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Basic Questiontestingblocks/r/askMRP02/01/24 06:22 PM
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Also not saying you shouldn’t improve your social life and business, but I don’t think it will help you with why you’re depressed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 04:56 PM
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It won’t. You completely orbit your wife’s frame, no matter how well you do business wise, socially, financially, you will always use her a measuring stick (I now make 20% what she makes, now I’m at 30%, 40!, almost there!). Every interaction and fight you have with her you DLV, so STFU and read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 04:46 PM
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What the hell do you want? Improving your business/social life for the purpose of improving your relationship is a covert contract. Read the prerequisite books.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 04:30 PM
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Some books don’t need to be hidden, NMMNG, WISNIFG seem innocent enough without the need for privacy, others I’ve bought on Apple Books. Update: Years?? Wtf are you even doing? I’d say hit the sidebar but Jesus lol
/r/askMRP19/01/24 05:44 PM
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I think so, sounds like your exaggerated example plays into her frame, while DAREing does not.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 03:08 PM
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Yes I do feel congruent in my actions, specifically I will not entertain the negative energy with my attention beyond a minimum acknowledgement. However when she starts to raise her voice and begin yelling, I can’t tell if I should address that as an attack on my boundary because I find it disrespectful or to just STFU she does that. I’ve always done the latter to no effect so I began saying things like “we can have this conversation when you use your inside voice”.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 03:00 PM
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I was doing major house cleaning and garbage that required me to bathe before I was able to attend to her. It was clear my wife was just trying to exploit our daughter as a means to get a reaction out of me. I’m beginning to find it a violation of my boundaries so I plan on nuking this.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 02:58 PM
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It does sound like that but I feel so hesitant with initiating. I still have not dropped the obsolete mental model that she has to be in a good mood to comply with sex. I see her giving shit tests and possibly shitty comfort tests, and I haven’t mastered pulling her into my frame yet, rather I’ve just been good at resisting her shitty frame.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 02:56 PM
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Makes sense, I have slowly been working on that. Picked up mystery method and learning game, on my wife and any girls I find attractive. Been getting IOIs recently as my gym progress and overall confidence improves, and been very liberal with my social life, not hesitant on going out and catching up with friends.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 02:53 PM
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I did not, there were other unrelated shit tests later of course but definitely no more door slamming.
/r/askMRP06/01/24 02:51 PM
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I know that everyone’s experience is unique, but what ends up happening in this transition? As I continue lifting, increasing SMV, passing shit tests, not caring about her moods and she realizes the passive beta wimp is dead, is all that leading up to a Main Event that I’ll need to successfully pass?
/r/askMRP05/01/24 02:22 PM
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Not really, but that is my fault for some really bad bitch beta victim puking behavior I did prior to MRP I have to recover from. Though last night I had to address a major boundary where she slammed the bedroom door because she was angry causing our daughter to cry at the alarming noise, I stormed in there, in a raised voice told her that was unacceptable, she is out of control and she can get the fuck out of the house if that were to continue. She was bitchy and quiet the rest of the evening, …
/r/askMRP03/01/24 06:23 PM
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Thanks, I just bought it recently and have started. I shyed away initially since I’ve heard it’s more for intermediate steps into the MRP journey but I think it’s time.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 08:30 PM
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I have a lot of improvement to make in terms of being attractive, fucking is very scarce as a result. Handling my shit and leading my family is one of my biggest challenges. I think I’m in a drunk captain type 2 scenario, or whichever one where the wife is an angry passenger. She is unable to lead and handle the ship but everything that goes wrong on the ship is my fault. I have my share of issues that I need to improve for sure.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 07:24 PM
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I am very angry, and it definitely slips out at times, I’ve shown agitation and got engaged in arguments a few times that I’m not proud of, but I reset and recollect myself, it’s getting easier to handle but the anger is definitely there.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 07:22 PM
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Yes, in regards to that Epic Test post, many of my friends have noticed how much more confident, assertive, swole, etc I have looked lately, while my wife who has always been insecure will throw jabs saying I am not attractive, I’m a mean/rude/awful person. A lot of times it usually concludes in some form of accusation that I don’t care about her or if something happened to her, so I’m sensing a shitty comfort test in there somewhere.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 07:18 PM
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As a newbie, I’ve always wondered how this affects dread?
/r/askMRP15/12/23 03:28 AM
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How could she be feeling dread if she perceives her SMV to be higher than mine, and thinks she settled?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:17 PM
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OYS 5 Purpose: Become a physically, emotionally, and mentally strong framed man that exhibits confidence and leadership that I approve of as the ultimate judge of myself. Stats: Age: 32/ Married 3 years (wife 33), 2 year old daughter 5'8 / 170 lbs 17% bodyfat BP: 135 3x10, SQ 235: 5x5, DL 255 1x5 Lifting: Continuing to reset stronglifts. Got 3 gym sessions in and want to continue the momentum. I see the muscle memory kicking in and I feel and look stronger, my arms are filling my sleeves again, …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 08:46 AM
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Yeah it was reactionary but she crossed a boundary and was disrespectful. I guess I could have looked less butthurt about it but she ended up apologizing for the behavior and hasn’t repeated the behavior since then so I’ll take it for now while working on releasing the spite and butthurt appearance. No she isn’t going to beat me up but we’ve had issues with getting her to bed these days, to the point of having to work with an infant sleep consultant. However your point stands because I use this …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 11:48 PM
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Action plan: Hit the gym hard, no skipping days ever Re-reading the sidebar materials until it is burned into my brain. Particularly redoing all of the breaking free activities in NMMNG, and recapping WISIFG to counter all of the arbitrary structures I’m allowing myself to be manipulated by. STFU, like autistic STFU, I am digging my own grave each time I open my mouth. I understand I have no frame, and I’m actually entrenched in my wife’s frame, the least I could do is stop fueling it. Then cont…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 08:02 PM
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Boundaries I need to continue to set strong appropriate consequences for my boundaries because I cannot allow intolerable behavior to continue. I also have to stop the previous disrespect I have allowed. This will be more challenging as it is territory I have surrendered that I’m taking back. I keep entertaining disrespect and signal that I have no value by not enforcing boundaries. Too often I’m replying with knee-jerk anger such as “stop fucking yelling at me”, and just completely falling in h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 08:02 PM
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OYS 4 Age: 32/ Married 3 years (wife 33), 2 year old daughter 5'8 / 170 lbs 17% bodyfat BP: 135 3x10, SQ 225: 5x5, DL 245 1x5 Purpose: Become a physically, emotionally, and mentally strong framed man that exhibits confidence and leadership that I approve of as the ultimate judge of myself. Sidebar: Finished:NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Re-reading: WISIFG Lifting: Did a reset on StrongLifts, de-loading to work on proper form and build confidence to avoid injuries. Goal is to maximize strength gains befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 08:00 PM
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I have to get over the hump of truly putting myself first without worrying about the approval of others. I’m in the initial phase of that transition with my wife and there are a lot of bumps in the road, a lot of pushback on changing this paradigm. I want to incorporate what I’ve read here.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 01:15 PM
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OYS 3 Age: 32/ Married 3 years (wife 33), 2 year old daughter Purpose: Become a physically, emotionally, and mentally strong framed man that exhibits confidence and leadership that I approve of as the ultimate judge of myself. Reading: Finished:NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Started: Rationale Male Physical: 5'8 / 170 lbs 17% bodyfat BP: 135 3x10, SQ 225: 5x5, DL 245 1x5 Lifting Very busy week at work and lousy time management skills meant very little gym time this week, what used to be a committed 3-4x …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/23 05:30 PM
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OYS 2 Age: 32/ Married 3 years (wife 33), 2 year old daughter Purpose: Become a physically, emotionally, and mentally strong framed man that exhibits confidence and leadership that I approve of as the ultimate judge of myself. Reading: Finished:NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Started: Rationale Male Physical: 5'8 / 170 lbs 17% bodyfat BP: 135 3x10, SQ 225: 5x5, DL 245 1x5 Injured wrist recently after benching with bad form has resulted in inconsistent gym sessions, and diet being thrown off. Will re-estab…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 02:45 PM
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You seem to be projecting a lot of insecurity about your own lack of career/income with no initiative on how to progress. Say what you want, I’d rather be a weak man getting paid than a broke weak man.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/23 03:44 PM
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Scroll up, we’ve established career/salary does not give you a backbone.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 05:44 PM
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I’m not sure about the data thing, I love what I do and talking about my career and progression makes me feel confident. Agreed on the conflict between my personality and the demands of being a man. In general I’ve always been passive and I would justify it as being “laid back”, but it would extend to the point of not being assertive. I’ve started to step out of my comfort zone, working on stop worrying about my wife losing her shit from boundaries I’ve allowed her to invade and taken the advice…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/23 02:07 AM
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Yes, I concede that I have enabled her shitty behaviors in this marriage because of all the egg-shell walking I’ve done thus far. And yes, that post makes a lot of sense. I’m not doing me, I don’t have a frame to hold, thats probably why I have such a hard time holding one. I clearly haven’t internalized enough of NMMNG because I’m still wasting energy trying working for external approval and validation. If nothing else, this points me in the right direction to work toward.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 09:50 PM
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Understood, I’ve learned quick that it doesn’t help at all. Yes, 1000 lb club is a lifting goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 08:48 PM
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My issue comes when I am balancing between STFU, the tools in WISNIFG, and the struggles of maintaining frame. There will be instances when I can’t remain silent or dismissive (I know stfu isn’t just being an autistic mute). Knowing when to use the correct tool, when to stfu, and when/how to escalate and “check” her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 08:46 PM
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OYS #1 Married 3 years (32) Wife 33, 18-month daughter 5'8, 168 Lbs., 18.4% BF (Strongur) StrongLifts 5x5: Sq 205x5, BP 135x5, DL 225x5, OHP 85x5, BBR 140x5 Read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP Career: Data Engineer at a government contractor making over 200k, have doubled my salary since the first year of marriage. Mission/goals: Become my own mental point of origin, establish strong frame and leadership, maintain boundaries I set with appropriate consequences. Lifting: 1000 lb. club for bp/sq/dl I have…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/23 01:08 PM
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