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Yeah you said that already. And you’re still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:01 AM
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With all due respect, you’re autistic and struggle socially. Of course you don’t see the value in human resource mgmt and marketing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:05 AM
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Don’t speak from the perspective of someone you can’t relate to. The fundamental, life-altering barriers in place for women to truly feel that way is a long list ranging from the maternal mortality rate to lack of social safety nets in most American states to our dying planet. There are very many valid reasons why women don’t want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:04 AM
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So your misguided opinion is backed by nothing. Figures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:36 AM
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Gay men do sex work often. There’s a market for it. Are they not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:31 AM
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You’re not. There’s no market for yall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:29 AM
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Give me one that says it’s legally expected. Most laws don’t define what something is not. They define what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:29 PM
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Expected is not the same as owed. Words mean things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:26 PM
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This sub is hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:23 PM
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Boohoo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:47 PM
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That’s easy to say when no woman is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:43 PM
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Hate that for them. Those men have terribly low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:07 PM
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Also, many men who are being “used” for sex hate it. It’s not a nice feeling on either end. I’ve had a couple fwbs come to an abrupt, upsetting end because they wanted something more serious and I did not. I was only modeling the behavior I learned from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:42 AM
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I am a scientist that studies this stuff. Biology and socialization all say that men and women, in fact, are different. Saying “equal rights” out of context doesn’t change that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:38 AM
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Nice and devoted but insecure, unambitious, boring, fearful & unfunny?? Do you think being nice and devoted is all a relationship requires?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:37 AM
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Let’s say I really didn’t have options, is the better choice to stay where I am unhappy? If you’re so disheartened by the fact that your current partner treated their ex better and won’t give you the same effort, is that better than being alone until someone willing to treat you how you want comes along? Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 10:06 PM
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Hey Sidian! Touch some grass!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:53 PM
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If a person is not happy with the level of investment from their partner in a relationship, it’s not noble to stay. It not worthy of applause. This applies to friendships as well. It is still goofy and weird to be overly concerned with how your current partner treated their ex unless someone was harmed. For example, many divorced men go back into the dating pool stating they’ll never get married again. It would be very goofy and weird of me to date a man who expresses no interest in marriage if …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:50 PM
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Where did this idea that men are expected to be in relationships with women that don’t want to have sex come from? I never said they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:46 PM
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You are a victim and I’m trying my damnedest. Yes, I’ve been on dating apps. The number of likes is not an indicator of valid options to choose from. A man can be homeless, married, a criminal, an addict, toothless, or a cult-following conspiracy theorist on a dating app. I’ve chatted with all of the above. That’s why I deleted them. There’s no substitute for real life connection and interaction. When you get off the apps and go outside you get a real view of the extent of your options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:45 PM
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You’ve let the manosphere fry your brain likely before you’ve even let your prefrontal cortex develop. I don’t blame you, I blame the Internet. But in real life women don’t have infinite options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:34 PM
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If there’s something I want out of a relationship that I’m simply not getting, I’m leaving the relationship. In your scenario, this guy was tricking off on expensive trips with an ex and there’s public information confirming that. If I ask him to go to an equally exotic place on the next trip and he declines by saying “I was more reckless with my finances back then. I felt taken advantage of because I didn’t get to know my partners well enough before investing in them financially. I want to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:24 PM
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Are you actually trying to conflate finding out a man is a criminal to finding out a woman had sex sooner in a previous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:18 PM
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I never denied that sex is important. I said that you do not need to have sex to have love. If sex was a requirement for love, that would mean that virgins, elders and asexuals aren’t able to fall in love. Access to another person’s body is a privilege. It’s not a right and it definitely shouldn’t be expected when you’re just starting to date. If you have that expectation of people you’re just meeting, date someone that wants to hookup and have casual sex. Don’t try to guilt someone who wants a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:16 PM
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??? Which would mean that most women are only dating men they’re attracted to. Connect the dots you’re literally right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:06 PM
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No it would not raise questions for me. If I wanted to go on a more exotic trip, I would simply ask to go to that place next time a trip was brought up. I just don’t see why that would be something for me to care about. What does him taking his ex on an exotic trip have to do with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:51 PM
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Men have somehow convinced themselves that just because a woman has changed her approach to sex must mean that she liked her previous partners more. That completely ignores how women experience sex, especially in our younger years. As teens and young women, there’s so much pressure around sex. Men have no idea the level of coercion young women experience in our first romantic partnerships. It’s a difficult and time consuming process to unlearn that you don’t need to have sex to have love. What y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:28 PM
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Unable or unwilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:44 PM
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In OPs case, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:43 PM
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Not settling but also not rising to the standards of the women you wish to attract leads to that outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:23 PM
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Not unreasonable to want that at all. It is unreasonable to compare your options to your friends when you admittedly don’t have the same traits. Your pursuit of fit, attractive women will involve more effort since you’re not as fit and attractive as your friend. You’d have to put more effort into building your charisma, your style, and maybe your physique for similar outcomes. If you choose not to and also choose not to indulge the women who are expressing interest because of their body type, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:02 PM
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If all you attract is fat women and your dick doesn’t work for them, then yeah, you’ve successfully been selected out of the mating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:57 PM
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Interesting how lots of men on this sub will say they can’t find a partner and men have low standards for women yet don’t view overweight women as a viable option. Especially in the west where half of everyone is overweight. Peculiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:47 PM
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You’re comparing young men to men of previous generations instead of comparing them to their romantic counterparts which is actually what matters in terms of compatibility. It doesn’t matter if today’s men are more educated than men of the past if they’re not as educated as the women of today. Equally yoked partnership is the goal for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:57 PM
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My brother, father & ex boyfriend are all diagnosed ASD. None of them had success with casual dating. They’re all serial monogamists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:06 AM
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So then he’s not out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:46 AM
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If he was out the woman’s league, why would he be pursuing her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:12 AM
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Perfection =/= healthy. You can get to know your partner before deciding to commit to them. Thats what courting is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:35 PM
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It’s very necessary. I’m personally not entering a relationship without there being ground work done in the courting phase to show me why it can last. If the fundamentals of a healthy relationship like trust, honesty, safety etc. aren’t demonstrated (whatever qualifies as healthy to the people involved bc it’s subjective) why should anyone enter a commitment in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:08 PM
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Why does it have to “last” to be healthy? The fundamentals of a healthy relationship should exist before the commitment is even made.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:52 PM
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These men don’t interact with women in real life so they can’t fathom this reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:48 PM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:44 PM
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“Consistent results” means you’re trying to turn dating and romance into a formula and that’s not how it works. The women you swear have it easy in dating very rarely have it easy in relationships. Men who seem great during the courting phase still lie, cheat, and abuse. So forgive us for trying to get you to understand that it’s not sunshine and rainbows in romance for women either just because we’re pursued more often than men. Try to have *some* empathy. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:43 PM
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“Unless they go online and see the reality” is the problem here. Online is not reality. It’s online.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:31 PM
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They’re definitely aiming too high. “Somebody for everybody” is only reasonable when everyone dates within their league. Men who hate vanity and don’t want to take care of their appearance still want women that do. The same way broke women who are lazy and hate the gym want men with muscles and ambition. Those people tend to be disappointed with their options even when those options have all the other makings of an equally yoked, understanding partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:31 PM
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“Women had a million kids back then because they were more attracted to men” shows me you’ve never actually sat & had a conversation with 60+ women. They were no more or less attracted to men than women of today. There was far less to do in general so people had more sex. Less access to safe abortion meant that more pregnancies made it to term even if the baby wasn’t wanted. More children = more help around the house. Women were surviving with limited personal freedoms. If you want to reduce mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:20 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:35 PM
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Sucks to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:32 PM
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you know what you can’t argue tho? That you get no bitches ahhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:29 PM
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We get it you hate women bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:14 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. The reason why the Civil Rights, Women’s Rights and LGBTQ movements were so successful is due to organized activism, litigation, as well as visibility & normalization that shifted public opinion. The reason why “blame women” won’t create the tangible change that you want is because men’s rights activists have yet to band together to prove how they’re being systematically oppressed by women specifically. It would be different if no women paid for dates, no women were breadw…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:45 PM
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So the benefit of blaming women is that by doing so, men can learn to not engage with women at all (MGTOW) or work to improve themselves (looksmax) to try to compete to in a dating landscape that you describe as a “slave class.” Am I understanding you properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:03 PM
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I agree that men are still expected to take on a bigger financial responsibility in romantic partnerships and that the small percentage of women still using dating apps interact most with the small percentage of men that market themselves well on those platforms. My question is, yet again, how does shifting the blame to women create tangible change for men who feel oppressed by those systems? Do you have an answer or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:58 PM
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Change in what ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:16 PM
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Based on how similar the responses are to the very direct question that I asked, I think you’re right. I’m met with sarcasm and whataboutisms instead of an actual plight and a goal. They haven’t thought that far. They stopped at woman hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:15 PM
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Another person responding with sarcasm and a point that no one made instead of an actual answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:14 PM
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Orrrrr you could not be /s and maybe answer the question lol. Black people were pretty clear that we want equal access to work, educational and social opportunities that are blocked by racism. The LGBTQ were pretty clear that they wanted to love and exist in peace without experiencing violence because of their identities. I’m asking men, what are you mobilizing toward and what are you hoping to gain? What are the social reforms that you want that are obtained by shifting blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:12 PM
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I have a question. What is to be gained tangibly from shifting blame? How does that create solutions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:45 PM
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Not even a little bit buddy. Let it all burn literally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:15 PM
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Nobody has ever said sex work isn’t taboo. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:23 PM
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I agree with you. Whether it’s a series of small choices or one large sweeping change, people have a lot of autonomy over their lives. Dating, romance, sex and love require socializing. If a person refuses or is unable to make the choices necessary to have a more active social life, then they have to come terms with the fact that they’re forfeiting that aspect of human connection. I work two jobs, I’m a masters student taking 8 credits per semester, and I workout an hour a day. I still make time…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:50 PM
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There are methods of dealing with trauma. Refusing to engage in them is a choice. If a person is so traumatized by their upbringing that they isolate themselves, they have larger issues than not finding a romantic partner. If they can’t meet their own basic emotional needs, how can they healthily handle the emotional distress romantic partnerships can bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:05 PM
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Exactly this. “Unattractive men, especially those who are socially isolated…” proves your point. Social isolation is a choice and in the instances where it’s not, those men wouldn’t have options at any time, in any economy. Dating is harder for everyone because of late stage capitalism. The only way to win is to be a better competitor. It’s not like there’s a welfare system for love and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:50 PM
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You’re right. I skimmed it because the premise is ridiculous. “Women have an easier time selling their bodies because men are more willing to buy.” Like cool? Thanks for contributing this to the zeitgeist. So profound.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:01 AM
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Whew. This is completely asinine lmao. Sex work is not easy nor lucrative. And plenty of men engage in it as a backup option. If you want to be gay for pay because you don’t want to work a real job, that option is available for you. The hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:53 PM
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Lmao ppl are absolutely lining up to date sluts. Hollywood passes around the same 12 women and 4 of them are KarJenners. In the athlete space it’s the same 30 Instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:14 AM
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They’re booing you but you’re right. Sexually free women tend to be better partners long-term. Physical intimacy is a priority. More likely to keep putting effort into their physical appearance. Better at expressing needs. The association of sexual liberation with promiscuity is due to puritanical values. Those same values lead to the sexual repression that actually causes infidelity and poor coping mechanisms. All of that said, hoes can be excellent housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:41 PM
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It is not that prevalent among younger men either. They barely have friends at all. The youth are lonelier than ever due to Covid and the digital era. They’re more likely to have acquaintances and find online spaces to overshare, sure. But real life, close, emotionally invested friends groups are not very common among young adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:38 PM
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“Liberal women have always failed by their own hand” after listing all the freedoms women have in modern society. Let me go back to sipping my latte, taking my birth control pills and ignoring bums so that they can’t pass on their horrific genes on through me. I’ll go admire my two degrees hung up in my high rise apartment while I’m at it until society ultimately collapses into a conservative dystopia 🤣 Gotta make sure I’m doing my part!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:54 PM
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Nothing misogynistic about the truth. This applies to everyone. B
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:03 PM
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So working for money and working to become attractive aren’t struggles to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:27 PM
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By your logic, having to work to make money or having to work to become more attractive would count as struggles. If those were easy to do, there would be no issue getting into relationships right? The quality of the relationship is on a scale skewed towards the ease with which you can end up in it. It’s not low quality if you have the money to take care of the woman or the looks to attract her to begin with. It’s low quality to you because those things are hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:43 PM
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Whether or not they’re unfit for serious relationships is subjective. But it’s very hard to accept the opinions about who’s fit for serious relationships from people who struggle to get into a relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:26 PM
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My comments are addressing OPs point. He’s jealous of his friend who’s sleeping with women who he wouldn’t want according to his standards anyway. It just feels like unnecessary complaining. It’s either you want to get laid as much as your attractive friends with low standards or you’d rather hold out for the right person. It can’t be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:51 PM
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Lmao I agree I just think it’s silly to complain about lack of options then reduce your pool to a very very small group of women. Virgins are typically religious and late bloomers are sex averse. If the goal is to get laid….? Idk the logic doesn’t line up but good luck to yall!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:44 PM
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Exactly. So that means confidence isn’t the issue. Social prowess is infinitely more important than unabashed confidence (read: arrogance).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:33 PM
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Hate to break it to you buddy, but you’ll never know fully what your woman is doing when you’re not around nor will you know who she was having sex with before you two met. You can only take her at her word. You can try to rule out every woman that’s had an fwb. You’ll be left with virgins, liars or late bloomers. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:04 PM
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Confident doesn’t mean offensive or aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:54 PM
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“I could never be with a woman like that” - Man Struggling to Find Literally Any Woman to Be With
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 03:50 PM
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This only matters if you care about having children. I do not at all and a lot of women in my generation and the generation after me don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:57 PM
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This manufactured, anti-social belief system is the only community they have so they cling to it because it insulates them from the real world. Why do the work to have a better life and a healthier mindset when they have an online community of millions of similarly depressed& downtrodden men willing to agree with them? This is their safe space to be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 03:11 PM
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I don’t care to debate with someone who isn’t arguing in good faith nor with facts. If you think you’ll be ugly and lonely forever, congrats I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:46 PM
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You’re brainwashed. Get some help. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:41 PM
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Lmao I don’t need consolation. I’ve never had an issue attracting good looking people, men & women alike. If you’d rather parrot idiotic talking points from influencers profiting off of your rage and loneliness be my guest. But normal people know that they should work to look better or stop crying. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:03 PM
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Hate to break it to you but hot women do a lot to stay that way. If Megan Fox had greasy hair that wasn’t cut into long layers and styled into bombshell curls, ate a shit diet and didn’t take care of her skin, you would not find her to be hot. You’re the delusional one for thinking that one of the most attractive women in the world (debatable) just wakes up that way with no effort. This why the men in this sub suck with women. You don’t know how we operate and the lengths we go to maintain ourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:02 PM
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My friend is a dating coach. Her most difficult matches are white men who are not conventionally attractive but absolutely won’t date overweight or non-white women. They’re very much delusional and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:10 AM
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Leaves people lonely & crying on the internet. Date within your league, bracket, status or however yall want to phrase it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:03 AM
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If you don’t think clear skin, a good haircut and being well-dressed makes someone more attractive then you shouldn’t complain about being unsuccessful with attractive women. You don’t care about adornment. They do. That’s a fundamental mismatch in values. Date women who don’t care about those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:53 PM
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I just picked a flair. I’m common sense pilled. Ugly people should date each other or work to be less ugly. It’s a very simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:48 PM
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They’re dating their looksmatch as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:13 PM
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It’s funny to watch tables turn this way. Suddenly men are an oppressed group now that they actually have to work on themselves to be attractive to mates. Guess that’s evolution at work. You can cry about it or be part of why that very small percentage of attractive men increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:49 PM
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I feel no guilt at all. Be less ugly idk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:00 PM
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I forgot everything is the woman’s fault. We get told to choose better, we do that, and that’s an issue too lol. Good luck out there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:40 PM
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I think this sub is full of woman-hating crybabies so I guess it sucks here for both of us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:39 PM
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How is it obvious I didn’t like them? Because I recognized that they aren’t conventionally attractive? There are more to relationships than looks. Isn’t that what yall always preach?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:50 PM
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That’s exactly what they think. A man isn’t a weird, social reject, bathes & can keep a job? Must be a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:49 PM
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I mean…I didn’t have to demand it. My well-adjusted man from that ever so elusive 5% came and found me because attractive, well-adjusted people tend to gravitate towards each other. I also don’t hate men. I just think yall have a lot of work to do as a collective when it comes to self esteem and emotional maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:48 PM
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Conventionally unattractive people tend to have low self esteem which manifests in pretty awful ways like jealousy, abuse and emotional affairs. I didn’t always date for looks or money. Those guys showed me why I probably should start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:35 PM
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I mean…saying women only go after “top tier” men was a cope to begin with. I see women with bums below their league all the time. Guess we have different lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:20 PM
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They haven’t grasped the fact that men collectively are so repulsive that we’re totally okay staying single if the “top 5%” of well-adjusted men are unavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:11 PM
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Categorizing people in this way is so corny and lame to me. Unfortunately, losers & unattractive people can be awful too. Probably more often tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:09 PM
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I want you to understand that men of purpose with healthy, in-tact masculinity still exist. And the beauty of our progressive country is that men aren’t the only ones defending it. Red pillers a very loud minority that exist primarily on the internet. And if they’re so easily moved by internet brainwashing, that’s nothing a draft and the military industrial complex couldn’t fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:17 AM
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Oop the red pill rage hopped out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:33 PM
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This is how I know you don’t interact with women because knowing how to move in social situations is a status indicator. Status is one of the things women are attracted to. Your red pill daddies so say so too. You can’t even apply the tenets of your own ideology 🤣 change your flair to black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:37 PM
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I mean…if you’d rather kill yourself or be a hermit over trying to become more charming and tactful socially, that’s your prerogative my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:06 PM
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Sounds like laziness to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:38 PM
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That doesn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:38 PM
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Scientifically speaking, nothing, especially not finding a mate, is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:05 PM
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Yeah I’d say defeatism is very difficult for me to understand. Probably for me and the loads of well adjusted men who have succeeded in finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:05 PM
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Suicide & becoming a social pariah sounds a lot harder than adapting to the changing environment around mating. But to each their own use of their free will I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:55 PM
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Soooo your point is men are ignoring their biological imperative because it’s hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:47 PM
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Lmao “I don’t trust women because if they were presented with a great opportunity they’d take it”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:45 AM
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I agree. I think people over complicate the chores thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:08 AM
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Sure it shouldn’t, but why not if it helps? Keeping track of what needs to be done is still a lot easier than doing it all alone AND keeping track.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:35 AM
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Agreed. My mom kept charts and lists around the house. Can’t weaponize incompetence if it’s literally spelled out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:34 AM
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Who cares if they get testy though? I think a lot of the third shift issues comes from women being too afraid to enforce boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:33 AM
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Unpopular opinion but I think you’re right. All the wife/mothers I know whose family actually helps around the house have charts. They also run a tight ship and are not afraid to bitch their husbands and kids out for not doing their part. I couldn’t imagine being ignored in the household I birthed/pay for/keep. I’ll literally burn it down first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:31 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 08:22 PM
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I learned that people think debate means arguing their unfounded opinions back & forth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:55 PM
1

Idk what this means
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:24 PM
5

I wanna know when feminism called for the abolishment of all gender norms? I fully thought the goal was to end the subjugation of women and give them the same choices men have for a more equitable society. I’m a woman, a feminist, and personally feel comfortable with traditional gender roles. What annoys me is a man who wants to negotiate what masculine roles he wants to participate in while desiring a traditionally feminine woman. We can thank feminism for giving everyone more choices for how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:24 PM
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Too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:38 PM
2

I had ONS in undergrad, sure. As a grown woman, I know now that’s high risk, low reward behavior. I’ve never had sex with a guy who eventually became my boyfriend in less than a month’s time of dating and getting to know each other. So yeah. My standards for a long-term relationship with actually good, uninhibited sex are different. I can’t build enough trust or comfort in 3 dates for that. If I wanted to have a bunch of boring, dry, awkward condom sex with every Hinge match that makes it to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:37 PM
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What you thought I said and what I actually said are different things Tyrone. Maybe I’m misunderstanding because I’ve never had to question whether someone I’m dating was actually attracted to me, but my point is being too concerned with whether you’re the “safe” option instead of being confident that you’re someone’s best is probably a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:08 AM
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Desperation is staying when you’re not happy bc you fear you can’t find better. Not being the best possible option for your partner while you’re together
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:02 AM
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I’d rather be the safe option than have no options because I’m too concerned with someone’s past rather than being their best option in the present. I’m never worried about whether a man I’m dating would rather be with someone else. Because there’s always one that got away. That doesn’t make the new person a last resort option. They’re a new opportunity at love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:44 AM
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Lmao first three dates is so crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:36 AM
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Nope. I was tipsy & touch deprived. Had to see it through my girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:02 PM
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To answer your question anecdotally, I once had a regrettable ONS with a man who was so hairy there were balls of lint in his pubes ask me if I always skip my butt crack when I shave. So…yeah. Even the dusties have a higher expectation for hygiene and grooming for women than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:11 AM
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That last paragraph went off the rails but true. People of all genders be ugly. Men are just dirty and unkempt a lot so that adds to the ugly. I’ve been on too many dates where it’s a fit guy with a nice face that has too much tarter built up on his teeth, B.O., or stains on his clothes. There’s more pressure on women to be presentable even when we aren’t genetically blessed. That’s why attractiveness isn’t solely about what you’re born with. It’s grooming, maintenance, confidence and charisma t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:16 AM
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You think opinion pieces hold the same weight in debate as peer reviewed research. That explains why you were susceptible to red pill ideology. You have no concept on how to verify a source so you take what an “expert” tells you at face value. Being gullible is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:15 AM
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I’m not ignoring experts. That’s a red pillers move. I’m choosing to engage in actual debate based on real research that’s been studied and peer reviewed. You’re showing me op-eds instead of finding the real research that says women are choosing to be single mothers for funsies. The real research shows that women are making that decision because it ultimately makes their lives safer and less tense: https://www.ccsenet.org/journal/index.php/jedp/article/view/0/44750#:~:text=Abstract,advantages%20…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:43 AM
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A 12 year old op-ed is still not research. Try again. I’ll give you one more shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:35 AM
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Not entertaining an opinion piece over real research in a debate sub. Sorry. Opinions of merit are backed by facts, not influenced by others opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:32 AM
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I asked you to look up the difference and you’re citing the dictionary to say they’re synonyms 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:10 AM
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I asked for a peer reviewed study. You posted an op-ed that mentioned nothing about the foster care system…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:07 AM
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Post the peer reviewed research that kids in the foster care system fare better socially and economically than kids raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:49 PM
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Look up the difference between a choice and a decision then report back here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:48 PM
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It’s a conclusion that tracks. I’m not a single mother and I don’t want to become one so I talk to single mothers to find out how they ended up in that situation. I’ve found that while some women have babies to “save” a relationship or “trap” their partner unsuccessfully, most were in long-term committed partnerships with a stable man who cracked under the pressure of pregnancy or fatherhood. For the sake of their mental health and the safety of their child, they leave to raise the baby alone. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:44 PM
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Because you care so much about their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:36 PM
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“I try not to talk to single moms but I can criticize and argue about the circumstances of their lives in great detail”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:34 PM
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I’m sorry. Do you think most women are choosing to be single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:03 PM
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All I know is that lesbian women do not complain about an orgasm gap. Straight men should probably take note of what they’re doing to get women across the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:06 PM
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No I don’t. A lot of highly produced porn is fake & made for the “male gaze” but plenty of amateur videos are of people having real & enjoyable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:00 PM
2

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:58 PM
4

Lesbian porn is made for people who like lesbian porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:57 PM
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What am I supposed to be aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:56 PM
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Plenty of women watch porn so…not everything is so black & white
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:56 PM
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Watch lesbians and pay attention to the woman in the dominant role. Go slower. Learn how to dirty talk a bit and be more vocal in bed. You can say things like “Do you like how that feels?” “Tell me how you want it” “Play with that (whatever sexy word you like for vagina) for me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:56 PM
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You’re pretty terrible at debating. No specificity in your arguments. Just angry, broad, inaccurate generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:16 PM
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I like the idea of being able to let the reins go. I come from a matriarchal family where all the boys were spoiled and given a ton of grace. The women are more competent and independent because the standards were different. The women in my family were the breadwinners and the homemakers at the same time. They glorified independence and have low expectations from men. I don’t want to carry the load by myself. I’m fully capable of leading. I do it in my community and at work. But I don’t want my …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:48 PM
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Your math, grammar and reasoning are all off. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:59 PM
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You said casual sex and relationships. What changed? Lying again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:53 PM
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Lmao if you can name instances where you’re willing to lie and deceive for personal gain, how can you say you’re a person of high integrity? At best your integrity is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:49 PM
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Textbook example of cognitive bias folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:46 PM
4

Fair enough. A lot of men are content with having low integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:43 PM
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Then I’ll chime out. I know nothing about European politics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:41 PM
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Definitely a lot better than you can. Hit the books
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:40 PM
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I guess that’s men for you too. Dating, fucking and acting against your own interests is par for the course eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:14 PM
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You just added the legal and undocumented immigrants figures together lol. I said undocumented immigrants have lower crime rates than natives and legal immigrants. Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:11 PM
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How they look, southern or east coast accents, fashion choices
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:03 PM
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If they’re so mentally ill and sicken you, why are you pretending to be like them to date and screw them? Are you sure they’re the mentally ill ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:02 PM
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Lmao do you keep a directory of all strange men that creep women out in America? Unfortunately, I was too busy trying to escape with my life to catch their names.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:01 PM
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I’ve been catcalled by men of all types sure. But I’ve only ever been physically threatened or followed by men who didn’t look or sound foreign.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:59 PM
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I went to catholic school my whole life. I know such types. They’re pro-life in public but pro-choice when they’re in a bind and daddy can’t find out that they’re 4 weeks pregnant or caught Chlamydia from the dude they were forbidden from seeing. I’ve been the openly liberal friend called when no one could find out about the Planned Parenthood appointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:58 PM
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Texas Dept of Public Safety found that undocumented immigrants have lower crime rates than natives and legal immigrants. ASU Criminology Professor found that fear of deportation deters undocumented immigrants from engaging in criminal activity that draws attention from law enforcement It also turns out that immigrants exhibit less anti-social behavior than natives despite being more socially disadvantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:55 PM
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Texas Dept of Public Safety found that undocumented immigrants have lower crime rates than natives and legal immigrants. ASU Criminology Professor found that fear of deportation deters undocumented immigrants from engaging in criminal activity that draws attention from law enforcement It also turns out that immigrants exhibit less anti-social behavior than natives despite being more socially disadvantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:54 PM
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They think they’re so slick lol. Closet right-wingers reveal themselves very easily in just a few questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:42 PM
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And anecdotally, the men who’ve followed me or acted strangely toward me at night were not foreign
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:40 PM
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Women do not benefit socially from conservative politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:23 PM
1

Vindictive implies that the payback is unreasonable. When it’s warranted that’s called retribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:45 PM
1

Based on the actions and reactions of both parties, it was clear that they both wanted an exclusive commitment but neither wanted to be the person to put it on the table. They would rather play the game that many people in this current dating climate play of let’s play house while I continue to explore my options just in case something better is out there. He decided he wanted to be exclusive with her only after he saw her pursuing her options while none of his panned out. He was losing the game…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:46 PM
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Unfortunately this cliche plays out in real life all of the time by people who want the spoils of monogamy without the commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:02 PM
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Impact > intent. He didn’t intend to hurt her feelings by getting caught DMing other girls but it hurt her anyway. Regardless of whether it was malicious or not for her to return the favor, it was fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:01 PM
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What if she didn’t want to? She would continue to get the sex, attention and courtship from him without the commitment while she explores her options. She wanted to cash in on the same benefits he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:25 PM
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How was she to know it would actually hurt him if he said himself that they were not official so he can keep his options open? He never acknowledged why it might be hurtful to her. Only justified the behavior. He set the precedent for the behavior but was hurt by it when it happened to him. Sounds like manipulation to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 06:20 PM
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What is there to break off if they weren’t official? He basically told her she was just one of the girls he was choosing to entertain so she continued to get to know other people and used IG as the medium just like he was doing. If anyone was the cause of the drama, it was him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:53 PM
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I love how drama and consequences are synonymous in the brains of men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:39 PM
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Was it vindictive of him to dm new girls knowing he was already seeing someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:38 PM
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It can’t be cheating bc there’s no established boundary being crossed. I think men in particular struggle with this concept the most for two reasons. One, asking for exclusivity is a vulnerable position where they risk rejection so they rely on implications to do the heavy lifting. Two, all things equal in terms of attractiveness, a woman has more options for suitors than the average man. A man who can make a woman believe she’s in the wrong for exploring her options can effectively cull his com…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:10 PM
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I can make educated guesses about the kind of person you are based on the opinions you share.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:58 AM
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“The internet is reality. Anything you can and do on the internet will bleed into reality since everyone uses it now.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:51 AM
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You’re the one arguing there’s no difference between online behavior and in-person behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:44 AM
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Your personality is cooked. No way you know how to charm in person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:37 AM
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Man always have the choice to completely disregard what women find attractive and interesting. I just wish them men who make that choice would look inward when their self esteem and confidence take hit because they get zero attention from women. Like hello actions (or inactions), meet consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:52 PM
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Why should someone average or inadequate behave like something they’re not and what does that have to do with confidence? Why is confidence some kind of hot guy performance in your mind instead of just basic self assuredness? You feel inadequate because you didn’t win the genetic lottery and that’s somehow a fault in women’s logic and ability to communicate. How peculiar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:49 PM
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This is such an emotionally charged, irrational take from the logical sex. Arrogance and confidence are words that have very specific definitions. An over-inflated sense of self importance that is projected outwardly and rooted in insecurity is arrogance. Confidence is internal self belief rooted in competence and self improvement. Fat, lazy slob trying to move through the world the same way a fit, ambitious person does without putting in the effort for some kinda external validation is arrogant…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:17 PM
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Confidence is an internal belief in yourself and your strengths. What does that have to do with how other people perceive your attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:58 PM
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That’s the thing. Maintaining a couple romantic connections at a time is not difficult for me. Establishing a relationship for me requires romance + intention. And just because I’m seeing multiple people doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with them. I only have sex with someone after it’s clear that we’re exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:58 AM
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Word salad to say we both agree that men are violent regardless of their appearance, but ugly men are judged more harshly. I never doubted that. My point is being judged, dismissed or feared because you’re ugly is not a men’s issue. It’s an issue for both genders. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:06 PM
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Bringing up racism which is unrelated to what I’m saying and throwing in claims that I never made is eristic but I’ll bite since I’m bored. Point out where I said only unattractive men are violent. There are a bunch of mugshots of hot men who are murderers and woman beaters. For the third and final time, the comparison I’m making is how unattractive men are perceived vs unattractive women. I’m not comparing unattractive men to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:17 PM
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Scarier than ugly women…because they’re statistically more violent. You’re bad at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:58 PM
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The point I’m making is men in general are statistically more violent which is why ugly men inspire fear compared to ugly women’s invisibility. Work on your reading comprehension. I never said ugly men are scarier than attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:37 PM
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My point was that men in general are more violent hence why unattractive women are invisible and unattractive men are read as violent. You wanna debate but can’t read? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:20 PM
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If men were statistically less violent that would be the default. And just because you don’t like the comparison doesn’t mean it’s not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:27 PM
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Male sexuality is only considered predatory in those extreme cases of addiction, violence or poor health as a result of its use. If you’re moderating your porn use, it cannot be considered predatory because there’s not negative societal impact. What you view as condemnation is a valid response to negative interactions people have with men and men have with themselves for falling down the pornography rabbit hole as early as 7-8 years old. Social judgement across the board depends on your presenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:17 PM
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Male sexuality is only considered predatory in those extreme cases of addiction, violence or poor health as a result of its use. If you’re moderating your porn use, it cannot be considered predatory because there’s not negative societal impact. What you view as condemnation is a valid response to negative interactions people have with men and men have with themselves for falling down the pornography rabbit hole as early as 7-8 years old. Social judgement across the board depends on your presenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 03:16 PM
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There are inconsistencies in this argument plus you don’t even define what these “punishments” are. Men are not demonized for consuming porn. Men are criticized for consuming so much porn that their experience with real sex is warped & contributing to violence or erectile dysfunction. It is possible to have a healthy relationship with pornography. Many men, who are the primary consumers of porn, don’t know how to self moderate. Who are the men accused of SA in their own homes or demonized (inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 02:47 PM
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Congrats to her. She’s a stronger woman than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:45 PM
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Exactly this. And I’m glad women are waking up to this scheme. Any man that I’m just dating with no title or commitment conversation that’ll say I’m “cheating” when he finds out I’m dating someone else can cry about it. Exclusivity should never just be assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:44 PM
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You dropped this, king 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:39 PM
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Yes crickets. Because you already know the answer is no. Gender norms haven’t evolved so much that men are no longer the gatekeepers of relationships. I will never ask a man or nag him to make me his girlfriend because when I’ve done that in the past I was told I was being pushy. A man who wants a woman to be his and only his would state it plainly. If he doesn’t, I’m going to continue to date until I find one that will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:38 PM
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😳 you gotta work on your reading comprehension Harmony. Good luck out there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 05:58 PM
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Have you received a job offer for every single job you applied to? To get the offer from one job usually means you applied and interviewed at several places, most said no or weren’t in line with what you wanted meaning you were rejected or rejected them, then one said yes. It seems like you’re the one who struggles with what words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:53 PM
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Yes. Rejection while job hunting is inevitable. Being bad at a sport you’ve never played is inevitable. Sounding bad on an instrument you don’t know how to play is inevitable. They all require practice and the confidence to get over your rejection sensitivity to continue, just like dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:40 PM
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Thanks, I will! You haven’t shared your results anywhere, every comment or post you’ve made on Reddit is hidden on your profile, and you’re in this thread claiming you barely even like women over sharing insights on how the men OP is talking about can have better luck with women. No one believes you’re secretly some Casanova lol. I’ll let you tell it tho. Go get em, Tiger!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:39 PM
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Still never said you were involuntarily celibate. It’s not hard to find a woman or two willing to have sex with you if you shower and aren’t hideous. But I doubt you have any foolproof advice on how to attract women if you don’t find them interesting and wish you weren’t attracted them in the first place. I’d never trust a man hating closet lesbian to tell me anything about how to land a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:28 PM
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Why apply to a job if it’s possible they won’t hire you? Why try a sport if you can’t score a point in the first game? Why pick up an instrument if the first chord you play sounds bad? I wonder…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 04:20 PM
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Maybe it’s more pervasive than I realized since I’m not a man. I’ve definitely heard a few women say they wish they were lesbians or being straight was a choice. A couple of those women eventually went on to date women and realized they were lesbians or at least bisexual all along. Regardless, when I hear it from either sex I think they only feel that way because they struggle or simply have no interest in relating to the opposite sex. When I think of what makes a person interesting, their sex o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:59 PM
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I’ve never heard a straight man say they don’t find women interesting outside of sex and wish they were gay outside of Reddit, the red pill holy Mecca.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:45 PM
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I never said you were an incel. I said you follow an ideology that profits off of keeping men like you lonely & disconnected from women. Writing a book on how to attract women with low reading comprehension while also wishing you were gay is…a lot to take in lol. Good luck with that tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:43 PM
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This is such an interesting phenomenon. It’s like severe cognitive dissonance. Physically, you’re attracted to women but you’re so brainwashed by toxic internet silos that you can’t bring yourself to see the humanity in their differences from men. There’s no intrigue because you’ve been taught by people who literally profit off of keeping you lonely and disconnected that what makes us interesting is silly or illogical. You can’t attract women because you can’t relate to women. And that’s intenti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:31 PM
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Men are in a deadlock because they refuse to rise to the occasion. If you think you’re unattractive, then do what it takes to become attractive in the dating pool. Do what it takes to find confidence to approach and accept inevitable rejection because it happens to everyone in the dating pool. If you refuse, then your loneliness is self inflicted and there’s nothing wrong with being critical of that. Women are tired of somehow bearing the emotional labor of men’s shortcomings even outside of rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:18 PM
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Relationship offerings are innate when you’ve found the right person. I think I can speak for most women when I say that we want consideration, emotional intelligence, kindness & generosity from our male partners. Of course no one wants to date a slob, but looks come secondary to how men make us feel. If you have the ability as a man to make your family or friends feel seen, safe & comfortable, then you have a lot to offer a woman in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:33 PM
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I swore this was a neutral community. This is very red pill coded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:23 PM
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