thatotherone4 Archive

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1	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? I think if you know that it's irrational and a clear double standard, you should try to work on it. A therapist could help maybe. Society brainwashes us all into thinking women's value is in our sexuality. Sex shouldn't be perceived as something that is "given" to men in exchange for commitment, because that completely takes away women's freedom to actually just enjoy sex and have their own pleasure and desires. That way, when you have sex with her, you'd know that she truly enjoys it and wants …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 09:34 PM
1	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? Awww, sorry to hear it makes you feel that way :( It's possible that it stems from insecurity and not feeling like you can compete with other guys. I am aware it could trigger feelings like that in my boyfriends so I make sure to reassure them how much better the experiences they give me are (and like, not even traumatic at all 😂)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 09:19 PM
2	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? If that was his reaction, I would lose interest in him, so not quite. I am pretty non-judgemental and open-minded so I gravitate towards people who are similar. Also, I would feel emotionally betrayed if I opened up about a mistake I made in my past that resulted in trauma and they ended up judging me for it. To me, feeling emotionally supported is really important in a relationship and that's why I can't have one night stands/why that experience didn't go well for me. Also, I don't know what it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 09:12 PM
1	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? Good riddance, I would be happy to watch those ones leave :) but I understand that it's a crazy experience. I hope it puts what this guy's wife has done into perspective. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/20 07:18 PM
3	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? Yeah he is a great person. We both had a "we were so dumb back then" moment, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 07:53 PM
7	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? It was, I think black people are commonly targeted for cuckhold fetishes bc of the stereotype of them being bigger	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 07:09 PM
9	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? I was so uncomfortable with it that I had to get really drunk for it (didn't realize at the time that meant I was too uncomfortable and shouldn't have proceeded) and it felt like it lasted 2 minutes total...they came, did the thing, then left. I felt super used and genuinely objectified and my boyfriend was upset at me for the footage not being good enough and then had to deal with still being super drunk for a long time after and a bad hangover the next morning. Fun times. :D Edit: want to also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 06:32 PM
7	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? No I'm white and no, no one's freaked out. It generally comes up only after we're really close and when the topic of what sexual things we're open to exploring together comes up, and I open up about that story to basically say I'm not open to playing a role in a cuckhold fetish or having a mfm threesome. I have only had 2 long term relationships since then so maybe someone will freak out in the future, but if they did that would make me want to break up with them. It's a vulnerable topic for me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 06:21 PM
4	What elements of your sexual past could be a problem for future boyfriends? In my early 20s I had a random threesome with 2 black nfl players while attempting to "try out" my bf at the time's cuckhold fetish. It ended up a traumatic experience for both of us, so 0/10 wouldn't try again (at no fault of the men involved, just was my bf and I being young and dumb and not understanding our own emotional needs). 😂 I don't keep this secret from boyfriends though, I just wait until we're really close before I tell them because it manifested as a legitimate trauma for me and ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/20 05:41 PM