is reddit not some academic paper
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:26 AM
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Dude i think you just successfully gaslighted the other person. Unless she edited her comments you were the one who brought up the “i wont date a girl again if she doesnt kiss me by the second date thing”. She never really gave a hard time limit. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:10 AM
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Um the worst is unwanted pregnancy...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:04 AM
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My gosh dude thats overwhelming class right there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:01 AM
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What the hell. This needs more upvotes. Thank you for taking the time to type this all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:55 AM
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?? I thought you replied no to hierarchies so i explained why i thought they existed. I thought you were talking about market place not market value (which i didnt address) but either way affect one another. I agree with you on that I dont get whats naive. Kindly explain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:36 PM
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Thats because women tend to date up. That would depend based on what hierarchy or measuring stick the man is using. I think we can use the common trope of foreigners tend to go for prostitutes ( at least in my country). Foreigners are seen as high on the hierarchy here, but over there, are actually low on the hierarchy scale and so view themselves low and go for low value women I think for the sake of this point we also have to look at rich men who go for maids.rich men are high on the hierarchy…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:22 PM
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Hmm okay. Its my belief that hierarchies are a natural occurrence and the reason why we have them isnt because we just made it up. For examples id look to mammals who live in packs. There is a clear pecking order in all of them. Then i look at societies, especially tribal ones that distinctly name the leader, the middle class then the lowest class( usually slaves). Then an example most people would know the bully, his bully friends which he leads, those he does not touch,the guys he sometimes be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:04 PM
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Hmmm if thats how you view market value then id have to say hierarchy definitely defines your market value. People higher on the chain get more demand. Did it occur to you that the women who are bad in the hierarchy landed men who are bad in the hierarchy as well? Well hierarchy is not only defined by job. It can be a number of things like physical strength, monetary, intelligence, social etc. I wouldnt use just the job as the sole measuring stick for being low on the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 03:53 PM
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By market value do you mean how in demand you are? I would like an example of the many high valued people who are low on the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:59 PM
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Oh youre one of those. So you dont believe in alpha males or why men need to engage in fights and physical competitions to see whos better or the fact that men love to bet on random shit just to see whos better skill/ luck wise. Or the fact that societies operate on the very existence of hierarchies and most of these hierarchies are male dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:57 PM
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Hierarchy meaning the female social hierarchy. Men have the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:26 PM
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Thats true. I dont see how being a slut will help you in terms of hierarchy. It just makes you look “easy” as alot of guys say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:24 PM
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Oh okay. Thanks for the clarification man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:23 AM
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Do you realise how ignorant you sound? Mens whole careers have been destoyed by one single rape allegation. People determine your reputation and they wont look at the good shit youve done when they see wife beater on the list. “Oh hey look hes donated half his salary to poverty,its okay that he beat his wife” You need to safeguard your reputation like you safeguard your “frame” around women.Once you break it, no ones gonna wanna sleep with you if you get what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:54 AM
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Im just stating that this is one of the damaging schools of thought promoted by many mens groups and is counter productive to actually any man that goes through what johnny has from getting justice. Really if you want someone to “hold their tongue”, you should be telling rp to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:43 AM
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What the hell. Are you serious? How good was his technique and overall body control
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:29 AM
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Oh sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:28 AM
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Its true men get attacked for it, but being nearly 50% of the population, youd think that men would ban together against the feminists. Not only do majority of feminists not care about mens issues, but other men themselves. Some men will act in sympathy but others will actually pick on these weaknesses. Other men follow the feminist movement and blatantly not mention mens issues. Other men just wont mind it or voice an opinion. I was watching a vid about mens rights issues and was surprised to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:19 PM
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Aaand this is why there arent any mens support groups. Yall got your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:09 PM
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Ive never thought about it that way, but now that youve said it, its so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:55 PM
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The age thing makes sense because men only start to settle down in the 30-40 range. At this point hormones are not running all over the place and start to stabilize. Jordan peterson( pray for the legend) actually stated once that men in their teens to early 20s are more creative at this stage but at the same time, are more likely to do violent things. Because hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:47 PM
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Good for you girl.Same here. Honestly reading and listening to logical arguments have really helped me push through and have gotten me out of the emotional stasis
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 12:05 PM
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Except that wasnt the point of my comment at all. I said asian culture does not like women to have big arms at all. Period. smaller arms are more attractive than bigger arms Big arms like in the photo you posted are not attractive. Look at all the stars in asia, in fact look at hollywood. Most if not all women there dont have arms that big. Porn stars?models? Havent seen any. Everyone here except you seem to get it. Smh man whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:59 AM
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Same here. I suspected being depressed but too scared to actually see a doctor confirm it. Idk why it seemed like the finality of being depressed is actually scarier than not knowing and then theres the part where if im not depressed whats wrong with me then? You can only go so far thinking that way and eventually, youll run yourself into the ground. If you care about yourself treat yourself as if youre someone of value and just do what you need to do.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 11:31 AM
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I think you missed the point here. Were not saying women get super big muscles like men, just that their arms get bigger. That womans arm is comparatively bigger than the average womans arm. Thats the statement were making.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:04 AM
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Woah are you serious? Damn ive never seen any obesse people in my gym. Ive seen muscle big but never fat big. I wonder how that looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 11:01 AM
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On a general level if someone starts physical activity from being thin, their size will grow? Comparatively speaking my rock climbing girlfriends have bigger arms than my friends who dont really exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:31 AM
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My dude please dont say someones opinion is irrelevant especially if its based on facts because then i can just totally dismiss your argument based on what youve observed from people who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:17 AM
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Hello sounds like you rock climb as well 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:16 AM
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Oh hello! I hope you have a great time rock climbing. My gym uses the french grading system and im a 6b-7a. I dont boulder tho.id rather rock climb or traverse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:16 AM
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Hmm you have a point. Why is culture more of a factor in beauty for men than it is for women. The only cultural example i can think of for men is that asians like clean shaven men where in the west they find beards more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:07 AM
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Oh i see what youre saying. Like cultures that find women who are fatter more attractive because it shows wealth. Like chinese footbinding or when to those tribal women have to put rings around their necks as they age(forgot what it was called). Or how whiteness is attractive in the east because it shows you dont need to work under the sun and being tan is attractive in the west because it shows you have time to be in the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:40 AM
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Thanks for breaking it down. So i guess both groups get caught up the same way on those topics. Id say yes because you dont immediately register “ thats not attractive because its make up” you look at her and say shes attractive on impulse then have to think about why you shouldnt find that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:13 PM
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Wait im sorry im new here, could you break this down for me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:04 PM
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I wouldnt say its because im a weight accumulating person. Think of the movement of rock climbing ( in terms of arms) as doing pull ups. Rock climbing requires an emphasis on arms(finger and grip included) back and core muscles. Lower body is important but not as much as upper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:55 PM
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Wait are you a woman or a man? Also bare faced or “natural” looking makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:51 PM
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the part that men point makeup out as an ugly trend yet rate women who wear make up as more attractive. ( did i interpret that correctly)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:32 PM
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Woah. Damn. Thanks for the info dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:28 PM
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Right is more attractive on paper but tbh id be intimidated by the man if i met him face to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:28 PM
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Id like to know your opinion on the make up debate. All the girls who wear make up are rated higher than those who dont. Well at least where im from.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:07 PM
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Im a rock climber. Huge guys intimidate me. My cousin who isnt remotely into any sport or gym loves huge guys. Depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:05 PM
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Well a fat guy is gross. A fat woman is gross. Irregardless of gender, fat is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:02 PM
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Holy hell what the heck happened to her? She looks like the painting woman in It.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:01 PM
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Women dont chill. Why do you think theres an arms race for who has better make up, better clothes, bigger booty and plastic surgery. My dude they have their own dominance hierarchy they would like to climb as well. Why do you think the “glow up” or “makeover” is such a huge trope for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:59 PM
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Im a rock climber and i just love the sport for the mental and physical challenges it brings. Im never bored trying to solve a problem. I got bigger arms and my guy friends have said “ i just look like a fitter version of me” idk if it was good or bad. I went to visit my mom who i havent seen in 6 months and her first comment was “ your arms are so big now” needless to say, she didnt like it. It was unfeminine. Shes always discouraged me from sports that build up muscle. Its the asian aesthetic …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:56 PM
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Oof yall no one wants a guy who looks more feminine than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:17 PM
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Lets just continue this in the other thread hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 12:56 AM
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Okay well i guess ill take your word for it despite me saying “tbh men pick on other mens weakness more” and you saying “not really women withhold sex” I guess the discussion has evolved to aggression and vunerability. So ill answer that. Except that doesnt that seem illogical? Like first the goal is being strong, leading to not being picked on by other males leading to getting laid and not the other way around. Immediate needs are a more pressing matter in the wild to far off goals. No male thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 12:49 AM
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First of all i dont even know where you got your “quote “ from. The “im not saying women should be attracted to these men? “I dont see it in your thread and i sure as hell never commented that. The point of this thread is men’s weaknesses being exploited. You literally said “ not really tho its not men choosing to not have sex with men, its women” when i said before that “tbh its men exploiting weakness of other men” or smthing. From this any normal person can see that you are saying “ women pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:02 PM
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Just because you choose to not have sex with someone doesnt mean its exploiting or picking on a weakness? Youve literally been unable to give an example of a woman picking on that weakness besides withholding sex?which in itself is not a form of picking on a weakness. Ive aleady stated numerous examples yet you fail to address even one of them? If you want an example. Youre at a club and you accidentally bump into someone whos an aggressive dude. You both start the common “ what you want boiiii?…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:39 PM
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Except the key word here is “usual”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:16 PM
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“Or that theyre easy to rob” which is a sign of weakness. If they back down after being insulted its seen as a form of weakness because the other male is asserting dominance over the insulted one. Crying or emotional outbursts are seen as weakness because it shows you are more affected than the other person. Lol please stop trying to blame women for something that men do to one another. Whats the worst a woman is going to do when you show youre emotionally vunerable? Not date you. And a man? Mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:11 PM
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Lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:04 PM
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Dude that not the main reason men teach their sons that. Its cos other men will bully their son. Idk if youve ever even noticed its male on male dominance like it is female on female dominance. Men establish a dominance heirarchy just as females do except for them its through violence and for women its through words and emotional exchange. You can say that a competition is created among men because of the scarcity and pickiness of women but its not women directly exploiting that weakness. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:06 PM
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Thats not picking on a weakness btw. Thats just being not attracted to it. If a man is weak, the usual response for women is to just leave them alone. Men on the other hand, get violent. Havent you ever seen a man say to his boy,dont cry becuase you look like a pussy or boys bullying the “gay guy” . Women naturally come to comfort or sympathise with the person because of maternal instincts. What you view as “picking” or exploiting has a very different definition if thats the way you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:55 AM
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Tbh its other men that pick on that weakness. Look at other animals and dominance hierarchies. Most of the females leave it to the males to hash it out themselves. Lions, chimps, etc are all examples of this. Of course that doesnt mean that men have to exhibit dominance all the time. Being too emotionally closed off can alienate your partner as well so theres that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:49 AM
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Same here. Almost everyone responding says the same thing. why do you think men need to repress emotions? And where do they learn to repress emotions. Personally speaking, my brothers and cousins who are majority male have been taught to repress their emotions by their fathers so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:56 AM
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Actually what you replied makes sense. MTGOWs always say to touch the other sex even in a non sexual way so that you get accustomed to their touch or feel closer. It shouldnt be touch in a weird way of course.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 05:43 AM
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Oh i guess we just dont agree on the definition of dominance i guess. I look at the common man proposes as a form of dominance or like giving more power to him, because the woman in this situation is just left waiting for the man to make the first move. If it was truly an equal playing field wouldnt there be an equal amount of women to men who pop the question first?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:47 AM
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Honestly hate those times when women claim theyve been raped after to consenting to it.Like you consented to it at the time, please dont claim rape when you just regret having sex with the man. More on topic tho, its not the surprise, she like the type that literally has power over her, or dominates her. Think nexflix series YOU obsession plus rape. So shes attracted to fantasies where the guy manipulates her as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:51 AM
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Like for example was your husband first to propose? You wouldnt be attracted to your husband if he didnt show some form of dominance in a particular aspect of life. Thats why im saying its not total dominance but somewhere along the scale of dominance or power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:48 AM
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Hmmm true. In this situation tho, even if she doesnt admit it, theres an underlying want for it and she publicly admits she has rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:40 AM
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Yeah i can see how someone would be offended and it is a hard pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:38 AM
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I agree that the woman has more power in terms of wanting the other so much more but theres also the fact that you are not in power totally. By imagining a rape fantasy she is giving up her power to something thats stronger than her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:37 AM
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Because she imagines herself in that situation and is extremely attracted to it. I dont get why you imply its dominance in everything like there isnt a scale of dominance. Like why do women like confident men, it shows some form of dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:34 AM
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No. She didnt. But to be clear, i mean even dominance in small things. Like the guy proposes. That in itself is dominance because the woman waits for the man to propose. She does nothing until the man does. Or lets say confidence, decisiveness. Theyre related to having power/ dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:30 AM
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I dont mean “ i control everywhere you go” domination. I mean stuff like hes confident enough to assert his beliefs type stuff. Small stuff in everyday life. I dont get why its so hard to admit you like a powerful guy when youre attracted to a situation where someone has more power over you. If that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:26 AM
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Yeah sorry about that, i meant women who enjoy rape fantasies. Right. There are alot of qualities in a man that are required in rape fantasy that also line up with being attractive like confidence and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 07:22 AM
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But dont you think your kink translates to everyday life on some level? Even if that level is minute? I mean its a kink you are attracted to because of who you are. There must be an aspect or dynamic of it that attracts you to it .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:03 AM
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Dude i didnt say she enjoys rape because she enjoys rape fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:59 AM
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Better safe than sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:54 AM
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But you enjoy those fantasies right? So something about you informed that decision to like that particular thing and doesnt that somehow translate to it affecting your life, even on a subconscious level? Like youre more likely to be attracted to certain things than others because of their similarity,however small, to that private fantasy. The thing is she was saying that enjoying rape fantasies had no effect whatsoever in her real life and i just find that extremely hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:51 AM
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Im not saying because she likes fantasy rape she wants to be raped. Im saying dominance( even on a minute level) is attractive to her. Dominance not only in the bedroom but in real everyday life, like when youre dating, she likes the guy to be forward. Its not a matter of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:44 AM
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Wow you do really have a unique experience. What i got from reading this is that women like to be dominated with consent.I mean consent wasnt the issue and i wasnt saying women want to be raped because of rape fantasies. I was just stating that its weird that they would enjoy that but not aknowledge that on some level dominance is attractive to them. not contesting anything about consent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:38 AM
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Right on. Its probably because being bullied or surviving any damage/trauma shows that despite what that person has gone through, hes survived which itself is a show of strength and dependability to a certain degree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:43 AM
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I think even the approval of people shes not attracted to matters. Like you know when people have fantasies ( common trope for women) where everyone is admiring them even if that person means 0 to them?like a random person in their life whos just an aquaintance. Its definitely a boost in ego if someone id attracted to you but you dont reciprocate. Doesnt matter the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:38 AM
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