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Theory and practice... Forest for the trees... Don't say this.
/r/seduction09/08/11 03:54 AM
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I find a lack of confidence to be attractive. I felt like this when I was inexperienced too. Now it's such a hassle to get past. I'm not saying you shouldn't find it attractive, I'm just saying it's likely an attractive trait to you due to your circumstances, and not your real desires.
/r/seduction27/05/11 08:19 AM
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Don't over complicate things. If you want to spend time with her, and she invited you to a concert, go. If she's inviting you to places, she's past the point where neging is required. Then again "So you want to infect me" is a tease, not a neg, so go ahead. If I were you, I'd say either "Sounds cool, see you then" or "Can I let you know tomorrow?", depending on how available I want to seem. Those are my style though, so might not work for you. [Edit] All of the "beware of friend zone" posters re…
/r/seduction22/03/11 03:12 PM
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Tofu His [FR] time post awoke this forum like no other. He's always level headed He gets out all the time
/r/seduction17/12/10 11:11 PM
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You're thinking with such a beta mindset. It may have been a test, or maybe not, either way you failed it. She gave you a great opening and you interpreted it in the exact wrong way. Here's how it should have gone. Her: "cupcake would be great" You: 30 min later "great idea, come by after your exam and we'll make some as a reward! Good luck :)" She sounds really sweet offering to get you food out of the blue and bringing it to you, and you sound like a dick overreacting to literally nothing. [ed…
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:02 AM
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I think you should be focused on escalation, not "making the move". You want to move things in the right direction little by little, there is really no one move. After correct escalation a kiss is natural, and easy. Read up on the kino ladder and imagine all the ways you could have moved from one rung to the next. Putting your hand on her hip out of the blue is more ballsy than required at any point.
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:52 AM
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Seems like you're friended.
/r/seduction06/12/10 12:44 AM
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Opener, "don't tell me you guys like metal! ... I don't believe it" Kino escalation, "you know touch her arm, jason will love to hear you girls are fans"
/r/seduction05/12/10 11:56 PM
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Sounds like you should have kissed her! Or went up to a room to talk...
/r/seduction05/12/10 07:45 PM
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Staring at her obnoxiously is not the answer. Please don't do this, neither is avoiding her question.
/r/seduction05/12/10 07:27 PM
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Don't tell her wtf. Wait for her to ask then be like, yah it didn't work out. That is how you make it not a big deal. You treat it like it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction05/12/10 07:08 AM
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I'm all for getting around the "I have a boyfriend" line, but sleeping with a girl who actually does have a boyfriend isn't something I think should be done. Yah you guys can justify it in a lot of ways that seem to make sense, but it's still a dick move.
/r/seduction03/12/10 05:09 AM
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Holy crap. I was all like AFC at the hug. Then you were all like kaplow, and I was like nice. Brilliant.
/r/seduction02/12/10 08:02 AM
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Excellent points. I'm not sure where the line is drawn between making what you're about to do sound fun, and showing insecurity, but there definitely is one! I'm going with in between "We're going to have fun" and "We always have fun".
/r/seduction02/12/10 07:44 AM
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You should be trying to invite her along on your adventures especially early in the relationship. It's not always easy or possible I guess, so maybe you can spin it around now... "In that case I'm going to go out with my friends that night, if you're plans change you should join us, you'd love them! We're always getting into trouble lol. Otherwise I'll call you next week."
/r/seduction02/12/10 05:49 AM
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Assuming you said something like "I'm going out and it's going to be awesome, you should come with me!" You can now say "awe, sorry to hear you can't make it, we're going to we always have a blast. I'll call you next week though!" Don't make her feel bad for being busy, make her wish she wasn't busy. Also don't be a dick about rescheduling, but don't be too anxious to either. Do something awesome when you go out and take pictures and show them to her another time. "You shoulda been there!" [edit…
/r/seduction02/12/10 05:37 AM
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Sounds like you're a good flirt! Make sure you're advancing through the kino ladder. All the flirting in the world won't help without kino escalation, unless she literally jumps you!
/r/seduction02/12/10 05:27 AM
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You most likely won't feel a sexual vibe from her. You're the one leading, don't look for her permission to advance, look for her acceptance as you advance. You just need to be confident and go for what you want. Sorry you chickened out at the last minute, seems like she was into you... Try again!
/r/seduction02/12/10 12:22 AM
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BITCH AIN'T CALLIN'? BETTA' GET BALLIN'!
/r/seduction01/12/10 10:11 PM
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Have you read the introductory material? http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/
/r/seduction01/12/10 11:23 AM
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Read the introductory material. You don't "get it" yet. You communicate interest in girls only through body language and kino. Words are useless for this sort of thing, and will only hurt you. You show her you like her by touching her, by being fun and flirty and by giving off an awesome vibe with your body language. You then escalate the situation until you are sleeping together, or wherever you want the situation to end up. Really, spend a few hours reading the basics, they will have the answe…
/r/seduction01/12/10 10:56 AM
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This is important. It's like 6th grade english class, "show, don't tell". Use body language and kino to show her. It's like a poker game, as soon as you tell her, she sees your hand, and the game is over.
/r/seduction01/12/10 09:49 AM
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Don't have to touch people while you talk to them if that's not your thing. Touch them too get their attention, touch them to see something in their hands, touch them when it's time to move into the other room, touch them when something exciting happens in whatever you're watching/listening to, touch them whenever you're excited for no reason, etc. Read more about kino and identify more opportunities typo use it. It is the single most powerful thing you can do to generate attraction. [edit] *typ…
/r/seduction01/12/10 09:22 AM
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Important - start kino early, before there is any chance of cuddling. If you start kino 20 minutes to a few hours before the movie and escalate quickly cuddling will feel natural to both of you. If you don't start it early, it will be awkward for both of you. It can still work out fine in the end, but there is no getting around the awkwardness that will occur, especially for you! Tl;dr Kino early or awkwardness is GUARANTEED.
/r/seduction01/12/10 09:09 AM
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"Then why are you hitting on me?"
/r/seduction01/12/10 03:39 AM
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My advice is not to consider the age difference again, as it will only lead to trouble, not for him to pretend like he's older than he really is.
/r/seduction30/11/10 09:32 PM
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There is no age difference. Don't worry about it for a second longer.
/r/seduction30/11/10 03:37 AM
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I'm doing xxxx on saturday, you should come with me! She agrees Let's exchange numbers
/r/seduction29/11/10 01:23 AM
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Reveal just enough about yourself to let their imagination extrapolate excellence. The questions are suggestions. Say whatever you want, wherever you want. ie. Favorite Book? You can talk about how you like to read, and the story of the time you were in a bookstore and Chandler from friends came in and signed your cast. You're fun. Remember that!
/r/seduction26/11/10 09:13 AM
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Keep your messages fun and not serious. You should view meeting them like meeting an old friend you haven't seen in awhile for lunch. Not a big deal, but you would like to if possible. Also, it's not hard to ask ask old friend to lunch is it? Don't wait more than a week max, and kiss on the first or second date at the latest!! First date can be casual, but escalate quickly, assume rapport.
/r/seduction20/11/10 06:29 AM
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This is good advice. Replying to say that if you insist on a quick and dirty method, look at her as a friend who you have absolutely no desire to touch/kiss/anything. Find all her flaws and completely mentally disqualify her right at the start. This will makeyou feel at ease, and you are allowed to change your mind about her later. The downside is it will not be as fun a date for her.
/r/seduction20/11/10 06:09 AM
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Your screen name and the overcompensation for insecurities in your post makes you seem like you don't have any idea what to do, but the content of your post says that you're only flaw is that you can't tell if a girl is interested, and the only question you ask is if her checking you out is a good sign... What exactly is it you're looking for? Be upfront with us so we can help.
/r/seduction19/11/10 04:01 AM
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Your first message to her needs to be fun, not serious, mention some things in her profile, not overly wordy, and leave her something to respond to. Be creative. Every guy sends the "hey what's up" message, or the "liked your profile you seem cool" message. Don't be them. Don't complement her on anything, unless it's a trait you two share. Have fun with it.
/r/seduction19/11/10 03:33 AM
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Apparent Spontaneity > Apparent Planning Planning ahead is great, just don't let her know about it unless she needs to. You can even have a plan C and D. Things might be going great and you might want a change of venue, or you might just be like "Lets go!" for no reason at all. If you can be genuinely spontaneous, that's fine, but she wont be able to tell the difference between spontaneity and backup plans, if you don't make it obvious. Also nothing (like rain) messes up a date if you're still h…
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:18 AM
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I started to write a bunch of stuff, and realized it needs more than I can write here. Here are a few quick pointers. Don't try and summarize yourself on your profile. A dating profile is like a beautiful woman, they show just enough skin to get your imagination working on what the rest of them looks like. Of course you then imagine the most un-fucking believable body that ever existed. Getting to know each other is for real life. Messages on OKCupid are to show her that you're fun, and that she…
/r/seduction18/11/10 08:06 AM
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Personally I wouldn't have even mentioned the possibility of rain. Having a plan B, or being able to adapt on the fly gives you extreme bonus points with the girl. It doesn't come across as well if she knows about it in advance. Rain on a date is usually a great thing. Running around getting wet together, and having fun >> regular dry date. Maybe not for a first date, and maybe not biking, but a picnic in the rain could make an awesome date if you're both willing to have fun (and there's some ki…
/r/seduction18/11/10 07:09 AM
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Lol you don't want a high school girl for a friend or a date. Watch scott pilgrim if you need to understand why. Really though it's not worth it at all.
/r/seduction18/11/10 05:46 AM
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How come you're sitting so far away from me? scoot close Seriously doesn't matter what you're talking about. If she likes you, escalate. If she doesn't like you, nothings gonna change that, unless you want to make her like you less. Escalate and if it doesn't work out, find a new girl.
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:44 PM
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Dress well, smile at everyone all the time, talk to everyone all the time, get out more often, see more people, notice things around you, like the sky or trees, and notice that no one else does. Smiling at everyone and talking to everyone is a prerequisite to success with women. Use cashiers and waiters and males and teachers etc. for practice. If you haven't talked to at least three new people today go buy some gum from a store just so you can ask the cashier how her day had been. It won't take…
/r/seduction17/11/10 09:33 PM
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Your online game is simply weak. Plenty of guys are getting plenty of girls on that and other sites.
/r/seduction17/11/10 05:33 PM
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I've met several girls on okcupid in the last few weeks and think it's a great site. If someone is not having any luck with it it's because they're being too conservative. Most girls that respond are up for a date within a week max, unless you mess it up. It's a different kind of game, but most of the same rules apply. Be yourself, be fun, escalate, have confidence, be interesting... And then the numbers game. Avoid oneitis. If you're sending out the same "hey what's up" message every other guy …
/r/seduction17/11/10 05:29 PM
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Hug at the start of the date sets the tone. Grab her hand and say "OMG COME SEE THIS THING OVER HERE" and drag her over. Whenever you want to say something, touch her arm first to get her attention. Once you see an IOI you can scoot closer to her whenever you want, whatever in is you're doing. Scooting so close you're touching is fine if she's enjoying herself. Don't take her hand for no other reason than taking her hand if she hasn't given you any IOIs... it will just be awkward. There is other…
/r/seduction17/11/10 07:35 AM
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Kiss her whenever YOU want to. As long as it's not the exact wrong time (someone talking about a family member who just died), and you've been building attraction with flirting and kino, and have received some IOIs, it's the exact right time. You can wait for a "high point", aka a good point in the music or movie, or conversation, or scenery or whatever, but that will likely make you want to kiss her. Don't delay when this happens. Also, you are GOING TO MESS THIS UP. It's going to FAIL but you …
/r/seduction17/11/10 07:29 AM
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CAN NOT RESULT IN SUCCESS
/r/seduction17/11/10 07:13 AM
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Just keep it up. The more you talk to them the easier it gets. It will be second nature in less than a few months if you work at it every day. Talk to everyone! Waitresses and cashiers are great for this, but use everyone!!!
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:45 AM
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Never pay more than your share. This doesn't mean you can't pay for her ticket, just that it shouldn't be invisible. Address it right away, I'll get this and you get that, then don't mention it again. My favorite is to tell them I've got this one, and if there's a second date they can buy me lunch/make me dinner or whatever. I like it because then they know I don't feel like I have to pay for the privilege of their company. Also shows them I haven't yet made my mind up about how I feel about the…
/r/seduction09/11/10 08:27 PM
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Yah, don't see her till she gets better. Something like "ewe I don't want to catch it" will work fine. Higher chance of things not working out if she's sick. Just wait a few days.
/r/seduction09/11/10 07:04 AM
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The best time to make a move is five minutes ago. Gandi said that. Any time is great, she obviously likes you. Lead up to it a bit with a lot more touching. Greet her with a hug and at Some point be excited like, omg come over here and see this! And take her hand and drag her over. Rub her arm/leg at a funny point or a sad one in a movie/play/whatever. Once you've done that just kiss her whenever you want. She likes you stop being retarded!
/r/seduction08/11/10 02:27 AM
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Same exact game as any girl, just not so much in front of other people. She'll respond to the same things and likely be even more grateful for the attention since she obviously likes you already.
/r/seduction06/11/10 06:33 PM
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None of them were creepy, there is just a certain time and place for each, use them at the right time and no doubt this will be an important part of your game. Ok the one about going to jail when she asked his age was creepy lol.
/r/seduction05/11/10 04:55 AM
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If you can convince your self to like girls less you will have an easier time getting them. It sucks that it works this way, but it does. Ask out a few other girls and then you will have a lot more confidence with this one. You will realize that it isn't any big deal and she'll be able to pick up on that. This will make you appear more valuable to her and then once she and this other guy are through you can get her. IF you aren't seeing anyone better by then.
/r/seduction14/10/10 07:08 AM
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Funny you should mention that, I was on the way to the store/home/car to get one myself. Walk with me?
/r/seduction08/10/10 09:22 PM
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I was speaking mostly to people reading your post, you already seem to know what's up! Congrats again!
/r/seduction08/10/10 07:10 PM
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And start thinking happy thoughts before they see you. Looking miserable and then forcing a smile after they see you looking miserable will not fool anyone.
/r/seduction08/10/10 04:02 PM
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Great!! Should note though that while your methods are wonderful, different things work for different people, not everyone is going to get the same effect out of that book, and shouldn't be discouraged by it. Love Yourself > Smiling > Talking to People > Dates > Sex > Eyes open for next girl is pretty much the road map though! (Arrows not greater than signs) You got it all, keep it up!
/r/seduction08/10/10 03:47 PM
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Two weeks of focused effort talking to EVERYONE (5 new people a day or something) will do wonders. That is not a long time to invest for something so important. Skip the shortcuts and just start TODAY!
/r/seduction08/10/10 03:36 PM
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You knew talking to everyone was going to be recommended, because it's the right advice. Go out of your way to talk with everyone. Sit next to new people at lunch, talk with the people you order food from, talk with your teachers, talk with the people sitting next to you, EVERYONE. Do it enough and it's not a big deal anymore. Also invest a lot more time talking to girls you are not interested at all in, fat ugly frumpy motherfuckers, then reflect on what you said to them. Say the same thing to …
/r/seduction08/10/10 07:35 AM
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