| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | How to reduce alimony | tgfoot | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/25 11:15 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to reduce alimonyHere you go: https://chatgpt.com/share/67be8ec2-2ddc-800d-80e8-a6f5a5db70d3 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How to reduce alimonySorry to say, but I was told it is my fault that she didn’t go back to work for all those years because I approved of it by staying married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 11:18 AM |
| 2 | How to reduce alimonyModifiable if the situation changes (my income, her income, etc) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 11:16 AM |
| 2 | How to reduce alimonyHonestly I’ve reviewed the case and really don’t think we made any flaws in my arguments. When I look at the ruling, it seems the judge just hates men and loves women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 11:14 AM |
| 2 | How to reduce alimonyGet a vocational expert to assess her earning ability? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 11:12 AM |
| 4 | How to reduce alimonyshe wanted divorce, but pushed me to do it so she could claim to be the victim. permanent, but modifiable | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How to reduce alimonyNope. She was out for blood. I made some embarrassingly generous offers, but she pushed to win it all. And she did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 03:12 AM |
| 5 | How to reduce alimonyI was the sole breadwinner for many of the years. Then when the kids were self sufficient and she could have gone back to work, she refused. It's a beautiful thing (for her) to refuse to work, and then having "never worked" become the justification for me to pay her even more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:59 AM |
| 6 | How to reduce alimonyMarried young, so I (and she) still have about 2 decades of working years ahead of us before retirement. Everyone has college degrees. Only challenge is that she doesn't want to work or build a career -- would rather suck the cash all out of me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How to reduce alimonyWas married 20+ years, and the ex avoided ever going to work. So that all worked in her favor. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:53 AM |
| 3 | How to reduce alimonyShe got both child support and alimony. There wasn't an either or option -- it was both! Technically there is law for recalculating alimony at the point of retirement, but it isn't automatic -- ya gotta go back to court to make it happen. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How to reduce alimonyYes, I have a lawyer. Currently ordered to pay her a shit-ton. Kids, yes, but mostly older and out of the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How to reduce alimonyTotally agree. And unfortunately this couldn't be farther from what the courts say here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:40 AM |
| 0 | How to reduce alimonyTotally agree. But in MN, it's still a thing. Permanent has been made illegal in many states, but not the majority yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:39 AM |
| 3 | How to reduce alimonyNo jury, but yes to court, court room, divorce attorneys, etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:37 AM |
| 2 | How to reduce alimonyMost other countries have income/bank sharing details with the US, so it would be most likely discoverable as I understand it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How to reduce alimony20+. Minnesota. She recently started working. Minimally. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How to reduce alimony20+ | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 12:46 AM |
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