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Discussiontetraacetic/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 01:41 AM
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Discussiontetraacetic/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:41 PM
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There's some who insist that the two terms are synonymous, and others who believe they are opposites. Not to mention the more nuanced approach that the two are similar principles but one focuses on the struggle for women. As the term has become more politicized and controversial over time with the anti-woke culture war attitudes, I am confident that egalitarian is a broad and inoffensive term to describe the goal of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:39 AM
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I think organically is the hard part because both scenarios can go sideways. It's like what came first, the chicken or the egg. Did you join the hobby and then as a secondary goal try to meet someone, or did you want to meet someone new and thought a hobby group would be a suitable avenue. Either situation can spark backlash; the first scenario you may be branded as a poser trying to meet people by using the hobby as a 'safe' excuse; the second scenario you'll be seen as a creepy infiltrator int…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:37 AM
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Do you guys not make friends at work? Or hang out at bars, restaurants, libraries, gyms, etc and interact with the regular folks there... In my opinion, school is the easiest place to make friends because you're effectively put in the same room with the same people for 4 years, so you're bound to interact socially and become closer with them. But you can choose to insert yourself into other social settings and meet new people in this way. It's going to take effort as no one needs to be there in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:26 PM
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This place is hardly full of much intellect to "learn" from, but I guess I'll give my two cents. This sub opened my mind to taking the blackpill and saw through a lot of the smoke and mirrors of TRP. I harbour no ill feelings towards the opposite gender, I'm not "angry" about my life, I'm not miserable in any way. But I think, at some point, it will be time to put my efforts to rest (in regards to building a relationship with someone) if I don't find success at some point in the near future.... …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:08 AM
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I'm into the goth aesthetic myself (or emo, although the aesthetics slightly differ) because I enjoy the alternative music scene. I was into punk rock, grunge, pop punk, and alt rock when I was younger. Slowly grew into classic rock and metal. No doubt many people just like the visual aspect of this subculture, and have no desire to take an actual interest in the "scene" to enjoy the music. This can be girls who larp as goth but don't actually listen to any of the music, or guys who think they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:34 AM
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Early 20s is a pretty idealistic age. That's barely after finishing university and getting your first real full-time job. At this point you probably don't own a very large family-sized home, nor do you have the savings/income to support children - nevermind all the unexpected expenses that will arise besides just providing for basic necessities. Sure, you could push your luck but you'll struggle for a while. Every job wants someone with a few years of experience, so you'll probably be bouncing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:19 AM
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No, I wouldn't say I've known dudes who live up to the full scope of the stereotype. This isn't a movie where some high school/college stud in a football jacket is always surrounded by women swooning over him. These guys are real people and face problems like the rest of us do. They just tend to be very extroverted, personable, and easy to talk to.. The likely case is that it isn't their stunning looks that makes them attractive, it's their outlandish personality, something they offer (such as b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 04:40 AM
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I disagree. There's still plenty of people who enter relationships and aren't ready to take their relationship to that level prior to marriage or until it's established as a LTR. They could simply be looking for the companionship in the relationship - going to third base is not top priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 10:47 PM
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Why would you take any friends on adventures? If you're looking to try something new or do a fun activity, and you find someone who shares your interests, you can take them along. It doesn't need to have an ulterior motive. I think being friends upfront should be the default. Guys need to learn how to seem tame and friendly to women, it'll help you retain healthy relationships with women for much longer. Every woman you encounter isn't a candidate for becoming your gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:01 AM
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A YouTube channel isn't a university. Not to mention that universities in and of themselves don't just create facts out of thin air. They hire professors, who've dedicated their lives to researching their field of interest, to conduct research and thus bring credibility to the university. Research is published in peer-reviewed academic papers, not on YouTube. In exchange, professors are basically allowed to use the university's money and facilities to further work on their research.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 03:06 AM
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People have been conditioned to think alcohol is some sort of universal solution to their problems. On one hand, children are taught that alcohol is a dangerous substance that is a key factor in domestic violence, impaired driving, and overall bad decision-making. Once these children become adults, alcohol's negative effects apparently disappear and it just becomes a casual thing that everyone should have once in a while. It's apparently harmless and it essential to having fun. Have a glass of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:29 AM
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I've never subscribed to it because it's really so mundane but tries to present itself as this revolutionary lifestyle change. You put on this superficial personality of confidence and hit the gym, and suddenly women will be swooning over you. Like yeah, obviously. It's manipulative and provides guys with a false sense of security in improving themselves. Why does improving yourself need to involve attracting women? Why do you need to manipulate not only others but also yourself in order to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:45 PM
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In my view, apps like those died in 2015. I remember when some small, no-name apps similar to Tinder were popular in my area. I saw local people on those apps but nothing worth matching with. Tried Tinder as a casual thing for a while and it didn't give me much luck. Paid like $12 for the premium version for a month, and still nothing...except just matching with friends for the jokes. Another local app just came around a while ago. Seemed promising with the amount of matches I got initially, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 03:13 AM
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Pretty girls definitely know. They know that they have good looks, so all they need a little bit of charm and they can get whatever they want, or at least turn a bad situation into an advantageous one. They control the narrative. Especially when it comes to her admirers. With her friends, she's genuine and down to earth. But she'll put on a different personality and speak negatively about dudes who are head over heels for her, wondering why they're willing to move mountains to get her attention.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:34 AM
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I'd be down to get married for the companionship. Knowing that I'll have someone to support me throughout my adult life as I begin facing challenges that I wouldn't have seen in my youth. It's nice to have a "partner", like a girl to be cute with and hold hands with, but I'd like to have some moral support as well - ie like a best friend. It's gonna be weird asking aging parents how to navigate my adult life. Just picture a dude saying "I'll have to ask my mom or dad..." vs "I'll speak to my wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:24 AM
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There's only so many skills I can pick up, and I assume once I'm out in the professional world, I'll have even less time to learn something new. This is where my SO can come in and be my "better half". She can help pickup the relationship in areas where I know I can't. Not because I'm lazy or incompetent, but I'm giving a generous estimate to my own capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:09 PM
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What are YOU looking for? A maid? A cook? I'd prefer if the woman I share my life with has a little more character and competence than people who perform low-wage jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:47 AM
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I definitely am not looking for a woman to stay at home to cook and clean. In the generation we're all living in, jobs are going to be tough to come by, even if your education and experience is really good. I guess I'll be looking for someone to secure my future with, but it has to be someone who is willing to take on the work needed. She'll need to have a job comparable to mine. We need to be working together to better our situation. I don't want to be living with parents or renting a cheap apa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:14 PM
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Wouldn't matter to me, it's a decision she makes, but I would kinda prefer if she keeps her maiden name. I don't understand the thrill of your wife requiring the same name surname as you? It's just so odd and unnecessary. 21, Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:15 AM
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She's an IG model (whatever that means) and she posts cute pics. People on IG like others' pics, whether or not it's a pretty girl. It's rather simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:51 AM
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My ability to have women find me attractive is severely lacking. In terms of being actively desired by or pursued by women, I've just never encountered this. I don't let it get to my head. It's something I can't really control and I refuse to spiral into despair. It's just a little sad to think about. Though I can confidently say I'm a likable person, or at least not a disliked person. My generally introverted, reserved personality makes me very unlikely to try my luck with women. I mind my own …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:47 AM
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I've lurked around other subs and probably have a surface level understanding of all this online pill stuff, but I never let myself become so immersed in it. I never let myself become one of those people whose entire worldview is conveniently summed up in some sort of subculture driven by frustration and anxiety. This sub seems like a civil, semi-decent place to discuss touchy subjects like relationships, sex, etc since everyone comes from different backgrounds. Occasionally I see cringey questi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:36 AM
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Your idea appears to assume that every girl that boys talk to growing up serves as practice for flirting and actually talking to girls. I would say that the general environment I was brought up in was of traditional, immigrant families who think boys should hang out with boys, and girls with girls. Mixing the genders was just considered unusual, like "why would she want to hang out with boys, when she can play with girls and do girly things". The only girls I really encountered up until I was li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:18 AM
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Then the girls invite you out and you flirt with their friends lmao ok, I've never encountered this. I can maintain nice and friendly acquaintances with women, but never anything more. The opportunity doesn't even seem to present itself, and I don't want to be pushy with girls and insist to hangout outside of school/recreation/hobbies. In my view, the only way for this to work is you have to be lucky enough to encounter a cute, single girl and start off as friends. You hangout and become good bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:33 AM
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I think these fringe groups are good for having an "academic" discussion about issues pertaining to men and women. They look at very touchy topics and ask the real questions. But this idealistic, academic environment is far from reality. In reality, I don't think anyone (any sane person, at least) spends every breathing moment with a passionate disdain for men or women. People simply don't have time. We all have full-time jobs, school, hobbies, etc that occupy us rather than have us question why…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:42 AM
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It still amazes me how many people are so neck-deep in this rp/bp stuff. I never let myself get that far. These guys refuse to see the world through the lens of a normal human being. Everything just has to be tied back to how women are awful because they're with chad, and how poor "normal" guys can't compete with chad. Stubbed your toe on some furniture? It was that hoe's fault. Had a bad day at work? All because of chad. Coffee didn't taste great? Because women are manipulative, and I'm going m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:15 AM
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I wouldn't like it. Like OP said, by default I'd be physically weaker. I'd hate having to always watch out for someone who may want to make remarks towards me or get needlessly touchy with me, and then try to justify their inappropriate behaviour. Benefits would include the obvious: effectively being able to get whatever I want - all I'd have to do is play the "but I'm a girl!" card. Not to mention the enormous amounts of financial benefits I could reap by manipulating guys. As a guy, you can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:36 PM
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