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It does, but it makes me think of my ex (bipolar) and not my current LTR. I think you dodged a bullet there, man. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:28 PM
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If she throws a tantrum and wants to take a break, then I think it's good riddance (no need for a drama queen). It looks like she was just freaking out and got back into her senses after I ignored her texts (she apologized more than once, then offered to help me with some errands that I talked about earlier in the day).
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:26 PM
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I think my LTR may be going the same direction. She has near-unicorn qualities, except is very insecure and some times very emotional when it comes to our relationship. Care to share any more details, or what you would have done differently?
/r/askTRP19/03/15 04:05 PM
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Well, reading this makes me think I should remain on course and act as usual. Any thoughts?
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:50 PM
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Started crying, blamed me for ruining her morning, stopped walking alongside me and took a different path... essentially just being really moody and whiny. EDIT: she also texted me something shortly after about taking a break, and then another text apologizing in the sorts of "i don't want you to think i'm crazy like your ex, I just share my feelings more than you do. i'm sorry!"
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:45 PM
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What I am wondering is if I should end things before she demands a more serious relationship and I can't exit gracefully. Not that it matters, but I'd rather things go smooth rather than explode into a shit storm.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 11:46 PM
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Yeah I see it now. Thanks for the heads up!
/r/askTRP07/01/15 06:39 PM
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Women love when you take complete control while in bed, so if for some reason (you didn't give us enough details here) you are holding back, work on that and fuck each chick like it's your last day on earth.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:57 PM
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He's always bitter about some chick or reminiscing on past flings.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:20 PM
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You have been interested in something more, but also doubting yourself. Holy shit, you hit the spot. Thanks for the wake up call.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:17 PM
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I agree with the mild oneitis and that I wanted her, not gonna lie. It's the BP in the old me creeping back.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:04 PM
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Using that as motivation for me to keep working on myself and improve my SMV. The work is never over.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:03 PM
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One thing that I still don't get, and want to understand for future reference: she told me she really liked me several times (while both sober and drunk), but also said we should slow down. Thing is she would always still invite me over for dinner, or make me breakfast, or take me out to new places in town. It's typical of women to say one thing and do another, so I was going by what she was doing (wanting to be with me), except now I am confused because she went with what she said. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP06/01/15 06:59 PM
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You're obviously not over her yet if you still give a shit about what she would think about you. Go out there and meet new women, and keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:45 PM
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No. Just don't confuse being charismatic with being a "nice guy". You want the former.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:34 AM
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AFPJ made a good summary. Next her, keep working on yourself, and meet other women. Next time, don't be so clingy and text random shit. Text for logistics only.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:27 AM
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Don't be lazy and actually write your question here, for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:05 AM
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You fucked up, but let me explain why. You obviously had the IOIs there (she was attracted to you). You got to dance with her, so you should just have escalated. When a woman is obviously into you (she essentially was throwing herself at you) if you go for the kiss, 99% of the times it's gonna happen, unless she's fucking with you. Once you go for the kiss, it just gets much easier. Be cool, kiss, if it's a house party just take her to one of the rooms, otherwise if it's a bar/club just say "let…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 01:15 AM
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Law 5: So Much Depends on Reputation – Guard it with your Life
/r/askTRP18/12/14 01:09 AM
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When people change, it's entirely self-driven. Words of wisdom!
/r/askTRP17/12/14 07:00 PM
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Dave Chappelle is hilarious. And being confident allows you to be funny, since you won't seek validation/approval and not be afraid of being edgy with your jokes.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 06:58 PM
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First time a girl asks about the mask, just apply amused mastery and come up with some awesome fucking reason for it, like it's a sleep enhancing device that allows you to sleep only 4 hours a night so you have more time to live your awesome fucking life.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 06:32 PM
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Nice... and it would be much more complicated, a single power play wouldn't drop him/her. You would have to play the person, not the game.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:51 PM
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Rule #1 of the 48 Laws of Power: Never outshine the master. Your boss is 23 years old and doesn't know what she's doing. Your student job isn't a big deal either, let's be honest. Try this with a seasoned veteran at a large corporation and you will get yourself fired within days.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 09:09 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 01:32 AM
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I always upvote your comments because you always have something good to say, but this time around I think aHangingChad may be right. Explaining myself a bit is probably better in an LTR so you avoid possible shitstorms (unless when applying dread game, etc), but with a plate I could be more blunt?
/r/askTRP15/12/14 11:44 PM
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I get your point, but I am not gonna go out of my way to help her or be nice with every little thing she asks. If it's convenient, or if it makes sense, I will go ahead and be cool and do it. Otherwise, my question is regarding when you want to or have to say no, how to do it best.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 10:52 PM
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well, the latest example I have is her asking me about fixing her roku or something like that, which I could do toward the end of the day before I go home after work. from the TV room to the bedroom is pretty easy.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 09:29 PM
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She says things that make it pretty clear we are free to see/fuck other people, but she acts like she's fucking special.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 08:57 PM
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Commitment with her will only go as far as you allow it to. Maintain control, and text for logistics only (don't fall for the nonsense texts that lead to nowhere). If she starts withholding sex, then next her, because you both are looking for different things.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 10:48 PM
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It was the 2nd floor of a bar we were already at, so it wasn't really my plan. But I see your point.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 10:39 PM
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I second this. Made great friends at the boxing club.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:57 AM
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Getting the number, doing kino, escalating, closing and taking home all in the same night doesn't usually work in a library, or at school, or at least without some alcohol fueled conversations. Leave the convos at a high point, when they are curious and intrigued by you, and get back in touch a couple of days later asking for a meet up/date, where you can isolate the chick you want and then go for the home run.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:49 AM
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Acknowledge that certain things (problems, people, issues, whatever) are not as important as you think, or don't deserve immediate attention as much as you think. Once you learn how to prioritize your activities, stress should relatively go down. TL;DR: learn when to give a fuck and when not to.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:42 AM
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I gotta get that amused mastery down... It comes back up to haunt me every now and then... Thanks man.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:40 AM
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This whole love thing sounds like too much, although I can see where you are coming from. We met just a month or two ago... She talked about future plans (few months in advance), but I have been reluctant to commit to anything. I am 24, she's 29. No way I am thinking about kids until I am at least 30. I will give your perspective some thought anyways. Thanks!
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:39 AM
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That makes sense. I just don't know how to confirm that "gf upgrade"... Can't really tell if she actually is serious about getting into an LTR.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:37 AM
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This post is awesome. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:36 AM
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So not a shit test then, just being playful and "sweet"? EDIT: just adding to the above... I tease her a lot when the time is right, so maybe she was just craving whatever feeling she gets when I mess with her?
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:35 PM
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Don't quote me on this, but bipolar/borderline personality disorders can entice an irrational fear of abandonment on the sufferer (your girlfriend in this case) and therefore increase hypergamy. She can also suffer from black-and-white thinking, which can lead her to flip on a dime and momentarily see you as a real bad person (without an actual reason), which then gives the hamster an excuse to cheat on you. If she has a serious issue like this one, I'd consider reading a lot about it. But my re…
/r/askTRP09/12/14 08:33 PM
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Now you're just telling yourself this... Come on, as /u/A_Thousand said, das it mane, on to the next!
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:35 AM
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I don't get the shit testing for betaness or alphaness, unless you're being sarcastic
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:33 AM
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Fuck, the fact that she is getting a divorce made me think it wasn't so bad, as she's not living with him anymore. But it still kinda fucked up now that I look back, as in she can't even wait to be done with the husband to go out and start seeing someone new. edit: typo
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:30 AM
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Got it.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 01:28 AM
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+1 on this.. English is my second language and a lot of times they get wet just on hearing me talk with an accent (which I tried to get rid of once, but now I see the benefits)
/r/askTRP30/10/14 08:05 PM
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I guess her tease games then are the same as a shit test....
/r/askTRP30/10/14 08:00 PM
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Yeah, true. What am I missing here?
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:40 PM
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What is the problem?
/r/askTRP30/10/14 07:07 PM
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Just so I can know for sure what you mean, strong girl game as in she's trying to lock me down?
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