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Great call with inviting her out to existing plans, thanks. While I didn't think of this as a "flaking" problem really, I should probably go read some material on reducing flakes as well.
/r/seduction10/07/15 07:28 PM
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IMO you have to have the right kind of "comic personality" for this to work. Dane Cook, Jerry Seinfeld, Sara Silverman - good. They're energetic or laid back, but comfortable in how they present themselves. They are confident and project ownership over the room. Louie CK, Steven Wright - bad. Their comedy is self-critical, awkward, etc. I love them, but it's not congruent with good pickup. Now when you're on a BIG stage, it doesn't matter what you do. You will get tons of value just from being a…
/r/seduction10/07/15 04:28 PM
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No, you're right. I would say that the most common problem with flaking is same-day cancellation of solid plans for BS reasons.
/r/seduction12/06/13 08:08 PM
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Good point. No-call flake is very different from flaking on your party for example. The way Thirftx mentioned having a real conversation made me think it was a more serious type of flake.
/r/seduction11/06/13 03:49 PM
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Did she give you a reason for flaking twice? To me flaking once is bad enough... I'm curious why you continued to pursue things with her?
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:28 PM
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Fair enough that she can choose whether or not to keep talking to you based on her own communication preferences. Maybe I didn't make my point so well. I'd imagine that girls that you might want to be exclusive with (ie high quality, high self-esteem girls) will be turned off by your unwillingness to spend 30 seconds sending them a text the same day. I find myself to be a high quality, high self-esteem guy, and I feel the same way. A couple hours delay, sure. You don't need to be at her beck and…
/r/seduction06/06/13 07:23 PM
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While I understand what you're saying about seduction being pure in its efforts to build attraction, we also learn that we need to have higher standards for ourselves, both in how we conduct ourselves and what behavior we accept from others. If a girl doesn't respond to me within a day, and didn't apologize or give me a good reason, I give her one chance, and then cut her out. That's a waste of my time, and she's not giving me the satisfaction that I'm looking for in sending that text (whether i…
/r/seduction06/06/13 03:36 AM
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Nobody is 100% in-state 100% of the time. Nobody has perfect nights every night. Almost anybody can improve with practice. Being able to pull any girl, at any time, anywhere... this makes me think you've read The Game and have never actually seen a pro PUA in the field. Nothing is guaranteed, everybody gets blown out sometimes, all you can do (and what you should focus on) is improving. Hope this comes off as a helpful observation rather than a nasty response: You sound like a spoiled child. Und…
/r/seduction01/06/13 08:19 PM
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Got this from a DeAngelo book or video or something a long time ago - here's a great way to very simply achieve good posture. Stand up straight, with your feet at shoulder width, head straight ahead. Find your sternum, the bone in your chest directly in front of your heart. Now, pretend that there is a string attached to the center of your sternum, and it's being pulled upwards. As the pull becomes stronger, your chest lifts up and out, you shoulders naturally move back, your lower back moves in…
/r/seduction31/05/13 03:38 PM
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This is a slap-in-the-face shit test, although you earned it by being passive aggressive. I'm not a god with women, yet, but I would be upfront - "Yeah, it's hard to get a hold of you. I'm doing XXX on YYY, come with me". Make it a fun thing to do, but something you wanted to do anyway. For me this would be a concert, going to a particular bar I love, or maybe some cool (actually cool, not Monet, even if you love Monet) art exhibit. If she says she can't make it, and doesn't offer any reschedule…
/r/seduction31/05/13 02:11 PM
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Thanks for the FR, and nice work. I'm in the camp that she was looking to pick you up - BUT - you certainly didn't fuck anything up, and were able to maintain her attraction and keep her focused for the full night. No easy task, if she was an HB8 she had other opportunities out there. But, please, I hope you bought drinks back for her friend.
/r/seduction27/05/13 06:19 AM
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More luck than anything, but there's a lot to be said for being ready to take advantage of what comes your way!
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:40 PM
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Where are you heading?
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:35 PM
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NYC
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:35 PM
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For the record, I met up with HB6 and had a completely crazy night. HB7 changed her mind after sobering up, although I think I would have had a better chance of getting it back on track if I initiated getting together for innocent reasons as opposed to being explicit.
/r/seduction18/05/13 08:32 PM
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Yeah, in retrospect I see all these as well. Clearly I lost the initiative and was following - always, always lead. General question: there was really no way to suggest a time as they were both working different shifts today, and I didn't know the hours. I suppose better to suggest a time that does NOT work than ask what will work?
/r/seduction17/05/13 09:10 PM
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I don't have much outer game skill, so this advice won't be like puaCB's, but I have worked for a long time cultivating my inner game. I think inner game is the key to dating multiple women, because you're exponentially multiplying your need to be congruent, outcome-independent, and in control. I find that three at a time is all I can handle, but then I prefer to have closer relationships with women. The three would be meaningful relationships that go beyond just sex, and I'm often emotionally c…
/r/seduction26/05/12 03:35 AM
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