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thacunninglingist/r/seduction17/10/14 12:15 PM
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I do think its possible to leave the friend zone actually if you maintain the right kind of friendship Regardless of what you think this is not correct.
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:57 PM
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The power is in the confidence. Everything about your body. Stand tall, good posture. how you talk, be assertive but not overly commanding. but congrats on progress! It's always great to see success stories on here.
/r/seduction29/10/14 01:56 PM
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If you continue to think like this you will never have any success. Do not think of a girl as different because you see her as more attractive, it doesn't matter. No matter how hot the girl she has her insecurities and issues. You should be able to approach any woman at any time with no doubt in your mind that you will be successful. Even if that is not always the case you still need to feel that way. Building that type of confidence is the key and once you can do that you can get any girl you w…
/r/seduction29/10/14 01:03 PM
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This is amazing as a 25 year old who just got dumped a few months ago by literally the first girl I've cared for as more than a hole to fuck. I like to think of this sub as a place for not just relationships and hookups but life. This guy has it man. it's exactly what he says. When I got dumped I felt like my world was over, then I took some time and realized that I got 3 good years of a relationship and all those memories will never go away. But now I am making new memories with new girls.
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:28 PM
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I'm confused what the issue is here. Approach anxiety is what it seems like. You are afraid of how people will see you when you shouldn't be. If you wanna be a player be a player, do what you wanna do and don't apologize to anyone for anything because all that matters is what you want. Also you say you don't know many people on campus, then how are you not just talking to anyone you meet? Don't think of it as I'm graduating soon and won't see these people again, look at it as it's time for you t…
/r/seduction23/10/14 12:59 PM
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sadly heartbreak is what led me to Tinder... I guess I was just wrong about just wanting to fuck. Just searching for something but not sure what yet. edit: but yeah thanks for the insight. That is kinda what I realized these girls have been a great ego boost but I think I've gotten lazy and really do think I'm better than them. I deleted the app yesterday just gonna stick to irl game for a while.
/r/seduction17/10/14 06:22 PM
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I know that's my problem of why I am bored with them... but like it's just weird to me cause like regardless of HB6 or HB10 I am attracted either way. I don't treat HB10 any different. If I wasn't attracted I wouldn't do it at all. My question is why are they so uninterested?? Is it just the weirdness of meeting someone from online? I just don't get it. some of them I've talked to before hand and we have a like what seems like a real connection but when it comes down to it they are boring in bed…
/r/seduction17/10/14 05:03 PM
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yeah but boring sex vs masturbating... a couple of them gave pretty good bjs though.. I just feel like I want some passion.
/r/seduction17/10/14 01:09 PM
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I guess I just don't get it then... I don't think I'm dashing by any means and I'm not trying to be cocky or brag... Just that in my experience if you get a fake number it's cause she wants you to leave her alone and Idk I think if you are not creepy as fuck about it then you shouldn't get fake numbers. I guess when you're just starting it's easy to be creepy though... my bad.
/r/seduction13/10/14 07:55 PM
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If you are getting fake numbers you are doing something wrong... I've never gotten a fake number in my life, and I always get confused when guys tell me they have. If she is interested even a little bit and not involved most girls will at least give you a shot...
/r/seduction13/10/14 03:17 PM
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I am pretty obsessed with cologne I have about 20 different ones right now. My daily fragrance is polo blue, the ones I like most are Diesel Fuel for Life and Aqua Di Gio but so many people wear that stuff now I don't like too. Try unique fragrances and find what you like, usually if you like a smell so will women. Don't skimp on cologne the cheap stuff smells like chemicals.
/r/seduction09/10/14 11:39 AM
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That is what you need to figure out. I'd say what I do right now is soul searching. Here's some background. rewind 3 years. I am a player, out every night, workout all the time, chill by the pool during the day, 2-3 HB6 or higher every week. Walks in my ex. I stopped everything, didn't talk to anyone else because of how she made me feel, still I was outcome independent all I knew is that I wanted her. We date for 2 years I have a plan of what my life will look like going forward, her being invol…
/r/seduction08/10/14 03:58 PM
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My friend I just wanna say something to you. This sub is not just about picking up women. It's about becoming a strong confident individual. You need to determine what you want out of life, I am 25 years old and just jumping back into the game over the past 4 months or so due to a breakup. The break up made me re-evaluate things and I am constantly asking myself what I want. I still haven't figured out entirely what I want but it sounds like you have. So my answer to your question is this. Do yo…
/r/seduction08/10/14 12:35 PM
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I just move into getting the number after my intro on tinder. Hey (name) you are (random compliment). next message i send is usually going for the number they usually don't say no. I don't follow texting rules I just do it based on how I feel. are you trying to date or fuck her? how hot is she? how much were you into her? you can text back whenever after the creepy period is over. just don't text back immediately after she gives it to you unless you're just going balls out.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:23 PM
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thanks for explaining man. you went into such detail that my 15 year old mind can't grasp your incredible technique. People must've agreed with me though since your comment got downvoted enough for you to delete it.
/r/seduction02/10/14 03:51 PM
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This is some of the worst advice I've ever read on this sub. ever... cant stress that enough. ANY girl would be creeped out if you just start dragging her to your place.. Seriously just awful advice. I'm tagging this guy in my RES as 40 year old virgin.
/r/seduction26/09/14 04:42 PM
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Don't let this guy get you down man. good job on this. I really love how you did that whole teacher student thing, it's a good sexual transition imo. Truthfully from what you are describing I think you could've got laid but it also sounds like you and this girl are compatible. you didn't really make your intentions clear so idk. Point is success is success, if she didnt blow you off then you did a good job. Keep up the good work man. Just remember, this is my own personal mantra, know what you w…
/r/seduction25/09/14 03:14 PM
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This is by far one of the best and truest things I've ever read on this sub.
/r/seduction10/09/14 02:05 PM
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Troof
/r/seduction05/09/14 07:25 PM
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"guy wrote something earlier here that really stuck with me. He said he goes up to girls in bars and tells them he noticed her and shes really cute and offers to buy her a drink. He said that line has never failed. I don't understand this quite really how this is supposed to work. I just see her getting upset and walking away(again I don't mind rejection, I'm worried about hurting a girl's feelings) Thanks all." Just wanna say my policy has always been not to buy girls drinks. Birthdays and it's…
/r/seduction05/09/14 07:04 PM
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Keep many women in your stable and don't be "thirsty" if you're in a drought maybe find some 4's and 5's you can get easily. You need to take down some lesser stags once in a while to build confidence to take down a mammoth.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:47 PM
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Yeah this is what I'm saying and I like the analogy. Don't ask for things just do it. They are usually more responsive to being aggressive, or they will get turned off faster, if they are turned off just slow it down.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:03 PM
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nah. take the hint man. something happened that turned her off. move on. The rejection will help you improve your game.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:04 PM
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I like to escalate a little faster than that. usually if they are taking a while to warm up I like to suggestively move towards going down on her.
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:59 PM
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maybe you were dead at the gate then. Idk, maybe you waited too long to escalate sex. Sounds like she likes she could've been persuaded though, I don't want to offend you at all and hope I didn't just trying to give the best advice possible. Sometimes you've just gotta take it at girls putting you in an unwinnable situation.
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:52 PM
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not trying to make him feel bad just giving advice. i congratulated him on what he did right.
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:24 PM
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Like I just wanna know the timeline here. 11:01 pm she wants to kiss me 11:02 pm gets up from cuddling for whatever reason (HB8) 11:04 pm comes back and kisses (HB8) 11:10 pm Pants off and (HB8) is gone. between 11:02 and 11:10 is where mistakes were made, he could've easily utilized kino by touching her arms, legs, stomach, w/e. When you are cuddling with a girl that you are not dating SEX IS ALWAYS WHAT SHE WANTS. Girls like it when you show dominance. Here's what I would've done, waited a lit…
/r/seduction28/08/14 02:25 PM
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Love to hear a brother's success story!
/r/seduction28/08/14 11:40 AM
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not a great success story to me. but congrats on the k-close. I do have a question for you though. How did this not escalate further? You are in college, you're watching a movie, you're alone at your place, she's obviously into you. These are all amazing situations to escalate to sex. Did you not want to or am I missing something? The reason she never called you is probably because you didn't escalate things faster. Everything about your story leads me to believe that from the moment you asked t…
/r/seduction28/08/14 11:37 AM
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Do not listen to this advice, he is correct that there is a point when she will be hanging on your every word if things are going well. However you need to use that to your advantage, you are on a pedestal at this moment in time with her. Basically anything goes once you hit that point, there is never a reason to ask a girl if you can kiss her. unless you want to ensure that afterwards she will use you as a terrible date story about the guy who asked if he could kiss her. Girls want men, most of…
/r/seduction28/08/14 11:11 AM
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Just being honest here. You have a problem you need to see a doctor about man. I masturbate probably one or twice a day. Have sex 2-5 times a week, have a couple of different fuck buddies atm. Now I am only 24 and you may be a little older but you should definitely be able to get hard whenever. Sometimes I'll have sex with a girl and smoke some weed grab a drink and I feel horny again so I go to the porn if I can't arrange another "appointment". If you are young this shouldn't be something you h…
/r/seduction22/08/14 07:30 PM
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Also realizing they aren't better than you, not everyone on here sees women as equals but I think we can all agree that there is a difference between sluts and women.
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:37 PM
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Seddit, isn't for just hook ups man. It's about game. Spend your time here, it will be better advice and more friendly people. It also isn't just about women, it is about confidence in life and people seeing that if you are happy and confident the women will follow. If you are in a relationship or not game and happiness and confidence are always important.
/r/seduction22/08/14 04:04 PM
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I'm just saying, Tinder has such a large pool of girls that at least some of them are on there just for hook ups. girls are just as horny as guys they are just scared to admit it. When you can master the psychology of making a girl think sex was her own idea then you have it my friend.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:10 PM
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I think I've given this advice on here before, I use this in everyday life as well as game. If you want to do something, stop, count to 3 and do it. If you wait any longer you may as well not do it.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:07 PM
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As a for instance, I generally get them to agree directly to sex or something before you even meet them. My profile is completely geared towards getting me laid, and in it I literally tell them that I don't want dates just sex. I understand you are looking for a girlfriend but to be honest with you how much are you gonna respect a tinder girl? Some of these girls my conversation goes like this, Me: hey there (insert name here), I don't usually message first but your pics are so sexy. girl: haha …
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:02 PM
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If these are all Tinder dates you can escalate before hand on Tinder as well. Just remember when meeting girls on Tinder you can be more direct, you both know you are physically attracted to each other already.
/r/seduction12/08/14 03:56 PM
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I just started tinder a few weeks ago and matching and meeting is easy as fuck. but i gotta say this auto like app is a revelation sir. Tinderoid is the app for iphone btw. I found it and I estimate my hookups to increase by at minimum 150 percent.
/r/seduction08/08/14 01:10 PM
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I'm not saying it's the best way to go about it but it's a good way to make it more comfortable. Just trying to give some advice that works for me, obviously ideally you both should just know...
/r/seduction01/08/14 07:35 PM
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I'm just telling you not to get too hung up on the kiss at the end... You do it whenever you feel right, like I said you've gotta adjust your game. The park being not busy and other couples holding hands could've been working against you, like I said on a first date a girl doesn't wanna feel like your girlfriend. Obviously you want to kiss her if it feels right no matter how things went. I am a firm believer in always being able to recover and change your position on the date, you just need to l…
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:29 PM
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hand holding is something you do with a girlfriend... she might not be looking for that, also if she is looking for that it is most likely too soon to hold her hand. As far as a recommendation goes on what to do differently, you need to shift your objectives. Don't focus on the kiss... focus on what your overall goal is, sex,relationship, or friendship. Adjust your game to that accordingly. If you're overall goal is sex stay focused, be as physical as possible without being pushy. You want her t…
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:59 PM
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Yeah are you insane??? days of talking online? conversation should go : you: (Clever line, should communicate to her what you are interested in and also be funny or witty.) her: "some generic lol response maybe." (use her response as a guide of her interest, the lamer the joke she laughs at the more interested she probably is. don't worry about the amount of time it took to respond and don't over think anything.) you: (the first line was the icebreaker, now since you've done that you can move ri…
/r/seduction01/08/14 01:12 PM
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I think 9 times out of 10 it would be easier to get a girl to sleep with you than to comfortably hold hands with you on a first date. I'll be totally honest with you this is something I would never do, not really rule number 1 don't do but you are definitely gonna see a really low success rate. Holding hands kind of signifies something more serious and in some situations it can be okay, but those situations are rare. You are really sending the wrong message by trying to hold her hand like that, …
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:54 PM
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I like to use a line like "now don't freak out, I'm gonna try something. Then after you have the chloroform soaked rag over her mouth she is yours." but seriously the whole "I'm gonna try something." line is great it is partially romantic and it's like asking without asking. just say it when you look into her eyes maybe after a hug maybe just part way through a walk or something. But this is all kind of irrelevant for you since it seems like they are uninterested... You are doing something wrong…
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:39 PM
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I just want to say in my opinion no matter what date it is you should be constantly hinting towards physical escalation. I like to do things like whenever you get a chance make contact with her physically. For instance showing her something on your phone to get her closer to you. The whole time you should be making her feel more comfortable with you but also throwing in hints that you are attracted to her and where you want it to lead. If the entire date you are like friends than you are failing…
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:11 PM
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