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| 0 | there's a thread on AskReddit about this Sub. It looks like a bunch of butthurt women. | texxmix | /r/MensRights | 26/08/12 06:52 AM |
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| 18 | Gay and bi men are usually anti-men and pro-women.I’m in a conservative area and conservative bi and gay men who are pro men and all that kinda stuff do exist here. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Female receptionist who groped a 13-year-old boy before exposing herself and passing out after a white wine binge is spared jail. OP: Had it been a man groping a 13 year old female?I could see it possibly being a numbers thing. May seem like females get it worse because fewer females get reported for it therefore they’re either seen as getting harsher or lesser sentences. While I’m sure males reported is way more and those very a ton. All depends on how you look at it. Wouldn’t say one is worse without an actual study tho like you said. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/23 11:13 PM |
| -5 | Female is the new N word.I blame the incels for ruining that word 🤣 | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.You kinda answer your own question. I’m sure a girl would take that guy as long as he was the one that made feel stuff. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Don't blindly trust what you read. Think about it. Compare it to your own experiences. Remember that in today's internet world, anyone can write anything. A guy who has never been on a date, or even made eye contact with a girl, can write an ebook, website, or forum post.The last paragraph should be applied to any advice in general on Reddit. People who have their shit together don’t usually come to Reddit to give advice or seek advice. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Only use texting to set up a date.Okay, but what do you do once you go on that date and build rapport? Sit around and say nothing and wait for the next in person date? In my experiences that’s a great way to have another dude slide in there. You gotta keep that spark going both in person and on text imo. Ultimately if she’s into you and finds you attractive and has a fuck yes mindset with you she’s gonna wanna talk to you. If you aren’t some other dudes gonna. Like I said in a previous comment, what you text is almost more impor… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Only use texting to set up a date.Even with girls they met in person it’s still the same. Obviously make sure you are continuing to meet up in person, but if you barely text most people I know regardless if you met them in person or online are gonna flake on you or move onto the next person that. can hold convos both in person and in text. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Only use texting to set up a date.I’ve come to realize that a girl that’s genuinely into you will ignore all the other dudes blowing up their phone and talking to you instead. Obvious talking too much can be bad, but how you talk through text matters more. As it’s was already said in the top comment, everyone of my friends who get laid (both male and female) always think the whole “only text to set up dates thing” is ridiculous and always say to never take dating advice from Reddit. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Alpha male MINDSETMight just be me but lately this page has been screaming “hey I just discovered male influencers on YouTube, so I’m gonna repost their crap as my one.” | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 06:09 AM |
| 20 | An interesting observation I made this Valentine’s Day.Honestly I feel it’s an attention thing. Same thing as people never posting about family & friends unless it’s a birthday or mother’s/Father’s Day. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 6 | 90% of the dating coaches out there are full of shit and they can make you infertile.Ya celibate or an incel would have been a much better choice of word. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Should I expect a blowjob from the girl I'm dating?Yikes. 31 and this is how you think. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]What you explain is what I see so many of those “I’m a strong independent women” or “I don’t date” types end up going through. Makes me sad cause I know if they just chilled out they’d probably find someone to make them happy, but it ain’t my job to fix those people so I can only hope they realize. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Things you can do to become more attractiveMore so just figuring out what you’re values and boundaries are as a person. If it doesn’t align with those than it’s probably not worth it to give a fuck about. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Things you can do to become more attractiveHaving a nice physique that’s more masculine is for sure a turn on. Working out is a way to get it, but most girls don’t demand you to have 6 pack abs and have the cleanest diet. Just take care of yourself and look like a dude. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Things you can do to become more attractiveOkay so if you read “The subtle art of not giving a fuck” it isn’t about not giving any fucks, but picking and choosing what to give a fuck about. The things you speak about about bettering ourselves and our careers are things we should for sure give a fuck about, but the little everyday things aren’t. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 4 | How to keep a girl interested in texting and ultimately get her to go out with you?I feel most guys on here have to be 30+ where it may make sense. Any chick younger than 30 is gonna be weirded out by so little texting. Remember we all grew up with msn, and social media, tons had phones before high school. This whole only text for logistics things does not fit the younger generation at all these days. People are constantly glued to their phones. And if she ain’t texting you she’s talkin to some other dude that’s building that up and is probably gonna be more successful. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I missed a shot todayEven if she responds that still means nothing lol. She can very well might just be trying to be nice. The best way to know if she’s interested is to shoot your shot. You’ll either get rejected or you won’t. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Just recently my girlfriend went up to a guy and started flirting with him behind my back.He told her about his dog and she said she wanted to be his bitch instead.How should I feel about this?How do you know this all? Did someone tell you or were you snooping? | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | She responds to my text later or a day later. What to do?Maybe the fact that you’re messaging what is considered an Insta or Reddit girl? Any time I’ve slid into DMs was when it was someone I knew or had a class, or they went to my school or or something. Wasn’t just random like that. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | She responds to my text later or a day later. What to do?Yea exactly. I used to agree with the whole only text for logistics. But these girls are probably ignoring so many dudes, so if she’s happy and texts you back fast that’s probably a good thing. And if she’s not. Than move on. | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 4 | She responds to my text later or a day later. What to do?Yes and no. If you are every time it is, but if you just reply when you wanna reply that’s gonna seem way less desperate. Message to fast you’re needy/desperate. Take to long and she thinks you’re playing games or aren’t as interested. Best bet is to just reply when ya wanna and not sweat it to much or you’re gonna come off as one or the other. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 3 | She responds to my text later or a day later. What to do?I don’t agree with this imo. With the way dating works these days sliding in the DMs is normal. Personally I’ve had way more success sliding into DMs than I have cold approaching or on OLD. But ultimately in dating I was probably following rules 1&2 for her. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 16 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.Oh man. I ruined things with a really great girl that was 100% my type due to this. But tbf her and I both agreed that us talking way to much threw text and snap contributed to us not working out. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Where are you guys meeting girls at theses days?In person I’m not. But I have went on a couple dates with girls off hinge. Seems most people I know have had a little bit more success on OLD during the pandemic. Tho I do miss being able to meet people in person. | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE!This comment honestly needs to be higher. As a dude that constantly gets told I’m a great guy by girls that were once interested, but lost it I believe what you said is 100% the reason why. | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 4 | Just one question: How the hell do I stay out of the friendzone???Shoot your shot. She’s gonna either be into you or not. The stereotypical “friend zone” comes when a dude beats around the bush about his intentions and is okay with being a friend cause they think it’ll eventually lead to more. But if you shoot your shot and get rejected that’s not the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Be the PLAYER that WOMEN LOVE!This. My life with both men and women got better when i was able to find a friend group that had a large social circle. Also if you yourself don’t make friends all that easy, making a friend who does make friends easy is just as helpful as they introduce you to a lot of people. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach girls I don't like to built my game or should I just approach the ones I like?I wouldn’t say use it on girls you don’t like. But for sure use it on girls you are warm with. Cause if you don’t actually like them, then I feel gaming them even for practice could lead them in and that’s a shitty thing to do. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected by my crush- IT FEELS GREAT!I don’t know why this is always advice given in my experience this never seems to work. And it’s probably better off that way. No one needs games like that. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 07:29 PM |
| 0 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”While I agree I find as long as she’s into him she’s into him. I’ve seen tons of dudes that would be considered ugly to below average in looks with cute girls all the time. Point is if she’s into him she’s into him and the rules will drop. If she’s says dudes gotta be 6 feet but she’s really into a dude that’s shorter she’s still gonna fuck/date him even if she’s got some dumb rules. I guess the point is she’s either into you or she’s not and no “rule” is gonna stop that. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 2 | At what age to girls (and guys) mature after college?Might just be me but the girls I meet seem to be way to high strung and the opposite of this. They all act like they can’t date at all or have fun in their 20s cause they gotta do everything to get their shit together and once they have their shit together then they can worry about dating and having fun. Personally there’s gotta be a balance. Don’t be a loser at this age, but at the same time don’t act like you gotta do nothing but hustle and gotta have everything before you can open up, have fu… | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 06:29 PM |
| 23 | [Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach.Idk man. I just think if all you’re female friends are dumping you for improving yourself that either speaks volumes about them or you. You mention them thinking is manipulative and that they think you are a fuck boy. Could it very well be that it’s true, and that’s what pushing them away and not you actually looking to better yourself and be better with girls. Like I’ve said. I’ve never had a girl stop talking to me or call me manipulative for doing the same. So it kinda sounds like it’s either… | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 04:43 PM |
| 64 | [Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach.Sounds like you just have shitty friends. All my friends both male and female are supportive of my journey to learn how to love and get girls. Hell I know tons of guys that are fuck boys and girls never say anything. Like I said. Sounds like you’re around shitty friends if they run and tell people you are into seduction and game. Or you’re the shitty person and you’re friend did the right thing by telling that girl. Either or. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Do I have to specifically say it's a DATE?I used to worry about calling it a date or not. But at the end of the day you are hanging out with a women one on one alone. If it’s a more intimate setting like a dinner or a movie and drinks at your place it’s pointless to clarify as most sane people should be able to put 2 and 2 together. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Don't be a nice guyYour comment hits home for me. The last year I’ve worked hard on myself and as a result had much better looking women seem to be interested in me. But at the end of the day even though I felt I was a better person and had my shit together now, these girls still said what you mentioned. Point is. Just be happy and do things that make you happy. People are always gonna reject you even if you are hot or ugly. Someone’s always gonna find a reason you didn’t make the cut. So honestly while I don’t pr… | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Don't be a nice guyWhile confidence is important I’m not sure if having potential is enough. Having potential will get your foot in the door, but it’s not gonna win ya the girl. I’ve had more than one girl tell me I had potential, but as they got to know me I didn’t check off all the boxes and wasn’t what they were looking for. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Did the first date go bad if there was no physical contact/flirting?Might just be me, but I always seem to make my move on the 2nd+ date. I always take 1st dates as a feeler and to see if I’m actually interested in them beyond texting/Snapchat. If we get along great in the date, usually a second one is planned and that’s when moves are usually made by both of us. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 3 | How do you actually “make a girl like you”You really can’t. Game only works on girls that were probably already into you. You aren’t gonna be able to “game” a girl who isn’t interested. | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Is models still a good book for modern times?While not seduction related I feel like all of mark’s books are good to help you improve your relationships with yourself and others which will ultimately help you with girls. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Rule: if she flakes, she's outYeah. If they say things like that this, but they’re always on their phone whenever you see them, then they’re full of it. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Rule: if she flakes, she's outFor awhile I thought I was doing something wrong when getting flaked on or being told “it’s not you it’s me”. Turns out girls are just as afraid of having to reject a guy as a guy is getting rejected. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Rule: if she flakes, she's outWhile I agree even if they get back to you that still doesn’t mean they are interested. Then reaching out cause they feel guilty about flaking/ghosting without actually being interested seems to be pretty common IMO. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Update: REMINDER TO HAVE FUNI’ve met a lot of people like this tbh (both male and female). They’re dry af threw text but absolute chatter boxes in person. I think some people just suck at texting tbh. | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Reminder to have fun.In the words of Mark Manson “If it’s not a fuck yes it’s a no.” Meaning if she isn’t showing interest 100% then it’s a no and she’s just trying to let you down nicely cause she’s not that interested or interested at all. No point wasting your time if you’re gonna have to fight and stress out over these kinds of girls. | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Reminder to have fun.I’ve had way too many girls do what the girl has to you OP. Too me this screams I’m gonna flake, but I hope not. Either way like you said. Just have fun. | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 01:44 AM |
| -2 | Independent womenTo me it comes off as kinda try hard. No one that has to constantly remind people that they are something is actually that thing (unless you’re a vegan or into cross fit). So from my limited experience with the girls my age (20s) that say this is that they usually end up being pretty lonely and use being independent and only into hook ups as some sorta way to pass the blame onto others when it’s on them for being single and lonely. | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | How to crush it in 2021Also good chances are that even the girls that do end up being attracted too you it was because of something about you and not the techniques and lines you used. So it gives all these dudes the idea that this stuff worked, when in reality she was just attracted to you, and not your “game”. | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Reminder to take any advice here with a grain of saltNot even just luck. They just happened to find a girl that was attracted to them, and probably would’ve been successful even without that technique. Also you never actually know the kinds of girls (or the guys for that matter) that they approach. Personally I’d rather go jerk off to porn or something than sleep with someone “ugly” because I’m desperate. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to take any advice here with a grain of saltThat seems like Reddit in a nutshell. I love this place and have been here for years. But more and more do I realize that this place is just another echo chamber and is just as reflective of reality as any other social media. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | It's hard because of shitty menI hear that had girls ask me to not murder them. But I’ve been thanked before for being normal when we hung out or were on a date. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 6 | If you take nothing else away, make it this: Don’t put in more effort than she does.Tbf I’ve had girls put in no effort then tell me the same thing. That they aren’t gonna put in effort if the guy isn’t. | /r/seduction | 16/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Don't take this subreddit seriously to alter your game planThat and “if you do everything right when it comes to dedication she has no other choice but to be attracted to you.” Ya....no. Life don’t work like that. Pretty sure you could do everything right and most women will still reject you. Just cause you do everything right doesn’t mean you still can’t/won’t lose. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Why does Mark Manson's 'Models' says (p.132) it can be much more difficult for men living at home with their parents, to be successful at dating?Do girls face the same issue? | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls.As long as you’re going on dates if they are texting you then reply back. If not then don’t sweat it. But don’t use texting a back as an excuse or whatever not to take action to meet up in person. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s your best “don’t do” seduction advice?I would assume that attractive women are used to being treated better. So if you treat her normal it might knock her down a peg. | /r/seduction | 22/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 4 | For gods sake, stop neglecting your pictures!More effort usually makes you more attractive tho. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | I just picked up a cutie in the Walmart parking lot!! (Cold approach Story)I’ve always had jokes like these blow up in my face even if everything was going great. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?Working on themselves. Also I assume most girls these days have social media. The amount of dudes sliding into their DMs in that alone probably gives a lot of them enough choices to pick from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men?With the amount of good looking dudes that are losers that seem to get laid I will have to disagree here a little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Which hairstyle do girls love?A question I have about these kinds of things is does this equally attractive thing include more than just looks and what we see with the eye? If they are both equally hot and have the same personalities but one was just richer/more successful then ya I’d choose that one. But if they were both just equally physically attractive but the rich one was also a major bitch then it’s a no. Or maybe I’m just over thinking this. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Texting is fucking my game upJust like anything in seduction there is an art and game to it. Texting is no different. To much is bad and to little is bad as well. You gotta find that balance that only helps you out. In person will always be better, but in this day an age with people constantly connected to social media with cell phones constantly in their hands if you ain’t taking advantage of your text game some other dude is gonna instead. | /r/seduction | 18/08/20 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Texting is fucking my game upWhile I get this if you don’t think she texting the dude she’s into and fucking regularly then you’re out to lunch. Plus we’re in a god damn pandemic. Girls will probably want to txt more now than ever so they aren’t risking their health and safety on a date/hook up that isn’t worth it. | /r/seduction | 18/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between being creepy and flirty.Not the guy you replied to but from my experiences it depends on how girls perceive you. I’ve seen it work with good looking chads cause girls expect that behaviour out of them so it works better. But you normal good looking average joe it doesn’t seem to work from my experiences. All really depends on the girls and how you present yourself. If you don’t wanna be a good looking fuckboy named chad and just wanna be a good looking average joe then yea being that creepy and forward probably won’t w… | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like "nice guys" or "bad boys"?Why does it have to be either or? I can tell you I’ve met men and women who very much want both or the other. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like "nice guys" or "bad boys"?Idk I’ve met a lot of girl in university that think that way and I wouldn’t say they are lacking in either. It’s just about being an adult and how that kinda rebelling does get immature. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 04:02 PM |
| 2 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meOoof well to late for that. Tho her response to “Do you have a boyfriend” was pretty mysterious and wasn’t anything direct at all. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meWhat if a girl’s asking you if you have a girlfriend? I recently started a new job and had a female coworker I work closely with ask me that the first few days working there. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chanceI feel it depends. Someone you met on tinder and haven’t actually met then sauté whatever. But if youve been on a couple dates or you’ve been talking to someone for awhile it does suck imo. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)Or he’s going for some ugly girls. I’ve met tons of girls that look fine without makeup. So either They’re going for ugly girls already or their expectations of girls without makeup is way to high. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 10:18 PM |
| 6 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)It is. I forget the term but in marketing and business there’s a theory that states that a person (customer) is less likely to make a choice (purchase) the more options they are given. I assume that applies more to just buying goods and services and probably can apply pretty generally to a bunch of stuff. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Former “he’s nice but he’s just my friend” guy summing up what I was doing wrong.Honestly I feel the same. The issue wasn’t that I was to kind. I just wasn’t direct and honest. So I stopped giving a fuck while still being just as kind. That alone helped a lot. Like you said. Show her the things that will attract her and ever girl wants someone who is kind anyways. | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 1 | The 'spark' was missingI second the natural spark thing. I’ve had a couple girls after dates tell me that while they felt that spark it still wasn’t a sexual or romantic spark. To me I feel it’s overall a silly concept that it can’t be created because we aren’t always 100% confident immediately around everyone, but I do understand clicking with someone right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itHonestly this is a good point. The amount of good looking girls I’m around drastically increased when my friend group got better. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusI think it’s a balance. Don’t be dry af but don’t be blowing up her phone non stop. | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusLet’s be real tho. If you don’t think a girl is texting the guy she’s actually interested in pretty frequently in a way that’s way more than just setting up dates then that’s pretty naive. I always hate the only text to set up dates thing. As if most of the people posting here and the people they are going for didn’t grow up with computers with social media and a cell phone in their hand most of the time. That doesn’t mean tho that all your points are wrong or that all his are right. There’s an … | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 3 | thoughts on texting a girl during coronavirusTo be fair I’ve had friends say they’ve been purposely keeping themselves busy and avoiding their phones as much as possible cause isolation has been hitting them hard. | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 03:19 PM |
| 21 | Difference between conversation and seduction? Give me examples of what you would say when seducing.You ever make eye contact before kissing or even during sex and you feel that spark and tension. Ya that. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 11 | What's with this double standard of hot girls wanting to be treated as normal people while acting like dating less attractive guys is below them?Honestly now that I think about this you seem to be right or at least on to something. If a man is its even more known or talked about. I can only name a couple guys who are with less active women, but I can name way more women. | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and fourth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person.Just search it up on YouTube. Guys like ToddV have pretty good videos on it. But in all honesty just speak through text how you naturally would in person to that person. That’s always gotten me the best results with people. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 09:45 PM |
| 8 | The most important thing when texting a girl is you should utilize the phone as a tool to set a date not texting back and forth. If you text a girl back and fourth it kills the mystery and it kills the fun of getting to know each other in person.I hate this whole don’t text and only use it to set up dates. We are a generation (the ones in our 20s) that grew up on social media, had cell phones at a young age, always had the internet, had AIM/MSN. Trust me everyone I know guy or girl would drop someone for being so dry through text cause they feel it’s a reflection of how in persons gonna be. It’s not about how much you text. It’s about Matching their texting energy and texting them in a way that doesn’t reveal your cards until you’re in … | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS SUBREDDIT? I dont understandFor real. Anyone that actually gets laid and have no problem with women isn’t posting about it on reddit. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Maybe a girl is not meant to be our soul mate. Maybe as a guy, we are meant to have a group of guy friends as our soul mates, or soul tribe. This makes us less needy on girls, which is more attractive to them.If anything every person you have in your life should better you in the sense that they are a stepping stone in your own personal development given you hangout with a hood crowd or add something but they should never be your end goal like you said. Essentially be happy with yourself but surround yourself with people who are as well. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | If you’re thinking of becoming a PUA consider thisSeems everything gets upvoted here. The hate, the dumb stuff and the good stuff. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 07:49 PM |
| 26 | If you’re thinking of becoming a PUA consider thisBoth | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 04:25 PM |
| 4 | How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you?he’s probably friends with a lot of them. It’s not impossible. But he could be banging some. It’s usually not one or the other. Probably a mix, but he’s probably friends or at least friend zoned with more than he sleeps with even if his numbers are good. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 3 | How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you?If she’s genuinely your friend from my experiences is that her friends are most likely off limits cause that’s a real good way to make shit in the friend group weird if it goes side ways. Also going for a girls friends is a good way to be seen as that guy in the group who’s known for that. But like I said if you two are genuinely friends if one of her friends is interested she will tell you about it in my personal experiences. Also the few genuine female friends I’ve had also had no problems bei… | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 03:49 AM |
| 79 | How do you know of a girl is into you and not just being nice to you?I’m in my 20s and if A girl does anything but agree without a valid excuse they get friend zoned. I treat them like nothing more than a new acquaintance. Nothing wrong with having female friends, but I agree. You really can’t be genuine friends if you’re secretly hoping she’s gonna give you a chance to fuck by sticking around. If you can get over that sure, but she seriously has to be worth the time to even have as a friend. | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | So a girl tried to put me in the friend zone yesterday…And straight up. Not being someone’s friend because they don’t want to sleep with you is selfish as fuck. Would you cut off a buddy because he won’t give you what you want? I’m sure some would but screw those people. Expecting people to act a certain way because of how you act yourself isn’t gonna workout for anyone in any type of social situation. So why do we say it’s okay when it comes to dating but not okay in normal life. People who aren’t worth it obviously aren’t worth your time regardles… | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 05:28 AM |
| 2 | So a girl tried to put me in the friend zone yesterday…Also what the fuck is wrong with being a females friend? Some of my closet female friends I’ve had in my life were mostly girls that I hit it off with that we eventually decided things would be better if we were friends. Yea it sucked and yeah I got rejected, but I got over myself and developed some great friendships with them. | /r/seduction | 08/03/20 11:23 PM |
| 68 | The Fear Of Rejection is a symptom of trying to Fit InI believe it. Especially in the real life social circles you belong to. I’m in university and have had girls I know reject me on the sole premise that if things went bad between us it would affect her reputation. I think that’s wild imo. But both men and women like you said wanna fit in. Society tells us what’s right and wrong whether it’s written or unwritten. So to fit in I feel way to many people (and I’m not exempt myself) try to hard to people please cause society has ingrained to much soci… | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 10:09 PM |
| 15 | Post hookup hang outI had someone invite me to her party then blow me off. So I enjoyed the party and went 9-0 in beer pong with one of her friends instead. I honestly had a lot of fun. I know this place is big on pick ups, but honestly I focus on having a great time regardless. If I see a girl I’m interested in and talk to her then great. If not I don’t sweat it as long as I still had a great night overall. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attachedI feel if you are getting the right vibes and energy then totally do it. But it shouldn’t be a priority if you are actually looking to date/get to know someone. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 02:10 AM |
| 11 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingIve also heard them say that they view bumble as something more mature and serious. And most girls I know (early 20s) aren’t on dating apps for anything that serious. They mostly want that attention and validation (just like thirsty guys do) and want the matches without the work. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 43 | This was in Bloomberg this week. I thought same of you might find it interestingI’ve heard girls irl say they don’t like bumble cause they don’t like being the ones to make that first move. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm really not impressed by anyones 'game'You say this but I know attractive guys who are terrible with girls and don’t get laid. While looks are important it’s the whole package that gets the girls interested. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | The biggest sign I found to see if a girl is interested in me is how easily I can make her laugh.There’s this girl I know that laughs at everything I say. Hmmm maybe I should shoot my shot. Also to be fair one of my buddies assumed last time we were with her that we had something going on because she was laughing so much at the things I said. | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 01:26 AM |
| 9 | Critical Game Skill - This one skill will make you massively more attractive to womenAlso in our world of instant gratification we all have to learn that not everyone moves at the same pace. There are people (men and women) out there that would prefer to play the long game when it comes to dating instead of just jumping in bed with and dating people right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 11:04 PM |
| 14 | EYE CONTACT WORKS!!!Not only that but having friends that aren’t just dudes is great in general. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach levels the playing field.Imo the girls I see that shit test a lot are girls that have options (or Atleast think they do). So if they fuck it up there’s always another guy. I’m sure others have said it, but it’s a way to weed guys out. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach levels the playing field.I swear I’ve learned more from this comment then I have from months of just reading or watching YouTube videos. Those really were some killer examples. For sure gonna have to use the comical reply to her not liking me cause I get that so much. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or there's been a sudden influx of girls posting on this sub. They also mostly comment on how stupid that particular idea is, when most of the time the idea is trueWell a proper marketing department will do both. They will observe behaviour, but they will also get opinions and words from customers as well. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Is it just me or there's been a sudden influx of girls posting on this sub. They also mostly comment on how stupid that particular idea is, when most of the time the idea is trueAs a marketing grad this can actually work pretty well. This is why we have things like focus groups. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | A Good social circle is SEVERELY underratedI’m from Canada. So still within the commonwealth I guess. And honestly all I can really say is maybe hangout more one on one and try and build a strong relationship that way and maybe they’ll invite you more? Honestly idk my friends just kinda chose me. Started out like you but as my friendship got better with the one guy within my group the whole friend group started to include me more and more in things. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 05:09 AM |
| 5 | A Good social circle is SEVERELY underratedThis is why I love university. I’ve met so many people through my friend group as a couple guys in my friend group know a ton of people. You’re absolutely right. Simply inviting a bunch of people out that aren’t normally who you hang out with is a great way to meet people. Not only does it tell people you’re thinking of them by extending the invite, but if they bring friends then you now know even more people. The last few girls that I’ve talked to that were interested in me I met this way throu… | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to “do you smoke weed?”I’m Canadian where it’s legal and this still gets me. If I know she smokes then I’ll say ya, but many times I’ve answered this question and had them lose interest cause they didn’t fuck with pot. So pleading the 5th would be a good option. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 11:19 PM |
| 3 | The truth about dating women - A woman’s perspectiveThere is totally a balance to it imo. I’ve been in your shoes. But at the same time a lot of people have seen me be an asshole to people as well. Ultimately my default is to be a nice and good person. But if you give me a reason I will be an asshole. I’m also not afraid to be controversial. Now yes, Depending on the setting (work, school) I make sure not to be, but if I’m out with friends, talking to girls or in situations where it don’t matter then sure I’ll be controversial and won’t really ca… | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | The truth about dating women - A woman’s perspectiveSee from what I’ve been told is that there is a difference if the person is nice to everyone or just nice to her. If it’s just her then that weakness is there, but it seems to be different if they are genuinely nice (for the right reasons) to everyone. It’s the whole nice guy vs “nice guy” thing from my own anecdotal experience. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | We got you broGonna need a citation in this one. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | We got you broThis is exactly why I’ve got no problem dating a fat chick as a skinnier guy. Sure to a point I’ve got my preferences on weight but if I like someone or find them attractive I try not to care about their weight if everything else about them is favourable. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | We got you broI am too, and honestly I’ve never had a female comment on it. Maybe I’m just lucky but I’ve hooked up with and dated women taller than me and shorter than me. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 04:37 PM |
| 61 | The Gender Food bank Gap.I was the same (even tho they let me back in the summers once i started going to school). My sister gets handed everything and they have no plans on kicking her out (she's 20 and has no school plans), but as soon as a graduated grade 12 i was told i had to get a full time job and pay rent until i either decided to move out or go to school. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/17 06:17 AM |
| 6 | I would love to see the reversed version of thisYa thats how canada is. The crown is the one who decides to press charges. Usually they will ask you if you want to, but its completely up to them if you say no or say yes and they dont have enough evidence or something and cant press charges. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/17 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What are some things everyone should be doing everyday to become more attractive?And do a few sets of these as well. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Damn RightWell when i was taking my business degree the school i went to had sociology based courses i could take as well. Guess it all depends on the school. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Damn RightThats why most ( or atleast from my experience) HR courses and business courses have classes based around the sociology and psychology of business. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/17 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Amy Schumer Disavows Her Own Friend Because He Believes Men Accused Of Rape Deserve Due ProcessWell in a lot of places that is the law. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Amy Schumer Disavows Her Own Friend Because He Believes Men Accused Of Rape Deserve Due ProcessI'm not sure where you live but up here in my back woods part on Canada consent laws state that when any alcohol is consumed you cannot consent to sexual acts. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/16 03:09 PM |
| 23 | Study intended to show anti-woman hiring bias in tech finds exact oppositeIsnt that a hypothosis tho? Which is something every scientist uses. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/16 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Top 5 Psychology Books to Succeed in Life, Love and BusinessI recommend anything by him. My business program used some if his material and it really is good stuff. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 10:04 AM |
| 1 | 8 high schools boys suspended for receiving pictures of female classmates nude, girls "verbally reprimanded but not suspended"No, but I'm pretty sure there was a giant meeting with her, her parents, the school, and the police. She just got a week suspension from school and wasn't allowed a cell phone for a couple months and her parents/school were told to monitor her computer usage. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/15 05:01 AM |
| 6 | 8 high schools boys suspended for receiving pictures of female classmates nude, girls "verbally reprimanded but not suspended"Something similar happened in my city. There was a city wide bbm group with a couple hundred members and a shit ton of photos. The cops just came into the schools and gave the same speech. I've also seen both guys and girls get suspended for sending and spreading nudes. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/15 12:32 AM |
| 3 | School bans Movember because girls can't grow facial hairsame in canada. theres scouts which is co-ed and girls guides but no boy scouts. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/12 02:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm in High School and just got an "0" on an essay about rape for mentioning that men got raped, too.i was told by a teacher that the best way to learn is failure and that the people that tend to do the best after school are the students that work hard and try their best that fail, but keep trying until they get it. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/12 04:46 AM |
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