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| 2 | Engaged to Muslim womenAre there any books that talk about doing things to check boxes to make the wife or the wife's family happy? I was having a hard time finding them in the sidebar.... | /r/askMRP | 31/08/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Victim puke. The "we're not going to have sex" testHobbies are good and you seem to be in bounds there. So, to get the captain seat back, you need to get the finances in order. Ramsey calls it the shovel and the hole problem. How much are you making or are you making enough(shovel) and how much are you spending or is your spending out of control (hole). If you get that squared away the dynamic will change. I am sure there is more work for you to do but I would start right there. If your significant other is spending time signing up for "offers" … | /r/askMRP | 10/06/24 05:29 PM |
| 5 | Victim puke. The "we're not going to have sex" testSo, tell us more about the finances. Is it because you aren't earning enough or because you are spending too much? If it is because you are not earning enough, is your band playing preventing you from taking steps to get a full time job that pays the bills? I have a friend who is a GREAT drummer. He plays in bands as a side gig for fun/hobby bit he realized long ago that he needed to have full time work and that full time work means he is limited with playing opportunities. He has made it work e… | /r/askMRP | 09/06/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Bad feeling my gf cheated at a concert- am I being insecure or are my doubts valid?Here's the problem though. Why would anyone want to depend on "family pressures" to keep the relationship in line? I would prefer having a woman who is into me for me and not because mommy and daddy were into me. I understand what you are saying but I'd much rather have a girlfriend I see regularly. LDRs usually end the same way and that usually is with "I've met someone" | /r/askMRP | 15/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Wife is angry and doesn't know if she can see me sexually"I have changed a lot" Yes, you have changed a lot.....but have you changed? | /r/askMRP | 15/08/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Wife is angry and doesn't know if she can see me sexuallyPerfect example! | /r/askMRP | 15/08/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Wife is angry and doesn't know if she can see me sexuallyOn point! | /r/askMRP | 15/08/23 03:44 AM |
| 14 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.You may end up finding out she is BPD. The fact she was into you that much that quickly is a HUGE sign for that. Get ready for a wild ride that won't end pretty, and that wild ride I refer to doesn't involve a bed. | /r/askMRP | 13/08/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to increase my SMV with a disability?Lou Ferrigno has hearing loss and a speech impediment. Have you seen what his wife looked like? One of mu sons coaches had severe hearing loss and very strong speech epidement. Guess what his wife/girlfiend looked like? Haut! Your problem isn't your hearing loss. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/23 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or not[facepalm] all right. Everyone starts out somewhere. You are suffering from oneitis. Go to the shared community page and look up rational male and read it. That will get you started. The community page on askmrp has some good reference material too. Once you understand the theory of abundance and you turn off the "you are the one for me" alert beacon, you may have a chance at her.....maybe....or maybe not. Once you understand abundance theory, it won't matter, but will increase your chances with… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 01:31 AM |
| 5 | How close are you guys with your parents? I feel like I have to completely cut them off in order to become cold hearted and more masculine.You can disagree with your famil members (one of them, all of them) and still love them and maintain the relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/22 01:04 AM |
| 2 | I guess I know the answer for thisOh, shes not like that. She would NEEEVER be into a guy who eats right and lifts. She is really more into guys who wear oversized shirts to hide their bodies and who play video games with all of their free time. | /r/askMRP | 23/10/22 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Being raised with beta mentalityTwo books you should start reading now: When I say no, I feel guilty No More Mr Nice Guy Those two books will help you start on your path. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Living with separated wife - emotionless, but mixed messagesIf I do more good (all the treats, cooking dinner, texting) than bad (affair), it compensates and means I am not a bad person. All of that is for her, not for you. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What is the best workout routine for someone just starting back?Myfitnesspal to track your caloric intake. At least 1 gram protein per lb of bodyweight. Healthy fats approx .3 to .5 gram per pound bodyweight. The rest in carbs. You probably need to be at approx 2000 calories maybe more depending on lifting and cardio regimen. Lift 3-4 times a week. Stronglifts is a good program to start with and can be done 1 hr x 3 times a week. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Fiancee wants space. Vent/adviceWomen don't necessarily need a man with money. They DO need a man with purpose and money is oftentimes a manifestation of that. You can do almost anything more than what you are doing now and make 30-40k a year. I knew a kid that started at McDonalds and within a month, he was making 30-32k. That was 5 years ago. That is step one. Step 2: after working 40 hours a week, do something to increase your skillet that allows you to progress. With 6 months of effort you can get to 40-50k. Find something… | /r/askMRP | 07/09/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Sex QuestionOh boy! Starfish sex! | /r/askMRP | 07/09/22 03:46 AM |
| 7 | Wife wants out. Advice needed.In two months, let's head over to survivinginfidelity group and read about the marriage counseling they are in that doesn't seem to be working. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/22 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Something I don’t Understand…As it has been said before, the stay plan is the same as the go plan....but why would you stay? IMO, many men who take cheating women do it for some sort of validation, showing her regret that she left, validating how much more of a man you have become. If you have really become that much more of a man, why would you accept someone of that level of quality in your life? If she had a go at trading up, why shouldn't you? | /r/askMRP | 02/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Genuine Desire vs. InvestmentEscalating to level 10 before levels 1-9. Grrreeeeeaaaat. Care to guess how this one ends up boys? | /r/askMRP | 12/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 7 | adviceIf she took NSFW videos and they weren't sent to you, they were sent to another dude. People don't take NSFW videos to entertain themselves with; they ALWAYS take them to entertain others. | /r/askMRP | 12/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Not sure I'll ever be able to call it quits with the wife, even if I want toThis was/is a dumpster fire, a huge, huge dumpster fire. | /r/askMRP | 08/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Not sure I'll ever be able to call it quits with the wife, even if I want toCan we lobby to create a "not-askmrp" wiki and link posts like this to it? It's been a while since I've seen such a dumpster fire on full display here on askmrp. After reading this, I got the mental image of a monkey sticking his hand into a monkey trap to grab some rice and being stuck because he won't let go. The monkey is screaming because he can't escape and all he has to do is let go of the rice and pull his hand out of the hole. But he just keeps screaming and screaming while he remains st… | /r/askMRP | 08/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Helpless Initiations, Feeling StuckThat was my thought. It's not that his sex or moves are boring, it's that HE is boring. He and his frame are undesireable. If Chad was doing the rubbing, she would have probably soaked the bed and woken the neighbors. | /r/askMRP | 17/06/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Question / Field Report on STFUI'm late but here is my translation of the post "I did the cheat codes and still died. Now what?" Redpill is not a list of cheat codes; it is a mindset. | /r/askMRP | 10/06/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Playfull Seperated Wife"maybe she still loves me and wants me to pursue her" And why would you do THAT? | /r/askMRP | 16/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 19, 2022On job hunting, the resume gets you the interview, the interview gets you the job. Unless, you are not getting interviews for the positions you want, the resume is not the issue. Maybe you are not getting interviews that more closely align with your experience and strengths.....? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/22 03:16 AM |
| 5 | My wife discovered a post on hereThat was tough to read. Your poor wife. There is no way she is catching any feelz with you right now. You need to start reading and implementing ASAP. | /r/askMRP | 12/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I went nuclear on my wife , not sure what to do now.First thing I noticed. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/21 02:49 PM |
| 12 | How to handle this shit/comfort test?You had 15 years of her behaving badly (because you weren't leading) and you think a month or two of acting redpill fixes those 15 years? | /r/askMRP | 09/12/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Hard time letting go of bitchassness and resentment?The wife is the oldest child, the teenaged daughter. | /r/askMRP | 14/11/21 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Hard time letting go of bitchassness and resentment?Have you ever seen the memes where it says "what a superhero looks like if you buy it off Wish" and then there is a photo of some 300 lb guy who has never lifted weights in his life who looks like he has given up on life, but he's wearing a Batman or Superman costume? That is you trying to pull off redpill. Redpill is not some costume you put on. Wearing a cape and costume makes you a superhero no more than STFU and throwing a comment out as a response to a shit test makes you redpill. Your girl… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Managing Couples Therapy + “STFU”?THIS. Totally in your wife's frame. | /r/askMRP | 01/10/21 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Why is there so much hate and negativity here and on MRP sub?If you don't like, leave. Judging from the relationship you are in and posted about (COMPLETE DUMPSTER FIRE), you obviously don't get it. Go back to your dumpster fire with what you "know" and stay warm as the stench burns or stay and learn something. Either way, WE DON'T CARE. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Help with a Boundary IssueI looked at his hypothetical of "what would you do if I were in my situation?" and most of us don't have anything for you because.....WE WOULD NEVER LET IT REACH THIS POINT! You put up with her taking her ring off and moving to another bedroom until you apologized and this happens multiple times over many years? One, if she did that once, you had a problem that you needed to address. Two, if she did it a second time and you were doing everything right, you made a poor choice chosing her as a par… | /r/askMRP | 12/09/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Getting shit together too late - Minimizing collateralThe math she did was: her not working + you working = monthly paycheck from you to her after the divorce. Yes, she is good at math | /r/askMRP | 01/09/21 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Urgent question after dramatic scene over the phoneWait until she moves in, actually calls the cops on you, has you arrested, files a restraining order, and has you kicked out of your house. Then you will lose custody and be on the hook for child support and alimony while they live in your house. You are heading for a trainwreck | /r/askMRP | 05/08/21 02:44 AM |
| 3 | I (31M) am upset about my pregnant wife’s (36F) sexual history - that has just surfaced again. Now I’m thinking about RedPill life instead of Blue or Purple Pill Life. Depressing but where do I go from here as a Beta - with a kid on the way …I'm confused how you posted 19 hours ago that you thought you could bench about 100 lbs and now you are posting that you can bench your bodyweight because you did it yesterday. To us outsiders, it seems like your story keeps changing. Hey I'm an old dude so I get working around injuries. There are other exercises to work out legs besides squats like leg presses. I have had to roll back my weight on leg press becaise of a bad knee bit I am still repping with 500-600 lbs. You put a lumbar support … | /r/askMRP | 31/07/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | I (31M) am upset about my pregnant wife’s (36F) sexual history - that has just surfaced again. Now I’m thinking about RedPill life instead of Blue or Purple Pill Life. Depressing but where do I go from here as a Beta - with a kid on the way …When you say "hitting the gym", what do you mean? You said you can bench about 100 lbs. At a bare bare minimum, you should be repping your bodyweight. That means at a minimum, you should be able to bench 120 lbs multiple times. And if you were doing that, you would probably weigh 20-30 lbs more than you do. Imagine what you would look like in comparison if you weighed 150 lbs and were benching 150 lbs 8-10 times. Don't even get us going on deadlifts or squating. My guess is, hitting the gym for … | /r/askMRP | 31/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?It looks like she has done a great job of training you. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Role of humour compatibility in an LTRI don't understand why you are so locked on for this one. Why are you suffering from oneitis when the relationship hasn't even started? Fr what you have shared, it would be a hard next for most of us. You should be trying her out instead of seeking for her approval. That's a key concept of redpill you seem to have missed. Where is your abundance in this behavior? | /r/askMRP | 12/07/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong? When is it time to give up?I don't necessarily agree with a few of the steps on the dread level. However, your wife believes that you will accept the behavior she is dishing out and at this point, she is right. How many years has her behavior been going on where you have accepted it? | /r/askMRP | 10/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 7 | What am I doing wrong? When is it time to give up?Who said it was a game? Ultimately, as dread levels progress, she is replaced if things don't change. | /r/askMRP | 10/07/21 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Long Puke: Is it possible to fix a marriage in which wife has lost respect/admiration for husband?"The stay plan is the go plan." This right there. Read the sidebar. Do the work. If she changes, great. If not, make your decision then. You have ALOT of time between now and then, though. I am guessing 6 months to a years worth of effort to turn this air craft carrier around. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 7 | I might have screwed up, how should I proceedIt's worse than that. We find out that there is a prenup probably put in place by the wife who came into the marriage with ALOT more resources. We also find out he has dealt with pot addiction. I have known a some people over the years that have dealt with pot addiction. In every case, pot addiction = lack of motivation. So, the wife, who has alot more money, probably a career to match, has a guy who is probably not showing alot of drive/motivation pop off the comment "I'm the captain and you're… | /r/askMRP | 13/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Help me help himAbsolutely true | /r/askMRP | 27/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Help me help himIn order to save someone, you need to be on higher ground. It's true when someone is drowning, if they are hanging off a cliff, or if their wife has left them. Do you have the red pill applied in your life at a level that you can throw a rescue rope to someone who is sinking and able to pull them up without being pulled down? Methinks you don't. (I had to throw a methinks in to counter the bemoans) | /r/askMRP | 25/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 4 | I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP)Annulment. NEXT! | /r/askMRP | 25/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Doctors Not Big on TRT?The problem is, if you have low t, it will limit your ability to make the change and may have contributed to your downward spiral. What came first, the chicken or the egg? With the HRT, my joints quit hurting, my ability to concentrate, motivation, and energy all improved. All of those things allowed me to make much more progress more quickly. It is great that you were able to make the changes before the testosterone. The fact is, just taking test does fix the problems of over eating, eating cra… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I've compiled a list of the top recommended books for men from 56 of the top blog postsI should have read it instead of doing audible. I couldn't stand the reader. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | My Wife Asked for CouselingSo, to paraphrase: your wife's evaluation of your performance is "sub par". Your boss' evaluation of your performance is sub par. Your height weight numbers indicate your weightlifting is sub par. But you think your girlfriend and boss are both unreasonable? This speaks to the lack of self awareness that others have called out. You need to pick 1-2 areas and start working on them asap. I would start with work and the gym. Those two areas will carry over to your personal life. Your work eval prob… | /r/askMRP | 03/08/20 04:38 AM |
| 2 | I lost 30 lb due to fasting. How do I gain it back without being a glutton?No offense was meant. If you are 5'10" and 150 lbs, I don't think you are eating excessively. Your weight is evidence of that. I am 6'1" and close to 250. I do over indulge; the weight is evidence of that. That is all I am saying. | /r/RPChristians | 11/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I lost 30 lb due to fasting. How do I gain it back without being a glutton?If you are 5'10" and 150 lbs, calling you a glutton would be a stretch, IMO | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 6 | HB7 from the gym coming to my house tomorrow for a playdate with her kids and mine, that she arranged with my wife. How do I not act like a total beta fucktard in front of her?"I ignore her during my routine...." Yeah, we can all see that you ignored her....so much that you are thinking of crashing a playdate meetup with two women so you can not pay attention some more? Got it. SMH | /r/askMRP | 07/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 8 | Fiancee threw a butter knife at meNot if your name is Kip and have a relative named Napoleon. Peace out | /r/askMRP | 04/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What steps should I take before ending a relationship with a woman I am engaged to/cohabitating with?And places where this is true, hence the advice to consult an attorney. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 07, 2020What if you jumped from "wipe my arse", to "dry my hands?" Both are good positive steps, no? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/01/20 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Dancing lessons - invite wife or not?With those lifting numbers, you need to find a lifting partner who can spot you and push you. There is no way your squat and bench are that low. You are holding back because of fear of failure on the last rep. Overcome that fear, push yourself, and watch the red pill start entering your frame. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Red pilled 3 months ago. Impending separation. Need some help.Were the first and second planned? | /r/askMRP | 02/01/20 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Wife spent $9k behind my backYou are so intimidating that she will spend $9000 and then send you the bill so you can pay it? That sounds real intimidating.... | /r/askMRP | 14/12/19 05:53 AM |
| 9 | Wedding ring shit testIt's amazing how many times this is the problem. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Regret, Remorse & Nuclear Frame LossShe wanted you to kill the puppy and you obliged. Next! | /r/askMRP | 29/10/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Relapse and Hysterical BondingWith that understanding of "hysterical bonding", there is NO WAY you have read the sidebar. Start there, join a gym, and start lifting heavy things. | /r/askMRP | 29/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to attend an event with a bunch of guys she has never metMy response was poorly worded. Yes, it is 100% on him. My thought was this. If he can't make the improvements necessary to make this situation work, what hope does he have with any relationship? You are right when you say it's not about the relationship. If he makes changes based solely on "saving the relationship", he is in her frame. He may be checking boxes (lifting...check, reading....check) but the core is not changed and she will still be left wanting.... | /r/askMRP | 17/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 6 | LTR wants to attend an event with a bunch of guys she has never metI think this is the most telling thing in this whole story, that she is practically BEGGING him to be redpill. Hopefully, she doesn't find a red pill guy at the gaming convention....... But she probably won't.... because it's a fricken gaming convention. Start reading and lifting. Your relationship depends on it. | /r/askMRP | 17/10/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How long did it take to turn things around?Especially B. The moment you are complacent/satisfied with your progess, that is when you start "the slide to mediocrity", of being average. | /r/askMRP | 14/10/19 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill observations at a coaching seminarI think the more valuable response is "sorry man. How can I help? Do you have your resume ready? Get me a copy and let's work on getting you some interviews lined up for next week. Have you talked to Bob, Joe and Mike? I think there are 1-2 jobs open where they work." MUCH more productive than "let me punch a walk for you." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/10/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Abusive wife or notWhen you shower, you need to use soap and get wet. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Wife being nice during separation?Bingo! | /r/askMRP | 05/09/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | She stopped making future plans. How to respond?So, in another post, you said she has to pay for dinners when you take her out. Maybe she doesn't want to pay for dinners anymore. Maybe she doesn't want to pay for the hotel. Maybe she wants someone who will be a partner and pay their way. My guess is, she is out shopping for that, a leader for her to follow.... | /r/askMRP | 05/09/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadYou have boundaries? You are staying, right? And not telling anyone? And no consequences other than "you can't wear a ring" that symbolizes something she doesn't believe in anyway Ok, got it | /r/askMRP | 25/08/19 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone with actual success stories of wife losing weight?"back to you but more of it" comeback. Great! Let's give you a reward. Here's a Twinkie. If you are 6'2" and 270, with those lift numbers, you are over 30% bodyfat. If you don't care about it, why should she? Look, some of us here have been where you are at. It hurts when you realize the bullet holes in our feet are self inflicted. You have come to the right place to fix it. Do something about it. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants an open relationship, stuck in marriage and living in the same house.On the legal front, I would contact an immigration attorney ASAP and get it some sound legal advice. There are all kinds of issues in your situation where it is imperative that you take the correct steps in the right order in order to gain citizenship status. Talk to an attorney ASAP. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Confirmed my LTR has been cheatingRun, Forrest, run! | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 12:41 PM |
| 4 | Hiding Viagra from wifeWhen I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope - Using the... by Manuel J. Smith A BILL OF ASSERTIVE RIGHTS I: You have the right to judge your own behavior, thoughts, and emotions, and to take the responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself. II: You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior. III: You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other people’s problems. IV: You have the right to change your mind. V: Yo… | /r/askMRP | 22/05/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Connection and SexThat was hilarious! | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | AA/AM/Stfu is not workingOneitis. Why the hell have you stayed? Seriously | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?However, you don't have unlimited probability (opportunities) There are many variables of which number of girls is just one. You sleep or are at home 25-40% of the time. You will be in class or studying another 20-30% of the time. You may only have 20-30 a week for social interaction. That time limit (variable) and how you use it is your greatest opportunity limitation. You maximize it by living close to school and using time not used in commuting to go to every activity and party you can fit in… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How much should women affect my University/City choice?Let's do the math. I would focus on the size of the university rather than the size of the city. Say you go to a university of 5,000 students. 2500 of them are girls. Let's say 10% of those are 9s and 10s. 250 girls to choose from. Let's say 1/2 are off limits (in a relationship, she's not into you, etc). That leaves you with over 100 opportunities. This is where things change being at school versus home. You spend four years here. I those four years, those 100+ opportunies change 25% every year… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women really change?He can't keep one, so he wants two? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/askMRP | 12/05/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Said shit about in-laws in anger, She is quiet as a stone [OC]I had something similar occur when I first got married. She had two younger brothers who would get carried away and physically get a little too rough with her. One day after we got married, I took each of them aside individually and told them that the relationship between her and I had changed, she was my wife, and I was her protector. I then said if they touched her again, we would have a problem. We never had another problem. My wife was a little uncomfortable with how direct I was. I just loo… | /r/askMRP | 09/05/19 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Wife and guy telling "nice" things between....You can handle this two ways. Option 1: Explain that this in not acceptable behavior. Defend your position. Emotionally rationalize what it does to you. Ask her to hold you as you puke your feelings. Option 2: Become the male that she chooses to be with over this other guy. Lift! Eat a salad once in a while. Start fitting into 32-34 waist pants without a gut hanging over the top. Dress better. Show some confidence. Be the man that she wants. Option two takes some work and time. You may want to j… | /r/askMRP | 09/05/19 07:38 PM |
| 3 | My Red Pill Discovery 2He was getting permission to spend "their" money. | /r/askMRP | 04/05/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | (28m) My wife (27f) says she doesn't feel sexual desires anymore. Was asked to post this here.That is actually a fair (and good) question. Clearly, he has work to do in order to prevent this type of relationship from reoccurring in his life. My response came at it from an angle of her deceiving him. "Oh, I have a ring now, so time to turn off the act". The fact that he couldn't see this before is telling. | /r/askMRP | 20/04/19 10:35 PM |
| 4 | (28m) My wife (27f) says she doesn't feel sexual desires anymore. Was asked to post this here.What the HELL did I just read? Why would you stay in this relationship? This has to be a troll, right? | /r/askMRP | 19/04/19 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Broke up with my girlfriend after she tried breaking up with me 4 timesAsk one of her other boyfriend's to post a pic. She will be wearing less in those photos. 🤣 | /r/askMRP | 16/04/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | We don’t do that / You don't want us answering that.The guys that need to watch it wouldn't be allowed to by their girlfriends. "Let's watch Mama Mia instead" | /r/askMRP | 16/04/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Early in RP - need advice on how to appropriately handle this situationI tapped out at "so the siblings can have each other if there is a divorce". That a soft next to hard next right there. | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 09:16 PM |
| 9 | I went nuclear with laying down dread. Now I'm confused.You kept touching that hot stove, got burned repeatedly, and it's the stove's fault? | /r/askMRP | 14/03/19 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Wife will study in a different state for 2 yearsAfter reading through this and the replies, I finally realized how you misled the group. YOU are the one that left. After using multiple jobs in a short period of time, YOU picked up and left your wife and child for a new job. She was already enrolled in school and didn't want to leave. She wasn't starting anything. She had already started it. YOU were the one starting with the next new job. YOU were upset she didn't follow you. I'm sure the reason she didn't is because YOU have a pattern of sta… | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Wife will study in a different state for 2 yearsHave you seen Waterboy where Roberto leaves bobby boucher's mom to go work in another state? Your wife is Roberto. She isn't coming back and after she establishes that you have been out of the child's life and files for divorce, you will get visitation rights every other weekend and pay full child support. You better get a job and hold onto it. You're going to be paying her money every month for the next 15 years. That's 180 payments of hundreds of dollars each month. You may want to reconsider … | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Let me be your Guinea pig" Work is important. Lots of people’s job on the line" Dude, your marriage is on the line. You realize that, right? | /r/askMRP | 25/02/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Let me be your Guinea pigSTFU | /r/askMRP | 25/02/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Received break up text today from girlfriend, too much dread/alpha? Is in her beta PMS phaseThe text makes it a hard next for me. | /r/askMRP | 12/02/19 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a funny MRP commentThis is the funniest thing I've read in a long time. HILARIOUS! | /r/askMRP | 09/02/19 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Alright brothers, serious question time and in need of seriously good advice. This is long.I don't even know what to say except WHAT THE HELL!!!! Seriously! 30-45 minute conversation once a week while she is going out drinking with her "married" friends all dressed up slutty while the sex talk has completely stopped. Yeah, I can see the train wreck waiting for you on this one. On the other hand, it is SO nice of you to pay for her and Chad Thundercock's dinner dates, drinks, bed, and condoms (hopefully). | /r/askMRP | 09/02/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Update on progress and victim puke from a month agoI really think if we knew the stats of how much/little marriage counseling works, that entire profession would die off, or at a minimum, the bad ones (most of them) would go out of business. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm only with you because I have no choice.He needs to drop the "feel the burn" reps. It kind of reminds me of my grandma doing overhead tricep extensions with soup cans. There's a video of an 80+ year old guy who look like he weighed 159 lbs deadlifting 405 for two reps. He made it look pretty easy, like he could have done 1-2 more. I bet he isn't buying a house for a girl that will kick him out in a year. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Update on progress and victim puke from a month agoHere's the problem I had with the counseling podcasts I listened to. So much of the issues they pointed out were the men not doing enough to show their love and devotion to their wives. So much of it revolved around choreplay. Not once did they bring up the idea of the man doing things to make himself more attractive (e.g. leading, improving hygiene, dressing better, lifting, and showing value. Many times people refer to those as alpha behaviors. I don't care what you call it, but women want lea… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/19 03:59 PM |
| 5 | Do you have access to your wife/LTR's phone, passwords etc?Beta shit goblin. 🤣 | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Food in the bed sucksWith rice please... | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I'm only with you because I have no choice.That's what I got out of the story. How do those random guys have her number? Because she gave them out. I'd check to see if bar guy number is on her phone. If so, soft next and possibly hard next and DONT BUY THE HOUSE for her and Chad to enjoy. | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm only with you because I have no choice.You can't negotiate desire.... | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Update on progress and victim puke from a month agoCan I give 100 up votes on that first sentence? My wife fired up a podcast of a male and female relationship counselor team. They were talking about the concept of the guy trying to attract the girl and the girl pushing away, and how to handle it, all of it was choreplay, being sensitive to her needs, and staying in her frame. That is the moment I realized listening to this crap was putting me in her frame. After their verbal diarrhea, I looked at my wife and said they don't know what the proble… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | How to do the no contact rule if you have a kid?Be careful with this. One false allegation in the #metoo world in the wrong juristiction, and you could become the "once every other weekend with supervised visitation" dad. Talk to a male-positive attorney and make sure to protect yourself. It may be war but it's not an equal one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/19 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersTell us what your coupon says Chad. I'm giving you the perfect set. Spike it!!! | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 08:42 PM |
| 4 | LTR bitchy in public(friends, family)But ask her first if it's ok if you lead. And make sure to get her permission. It might make her mad if you don't. Have you started lifting yet? Numbers? | /r/askMRP | 07/01/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Cardio and liftingSo, essentially you want to lose 33 pounds of fat and put on 38 pounds of muscle. A few questions. 1 you mentioned you started at 240 lb. You are now down to 190. Was 100% of that weight loss fat? my guess is, you lost muscle along with the fat.what leads me to believe that is that you mentioned that you had calorie intakes of 500 calories a day and some of your days which is extremely low giving your body weight. What is your age? And how long have you been on a weightlifting program? How long … | /r/askMRP | 04/12/18 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Thinking of ending LTRWait, did he say the other guy's name was Biff? | /r/askMRP | 30/11/18 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Giving wife a book recommended by RedPillWomen?The fact that you're asking this question tells us a lot. Are you are a blue pill looking for your wife to help change you (wife is the leader of the family, not you)? Are you are afraid of the fall out once you start doing red pill and you are trying to prepare her for the change and prevent the natural fallout (shit tests, resistance) that will occur? Neither of those are good situations IMO. Maybe help us understand why you are asking and what you are hoping to gain by her reading the book. | /r/askMRP | 30/11/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Ex-Wife/ kids cellphoneI am trying to be rude with this comment but does anyone find this discussion to be ironic on askmrp? I think the r/relationship group or r/bluepill is a more appropriate location for this discussion. Now, if you want to ask "what the hell is my problem letting my EX-WIFE DICTATE what occurs in MY HOUSE during MY TIME with MY SON", then maybe we can help you out. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/18 05:04 AM |
| 1 | My boss likes to brag about hard work, he's a true believer in hard work and working for your own money. I think it's bullshitFrom Christmas Vacation, after Clark put up the Xmas lights that didn't work: Daughter: He worked hard grandpa Grandpa: so do washing machines The point is to work hard and smart. I have known guys that wear button down shirt and ties making 40-50k a year. I know another who owns his own hydro-seeding company probably clearing $200k. He started that company after he grew tired working for another hydro-seeding company making 70k a year. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I (33M) got this text from a girl (25F)I've been hanging out with. She asked me to spend the night with her tonight. I do not want to screw this up. Please see text screenshot below. Any advice appreciated.You really need to spend more time reading the sidebar and books. You have ALOT to learn. I would start out with NMMNG. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Reliable body composition scale?I a lot of people are saying the goal is impossible. While it may not be impossible, it is improbable. However you can make some great gains in a short period of time. At the age of 40, I took myself from 25% body fat and 248 lb down to 208 lb and approximately 14% body fat. I did this in a matter of 12 weeks. However because of the speed I lost weight, I lost a few pounds of muscle in the process. I did this without the use of steroids. I watched my macros and kept my protein at at least one gr… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | PeriodI wish I could upvote this x 10. Squaky the badly behaved parrot. LOL | /r/askMRP | 19/11/18 06:04 PM |
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