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texasjoe/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:55 AM
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I took a stroll through their post history, which they do not hide, and yeah. The content of their opinions is abhorrent. One thing, for instance, was support of compulsory military service but only for men.
/r/MensRights11/06/26 03:43 PM
6

Skill issue.
/r/MensRights05/06/26 01:10 PM
10

It makes sense if you understand that their goal is a world devoid of men except for subservience, so dehumanizing men is a part of that. Read the way they talk about us, about this "patriarchy" that causes all woes of the world, even the woes that men ourselves suffer. It's similar in rhetoric to the "Protocols of the Elders of Zion" propaganda used to malign Jews. I'd say ignore them because they're not worth speaking to, but long term, that kind of thought is dangerous to us to allow unanswer…
/r/MensRights07/04/26 03:00 PM
33

Why expend mental energy shouting at a wall? Let her wallow in her filth. There's no fixing hate.
/r/MensRights07/04/26 01:16 AM
9

Let's take this logic to it's ultimate conclusion. "Not all men who commit crime are black, but most often they are." Wouldn't saying that out loud feel hateful? It should.
/r/MensRights03/04/26 03:33 PM
25

Women are circling the wagons on this shit so hard that it's made me just not give a damn about their own gender issues. I've noticed so much misandry being warped into some twisted virtue under the label of being a "girls girl". Outright celebrating being a self proclaimed man hater. They're too far gone collectively. It's a minefield dealing with them. Protect yourself and don't associate at all with them.
/r/MensRights27/03/26 02:48 AM
12

Making out with the bros for tax reasons hell yeah hoss
/r/MensRights24/03/26 02:27 PM
1

When the consequences of leaving a marriage for a man is his livelihood and potentially his relationship with his children, yes, withholding sex is absolutely abuse. The commitment to a marriage came with many expectations, but getting any kind of recourse on failing that expectation comes with its own misery.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 11:50 PM
1

Both cheating and withholding sex are forms of abuse.
/r/MensRights21/02/26 04:43 PM
1

I'm talking about withholding as in out of spite, resentment, pettiness, or some sort of transactional ulterior motives. Obviously not every human can be 100%, 100% of the time. People have injuries, pregnancies, off days, sicknesses, etc. If it becomes a pattern of avoidant behavior without an attempt to fix the root problem, that is neglect and abuse though.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 11:13 PM
10

If monogamy is an expectation in a marriage, withholding sex is abuse.
/r/MensRights20/02/26 03:35 PM
2

Men die more often from attempts because they are more competent.
/r/MensRights31/12/25 06:23 PM
7

You've probably heard of fragging. If I were conscripted against my will, it'd have a resurgence.
/r/MensRights29/12/25 05:40 AM
1

There's usually a recovery period for a day ish. Also, sometimes the procedure becomes more complicated due to individual anatomical hurdles. Mine actually required me being put under general anesthesia. Also, sometimes, rarely, patients get a chronic pain. It was worth it for me for sure, but definitely know the risks before getting it done.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 04:52 PM
4

My wife ever leaves me I'm trying out dudes just to MGTOW more effectively.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 04:49 PM
4

Tenet
/r/MensRights30/11/25 03:30 AM
27

To spell it out, the "L" in "LGBT" stands for "lesbian". I just thought that saying "LGBT men" was funny.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 10:29 PM
34

"LGBT men" one of those letters is impossible lol
/r/MensRights11/08/25 09:31 PM
2

Real situation I have dealt with my entire life: Something in the circumcision went wrong. All my life I have suffered from decreased sensitivity to the point that it has cost me romantic relationships due to sexual dysfunction. I'm really envious of those whose circumcisions did not result in this sort of problem. I'm even more envious of those who had the choice to decide whether or not to get one.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:44 AM
3

True, but consider: if this, then vice versa as well. Where does that cycle stop? I am not going to go out of my way to solve societal issues or anything. I personally intend to treat people as clean slate individuals until they actually prove themselves a statistic. Misandry by an individual should absolutely be called what it is and that individual shamed or disassociated from.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 02:20 PM
11

That's not a negative. I love when the trash takes itself out.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 02:07 PM
18

This is new info to me and changes the color of my whole take on this situation, if true. What does the tampon thing mean though? That she was planning on sex?
/r/MensRights13/03/25 07:27 PM
6

It is in the same way the inverse story was relevant to men's rights, where a woman became a man to take advantage of a perceived privilege, but instead became depressed from the sudden cessation of an emotional support system and being viewed as disposable.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 05:07 PM
8

I think 4chan calls it transmaxing.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 05:05 PM
7

The New Testament passages that address the issue of Gentile circumcision are primarily found in the Acts of the Apostles and the Epistles of Paul. Here are some key passages: Acts 15:1-35: This chapter describes the Council of Jerusalem, where the apostles and elders gathered to discuss whether Gentile converts needed to be circumcised. The conclusion, led by Peter and James, was that Gentiles did not need to be circumcised, but should instead follow basic moral guidelines (Acts 15:20, 29). Gal…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 06:06 PM
2

Nothing's stopping you from having multiple reddit accounts to compartmentalize what you browse. Some people use browser extensions to quickly and easily swap between accounts. If I cared that much, I'd do it that way. One account for "reddit-zeitgeist-friendly" normal subs, one account for subs like this one and others that get you banned from other subs just for commenting once in (or sleuthed out by internet busybodies to "gotcha" your opinion as biased), and one account for smut aggregation.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 04:20 PM
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I know what incel meant. What you described, though, is attaching a lot of traits that have been used in the smear campaign against them, and coincidentally the broader smear campaign of guys who are just checking out of the dating scene. Sure, there are some extremities you could point to, but most incels just keep to themselves and live quiet lives of depression.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 11:50 PM
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Incels? What exactly does "incel" mean? The way I understand it, MGTOW is an elective lifestyle. They are voluntarily abstaining from women.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 07:49 PM
10

Why exactly was men going their own way shut down? It wasn't. Nobody is owed relationships. You can go your own way whether anybody likes it or not.
/r/MensRights27/12/24 07:48 PM
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I wonder if the statute of limitations on civil cases is different.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 04:25 AM
5

I mean even if you're not gay. Finding a hetero dude life partner can be a platonic thing. If my wife ever died, I'd be terrified of the dating scene.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 05:37 AM
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Why would you believe I have any interest in what you think if you come outright saying the same of me? Do you only show up to show your ass to people? Go back into your cave.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 03:06 AM
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I never understood what it's like to be tokenized and pandered to until this Harris Walz campaign. White guys for Harris Zoom call? I heard it said that Walz was the first white male DEI hire, and it rings true.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 10:29 PM
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So women doing this are avoiding sex and relationships because it's a perceived risk associated with participating, and are doing what they feel is necessary to reduce that risk? This is basically MGTOW for women, and I've got no problem with either because neither affect me. Hell, if my wife died I'd probably be doing the same thing.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 03:14 PM
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That's my thought. If a government is desperate and stupid enough to do this to me, idgaf, I'm going out fragging as many as I can.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 01:39 PM
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Hold up. Before anybody reads this post and decides this is for them, take it from somebody who got one. You don't get a vasectomy and think it's an on-off value you can just change your mind on and get functionality back. A large portion of vasectomy reversal procedures fail to restore function.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 04:22 AM
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Why don't the femcels simply date the incels? Are they stupid?
/r/MensRights27/03/24 01:42 AM
7

Fragging your side was a legitimate form of protest against the draft during Vietnam.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:02 PM
5

Because a tank or drone can effectively police a population covering that many square miles? Small arms are enough to deter a police officer. Hell, a jury rigged homemade shotgun relatively recently altered the geopolitical landscape by being used to assassinate a head of state.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 02:57 PM
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Fragging your side was a legitimate protest of the draft during Vietnam.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 06:54 PM
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And stop insulting and cussing, it looks puerile and ridiculous. cuck as an insult embarrassing as fuck demoKKKRat You're quite the walking contradiction. Is puerility only acceptable for thee but not for me?
/r/MensRights29/02/24 05:35 PM
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Got it. Because he doesn't keep his bitch in check when she gets out of line, he must be a henpecked shell of a man... You are goddamn ridiculous...
/r/MensRights29/02/24 05:24 PM
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So, back to Burr being a "cuck and a sellout". Quantify that, because I say you're full of shit.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 04:50 PM
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Get a grip lol you sound absolutely tribalistic. People can be married to people they disagree with politically, and it can work out perfectly fine. On that note, how can you even call him a sellout? Have you ever listened to him? Burr has always talked shit about Trump.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 04:32 PM
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Sellout? Why? Because his wife doesn't like a politician you do?
/r/MensRights29/02/24 03:19 PM
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At will state means dog shit if you have evidence that they discriminated based upon gender. That's the big "if" though. You need to get things in writing that support the claim that they're discriminating.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 01:19 AM
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"quadroon"
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:10 PM
1

They suffer from the same societal perception of disposability that those born male suffer from. In the end, we're all human and should strive towards diminishing that. I've never heard of a TERMRA the way I've seen TERFs in the wild. I'd like to think we're a little more emphatic about the issues they're going to face, no matter what genitals they were born with. Edit: reading some of the comments here, consider me enlightened that there are TERMRAs as well...
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:21 PM
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Regardless of gender of my coworkers, I treat everybody at my job as a potential person who would report me if I got too comfortable around them and said something that could open me up to a potential HR situation. Why both genders? Because I learned that lesson when I got chummy enough with a male coworker, and he reported me to HR for some mutual locker room talk that he was also partaking in. Anybody can be a snake. Best be a consummate professional within your profession. These days I don't …
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:13 PM
1

Consider yourself lucky. Same thing happened to my friend, except she decided she also wanted to join the metoo victimhood circle jerk and falsely accused me of groping her.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 03:24 PM
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What happened to the Slavic tradition of their women participating equally in war? ... if the propaganda is to be believed.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 03:22 PM
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It will be an arbitrary length of stare.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 02:31 PM
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You're an embarrassment.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 10:43 PM
0

I would consider it sexual assault but not rape with force. At the very least, it should be criminal, punishable as sexual assault, and a default annulment of parental responsibilities for any fathers who were tricked this way.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:53 PM
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I mean, it's a clear cut violation of consent. Same's true for when women stop taking the pill to baby-trap. It's not "clown world" to recognize that.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:32 PM
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Not trying to victim blame men who are getting raped/SA'd here, but it could be good to surefire protect yourself and get a vasectomy. The procedure to reverse a vasectomy isn't going to get most people back to 100% virility and sometimes doesn't work at all, so if you want kids in the future with your own genetic info passed down, think carefully on that.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:08 PM
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Their dignity presumably is to be protected in every US state according to the 8th Amendment. Prison isn't supposed to be a walk in the park, but there are some basic rights that should be afforded convicts, even the worst offenders. At the very least, their safety, health care, shelter, nutrition, and reasonable accommodations to their religious practices should be a given.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 06:57 PM
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I'm having trouble seeing where, if that is true, this wasn't a violation of consent. Is the issue at hand more about the judicial validity of Title IX cases?
/r/MensRights18/10/22 02:20 PM
2

They're not Quiet Quitting, women have just been Quiet Firing them over the years.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 10:57 PM
14

You ever see the movie Law Abiding Citizen?
/r/MensRights02/05/22 04:14 AM
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I advocate for most of the things that self identifying MRAs do, and I'm pro choice. It ain't a monolith though. I see at least one person in here in support of making abortions illegal. My solution is paper abortions. Give men the option to relinquish all rights and responsibilities to a child within a window of time they find out they have become a biological father.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 06:57 AM
7

I unfortunately have seen this mindset prominently in some online spaces. A lotta joking around like "I wish I had a teacher like that" and the like. It's gross. No adolescent is mature enough to have that sort of relationship with a grown adult. The power dynamic of these rapists often being teachers ups this to a whole new level of nefariousness. And these jackasses make light of boys very likely having their perceptions of healthy relationships damaged for life.
/r/MensRights20/02/20 10:31 PM
5

They're now trying to demonize the Hulkster and Peter Thiel for being "anti first amendment" over the suit.
/r/MensRights25/12/19 09:57 PM
2

I thought the Hulkster put them down over this exact subject.
/r/MensRights23/12/19 05:45 AM
0

MGTOWWOM <3
/r/MensRights24/03/19 04:56 PM
11

I mean, this sounds suspect as fuck, but assuming your story is legit... Wouldn't the correct ruling be that if the sperm is considered a gift, it would be under the understood limitations of what that gift is expected to be used for, which doesn't include self impregnation? Engagement rings are considered a gift with a catch, and are legally required to be returned to the giver if the engagement is broken off.
/r/MensRights11/02/19 03:53 PM
1

Get into fucking other dudes.
/r/MensRights31/01/19 03:49 AM
4

I mean that quote was my first thought upon seeing this lol
/r/MensRights17/01/19 04:52 PM
30

Know what I'd say to male feminists and/or black KKK guy? They will never love you, so love yourself.
/r/MensRights02/01/19 04:38 PM
24

The state would also lose their cut of every child support check that goes through the system.
/r/MensRights17/12/18 06:37 PM
6

Whoa there, Elliot Rodger, chill.
/r/MensRights19/11/18 07:00 PM
5

I knew a few oil rig workers that were ladies. My aunt was even one. She was stocky and built like a man, and could probably kick my ass in a fight. These woman oil rig workers? They're unicorns.
/r/MensRights19/11/18 06:59 PM
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Nothing anti-MRA about taking a dingus to the keester, flesh or rubber, either way. Truly dedicated MRAs go full MGTOWWOM anyways.
/r/MensRights17/11/18 05:05 PM
-1

I'd do it.
/r/MensRights17/11/18 02:29 PM
54

If she dies, she dies...
/r/MensRights11/11/18 05:14 PM
4

Why was this deleted? What did it say?
/r/MensRights28/10/18 04:21 PM
32

Any time anybody trots out that power+prejudice bologna, I know for certain that they deep down inside just want to get away with being their own brand of racist. Don't take them seriously. Laugh them out the door.
/r/MensRights02/08/18 11:43 PM
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This isn't satire. The creator of satire doesn't believe the message of the subject. That's why it's satire. This woman hates white men.
/r/MensRights02/08/18 07:51 PM
4

Aziz
/r/MensRights13/07/18 03:05 PM
3

In his "apology", he even jabs at the loose editorial liberty that was taken with what he said.
/r/MensRights13/07/18 02:59 PM
48

That varies by state.
/r/MensRights03/04/18 02:56 AM
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It's simple. You go to the press, the defendant has grounds for a mistrial indefinitely. People who have an interest in a fair trial with the goal of justice against real offenders will let the process work. People who just want to vindictively rake somebody through the coals with accusations will cripple the criminal prosecution by muddying the waters before the trial can take place.
/r/MensRights18/12/17 03:36 PM
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I'm pleasantly surprised. The majority of people in there seem to actually have standards.
/r/MensRights29/09/17 02:40 PM
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Wrong. Millions of Muslims show great reverence to a child fucker, and many of them even fuck children themselves. They haven't gotten past that being acceptable because it's a fucking religion. With God and his prophet, any behavior is excusable as long as they are divine. The founding fathers of the US owning slaves is today severely rejected as acceptable because they were just normal human beings with fallibility. Divinity could never excuse what they condoned.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 05:43 PM
8

Kinda makes sense, when you consider that the Prophet Mohammed consummated the marriage to his wife when she was 9.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 04:45 PM
1

After months of jerky and tofu, sometimes it's nice to sink your teeth into a juicy burger.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/17 03:05 PM
13

The way the headline was worded, my brain read it like that at first, but then common sense inferred what ex-wife meant in this situation.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 12:44 AM
6

I've considered that before, but no. I've gone extended time periods abstaining before to see if that would fix it, and there was no effect. I think the doctor who cut that skin off took a vital part of my future sexual enjoyment away. I can't really know what it will ever have been like otherwise, so that will always be speculation.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 07:52 PM
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I'm not bragging. That's not a good thing to have to deal with. Imagine people you really liked leaving you because of self esteem issues coupled with you seemingly not being able to be satisfied with them sexually. It sucks.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 04:26 PM
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I wish I knew what it was like to experience sex with intact genitals. I do know one thing. Ladies I have been with have expressed that it takes a lot of effort to get me to climax. I can only speculate that it has something to do with sensitivity issues originating from the circumcision I had before I could make an informed decision. I'm leaning towards that as an explanation.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 02:31 PM
9

Speak for yourself :D
/r/MensRights06/02/17 02:28 PM
1

And that's terrible.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/16 01:23 AM
8

Silenced? No. Met with facts, evidence, and logical arguments. I won't resort to their playbook to win.
/r/MensRights01/08/16 03:54 PM
2

It's kinda cringy to witness her stuff, like I'm watching some sort of 21st century minstrel show.
/r/MensRights22/07/16 03:10 PM
2

Well, they did change the /r/all algorithm conveniently when /r/the_Donald was dominating front page. I wouldn't put it past them to finally do something about this activity.
/r/MensRights05/07/16 06:32 PM
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He would have been better off.
/r/MensRights31/05/16 12:28 PM
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Preface: I believe Stanhope. Do I think Depp has been in a sharp decline regardless of these claims? Absolutely. Mortdecai lol
/r/MensRights30/05/16 04:29 PM
3

Feminists have come full circle and turned into /pol/.
/r/MensRights03/02/16 09:40 PM
19

In James Deen's case, he had some star power value. Before these accusations, he would frequently top the most popular male performer in women's surveys.
/r/MensRights14/12/15 02:13 PM
0

"It only ends in sadness" is very true for your case, but I have a feeling other cases might be better suited to just start over in Indonesia or something. When the system is unjust, it is our responsibility to do what we can to resist it. Fuck these CPS parasites.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 07:41 PM
0

If I were this dad, the last thing I would be worried about is somebody else's problems instead of my daughter's happiness.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 06:59 PM
-5

Kidnap her, smuggle yourselves away to somewhere the U.S. doesn't have an extradition treaty with, and start your lives over.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 04:17 PM
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This is reverting back to traditionalism. What happened to all the women's lib folks that preached female agency and choice? Are they there, but just not influencing policy?
/r/MensRights15/10/15 11:16 AM
2

Better start learning Russian, comrade. Most of that list is a shithole.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 09:00 PM
32

Lets talk about porn actor/actress pay standards.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 07:56 PM
12

Google "what countries don't extradite to the United States". Can't leech off you if you decide to burn everything down and disappear.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 07:18 PM
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I'm sorry then, I have assumed wrong.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 02:43 PM
2

Did they get dishonorable discharges like the men who were openly gay to avoid certain death?
/r/MensRights13/10/15 02:37 PM
22

Anthony Weiner.
/r/MensRights11/10/15 01:04 AM
2

When SF4 first came out, my fight game interest was piqued and I started looking at sites like Shoryuken (serious competitive fighter community). S tier was a term they were throwing around that generally meant the tier of characters that were very, very good in most matchups in the metagame.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 11:15 AM
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I bet the writer doesn't complain about all that cleavage from SF4's S tier ginger fat boy Rufus.
/r/MensRights01/09/15 05:58 PM
0

I agree. The title of this immediately comes off as trying to demonize her sexual acts instead of highlighting the difference between male and female judicial punishment. We're not getting anywhere approaching the issue akin to when sex-negative feminism lashes out at lad culture and male sexuality.
/r/MensRights14/08/15 04:25 PM
2

Algebra is for mudbloods.
/r/MensRights11/08/15 09:45 PM
2

China, Indonesia, Russia, UAE... These countries, and more, don't have extradition treaties with the US... Burn down the house and flee the country in protest.
/r/MensRights10/08/15 12:57 PM
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I thought they wanted affirmative consent... This is the free market's answer to facilitate sex. Do they really just want no sex to happen at all? I'm starting to think these folks are puritans in sheeps' clothing.
/r/MensRights14/07/15 03:46 AM
0

I can't remember that. When did that happen?
/r/MensRights20/05/15 05:34 PM
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I watched the Newsroom, too. Good show!
/r/MensRights16/03/15 03:55 PM
2

How many different ways do I need to explain this: social position in a broken society isn't something sane men should wish to aspire to. To try to paint those opting out of that as selfish is rubbish. That kind of rhetoric makes you appear simply bitter that you no longer have a way to control or manipulate them. To try to frame those opting out of traditionalist society as being rejected, not leaving on their own terms, is hogwash. Do you know what that sounds like? "You can't break up with me…
/r/MensRights25/02/15 11:22 PM
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The full entry on that page: M.G.T.O.W – Men Going Their Own Way is a statement of self-ownership, where the modern man preserves and protects his own sovereignty above all else. It is the manifestation of one word: “No”. Ejecting silly preconceptions and cultural definitions of what a “man” is. Looking to no one else for social cues. Refusing to bow, serve and kneel for the opportunity to be treated like a disposable utility. And, living according to his own best interests in a world which woul…
/r/MensRights25/02/15 10:31 PM
5

I did. You were being very vague and evasive, like your reply to me right here. All I've seen are personal attacks against them for how they've failed at what you think society should expect of them, like that's some sort of indicator that they're a group of neckbeard basement dwellers. Why do you hold them in such low esteem anyways? Do you have a stake in them removing themselves from the marriage market? Your attacks sound strikingly a lot like the Japanese women bitter about "herbivore men".
/r/MensRights25/02/15 09:49 PM
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MGTOW are socially dysfunctional I don't get that statement. Can you elaborate? MGTOW as I see it is about liberating one's self from society's expectation of legally contracting yourself to your love interest. There's certainly a place in society for that way of life to function successfully. It's not a traditionalist society that's going to welcome that sort of thing, but why would an MRA ever advocate for a traditionalist society? I did marry. She's great. I'm not, however, going to call the …
/r/MensRights25/02/15 07:46 PM
4

Regardless of your stance towards abortion's morality, PP is the place I can go to get a vasectomy taken care of. They do more than just terminate fetuses.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 01:49 PM
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I don't like radfem ideology, but last time I checked they haven't burned anybody alive. They are harmful to the society of my surrounding geography in a bigger way than ISIS is, but fuck, I'm glad I'm here and not a Kurd living in that corner of the globe.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 08:23 PM
7

Go on... I'd like to read that story. Just as I returned to eating Chick-Fil-A when they pulled funding from anti-gay charities, I would feel better about having an Intel chipset in my PC if they truly did pull the money from FF. The boycott can only change bad behavior if you're willing to go back to utilizing their business if they change for the better. Give me proof please.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 05:35 PM
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Can't say I've ever heard of "job offers while walking down the street" though. That's the reason they're getting downvoted. That shit is ridiculous. Took me nearly a year of looking to get a job after getting laid off.
/r/MensRights15/01/15 02:42 PM
6

The concept of sexual liberation is definitely empowering. When you've got a puritanical or traditionalist society telling you that to be sexual is not how a lady behaves, well, to oppose that by sexualizing yourself is definitely a way to stick it to them. This goes for the same for standing up for yourself as a man who gets "creep-shamed" for exhibiting that you are a sexual creature, too.
/r/MensRights13/01/15 11:34 PM
5

That is irrelevant. MGTOW are not a part of the Men's Rights movement. Of course, there is significant overlap, but there is a significant difference, and that is in their methods. A MRA attempts to better their situation in society by trying to change society's views on gender roles and by trying to fix law that puts men on the chopping block. A MGTOW attempts to better their situation by opting out of the rules/expectations of society.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 11:08 PM
7

Yeah, I know. I wasn't saying they become celibate or anything. You can choose to not marry or father a child, and still have romantic/sexual relationships with people.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 06:41 PM
15

That's a possibility, but I don't see it likely that the U.S. government would target women in a negative way. Historically, we've made nothing but concessions to them with things like the Violence Against Women Act, and special provisions in the Affordable Care Act. You've said in other posts that the Japanese response is to give more rights and choices to women. With that trend, I see that they would similarly not target women with any kind of penalization.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 04:40 PM
22

I've always found herbivore men to be a very intriguing subculture, somewhat comparable to the MGTOWs that we know of. While I am not MGTOW, I support them in their decisions for their lifestyle. It's not hurting anybody, and if they want to opt out of the traditional marriage, it's nobody's damn business. They're not obligated to participate in something they don't feel is in their benefit. The only thing I worry about is, if this becomes more wide-spread, that legislation may arise that penali…
/r/MensRights30/12/14 04:10 PM
1

I agree. I wouldn't vote for her (or Greg Abbott, for that matter), but I at least support that one gesture she did in 2013. I'm getting the vibe that the author falls into the Venn diagram position of both a conservative and an anti-feminist.
/r/MensRights22/12/14 05:34 PM
1

That's not a good thing, actually. That makes one less suitable country to flee to should you desire to opt out of American jurisdiction. Same shit, different flag.
/r/MensRights09/12/14 03:31 PM
3

She's hiring. You need a job? (or a hiring discrimination civil suit settlement?)
/r/MensRights11/11/14 07:26 PM
14

Nobody is pissed off that 24 year old males go to jail if they commit statutory rape. MRAs just want equality, and part of equality being law means equal enforcement of the law, which means societal opinion of shit like this needs to change first. Imagine if any of these buffoons becomes the arresting cop in a case like this, or the DA who would prosecute the case, or the judge overseeing the fair execution of the trial, or a fucking jury member.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 12:17 PM
4

Turnabout is always fair play.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 12:13 PM
19

Isn't /r/ainbow the way to go now for a less male-unfriendly atmosphere?
/r/MensRights29/10/14 07:53 PM
7

I believe in freedom of association. If an entertainment/editorials website is rife with support of abuse, and an advertiser were informed of something they were possibly unaware of, I wouldn't really consider it my fault for informing that advertiser and the advertiser firing the website. In that case, the website fired themselves. It became monetarily unwarranted to invest in ad-space there because the target audience they were after was no longer interested in associating with the website (th…
/r/MensRights22/10/14 08:28 PM
2

Or a chunk of those child support payments.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 05:15 PM
1

Must be very dissonant to hold SJW views and work for a company that makes such a successful game that openly mocks feminists. I wonder how he lives with himself.
/r/MensRights24/09/14 06:44 PM
1

Ugh. I don't regret that ban at all.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 03:18 PM
1

To be fair, that comment is heavily downvoted, reflecting either a majority opinion to the contrary, or a brigade by us. Don't look at me. I don't participate at /r/feminism ever since I've been banned.
/r/MensRights01/09/14 02:56 PM
1

So if there is a No True Scotsman fallacy, and a guilt by association fallacy, and they both kind of contradict the existence of the other, which one is a real fallacy?
/r/MensRights26/08/14 08:44 PM
48

The SJWs lump MRAs with 4chan, certain Tumblr users, and Redpillers into one big adversarial catch-all category. Even though this guy was a 4chan, I found this post of interest to me to better understand the gravity of how far a SJW would go to ruin the life of someone they lump me in with, even if a MRA truthfully is far from a 4chan anon. Moral learned: tread lightly with your identity online. The media seems to be influenced by these buffoons, and their narrative has us in the role of a crazy…
/r/MensRights26/08/14 02:51 PM
1

Well, there you have it.
/r/MensRights22/08/14 08:42 PM
1

Link?
/r/MensRights22/08/14 04:03 PM
31

There's a reason why I do have a problem with who exactly those Five Guys consisted of. Some of their positions in relation to how a game launch can pan out affects me as a gamer/consumer indirectly. Not so much her boss, and not even so much her, but the indie devs who support her game, and the journalists who review the game are a big no-no in my eyes to get in bed with. Here you have these gaming journalists whose opinions of her product have been tainted by nepotism. These gaming "journalist…
/r/MensRights20/08/14 04:36 PM
1

In an equal application of the law scenario, this could bite feminist supporters in the ass. Generally, in hetero relationships, which partner do you think more often denies affection/sex as a bargaining mechanism?
/r/MensRights13/08/14 04:58 PM
3

Why aren't women championing our cause in the same fashion? Some of the most prominent MRAs are women. There's just something about a voice that really has no self-interest in the issues that lends a little more credibility.
/r/MensRights04/08/14 04:35 PM
2

I don't know if that's a fair statement. That's akin to assuming people like GWW or Christina Hoff Sommers are just sock-puppets of their MRA significant others.
/r/MensRights04/08/14 04:32 PM
30

The post linking to this article on /r/TodayILearned today was censored, just saw it on /r/undelete.
/r/MensRights31/07/14 07:13 PM
34

I mean, DARE is the whole reason why I tried marijuana. First they told me drugs are bad. That's simple enough. I'll stay away from drugs. Then, they told me marijuana is the worst of them, because it leads to the rest of them; it is the grand gateway to a downward spiral of self destruction. Okay, I better stay away from that one. Then they brought out the beer goggles. These things so horribly distorted my vision, and that's what they said the effect would have been after TWO beers. Two beers.…
/r/MensRights30/07/14 01:40 PM
10

I'm afraid that's what it's going to take for the mainstream to lend us their ears... The main thing that got me to give MR a fair shake was Karen Straughan's videos.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 02:36 PM
1

Time is a flat circle.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 02:29 PM
2

Hey OP, I sent you a PM.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 06:12 PM
7

Well. I'm not mad at him. I kinda feel bad for him in that case. This gender role of just sponging up the violence thing isn't helpful for anybody.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 03:34 PM
2

What did Jay-Z do? The only thing I remember him for that is relevant to this is talk trash about Chris Brown for the physical abuse.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 02:16 PM
2

To be fair, at that point it's kinda a contractual agreement. If the draft were in effect again, they couldn't really do anything to a fatty who was unfit for combat before they pulled his name.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 04:01 AM
-1

Yeah, I mean, it must be a privilege to come back home looking this badass. Look at that motherfucker. Look at him. He's going to get so much respect for manning up and fighting for our freedom. Look at him. So privileged.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 03:59 AM
4

All that makes sense. I guess I never thought of equal treatment of the genders as women having to lose anything, because I never thought of the privileges they enjoy in those areas as something they deserved default by virtue of being a woman. A correction to what I said then: it's not a zero-sum game of rights in every aspect of society. Outlawing infant male circumcision doesn't trivialize FGM, just like achieving better birth control options for men doesn't take away bodily autonomy for wome…
/r/MensRights16/07/14 06:19 PM
12

Eh, false equivalency... I'm an MRA because I'm pro-male. I'm also pro-female. Being pro-(one thing in a binary) doesn't mean you're anti-(the other thing in a binary). It's not a zero-sum game of which side gets all the rights. Both sides should justly demand their human rights, and support the other in their claiming of such.
/r/MensRights16/07/14 01:47 PM
1

IF she were actually a gamer, she could get into a huff about Ubisoft's statement about making a female protagonist, OR she could boycott them for a real reason, like their shoddy Watch_Dogs PC port.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 09:01 PM
2

You could probably see this link on TRP, but with an entirely different-looking comments section.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 01:47 PM
2

I remember when 4chan started with the false accusations on that college's anonymous report form webpage, and the feminists largely linked that to us.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 10:55 PM
7

Good article. I never knew about this woman, or that Serpico was involved in that big of a landmark case.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 07:17 PM
2

I only have ever seen shadowbans from vote brigade participation/instigation, and doxxing.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 01:58 PM
2

Some mods will. Sillymod did today.
/r/MensRights06/06/14 01:47 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGe6017JwPw
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:25 PM
1

He reminded me less of us, and more of Patrick Bateman of American Psycho.
/r/MensRights25/05/14 05:04 PM
3

But... MRA's don't even get girlfriends, that's why they all hate women, right? Right? Something something, fedora...
/r/MensRights22/05/14 02:12 PM
2

I think politicians are only feminists when it garners them and their party more votes. Want real change? It's not going to come from lobbying any current politician. It's going to come through changing the broad view of men and boys. As the MRHM grows, and men (and women, too) become increasingly aware of the state of disposability they suffer from in culture, they're going to want a system that is fair, and eventually vote for politicians that are fair to men. The demand for fairness in the sy…
/r/MensRights06/05/14 02:19 PM
1

Somewhere warm. Belize?
/r/MensRights25/04/14 02:16 AM
33

I don't always agree with Mr. Elam's methods, but this time I'm fucking right on his side. I want this information to remain on the internet. I want the kids to Google their daddy's name and find these last words, and find a different perspective on the stories their mother will likely say about their father.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 10:05 PM
30

And there is nothing I can do about it except Flee the country. Its system is set against you, this woman is set against you, and this fight is almost unwinnable. Start a new life somewhere far away from all this. I'll not fault you for not "manning up". It's high time people see that being a man doesn't mean indentured servitude, no, slavery.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 07:59 PM
2

the darkest day of his life. I would like to think his last moments were less dark than the months of battles leading up to that day. From the way he made it sound, going through that with his wife's abusive behavior, and the court's negligence, was a hell in itself. I would like to think he went into it with hope in his mind of something better.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 07:53 PM
28

Eddie Izzard is a damn good comedian. I just found a new reason to like him more.
/r/MensRights23/04/14 03:10 PM
1

Canada's courts are so fucked :(
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:08 PM
1

Canada's where a lot of the prominent names in this movement come from or reside in, and where a lot of activism opportunities present themselves because of that first fact. I think a lot of it has to do with Toronto having such a rabid radical feminist population, responsible for the previous incident similar to the one in this video at the U of T. That video was actually what piqued my interest in what the hell MRA's are about. If it's worth being censored, it's worth hearing.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 02:02 PM
1

SPOILERS - ASOIAF BOOKS/GAME OF THRONES TV SERIES This is a strong statement, coming from him. Feminists should love GRRM, given how he writes his characters. There are plenty of strong female characters that stake out a claim to agency in that world of objectification that he created. Arya destined to marry a noble and be used as a political tool to secure family alliances? Fuck that, I'm gonna learn to fight with swords and become a master assassin. Brienne? I'm going to be a member of the mos…
/r/MensRights22/04/14 01:55 PM
1

I liked the movie. It's worth a watch, but it will probably get you pissed at the system.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 01:35 PM
1

You're volunteering to work with these harpies?!?! I would cut all associations with them, and be loud about why. I would do that even if it were my paying job.
/r/MensRights22/04/14 01:34 PM
3

They're misrepresenting the spirit of "tits or GTFO" for their own victim olympics purposes. This is the best explanation of the real meaning behind "TOGTFO" and "there are no girls on the internet".
/r/MensRights17/04/14 02:09 PM
1

4chan is both repulsive, and a breath of fresh air in a way. One day I will see the weirdest of the weird there, and another day I'll see some of the most thoughtful discussion on the internet. The "there are no girls on the internet" and "tits or GTFO" philosophies rob people of gender advantage in discussions, and feminists hate that site for that.
/r/MensRights17/04/14 01:46 PM
2

Honestly, why would we even care to be surveyed, so they can attempt to demonize us based upon correlating demographics like in this article? I've always avoided having my political/religious views being mentioned in MR related subs, because I think MR related subs should be focused on gender equality, and not be injected with how I think everybody should subscribe to the libertarian ideology.
/r/MensRights16/04/14 01:35 PM
2

I think the Klan is less caucasian than we apparently are. You got your Clayton Bigsbies out there.
/r/MensRights16/04/14 01:30 PM
8

That's like issuing a fatwā against the Winter Olympics as a result of South Park doing an episode on Islam.
/r/MensRights16/04/14 01:20 PM
3

Go on... Can someone gimme a Reddit history lesson on what went down?
/r/MensRights09/04/14 08:48 PM
1

Is a Baileys on par with Zima or something in terms of the implication? I don't get it. Africa is weird. The most prominent thing coming to mind right now that is related is the "they eat da poo poo" video.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 08:39 PM
0

It was definitely a thing during the 80's AIDS outbreaks, but not so much now, with more current awareness of the nature of the disease.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 08:37 PM
8

I want to vote for politicians that are in favor of things like gay marriage and the right to choice for bodily autonomy, but I will never lend her the weight of my ballot. I would be happy voting Gary Johnson another year.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 08:35 PM
1

If I disappeared from the internet with no explanation, what reason would you have to exist? Everything about you would cease to matter any more. Would you spend the rest of your days perusing /u/texasjoe's post history and replying in futility to archived sayings from me? I kinda feel bad for you.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 02:38 PM
0

Thanks? You can't thanks for my agreeing to the bullshit you only said I agreed to. What are we doing, having a playground-level argument here?
/r/MensRights07/04/14 01:35 PM
2

100% of the posts in your history right now are replies to me. I'm going to go on and believe that I have my own personal goon that follows me around on the internet now.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 01:32 PM
0

No, you.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 01:30 PM
0

UH-HUH
/r/MensRights07/04/14 01:17 PM
1

It's a pretty good assumption for some places, like 24 Hour Fitness. In fact, in 30 years of life, I've never had access to a gym that wasn't of the 24-hour variety. Did you make a brand new account just to reply to me?
/r/MensRights07/04/14 01:14 PM
-1

Go on how this wouldn't constitute a change in the contractual agreement after it was signed. I'd like to hear some logic behind that statement instead of the "NUH-UH" that I'm looking at right now.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 01:03 PM
76

Boom. Right there. If they start that crap, take your business away from them, and refuse any early contract discontinuation charges they try to throw at you on the grounds that they voided the contract.
/r/MensRights06/04/14 06:02 AM
6

You're making this idea sound even more appealing to me by the minute.
/r/MensRights29/03/14 03:56 PM
5

It does a favor to girls' futures to not treat them with impunity towards criticisms. If you pamper them like princesses when they're younger, they'll be inadequately prepared for the realities of adult life.
/r/MensRights27/03/14 01:57 PM
4

Hey now... Texas is nice in many ways, retarded in many others. It depends on who you choose to surround yourself with. I live in the greater Houston region, where the residents consist of less evangelical conservatives and more libertarian-leaning folks, and that works for me.
/r/MensRights26/03/14 02:17 PM
1

You can pick your battles. I personally would acquiesce to the ear gauges, but I'll be damned if I'm expected to put myself in harm's way, just because I'm not a woman, if there's a risk of me being killed. That one reeks of a possible lawsuit, actually.
/r/MensRights26/03/14 02:13 PM
13

Isn't it nice when you see something of this quality coming from someone you know of in a non-political/intellectual sphere completely unrelated? It's almost like when I found out Sean "Day[9]" Plott wasn't just the incredibly charismatic Starcraft commentator, but also fucking good at complex math.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 04:01 PM
-2

The defendant looks like Rush Limbaugh.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 02:35 PM
2

I would flee a country that would coerce you into indentured servitude.
/r/MensRights24/03/14 02:27 PM
6

I'm 30, and I don't get the reference. Is that his rapper moniker?
/r/MensRights24/03/14 01:46 PM
6

"Ban bossy" does nothing but spoonfeed our girls into this mentality where they cannot be criticized. Such delicate flowers, our girls. God forbid we meet them with challenges to overcome. That might lead to them actually having the gumption to negotiate salaries!
/r/MensRights21/03/14 01:11 PM
2

Most of the systematic injustices against women take place outside of the modern Western world. That being said, here in Texas, we've got recent legislation that targeted abortion clinics with unrealistic regulations for "health reasons" (effectively shutting down all but, I think, 3 clinics in the state) when in reality it is a masked attempt at overturning Roe v. Wade... I don't agree with 90% of her politics, but I was cheering Wendy Davis on when she filibustered that bill in Austin because …
/r/MensRights12/03/14 03:50 PM
2

Farrell's in it? This is gonna be good for us, I think.
/r/MensRights12/03/14 03:34 PM
2

A gay bar is the only place I've ever been bought a drink by someone who wasn't one of my good friends already. I am at first glance, obviously straight.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 06:48 PM
1

Holy shit. I never have heard it put that way. I'm using this.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 06:40 PM
2

Maybe they're secretly the equivalent to the Westboro Baptist Church theory. The entity exists to fake an opposition to the targeted issue to bring attention to it from the mainstream. I'm going to tell myself this. It's a nicer thing than reality.
/r/MensRights11/03/14 06:33 PM
1

I'm not appropriating racism, or alluding to the idea that this hit piece on MRAs is anything near the magnitude of blackface in the 1800's. This SNL skit is to us as the Big Bang Theory is to "nerd culture" (commonly also referred to as a type of "blackface" for nerds); it is horribly misleading in the caricature it creates, creating complete falsehoods about the true nature of the represented group, solely for the entertainment of those that already malign the group.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 03:00 PM
-1

It is "MRA blackface" as far as I'm concerned.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 07:31 AM
2

That was actually my very first thought.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 03:50 AM
2

BRD What's that?
/r/MensRights09/03/14 08:37 PM
14

I can't imagine a situation where I would advocate against PP. There you have a facility where one of the primary functions is for women to go and do something that results in the biological father of their potential baby not being stuck with a bill for 18 years. In certain Planned Parenthood facilities, you can get your vasectomy, taking the decision of reproduction completely into your own hands. Men interested in advocacy for male issues should support the idea of PP by and large. This is wit…
/r/MensRights09/03/14 03:50 PM
1

Yup.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 05:12 PM
1

Bodily autonomy is right. You should always have the prerogative to do what you will to your own possessions, including your body. The problem with this phrase on a t-shirt is that it can be interpreted as advocating something much more than that concept: a female>male power differential in relationships (and I believe deep down, the wearer of that shirt is going for this). Honestly, I'm glad these shirts exist. If anybody had the hubris to so openly display hatred of me for being "the other 50%…
/r/MensRights28/02/14 03:09 PM
1

They're too stupid to understand what exactly that feeling is.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:02 PM
4

17 in Texas.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 03:49 PM
20

Dark humor as a coping mechanism sometimes is useful to take some of the bite out of the sad reality.
/r/MensRights20/02/14 09:52 PM
2

I was approached last week by a macho wannabe coworker on why I didn't want to have children with my wife (we are both committed to being dual-income-no-kids wealthy people together, as long as we're alive). He started spouting off that same drivel about "it takes a real man to be a dad, so man up". I very clearly explained to him the concept of how using words like "man up" is manipulation exploiting someone's desire to not appear weak, and that it just didn't work on me. Dude looked at me like…
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:45 PM
1

That's idealistic. The fact remains that the policy, although un-enforced, is still there, waiting to be weaponized the next time HR doesn't particularly like somebody and is looking for an excuse to fire with cause.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:35 PM
10

Any time you hear "a real man... (does this)" or "man up and... (do this)" as a qualifier, pay special attention to the next thing that is being said, and take note that the speaker is trying to control and manipulate you into doing something that might not necessarily be in your better interests.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 04:24 PM
1

True story: it was the U of Toronto protesters that piqued my interest in men's rights. Streisand Effect and all... If it is worth censoring, it is worth hearing.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 03:59 PM
2

Might be a bad idea to stoop to even qualifying those kinds of attacks as valid by responding to them.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 03:57 PM
4

To be fair, the Republican party is no friend to men and boys either. The closest thing we get to a party courting those interested in men's rights is a party courting those interested in the rights of the individual. That's why I think there is a high overlap between MRA's and libertarians. Karen Straughan (girlwriteswhat) does a ton of speaking gigs for libertarian groups right now. I'd vote for Gary Johnson again this year (edit: this election cycle) if he ran.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 02:34 PM
28

Thanks Obama!
/r/MensRights04/02/14 03:09 PM
1

2 mins of pleasure lol
/r/MensRights29/01/14 03:18 AM
5

You seem awfully invested in this whole puritanical view of sexuality. People ought to be able to have casual sex with others and not get judged by the likes of you for it. They're going to have the sex no matter how much it bothers you, and the availability of an easy male BC form could only make the situation safer. I have hardly thrown a tantrum or played some victim as you've put it. I have merely advocated for the availability of this extra option of protection for men, and expressed myself…
/r/MensRights29/01/14 03:15 AM
8

You assume a lot about me. I'm married and not promiscuous like you seem to be implying. I have no use for a male BC pill because I'm getting the operation done shortly anyways. I support the male BC pill's existence because it will level the situation when it comes to bodily autonomy. To oppose the availability of male BC by trivializing the necessity for it like you are doing is working against the interests of men's well-being, and men's rights. To try to frame men who sleep around as people …
/r/MensRights29/01/14 02:14 AM
9

The sooner men get some standards, values, morals and self respect, the sooner they'll realise and see they no longer have this problem. Damn the stupidity of this comment is insane. Oh poor men, having to wait for birth control just so they don't ruin their lives. Oh that's right. You have control. Provided you exercise some intelligence you'll get there. God help you and those of the like. Oh, look, an anti-MR troll account doing that whole slut-shaming approach. Fail.
/r/MensRights29/01/14 01:53 AM
23

The sooner we get some male birth control pills available, the better.
/r/MensRights28/01/14 08:52 PM
9

Double standard? I'm "Pro-Choice" for both genders. "Pro-Choice" is compatible with MRA ideals.
/r/MensRights26/01/14 09:38 AM
1

Just go with it.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 11:12 PM
1

Beads.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 10:13 PM
5

Good for you! This is the kind of stuff that people like Warren Farrell talk about. It's not everything, but it's a step in the right direction. This isn't something some government forced upon businesses, either; this is something that whoever is in charge of that with your workplace thought would be a good idea. This is a sign that the demonization of fatherhood is waning.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 10:06 PM
2

They should be tried for the crime they committed (false police report/perjury), but to some higher degree with a harsher standard sentence, considering the malicious motive to ruin somebody's life out of vindictiveness. This I say with the caveat that the burden of proof should be high. If criminally convicted, then that case should be able to be used as supportive evidence in a civil defamation suit. I don't know what there is to debate about this.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 07:06 PM
8

True that. I have an opinion. I was banned.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 06:49 PM
2

Before I was married, I tried e-Harmony, and got matched up with somebody (that sounds a LOT like 31 year old mom from this article). We went out on one date. I was a big pushover at the time. We go to dinner. She expects me to pay and tip well. Oh well, no biggie, she's pretty and this might end well, so I pony up and she proceeds to order some fucking nasty/overpriced escargot, which she doesn't even eat 1/4 of, and some lobster. The evening progresses to us going out for drinks, and her invit…
/r/MensRights13/01/14 07:27 PM
2

I don't know. Scientists say that the first person to live 150+ years has already been born. I believe I am that person. My body is a microchip.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 07:26 PM
16

There are different stances people take on the binaryism versus the sliding scale theory of gender. You'll find both within the MRM, as a small number of us are more traditionalist, in that sense at least (I am not). One thing I think we don't want to do is allow our equivalent to the TERFs (trans-exclusionist radical feminists) to go unchecked, representing us in the public eye. Our opposition would be able to use a few outspoken trans-haters as strawman MRA fuel. I think the MRM should be incl…
/r/MensRights09/01/14 05:51 PM
1

I did read that. This is juicy. I can hardly wait for the ongoing debate with my friend (MRM/SPLC/feminism) to continue. The guy married one of my best friends, so I'm kinda stuck with him. We have interesting conversation, though, me being a MRA and somewhere close to an anarcho-capitalist.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 08:50 PM
2

Oh, he knows about TERFs, and condemns them for not being "real feminists". I just think he doesn't know about the connection between Cathy, TERFdom, and the SPLC. Since their word (SPLC's lambasting the MRM) is gospel to him, maybe this revelation will poke a few holes in their credibility, seeming as though they have accepted money from someone with such an extremely hateful stance against trans folks.
/r/MensRights06/01/14 08:30 PM
1

Oh my, what a deep rabbit hole... I have a friend who is a Marxist feminist law student. He is currently focusing in law surrounding rights for trans-status people, and makes a lot of facebook posts about cases concerning unlawful termination due to trans discrimination. So he is AT LEAST sympathetic to trans folks. One other thing about him is that he is very much against the MRM, citing the SPLC's stances towards us. Maybe he doesn't already know about the moneyhatting by the TERF Radfem Hub a…
/r/MensRights06/01/14 07:52 PM
2

Yup. Exactly. You know what got me interested in giving MR a fair shake? The videos of Big Red and the UofT protests.
/r/MensRights03/01/14 07:37 PM
1

wat
/r/MensRights27/12/13 06:56 PM
-6

Yup. When people who publicly decry false rape accusations partake in the same thing calling it activism, that destroys any moral high ground we ever had. That thread shouldn't have been touched with a 20-foot pole.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 04:17 PM
1

I personally put full support behind advancing the marriage equality issue for LGBT folks. I am very vocal about it in the face of my more conservative family/coworkers/friends. Separately, I fully support treating men equally (in the eyes of the law and in socially governed areas). I think the two issues should remain separate. There are some more conservative and traditionalist MRAs in the movement, and they shouldn't be ostracized from the MRM based upon a completely separate, but still impor…
/r/MensRights20/12/13 03:52 PM
3

Arranged marriages? How does that have anything to do with the "I'll marry you if you fuck me, you'll falsely accuse me of rape and ruin my life if I don't go through with it" scheme?
/r/MensRights16/12/13 08:18 PM
3

Feminism has its TERF's, and the majority of feminists try to distance themselves from them. Some people within the MRM, I'm sure, equivalently want nothing to do with trans folks. I don't see it to the extent that it occurs within feminism, in fact I haven't seen one case of that kind of discrimination here, but I do know that some MRM folks cling to traditionalism, so I must make the guess that it exists somewhere here based on that. Personally, I welcome any folks (men, women, trans-men, tran…
/r/MensRights16/12/13 04:09 PM
2

Because when you define the current human condition by that feminist narrative, that's what you get. Some feminists think it is as simple as a dumbed-down binary scale of which gender has it better, refusing to consider each issue individually. They're the ones that say shit like "feminism will fix your men's issues, but right now we have to fix women's first".
/r/MensRights16/12/13 04:01 PM
3

Or, you know, if they care about marriage so much they could be a little more selective with who they sleep with, making sure they hold the same values as themselves.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 03:52 PM
15

I mean when stuff like this happens where the woman consented to film the unconscious "rape play" that happened, feminism insists she was raped, taking agency away from her and putting her in her place as a sex object. Very traditionalist imo.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 05:34 PM
23

Feminism's continuous attempts to take agency away from women lead me to believe it's a lot more conservative than it would like women to think. Edit: maybe not so much conservative. Traditionalist is the word I meant.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 04:43 PM
3

that sentence means nothing to you. I just got back into MTG limited a few weeks ago. I've been drafting Theros every Tuesday and have discovered the awesome fun that is Commander! Edit: And yes, I immediately understood your username reference, as I played him in Ravnica block constructed :)
/r/MensRights04/12/13 07:54 PM
5

Maximum jimmy rustling strategy, I get it. If you cannot escape their fedorating strategy, embrace it, wear the headpiece, and continue making sound and logical arguments. The fedora will then become a symbol of wizened philosophers.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 03:15 PM
37

When they start lazily resorting to thought-terminating cliches like this, and made-up hypothetical ad hominem (seriously, who actually wears fedoras these days anyways?), you can tell that they're depleted of actual substance to counter your good arguments.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 02:32 PM
12

Yes. Keep talking about it. Talk about it to people that don't necessarily know about it. Talk about it in the face of feminist deniers who are trying to proselytize moderates into their scam. Talk about it to developing males so they might choose lifestyles and careers that are less hazardous. We can socialize male disposability into being merely a vestigial trait of the past.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 05:01 PM
3

Close. I don't like calling the traditional roles "patriarchal" though. "Patriarchal" implies that we chose this route because it was the easiest. In the sense that there has been an illusion of male power created from the traditional roles, I guess you could misname it so, but in reality the traditional male familial role is just an exploitation of a common male weakness (that is, the socialized need to fulfill a utility role). If we devalue traditional gender roles to the point where developin…
/r/MensRights02/12/13 04:51 PM
6

Any time I hear things along the lines of "men can't see their own privilege/sexism", it's often accompanies by a "misandry don't real, shitlords". How ironic is that?
/r/MensRights01/12/13 03:25 PM
4

Socialists sometimes like to marry their ideology to things like feminism to create strange little sub-ideologies like "Marxist feminism" that blames the widespread oppression of women on the class structures, and any time our male issues are brought up they are dismissed as class problems instead of male disposability. I am a libertarian, but I have nothing wrong with socialism as a concept, as long as the socialists practice isolated away from affecting me without using the governments as a to…
/r/MensRights01/12/13 03:22 PM
2

Misogyny don't real, shitlords.
/r/MensRights01/12/13 03:15 PM
3

I don't know. Only a quick glance at the top few posts made me chuckle. It appears as though they're parodizing the "girl gamer". http://i.imgur.com/RzYd4Eu.jpg
/r/MensRights30/11/13 10:07 PM
2

To those of us within the MRM, no, the gender of the advocate doesn't matter. I do recognize, however, that to outsiders, the female voices in support of the MRM sometimes lend a more influential effect to the points we try to debate. It was GWW's videos that pushed me one way off the fence. A woman acknowledging things like male disposability and exposing feminism's lies by omission is a strong force when dealing with the uneducated mind.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 06:23 PM
1

Go read "Ecotopia" by Ernest Callenbach. It is a comedy goldmine.
/r/MensRights20/11/13 07:51 PM
2

Maybe they're afraid of getting doxxed and exposed for their dumbassery to somebody that can fire them?
/r/MensRights19/11/13 03:56 PM
5

Dude. I ALWAYS see 5LoR in non-/r/MR threads evangelizing gender equality and common sense. Dude has +83 on my RES as of right now.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 03:41 PM
3

I hadn't heard about him until today. This guy is like Eric Cartman mixed with a strung out Chris Farley.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 03:38 PM
1

The left likes to frame the right as immoral oil-tycoon misers, but historically, here in the South at least, the right has been the most charitable. I think it's projection on their part. I am politically a libertarian. I think a lot of MRA's are similar that way.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 03:35 PM
3

/u/HatsuneMiku: What the fuck are you talking about? In Canada, women's centers are mostly funded by public tax dollars. When people like Earl Silverman get denied funding by the government for the men's center he ran, well, the public tax dollars were being unfairly allocated to one half of the population as far as shelters go. A need for a men's center like this was always there, and the free market answered: a private crowd-sourcing fund was created via Indiegogo, and presumably this void wil…
/r/MensRights19/11/13 03:23 PM
5

I have a Marxist feminist buddy that likes to rag on the free market and MRA "activists" for not really getting anything done. MRA's using the free market to create this? What a nice two-for-one on my friend's arguments!
/r/MensRights19/11/13 01:55 PM
2

When Movember is over, share your case with the friends whose causes you've been donating to with the subtext that they view male problems as not problems.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 01:55 PM
2

Oh my. I would have burned the company to the ground. That is infuriating. Please don't tell me you were expected to train Joe to fill your role.
/r/MensRights08/11/13 10:56 PM
3

Even if parents choose to remain in the work force after having a child, sometimes they are STILL a drain. Do you know how many times I hear the "my kid is sick" excuse from parents at my workplace? The entitlement bothers me to no end, almost as bad as the extra hour worth of breaks that smokers like to take here too.
/r/MensRights08/11/13 08:23 PM
8

I am a man with a weakly and unhoned muscle mass, but I sometimes tout my 130 lb fiance using the fireman's carry method with ease. She thinks I have super powers. I plan on "carrying her over the threshhold" like that. It won't help me appear dashing, but it will functionally work to get her from point A to point B...
/r/MensRights08/11/13 07:31 PM
2

Don't fail to mention another criteria. If they are more dependable as far as leaves of absences go, there is a brownie point. Some women choose a child free lifestyle, and that can be seen as a positive trait from an employer's point of view.
/r/MensRights08/11/13 07:22 PM
6

don't pretend like you're unaware, man. Why so androcentric, sexist? There are female MRA's here.
/r/MensRights07/11/13 04:41 PM
-2

Male gets vasectomy. Male sleeps around with impunity to knocking somebody up. Female partners no longer have the potential baby daddy money trap for the guys . I smell a conspiracy here. Maybe our government, or some people lobbying it at least, do not want the baby daddy money trap to go away, as it empowers lazy people to continue being lazy.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 02:27 PM
7

One goal of men's rights advocates is to stop the constant diminishment of male sexual assault victims (which you seem to be doing right now). When people insist on not defining what has happened here as sexual assault or rape (This was an involuntary digital penetration of his asshole: rape.), it behooves our gender's well being to call them out on their bigotry, however unknowing they may be of it.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 04:12 PM
11

If he were a woman, I speculate she would have retained more human value in the eyes of the cops involved and none of this would have even happened. Men and boys are seen as expendable by most of society.
/r/MensRights05/11/13 04:09 PM
1

I'm happy to hear you've got the sand to try to do this. I will advise you, though, that the rape topic might be a very difficult one to engage your teacher with. There are many other men's rights topics that are more black and white, without the blurred lines. Are you ready to be labelled a rape apologist by this teacher, who is in a clear position of authority over you? Whatever you go with, good luck.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 02:07 PM
4

New identity?
/r/MensRights04/11/13 01:54 PM
11

I would flee the country.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 01:52 PM
8

We will destroy your spirit and then, when it is done and your life is ashes, then you have my permission to die.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 01:42 PM
46

I like the Japanese term "grass eater" better. Nothing threatening about a grass eating animal. They're just mindin their own business, eating grass, just enough to sustain themselves and be content.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 01:39 PM
5

ambassador of dance Just be like this guy.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:54 PM
6

I used to go to this gay bar with one of my old girlfriends. Everyone knew I was straight there, but they were pretty cool to me anyways, and some would buy me a drink from time to time. Deep down, they were just having a good time in their safe space, and if a straight dude goes into that space, he's not likely to be uncool to them. Funny story, I found out my best friend from childhood was gay by running into him there. He was in the process of coming out to his family, so he hadn't really tol…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:32 PM
4

Michael De Santa?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 02:35 PM
1

Maybe attempted rape of my wallet. Or wait, what? Were you referring to my abandonment of four intoxicated-but-grown-ass women at a bar? Were they so helpless that if they don't have a male caretaker they are going to get raped that night? If one of them had got raped that night, it would be my fault for abandoning them, hence I raped them?
/r/MensRights22/10/13 02:16 PM
3

Oh, I have. We've been together 4 years, and we're getting married within two months :D She met me at a shit time in my life when I was unemployed for about a year. That didn't dissuade her from continuing to see me, so I am convinced I can trust her not to take advantage of my vulnerability in a divorce court should it ever go that way (it won't). We're both adamantly decided on the side of having zero kids. She comes from women's studies (as an elective to her major in a STEM field), so the co…
/r/MensRights21/10/13 07:04 PM
1

Agreed, being a GWAR groupie had nothing to do with her shit behavior; being a selfish person did. GWAR was mentioned in the /r/MR sub, and it just reminded me of my first shining moment of non-doormat-ism in my dating days, so I thought I'd share.
/r/MensRights21/10/13 06:40 PM
5

Somewhat related: I dated a GWAR groupie that had a kid with one of the guys who played with them as Beefcake. On our last date she invited three of her girlfriends expecting me to purchase their drinks all night. I was a pushover at the time, but not that night. I would say it was the very first point I stopped being that, and I left them all at the bar to hang out with someone more worthy of my company.
/r/MensRights21/10/13 06:05 PM
7

Fuck me... With feminists these days that actually think this way, you're oppressing if you rape one, and you're oppressing if you protect one from rape.
/r/MensRights21/10/13 05:59 PM
1

Isn't it ironic that she blasts the damsel trope on her videos?
/r/MensRights18/10/13 03:25 PM
1

Consequences were never the same. They done goofed, so the cyber police backtraced them.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 04:03 PM
2

We do. I've noticed any overtly vitriolic talk around here that has no foundation of fact gets downvoted pretty quickly.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 04:01 PM
2

Is there anything about brigading outside websites from our subreddit in Reddit's rules that can get our sub deleted? Gotta be careful, folks.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 04:00 PM
0

Actually, I think I see what you're getting at... Here we go: For a while, I saw a trend going on in /r/mensrights where anti-male hate speech on Facebook was getting reported by MHRM supporters and the requests to be taken down were subsequently denied, thus giving our sub a new image post of the denial of censorship, while anti radical feminist (read: not anti-woman) posts were getting censored left and right... I do believe the motivations for these censorship requests were different from the…
/r/MensRights17/10/13 03:55 PM
2

This is actually pretty smart... Contact the sponsors you see on that page and let them know you won't be buying any of their products or services on account of their condoning of this bad journalism. Money is more powerful than words. Right now I see an Adobe ad and a Discover credit card ad.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 03:50 PM
7

wat
/r/MensRights17/10/13 03:17 PM
4

I like her. She sounds like a feminist that actually doesn't perpetuate the notion of female hypoagency. I think I'm going to look further into her works now. Thanks for sharing this article.
/r/MensRights16/10/13 06:29 PM
9

Nobody deserves to be a slave. Flee the country.
/r/MensRights11/10/13 05:21 PM
21

Flee your country. Seriously.
/r/MensRights11/10/13 05:18 PM
2

Yeah. Do you know how ignorant it sounds when people somehow excuse crime in black neighborhoods because it is mainly blacks perpetrating the crimes? The issue isn't who the perps are, the issue is that there is a crime that they seem to want made invisible and ignored.
/r/MensRights11/10/13 03:31 PM
2

Well, considering they're the country where Middle Fucking Earth is located... NZ is nice, yeah.
/r/MensRights10/10/13 04:15 PM
1

It is speculated that one or some of the admins is a SRS mod (or participant) as well. There are strange instances of admin actions being favorable to SRS, but not other meta subreddits.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 06:29 PM
2

Sure... Take it to Reddit admins, though, because they were the ones who banned your roommate. There isn't some underlying white-knighting that /r/mensrights mods are doing. If anything, the mods here are pretty hands-off, unless there is doxxing or brigading other subs going on. People, including those with conflicting views from the MRM, are welcome to participate in open discussions here.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 06:41 PM
5

Didn't you read /u/businesstimemod's post? The user wasn't banned by a /r/mensrights mod, but a Reddit admin. Usually that sort of thing is reserved for doxxing or extreme cases like underage pornography being shared. How do you know what the post said that got the user banned, anyways?
/r/MensRights08/10/13 04:36 PM
2

I'm curious. What could possibly have happened here? Quickest thing I can think of is some sort of doxxing, in which case, Meg Lanker-Simons' name has already been revealed by the linked webpage.
/r/MensRights08/10/13 01:14 PM
2

trying to pressure anyone in to escaping their gender role Yeah, to me that sounds like the worst kind of feminisms. You can't force social change. You can only BE the social change, and force people to reconsider what they didn't accept about you.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 06:58 PM
0

Yeah. I boycotted Chick-Fil-A over their guy's bigotry. Much to my dismay, I live in Texas, where most of my friends lean right, and were posting pictures of themselves eating at Chick-Fil-A the day of the reverse boycott day.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 06:15 PM
3

Adhering to gender roles was historically beneficial, in different ways, to both sexes for a long time. For certain rights, such as being the decision maker of the family and having your name carry to your offspring, you would get corresponding responsibilities, like having to toil away all day to bring home the bread. In today's age of less scarcity, less danger of natural predators or warlords coming through and killing your family, and more technological/medical innovations, the role in a fam…
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:44 PM
2

I can't wait for ME2 to do amazing. I just about destroyed the crotchal region of my trousers when I saw they were making it.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:36 PM
8

Ah, the reverse boycott. Maybe they'll learn (they won't) that the people that spend money on games will view a game as more attractive if it makes Sarkeesian's shitlist.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:32 PM
5

The caricature that you encounter with the three main characters that is an exercise nut/radfem/crazy cat lady? Yeah, Trevor's banter to her as you're racing a bike is my favorite dialogue in the game.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:31 PM
4

Money talks, people. As long as a game that includes the possibilities GTA V does is making that kind of money, we're safe.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:25 PM
5

Yes, that's why I said "or at least a freedom of choice from"... Even those who live traditionally here, like you, at least support an individual choice to be different if that suits them. Like I don't smoke, nor want to smoke marijuana, but I'm very vocal about my support for legalization/decriminalization of it. May not be for me, but for somebody it is just right for them.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 03:18 PM
8

This is true. There's nothing NOT liberal about supporting a breaking down of, or at least a freedom of choice from, traditional gender roles. There are some traditionalists here, but for the most part I think we recognize it would benefit us to break free from our traditional role of the disposable gender.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 02:12 PM
2

I think /r/redpill used to be linked in the sidebar of this sub.
/r/MensRights04/10/13 03:13 PM
1

Hah. Okay, what you said makes sense now.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 10:12 PM
1

Kurt Vonnegut described himself as an atheist. If he heard you say that, he'd probably laugh at you. Wait... If he heard you say that, he'd probably be in his afterlife, and have gotten over atheism already. Eh, so it goes.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 08:17 PM
5

Handicapper General That'd be Harrison Bergeron, by Kurt Vonnegut, adapted to a short film (FUCKING FIND THIS AND WATCH IT, SERIOUSLY) called 2081.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 04:02 PM
2

Everything you said is true. I think, though, that the general motivations of this sub of creating awareness that we as men are not mindless, animalistic, sex addicts is seeping through. It's not a bad thing to say to OP that this can actually be an opportunity to change society's view one person at a time. It's really OP's choice. This is a good opportunity, though.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 01:20 PM
1

Point to me if you'd like. I call myself both a MRA and a feminist with the caveat that there are different strains of feminism. I support gender equality in the eyes of the law and a general goal of making it acceptable to society for both genders to ditch their traditional roles if the individual desires to. I am in the same way a feminist as I am a classical liberal. It basically means today's libertarian in effect, but today's "liberal" basically means democrat.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 08:05 PM
3

I'm curious. Where have we found this out? I logically assume the opposite trend would exist (not divorce rates, but ratios of which gender initiates the divorces more).
/r/MensRights30/09/13 04:31 PM
4

Something tells me that if you excluded the women who married richer than them from divorce statistics, the overwhelming skew in the wife's initiation of divorce would be a little less. In this imaginary anecdote that theozoph presented, it is against the wife's interests to initiate a divorce, assuming a court would rule in favor of the stay at home dad.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 03:55 PM
1

http://www.roflcat.com/images/cats/I_Should_Buy_A_Boat.jpg
/r/MensRights30/09/13 03:51 PM
5

Don't know why someone downvoted you. If feminism is really as it defines itself as about gender equality, then you can be a MRA and a feminist. The two are not mutually exclusive, based upon that definition, that is.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 03:49 PM
6

Facebook is a private entity on the internet. There's nothing any government can do to outlaw misandric moderation policies. There are three things I can think of that you can do to stick it to them anyways: Keep making it known the double standards of their "gender equality" department that is clearly dismissive and hateful towards men and boys. Convince as many people as you can bring along with you to leave their website. Removing yourself from their possession is removing yourself as the pro…
/r/MensRights30/09/13 01:46 PM
2

I wish I had my foreskin back :( Cut from infancy due to parents' religion, here. Today, I basically have to powerfuck a cervix into mush to achieve pleasure.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 03:17 PM
1

Canada is the most violent country on the planet But... Robin Williams told me otherwise!
/r/MensRights26/09/13 03:11 PM
-1

"Privilege" is an illusory concept, and exists only as an excuse for lack of success at things. Each individual's destiny is a product of their own hand. Be what you want to be. Don't let someone tell you what role you were born with.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 02:16 PM
1

I play primarily as that psychopath, Trevor. I try to stick within the role, y'know?
/r/MensRights25/09/13 04:54 PM
5

Only one female in the game I can remember ever killing was this chick in one of those blue dot popup missions who was playing the damsel in distress to lure me into an ambush... Fuck that noise, she got the lead, along with her buddies. Other than that, the male body count is somewhere in the tens of thousands. Violence against women is SO PERVASIVE in video games, guys, we have to DO SOMETHING!
/r/MensRights25/09/13 04:28 PM
3

Freedom of speech protected? Facebook is a private entity. No private entity should be compelled to do this or that, even if their M.O. is becoming a hub for hateful feminist propaganda. Feel free to take yourself away from them as the product they sell to their advertisers. Feel free to contact those advertisers and express that you cannot in good conscience buy their products or services knowing they put money into hateful feminist platforms. Money talks.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 04:07 PM
2

Stupid reason for the decision, yes, but I'm okay with where TLoU ended up. That game was a masterpiece of storytelling.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 06:55 PM
0

Askreddit is a default, still, right? What are the rules on going into that thread from your account's normal feed when you are also an MRA, and then vote down bigoted comments? I saw it there before I saw it here. I also notice that here, the OP used the "np" format of linking to a sub, thus making it not able to be voted on.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 06:00 PM
0

I have seen a lot of MR news coming from Canada (UofT protests, Earl Silverman)... Makes sense.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 03:27 PM
3

Go fix FGM in Africa then. The West is more than generous to women.
/r/MensRights18/09/13 02:48 PM
2

Those prints cost money. I can understand the need to collect money for that... What's the overhead like? Is some overseer pocketing a lot of the proceeds? These are things that are important to anything I give my money to.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 05:44 PM
4

The long-term unspoken goal of these movements, I think, is for enough men to wise up to this broken game and opt out to create a tier of mates that women will have to change themselves and the way they treat us in order to attain a romantic life partnership with. Balking at the status quo loud enough is exactly what gets things done. The relationship dynamic of society needs to be renegotiated.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 03:45 PM
3

My time is worth some form of monetary value to me. I've spent a lot of time talking with civilians in meatspace about MR issues, at personal risk of being ostracized too. If I don't give a dime to a MR charity, I'll still have done what I see as "my part". That being said, if I believe the transparency and effectiveness of a MR fund warrants my cash, I wouldn't have a problem giving them some of it.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 02:14 PM
4

Oh what? You were denied custody of your child and ordered to pay out your ass for 18 years for the mother's leisure fund? Tough luck, shitlord. Patriarchy!
/r/MensRights17/09/13 02:08 PM
1

I've never submitted an article, but have taken part in many comments sections. Would there be a place for the quasi-lurkers?
/r/MensRights17/09/13 02:02 PM
1

GWW, JTO, and who else?
/r/MensRights17/09/13 01:59 PM
4

Responsibilities to the group? "Responsibility" assumes we should give a damn about the greater good of society when society doesn't give a damn about us because we are men. Live for yourself, not for the needs or wants of other people. MGTOW's, grass eaters, "omega males", I think they're onto something. I personally am getting married to someone I believe I can trust, but I don't blame any men who choose to opt out of society's expectations. I feel I've lucked out with finding my partner, but …
/r/MensRights17/09/13 01:49 PM
8

I equally tell them to fuck off. I personally am for a non-definition of "be a man", that is, "be a man" should mean what each individual man decides it means for themselves. A man wants to be all Maddox and stomp on dandelion beds on his way to the gym to bro out and chug protein shakes? More power to him... A man wants to listen to Air Supply and be emotionally vulnerable to his partner while doing "non-macho" shit? There you go, that can mean "being a man" for him. The point is, the sooner we…
/r/MensRights17/09/13 12:43 PM
5

It sounds a lot to me like you're trying to shame us into what you think men should be. Fuck off.
/r/MensRights17/09/13 12:00 PM
2

Pro Tip: Don't be Russian. I'm looking forward to the weird responses of people learning of different last names. "What do you think, I'm supposed to own her now that we're married or something?"
/r/MensRights13/09/13 03:35 PM
2

I can see why that would feel patronizing. I think the correct approach (if you're interested in breaking down gender role barriers) would not be to try to force interest in something, but to discourage society from doing just that. It works the inverse way with handing girls Barbies by default and pushing boys towards sports.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 03:30 PM
2

Physicists are strange creatures indeed :) To be worth your salt, you must really genuinely love your craft. I can see why there would be less Adria Richards types in that field compared to one that has a need for a "technology evangelist".
/r/MensRights13/09/13 03:01 PM
1

Yes. Go on...
/r/MensRights13/09/13 02:39 PM
1

Childfree couple here :)
/r/MensRights13/09/13 02:08 PM
1

How is that?
/r/MensRights13/09/13 12:37 PM
1

I think the real purpose of NP "read only" mode is to discourage brigading from meta subreddits. I mean, imagine if /r/politics started having links ridiculing /r/libertarian posts show up... The subreddit population difference is staggering. Downvotes would skew the organic discussion trend that used to occur in the smaller subreddit, and it wouldn't be what the creators of the subreddit intended any more.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 12:26 PM
1

And then, some that do pursue STEM fields, bring that women's studies tripe to the table and go all "Adria Richards" at Donglecon or whatever that was.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 11:52 AM
5

Heh... It was being exposed to /r/mensrights that made me decide not to try to get my fiance to change her last name, all in the interest of an actual egalitarian marriage. Patriarchy apologizers we are, I tell ya!
/r/MensRights13/09/13 11:51 AM
2

Teeth can be... Fun :)
/r/MensRights12/09/13 10:47 AM
14

This is what I posted in the /r/JusticePorn XPost: Justice would actually be this man getting those 11 years back, the woman paying the city back for the frivolous lawsuit and her being forced to serve those 11 years. Too many people oppose real judicial reform concerning possible false rape claims for it to happen, though. These people do so in the name of real rape victims being more enabled to come forward with their real accusations. I can't even call these people feminists. If they were rea…
/r/MensRights11/09/13 03:26 PM
3

Now that the scientific/health myths have been shattered, I would also like to add an argument against the religious requirement (for Christians at least): http://www.stopcirc.com/christian.html Paul, arguably one of the more prominent voices in the beginnings of the Christian religion, wrote against non-Jews being circumcised many times.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 03:07 PM
7

That's the point. Women indirectly dictating that our boys get part of their sexual organs cut off because they prefer the look is kinda fucking creepy.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 02:57 PM
3

Paul's letters to the different cities' Christian churches... Aren't they pretty much the go-by's of modern Christianity, instead of going by the Torah? I posit that unless she wants to be guilty of picking and choosing archaic customs, she should stop wearing fabrics of mixed thread, stop eating shellfish, start submitting to her husband's decisions 100%, and vacate her living space once a month because her period is considered "unclean". As a deist who came from a background of practicing Chri…
/r/MensRights03/09/13 05:01 PM
1

I guess I shouldn't speak for this subreddit as a whole, but I have my own anecdote of personal experience applicable to this. I frequently go against the grain with my unpopular "not all feminists are like that", and while downvoted and argued against, I have never received a ban or had a post deleted.
/r/MensRights31/08/13 01:42 PM
3

You don't need men's rights. Feminism has your issues covered. Shut the fuck up, shitlord. P A T R I A R C H Y Edit: hah... Only noticed your username after typing shitlord.
/r/MensRights30/08/13 04:49 PM
3

One crucial aspect I would say is necessary for a feminist group to be the "good kind" is intellectual honesty and openness to debate amongst itself and outsiders. To say that the fine folks over at /r/feminism exhibits this trait would be a lie. Here, we have a mixture of "good MRA's" and "bad MRA's", but at least we don't shut down the radicals, moderates, or those with outside opinions with bans. There is always a welcome to unpopular opinions in our dialogue.
/r/MensRights30/08/13 04:35 PM
3

Apparently Jellybean doesn't know what he means.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 01:35 PM
2

And call them out as gender bigots when you find out about it.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 01:54 PM
1

I don't buy into the idea of some arbitrary gender screentime metric determining the entertainment value of a movie. That being said, Lena Heady was my favorite role in Dredd, followed closely by Karl Urban's mouth.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 03:21 PM
5

No Scabs! This is also a reason why many feminists hate the idea of MGTOW's and grasseaters. It's a loss of control.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 03:13 PM
2

This is to prevent vote brigading from our end, and the consequent shadow bans that Reddit admins will be throwing out. You won't even know it hit you if you got hit.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 03:02 PM
6

Dude... Just forget /r/feminism exists already. That hole of intellectual dishonesty bans people for showing any sort of gender egalitarianism that doesn't benefit their gender. They're not interested in any sort of rational debate.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 02:52 PM
8

Stockholm Syndrome.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 10:13 PM
5

You really should look into the stuff Farrell talks about. He was the original basis of which I came to respect that there was a need for the MRM.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 10:08 PM
15

Alimony shouldn't exist in the first place. You want the same standard of living without everything that came with the marriage? Fuck you, get a job.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 09:55 PM
10

At this point, Tierra del Carteles is looking really nice to you, isn't it? Learn Spanish. Flee to Mexico.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 09:54 PM
9

I'm sorry your brother went through that, and I'm sorry you lost him.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 09:49 PM
0

Stop derailing! This is a safe space for the advancement of the men's rights!
/r/MensRights26/08/13 09:47 PM
3

Urban Dictionary, folks... The monolith of intellectual resource. The place I learned what the fuck a Cincinatti Bowtie actually is. I get your point, though.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 03:09 PM
5

CHECK YOUR BOT PRIVILEGE, SHITLORD!
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:53 PM
2

One anecdote, I know, but I was just banned from /r/feminism for this post. They don't like anybody that identifies with /r/mensrights around. I guess I learned just how intellectually honest they are yesterday. In this sub, I have often defended them, but that's over.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:47 PM
0

u wot mate
/r/MensRights15/08/13 07:10 PM
2

She woman, man haters club on android app and facebook. Basically a bunch of girls got together and devised a sort of BBB of potential guys to date. Their app links to our facebook profiles somehow and they rate us on our value as a dating partner. Problem is, anybody who goes on there to rate their ex is most likely bitter about one thing or another and just lies about him. It's things like this that make me glad I'm out of the dating pool.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 02:40 PM
14

I don't know... THE LAST OF US SPOILERS BELOW In the Last of Us one of the strongest points in the game was when you assume the role of Ellie trying to acquire the medicine Joel needs to survive. When he got impaled by that rebar and it moves on quickly to Winter and Ellie hunting that deer, it hit me like a ton of bricks that it was possible in my mind that could be the end of him.
/r/MensRights02/08/13 12:33 PM
1

Ah, something more important in Australia than the Saint's Row 4 rating debacle.
/r/MensRights02/08/13 10:52 AM
3

Thcum
/r/MensRights30/07/13 12:06 PM
7

You know nothing... "Jon Snow".
/r/MensRights25/07/13 07:28 PM
6

Do you look like this guy?
/r/MensRights25/07/13 01:08 PM
0

Oh god, please don't give the porn-makers that idea. Last thing I would want to encounter during happy fun time is the putrid smells that emanate from the pile of sweaty, assy flesh I'm watching.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 12:15 PM
9

I never understood the whole "fedora" thought-terminating cliche. Tumblr feminists seem to always be mentioning that ridiculous hat that nobody in their right mind could pull off today unless you were in a Humphrey Bogart biopic. It really just doesn't look good on most people, and I think everybody realizes that. Like, is there some fashion trend within the MRA that I never heard about? Should I be wearing headgear to identify myself as one who advocates for gender equality?
/r/MensRights25/07/13 12:13 PM
4

I agree. If anything, this is just more of the same complaining about Tumblr radfems, as if they are remotely taken seriously by anyone that matters. It is the right of the individual to choose to be the gender they so decide. I would think we would be inclusive of men who were born female. I know there are some feminists such as Cathy Brennan that are trans-phobic and openly resent women born male. We as a movement should strive to avoid encouraging the mirror of that viewpoint. And as for givi…
/r/MensRights23/07/13 05:55 PM
6

I bet you're just livid about the existence of Lulu, then.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 05:02 PM
1

I post there all the time, indicating that I am also an MRA sometimes. Haven't had anybody try to silence me yet.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 12:40 PM
14

God damn paranoid society. This is what misandry looks like.
/r/MensRights16/07/13 01:53 PM
2

Hey, you're cool!
/r/MensRights16/07/13 01:45 PM
6

I question the authenticity of this comment. Just yesterday (or the day before?) there was an askreddit thread where they asked something like "What is the best (worst) thing you can say to shock somebody?" and this was a top answer. Or was that you?
/r/MensRights16/07/13 01:30 PM
1

For those of us that don't know...
/r/MensRights16/07/13 01:25 PM
1

Silly mods and their silly posting policies!
/r/MensRights15/07/13 12:44 PM
3

I experience that same malfunction, and I always wondered if I would be more normal if mom and dad had never had me cut.
/r/MensRights15/07/13 12:44 PM
1

That brings something to mind... Isn't it kinda sad that in the U.S., the tendency to prefer uncircumcised penises would more-so be considered the fetish, but the tendency to prefer cut penises is the norm?
/r/MensRights15/07/13 12:39 PM
5

Please don't try to paint "success" in suicide attempts as a positive trait for men to have.
/r/MensRights15/07/13 12:16 PM
4

Men and boys learn there is no hope for sympathy from a very young age. At the point where suicidal thoughts start to arise, to them there usually isn't a chance in their mind at gaining pity, they just see it as an escape.
/r/MensRights15/07/13 12:13 PM
25

/r/mensrights isn't just about changing the system. It's also about becoming aware of the gender dynamic society tries and forces upon us. In this case, we see a chart showing us how men are often viewed as "success objects", as Dr. Warren Farrell has named it. Some MRA groups, such as MGTOW's, would especially be interested in the data this chart was derived from. This does belong in /r/mensrights. What I personally am taking from it: If I ever got involved in an online dating website, I'd prob…
/r/MensRights11/07/13 06:07 PM
10

It takes a certain constitution to stomach bleeding for days.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 10:10 PM
1

It doesn't hurt that my company reimburses me a day's pay for each day I'm called, up to three a year.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 10:53 AM
13

I am relatively intelligent, and I welcome being selected to a jury.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 11:28 PM
8

Well that's outright theft, then.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 12:00 AM
8

I am surprised by this action in a good way, but to me (a hardline anti-war libertarian) McCain is not redeemable.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 03:55 PM
3

Here's how it's done in case you're just uninformed, and not being completely stupid. I link a stat or a collection of stats, then say that the stats mean this or that, and if you disagree, you argue how you are right without using logical fallacies or anecdotal evidence. Here we go: http://www.reddit.com/r/mensrightslinks/comments/y0mnx/dvipc_summary/ My finding? Women are just as violent as men, and given the acceptance of this behavior in society, I see a culture of abuse of males by females …
/r/MensRights26/06/13 05:20 PM
10

Why you... Rapscallion...
/r/MensRights21/06/13 11:53 PM
2

You could delete your facebook. This, coupled with the recent "anti feminist hate speech" bans should be enough reason.
/r/MensRights21/06/13 06:39 PM
2

Yeah, /r/mensrights isn't a vote brigade.
/r/MensRights17/06/13 09:55 PM
1

I believe I just might go into my Crusader Kings II Scandinavian campaign and change inheritance laws to absolute cognatic :)
/r/MensRights14/06/13 02:49 PM
3

Male disposability and misandrism are a real thing.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 03:58 PM
4

Poe's Law. Of course somebody who questions statistics isn't an apologist for the thing those statistics found. I was absolutely parodizing the go-to accusation that Tumblr feminists use when their claims are met with challenge.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 12:32 PM
2

Rape apologist.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 12:02 PM
1

Because obviously that was the context of the message the flier is saying.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 12:57 PM
2

He frames it on the bourgeoisie. Marxism in general eludes my capitalist mind. I'm not buying Marxist theory or patriarchy theory.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 03:54 AM
2

Whoa... Looked up a general Wikipedia overview of her theories... The things she supported seem worse than eugenics.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:54 PM
4

There is a guy marrying a good friend of mine. He is a self-identified Marxist feminist. When I have engaged him over Facebook, he has said he doesn't buy into the patriarchy bologna. That being said, he frames the oppression of women on the proletariat struggle against the bourgeoisie. I guess it is a similar concept.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:33 PM
4

/r/karmaconspiracy
/r/MensRights05/06/13 04:51 PM
3

This is what I've been saying since discovering MR. All of the woman bashing and lashing out at the "enemy" only served to drive me away when I was on the fence about MR. You know whose speaking actually convinced me? Warren fucking Farrell. That man is so diplomatic about our talking points that he regularly converts radical feminists to actually using rationality. This is the man I try to emulate when dealing with gender issues discussion. I encourage you guys to look to him as an example of a…
/r/MensRights04/06/13 11:59 AM
3

When one type of feminism is diametrically opposed to MRM, any article exposing their paradoxes like this is welcome. However, too much of this type of thing is just gonna make us look more like anti-feminists instead of expose our mission objective of getting men treated equally where there are deficiencies.
/r/MensRights03/06/13 10:08 PM
12

Thanks, man... These comments gave me cancer.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 05:02 PM
1

Hector Salamanca would be an awesome video game character, btw. I believe someone made a Flash user-made Breaking Bad fighting game with Hector as a character.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 03:32 PM
10

I don't know how I feel about some of the female fighting game characters... In some cases, they are obviously just eye candy. (DOA: Super Jiggly Version anyone?) Maybe I'm not following their back story enough?
/r/MensRights28/05/13 11:46 PM
18

The female playable characters from the Borderlands games come to mind... Literally Badasses.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 10:25 PM
0

You can stick your head in the sand all you want. It doesn't change the facts. Christina Hoff Sommers is both a feminist by the definition of equity feminism, and an anti-feminist by the definition of gender feminism.
/r/MensRights22/05/13 10:09 PM
0

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equity_and_gender_feminism
/r/MensRights22/05/13 10:48 AM
1

Christina Hoff Sommers can be categorized into neither of the two groups that you believe to be the only kinds of feminists.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 11:25 PM
6

We have that problem here. There's a lot of anger directed towards women. The nature of the current state of PR we have for the "men's rights" brand is that if you mention MR on the street to a random, you'll probably get a WTF look, them not having any clue how men could possibly need action to be on an equal level in certain areas. More men that find MR find it because they were damaged somehow by women or a government/society that favors women somewhere. These damaged men are justifiably angr…
/r/MensRights21/05/13 06:40 PM
6

I say good. The moderates need to start ostracizing the radicals more.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 06:18 PM
1

Nobody likes you here.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 02:17 PM
5

The big difference between the MRA and feminist communities when it comes to dickshits trying to speak for them with views that go completely against the principles of the original incarnations of the movements is that we're going to call you on your BS. Nobody likes you here.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 01:17 PM
1

I'm afraid I can't lump them all together that easily. People like Christina Hoff Sommers, most of the folks over at /r/egalitarianism, and my SO perpetuate that silly notion that perhaps there are some of them that can engage in a fair and rational dialogue.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 06:34 PM
4

Stay mad, though, just retain your composure. We will do well to appear the rational side.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 06:21 PM
8

You're angry at radical feminists. I get it, I really do. They're horrible, horrible people, and will one day hopefully be outed as on the wrong side of the civil rights battle. Your language, however, makes outsiders stumbling in to our space view us as childish villains. Take the high road.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 05:06 PM
3

Fat-bottomed girls you make the checkin world go round.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 07:45 PM
2

That's funny. The best chess player I know is a Hispanobro college buddy / coworker. We used to go every lunch break and hit that board, him consistently beating me except for once.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 07:44 PM
-9

I bet.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 08:12 PM
2

I would burn the fucking world down around her and go abroad.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 11:36 PM
2

"2. If you are privileged, you are unable to see your own privilege (but trust us, it's there!)." Concede to that one. Point out that by their logic, they could have privilege that they cannot see. Rattle off the checklist of gender inequalities in favor of women.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 11:25 PM
8

Thor-damnit, vikings... Get your shit together!
/r/MensRights25/03/13 08:35 PM
14

I took it as commentary on two parts to the problem of rape culture being the lack of awareness of male victims, and the victim blaming that happens against female victims. Seemed kosher to me.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 08:46 PM
1

As a new participant in this having only been aware of the MRM less than a month ago, the main off-putting thing to me by many MRA's is the vehemence in the language we use talking about feminists. I get it. The vocal minority of radical feminists peeves me to no end, too. It is important that we distinguish the feminists who are actually true egalitarians from the radical feminists, though. It is also important to keep it classy so people who are looking at what we have to say for the first tim…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 11:52 PM
1

Executive pardon is not the same as expunging the conviction. Even then, it would remain on his record, and he would remain on "the list".
/r/MensRights20/03/13 11:45 PM
1

Girlwriteswhat, hmmm? I'm going to check that out... Any very notable videos?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 05:24 PM
1

You do realize that having politicians do things to garner our votes can result in mens rights finally being legislated, correct? That being said, I am currently seeing MRA's speaking up from the whole spectrum proportionate to Reddit's typical political distribution in this thread. EDIT: God damn brain farts.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 05:20 PM
1

We generally share fiscal views with conservatives and civil rights views with liberals.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:24 PM
1

The talk about feminism being linked to socialism comes from my friend, an actual member of the American Communist Party, so in this case it is not a reactionary stance from our side. It might be as simple as left-wingers hate right-wingers, some of which the more outspoken MRAs identify as. On feminism being a hate movement, I will not concede to the idea that feminists and MRAs are irreconcilable. At the core of our group's goals is gender equality. Some feminists are also supporters of our ca…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 02:45 PM
2

This logical paradox between traditional Marxism and the incompatibility it has with one common feminist goal will be an interesting talking point.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 02:21 PM
1

These examples are very helpful. I will mention some of this to my friend, who will probably dismiss them somehow with his strange logic.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 02:17 PM
4

Aside from your belief in society's duty to aid the poor, you sound a lot like a (and forgive me for generalizing unduly) libertarian after all. Hell, I believe in a duty to help the poor, not to be mandated by the government, but taken on personally instead, and societally encouraged by a reverse boycott of one's business if they are an upstanding contributor to worthy causes. I'm looking at you, Bill Gates! I didn't feel bad at all for paying for my copy of Windows 8.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 02:11 PM
5

This does help explain where my friend is coming from with his pidgeon-holing feminism as something exclusive to socialists.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:57 PM
3

I know the radfems like to use the "MRA" term as a pejorative these days like it's something bad to advocate men's rights, but I still prefer that to "masculinist". To me, the language of "masculinist" brings to mind hyper-masculine machismo that I view as a form of misandry in itself. Things like "Man up" and "stop being a pussy" are gender-bigoted things to say with negative connotations. Those are just the types of phrases I've had to deal with personally that come to mind when I hear "mascul…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:54 PM
2

Can you give me more specifics on: Feminism being "just gendered Marxism"? I believe feminism is just one side of the concept of gender equality where there exists a radical vocal minority, and at its essence isn't a bad thing, just like the issues we try to make aware as MRAs is also worthy of consideration in gender equality. Instances where Communist Russia had any type of men's rights movement?
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:27 PM
4

The MRM would be committing a logical fallacy in lumping all feminists in with the vocal minority of radfems. Based on this, I say the vice-versa situation is applicable as well. Fundamental libertarianism at its core has much in common with traditional liberalism as far as civil/human rights goes. I guess I feel insulted to be lumped in with the Republican Party in my friend's eyes.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 01:09 PM
1

Just googled wtf that is. Do we have an equivalent to review the psychotics? If I hadn't found a very decent one to wife, this subreddit might have convinced me to start fucking blokes five years ago.
/r/MensRights26/02/13 04:03 PM
13

Christ... How much does baby formula cost these days?
/r/MensRights22/02/13 08:45 PM
34

On behalf of the MRA community, I do hereby award you this honorary penis of your own: 8===D
/r/MensRights19/02/13 02:40 PM
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