thatoneladythere Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Weight Loss and FDS	SEEKING ADVICE	thatoneladythere	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/19 05:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Sex without intimacy is boring and low value. Good for you. But I've gotten to a place in my life where if I want casual sex I can find it and I'm rarely disappointed. I tend to be pretty vocal in bed regarding what I want. And I've not really had issues with achieving orgasms. I know this isn't the same with most women.To each her own. I wouldn't feel bad if you just want sex. You still have to vet people and get their STD status and such, that's a given. I think it's pretty cringe to tell other women what they should do with their bodies,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 05:57 AM
32	No, you shouldn't do whatever you want There are so many cosmetic surgeries that are done for quality of life, though. For one, mine. I had double jaw surgery last year. It opened my airway, finally allowed me to chew normally, eliminated a lot of pain and discomfort, and also yes I'm much happier with the overall appearance of my face. I'm also thinking of people who lose tremendous amounts of weight who then get skin removal surgery. These people have so much skin they're in pain and get rashes. Or people with gigantic breasts that…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 09:46 AM
2	A reminder on the scope of this sub. I do think it's kinda funny though that I always get a "new" flair, though I've been in this sub for at minimum a year lol. Oh well. Edit: I just figured out how to turn that off.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 05:09 AM
1	Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration date Thank you, you as well!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 04:26 PM
44	Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration date I'm going back to school this summer and I'm 30. It's like I actually started to live my life when I got divorced a couple of years ago. I was so dumb in my 20s, I'm so happy to be getting older and better overall.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 02:23 PM
-5	So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments). Oof I don't think pressuring someone into having sex when they're intoxicated because "It's not fair to leave me hanging like this" is really the road you want to die on here. Men are trash, but that is disgusting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 07:02 PM
0	So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments). EmoJoseph is great, actually. He didn't need to be the voice of reason here, though. If you want more info on why these women and their band is terrible, look more to creators like this: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeu37vYk/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 06:39 PM
26	I said what I said. Stay mad. Yessss. Ugh that stupid news nerd Marcus Dipoala (I probably spelled that wrong) on tiktok comes to mind.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 07:11 PM
233	So-called "petty" deal breakers If he doesn't have a license, it's a deal breaker. If he has bad teeth, deal breaker. Doesn't believe in therapy, deal breaker. Trumper? Deal breaker.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/21 04:15 PM
3	Always and Forever I will pay good money for this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 11:26 PM
25	I am losing faith in this society. I can't believe we are in 2020 and people still think like this. There are so many fat women who think the only way they can earn a man's love is with their body, because of assholes like this. This poor girl.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 03:00 AM
5	Don't let someone dim your light simply because it's shining in their eyes. Embrace your fucking MAGIC!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/20 12:54 AM
28	What are some pills you've swallowed about dating? I think one of the biggest pills that I have to swallow is that being really heavy eliminates a lot of HVM from my life. Now, don't get me wrong, being curvy or a little fat is still really pretty and desirable. What I would call a "smallfat". I am bigger than that, though. I no longer believe that "people will love you for who you are, not what you look like." I'm not attracting great men like this. I myself am not attracted to this. I need to change my life for my health, but also in order to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 06:40 PM
25	Man grooms a 17 year old for a year. Moves her in after she turns 18. Tries to get her pregnant by poking holes in condoms. Also is 11 years her senior. I was just about to share this. I'm so fucking disgusted I can barely think. This poor girl. I really hope she is able to leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 09:55 PM
5	I feel there's lack of advice for GNC/Masculine women on this sub I appreciate you taking the initiative and speaking your truth. I'm glad that you've found a HVM. I think you should focus less on what makes you different from other women on here. Some are traditionally higher maintenance, some are more casual and laid back. Some like women, some are likely asexual. There are tall women, short women, fat women, thin women. Some are mothers and wives, some don't want to ever marry. Some wear makeup and some just wear sunscreen. At the end of the day, we all are…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/20 10:28 AM
31	Made me chuckle. Accurate! Okay I have a make friend (acquaintance more like) who I called out for dating young girls. He's 31 and his most recent fling is 23. His reasoning as to why that is okay? "They have less baggage. " LOL I laughed in his face and reminded him that he has a lot of baggage and he's a damn hypocrite.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/19 04:28 PM
3	Weight Loss and FDS Yes, I feel gross and that's what's holding me back. The monetary reinforcement is a good idea. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 04:07 AM
4	Weight Loss and FDS I'll discuss this with my doctor. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 04:06 AM
3	Weight Loss and FDS Thank you! I have decided to gave it a 90 day try. All the accounts are deleted. I feel a bit anxious, but It's more of an excited anxious! I do have a doctor's appointment in a few weeks here as well. I'm not going to stop dating, just not encourage it right now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 04:05 AM
3	Weight Loss and FDS I'm going to not give up, but shift focus maybe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 04:02 AM
3	Weight Loss and FDS Thank you so much! I'm going to check these other subs out. Great job!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/19 04:02 AM
4	It's important to have a some solid friends Good job sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/19 06:36 PM
4	It's important to have a some solid friends Middle finger to the past idiots we let in!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/19 06:32 PM
12	It's important to have a some solid friends I agree with this. My ex made it really hard for me to have friends or even be close with my family. I lost all my friends in the 4.5 years we were together. Now I have a great group of friends of all kinds who I can really count in when the shit hits the fan. I will never sacrifice that for a man again in a million years.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/19 06:17 PM
4	My type is never interested in me Ah, okay. I don't know if not having friends reduces your value, persay, just makes for a bit of a lonely time. However, if you're okay with that it's all good. I'm naturally extroverted so I like to socialize, but of course everyone's different. It is sometimes nice to get real life feedback from actual people in your life, though. Like maybe siblings or cousins?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/19 06:12 PM
3	My type is never interested in me Wait, you don't have any friends?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/19 04:56 PM
2	How old are you guys? 28	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/19 01:34 AM