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| 59 | I’ve had more intriguing conversations with cats at this point. How many dates will I go on where a guy believes the date went swimmingly, and the whole time I never got a word in edgewise? oy veyReminds me of a show where 2 girls (garfunkel and oats) went on a double date and bet that if they didn't talk, the guys wouldn't notice. Dates ended up going super well but the guys thought they were both couldn't talk but turned out it was the best relationship the guys ever had... yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 06:22 AM |
| 14 | On the topic of snooping wanted to repost this to show y’all how guys manipulate you in not snooping - also FYI the guy in the vid is mocking the guys who do thisI haven't snooped on all my ex's but found shit on the ones I did snoop on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 3 | To the fuckers who say this shit.Or, have you notice so many guys stay with "crazy girls" or in toxic relationships only because "the sex was amazing!!" And everyone just accepts that excuse. I'd love to see the outrage in scrote's eyes when you tell them you stayed with a Chad for the sex... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:02 AM |
| 51 | The single demographics in the US and why young men are angryThis! I had a Haitian friend tell me Haitian men are always single no matter what and the day after they are married "yeah, I'm married, but its not going well..." and queue the pity party to get a girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:40 PM |
| 39 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthNo, but its sexy... cause they look rugged! Like an old beaten leather bad... so sexy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:16 PM |
| 70 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie charactersI admit I didn't like skylar in the first few episode but her reactions quickly became justified. I remember having this discussion with a friend and telling "I don't blame her for leaving him. She had a baby to think of and a husband who kept lying to her and she just discovered he had A SECOND PHONE!!" Doesn't matter that he was "doing it for her", her kept her in the dark. I follow a few sub about shows I like and you can tell right away who's misogynistic by how they react to female characte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:18 AM |
| 42 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie characters"Its just that they made Captain Marvel too strong!!" Ergh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:10 AM |
| 6 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Sometimes the trash takes itself out. Honestly, I think guy have for years look online for tips on how to trick women into sex/relationships/gaslighting/manipulation and so on. I'm happy to see women finally sharing their stories/experiences/views so we can finally all learn from each other and prevent it. Guys are only going to get more desperate and aggressive for here on out so we really need to stick together ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 12:10 PM |
| 357 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Nice of you to assume he will pay for the $3 coffee. Chances are he will show up late so that she has no choice but to pay for her coffee so she can sit and wait (instead of standing around awkwardly) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Reality Bites was THE film of the 90s. Sadly, it groomed women into believing slacker types were cool and boyfriend worthy. It has taken me 20 years to realise Ethan Hawke's character was a SCROTE.I'm late leaving this but I Saw What You Did podcast made an episode about this movie and The Way We Were. The theme was Fuckboys. (Episode 6) Its a really funny podcast. I don't think it breaks and FDS rules. The 2 girls are quite empowering actually. Its my new favorite podcast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:30 AM |
| 10 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄From wiki cause I'm too lazy: The Proud Boys is a far-right, neo-fascist, and male-only white nationalist organization that promotes and engages in political violence in the United States and Canada. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:50 PM |
| 19 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄Isn't the CEO of vice (or creator) one of the leaders of the Proud Boys? Also Canadian... (I'm so ashamed as a Canadian) Edit: Gavin Miles McInnes, co founder of Vice and founder of Proud Boys.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 50 | INCELS KILL. FDS DOES NOT.From what I can tell. Fds is mostly again sex work but not sex workers. And no woman should have to deal with that trash. When it comes to sex work... I hate the players and the game, but I feel like the workers are just the cards, some have more value but in the end, they're just being played. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | RED FLAGS DONT LIE. Also: Research your suitors!Lol no. I'm not sure who that is or on what show but I don't want to give too many details. It's not in the US and its several years old. He was still proud enough to put in on his LinkedIn profile though.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 130 | If he can't get it up and blames you, kick him outThe worse worse part is that sex always ends there. None of those selfish bastard can take 5 minute and bring me to orgasm... Sex does not start and end with a man's erection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:15 AM |
| 13 | Lots of LVM in the comments, ofc.I remember that show. The main character was an ex basketball player, I think he was a coach on the show. It really stuck with me too. Media really pushes the "the ring doesn't matter" lesson to girls. That old Molly Brown movie did the same. I think he gave her a cigar ring as the ring... but ladies... he kept upgrading it so we gotta stay quiet and endure and one day we may be given what we deserve... but only maybe... and don't complain about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 12 | RED FLAGS DONT LIE. Also: Research your suitors!I do this all the time and always have. I freaedk out a lot of my girlfriend by all I found. Last guy I was talking to, I did a search and fell down a rabbit hole. Found out he was on a reality show years prior... 🤦♀️ spent the next day watching the show and ghosted him. He was such an asshole and douche on the show. Beforehand he complained about how girls just ghost him all the time... I found out why. Edit: grammar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:42 PM |
| 55 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsYeah, even when its shared custody, we all know which parents is keeping track of doctor and dentist appointments, haircuts and all the "boring" stuff. Same with allergies, anything to do with school that isn't fun (if the father likes sport, he may show up for games). I hate stories about men coming back years later and "being ready to be a father now" ... you missed all the hard stuff!! Of course you want to be a dad when its easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 35 | Y’all ever see something so true it lowkey makes you wanna cry because everything seems so hopeless?Yeah, you can tell that's a huge tendency these days with all the "mangina" porn. Its "straight" porn but with very small framed men and how than can be see as a vagina alternative... its disgusting. My friend's brother told me about this and how guys will approche him as last resort in bars. Its sad. Because gay men needed objectification too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 09:43 PM |
| 56 | It’s literally so funny to see how man react when genders are literally reversedMen are fully capable of being super loyal... to other men. Their are all super loyal to their bros. But as stated above, don't extend that loyalty to women as they don't see us as human but things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:17 PM |
| 57 | This Sub is so empowering that I can't stand other relationship subredditsAnd there's always a complaint about "this sub just always tells people to break up, so annoying" no shit, if you are relying on strangers to fix your problems... pretty sure the relationship is dead. I love that this sub encourages to walk away and block. Have you notice they never tell men they should communicate more... (or a lot less) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 60 | This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagram"When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags" Not sure if BoJack Horseman is FDS approved but its a hell of a show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 39 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.A quick Google search will show you that yes, it has been discredited. I looked it up after downvoted. That's likely why you are being discredited. Its not the most famous, I think its because a lot of shows/movies love to use it and we believe it's still true. Like "you only use 10% of you brains" Its like the story of the girl that got attacked and killed "and no one called the cops" A lot of people leave out variables like 911 didn't exist back then and at first it looked like she got away be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:24 PM |
| 158 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.Did this study get discredited? Didn't it come out that that lead scientist influence the guys being guards and some of the prisoners faked it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 31 | A summary of the Pickme: The Cool GirlThat one was amazing. Not what I expected at all. (I expected good but not the way the movie turned out) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:55 AM |
| 24 | So when a person states a boundary that makes them uncomfortable, suddenly they’re controlling and insecure. Porn is cancer."ED by age of 30" sounds so mean but taking into account that I've met a few of those guys, how can people not see that porn is so damaging. Having to give a man a BJ before sex every time so he can get hard is not normal... the fact that he is about to have sex should be enough. And no, I refuse to do BJ before sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 20 | FDS has ruined many songs for meMay I recommend angry women from the 90s?? A lot of songs about women sick of life (and men's) BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:09 PM |
| 68 | Men that are not taking COVID-19 seriously are LOW VALUE: What makes you think they'll respect virtual dates?A big point also is that there is no coming back from a home date. As soon as you go for a low key date, there will be no more real dates in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:37 PM |
| 32 | Love makes you look weak to men.Should write this on all public bathroom mirrors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:53 PM |
| 153 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenMen now grow up alongside girls who outperform them academically in school and college. There's been articles coming out for the last few years on how learning institutions are failing men because they are being left behind... dude, you build those institutions, and now just because men are #1 anymore, we have to change the way we teach? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:21 PM |
| 38 | OLD photos red flagsEven worse if it's a blunt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Banned on a Supposedly Feminist Subreddit for Giving Informative Information About VaginismusI don't know if it's related but recently in instagram it was revealed the IG @feminist (or something close) was led my a guy who works for a clothing company and was really just doing marketing. He was running other IG accounts of the same nature. Its crazy and love so many women out there digging out the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:52 PM |
| 29 | Give an inch and it tells them they can take a mile. Your boundaries are valid, and not up for discussion. All of them. No means no, and is a complete answer👏🏻Yup, Had 2nd date with a LVM. Gave him a kiss in the car before exiting the car. He didn't want me to leave and suggest he goes and park the car nearby for some fun. I told him no. He kept insisting. "Come on.. we won't do anything you don't want to do" Dude! I JUST SAID NO!!! I just left. Never answered his text again. They know they can slowly whittle you boundaries down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:01 PM |
| 47 | X post from r/whitepeopletwitterMy grandparent were married almost 70years.. yup! My grandmother was 14 when she married and had her first child at 15!! (They come from a very small town in Italy) I'm pretty convinced he beat her in the beginning... but where would she go? The moved countries a few times and eventually settled for Canada. Had 7 children in all... if she wanted to leave, where would she have gone? She had no other family! And 7 kids to feed (spread out over 20years but still) leaving was never an option back th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 64 | Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex.I think its a way of him avoiding coming out and saying what he really means because he knows he is in the wrong. He's just beating around the bush. They try to avoid saying what they think so bad that the text becomes senseless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 05:36 AM |
| 27 | Always give yourself the biggest pork chop,...always be as selfish as man!That was my first red flag about my ex. He burnt the steaks on the grill and gave me the most burnt one. I brought it up years later and he blamed my BBQ for burning the steaks but i think it was the way we were raised. My mom would always give us the best pieces and it was a sign of her love. His dad always kept the best pieces because he was the man. Ill keep giving the best pieces to the ones i love but will dump someone who doesn't do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 130 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.Or get killed for ignoring catcalls. Its a no-win situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:29 PM |
| 9 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereFrench Canadian here. Moved from Montréal to Toronto and i can strangely relate. Just on a smaller scale. It partially the move but also because I moved at age 30 and tinder was just starting out. I miss my French men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:40 AM |
| 9 | There you have it. Why movie dates are for LVM - they don't care enough to think of something to do AND they have awful social skills.I think a few of them just hoped you will fool around in the dark. I stop doing movie dates because of that and that its super awkward. Unless you have been going out for a while, its just a boring date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 9 | Feeling the need to dump your trauma is a form of codependency. Don’t tell romantic interests your traumas until you’ve vetted them with time and patience. Best case scenario is to never tell them at all.Can I point out how many LVM have done that to me within the first date!! So many men have dump their shit on my doorstep. I'm someone who exudes empathy (i know this) but not for that. I understand how they feel, sorry for you damage... but I am not cleaning it up or dating you. My worst first was a man tell me about his whole dating history to end the story with his last girlfriend killing herself and him having herpes... within 1hr of meeting him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:33 PM |
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