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FDS ANTHEM 🎶thaiteabbys/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:00 PM
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Ohh okay that makes sense, thank you. To think of that, I’ve encountered that many times 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:08 AM
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Okay I’m sorry if this is dumb but what do you exactly mean here 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:14 AM
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Ain’t daycare hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:49 AM
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His username already says a lot about him 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:21 AM
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Don’t “sweetie” me. My brain started hurting after a few sentences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:14 AM
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When I used to have Twitter , I followed them. They’re so cute and she’s absolutely gorgeous! I’ve seen him in comments defending her and their relationship before too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:00 AM
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Literally just texted an ex friend that I said I was done with, should’ve seen this before 🤦🏻‍♀️ the dude decided he wanted to “take a break” from talking to me (two months) and in that time I decided his beliefs and stance on some topics didn’t align with mine or what was right , so I said “bye”. I’ve actually gotten better in the past year with knowing my worth, not wasting my time and energy, and putting boundaries into place. And cutting off people. But out of the blue, he texts me and says …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:37 AM
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Aw thank you. Much love to you too fellow FDS sister ☺️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:29 AM
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What a pos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:15 AM
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Ooooo this boils my blood. You disgusting mf. I cannot stand people that fetish races. No girl over there is going to give you the time of your day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:00 AM
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Lmfao. He’s reaching. Where in FDS does it say we should lie, cheat, abuse, and manipulate?! Dude ! Do you even know the meaning of the words ??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:55 AM
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Ugh I’m Asian and I can’t stand fetishizers. Those people have a problem. I really hope no Asian girl gets with him. He doesn’t deserve them. Also, on top of porn , anime and hentai probably have some contribution to the whole Asian girl fetish thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:51 AM
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I fully agree with this. Growing up I wasn’t physically abused but I was definitely abused emotionally, mentally, psychologically. It wasn’t fun. I felt like my whole childhood and teenage years were thrown down the trash can. Abuse comes in so many forms and it’s not often talked about or recognized. My parents provided for me financially so I never struggled there. But the rest...I hated that they held the things they bought (even though I wanted to get a job and make my own money so I could b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:35 AM
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I love Flo Milli , she’s so underrated !! Her new album 😍🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:34 AM
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Eww. First off the age gap. Second, he’s TWENTY FIVE. Wtf. He’s four years older than her. Sis is getting her coins and making money and finding ways to make money but his lazy ass is sitting, doing nothing. Did he even file for unemployment?? Has he even tried finding a job?? Also, there’s plenty of organizations that are helping people out during covid that provide foods and meals. And the audacity of this LVM to ask a COLLEGE STUDENT (everyone knows most college students don’t have much money…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:29 AM
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Ugh. My heart goes out to this woman. I hope she has another support system besides her trashy, low life husband. Ironic they say and agree to “in sickness and in health , to love and to cherish , till death do us part” but the husband doesn’t even fulfill their end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 06:51 AM
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Yes, that is totally understandable. And they have every right to feel that way. And you’re absolutely right. I see a lot of Asian men comment about Asian women “White worshipping” or being “sellouts” / “traitors” to their race / culture under incidents that invoke Asian women and White men. Blaming others isn’t going to help the stereotype. It’s also a double standard as well because there’s Asian men that date White women, Black women, and Latina women. Yeah they might get a few weird stares i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 05:00 AM
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Ahh okay, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:40 PM
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He claims he’s an army mechanic and engineer but put that. I don’t know how he got his degree😬🥴 I think a lot of Kpop fans are Asians but over the years it’s grown to a lot of non Asians. As for the White guys part, I think he means Asian girls who date White guys. He seems really insecure in his shoes / own race since he put that publicly. But in a way it makes sense because of the Western worlds view on Asian men , they’ve been demasculinzed*. Which is an issue itself in the Asian community. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:39 PM
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He’s definitely Asian, he has the Philippines flag which means he’s Filipino. Not sure about the other flag though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:32 PM
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Me too ! She seemed so upset in her Instagram live when she was updating on how she was doing. There was so many men and even a WOMAN who made jokes about Meg being shot in the foot. I really hope she’s more careful of who she surrounds herself, I know she’s new in the industry. But there’s lots of shady people who have no good intentions. I don’t think he even apologized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:05 AM
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I’ve talked about how my dad is in this sub a few times. He was pretty much a narcissist and abusive. Yeah he worked hard, provided for the family, bought me a brand new car yadda yadda ya. My mother enabled his behavior and has started to pick up some of his narc actions. He wasn’t emotionally there. Never really support my brother and I’s interests. It was always his interested and what he “thought was best”. He has bad anger issues, threatened my brother and I with a knife and chair when he g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:57 AM
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Reading his bio already drains my energy. Ick. I’d swipe left after the first line. He’s definitely one of those Asian guys that looks down on Asian girls that date White guys. I can’t stand them ugh. Very concerning he decided to put that as a starter. And Mr. - at least those Kpop idols/guys take care of themselves and their skin. They might be feminine in the western world eyes but they sure as hell look 10x better than you do. Also , he airs out his business. Not good. And “here for friends”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:34 AM
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Scorpio , Sagittarius , Cancer , Taurus, and Aquarius (even though I’m one myself 😭) I attract so many Scorpios and Sagittariuses I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:13 AM
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Yup. I’m learning to implement it into my daily life. Friendships. Friendships with girls and guys. Luckily, my school situation last year made me cut off the few girls I’ve been friends with for a few years. Looking back, I’m glad I did and stuck it out being alone. I have a problem with wanting to “fix” people but I know I can’t. One friend was such a big pick me , always talked about boys, wanting to be in a relationship, talked down and criticized other girls. She found these two older guys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:05 AM
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These celebrity men , famous men, men with money HAVE the money to go get facials, esthetician , afford skincare , get a personal chef / cook, and go to the gym or whatever to keep up but they choose not to do those things. They literally have the resources and money at the tips of their fingers. I don’t get why they don’t. Even celebrity women, famous women, and women with money choose to take care of their skin, get facials, consult an esthetician, learn to cook, and put effort into themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:38 AM
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I hope this is a joke 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:20 AM
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I feel so sick. That’s sickening. So sickening. These are men in military and they act like that 🤮🥴😖karma’s going to work itself into their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:08 AM
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Potato are amazing and too goodthough, they don’t deserve to be called potatoes😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:41 AM
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Ahh shit here we go again. It’s the same dude !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:27 AM
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I’ve seen so many ads of her videos under the videos I watch and ughhhh. I can’t. I could barely get through her “why you should dress modestly” or whatever video. There was so many things wrong with the video and the way she delivered the message. And they also showed the conservative woman ones. apparently, she’s Ben Shapiro’s sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:16 AM
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Dangelowallace has a great analysis on Shane Dawson. I still can’t believe some people are excusing or defending his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:29 AM
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I watched this last night, I’m so happy for her. If you watch her interviews you’ll know she’s struggled with depression (hence why most of her previous songs are depressing / relatable to a bunch of teenagers). She’s at a new chapter and place in her life :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:52 PM
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Yeah, like that’s not creepy at all. Totally not creepy some random stranger asks if you have a bf. Just normal everyday things. Do they not think it over in their head before they do things ??? The other day I was on a drive with a friends older sister and I was driving. I stopped at the yield sign because I saw a car coming. This car was driving kind of slow but when the car saw my car , this older White dude (He was in his 50s, maybe mid 50s , white hair, unkept facial hair, has his windows d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:36 AM
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Me too ! I think someone posted one of her tweets the other day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:01 AM
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her skin looks better than yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:43 AM
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I stopped reading after “10 years”. 10 years for what sis😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:40 AM
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All these rappers agreeing and uplifting him...k🤮😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:31 AM
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My parents don’t know it , they don’t realize how they are/how they treat my little brother and I since we were kids. In some ways “it’s gotten better”. Meaning there’s no more of my dad kicking, threatening us with a knife, or threatening to drop a chair over us. He still has his anger issues and explodes like a volcano. He psychologically and emotionally abused me and my brother. My brother has more physical abuse in his childhood than I did (barely gotten any because I saw how he acted and av…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:58 AM
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Yes. You’re onto something. Especially with our brains being undeveloped. Not knowing what to do with it (he crushes liking us back). Crushes are so weird as a kid and teen. You really can’t do much during dating as teen/being bf - gf. I mean, where are you going to go ? You have school almost everyday + sports (if they play). Money is also a huge factor in dates. Transportation. Oh and can’t forget the emotions you’re going through and trying to sort out. I haven’t seen many teens go out on act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:44 AM
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Thank you for posting about this. I haven’t been on Instagram lately (since I’ve been on a social media break) so I don’t know a lot about what’s been happening. My heart hurts and feels for the Turkish women. I wonder if they have any women organizations over there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:38 AM
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He does know how things work in the dating world right ? Who messages someone “hey I’m talking to someone right now. if that doesn’t work out , can we talk later?” No one wants be a second choice or third choice ; or left on the back burner stove , when your first meal has been burned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:14 AM
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I wish there was more women filmmakers and more women in charge of movies and such 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:54 PM
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Huh. Excuse me ?? Also, apart of this idea he’s talking about I feel like is because there’s been girls ; specifically some teen girls saying after a guy likes her, she stops liking him. For some odd reason, I don’t know why. Just an food for thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:52 PM
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FDS needs a meme page 😂 ooo and gifs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 11:33 PM
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Nah. You deserve better. He lied. Also , I’m on and off of Yubo. I’m not on it too often. I’ve met a few good guys on there. Ones that don’t ask for nudes and actually converse. But now most of them gone. And that place becomes more toxic everyday. The lives there - oh my. Some of them degrade girls. It’s the teen central for nudes and toxicity and clout chasers. Most of the guys (as you probably already know) want nudes or are dry af and don’t even try to talk with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:00 AM
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This was such a rude comment he made to you. I don’t understand why needs to be rude and criticize your physical features. No woman would want to respond to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:48 AM
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A absolute DREAM 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:27 AM
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I don’t get this. Help them with what? Men need to lean to work on self development and leveling up themselves. Self care. Which is a forever thing you keep doing in your life. Be aware of your emotions, thoughts, actions, habits, things you do in life, what are you doing to better yourself ? Take care of your body, skin, and health. They don’t need a woman to tell them. They shouldn’t. You are an adult , you should be able to think for yourself and realize what you’re doing. A HVM won’t have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:17 AM
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Omfg. Did y’all know that Trump called a group of moms in Portland in the protest a “scam”? They were standing between the protestors and federal agents he sent In there. Because the federal agents Trump sent in were spraying protestors and hurting them. Even the mayor attended the protest and got sprayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:07 AM
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Started this path last year. Dual enrollment forced me to be alone. It was hard at first but January of this year I started to accept it more and I’m working on discovering myself. Preparing for my senior year and college. Looking for a job. Lost / cut off friends. It’s been quite peaceful. I’m learning to have boundaries and finding what I want in a friend. There’s still a long way to go though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:01 AM
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Yes ! They’re so pretty ! Please tell us op!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:57 AM
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Ugh, I’m so glad someone else understands. I thought I was ridiculous for ending the friendship for that. And I would hope someone who’s white that marries or dates a BIPOC would understand it. The sad thing is that last time we talked he had started talking to this girl on tinder and they were planning on meeting up but she’s Asian...I don’t know what’s happened with them or if they’re still talking since I unfollowed him. Going along with what you said , I think they don’t want to feel the “wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:12 PM
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It’s so important to protect our energy ! I’ve gotten so used to doing it , like you said , I don’t feel bad anymore for leaving the conversation if I feel like it’s dry, bland, or boring. Because I can talk about anything , I will bring up anything but if you won’t try or show you want to talk/make the effort , I will leave. Wish you the best of luck queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:30 AM
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Most of them started liking me or asking me for nudes. There was a COUPLE that were purely platonic and I genuinely enjoyed talking to them. Sadly, the friendships ended because one dude has not bothered to answer my text and I’m sure he’s with his gf (he seems super happy and I’m happy for him he’s not in a toxic relationship) but he’s gonna ignore the friendship we had for two years. While he was detained (some old dude had touched his gf in the bathroom and he messed him up), I waited to talk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:02 AM
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Is there anything you recommend ? I’ve been looking for some stun guns and tasers since I’m very short and look like an easy target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:50 AM
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WHAT. THE. ACTUAL. FUCK. DID. I. JUST. READ. I wanna throw up. There’s so many wrong things in that paragraph. I can’t stand people like this - “race mixing”. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with interracial marriage/dating/ or mixed babies. I’m Asian and I’ve seen on some Asian subs here that Asian men despise, resent, hate when Asian women date a white man. They assume the white guy is a white supremacist or racist or has yellow fever or the woman has self internalized racism. Yes, those thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:35 AM
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This is so messed up in so many ways. It really bothers me she/ he took away and limited and restricted what she LOVED to do. The mother doesn’t care about her daughters future. Shes probably going to resent her mother for this and remember. Trying out for orchestra at 15?? When I was 15, I had no idea what I was doing nor was I doing anything like that. That is such a big opportunity , her trying out and possibly getting out into orchestra at 15 can open many paths and opportunities for her. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:21 AM
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Someone needs to do this 😩 and open a whole plethora of gyms like this across America. Maybe it’s just me but I feel more comfortable working out around women. I wonder if they’re any women only gyms in America, if so I haven’t heard or seen them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:59 AM
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Ooo where did you get it ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:14 AM
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That’s good. And yeah there’s many more like them out there , groupchats, discord servers, it’s so disgusting. It needs to stop, women’s bodies are not Pokémon cards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:08 AM
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Thank you !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:16 PM
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I think society is starting it trying to normalize men with emotions. Sad it took this long. Most of them talk about surface level topics, never anything they’re dealing with underneath the surface and what they show. I had this dude one time just unload all the things that happened to him (back when I was a pickme and offered my free therapist services 🤡). I’m sorry those things happened to him and he went through all that. He told me doesn’t trust his own best friend and his best friend did so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:52 AM
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I see. I live in a small country town full of country guys. I’m sorry he was unappreciative of your gift. Sucks he didn’t see the effort , time , and thought into the gift. What an asshole. Didn’t even say thank you. Smh. At least you recognized it before it was too late. You deserve better queen ! Goodness, I’m glad we both recognized our mistakes and pickmeisha tendencies. I don’t know about you but I’m still recovering. And I have a tendency to care and put in a lot more effort in the beginni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:43 AM
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Unfortunately, there’s been lots of incidents and reports men in the military that do this. Such a shame. Even the US military guys. A little piece of history when American soldiers went to Vietnam to fight, some of them ended up hooking up with Vietnamese women. I don’t know the whole history behind it though. Soldiers taping children and women has been thing for a long time :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:37 AM
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I don’t know. Probably none💀 A lot of European countries allow teens as young as 14/15 (with parents permission) to drink sooo with that alone there’s a chance of constant drinking or alcoholism (not saying all guys but you get the point). Also some countries have cultures with very misogynistic guys (again not all) and who believe and benefit off the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:32 AM
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It’s been around for quite awhile. Teen guys say to the girls that hype up or compliment girls when they post say it’s fake. Men always criticize women’s friendships saying they’re catty or jealous or it’s shallow. They even criticize when women compliment, support, and uplift other women. They say it’s shallow or we’re being fake to each other. It’s ridiculous🙄 they probably don’t compliment their friends because it’s “gay” in their eyes or don’t hold their friends accountable of their actions/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:14 AM
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This post was simply more focused on the message. Bratz and Barbie dolls were IT in the early 2000s I loved them as a kid. I know some parents during that time may have seen Bratz dolls as being sexual and didn’t approve of the makeup. But the kids that played with them probably didn’t care about that. They were fun to play with and diverse. BIPOC women that grew up during that era loved seeing a doll that was diverse and maybe looked like them. Bratz brought diversity to the table unlike Barbie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:53 AM
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Has this been reported or tipped to the FBI??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:44 AM
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Ohhh man. I had my fair share of this in middle school and high school. When I practically left my high school in my junior year for dual enrollment, I realized what an idiot I was back in those times. Like you said, I gave them gifts, did things for them, interact and talk with them, and even brought them Asian food (the dude I liked at the time was interested in Travel, cultures, and different food). I don’t like the word simp nor do I like to use; but dang , I was a girl simp. Funny thing is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:22 AM
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Ever since I stopped talking to guys, my life has been more peaceful and I feel more at ease. Sure my life isn’t perfect and I’m trying my best to level up and get through quarantine and my senior year. Quite honestly , it’s just a mess out there right now. Guys are bored because of quarantine, wanting nudes etc. if I’m going to be completely honest, I barely have any energy to talk to guys. I feel drained. I lost a couple of my close guy friends. After a few things that have happened. And when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:10 AM
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Thank you for the tip ! Stocks are a bit confusing (to be fair I haven’t done my full thorough research yet ) but FDS has financial queens so I thought I ask. I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:21 AM
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Oh wow , thank you so much for the information! That was super helpful. Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:20 AM
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Hmm. I agree he should’ve listened, clearly it’s a topic you care about and something that affects you. Even if he didn’t know what Asians go through , he can still choose to educate himself on it. There’s so many resources online; I’ve been seeing a lot more Instagram pages directed towards supporting Asians. Plus Instagram news/information pages for Asians (the news/media never covers us🙄).Or even on YouTube, Pierrexo has an excellent video (in my opinion) explaining the issues and struggles A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:10 AM
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Yess. That show is so good! That was one of my favorite episodes. The children and mother were beautiful and the children had a bright future ahead of them. It’s rumored he fled (?) to Italy and there’s been spotting a of him. I think. I feel like he wouldn’t kill himself because didn’t he still have some money leftover ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:44 AM
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I’m guessing you’re in Canada since you mentioned provinces. There were so many red flags there oh my. good for you for getting yourself out of that situation! You said in the beginning he supports Anti - Racism but He 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘥 your feelings about the hate crimes towards Asians. And only cares when it comes to Black issues. Huh? Make it make sense 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:39 AM
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Thank you !! You did an awesome job explaining it where it was simple and understandable. Please do more posts (if you like) op!! I would love to see more posts like this more in FDS. My bus101 professor talked about stocks and we did a group assignment on stocks (super simple) but it was still confusing to me. I really want to get into stocks but I don’t know about it enough. Are there any resources like books, websites, YouTube channels, or apps you recommend to further learn about stocks? Als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:05 AM
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Nah. I’d say , “okay”🤷🏻‍♀️and I’d be gone in a spilt banana second. I’m never going chase someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:46 PM
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Look at you go girl 😍👏🏼 honestly this how I’m striving to be in the future ! How’d you do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 11:20 PM
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My dad in a nutshell. How did you deal living with him/interactions? Unfortunately, I cannot move out yet. It gets harder every month and year. Since I’ve recognized his behavior is not normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:34 AM
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It’s a disease that’s all over Tik Tok and spread by Tik Tok fuck boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:55 AM
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My father is a LVM / narc. Yeah sure he works hard , pays some bills and insurances, does some work around the house. But he could’ve a lot more. Could’ve gone to college and gotten a better job that isn’t so physical. He’s smart and has the brains but I don’t know what’s stopping him. It’s never too late to further your education , even if you immigrated. My bus101 class had a 60 year old lady in it and she was working as a manager at a fast food place while getting her degree. He is verbally/e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:47 AM
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Imagine if she put all that energy/time/effort into herself and her career, oh the places she would go 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:59 AM
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What show is this? This looks funny lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:27 AM
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Fucking men. Ick. There’s high chance he fetishizes Asians too🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:26 AM
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Omg. The poor girl , she’s so young :( she was manipulated by him. I hope she gets out of it and leaves his dusty crusty ass. Most teenage boys only have one thing with their mind and think with one thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:33 AM
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I needed this , thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:30 AM
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Tf. Transphobic ? How is FDS transphobic?!! I do my daily FDS reading / checkup daily each day. And I read most the posts and the comments on here and I’ve never seen a transphobic comment/s. You’re reaching dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:23 AM
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Sooo..no Alfredo 😂 ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:21 AM
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You’re tall 😭 maybe it’s an ego thing ? If you were the same height as him, you would’ve been at the same level as him. If you weren’t and you were taller , well you know. Most men’s ego are fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:08 AM
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Dang y’all are tall😭 meanwhile I’m standing here with my 5’1 self. But yeah I think that’s true for the most part. There’s plenty of tall guys out there and women shorter than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:06 AM
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I used to talk to a guy that smoked weed daily. Back then and still now I won’t date a guy that does drugs or drinks. Why would I date someone who dies drugs and drinks if I don’t ? It doesn’t make any sense. I think it’s disgusting , personally. But I don’t know why I swayed my standards for him. I told him that I don’t date guys that do drugs or drinks. And he was like why yards yadda. Anyways, he told me it was for his depression. Apparently it was just CBD weed or something like that, I don’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:46 AM
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Brad , Bradley , Andrew , Nicholas , Kaden, or JOSH . Hell no to Josh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:19 AM
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Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:16 AM
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I heard Disney portrayed Tarazan in a different light than the actual story. That’s what I remembered from my college history class. I haven’t read the actual story of Tarazan (not the Disney version). But he was apparently not as good of a guy as Disney made him seem. Disney definitely romanizes a lot of things that shouldn’t be romanized or seen as okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:46 AM
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MY EYES ARE BURNING 😭😭 does he really think any girl is going to swipe on him with THAT bio and pic??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:08 AM
2

Happy cake day luv !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:41 AM
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Yup. No one tells us to work on ourselves and love ourselves when it is the most important thing. It’s hard to be in a relationship with someone when you don’t know yourself or love yourself. It’s just a risky area to go into when you haven’t worked on those things. Even if you have , you have to continuously work on yourself. I never understood people who rely on people, continuously in relationships, or looking for validation from other people. I think it comes from a place of insecurity and “…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:05 PM
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Exactly. I’m fine with that by all means. As long as I don’t get sucked into a toxic, abusive relationship. I don’t think marriage is everything nor is it a necessity in life. I know some people’s opinions might differ from mine but it’s okay. If I happen to meet a HVM , I meet a HVM. If I don’t, well I hope I have a good career, am continuously working on myself to be a HVW, travelled, achieved my goals and dreams and such. There’s more to life than marriage or “finding the one”. I don’t like h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:28 AM
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okay. Says you 🙄 she’s absolutely gorgeous meanwhile...here’s a mirror hun. Go look at yourself first before commenting on her appearance !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:25 AM
2

How many men can proudly say: “I take care of my skin, body, mental and physical health”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:22 AM
1

Ha. Men are already balding in their 20s/30s. Funny thing is I plan to shave my head (and wear wigs occasionally) in the later future to regrow my hair , maybe that’ll be a repellent for all the LVM / NVM and scrotes. Also , women look good with shaved heads. I’m just saying. They rock that shit. You can’t tell me other wise. I saw a super attractive young woman with a shaved head , she has tattoos all over , beautiful face structure, and skin. I’ve also seen another young woman with alopecia* (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:52 AM
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Not a joke. He’s probably thought of her more unfortunately. Your intuition is trying to tell you something, listen to it. Get away from him when you’re able to right now.. It’s not funny. And you’re clearly hurt by this , he probably didn’t acknowledge how hurtful the comment could be to you. A HVM would never say that. You’re a queen , know your place, know your worth, know what you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:48 AM
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He’s already gotten casual sex. He’s going to expect more. That’s how men are. Men, guys, boys, dudes. You give them an inch , they’ll want a yards length. Back in my pickmeisha days , I used to send partial nudes (I know shame on me, now I know better and my worth). I used to send some to this guy and when i said no and wanted to stop. He said to me “cmon why not one more for me to keep or show me one last time.” Also, he would tell me that he could get off to me even without a picture or somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:08 AM
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That is true. I’ve seen it happen with many older women in my own life like a close family friend of ours. She had a husband who had many health problems , heart problems really. She always looked after him and all that. But before he retired he was a farmer and didn’t like to travel. So she went on trips by herself or stayed home (she loved to travel). Years later after he had died, she married a guy she met on a group cruise and now they travel a lot together. She seems happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:05 AM
5

Ugh I love that song. When I was driving to and from my school, I would blast that song all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:01 AM
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I’ve had personal experience with this. Not dating guys with abusive or neglected childhoods but my dad’s childhood wasn’t the best. I feel like my mom just married him and she said she’s “okay” with him because he doesn’t drink, do anything bad, and supports the family. His dad drank , gambled, never helped the family, and slept with other women. Yeah , my dad helps me financially. You’re supposed to, it’s the law. But other than doing the bare minimum , my other needs have never been met. Masl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:58 AM
2

You just summed up my dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:50 AM
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What. The. Fuck. Why is he even married ?? Not satisfied or not getting enough validation from his wife huh. Being married is not enough ?? Sounds like the dude needs to do some soul searching. Someone should find his wife and tell her. This is a slap in the face to her , she needs to get out ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:46 AM
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Very true. I agree wholeheartedly. I told my mom I probably wasn’t going to get married (I’m pretty young but I really don’t see myself getting married, finding a HVM, or wanting a man). She said to me “who’s going to take care of you when you’re older?”. I don’t know , MYSELF ??! I’ll have my cute dogs and cats by my side. Or my adopted children with grandchildren to visit me. Or go travel or fill up my time with plenty of other activities. I just don’t know if I have any hope for men. My fathe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:21 AM
4

I loved that video 🥺 her personality really shined in that one ! I guess that’s true. She’s barely in her mid twenties and some twenty year olds date older men in their 30s and 40s. “Age is just a number”, “love has no limits” , “love is love”🙄 It’s really strange how similar how her father and bf look similar, like eerily similar. Hopefully she’ll come to realize it one day or someone will tell her straight up. I don’t know why society has normalized younger women in their twenties dating older…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:10 PM
4

I almost cried reading this. Such a sweet and beautiful story :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:25 AM
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Guess he doesn’t need her if “that’s all I have”. She’s better off without him since his game is his whole life. You can do better sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:33 AM
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I love Florence Pugh (she did an amazing job in Little Women) but when I saw she was dating him , my eyes bugged out 😭 she’s so beautiful and has an amazing personality (from what I’ve seen , I watched this video of her eating different foods). There has been controversy over it but she’s brushed off the comments. I think she’s addressed it on her Instagram in a video post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:13 AM
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All he has to do is watch HIS CHILD he had with HER !! Wtf. There are so many things you can do with your child to keep them entertained. There’s literally no excuses for him. And he’s unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:49 AM
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That’s so cool!! I just discovered her today. I can’t wait to see what else she puts out and I’m so happy to see more Black artists coming out with this type of music !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:46 AM
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Probably some Hentai thing. Or some fantasy fetish thing. I try to avoid guys with anime characters in their pictures. I find that a lot of guys that like anime tend to fetishize Asian women. And goodness I don’t need anymore of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:43 AM
2

Honestly I can testify that young women don’t want older dudes as I am one that doesn’t want an older dude. It just seems weird to me. Also, just because they’re older doesn’t mean they’re any more mature than younger guys or they want a mommy gf or wifey gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:09 AM
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I agree ! I went through a abusive childhood. I’m planning on getting therapy and work on it+myself. My father was far from a good father figure. It honestly has made me afraid of men and to trust them. After reading all these horror stories on FDS, I’d rather stay single. And focus on my education, future career, goals, and hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:04 AM
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I feel bad for her. He’s basically using her. The amount of money spent on him and the TIME she’ll never get back 😭 Boy , where’s your bread ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:56 AM
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All I gotta say is society has got to stop making this stuff seem like “normal relationships”. These types of relationships aren’t healthy at all. Been long done with their run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:49 AM
2

He’s telling you how it is. Leave girl. It’s not what you want. Don’t forget men marry on their own terms, when they’re ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:59 PM
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We need to stop going to the “build a man” store. No. They need to do it on their own. Change can only come from within and from themselves. I’ve come across so many LVM and the one thing almost all of them had in common was low self esteem , confidence, their happiness was dependent on other people (girls) etc. I remember I used to talk to this guy and I had this “thing” with him (back in my pick me days, I’m still recovering). He told me about his past relationships , he was cheated on multipl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:21 PM
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yes ! This is how strive to be when I’m older. And her skin looks amazing for her age , wow !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:10 PM
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The boys. You’re 25. I don’t doubt he has a “Saturday’s are for the boys” flag. I wonder why you’ve been ghosted for the past two years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:28 AM
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Oh my. I’m getting so many flashbacks. I don’t why I accepted them or was okay with it at all. I was such a pick me and they were all LVM😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:16 AM
1

Holy. Cheese. Balls. What kind of fuckery. I would leave him too. He deserved that. He said she knows he thinks his spin instructor is hot. Probably has thought about having sex or doing something with her. Probably has had thoughts about her too... really concerning his spin instructor was the first person to come to his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:17 AM
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THE DISRESPECT! You put the the dude in his place ! But I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself and knowing it wasn’t right. Also Asian snacks are so good :) I love seeing people being excited and taking about something they love, it’s so cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:08 AM
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Ahh I love this. It’s one of my personal goals in life to buy my own house (maybe even custom) or even being able to live in a pretty apartment overlooking the big city. Or maybe a condo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:52 AM
2

I feel violated and scared 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:44 PM
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I saw this and it made me smile ! Not many people stick up for Asians and there’s been a rise of Hate crimes against Asians in California.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:49 PM
2

I can feel the “Girls aren’t funny” “Women aren’t funny” vibes from these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:14 PM
1

I’m scared 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:22 AM
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🤮🤮🤮Absolutely disgusting and unacceptable. Reddit takes down the female subs but doesn’t take down these subs ?? SO MANY girls are sexualized on Tik Tok already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:42 AM
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It makes me sad to see how some Black men treat Black women. There was this video of a bunch of Black guys throwing a Black woman into a dumpster. After that video was circled around in social media, she got a makeover and got her makeup and hair done and she looked so happy! Black women have always been at the lower latter of society unfortunately. I don’t understand why anyone would want to date a Black men who hates their own women. Black women are so beautiful ! Poppin melanin queens 👑😍 And …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:55 AM
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A Black woman defended herself and killed a man who sexually abused her and many other woman. She saved many woman from getting sexually abused. But she got sentenced to life in prison because she killed the man (who was white).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:43 AM
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I don’t think I can be friends with boys anymore tbh. All the guys I’ve been “friends” with have tried to use for for nudes and in the end they end up ignoring me and coming to me when it’s only continent. I remember telling this guy no (I used to send him half body nudes, yes I know it’s terrible but I had an awakening and told myself I won’t do it anymore, it’s not healthy, they always want more) and I kept saying no and no and he would leave me alone and kept asking. he kept saying how porn i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:17 AM
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This reminds me of Kehlani’s song Everybody Business and she also had a short excerpt of the beginning called belong to the streets skit. 8in the song and skit, the guys were like she has a new guy and she’s posting it , so it’s our business. the girl was arguing with them. And the guys said she’s for the streets. The girl said back so just because she’s posting about a new guy, she belongs to the streets. And they said “she belongs to the streets”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:11 AM
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I’d swipe left after the shower 2x a week😭😭 even advertising that - I - I’m starting to think people need basic hygiene classes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:12 PM
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Reading that post almost made me threw up🤮🤮 such a LVM , what a disgrace ick. The audacity he has to say that- I can’t. Your wife carried your children for months, endured a lot of pain and uncomfortableness, and you think that about her!? Messed up! How does he think he came to be ? Pregnancy is not easy. Women’s bodies are so beautiful and they go through so much, it’s amazing what we can go through. Periods, pregnancy. I feel bad for her, she probably doesn’t even know he thinks that :( The w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:25 PM
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Lmao who has the time for this. The women definitely aren’t hung over the fact that you haven’t responded , they’re doing other things, and many men message them already 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 08:13 AM
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I feel like we’re the same person 😂 jc , are you an Aquarius?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:42 PM
1

I don’t care if other women don’t shave or not, not my choice or place. Personally, I don’t like hair on myself (I know it’s natural but I just don’t like the feeling of it). But I shave my armpits, legs (surprisingly the legs on my hair are thin even though I have black hair), and my hooha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:28 AM
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The fact that he mentioned “he won’t settle less than an asian cream pie” - as an asian I’m disgusted🤮🤮. P*rn really brings out the fetishization in women and increases it. Asian women in general are fetishized a lot, this isn’t helping it. I’m not your fantasy sex object toy person !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:01 PM
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What show is this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:49 PM
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