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testerod/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 03:40 PM
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testerod/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 03:28 PM
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Wrote this several months ago over at Red Pill Reddit http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1wk8og/rp_lessons_for_my_son/ Rollo ended up doing a post on it as well... http://therationalmale.com/2014/02/07/lessons-for-my-son/ I've slowly started implementing some of the lessons here with my 12 year old son and so far, so good. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/14 11:02 AM
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Definitely "cheaper to keep her" phase and as a child of divorce myself don't want to put my kids through it... Although am genuinely enjoying her company these days as well. We'll see.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 12:11 AM
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Replying to Take and asd... Was in a similar situation to OP. Suspected cheating, had lots of potential evidence but no proof. Still don't. Also, the sex at home just fucking sucked. Infrequent, cold, mechanical and got shut down often. The short story: Stopped wearing her wedding ring... She gave me a lame response about it getting dirty, not wanting to lose it or some shit. Found emails about her wanting to grab a beer with a "friend" at the bar down the road from her house (his wife and kids …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 01:00 AM
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Indeed... "You can sleep with [black people]. You can bring them in, you can do whatever you want. The little I ask you is not to promote it on that ... and not to bring them to my games." (5:15) http://www.tmz.com/2014/04/26/donald-sterling-clippers-owner-black-people-racist-audio-magic-johnson/#ixzz30B8JZ4qD
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:15 AM
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Totally agree with this. In my more beta days, I was always worrying about money, job, career, future and expressed these worries openly worth the SO... As Heartiste says "vaclang!" I really can't believe I didn't just instinctually know that was a really dumb idea. Complete lack of abundance mentality and a total turn off. Just yesterday my SO overheard a convo I was having on the phone with a business partner about a contractor that didn't perform. I could end up losing more than $10K. She ask…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:37 AM
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The Mosou chicks are actually bangable too: http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/m/yunnan/luguhu/2011-12/01/content_14197453.htm
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 07:14 PM
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RP Haiku... Rumor has it Short title Settle for the nice guy Narrated as love Is more important than a small thing Like getting cuckolded Or the Hulk guy doing a role Shit After finding out She's nailed a pair on him He proposes right there Plus that's a totally post wall chick That's heavy...
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:59 PM
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Agreed... Not only that, he should find two high class hookers and Invite them over for VD Day and have a threesome in the living room right in front of them.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 02:40 AM
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Agree... Head on over to MMSL Forums (Google it), and review the message boards. Lots of guys in your situation and lots more who have taken the LTR version of the RP and give some really good advice, share their personal BP struggles, etc. It's helped me immensely. Also, buy the books. Athol Kay differs from hard core RP'ers like Rollo Tomassi or Chateau Heartiste in a lot of ways -- he focuses on saving LTR's if possible -- but the core messages/insights are the same.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 03:56 PM
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Word.... Check out the chicks these dwarves are pulling: Peter Dinklage: http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2011/cbb/blog/111003/peter-dinklage-440.jpg Verne Troyer: http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-N0APjIWN9Nk/Th45Yezk9vI/AAAAAAAAAWc/yyayzlRk-B0/s1600/Verne-Troyer-Ranae-Shrider.jpg Wee Man: http://cdn2.screenjunkies.com/wp-content/uploads/a.jpg And if you say "its the money" you're reaching for excuses.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 10:17 PM
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Different talk. Who says this is the sum total of wisdom I pass along to my kid?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:41 AM
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Well... Here's a shot: It's the perfect game for introverts, but introvert doesn't mean lack of self-confidence. It only means that you get your energy from small/intimate discussions, not from large groups of people. Introverts can also read people in an individual situation better I believe because we communicate better in intimate settings. Read "Amused Mastery" from Rollo first: http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ If your prey makes eye contact with you from across a room, …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 02:57 AM
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Great advice, and the Mark Twain quote is gold. Probably a good idea to build these nuggets of wisdom around parables to really make them stick e.g. (at the appropriate age) "Son says to a bull, dad lets go down that hill and fuck one of them cows... Bull says to son, son let's WALK down that hill and fuck them all."
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 11:14 PM
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Took me years to internalize and accept this one. I'm just not an extrovert, so cocky-funny would never work for me and came off as totally disingenuous. But holy hell, did I learn to work the "aloof-amused mastery" game. Not everything works on all women, but man, a "mysterious/I just can't figure this guy out" vibe is like chick catnip to a lot of them.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 11:11 PM
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Or better yet... Maybe just keep it focused on more general physical traits (that we have limited ability to change -- e.g. tall/short, skinny/ muscular, good looking/not) vs. attitude. Advantage of that is I can show him clear examples of marginal looking, even ugly dudes in contemporary society that women swoon over because of their attitude.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:54 PM
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Fair enough. That's why I'm asking... Nix #2.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:10 PM
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Yeah, you're right. There's probably two convos to have with him. One about girls generally when he first starts noticing them, and a second when he's older and ready for sex.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:03 PM
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Yep... Definitely a guy with a very transparent and severe cuck fetish. Even a sub-fetish -- gets off on raising the child of an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 03:35 AM
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Ramp up the dirty talk... Get filthy. After several years of mediocre sex with SO I started saying filthy shit in bed. Worked wonders. You have to be dominant though. If you're fucking her from behind, whisper in her ear "I own your pussy" and then make her repeat it back... "Say you own my pussy". She fucking did it and was totally into it. I was floored... That's when RP finally permanently imprinted in my brain.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 04:32 AM
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Picture her taking a shit... A great big diarrhea shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 01:54 AM
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Blue Valentine... Hands down the absolute best study guide for what NOT to do in a LTR. Depressing as hell and the sex/intimacy scenes are the most cringeworthy I've ever seen. The movie actually gave me nightmares after I watched it. Plot: Dude marries girl who gets knocked up by another dude. Raises kid as his own. Early signs of alpha, but guy goes full beta. Things end very poorly.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:22 PM
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Thirded... Founded MMSL 4 months ago and have made huge strides. The message boards are gold and users give really fantastic advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:57 PM
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Hah! Was just getting ready to post about gaslighting when I saw this. Nice catch... I picked up on it instantly as well. Keep in mind also that gas lighting is extremely common among full on sociopaths. This woman fits the sociopath type to a T. More importantly, it looks like it's working on her poor husband. You can see by his post that he still doubts his own senses: "The first is the nagging 0.1% of me that says her denial is so absurd, so insane, that maybe the reason it seems so bizarre i…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 05:26 PM
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OP is absolutely dead on 100% correct... Stopped whacking 4 months ago and having WAY better sex with the wife. I swear that letting the testosterone build up makes me more attractive to women. They have a sixth sense and can smell the fucking manliness shooting out of my pores. Instead of watching sports I've been mountain biking, surfing, lifting, and today did a two hour hike up a brutal mean mother fucking mountain with my 11 year old son (who's a total video gamer). You should have seen the…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:10 AM
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Or go to www.therationalmale.com and search the terms. Rollo has the best, most detailed descriptions.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 03:00 AM
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I want to learn from this mistake, but can't figure out what I should have done... Left... "Knock yourself out sweetheart. Have fun." In fact, the minute she started jabbering with random schmoes on the street - Hail a cab, get in and tell her "Hey, sorry... You're just not my type". Shut the door and leave her standing on the curb.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:58 AM
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Second that on Blue Valentine... Absolutely devastating movie and saw much of myself in beta married dude until last two months. I couldn't sleep for two nights after watching it... The sex scene in the theme hotel is horrifyingly cringeworthy.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 01:21 AM
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Long term relationship
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:12 PM
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Agree... The Rational Male was the seminal catalyst that helped me fully understand RP. I've spent hours going through his old posts and they are timeless. A few more worth listing: The Way of Men - Jack Donovan. Not a "how to get girls" book for sure, but a great examination of the negative societal and cultural implications of surrendering to the feminist imperative. Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No - Setting boundaries always a challenge for BP "nice guys." Good book on why it's imp…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 01:41 PM
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The Rational Male - Rollo Tomossi (Very heavy, but great intro to evolutionary psych and why women are the way they are). Rollo has the best and most uncompromising understanding of women of anyone I've ever read. Married Man Sex Life - Athol Kay (Red Pill advice for the LTR set) Mindful Attraction Plan - Athol Kay (Same deal as above. Both good books) The Art of Seduction - Robert Greene (Also wrote 48 Rules of Power mentioned by OP) Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Cont…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 11:57 AM
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My favorite bisexual feminist. If you read a lot of her other writing, she has a lot of RP viewpoints and thinks screechy modern feminism has been a catastrophe for humanity.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 09:14 PM
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Hah! Was just getting ready to post this... Saw it on Drudge and immediately thought "Beta". What's even funnier is the "Alpha" headline directly under this story: "Update: Zimmerman's girlfriend wants to drop charges, 'be with him'".
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:58 PM
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Agreed (mostly). I wouldn't go. But if I did go, I wouldn't completely ignore her (butthurt). Can you take a smoking hot date? Any plates spinning that you could invite along?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 08:40 PM
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Check out Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life and the MMSL Forums. Lots of good stuff for "game" in LTR's/marriages.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 04:30 PM
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I read a good one today... Delivered in a calm tone: "I guarantee I can put that mouth to better use if you're just going to use it to yammer and complain."
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 02:28 AM
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No! Bad idea... But there is a more subtle and acceptable way to deliver the message. You don't want her to think that you're cheating on her. You do want her to think that you have options. Nothing wrong with light flirting/teasing other women... Even better if she's around to witness it. When you're desired by other women but don't act on your options, that shit's like crack to your woman.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 02:22 AM
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Absolutely. I think you really do have to fake it until you make it as they say. And it can be exhausting until you make it... But I have no reason to doubt what he's saying is true as I'm experiencing it myself. I'm married, but the IOI's I've been getting since really soaking in TRP and putting it to use are amazing. Just changing a few things really does make a difference. Bought new clothes... Posture and swagger when entering a room... Telling myself before entering a room, party, bar, etc.…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 02:15 AM
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Money quote... 3.And, as always, no one likes being drilled, stuffed, banged, face fucked, and had her guts absolutely beat like a 2 dollar prostitute more than feminists. The world is a balance and the less feminine they are, the more dominance they need to bring them back into balance.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 02:35 AM
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You raise a really interesting point regarding the controversy surrounding sexually dominant men. A couple perspectives: First, read "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" sometime about how men and women really view sex and what turns them on. What turns women on is fascinating and everything that has been confirmed by RP'ers here. They really do like dominance in the bedroom. The authors in fact analyzed women's romance novels (romance novels for women generate more revenue than online porn for men by th…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 07:15 PM
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Always pretty awesome, but also low self esteem. Made partner of a firm when I met her, was banging two other chicks and was living in another girlfriend's apartment while she was traveling overseas. She moved in and we started living together (in my girlfriend's apartment) within the month... I know, rookie move. Lived together for 6 years before tying the knot. Always had a huge tolerance for risk though. Quit my job and moved to Africa with her to take a flyer on a failed entrepreneurial vent…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 08:28 PM
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That's exactly right. And it was Rollo Tomosi's theory of sexual market value that finally made me see the light. Men get better as we get older. Women not so much. I know that and she knows that instinctively if nothing else. She is a good mother, but I've had to begin pulling my son from her clutches (taking him camping, shooting, doing guy stuff) to reverse the first 11 years of beta imprinting.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 07:29 PM
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Great report... First time commenter. I had many of the same dynamics in my family so I get it. Now married to a "strong" "independent" type -- exactly the type I thought I wanted in my blue pill days. Very attractive, but very few true feminine qualities. Allowed myself to be betaized to the hilt for the last 11 years and made tons of stupid blue pill mistakes. But now... Things are changing. Going full RP, realize I have options, no more oneitis, and wife is definitely picking up on the vibe a…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 05:34 PM
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