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4	Did anyone find love after being divorced in late 30s? I have, yes. My definition of love has also changed. I credit the horrible experience with my ex as giving me perspective. I may not have ever been ready to receive true love had it not been for my divorce. So in some ways, it was necessary (as horrible as it was).	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/25 09:27 PM
2	WTF!? I just received (expected) paperwork They should be required as part of the marriage process.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/24 08:11 AM
8	WTF!? I just received (expected) paperwork I no longer trust marriage as a legal technology. We opt-in to getting married with what feels like an instant fleeting moment & signature. Getting divorced is the direct opposite. This imbalance is why I doubt marriage as a legal institution.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/24 04:05 AM
7	Another restless night almost 10 months after divorce. Longing for a woman I shouldn’t even want. Does it ever end? It absolutely ends! But you have a lot to do with "when" it ends. Start by forgiving yourself for feeling this way. You were with your ex for a reason. It likely started with physical attraction but once you add attachment on an emotional level, it can take heaven and earth to sever that connection. This is just your ego going through the greiving process. Your ego is in denial because it feels a "phantom connection" that your primal system cannot override, even if this other girl is objectively…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/11/24 12:30 AM
6	Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. ...Yep, and most men should adopt this mindset. There's the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/24 09:19 PM
3	Shame and death I can tell by reading this that you're a smart, capable, and introspective man. You have all the elements you need to get yourself out of this. With your mom dying and shit you've been through with your father, you've got the strength to pull yourself out. Dig deep C, it's there, I promise. I'm here to talk if you want to talk. Just DM me.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/03/22 04:43 PM
4	Lawyers Are Paid to Say "No" Like what?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/22 05:21 PM
2	Married 30 yrs, kids grown.. Now it's over https://www.google.com/search?q=stoicism&rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS970US970&oq=stoicism&aqs=chrome..69i57.5273j0j1&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 You got this. Not to minimize your pain, people throughout the ages have gone through this and worse at all ages. Look up and read about Stoicism (if you're not already aware of it).	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/22 07:54 AM