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Inner Game texaspete3/r/seduction19/12/20 07:01 AM
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Field Reporttexaspete3/r/seduction06/07/20 03:02 AM
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improvement is a process. meaning that their is no finite goal. Anyone can improve on any aspect of their life and only they will be able to measure progress. That is not a goal oriented interaction, such as I want to sleep with this woman so i am going to start talking to her. DO you understand the difference?
/r/seduction14/09/22 02:31 PM
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improvement is a process, not a goal. It will be seen as genuine.
/r/seduction14/09/22 01:05 PM
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acknowledging what they are doing gives them an ounce of power, ignoring or not acknowledging them takes all their power away. Also know that shit tests are done at a unconscious level, its how women are designed. To leave over something like that is silly and weird.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:28 PM
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not sounds advice. all women do shit tests, its ingrained in them throughout their lives. your wife of 30 years will still be testing you.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:02 PM
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The key to passing a shit test is very simple. Control the frame. Don't even acknowledge what they said. Look at her deadpan in the eye and say something about her physical features that could be interpreted like a neg.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:01 PM
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if you are focused on the results of your interaction you will come off as someone who is not genuine. If you come across as care free without any sort of specific results and allow for a serendipitous interaction it will be much more natural and powerful
/r/seduction06/09/22 02:18 PM
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ego. You have to get over your own ego.
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:21 PM
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when you guys marry, you owe me 5 dollars.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:08 PM
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I have a great bar by me which i Use for dates. I am friendly with the staff and i usually bring a new woman there a few times a month. There is no better feeling of taking a date to a place at feels like a second home, where everyone knows you. It not only gives you instant social proof, but it can lead to so many other things. What you don't want to do is what you did and get sloppy. I would find a new bar to make your new home, get in good with the staff and not allow that to happen again.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:07 PM
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You get 1 shot at this life. If this is the man you want or have feelings for go get him. If he says no, who the fuck cares if you see him. Just smile and move on. Stop waiting for happiness to fall in your lap, make it happen.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:03 PM
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well , if you want him.... go get him. Ask him out, the worst thing that he can say is no, and then you move on.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:56 PM
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It's a no win preposition. so you might as well go for the home run.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:31 PM
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Don't cold approach. College is unique and a special time in your life. What you need to know about this time is that there is no need to cold approach because you will be seeing these people for the next 4 years. What I do is Plant seeds. Planting seeds is, is having a fun brief interaction with a person with time constraints. Be the one to open the set, be the one to close the set, Get names and an interesting fact about them so when you see them a week later on campus you can bring up that to…
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:28 PM
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I would say , " how important is financial security to you" it is going to take her a few seconds to come to her senses. THen i would say " I said, how important is financial secuirty to you" She will most likely say very. Then you say if that is the case here is my number. I have a once in a lifetime job interview that I can't miss, but if financial security wasn't important to you I would've bought you a cup a coffee.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:24 PM
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his issue is different. He is actually meeting women. ONce you are face to face its no longer OLD
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:59 PM
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If you continue to do the same things you have done in the past, expect to get the same results. You have pointed out some of your tendencies, it is up to you to address them.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:58 PM
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Read mystery method. Start becoming more savy socially. INstead of focusing on getting laid. Focus on goals in front of you like being able to talk to a woman for 5 consectuive minutes. Usually its going to be you just asking her a bunch of questions which is a beginners fallacy. Your next goal will be to stimulate a range of emotions within her.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:57 PM
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What i would suggest first is to develop a social circle. You need to join a club at school and find activities to do.... ones with women in it. From there it will be much easier. Remember warm approach is better than cold approach for newbies.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:54 PM
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dating someone who is leaving logistically makes no sense for you or her.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:52 PM
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Kino is how you tell. If you hold her hand and she doesn't pull back that is a good sign if not , you need to build more attraction. Dating in the work place is something I don't recommend, and besides its just plain lazy.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:50 PM
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don't pay for sex. You don't crave sex. You crave feeling desired. You can't get that from a transaction. Buy mystery method read it and follow what he says.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:49 PM
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wow this is one of the worst posts i have seen on here. Your whole compass is screwed up. You sound, frustrated. You also sound like you have no game.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:48 PM
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elbaorate , give some examples of women you have met,and the times they have flaked on you?
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:42 PM
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what is bullshit game? read mystery method.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:41 PM
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This is a very good point. Looks are not as important to me sometimes. If a girl has a good body i can't ignore her unattractiveness especially if I am horny. What you can't ignore is obesity. In asia , every woman is skinny
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:44 PM
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Don't take things so personally. Understand that life is not easy for a woman , and that taking the easy way out, or protecting oneself is an option that is easy to latch onto at all times.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:41 PM
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You can say I don't kiss and tell or Women are not some notch on my belt that i keep track of . I don't look at women as objects.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:37 PM
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Your friend is 100 percent correct. Get off the social media.
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:59 PM
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selfless sure, but from a different perspective.
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:03 AM
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of course
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:01 AM
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I am really glad you posted on here. It took a little while to uncover the issue but we got there. You're right , everyone is different but I don't believe that is what is happening here. Being in a relationship with someone who is a narcissist can warp your view of relationships, love and intimacy. I wouldn't be surprised if you have some ptsd which makes you hyper sensitive to men who are incongruent with their behavior. I would explore this topic further with a professional.
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:05 AM
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looks like we have found the issue. Remember you are no longer that version of yourself. She was there for you during that period of your life but that period of your life is over.
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:33 AM
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ok. What type of guy were you in high school. Were you single throughout high school and not have an outlet for your desires? Highschool can be a very isolating experience for some, a time where men attempt to find their identity and a romantic interest can quickly become an infatuation that we build up in our head. You are the man you were in high school. she, or more likely the idea of her played a large role that version of yourself, but she in all reality could never live up to the expectati…
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:29 AM
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men who build up a friendship and then ghost you once they get what you want is not normal human behavior. If that has been your experience with men, then I feel sorry for you. Also what is it that he can't finish?
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:24 AM
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imo it isn't at all. There is nothing more intimate than sex. There is nothing to hide behind, you get a peek into another person's soul. It makes sense to me to discuss topics that would normally be reserved for someone you are close with. Now if you are uncomfortable with it , just say that is something i don't want to share with you . BUt if you are trying to make a judgment on the guy please don't . He is seeking to further deepen the bond between you which is not only normal but healthy .
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:22 AM
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good job staying busy. Keep doing that. Also continue seeing women. But take a little bit of time to analyze why this girl has such power over you, if you do this well enough you will be able to spot a weakness in your character that makes you vulnerable to a woman who clearly doesn't respect you. Hold yourself to a standard in how you should be treated. If someone fails to meet that standard you have to move on from them, that is what any self respecting human would do. Ghosting you out of the …
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:17 AM
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Casual sex without any emotional bonding is a practice in psychopathy. Emotional bonding doesn't mean you are falling for him or vice versa, but to deny an emotional bond after being intimate is not only odd but disturbing and cold. I've had plenty of casual arrangements with women. After sex there is a rush of oxytocin, and we would spoon and pillow talk . That is completely normal and healthy.
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:08 AM
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Practice with a purpose. 10,000 hour of practicing a golf swing with improper form isn't going to do you any good. Congrats on getting friends, but is that the goal? Read mystery method, follow the steps, see how long you can stay in your sets. and continue working on your craft. Biggest advice I can to a beginner is explore stimulating different emotions. You don't always have to be happy and funny,
/r/seduction27/08/22 12:04 AM
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what type of psychopath would dare explore a bond after an intimate encounter.
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:59 PM
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Telling her means nothing. This isn't the movies. You will have to build attraction and seduce her and allow for her to fall for you. i really don't recommend picking up women you work with . It is not a good move
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:31 PM
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pm me we can discuss it further.
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:27 PM
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do not get her roses. Stop trying to force sexual chemistry. You want this to be a date, and you will do everything in your power to manifest this is into a successful romantic outing but this is not how it works. You have to build attraction , find chemistry escalate physically . These are the rules.
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:52 PM
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If you are talking to the girl and he tries to latch onto the conversation, put him in his place in front of the class. You can do this in a way that makes you more attractive to the girl if you pull it off. Don't be afraid to act like a fucking man. A man doesn't let another man cock block him. ANytime he tries to talk to you , say out loud. "Dude why are you so needy, stop bothering me" Say it loud enough so others can hear, and be firm. He will try to laugh and make seem like a joke to save f…
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:50 PM
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either invest in your social life or stop bitching. Buy mystery method, read it religiously over and over again, and get out of your comfort zone. THis is your one shot at life, make the best out of it and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:40 PM
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Ive said this before and I will say it again. Fake it till you make it is not the way to go. Women look for congruency in your actions. Your actions, persona, personality, characteristics they all tell a story and that story has to make sense. If it doesn't then she will not feel confident in who you are and be reluctant to invest in you. What I did that was more powerful than any fake it till you make is I became an expert in a field. When you become an expert in a field you experience unwaveri…
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:36 PM
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I use to be called a player too. It's not a compliment. Sometimes you can come off as too smooth , and telegraph your intentions. Some of the things that i have done to help tone this down is find opportunities to ground myself, tell a story that shows vulnerability. and Do some push pull. If you are always pulling, there is no flirtation. You have to push her away to build up tension.
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:29 PM
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amen.
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:19 PM
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What happens when you have some game and you are attractive is that you fall into the path of least resistance. Why try for that 10 or 9 at the club where you have to exude so much energy and have great focus for 8 hours when you can just half ass it when a 6 or a 7 and get laid that night. This is something we have all fallen into and its not bad its just where you're at. You feel entitled because they are a 6 or 7 so when they ghost you or move on from you its like being rejected by someone wh…
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:17 PM
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no problem bud. Go get em!
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:03 PM
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placating to your ego , is a road to isolation. When you are good at seduction, you laugh at token resistance knowing that she will be in your bed within the hour. . When you get clear negative indicators you move on. Always side with a caustious attitude. WHen you are in a good social groove a hard no will feel out of place, so when you come across it , it will be easy to read. Some women give mixed signals. This can be frustrating but its also a great learning opportunity. If you are unable to…
/r/seduction26/08/22 04:02 PM
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if you are good with with eye contact, body language, framing, and have a strong frame, statements can be your very best friend. Statments are always my go to. QUestions mean you care about her and that isn't necessarily what you want to convey. I try to avoid questions as much as possible.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:56 PM
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Wait, are you saying women don't want to be raped and murdered? I wish you would have told me this years ago. Whoops. Don't listen to what women say, and you will make your life much easier. Don't be nice either. Be challenging.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:53 PM
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As someone who is an introvert , use that to your advantage. Something ive noticed about introverts is that they are very good at making observations. So before you talk to a complete stranger , make an observation about them that could be a conversation starter. THis works well if they have at t shirt that shows an interest of theirs such as a sports team, a college, or a musician.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:50 PM
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never ask. \With women, consent is found more within their action than words. If you are met with resistance physically, do not proceed! Girls are very weird about verbal permission. Even women who i have been in ltr with If i frame a question that makes them feel like a slut they don't do what i want, But if i just do it i am met with no resistance. One of the most eye opening experiences for me came when I just began PUA. I was a month in and had a woman over who I had feelings for a while. I …
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:47 PM
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If a girl is really attracted to you , she will sneak out of her boyfriends house at night to come fuck you. If you are not getting the compliance you want its because you haven't built up enough attraction.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:37 PM
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Your friend has to take the lead, and he and you have to know the role of a wing man. Wings are for sets of 2 or 3. Your boy wants to isolate the girl he is interested in but can't. That is where a wing comes in. You meet the group after some small talk you take the friend or friends to the bar to buy them a drink or show you around the club or bar or to dance. Your goal is to basically allow your friend to be able to isolate your target.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:33 PM
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sometimes forced touching gives people the wrong idea. Dance classes are one of those things. When you isolate her and go out for dinner or coffee try kino then. THe kino from a physical activity such as dancing or exercise is not the same. How do i make it fun? Do you know what fun is? Do that. Here is a step by step. Go to dance class have fun with her. Say hey let's grab a bite to eat. You want to do it in the moment when emotions are high as opposing to planning it out which seems more forma…
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:30 PM
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People with disabilities make other people uncomfortable , because they don't know how to act. Use that to your advantage. I don't know your disability or your limitations so I will do my best to give you some real world things you can do. If you come across a beautiful woman and she is tired , offer a piggy back ride. Say " hop on board I got you" This is the type of endearing attitude that will win people over. Don't hide from your handicap. Embrace, and make others embrace it as well. Once th…
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:57 PM
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Buy the mystery method, read it over and over and over again. The depth of content in that book is immense. Ive read it about 50 times and still pick up new things.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:52 PM
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words are meaningless and forgettable. Don't tell her your intentions or what you want. Interact with her and make it fun. If she is receptive, escalate with kino. Up the kino and let nature take its course.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:50 PM
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Move on . Here is what you should have done. So you start chatting a woman up at the gym right. No need to ask for her number during the first interaction. Leave the conversation on a high note and pick up the conversation again next time you guys meet up at the gym. Now you have had two interactions and chances go up a ton of more investment. Getting a woman's number is not her investing in you. So that shouldn't be your goal. Never get angry. A girl stands you up and waste your time, a man who…
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:48 PM
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Staying busy , motivated and focused on accomplishing a task is an aphrodisiac to a woman. A woman doesn't want you to focus your attention on her, she wants you to be focused on something other than her. So never give that up. As far as the balance goes, what you could do is spread yourself even thinner by picking up a part time job as a bartender. Here you are working , but also its a social job with its perks. Best of both worlds.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:42 PM
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Instagram is not a dating site. If you use it as such it isn't going to work out well for yourself.
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:32 PM
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OLD is dating for the lazy. your mindset should be i am going to go out and meet women, and if I match with someone on OLD then that is just a bonus.
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:31 PM
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The reason why you feel confident with 9/10's is because you have already removed yourself from her genepool mentally. THis is a bad mindset to have.
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:28 PM
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So is anal sex. If you are not kinoing you are not seducing.
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:23 PM
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You don't have to be skinny, but you do have to exhibit healthy traits. When i was younger and just starting out pua, i had 8 percent body fat year round and constantly got comments and compliments about my physique from women. As i have gotten older i have put on more weight and probably around 20 percent body fat, but not obsessed with my physique. I am way more successful with women today than I was before . Women don't care about looks to a degree as long as you are within a standard deviati…
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:20 PM
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a woman can telegraph interest a man can not. This woman is giving you all the signs that she wants you to seduce her but you aren't seducing her. You are letting her lead the way and you are letting her dictate the terms of the engagement. Learn how to frame, learn how to be firm, set standards for yourself, and most of all learn kino. Don't ever tell a woman you are down to smash( also never refer to sex as that) and never dictate the terms in which you will have sex with her. You say its a fw…
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:15 PM
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hmm i highly recommend you don't tease someone until you better understand how to tease. People , espcially type A women identify with their careers. Also women in the workforce is a big source of pride and it is a relative new concept thanks to the progress of feminism. So meeting a fellow breadwinner should be met with awe and respect. A better line would be. What a cool job, what made you pursue that path? Humor is a risky emotion to illicit initially because you don't know what state she is …
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:54 PM
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Most people go to bars, to drink. Most people go to Bars to socialize. To go to the Bar under any other circumstance can be a bit creepy. Also , going alone and not drinking you are in a way telegraphing what you are there for. One way to counter this is go during a sporting event, because now you can use the game as your backstory. So i highly suggest you drink a non alcoholic beverage, and come up with a good backstory for why you are there alone.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:50 PM
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i highly disagree. THe mindset should be about yourself not about others. WHile you are right that , she is lonely. Understand this, everyone is lonely, even people in loving relationships. The reason being is because it's impossible for a single person to provide every aspect of your needs. So things you may need , even trivial things, go unmet. The mindset i like is this. I have this ball of sunshine in me. And whomever i choose to share even a glimpse of this sunshine with will benefit tremen…
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:44 PM
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cars and money attract the type of women you don't want. Cars in particular are a waste. I always bought nice economic vehicles. After being tired of my car, i decided to purchase a luxury sedan thinking it would impress dates and women. Nope, women couldn't give a shit about cars. Not one woman who I ever picked on the date ever mentioned my car or how nice it was. Value women want to see in your stories, times when you were brave, loyal, and show some depth to your emotional connection with ot…
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:36 PM
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why is this in seduction?
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:32 PM
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everyone wants to have sex. INcluding women who may be perceived as Jaded. If things aren't happening at the pace you want , you are going to have to examine what happened. Usually if your game is tight you can get physical on a first date.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:27 PM
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the opposite end of the logic spectrum is emotion.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:20 PM
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Life is so much easier when you face your fears instead of hiding behind some screen.. Congrats, and keep going.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:00 PM
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I can't emphasize this enough. Women are terrible at giving advice to men on how to pick women up. Women are terrible at telling men the type of men they are attracted to. What would be beneficial to know from a woman's perspective is the disconnect between these things. I think its because attraction for women is emotional rather than rationale which could be explored and focused on.
/r/seduction26/08/22 11:56 AM
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great, go on the wealth subreddit. This is the seduction subreddit.
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:04 PM
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I can't emphasize how much i disagree with your post. re read it, re read it again. ask me anything about it and i will be glad to help you with it. Most guys are afraid of approaching groups in public, and hence they try the mystery routine and it doesn't work. Mystery specifically explains why this routine is meant for groups and why it works on groups. There is ample proof that it works and its actually the only pick up material that has proof that it works.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:18 PM
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you like being alone? Then why are you complaining, enjoy being alone for the rest of your life. Once you can admit to yourself that you actually don't like being alone and that what you like about being alone is how easy and it is because nothing painful can ever happen because you never try anything . Chances are throughout your whole life you have always taken the easy road , and avoiding conflict, or negative experiences. When you are younger those are hard to dictate but as you grow older y…
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:10 PM
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your right in one regard. It may come across incongurent with his previous actions. But it is not ridiculous at all and this is ultimately the type of flirting and mindset you want. This is framing. Framing is the name of the game, and it works.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:18 PM
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do you ahve proof of that. We have well documented proof of the success mystery has not only personally had in picking up women, but also teaching other men how to do it. Neil Strauss gives a legit play by play of how mystery basically changed his fucking life. A world famous well accomplished author who was a geek basically overnight became a top flight pua all from mystery's teachings. .
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:53 PM
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i should have been more clear. You want to get to the point where in any social situation you honestly believe you are the prize, and that any woman you interact with has to win you over. Now no woman is ever going to come up to you and strike up a conversation, as a man you will have to open up every set. And your mindset when opening up these sets is not because she is beautiful or you want to bed her but because you are genuinely curious about her or you are bored and need to entertain yourse…
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:41 PM
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you have a penis.... you are her type. The only question should be is she your type.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:35 PM
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no they don't . They get bored with uncompelling speech. Silence is a great way to build up tension and it is almost like a form of social chicken. Don't be afraid to hold your silence until its so uncomfortable that she has to break the tension. when first picking up you need to speak a bit faster, but once you have their attention , slow your speech down.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:28 PM
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That is because you are making her the prize. Remember you are the prize, and as the prize you can do nothing wrong, and you can do whatever the fuck you feel like because she is inconsequential to you. If You are the nice guy you will always fuck up , because once you are anything other than nice it will be a turn off. But if you are the man with standards on how to be treated and you correct women the minute those standards are not met then you are viewed in a higher regard. If you are talking…
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:25 PM
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Looks and physical traits are not game. Think of looks as the best peacocking asset one could have, but that isn't pickup. Learn pua
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:16 PM
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The only cringe thing about this is the fact you felt obligated to post it. You approached 1 woman congrats. You should be doing that every 15 minutes until you get good at this shit.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:14 PM
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You most certainly could. Escalation isn't just kissing, and grabbing her hand walking her out of the room and pressing her up against the hallway and making out with her is most certainly on the table . Also next time a woman does something where she can think she can have access to your personal space quickly educate her on manners. If you have established rapport then it's different . Sometimes women do these things to see how far they can push things before you stand your ground. Stand your …
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:12 PM
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Having a nice face and other nice physical traits is not seduction. Chances are you are telegraphing neediness and you are the one in the relationship that cares more. Relationships are basically a lesson in power dynamics. Do you want to be in a relationship where you are begging for sex, not getting what you want sexually, not getting to act like the Man in the relationship? If you find yourself in this relationship I have bad news for you. Most likely it won't last. Women want a man who is do…
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:08 PM
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If she is telling you she is good in bed, and you are fine with licking her finger.. Escalate in the moment. That was a great time to kiss her , make out and maybe escalate further. Now that days have gone by , those emotions that were there for you are a thing of the past and now she is occupied by other things or other men. Strike while the iron is hot. You said "Sunday is good" You're making it too easy for her. Say "Sunday is when i volunteer but if I have enough energy to hang out I will le…
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:01 PM
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Don't worry about it. People who are small minded should not be a concern for you. They have their own insecurities and prejudices that hold them back from living a full and happy life. Focus on the people that show interest in you.
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:51 PM
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why am i dishing out relationship advice in a Seduction community. This does not belong here but i will help. There is a unwritten language when it comes to attraction and seduction. When i invite a girl over to watch tv, I don't tell her I like her. Instead i tease her, flirt with her , tell stories that raise my value to her, play with her hair. Etc. Every single one of these actions is significantly more powerful than saying " i like you a lot" words are meaningless and forgettable, but emoti…
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:09 PM
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beginner's revenge... Fuck her Friends Novice Revenge.....Fuck her Sister Advanced Revenge ....Fuck her Mom Ultimate revenge, 3 way with mom and sister, while dad is filming. You're welcome.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:01 PM
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Indians have it rough in America. What I would do first is 1, try to immerse yourself into American culture as much as possible. Music, movies, tv shows. Remember you are not engaging in these things for enjoyment you are studying. I would work hard on your accent, your attire, and your grooming. Though you may be Indian you don't want to advertise it. For some reason Indian men really struggle with attracting American women. Once you have these things in place try to formulate a good social gro…
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:53 PM
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women with low self esteem are not 9 or 10's so game won't work on them. It is not your job to make someone feel less insecure about their insecurities. It is a bit egotistical to believe that you can come in with a few words and change a person's whole esteem. Stop trying to fix problems. If a woman is insecure with her gray hair and wrinkles then she better get use to it because that shit isn't going away. Honestly i would say something like this " Gray hair and wrinkles are not that big of a …
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:41 PM
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The number 1 rule to know about approaching women in the field is making sure they are open to it. How do you know a woman is open to being approached? Easy, she is out in public socializing usually with a group of friends at a bar or a club or restaurant. WHat is risky is when approaching women when they are just doing daily chores like filling up the gas tank, working out, getting groceries. She may like you , and like flirting with you but she has a build in time constraint that is too easy n…
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:35 PM
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single women look at other single women as competition especially 9's and 10's. THe amount of trash they talk behind each other's backs is truly insane.
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:29 PM
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Pardon? Do you know what a comparison is? Maybe you're not "Smart as a whip" All I did was give an example of abundant mindset.
/r/seduction23/08/22 04:04 PM
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better answer is my friend Samantha is cooking me lunch, she loves to spoil me.
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:06 AM
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If you had one car , and that car was your life. Your key to work, school, family , friend, social life gym etc and it got stolen it would devastate you. But what if you had 2 cars? WHat if you had 10? You wouldn't give a damn.
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:04 AM
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this is solid advice. However this is not seduction
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:01 AM
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i would say what is even better is coming in with no intentions at all. If you in your heart of hearts enjoying gaming women and seducing them , it is so much fun . It is so much fun to get them to react the way you want and make them feel and do things they have never done before. Quickly they will be entranced by this man who has such power over them. Meanwhile you are just having fun, being natural , you do this all the time because this is who you are. The women will basically through themse…
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:54 AM
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my go to is to approach 2 women sets. "Ill usually say you two look fun , i too like fun. Imagine what else we have in common" and then usually based on their appearance i can infer a thing or two these women are into as well. and then what i do is play them off of one another. become friends with the one i am not interested in while teasing the one i am interested in. If you do a good enough job the friend will help you get the one you are interested in.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:47 AM
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you're allowing your insecurities to manifest themselves into your reality. Women don't care about looks and status in the way you think. Stop looking for excuses for why you are not successful with women and start learning the basics of pickup.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:43 AM
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rejection imo comes from a time constraint. Usually a constraint by a man for telegraphing his intentions too quickly. If i had the energy i could type you up two scenarios 1. in which is what i see most guys do which is the wrong thing, and 2. the way things you ought to do things.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:35 AM
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it may be exhausting for you now because you are learning to be more extroverted and you are learning to seduce so it's not second nature. When you start to become better, it will be something that you can't turn off . After a session of being "on" for 12 hours in the moment it is incredibly energetic and euphoric. However when i get back home the last thing i want to do is socialize. I usually just want to veg out on the couch.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:21 AM
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A great job, that allowed me to talk to many beautiful women. I was shocked when she told me her age. Right away i knew everything about her was different. THis is a woman who in her prime was probably approached by thousands of men.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:16 AM
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you are way too egotistical. Right now you think you are this important entity in the world but in reality you are a speck of dust on a grain of sand on a beach in the universe. We all are. The world is your oyster, do the things you want to do without fear of consequence and with out any expectation. You see a beautiful woman? Chat her up, get to know her legit care about who she is as a person. If you can seduce her go forit, if not it still was a positive experience.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:14 AM
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yes we have all been rejected but once you learn seduction you realize there is no rejection. It's game on from the moment you meet and you have planted your seed, and when the time is right you can harvest your crop. .
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:10 AM
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lol. dude just because you are handsome doesn't mean you have game. If you don't have game you're not going to get laid on the reg. You may get a few easy college lays that come to you when they are drunk and think you are cute but that is it. Get some game first.
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:03 AM
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If a girl comes on too strong at first, don't be afraid to tell her to be patient. You got her to chase you but you didn't push , you didn't give her any resistance and she kind of owned you in a way. If someone is sitting on your lap they are in charge aren't they?
/r/seduction23/08/22 10:01 AM
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If you are a busy successful man who's time is needed in many areas, how much time do you have to text? That is the mindset to have.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:58 AM
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Don't get rejected, seduce her. This is called the seduction group not How to handle rejection group.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:40 AM
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read mystery method. approach 5 women every day. Measure success by how long each set lasts. Over time patterns will develop.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:39 AM
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there is nothing more powerful than a good voice. The key is to speak slowly clearly and confidently with some vibration. I use POF specifically because i have a great voice and during my voice memos i always get a ton of compliments. Combine that with a diverse vocabulary and playful worldplay and we are talking about one of the more powerful seductive tools in a man's Arsenal. a Man's 6 pack can only be revealed in opportune times but a man's voice , wit, and humor is ready to go 24/7
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:37 AM
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Yes and No. For a long time i struggled with this because I did care. And caring makes you come across as needy which the number 1 turn off. you are right in not caring but , you have to know why one should not care And it comes down to options. If Girl A says no, no problem you have girl b- k to call . But if all you have is Girl A and she says no, this shit is going to eat at you like none other. Girls can also sense when you have options and when this happens you won't get rejected often.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:32 AM
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this is a weird post. Stop with the alpha beta shit. If you are in a set and 3 guys are making you look like prince charming to their quasimoto thank them. THe girl will appreciate the man who stays above the fray.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:29 AM
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read mystery method.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:26 AM
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assume she is straight. and then proceed.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:25 AM
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Looks, and attractiveness are completly different here. If she is attracted to you then be bold. If you are handsome don't be bold.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:24 AM
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she was 60 the hottest lebanese woman ever. Maybe the hottest over 40 woman i have ever come across. I was 32
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:22 AM
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please buy mystery method and just read it.
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:18 AM
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Fuck with people. It will keep them on their toes , and when they realize you are fucking with them it will be AHA moment where you can laugh. Don't take things too serious, be mischievous but non threatening. And most importantly slow down your talking. Don't have a conversation at all, they are your audience and you are bored and they are their for your entertainment.. that is my mindset a lot of times and it works very well. If someone pulls out their cellphone , make them put it away. If som…
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:17 AM
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"Its not about trying to be someone that the girl wants in order to get her approval" I am afraid to break it to you, but this is what seduction is. "Become the man you want to be for YOU" This is a very generic , self help statement that is intended to be empowering. I get what you are trying to do , but I also want you to see the other side of the coin of this statement. One of the biggest problems I see when i try to help friends get started in PUA is this firm stance that they like the perso…
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:11 AM
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bea bit more clear in how you define goals. How will you measure success? How will you be able to learn from your mistakes, let alone know what your mistakes are?
/r/seduction23/08/22 09:03 AM
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well i think there is your answer. Child hood shapes our worldly views.
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:08 PM
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sometimes? How about all the time. losing a fight is a great example. You either learn to fight better or avoid fights
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:41 AM
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Life is a constant struggle with doing the bare minimum. It is a trait that prevails in all humans in all aspects of life. Very rarely do you see a person give it their all in pursuit of an endeavor. This is what is happening with you and its happened with all of us. If i haven't met ms. right and i just want to get laid i can open up my dating app and fuck a woman that night. Most likely she isn't hot, and not a ltr, but who cares. I have a high sex drive and i want to fuck that night. Once you…
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:39 AM
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Peacocking works if you know how to make it work. All peacocking does is 1, make you stand out. The problem with that is if you have game you will come off looking like the man. If you have no game you will come off looking like an outcast with no social intelligence. Peacocking is one of the last tools i would use , and only use it when you know you have game.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:21 AM
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ahh ok.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:16 AM
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Your post is spot on except for 1 thing. The confidence aspect. You need confidence.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:13 AM
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read MM and get back to me. your statement couldn't be any more wrong.
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:05 AM
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why are you posting this in seduction?
/r/seduction22/08/22 08:00 AM
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If you have game, you can overcome any perceived limitation. You don't have game. plain and simple.
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:46 AM
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Here is a quick synopsis of every woman you will date. They are all looking for marriage( to some degree we all are). The question is " are you the one displaying high reproductive value. If you aren't then they aren't looking for a relationship, but if brad pitt lands on their doorstep all of a sudden they do want a relationship.... Just cause a woman cheated on her partner doesn't mean she will cheat on you. You're not approaching this with an abundance mentality. If you were , You wouldn't be…
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:42 AM
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Did you grow up surrounded by a sex positive mindset? The past decade men there have been tons of stories in the media that have demonized creeps i.e metoo, weinstein, epstein etc. Just know that is not you and it will never be you. You are young, and there are many experiences in life that you haven't had. It is your job to experience them to better understand yourself and how you fit in this world. I grew up as a feminist ( still am) and the feminine ideology that was indoctrinated in me sever…
/r/seduction22/08/22 07:29 AM
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I am not egotistical enough to believe that I am fully capable of fulfilling another person's desires and needs. But that is the constraints of marriage, hence why i am not married and never will be. If i have a bond with someone and part of that bond is fidelity , and she breaks it, then i simply move on. When you are able to attract women, it's hard to put any serious value into any one relationship.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:04 PM
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cheating happens so frequently , its almost as if marriage is a human construct that can't coexist with our own biology.
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:15 AM
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its misogynist like you that will never experience love and happiness. A woman can engage with as many sexual partners as she likes without having to be degraded with such false terminology. You sound frustrated.
/r/seduction20/08/22 10:12 PM
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i am willing to have a reasonable and honest discussion but if that is going to happen, we need to stop the hyperbole. human behavior over the course of hundreds of thousands of years to cultivate has come up with a variety of odd ways to communicate that seem to be universal in all cultures. If you ever study linguistics its a fascinating dive into our primitive mindsets. step 1 . let's not define facts as good or bad. Let's admit to them existing first. Is killing bad or good? It has existed s…
/r/seduction20/08/22 10:09 PM
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who the fuck said don't be sexual. our only purpose in life as men is to find women and continue the human race through sex. Everything is sex , and everyone wants sex. I touch in the middle of a good conversation. Lets say we are really engaged in a free flowing conversation over coffee. i will say can i see your hand and just hold her hand while i look in her eyes in drink coffee. You can touch right away, you can even have sex right away. There are no hard rules to this stuff . this is where …
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:40 PM
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FWB without anyone developing an emotional attachment is almost impossible and the few women that do so are destined to be single forever. Women who engage in this behavior and don't fall for you or have a plan to get you to fall for them are extremely rare and the few i encountered i can honestly say their story is incongruent.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:36 PM
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dude this is mystery method 101. Escalating in her social group is crazy. That is why you should isolate.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:31 PM
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not just more present. You need to be happy go lucky. Thre is this movie called the Tao of Steve. watch it .
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:29 PM
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you can have sex with her without once mentioning sex. Kino is how one escalates things physically. Talking about sex is usually a waste of time and can potentially telegraph your intentions. Not the way to go imo. sound's like you are doing a great job opening and building rapport , now you just need to do kino and go from there.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:25 PM
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Many PUA's chanted " Fake it before you make it" to their legions of afc's. I too was in this group and took it as gospel. Then something happened and I realized that's actually won't help you at all. You want unshakeable confidence? Become an expert in a topic ( preferably a topic that is something you can discuss to any man or woman you meet on the street) . Getting a degree or better yet a masters degree in that topic is the next step. So not only are you an expert but you have an impressive …
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:16 PM
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believe it or not that is misogynistic. Predatory refers to a behavior used to groom minors for sex, or people who have impaired judgement ( mentality disabled, or drunk and on drugs) What isn't predatory is allowing a woman who is 18 decide who she wants to have sex with. What is misogynic is judging a woman for whom she choses to sleep with.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:06 PM
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you're approaching this from the wrong pov. think about why you are panicking. The reason you are most likely panicking is because you are placing so much emphasis on the results of your interaction ( sex) . DO you panick when you talk to your teacher, parents, siblings? you don't because you have no expectations. enter every conversation with zero expectations. just enjoy yourself and the people you are with. also , too much talking isn't always better. Here is a little tip. when you feel the c…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:56 PM
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reverse engineer this. THink about what aspects of your personality came across when you were just being yourself. Maybe you can find a pattern and emphasis those aspects.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:50 PM
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Buddy you have a brain. Use it. name 5 emotions. What are some of the things you can talk to that could evoke those emotions in her. During her rest set say something like "isn't crazy how everyone is in here trying to work on themselves physically because that is what they think other people want but deep down all we want is just someone to connect with" You can expand upon it with a " I see all these young women in here trying to build up there glutes because they think that is what a guy want…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:46 PM
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just be a man and go for it. a man goes for what he wants. Either you get the girl and live happily ever after or you become the town pariah and you don't get to pass on your genes.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:37 PM
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i have good news for you man. There is just 1 of you in existence. And not only that no one has had the same life experiences as you and had them from your unique pov. So you are quite unique. Embrace that be confident in it . Have a strong frame. that is all you need to do.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:32 PM
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i got you bro. text her this " can i call you" then call her. You're welcome.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:31 PM
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this is a weird post. Relationships are hard, and they take constant work. simple as that. Its not as easy as i want to be with them.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:30 PM
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Beautiful women are constantly desired by men. If you happen to find yourself in the presence of one , know for sure that she has many suitors and will have many suitors the rest of her life. Better get confident in your game and in your self quick!
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:28 PM
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There are a ton of guys that a woman will give her number to in a moment. Do you want to be the guy that gets her number or do you want to be the guy that women ask for your number? An average to above avg guy can approach women with good skills and get a number quickly. As you can tell that doesn't mean anything. Don't fall for the trap to get her number. The goal isn't to get her number the goal is to seduce her. Your sets are going to need to be longer if you plan on getting better results. W…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:26 PM
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lying is an everyday human behavior that everyone engages in. THere is nothing wrong with lying. And for all the white knights in here asking a woman out to dinner is a lie. THe reality is you want to have sex with this woman but you disguise it as getting dinner.
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:15 PM
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"then once we get to know each other and agree to see each other more and I feel safe to open up" what? you are a man why are you feeling unsafe. That is an odd thing to say. It isn't your job to validate insecure people. Everyone has their insecurities and a responsible adult learns to move beyond them . An immature person on the other hand is consumed by their insecurities. one of the biggest things i learned was it wasn't my job to fix women's problems. Sometimes women just want to vent their…
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:54 PM
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sending pictures, flaunting money, this is the wrong mindset. there are 3 states of relationship dynamics , 1 of which is a new one i am going to introduce. There is you chasing them, classic works sometimes, Them chasing you , ideal of course but requires somethings that not all men have. I have gotten women to chase me in a moment or during the course of a conversation but the few times women put a 24/7 chase for me was when i wasn't interested in them. This happens a lot when you take a women…
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:45 PM
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The very nature of online dating is sex on steroids. Its gotten so bad for me that I only look for instant booty calls. Occasionally i will find a woman who stands above the fray and ask her out to dinner, but by the end of dinner we are usually going at it in the car . Its just the nature of online dating.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:30 PM
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it's not hilarious and there is nothing ballsy about it. If you bring over a girl for one thing and one thing only and that thing is sex, and the sex doesn't happen, what use is she to you . By getting her out of there and moving on you are just being efficient with her time. i am not here for friendship.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:27 PM
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pairs imo are very easy especially in day game. Find your target, look at the other and then tease your target. Now you have a buddy . use your buddy to help you get your target. Find instant rapport with your buddy and evoke jealously from your target. Neg her or don't even acknowledge her . 3 set is my favorite because its so fast and works immediately. problem you may face if your game is too good is that both girls will think you like them and you don't want that. So if things are going well…
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:21 PM
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If you don't know how to flirt over text , now would be a bad time to learn. You already have the date set up. Why are you worried. People don't realize that too much communication is just as bad as too little.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:12 PM
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No that isn't King shit. That is normal behavior. Im not above anyone. I as a man have needs. If a woman who i want to sleep with is not interested in fulfilling my needs then I have no need for her in my life.
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:08 PM
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I think he means that doing less approaches and focusing more energy, game, and attention to the approaches is the way to go which i agree with. If you just approach an obscene amount of women and get rejected then you can fall into a pattern where you are so use to being rejected that it doesnt phase you and you expect it. What clicked for me was when i started closing women everytime , and when that odd one wouldn't close it stuck out like a sore thumb and made me go back and analyze what the …
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:03 PM
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oh lordy. again you are focused on looks. I date women who think i am scary looking and look mean. But they are attracted to me because of how i make them feel. When a woman has sex with you its not because you are the most beautiful creature on earth , its because she is attracted to you emotionally and your face does not trigger that emotion for her. Your ability to communicate effectively does however. you need confidence not surgery.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:58 PM
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i have great news for you my friend. You don't have any faults in your face. You are a man you have always been a man and you will always be a man. And that is your biggest problem . See a man judges women on their appearance. And since men are logical , he thinks that women must do the same. That is where you and I and everyman who has ever thought about that is wrong . If you learn the arts of communication, and seduction without placing emphasis on results you will learn quickly how to seduce…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:48 PM
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this is another mystery method 101. Women can't control what they feel attracted to. Female based attraction is 99 percent emotional. First off Flirting should be your baseline persona. I actually call it playful and flirting. But playful and flirting just lay the ground work for more advanced gaming which is true seduction. Being playful and flirty gets you in the door. Game determines whether or not you leave with the girl or you don't.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:41 PM
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I say this with the utmost respect. But women are very bad at giving men advice on how to pick up women. They give advice that is very generic and not at all practical. For instance, lets say an attractive man approaches you in your group of friends and says something funny that makes you all laugh. That is a much more powerful emotion because 1. no man has dones that in your experience at a night club, and 2 an action like that takes a lot of confidence. Now with that one simple act an interest…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:35 PM
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women say things like that all the time. the key is to not even acknowledge it. What woman wouldn't want you, a smart successful handsome stud. Of course she wants you but she is a woman and can't come out directly and say it so you have to be the one to lead the way. 3 dates in one week. go into this date knowing by the end of the night the two of you will at least makeout. All you have to do is present an opportunity for it to happen. Btw , bowling is like a good first date, 3rd date next time…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:26 PM
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If you are going solo , go to a club. Usually clubs are so loud and disorienting no one is going to notice if you're alone. But if you are at a bar, and you're the one not talking to anyone , people will notice right away, and it won't be good for you.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:24 PM
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don't focus on results based approaches. Just talk and game. If you have enough game she will hook you up with a friend or cheat on her bf with you .
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:22 PM
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plastic surgery is admitting you find a fault with yourself. Does a successful man have faults?
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:20 PM
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i wouldn't be surprised if something went wrong during your 4 am text session. Texting is a poor form of communication to being with, but texting till 4 am seems excessive and maybe a bit needy. I would keep it playful but brief next time. As the relationship progresses then invest more. 1 hookup does not mean what it use to mean. You still are on thin ice and need to be locked in with your game.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:16 PM
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we all know that women on vacation are more receptive to having fun. Hotel lobbies and bars are the best btw for gaming. My favorite is The renaissance in times square nyc. Great Bar. Just be prepared to encounter a high number of escorts if you are going to frequent hotels.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:11 PM
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step 1. Start talking to anyone. Talk to nice old ladies. a guy you meet . overtime patterns will develop. during the course of your conversations attempt conversational nuances that will add depth to your words such as sarcasm, or statements that will evoke a strong emotional response ( not just positive emotions either, negative ones too) . Then your next step will be paying attention to body language when talking. . Stop only looking for event based relationships ( sex). Humans are not just s…
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:07 PM
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confidence is all that matters. Look at hollywood, David Spade is the greatest ladykiller of all time and he exudes non of the typical traits society associates with a dominant man. If you are confident and have game you can overcome any perceived physical limitation . if you are a titan and you have no game you are not getting laid.
/r/seduction20/08/22 02:01 PM
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its these type of questions that are so trivial that stunt your inner game. put down the stopwatch, The best mindset for inner game is just assume every woman wants you because you are a desirable human being.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:39 PM
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you come across as very needy. and you are not acting like a man. a man leads , a man makes decisions, a man is decisive. You are trying to appease her. Don't do that. next time you meet a girl at the gym, don't get her number and leave. say hey let's grab some food at this great spot i know down the street. continue from there.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:36 PM
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why would a successful man be impacted the words of a woman that has no value in his life? Women will go to the extremes to save their ego when it comes to relationships . How you handle their ego's when you want to move on will play a key role in the impact they have in your life afterwards. Harm a woman's ego severely enough and she could kill you. So be very empathetic to her during this phase.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:28 PM
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to be manipulated means someone has some sort of power over you. why are you still perpetuating antiquated power dynamics between men and women. Do you really think a woman is so helpless that she can't decide on her own when to engage in sex? maybe you should read some Betty Friedan
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:23 PM
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right but that isn't kino escalation. That is flirting. Flirting is a good start, but even lifelong friends flirt. Lets say the two of you are on the couch and you touch her ankle and slide it up into her crotch. She would freak out and rightfully so. But lets say you touch her ankle and every minute only move up an inch, you will be able to touch her crotch without any resistance. notice the escalation is the key here. A kissing escalation tactic i use is to see how close i can get to her face …
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:18 PM
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seduction in it's truest sense is emotional manipulation. being a human is non stop emotional manipulation. Sex is a choice. whatever happens before that choice ( not including substances) is fine. To think that a woman is not capable of making choices when she is emotionally vulnerable is extremely misogynistic and plays into the narrative of why women wouldn't make good leaders. Its 2022 respect women's choices.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:12 PM
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then fake it better.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:03 PM
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Do not say this. It is lame AF and i am sure a million other guys that she won't fuck has said the same thing. Life is a competition. There is only 1 version of this girl in the world and if you want her you have to set yourself apart and stand out. Why would you approach a complete stranger to be their friend? Are you so desperate for friendship that you will seek it from anyone willing to give it to you? Sounds desperate and not desirable. Instead think about what value you could bring to her …
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:00 PM
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If i could just add one bit to this fantastic summary. MM was written with the belief that beautiful women are found in groups out in the wild ( and this is very true) . Your chances of seducing a beautiful woman in a group is much higher when she is in a group, than when she is sitting by herself at a cafe. The problem is you will have to work 10x as hard and be well a oiled machined with the subtilties of social dynamics. Many people attempt to use the mm for solo approaches and it just doesn'…
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:51 PM
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Don't take yourself seriously. Can't emphasize that enough. But i would take it a step further. Don't take life too seriously. So much is out of your our control. Just enjoy the whimsy of it all.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:40 PM
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you can evoke a women's emotions with a single word my friend. It doesn't take as much time as you may think. And once you are in a groove it becomes formulaic and how you naturally talk to women.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:28 PM
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Here is the best advice I can give you. let's think about a hypothetical successful man. Let's say this man has been successful in every endeavor throughout his whole life. Everything he does is right. Do you think this man would allow memes to impact his thoughts and feelings. Do you think other women impact his thoughts and feelings. He is secure with himself that he doesn't allow strangers to change his mood and self view. He laughs at those that try to do so. Be the successful man. Enjoy the…
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:23 PM
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oh lordy where to begin. No one can withhold sex. You are not entitled to sex. Sex is an act that takes two to tango. If she is gving you blue balls simply let her know that you have other women that can take care of your needs and drop her off . ANything else and you will come off as an afc.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:14 PM
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another mystery 101. Unless you come in with social proof out the ying yang you aren't going to routinely pickup women in clubs with just dancing.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:12 PM
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talking about sex is like painting about music. It makes no sense. You escalate with touch and push pull. Now you can frame sex or sexual things in a way where you are the object of her desire in a push pull routine but that is as far as I would go.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:10 PM
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Kissing without kino escalation comes across as very creepy and rapey to women. Kissing is a really big step, so you need to hold her hand first, then build off that. If she is reciprocating escalate. Also one of my go to moves with kino escalation is i never kiss her lips first. Usually if we are on the couch watching tv we will be cozying up together and ill kiss her cheek and linger there for a moment. 10/10 times she escalates with a kiss on the lips. as far as your specific date goes, I wou…
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:07 PM
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Liberaler hit the nail on the head. you clearly weren't interested and your words couldn't convey that point any more obviously.
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:58 AM
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as you grow older , your world view becomes something you can control. You want to be a liberal? then you surround yourself with liberal thinking people, tv shows and newspapers. If you want to be conservative...the same thing. Today now more than ever we have so many great luxuries at our fingertips with little to no barrier. Happiness is a moment away. With this mindset things that are uncertain now provide a sharp juxtaposition to the pleasantness of our routines. So let's say we go down this…
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:55 AM
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yes. frame. Look deeply in her eyes and say " have you ever thought about getting that mole removed" and then " a crazy thing happened to me yesterday , i saved this old lady from falling down the stairs" If you acknowledge her words then that means she can control your emotions and that is a bit of a weakness. Don't ever allow a stranger to control your emotions. That is what insecure men do.
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:48 AM
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get her to ask your name. If she is cute and thick then she has been hit on a lot i imagine. You could be like every other guy and try to get her name and number or you could be the guy that teases her makes her laugh, says something very poignant that makes her think, and says something personal that makes her emote. Stimulate a variety of emotions not just 1. Before you know it she will want to know who is this man that is controlling her emotions at the drop of a hat.
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:45 AM
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If she is stringing you along... then you are chasing her. You will never get a girl if you are doing 100 percent of the chasing . If its 60/40 or 50/50 it can work, but if you are the one always chasing she isn't interested. Learn to move on , try different strategies with women than you did this past one. Try to find out what it is about your communication that makes you seem needy/ and chasing.
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:40 AM
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Disagree completely. Focus on your strengths, hone in on them and let that become your frame. Thinking about your weaknesses is something someone who is truly successful doesn't think about. Someone who is successful doesn't allow weakness to even enter their mindset.
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:38 AM
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I feel like this is Mystery Method / Seduction 101. You are thinking logical, guess who doesn't think that way....and never will. Women have much more to lose by engaging in sex this way then men who can move on to the next one night after night. Women on the other hand could get stuck caring for a child the rest of their life. Women indeed love sex as much as men. There is just one very important caveat and it is this... Men are driven to engage in sex through our biochemistry ( testosterone). …
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:35 AM
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There is nothing negative about my post. The fact that you had to insult me and boost yourself speaks volume of that void that you need filled. Instead of focusing on me focus on why you need to compare yourself to others and in that comparison be better? Everyone struggles with low self esteem from time to time . Instead of allowing your ego to protect yourself. Let go of your ego. You will be able to pass through people like a ghost and become untouchable.
/r/seduction13/07/20 06:20 PM
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Imo the most desirable women do not online date. A quick story. My Friend Vanessa downloaded POF app on my recommendation. WE grabbed dinner, watched a movie, and got drinks afterwards. By the time we got to my place She showed me her phone had over 200 messages. She deleted it because it was so overwhelming. IN real life she probably an 8/ 10 in the looks department. No doubt people find love on dating apps, but it's more difficult to find love there than in real life dating.
/r/seduction13/07/20 06:16 PM
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The world of online dating is centered around horny people having access to horny people 24/7. Imo it's a bastardized version of PUA where sex is on the table the moment you meet. I'd push the envelope when it comes to online dating.
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:56 PM
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women need plausible deniability. " Hey lets go on a date" makes your intentions very clear and is too much of a leap for her to make. " hey let's have a study session at my place , you bring the pizza" is way better.
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:10 PM
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of course you do because that will solve all your problems until it doesn't and you realize life and love and relationships are all more complicated than this picturesque view you have. Falling hard in love with someone is always this euphoric feeling because we place so much value in having others fill that void we can't fill ourselves. and Bam that is where you lose power and that is where you start to become unattractive.
/r/seduction13/07/20 01:07 PM
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You are setting yourself up for failure. All the things you want she is telling you she does not want. You believe in fairytales where you can whisk the woman away from her troubles and pump her heart full of love. That is a very immature view of life and love. Trauma lingers and changes people permanently. I'd get out before you wreck each others lives.
/r/seduction12/07/20 01:39 AM
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that admission is a submissive act. And also a test. what other things has she alluded to. Sounds like she may just be hyper insecure with what happened to her and is afraid of getting too attached.
/r/seduction11/07/20 02:40 PM
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A rigid Chilidish behavior is probably the worst personality to have for anyone who is trying to attract people . Step 1. to be charming is to actually care about people other than yourself. Care about people that you've never met. It's an important survival mechanism to show interests in others and by taking this first step you will have opened the door to allowing yourself to become naturally charming. The caring aspects goes for men and women of all age , ethnicity , religion , sexual orienta…
/r/seduction11/07/20 02:21 PM
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The Reality is this. Women are always the ones to push the realtionship. NO man has ever had a FWB situation in which the woman did not fall for the guy. IF she is not falling for you then there is literally nothing you can do to rewire her brain. Just like women can put men in the friend zone , they can also put men in the Fuck buddy zone. It's rare but it happens. You have two options really Option 1. Is to continue to improve your overall life , social status, ability to exert power , become …
/r/seduction11/07/20 02:09 PM
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