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| 3 | Positive 50/50 StoriesMy situation is a little different, but overall positive .... for most of my kids' lives I have been a merchant mariner ... gone two (now three) weeks, home the other two (now three). When I'm home I am completely available to run them to and from school, practices, etc., and to hang out, cook, whatever. The downside, if you can call it that, is that I'm either at work or being dad. There is no in-between and no "me" time, really. I feel guilty if I take a couple days to spend with friends witho… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 08:10 PM |
| 3 | How can anyone celebrate only seeing or raising their kids 50% of the time?I am a merchant mariner and I'm gone almost exactly half the year (in three-week hitches). It's been this way since my boys were too young to remember anything different. More than three years post-separation, I have the kids the entire time I am home, so nothing has really changed for us other than their mom isn't here when I am (and we are in a different house). My advantage, or so I keep telling myself, is that when I am home I have near-zero work responsibilities. I can take them to school, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Songs List Recommendations317 tracks in my playlist. Here are a few of my favorites .... Don't Think Twice (pick your cover of the Bob Dylan classic, but the Mike Ness version slaps) I feel like Hank Williams Tonight, Jerry Jeff Walker IWon't Be Here, Marcus King Band Find Yourself, Lukas Nelson & The Promise of the Real Divorce Separation Blues, Avery Brothers Divorce Song, Cactus Attack Mercy Now,Mary Gauthier All Over Again, Jack Ingram Fireproof,Mingo Fish trap In the Journey, Martin Sexton Broken, Everlast Can You L… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Men’s ringI threw it across the yard when she said she was adamant about divorce. Never found it. 🙄😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/23 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys ever feel guilty for the kid’s sake?I think it's pretty easy for those of us who have been divorced or are divorcing to tell ourselves this. I don't think that makes it true. (*excepting cases of abuse, of course) | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/23 03:27 PM |
| 5 | I am afraid.Take heart, brother. It's obvious you love your boys deeply. Do not take your foot off the gas on the coaching and after-school activities. Be as involved as you possibly can in ... all of it. Teacher conferences. Scouts. Sports. Birthdays. Holidays. Church, if you have one. Don't give up a minute of any of that. I'm two years out. My boys were 8 and 10, and the separation was very much not my preference nor my choice. I worried -- still worry -- about how this will affect them for the rest of t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/23 04:10 AM |
| 7 | Got a 2nd job and almost entire check has been garnished.I knew you were in TX just from reading your story. So sorry man. I had many of the same problems regarding child support. I don't have an easy solution. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/21 03:56 PM |
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