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Why would they? The lead time for Nobel worthy work is at least two decades. If more women did Nobel worthy work (often super boring), then they would’ve already spent years making peanuts to do it. Let’s also remember that some branches of science are already dominated by women, so we should expect to see more nobles for women come out of those as more discoveries pop up.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 11:52 PM
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Good call, razors are way too expensive.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 01:45 AM
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Preach man! This is a huge win for all of us. The only issue I take with it is that governments should acknowledge male struggles too.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 01:45 AM
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I support feminism that aims to equalize opportunities for both genders. Women have issues we don’t, and we have issues they don’t. It’s important to understand that it’s ok to pick an issue and throw support behind it if we think it’s worth fighting for. But it’s also important to pick and choose which issues we don’t get involved in because being a part of any moment isn’t an all in endeavor. Also, I don’t agree with some of the stuff that’s posted on here and that doesn’t make me any less of …
/r/MensRights28/09/21 12:06 PM
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I lived in Australia where it’s legal and they have protections in place for sex workers: it’s not my cup of tea, but I think it’s a great thing as long as it’s regulated to protect everyone involved.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:32 AM
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Though he shouldn’t give the money, he should at least try to have a relationship with them even if it’s one with a ton of firm boundaries he spells our right from the start. Kids don’t really have the option to make choices, and a lot of them realize that they were fed BS growing up, so he should give them the chance to have their dad in their lives.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 11:42 AM
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The research says that teens don’t make great decisions in high states of emotional arousal the even though they’re capable of understand that their impulsive behavior is wrong when they are relaxed though.
/r/MensRights13/09/21 09:39 AM
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That’s where I’m at too: if we can reach kids that mess up, we have a chance to help them navigate life through the challenges that are thrown at them, and get them they help they need. That’s why I’m so against the courts and expulsion. Also, what that girl did was messed up. Sorry you went through that! Hope she learns that her attitude won’t get her far in life.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 05:33 PM
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The problem is that it could be under specific circumstances (not the ones in the post), so it’s a tricky issue to talk about.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 02:34 PM
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Was just posting what I read. I would’ve rolled it into my post if it was relevant, but it’s not and you’re absolutely right here. I have adhd too btw. The research does say that there’s a developmental lag: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3829464/ I’ll dig up better articles if you want…How To ADHD on YouTube has some great content about stuff like that too.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:50 PM
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I checked and a sense of right and wrong doesn’t really develop until the age of 15 or 16 even though a sense of them is there. Teens generally know what is right and wrong, but they have trouble regulating their impulses in “hot” situations that are situations with heightened emotional states. Here’s an article: https://theconversation.com/a-parents-guide-to-why-teens-make-bad-decisions-88246 Let’s also note that the above assumes that a kid doesn’t have an additional issue that stunts their em…
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:39 PM
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Thanks, didn’t get to that part. I hope they get to the bottom of it in a proper investigation.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 01:30 PM
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Yeah, I was thinking a long suspension, mandatory counseling and paying for the girls psychologist would work instead of a criminal case because I think it’s important to keep kids like this in the system so they can get the help and support that they need. A poster in the teachers group likened me to a Brock Turner (hope I got the name right) supporter, and I’m appalled that they made that jump in logic. If this boy carries a sexual assault conviction with him to adulthood, and doesn’t get the …
/r/MensRights12/09/21 11:47 AM
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Berne Brown half assed studied this and moved on to more PC explanations of guilt and shame: https://youtu.be/psN1DORYYV0 (around the 16:50 mark) At least she points out where shame in men comes from though. I think the issue we all have is that we don’t get the opportunity to stop and talk about just how unfair the things that are expected of us are. As a teacher, I teach feminists works like The Yellow Wallpaper, but rarely get the chance to slip into something that highlights the anger young …
/r/MensRights12/09/21 08:23 AM
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That’s because his theories are rooted in a misreading of Freud and Jung. I’m all for men’s rights, and I’m all for some of the self help stuff he does, but we can’t shake a fist at post modernism just because it lives in the establishment. Wee need to use that framework to show that alternatives are better and Peterson hasn’t done that. Also, dudes stuff is hard to follow and I have an academic understanding of social theory and research, so that alone turns off a ton of social science types li…
/r/MensRights08/09/21 10:21 AM
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Being negative is the first symptom of a life that isn’t working and there’s nothing wrong with it. Not all of us can pull ourselves up by the bootstraps and work our way out of a bad situation right away, and society definitely isn’t doing us any favors. There’s also nothing wrong with living at home. It’s a pretty solid way to save cash and chill with the “roommates”. Let’s be real, being ashamed of not moving out ended in 2008 when the market crashed. For most, it’s a lifeline that keeps them…
/r/MensRights31/08/21 07:53 PM
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Why can’t we just say that everyone will suffer under the taliban? I don’t get it. Yes, women suffer more under sharia law, but there’re also tons of progressive men that will suffer. If we really cared about the rights of women in the Middle East, we’d be up in arms about Saudi Arabia btw. We can’t selectively choose when things are wrong because it suits our narrative. Either it’s a huge issue that we need to smash on multiple fronts, or we need to take a step back and realize that we aren’t t…
/r/MensRights18/08/21 10:40 AM
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Don’t we want feminists to use their hypocritical language to weaken their cause though? I think things are getting to the point where everyone’s so sick of all of the bullshit (BLM, antifa, feminists, the far right, Q-anon) that they are all despised behind closed doors even though, progressives like myself, still want everyone to be treated fairly. My point here is that discourse is slowly moving towards accepting ideas like yours. After all, even the most apolitical people see that everyone’s…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 09:08 AM
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We get shit from women then we have dudes like you say shit like you wrote here to make us feel bad about being angry about it. Just sucking it up so your brow won’t insult you is something we have to change.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:36 PM
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Women dress for other women. 99% of us don’t care about what a woman is wearing.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:33 PM
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I think feeling bad about parts of ourselves and searching for solutions to that is popular now. We’ve been screwed, and we blame ourselves instead of the outside forces behind our problems. In truth, everyone has issues, so it’s really difficult to know what is us and what isn’t. That being said, we aren’t flawed and there’s nothing wrong with us. We should celebrate masculinity for being masculinity. We are not a problem, and we aren’t any less flawed than women. I’m unapologetically male, and…
/r/MensRights27/03/21 06:46 AM
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My point is that Korean women shouldn’t have to marry to achieve a comfortable lifestyle. I’ve seen how women get treated in Korea first hand and it’s shocking: domestic violence on street corners(I’ve called the cops a number of times), men stocking women (happened to friends), lower pay, being forced out of the workforce when they marry, unrealistic beauty standards that determine their standing in society. Yes men are forced into the military and that’s unfair. Yes, women in Asia control all …
/r/MensRights07/03/21 02:14 PM
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To be fair Korean women that aren’t married by 30, often don’t get married and spend their lives making quite a bit less than their male peers. Those that do get marred have to find stable men because chances are they’ll get forced out of the it jobs as soon as they get into baby making mode. Korea is about 50 years behind the western world in terms of gender equality. It’s the one place I support feminists because their gripes are legitimate.
/r/MensRights07/03/21 11:17 AM
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They’re just covering their asses if someone decides to take issue with it in the media. Men complaining is a lot cheaper than going into full PR lawyer mode unfortunately. Fortunately, all this crap does is create a generation me of boys angry enough to speak out.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 09:43 AM
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Peterson sucks. There’s a decent comtrapoints episode with some great criticisms of him. Check out Waber, The Frankfurt school, neoMarxism and Foucault. Edward Said is also pretty relevant these days.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 01:47 PM
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I’m stuck abroad teaching in a country I’ve grown to despise because COVID tanked the job market. I’m so tired of sitting here waiting for the opportunity to get out and actually do something productive with my life. If anyone is an expat and wants to vent. Shoot me a DM. I’ve lived everywhere in Asia.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 01:42 PM
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Just redirect her by changing the subject. If that doesn’t work, take a break until she gets the hint. The worst thing you can do is address her comments directly.
/r/MensRights20/10/20 12:55 PM
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Been teaching in Asia for a decade too. Most foreign teachers are male and most locals teachers are female (where I’m at least). The money’s decent and the hours are okish. If you’re a teacher reading this, Asia is a gold mine for certified teachers.
/r/MensRights19/10/20 01:44 PM
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Read an article not too long ago that stated that women are in the workforce in record numbers (not a bad thing) and that means that they often look for men with a higher status than themselves. This leads to sexlessness in the young professional demographic because most guys don’t have a social and economic status beyond most of the dating pool. So it’s not our fault we all have flings, or find it difficult to hook up. It’s that society is shifting and women want a level of security that the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 01:45 AM
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Nah, I have a don’t ask don’t tell policy. When they ask I say enough and if I ever ask they should say the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:04 PM
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I have worked in secondary and tertiary ed. Yes, boys and men get discriminated against in the classroom. But, I think that has more to do with a shift in pedagogy and policy over the past few decades. A few things to consider here are: 1. The emphasis on group learning (Kegan) doesn’t work for boys because they like to divide and conquer. 2. The shift towards emotional awareness starting in primary school doesn’t really consider our brains . 3. The abundance of women in the liberal arts (early …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:16 AM
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I was wrong. Just double checked. The APA wants gender neutral pronouns: https://blog.apastyle.org/apastyle/2015/11/the-use-of-singular-they-in-apa-style.html Oddly, I saw s/he recommended by some schools. Man things have changed in the past 10 years. I’ve been reading a lot of social science papers for some research I doing and have come across she a bit, but perhaps that’s something the journals didn’t catch. I’ll post a few examples next time I’m bogged down by stacks of papers. I do think th…
/r/MensRights09/05/20 06:09 AM
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From what I’ve seen, she is used in academic papers. People don’t say anything for the same reason they don’t say anything about the obvious bias in English classes; it’s easier to get a good grade and move on. I’ll try to find a link about the use of feminine pronouns to post in a bit...
/r/MensRights09/05/20 05:40 AM
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I have to teach kids to use gender neutral pronouns in papers so they don’t get graded down in college. There’s a whole body of feminist research on the “gendering” of academic writing. Which, I think, has led to an emphasis on feminine pronoun usage, but it’s just flipping the narrative. What really matters here is that students understand the material and can build a valid argument to back up their points. If pronouns are going to be formalized in academics, we should make it required to used …
/r/MensRights09/05/20 05:29 AM
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Exactly, I don’t mind sharing, but it is unfair to only change the mens. Perhaps we could print stickers to change the women’s too. I’m sure it’d start an interesting conversation.
/r/MensRights26/04/20 05:46 AM
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I wish more guys realized how controlling Asian women are. Sure they are beautiful , but I deal with them everyday and there’s no way I’d ever date most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:53 AM
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I’m in a non western country. Women are pretty much the same everywhere. Sure an Asian wife will cook and clean, but she’ll also control your money, household and most of your assets. Then you’ll have to put up with her family which will be like a bad Korean soap opera. This is a situation where you’ll be priority number two because she’ll never love you as much as her family and you’ll be expected to constantly bend over backward for them. I know it works for some guys, but I’m not one of them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:50 AM
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I’m sorry you feel that way. I don’t know you and haven’t lived the life you live so I don’t know what your experiences have been. What I mean by cautious optimism is that you should give guys a chance to be with you instead of assuming they are there to hurt you. We are not a monolithic alien species here to hurt you and the majority of us care. Again I think the issue is that some women (not all) don’t even give guys a chance because they’ve had terrible experiences in the past. But to have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 04:57 AM
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So you’re saying that you’ve had bad relationships in the past that have given you trust issues that you bring into new ones? Wouldn’t it stand to reason that women should also approach relationships with cautious optimism? I only ask because most women I date bring up bs from past relationships that’s stuff from past relationships. Why not work through your insecurities with someone instead of putting up an obstacle course that makes having a relationships next to impossible. I know a lot of ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:26 AM
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The questions I’ve been asking myself is, why? If this study is valid, which is questionable, then why is it happening? We place the blame squarely on women though they are a part of it. We can, however, investigate the structural mechanisms to reveal the root cause of many of the problems men face in the 21st century. My theory here is that men not getting any has more to do with socioeconomic challenges than it does with women. But that’s just a guess. Perhaps if we take the time to figure out…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 05:39 AM
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I kind of see the point here. Women shouldn’t be our only source of emotional support. The problem is that a lot of us have no one else to talk to. So we need step up and support each other.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 11:17 AM
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Nah, options like genetic testing before birth have led to the ubiquity of eugenics. The other stuff is neoliberal policy in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:59 AM
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Dude have you seen porn lately? It’s all hooking up with family members and weird butt stuff. We all know real sex isn’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:41 PM
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Nah, vibrators and technically sex robots and that doesn’t effect dating. Same goes for sex robots, toys, etc for us. In fact, I think they will make dating and sex better because we’ll know ourselves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:37 PM
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I’m so for this. Can we pool our resources to make safe places for our brothers happen? Let’s pick a city and go for it. I can help with some of the business stuff.
/r/MensRights11/01/20 03:27 PM
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There’s no point in getting married anymore. We can do everything married people can without a legal contract. I know tons of girls that don’t want to do it either because it comes with expectations that are more than they are willing to live up to. Our parents (damn boomers) needing to be married several times definitely didn’t help either.
/r/MensRights11/01/20 03:23 PM
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Just recently asked a coworker if he wanted to grab drinks after work. His reply was that he'd have to ask his girlfriend what his plans were. If the script was flipped, all hell would break loose. Are we that dependent on women to sort out our lives? Or is it easier to cave to their demands to avoid conflict? I can understand working so much that we don't have time to socialize, but we all need to grow a pair. If women rule our lives, we'll never be fulfilled.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:49 AM
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The pressure is different for both sexes, but still equates to pressure. Women are programmed to be objects of desire. Men are programmed to be of value to women that are desired. There was a story, I can't remember where, about a woman that was a Navy Seal, or some sort highly skilled soldier. Anyhow, the unit treated her like one of the guys and she couldn't handle getting the piss taken out of her nonstop. Imagine growing up in an environment like that: take even the smallest step out of line…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 12:03 PM
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Decent point. Aren't girls boring because they lack the ambition to do anything without someone else. I travel a ton and I rarely see women solo even if they start that way. In fact, many have told me that they need a travel buddy to keep them safe. So most girls on the road (not all), jump from one place to another attaching themselves to whatever the best group of people is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:31 PM
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Men are people, we have people problems just like everyone else. Women need to stop minimizing them to make themselves feel more important. Just because more women are anorexic doesn't mean men don't need love, help and support too. We should all be proud of this guy and send him our love instead of insulting his success because of his gender. Here's some great stats on eating disorders for those that are curious: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/statistics-research-eating-disorders
/r/MensRights28/11/19 12:42 PM
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Boring, in fact, really boring. Not all women in their 30s are super boring, but a ton of them are. It's like life stopped for them once they had a 30th birthday. Then there's the expectations. Having a relationship in your 30s becomes a list of, "I need to whens" instead of a, "Let's see where it goes" type of deal. This is my main gripe. I'd kill to meet a women in her 30s that shows up with a personality, cool hobbies and has her own life. Sure they're chill about stuff girls in their 20s go …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 12:27 PM
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Hahaha, no, personality, education, family and friends are huge factors. For as shallow as some guys seem, no one wants to date an attractive retard. In fact, I know tons of dudes that have iced girls because they offer them nothing other than looks. Women also need to have a solid life of there own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:12 AM
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We're only these things if we choose to care about who's delivering them. We should be ourselves and speak out when this stuff happens.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 12:05 PM
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The Meyers Briggs doesn't measure anything. Karl Jung invented personality types and concluded that people tend to drift between them. Then Meyers and Briggs took his idea, packaged it and began selling it for loads of cash. I think people gravitate toward it because it's easy and confirms things they assume about themselves, but it is noting beyond that. Here is a video: https://youtu.be/1ycNtfy1f34
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:03 PM
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Hate when both sexes do this. That being said, if women want to get laid, there's noting wrong with it. They'll settle down and turn into yuppie soccer moms after they graduate. The same thing has a happened to most of my wild dude friends; they do insane stuff in college then become suburban parents. Also, it's not just western women that sleep around. Eastern women do it too. They have to be sneaky about it, but it's pretty common in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 11:41 AM
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To be fair, a lot of my buddies rely on their wives to arrange their social lives. It's not that they can't do it themselves, it's more that they are way too busy to do it themselves and their wives stay at home. I'm always surprised by how little effort people put into socializing once they get into career and family mode. We should all do our part to have our own lives outside of our relationships. If anything, it's women that control the social sphere that perpetuate loneliness in men because…
/r/MensRights08/09/19 01:55 PM
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Can't say I blame them. We have no support, we're expected to achieve without so much as a complaint. I have so many friends that dream of freedom only to choose money instead. At least these guys can do things they enjoy without someone barking orders at them all day.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 03:17 AM
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If I remember right, the numbers jumped a bit with social class and education. So I think what we're seeing is the behavior of a specific demographic. Also isn't the average of marriage in the states something like 26 for women and a few years later for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:15 PM
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-Create therapy that works for men. -Giving men the emotional space we need to reboot -Educating women about men's issues -Help healthcare professionals find ways to support men -Build a community of trained support specialists that work with at risk communities -Work with the media to accurately portray men on TV -Create safe spaces for men to talk about their feelings without judgement
/r/MensRights26/07/19 12:01 PM
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Yes and no, we don't need touchy emotional relationships, but we do need a masculine way to deal with our emotions together when stuff happens. It sucks to have a bunch of really terrible stuff happen and feel like the only solution is to keep your mouth shut and deal with it. So we need manly a way to tell each other so we can support each other. It doesn't have to be overly emotional, but it does have to become normal so it's safe to open up a bit. No man should ever have to suffer in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 04:45 AM
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I feel ya man. Don't worry if you're creeping them out. It's not intentional so you'll learn with experience. Women do have personalities. Just not the ones you're dating. Give the boring girls a hard pass. I've had a few excruciating dates too. Don't know how it's possible for people to not form personalities, but it is and it's painful to experience. I think the key is to be cool alone and build the confidence that goes with it. That way you'll focus on finding women that add value to your lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:00 PM
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Let's put an end to it! How about #notmyson
/r/MensRights25/07/19 04:43 AM
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That women are just as human as we are. Sure they make everything hard to understand because of they way they communicate, but, when their guard comes down, they're way more like us than most guys would think. The problem is they put on a good show because they need to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:38 AM
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Nope, a few countries I've lived in, in Asia have had mandatory military service and the dudes there are just as bad as Americans. Think guys are checking out because society has made life really hard and no amount of training will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:24 AM
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Sure women have take license to dominate the discussion and marginalize men. I've even heard that many of my gay friends have stopped hanging out with women because it's that bad. But the only way to solve that issue is to make a list of problems, exclude them from the conversation and work toward solving them. We are men and women aren't so they cannot understand male problems. So I think our response to manspreading, the gender pay gap, etc should be, "That's not an issue". That way we can ref…
/r/MensRights22/07/19 08:18 AM
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That's what I mean by othering men. Since women are speaking for men and they aren't men, they cannot understand or speak for the male experience; thus feminists have marginalized maleness (Neo-Marxist I know) by overpowering social discourse. Ironically this argument is often used by feminists in the 3rd world when the same thing is done to them. I am of the mind that we need to define masculinity and actively campaign to smash the issues with it. Were men, men have issues, women cannot underst…
/r/MensRights21/07/19 06:23 PM
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It's financial as much as it is social. Kids cost billions of dollars and everything has become more expensive. But it's also American style all in parenting; culturally kids are supposed to become your identity after you have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:06 AM
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Somewhat true, but I've seen ugly girls get a ton of attention because they aren't shy about asking for it. And, I've seen a lot of really attractive women get zero attention because of the attitudes they have from all of the special treatment they receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:51 AM
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Saw this and instantly thought, finally. Women aren't that much different than men in terms of what images they get turned on by, but being physically aroused and being mentally aroused are two different things. Same goes for us though; just because we're aroused doesn't mean we want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:41 PM
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While I wholeheartedly agree that it is a response to feminism, I'd argue that it's more of a reaction to how confused masculine identity has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 12:03 PM
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I'm referring to the red pill logic in my post. While I totally agree that we don't need women to function, we should all pitch in to do something about it instead of calling each other chads, betas, etc. Let's not let this neo-marxist idea of the more vs the lesser distract us from the key agenda; working towards constructive solutions for big problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 04:08 PM
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Most of this stuff has no basis in empirical reality. What the movement has done is create a black and white image of maleness that's us vs them. Sure we have to conduct ourselves in a particular way to be successful in life, but that doesn't mean the red ideology aptly deals with the issues at hand. We should stop typecasting the male experience and focus on smashing the issues we all face together.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 08:59 AM
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Using shame to get what they want (starts 16:00ish min in): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psN1DORYYV0
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:20 AM
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We all know why: too much academic pressure, dissolving gender roles, helicopter parents, social media use, zero support, isolation and loneliness. Let's get out and be the mentors we needed growing up. We can't save them all, but, if we can save a few, maybe they'll help us change the world.
/r/MensRights29/04/19 12:23 PM
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Dude, just block out an hour a week to go somewhere new, or devote that hour to a uni club. There's always time. I give most of my buddies shit when they say they're too busy to do anything. It's not that they aren't, it's that they need to make time. Same goes for me haha. I could sit here on reddit bouncing between blogs and netflix for the rest of my life, but I make it a point to put in the work to get out so I don't go crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:41 AM
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Your argument doesn't hold weight because alpha males don't exist. Men that have personalities and an appearance that attracts women do. The personality can be learned. Get out there and talk to women. You might just be surprised by how many of them find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:29 AM
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Just saw an article about how the rise of perfectionism is driving the exponential rise in mental illness in western cultures. I think technological advancements over the past 20 years have made people hyper image conscious leading to a decline in risk taking. Combine this with demanding work schedules, increased isolation and an overwhelming barrage of information and the result is less drinking, sex and general risk taking. We live in an era where everyone has to be on all of the time and thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:23 AM
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What do you like to do? Even if it's gaming, there are places where like minded gamers gather.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 10:05 AM
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The main thing is that making friends and getting women is all about the number of people you meet. Go out and put yourself in a space where you feel comfortable and have something to talk about. It doesn't have to be a meet up, or a structured social event. It just has to be something that's out in the social sphere. For meeting dudes, it's all about common activities. For women, it's all about your ability to entertain and maintain a conversation which takes practice. If you're super shy, like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:38 AM
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This has been going on for a long time. Check the post modern critique of feminism. This is a good example: http://www2.kobe-u.ac.jp/~alexroni/IPD%202015%20readings/IPD%202015_5/under-western-eyes.pdf The men's movement could really benefit from the the same theoretical framework. Because, if (western) women speak on behalf of men, they are othering the male experience. So, perhaps, if we utilize the same frame, we could make headway on both fronts. More info: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1aN…
/r/MensRights02/04/19 02:11 PM
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Think it's that everyone had impossible standards and social media to prove it. American women are impossible. Not that I'm against western women, but American women intentionally make dating super hard.
/r/MensRights30/03/19 05:36 PM
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Yet another case of women othering men. The logic doesn't follow. How can half the planet be violent when we live in an era when we're safer than ever.
/r/MensRights26/03/19 05:42 AM
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Academics are an echo chamber. This is not the way we are taught to teach in school, but unfortunately it is common practice. The best teachers encourage critical thought by asking students to form their own opinions.
/r/MensRights15/03/19 01:02 PM
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Used to work in academics. The identity politics of my colleges really got under my skin. They would direct students to the conclusions that they believed instead of helping them form an opinion. You aren't going to change their minds; This stuff started with women writing feminist literature in the 1800s. The best you can do is produce a body of work that is meaningful to you and find some like minded people to do collaborate with. Perhaps, over time, enough of us will come out of the shadows t…
/r/MensRights07/03/19 12:54 PM
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Aren't all of the clothes we wear made in sweatshops in third world countries by people with little or no power to elevate their status. If you really want a feminist issue in Bangladesh, check how the Grameen Bank lends money.
/r/MensRights01/03/19 03:07 PM
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The data suggests that women stay out of the workforce for extended periods of time leading to less experience and lower wages. Women, generally, have gone into occupations that pay less than male dominated occupations like care work. The normative male gender role is to provide financial support for a family. Thus, we gain our status from occupying jobs that women don’t because they don’t have to. Similar to point two I know. Women are, on the whole, better educated than men. So, they have have…
/r/MensRights15/12/18 01:02 PM
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Dude, take care of yourself. If a girl shoots you down, her loss. Got an impossible mom, become independent as soon as possible. Have past issues you need to deal with, go talk them out with a therapist. The worst thing you can do is let your past weigh down your assent to a bright future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:08 PM
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I think we do it because it works. We often use context to help our students understand complex concepts and that usually involves taking something they’re interested in and using it to apply the concept. So it’s not a bad thing at all. I do want the girls in my classes to understand scientific concepts as well as boys, but that also means that I have to change my explanation of them to achieve that. I’m curious if the same could be said for boys learning literature. These studies seem to only l…
/r/MensRights11/10/18 06:18 AM
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Why? Shouldn’t we have media that highlights our struggles?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:07 AM
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Thanks, I love the king
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:05 AM
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The ramanya is great. I also liked the Bhagavad Gita and Shantaram in the Indian cannon. However, if we’re limited to the Bible and a handful of standards, were in big trouble because we have no footing on to build a conversation. We teach the story of an hour and the yellow wallpaper in class and don’t provide anything for men. It’s a shame that our hero’s have to be covered in blood to be respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 07:04 AM
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Agreed, I actually teach American history. This piece is brutal but great: https://tyruiop.org/giono.html
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:54 AM
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They’re in a comfortable places where their opinions are validated daily. There’s no changing their minds. Challenging them will lead to being ostracized at best. My suggestion would be to form a men’s rights group on campus to address these problems in numbers. Many professors have a tangible fear of the real world simply because they don’t live in it. Thus, they don’t take kindly to reality and they need a serious wake up call.
/r/MensRights14/09/18 06:22 AM
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This reminds me of Buddhist thought where looking into the self and freeing the self from the chains of the ego equates to freedom. Look at the four noble truths and the ten fold path they can provide some more insight. There’s also sociological theory called dramaturgy that asserts we have public and private personalities, or one that’s how we want to be viewed and one that’s who we are. Think Facebook. As for socially constructed illnesses. They really do exist. Not to say the West has an abun…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:48 AM
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Agreed, a different, more open type of masculinity was prevalent in the past, but the masculinity we have today is an unhealthy piece of that on steroids. Patriarchy isn’t to blame, in fact it’s the changes in society that have occurred since men were comfortably masculine are structural: economic, social, political. Oddly enough, this assertion is part of the post modern critique of culture and therefore Marxist by design. In fact, I wonder if there’s a history of masculinity out there that can…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:25 AM
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Why can we let the social scientists cry until they run out of breath and create a definition of masculinity that suits us? There’s no issue with being a healthy supportive male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:14 AM
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Been researching this topic a lot lately. Some social scientists attribute the loneliness of men to hyper masculinity. Meaning that, since men want to appear masculine, they (we) are cultured to have one dimensional personalities in which it becomes impossible to connect with people in authentic way. Perhaps we’re stuck in a world that won’t allow anyone to be truly authentic by design. I think where it connects with the so called pillosphere is the mechanisms by which the above happens: shame, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 07:03 PM
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