To be very clear, marriage is a legal contract and has nothing at all to do with romance and you should reconsider the entire situation if you have no other specific articulable reason to marry other than so called romance.
Why should you waste a man’s money if you are not sure you like him? Why would you accept being invited out if you weren’t willing to pay your share? I think it’s you using him not the other way around
I bet if Mister Rivero knocked both of the killers’ heads together in self defense rendering them 2 meters underground as a result he would not have been given the same leniency