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Fundamentals that-dreamer/r/seduction06/05/25 01:12 PM
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Fundamentals that-dreamer/r/seduction05/05/25 08:04 PM
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Seems like splitting hairs. Get some social awareness and push an inch and see if she responds or pulls away. Adjust accordingly.
/r/seduction15/05/25 02:02 PM
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Yeah in my opinion, filters and makeup actually catfish way harder on the dating apps than AI, which is trained to actually look like you. Anyway, disclaimer I'm the founder, but I use https://www.dreamlens.me/ photos on my app profile and I'm getting way better success now if you want to try it out yourself.
/r/seduction10/05/25 05:51 PM
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It's controversial, but coming from another guy who never has good photos of himself, you could consider using AI to generate photos
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:47 PM
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How long have you been seeing her? If it's been awhile it probably wasn't your text
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:33 PM
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If they look like you, why is it crazy?
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:32 PM
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Get 'em onto a date. There's no point of just texting forever and they'll get tired of texting some guy they don't know.
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:11 PM
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I feel like this makes it more complicated than it needs to be. It basically means don't censor yourself for other people. If you're pissed, act like it. If you need something, ask for it. If you don't want to do something, say no.
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:06 PM
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I have this theory that apps also throttle your rating when you're swiping somewhere you're not physically in. If you think about it, nobody wants to match with someone who's a million miles away so the apps probably want to discourage it. I noticed a big difference setting my location to a city vs actually being there.
/r/seduction07/05/25 04:36 PM
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Why don't you just... meet women closer?
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:31 AM
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Yep, they work surprisingly well. One of our users swapped out all of his pics for AI ones and his matches skyrocketed overnight. If you search, there are DIY tutorials out there for training your own AI but they're pretty technical. That's why we created Dreamlens, so anyone can just upload a few selfies and easily get started generating good pics.
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:04 PM
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Fair enough, I can understand the skepticism. But these are indeed the trends that we observed from our users. Always down to learn more, so what would your tips be for improving your profile?
/r/seduction06/05/25 05:48 PM
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Thanks for sharing! Always appreciate hearing the other side's thoughts :)
/r/seduction06/05/25 05:07 PM
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Fair enough, but a lot of good looking guys shoot themselves in the foot with bad pics. There are even some in this thread.
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:09 PM
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Very true. Apps have a very high noise to signal ratio. That being said, they also let you collect opportunities with pretty minimal effort by just swiping on some girls. Just like businesses want multiple channels of acquisition to maximize prospects, the apps can pair up with approaching or meeting girls through social circles. Since improving my pictures, apps have become a much bigger proportion of the dates I go on though.
/r/seduction06/05/25 03:45 PM
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Well, what's your alternative lol? It's not like you can just get a car right now (nor should you get a car just to impress a girl...) so you may as well shoot your shot and if she turns you down because of that then so be it.
/r/seduction06/05/25 03:23 PM
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Sounds like I need to get those muscles They indeed do very well. My one picture of biceps filling out a shirt sleeve became my top liked photo within a few days. In any case, getting jacked will help in all areas of your life! Is it important to show your height too? I don't think showing height in pictures is that important. Just tilting the camera up and down can change the appearance of height significantly so having it in your profile is fine.
/r/seduction06/05/25 02:49 PM
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I won't lie, it's pretty hard for short guys on the apps because they're so superficial. That being said, I know guys who are below average height who are absolutely cleaning up in real life so it's not game over by any means.
/r/seduction06/05/25 02:46 PM
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AI trained on his face to generate pictures from scratch. Check my profile or DM me if you'd like to know more.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:40 PM
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Very important. Compare the guy who walks in with two stunners on his arm while everyone tries to say hi vs the guy who walks in and nobody even makes eye contact. Hell these days, people will line up for shit just because they see other people lining up lol
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:38 PM
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Good pics, good pics, good pics. And maybe some pithy one-liner for your Tinder bio. I'm actually writing a guide about good pics right now, so watch for that soon.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:29 PM
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Don't want to be overly promotional and violate subreddit rules, so feel free to check my profile or DM me.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:28 PM
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Need more detail to fully understand what's happening. What was one recent conversation that went badly, what did you say and how did she react? I’m not always the one chasing, but actually being pursued? I want to say that when it comes to dating women, you'll often feel this way until like 3+ dates when they're really into you. So maybe it just comes down to expectation management? Until they're really down bad for you, the most interest you'll get is their openness to your advances, but activ…
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:17 PM
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You don't need to be that good looking. I know a guy who's decent but not exceptionally handsome who has girls sliding into his DMs constantly. Granted he does use AI photos but still replicable by a friend who's good at taking pics.
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:07 PM
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I tend to make the conversation too logical Probably this tbh. Women do not want to debate about the economy. They want to laugh and feel butterflies. Make the conversation about them, talk about what kind of guys they like and tease 'em if they approached you: "so do you always pick up guys at the bar or am I special" That and if the conversation fizzles you're probably not escalating physically enough. Touch her arm, lean in, grab her hand and lead her somewhere you can sit close together, the…
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:04 PM
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If you have her IG, then slide in on one of her stories. It's very socially acceptable and can break the ice to a flirty conversation
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:53 PM
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this is crazy lol. has just straight up saying "we should fuck" actually worked for you?
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:52 PM
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the onlyfans ads are getting crazier by the day
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:51 PM
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some light physical contact Yeah this is your issue. You need to be like straight up making out with them to get 'em to agree to come over lol
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:49 PM
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Best advice I got was actually to keep things simple. The human race has not died out yet so our ancestors somehow figured out how to convince girls to sleep with them without asking reddit for reassurance for every minute detail Shocker, but turns out that girls do actually like men so all it really takes is not being weird, making her laugh a little, and not being afraid to put your arm around her.
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:45 PM
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Yeah absolutely. It turns out that most advice is either situational or too general ("just be confident"). You have to find what works for you, your personality, your location, your type of girl. The only way to find out what works is to get out there, talk to some baddies, and get your ass cooked until you learn.
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:42 PM
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Dating apps are basically designed for this. If your profile is strong then you can get dates wherever you go and the technique is the same as apps anywhere Go out. Go with your traveling group or meet some people at your hostel to some bars or clubs. Find a cute girl and tell her you think she's cute and offer to buy a drink, then standard escalation from there Warm circles. Going back to the hostel situation, if there's someone cute you think is cute, then try to go out with them all as a grou…
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:37 PM
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There's no seduction mind-game conversational loop de loops here. She told you exactly where she is with her boundaries. If you want to keep enjoying her presence, you need to commit to her. So either commit to her, or lose her. Why don't you want to commit to her?
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:54 PM
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A fun one I like to do is squat down to their eye level and say "wow people actually live like this"
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:51 PM
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Not legit. Look around, most guys are pretty mid looking. Even fewer guys have enough money for that to make a difference. Yet, the human race hasn't died out and (most) guys do end up hooking up/finding a relationship/whatever their goal is. The power of a good conversation.
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:56 AM
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If you already know her, it shouldn't be weird to join her conversation. Even better if she's talking to some other people you know. Try to catch her when there's a medium sized group (like 4 or more) so it wouldn't be weird for you two to have a breakout conversation 1:1. From there it's just standard escalation: tease her, touch her arm. If she's into it, it's a straight pathway to getting your arm around her then asking her to get out of there.
/r/seduction02/05/25 04:46 AM
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